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  • čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
  • I get asked this question all the time. "How do you get stuff done with kids?" I don't know if I can really answer that question perfectly, but I will at least share with you all a few tips that I feel have helped me get more done with five kids around.
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    I probably get this question in my email, IG or CZcams once or twice every week. In fact, I literally just clicked over to CZcams for a minute to upload this video and I had a notification with someone asking me.."How do you make videos when you have kids?"
    Although most ask out of honest curiosity, some people ask it accusingly, like certainly you must be neglecting your children if you're writing a blog and making CZcams videos.
    Since there has been so much interest on this topic, I thought it was high time I share my thoughts.
    So, first of all, I want to go on the record saying that I don't think have five kids as hard as having one kid times five. Did that even make sense? Basically what I'm saying is, yes its hard to have five kids. Its even more challenging, chaotic and more work than having one or two BUT not exponentially so. I feel like some things get easier the more you have.
    I say this, because I often get looks of horror from a frazzled mom of one who can't imagine life being any crazier than it already is.
    When you have several kiddos, you have to get more laid back about little things that maybe a mom of one has the time to stress over. Plus, they keep eachother company, so they aren't asking you to jump in for a game of hide and seek.
    One morning last week my sister had my girls over for a sleepover. This left me home with the three boys, ages 5, 2 and 4 months. I had two less kids, but it didn't feel any less stressful. In fact, I wanted my helper girls back. I needed my baby holders.
    Some things truly do get easier the more kids you have, especially if the older ones are becoming responsible enough to help with things around the house. Such is the case with my older girls. They do come with their own unique challenges, but thats a another post for another time.
    My seven tips for getting stuff done with kids around
    1. Thinking/worrying less about little things.
    When my first daughter was born I worried about her nursing and sleeping schedule, what outfit she was wearing, when she would start solids.....etc. etc. etc. If one could worry about, this first time mom right here worried about. The amount of time and mental energy I devoted to worrying about things that ultimately make no difference kept me from getting done the things I really wanted to accomplish. With a little perspective, and experience under my belt, I am able to push those little cares aside and focus on bigger things.
    2. I don't bargain hunt.
    This may come as a surprise to you, but I buy stuff full price.
    Sure, if I see something I actually need for a good price I'm totally going to snag it up. No brainer. But, seek them out, I will not! I seriously used to waste so much time and mental energy trying to find the best deals on things. Searching high and low for those 2T jeans in good condition on buy/sell/trade sites, scanning the free list on Craigslist for free five gallon buckets and t-posts (OK, I totally made the specific items up, but it helps to paint the picture.)
    These days I see more value in time spent pursuing my dreams than wasting a couple bucks on new jeans for my kid.
    If I need something I'm going to run to Target, or better yet, spend two seconds ordering it from Amazon.
    3. Letting my kids get dirty.
    You know how much time I would waste worrying about the cleanliness of my kids? Like way toooo much!
    I let them get muddy and play in the hose. While they'e romping in the ...
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Komentáře • 578

  • @nortonwhale
    @nortonwhale Před 5 lety +161

    "I don't even know who eats what. They all seem to be growing."
    I'm officially subscribed.

  • @nikkileeyork
    @nikkileeyork Před 6 lety +120

    I have to say, I feel like you’re living out that verse that says : Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? “ that’s pretty admirable and I am learning it more and more each day. I am encouraged - thank you!

  • @theunretireddesigner6448
    @theunretireddesigner6448 Před 6 lety +51

    As a mother of 4 grown boys, I can safely say “ the eat or they don’t eat “ philosophy definitely works. As soon as they could make a sandwich themselves they were told, kindly, they were welcome to make a sandwich if they didn’t like their meal. You know, not one of them ever made a sandwich n

    • @peachy_reina
      @peachy_reina Před 4 lety +3

      I wish! My son would love to make a sandwich instead of some mashed potatoes. He won't even eat fries 🍟 🙃

    • @napigirlpretigirl
      @napigirlpretigirl Před 7 měsíci

      I have 5 and the all like and hate different stuff. There's never a day where all the kids are happy at dinner time.

    • @malcolm_ocean
      @malcolm_ocean Před měsícem

      @@peachy_reina I don't understand what you're saying here. are you just saying your son doesn't like potatoes? I don't like potatoes, having tried them many times. what's the wish?

  • @jaimiekight
    @jaimiekight Před 6 lety +24

    I also love when you said- “moms of 5 can’t obsess over that.” SO TRUE!

  • @terriebunnell7269
    @terriebunnell7269 Před 6 lety +83

    the main reason I like watching your youtube posts is the honesty of your message it is clear and simply honest

  • @beccam507
    @beccam507 Před 6 lety +49

    I was going to add, I think avoiding social media and distractions, and setting goals and working toward them in manageable chunks, really helps.

  • @OldWorldHome
    @OldWorldHome Před 6 lety +110

    I could not love this video more Lisa. As one of eight kids I know so many of these truths firsthand, and my parents are literally the most laid back and joyful people I know! Thank you for sharing this great video 💛

    • @ImTash
      @ImTash Před 6 lety +21

      and I can speak for the other end - I'm an only child and my parents are uptight and worried about everything. I've always been envious of people who have lots of brothers and sisters - they'll say that they wish they didn't have to fight for attention, but honestly growing up being the sole focus of the attention of two people is suffocating. When/if I ever get around to having kids I want a bucket of them

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety +3

      That is awesome Hilary!!

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety +5

      That is an interesting perspective on being an only child also. I never really thought about that, because I always split attention with my sisters. I never noticed though and have a great relationship with my parents today. They are super laid back!

    • @debbieweber9089
      @debbieweber9089 Před 6 lety

      Old World Home iiiii

    • @lemon1653
      @lemon1653 Před 6 lety +1

      gingerandpippin I wasn’t the only kid, but I was the “baby” of the family. My siblings are considerably older than me, and I was a girl after a couple boys. I relate SO much to your statement “growing up being the sole focus of the attention of two people is suffocating”. It honestly causes its own set of issues that I’m still learning how to get past. So anyway, I realize we’re not exactly the same, but I was happy to see what we had in common and that I’m not alone in that struggle!

  • @curban616
    @curban616 Před 6 lety +19

    I only had 2, but I was a single parent from the time my second child was born..total 11 years. It was very difficult to find time for myself. Having everything laying in your lap takes a toll. You have to choose what is most important. Cleaning..really cleaning was very low on my list. Laundry, meals and a chance to rest after 8-10 hrs at work. I applaud any woman (or man) who can do any job and raise children. You are still amazing.

  • @lisahobbs7060
    @lisahobbs7060 Před 5 lety +2

    We had 5, and I am extremely organized and I have a spot for everything. I decided early on what my priorities were and stuck with them. I have worked outside the home as a nurse and been a student, and a stay at home mom. There is no perfect formula, it’s whatever works for you. Take what works and leave the rest. All our children are grown up now and what I see is there is so much pressure on you young parents then we had. We didn’t have computers, cell phones and people telling us if our kids didn’t do a million activities we were bad parents. Too much pressure. Focus on what’s important to you, kids grow up so fast you can’t believe it. Enjoy the moments, enjoy your husband and family life. You are doing a great job Mommies! I always try to support my children and their families when they need me. I will clean and cook, wash or fold their laundry to give them that break. I remind them how proud I am of them what great parents they are and how much I love them. I respect their relationship, their family and how they do things. I don’t give advice unless asked.

  • @homebodyheaven6114
    @homebodyheaven6114 Před 6 lety +63

    Menu: Take it or leave it.

  • @jsimpson0821
    @jsimpson0821 Před 6 lety +43

    PREACH GIRL! people always look at me like I’m crazy when I say I don’t know when my kids eat or nap or how many teeth they have. Thanks for making this and for all of the tips! Your videos are my favorite!

  • @triciajohnson10
    @triciajohnson10 Před 6 lety +55

    Yes, a the mom of 8 kids, I agree the more kids you have the more you let go. Life really isn't about getting stuff done. No one will look back on their child-rearing years and regret not getting more done. I learned to let things go and I look back and remember sitting in a messy house reading books to my kids and realizing I can clean another time.....or not. Life with kids isn't about getting stuff done. And, you can have a bunch of kids, then they'll do the chores! My kids were all doing their own laundry by age 10 (which was actually kinda sad for me since laundry time was prayer time). Let it go, young moms.....my youngest is now 20 and I'm reminded that they do grow up...then the opportunities to choose them over doing other stuff is gone (to a point, 3 of mine still live at home going to college, etc.) Sorry this is long! I'm passionate about this.

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety +5

      I totally agree! you definitely don't have to get stuff done, but some people have a personality where they thrive on accomplishing things even when home with babies. I feel in my element when I am attacking a new goal. 😊

    • @Sanecrist
      @Sanecrist Před 6 lety +3

      Tricia Johnson I love this tip. Thank you! It's nice to see a confirmation about how I choose to parent. All the women in my family (in laws) nit pick over everything. I can't stand it. My top 3 are covered: 1) stay at home while they are little (I only have one, but want more) 2) breastfeed 3) cloth diaper and a few more I would like to do, but don't all the time. I'm tired of arguing over baby shoes. "She won't wear shoes if you don't push it" Yeah that's because she doesn't need shoes and that's why I'm not pushing it! Little things. All the time. I didn't put her in a dress at Easter. Because I don't want a dress in the closet she will only wear for 2 hours and never again. No respect nor consideration that I am planning a life I love. I'm starting a business I can work on the weekends. This means the kids will get designated daddy time and I can make money and have a creative outlet. Wins all around, but everyone wants to get mad that I prioritize family time over having a job just for all the money I make to go to daycare. We all have one life to live and I'm not spending it stressing over a checklist that I don't even care about the things that are on it. We all can't live for other people who will judge you no matter what you do. There's no impressing people like that ever.

    • @triciajohnson10
      @triciajohnson10 Před 6 lety +7

      I'm sorry for what you're going through Megan. I remind moms who are receiving that kind of pressure that God chose you to be your child's mom for a reason. You are the best choice for your kids and no one else. Everyone else has to pass through you first. That being said, one way in which I deal with unsolicited, bad advice is to smile kindly and ignore that advice.

    • @ImOldandSoAreMyBooks
      @ImOldandSoAreMyBooks Před 6 lety +2

      I hear ya! Just making it all they way through the day with the same number of kids I started with is a victory sometimes!

    • @palace_conscious7217
      @palace_conscious7217 Před 5 lety +2

      I needed to read this long or not! Im a mother of 4 and im pregnant with my 5th. I get so stressed sometimes about not getting things done that i feel like i forget to do a lot of stuff...i need help organizing and etc... Not many of my friends have more then 3 kids. I'm a stay at home mom and a student.

  • @lindaalvarez3615
    @lindaalvarez3615 Před 6 lety +19

    Lisa, you are amazing! I am 72 years old and I am still learning from you!!!

  • @lennicorser2553
    @lennicorser2553 Před 6 lety +16

    Spot on, Lisa. I am the mom to seven girls. There are some things that get harder with more (and with different ages) but there are many things that get easier. When I stopped comparing myself to my own interpretation of how other families were succeeding and really focusing on the needs of my own family, and my expectations for them, things change for me. We live in a world where we take our worst and go online and compare it to someone's best.
    I have always tried to treat my days at home like a job. I get dressed everyday and I try to get at least 3 things done. No matter how small. On hard days I make a list of everything I did accomplish and a way to tell myself that I am getting things done.
    As far as getting things done with kids around, I involve them, and we try to clean as we go. At the end of each day, before kids head off to bed, our family does a 20 minute tidy. I set a timer and we do a quick pick up of the house. That way I always start each day with a clean slate. ( except when late night teens invade the kitchen. Then I tell myself I'm happy they are eating at home!)

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety +3

      SO true about comparing our worst t someones best. People always tell me I'm so calm and I have to remind them that I don't have a camera following me around 24/7!

  • @davidbell7937
    @davidbell7937 Před 2 lety

    My name is Kathy for some reason my phone shows my husband's name but only on CZcams. You're a awesome mom I love watching your vlog. Beautiful family and I love your honestly. The good Lord has truly blessed you with the gifts of being a amazing mom. I am a grandmother now and I wish I would have had someone like you to watch when I was raising my five children. God bless you and your amazing beautiful family.

  • @a.stapleton7746
    @a.stapleton7746 Před 6 lety +13

    This video is great for moms of only children too. All moms can benefit from giving themselves a break and breathing!

  • @MommaFromScratch
    @MommaFromScratch Před 6 lety +35

    we all eat our words after we have more than 1 kid. really appreciate you bringing light to this stuff. I like target clothes...

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety +6

      So true! People need at least two to get one that blows their whole parenting philosophy. 😂

  • @lindseysilva663
    @lindseysilva663 Před 3 lety +1

    Mom of 5, I agree 100% with everything you say!!!!! I tell my friends all the time that every person has their own limits, when you have multiple kids (for awhile) are thinking for them and taking care of them. When your brain is divided between 5 kids, taking care of the house, job, etc you prioritize things.

  • @cstar6682
    @cstar6682 Před 6 lety +6

    Kids can do more for themselves too. My kids are very independent because I was quick to pass tasks to them such as doing their own laundry and packing their lunches.

  • @jennym853
    @jennym853 Před 6 lety +24

    I love your honesty and have been wanting to ask this exact question! I have two and feel so overwhelmed. I love hearing your transition to be more laid back with schedules over time. I’d love to hear your process for laundry and what chores you ask your kids to do.

  • @Hinoki352
    @Hinoki352 Před rokem

    The most refreshing thing I’ve seen in maybe forever..!

  • @melindaedgington9925
    @melindaedgington9925 Před 3 lety

    Not sure if anyone will ever have time to read this but the whole laid back thing is so true. I worked with kids many years before I had my own and I think you just learn to not care about things such as folding clothes. I don't even worry about stains. As long as they are clean.

  • @lisascott4314
    @lisascott4314 Před měsícem

    To me all respect y'all are true Homesteaders you are a great example to me of living a Homsteaders life I love it

  • @bobbysmith855
    @bobbysmith855 Před 6 lety +2

    I have raised 6 of my own kids, have 2 step children (all of them grown now), and just adopting 2 young foster children. That lot covers 34 years of child rearing and everything you have suggested is excellent advice! Keep a sense of humor as much as possible, never turn your back on the wahing, any opportunity for a good day out leave everything and go, the mess will wait for your return! And pray every minute for patience!

  • @janreynolds3794
    @janreynolds3794 Před 6 lety +3

    With my second child, I was so much more relaxed. Didn’t stress near as much, as with my first baby; which like you, I worried about everything!!

  • @Michelle196765
    @Michelle196765 Před 6 lety +5

    This was a beautiful, guilt reducing video for all of the stressed out moms out there! I also run a business from my home and everything you said is so true! You make time for what you want and if your business is a priority then you’ll make time for it! Love, love, love this video and your attitude towards family :) I’m so glad your hubby is a help to you!

  • @MrDcreamer
    @MrDcreamer Před 5 lety +2

    Great advice, don't sweat the small stuff and live in the moment!

  • @NaturallyBrittany
    @NaturallyBrittany Před 6 lety +3

    As a mom of four this video is so refreshing! I think this is the case for most moms, the more kids you have the more you’ll find out what is really important to you and what you will prioritize for. Being a CZcamsr/blogger as well, it was so cool hearing how you set up your schedule. We basically do the same thing without realizing it. 😄 i’d say the only real difference is that I do try and look past the week, just so that I have things on the ready in case I get sick or an unexpected opportunity arises. But that being said, sometimes I probably do spin my wheels a bit more than I would have if I just looked at the current moment. xoxo 😊💕

  • @motherofbrothers1122
    @motherofbrothers1122 Před 6 lety

    This is great! You’re so honest and it’s refreshing

  • @AngelaZoch
    @AngelaZoch Před 6 lety

    What a great ministry to motherhood. Thank you for doing what you do.

  • @debstephenson6573
    @debstephenson6573 Před 6 lety +7

    You’re amazing, and I appreciate your talents and hard work. God bless you and your family.

  • @MakingLifeSimple
    @MakingLifeSimple Před 6 lety +3

    We have so much in common!!! I have 3 kids and can agree with every single tip you gave. I’m relatively new to your channel but have LOVED every video I have seen so far. Can’t wait to see more. 💕

  • @TheImperfectReader
    @TheImperfectReader Před 6 lety

    Thanks for your honesty.

  • @hannahfoster7987
    @hannahfoster7987 Před 2 lety

    I find myself rewatching this periodically. So many good reminders!

  • @janefromthecountry1820

    I don't have 5 kids but thought this video had helpful, practical advice for busy moms. I like your meals you cook for the family and do not worry how much each kid eats etc...Your channel is really good, Lisa, not sure how you can answer all the posts! God bless.

  • @Karenm1969
    @Karenm1969 Před 6 lety

    Awesome video, love how you address having many kids and as long as they are happy and healthy, you don’t sweat the small stuff.

  • @cowgirlz21
    @cowgirlz21 Před 6 lety

    It's my first time watching your channel, what a breath of fresh air! As a mom of 3 kiddos 4 and under I constantly need a reminder to just focus on what you need to get done and let the details fall where they will!

  • @vernamyspencer2158
    @vernamyspencer2158 Před 6 lety +1

    As a mom of eight, I can identify with nearly everything you said. I have people ask me all the time how I get things done. Some of the things that have helped me get things done are minimizing our possessions, delegating tasks, being more relaxed, training my children to help (as well as being consistent with training them to behave well), and motivating myself to stay on task. I worked very hard last summer to minimize our possessions in the house and in our storage area. That has made my housekeeping chores so much easier and quicker! Delegating age appropriate tasks to my children has blessed more than just me, it blesses them by giving them a sense of accomplishment, developing a work ethic, and giving them the skills they will need as adults. Motivating myself to stay on task has been a huge help. I remind myself that my future self will be much happier if I don't waste time.

  • @terpinator24
    @terpinator24 Před 6 lety

    I have five children and I really appreciated the kind and thoroughly thoughtful reflections you are sharing here. I have done many of the things that you have done over the years and they all elp to keep our family and myself happy and productive together!

  • @hannahdavies5713
    @hannahdavies5713 Před 6 lety

    I think every new parent needs to see this. I have 3 but I totally get everything that you said. I agreed with everything you said, and it’s very true about time. We make time for what we really want. Thanks for this video.

  • @anitarud7482
    @anitarud7482 Před 4 lety

    Love this! Thank you so much for your honesty! You’re such an inspiration

  • @miti203
    @miti203 Před 6 lety +1

    Massively helpful! I have just finished watching this video for the second time and it's so true! I only have one baby so far and at first I felt like I would never have time for anything ever again! But when I learned to let go of what I could do before kids and focused on using the time I did have then I was more productive than ever. Still not fully there yet but I'm getting there! I love your honesty 💕 💕

  • @feedYOURchildrenKORN
    @feedYOURchildrenKORN Před 4 lety

    You're my hero! I love your honesty and wisdom!

  • @marciab1848
    @marciab1848 Před 6 lety

    I’m a Gramma and I appreciated every comment you made. Loved how you have learned not to stress over the small things like meal planning, abundance of toys & clothes, etc. We have become a nation of too many things, too big homes, too many toys but when things become simplified, one can really enjoy the most important things in life - God, husbands, kids, home. Love how you’re learning this and sharing it with other moms!

  • @teddygingerbear1647
    @teddygingerbear1647 Před 6 lety

    HI Lisa, I've followed you for about six months now and although I'm old enough to be your mother, I too have wondered how you stay so calm, relaxed and manage your video production (high quality, enjoyable videos) and now hour book creation with all your little ones under foot. I would never have posted what I "wondered" just knowing that it might have been interpreted the wrong way. But you are an amazing women and I'm grateful to be one of your subscribers! Keep up the fantastic job and please ignore any of the critics.
    I've followed another CZcamsr whom has 10 children and homes schools and working towards being a homesteader. Darci Isabella is her channel.
    Since I'm retired now, I have a few minutes each day to follow many CZcamsrs whom I enjoy following. It's like choosing a great book at the library or bookstore. I'm not one for the crazy reality tv shows but I enjoy the genuine creativity and inspiration from my chosen channels. Looking forward to your new book and many more videos. Thank you for sharing yourself and your family!

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety

      Thanks so much! I will definitely check out the other mama as well. Thanks for the tip!

  • @Andiau
    @Andiau Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you for this video. I’m a new mum with a 7 month old. I try not to stress too much but I do find it hard sometimes. Your video really puts things in perspective and I’ll remember it when I worry about feed times and first foods and all that stuff.

  • @jennifernunez3179
    @jennifernunez3179 Před 4 lety

    I can relate to a lot of this. My daughter is still nursing and co-sleeping and she is almost three. I did the same with my son and I tell people that I let my kids learn and adapt to life naturally rather than "training". I work from home and some days it is bliss and some days it is total chaos. The only thing you didn't mention is this: I do recommend thrift shopping. It is not bargain hunting in the sense that you have to watch for sales. But is saves a ton of money and it is good for the environment. Not to sound like a Goody Two Shoes too much! Love your approach!

  • @TheImperfectReader
    @TheImperfectReader Před 6 lety

    I'm not a mom, but the babysitter for large families. I know I am a tool with my company because with Elite Caring by Ashley I often do laundry, clean and organize for them when I babysit for no extra charge. I just like to help and this has given me tips for if we ever start our own family.

  • @haileymay92
    @haileymay92 Před 5 lety

    Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video. All of your tips were so helpful and really helped put things back into perspective for me

  • @sleepingwhale
    @sleepingwhale Před 4 lety +1

    Honestly I am SO happy I found your channel!!! Mental energy is everything. I've been over stressing myself for years and I'm so glad I can find some inspiration from you as a mom.

  • @Miranda_Lewis
    @Miranda_Lewis Před 6 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing! This is hands down the best time management video I've seen for Mums on CZcams. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @danakrassoi8671
    @danakrassoi8671 Před 6 lety +2

    Been there done that x4 boys. I agree the more you have the less you stress. As long as you have organized chaos it works much better. Like you said you have to efficiently use the time you have. Along with having the expectation that nothing goes perfect but there can be 1 day in 30 that it does and you sit back and admire it with such gratefulness. My last baby just turned 18, I was looking forward to this day for a long time but now I find its just very lonely. Enjoy very moment, Lisa!!!! You have the whole world right now.

  • @Rebecca-ty6qr
    @Rebecca-ty6qr Před 5 lety

    Wow, as a mum of three in today's social media society, thank you for your honesty and open look on motherhood. This has made my day and encourages me to stop sweating the small stuff!!

  • @transparentvessel
    @transparentvessel Před 6 lety

    This is so timely! Thank you Lisa!

  • @mj6047
    @mj6047 Před 6 lety

    Your videos are inspirational. I m glad I found your channel.

  • @jenniferarmstrong2307
    @jenniferarmstrong2307 Před 3 lety

    I have only just discovered you and I am hooked. You are an inspiration, thank you. I now have a sour dough starter, I have invested in 3 skillets and I am slowly loosing my dinner anxiety and stress. I am now working on decluttering my home. Thank you♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @jaimiekight
    @jaimiekight Před 6 lety +2

    Such a good video!! I love how real you are about having a bigger family.

  • @elizabethsmith4189
    @elizabethsmith4189 Před 4 lety +1

    Best video ever! Thank you❤️

  • @kristinemolina4881
    @kristinemolina4881 Před 6 lety +3

    Great tips! I love your attitude on food...wow...what a great way to simplify! I stress so much at meal time. Thanks for sharing❤

  • @cc3mathews
    @cc3mathews Před 6 lety +2

    Mom of 3 but youngest had severe multiple food allergies til now so lots of time spent there. I tend to teach/spend time with family over food so I found outlet there. Used to blog but we moved and had to stop. I agree; we need to find time that works in getting things done. I used to plan like crazy but now, I enjoy being able to just jump in to projects when daily things get overwhelming. Great insight about time in terms of monetary value to help gain perspective.

  • @livingauthenticallyonmyownterm

    Lisa, I love your philosophy about life. I have PTSD with severe anxiety and have had to take on your philosophy of life to survive each day. It's not easy, I'm sure, to have 5 kiddos, but you make sure you make it work along with all the other hats you wear. RESPECT for you girl !!! ♥️

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety

      Thank you so much Sheila! I'm so sorry to hear about your PTSD. I wish you all the best in letting more things go, so you don't have anxiety. :)

  • @caitlinthomas6951
    @caitlinthomas6951 Před 6 lety

    I have been binging on your videos since I found you a few days ago. I love the simplicity and authenticity of your channel.

    • @caitlinthomas6951
      @caitlinthomas6951 Před 6 lety

      Also this video is so encouraging! My husband and I have always wanted a large family, but recently with the addition of our twins to bring our total to 3 children, I wasn't so sure I could handle more. You have reminded me that we stress too much over things and details that really don't matter in the long run. Children are supposed to be a blessing not a burden, and I believe the unrealistic expectations of our society have created the thinking that children are a burden.

  • @shivanisharma4983
    @shivanisharma4983 Před 4 lety

    You are so real. Thank you. Thanks a lot.

  • @VictoriaWilson
    @VictoriaWilson Před 6 lety

    I am loving this!! WAHM of 3 here and it's affirming so much of what I've started practicing. Thank you for the tips and freedom!

  • @homeofmanyblessings
    @homeofmanyblessings Před rokem

    Mama of 10! Yes, simple is best.Great video!

  • @riadrossos-usa4415
    @riadrossos-usa4415 Před 6 lety +1

    You are so honest !!!

  • @cathyblundon9944
    @cathyblundon9944 Před 6 lety +2

    too hilarious!! "they look like they are growing..." Lisa....you have it!! :) I always say that!!! They will not starve.

  • @ODKhulood
    @ODKhulood Před 6 lety

    Ahhhhhh Lisa! I’m a mom of one so far and I’m so grateful for your advice

  • @andree824
    @andree824 Před 6 lety +5

    I love your wonderful common sense : )

  • @caseystockbridge
    @caseystockbridge Před 5 lety

    Very encouraging. Thank you so much.

  • @marissamarks2443
    @marissamarks2443 Před 6 lety

    Loved this video! So helpful and real usable tips! Thank you.

  • @chaank1069
    @chaank1069 Před 6 lety

    Congratulations on the growth of your channel. Your content is superb.

  • @davinatedja
    @davinatedja Před 6 lety

    Finally, i always wonder how you manage time. I'm pretty overwhelmed with my first daughter. thank you for posting this. Great video, i loved it!

  • @sofeaantony2548
    @sofeaantony2548 Před 4 lety

    you are really honest and lovely...

  • @ayshiacunningham5843
    @ayshiacunningham5843 Před 6 lety

    My God thank you so much for this video. For your complete honesty. This helped me sooooo much. You set so much straight by being so direct because your videos make life seem like it comes so easy lol thank you again for the transparency and encouragement!!!

  • @hannahbentson9374
    @hannahbentson9374 Před 6 lety +1

    Loved this! So helpful!!

  • @Tinkerbell31326
    @Tinkerbell31326 Před 5 lety

    I am 63. You are such a wise young woman. Excellent video.

  • @CottageOffMain
    @CottageOffMain Před 6 lety

    Love your tip about taking advantage of the margins to do the things you'd like to do!

  • @DHPeter1
    @DHPeter1 Před 6 lety +1

    I love all these tips. My kids are all older. But I still feel i don't have much time. I realize now that I'm not goal setting and prioritizing my time.
    Thanks so much for this, I'm inspired now 😉

  • @04harvest
    @04harvest Před 6 lety

    Best explanation I’ve heard!! If only I couldn’t been this laid back with my first. 🙋🏻‍♀️ mom of 3!

  • @intentionallymade
    @intentionallymade Před 6 lety

    This is probably one of the best informative and helpful video I’ve seen!

  • @lydiaevans7019
    @lydiaevans7019 Před 6 lety

    Thanks for sharing this, those were helpful ideas! I only have two children so far, but I have been learning some of these things. One of my goals is to get more sewing in - thanks for the reminder to budget time wisely!

  • @ComplicatedSimplicite
    @ComplicatedSimplicite Před 6 lety

    Mental minimalism ... good tips. Thanks!

  • @emilymcclain591
    @emilymcclain591 Před 6 lety

    Love this video and it’s so true! I have four kids. Two mine and two I step parent with my husband. I grew up around large families and spent a lot of time babysitting 8-10 kids at times and I learned alot from those moms. About living simply, cooking simply and not getting upset about the small things. I think it has really helped me in my own parenting. To let kids be kids and just be! Love your attitude about goals! It’s true! I didnt know how much energy I was expending on social media until I deleted my FB and IG accounts. Now I can pursue more and actually really put time and energy into the things that matter to me. Thanks for this video!!

  • @laurenberkompas
    @laurenberkompas Před 6 lety +1

    This is pure gold, Lisa! Thanks so much for your honesty. My MIL had 13 kids, and they've all turned out great, so I know that I have a lot to learn from women like her and you. We're only on our first, so this video has been super helpful! :)

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 6 lety +1

      I hoped it would be encouraging for first time mamas! 😊

  • @calvin1148
    @calvin1148 Před 6 lety

    What an awesome video. I often wondered how your videos looked so professional right from the beginning, and I think it was the year of research you did getting prepared, which I get the feeling not a lot of people do. You are well on your way I see great success ahead!!

  • @TJ-kz1ul
    @TJ-kz1ul Před 5 lety

    Your kids are lucky to have such an easy-going mom. Me and my sibling were beaten until we had bruises just for getting dirty in the mud. The mud was washed down the drain, but it took years to heal from the beatings.
    I have two kids only, and I have been easy going like this from the start and actually have followed lots of your tips right from the birth of my first. Never a strict schedule, simple meals, never worried over when/what they eat, and we are happy.

    • @FarmhouseonBoone
      @FarmhouseonBoone  Před 5 lety +2

      I am so sorry to hear your growing up story, but I am glad to hear that your kids are having a different life.
      Having a simple lifestyle is a blessing and I am so glad you are enjoying my tips!

    • @TJ-kz1ul
      @TJ-kz1ul Před 5 lety

      @@FarmhouseonBoone

  • @user-wc9wo5ru3r
    @user-wc9wo5ru3r Před 5 lety

    Thank you so much ..your thoughts are extremely helpfull not only for those who have kids but i think for every person who wants to achieve something in his or her life ..thank you

  • @stephaniec1969
    @stephaniec1969 Před 6 lety +1

    Mom of four, and I do a lot of these things. Awesome video ❤

  • @mycraft4284
    @mycraft4284 Před 6 lety

    🙌🙌🙌Mom of six boys! You are spot on!!!! 🙌🙌🙌

  • @macgirl67
    @macgirl67 Před 6 lety

    Excellent video! Just what I needed to hear! I'm a mom of three & there are a few things in here that have definitely rang true, & some that have even inspired me & helped me realize that I need to relax a bit & try to separate my time more. Thank you!

  • @littlejoyeveryday8675
    @littlejoyeveryday8675 Před 6 lety

    Thank you Lisa.you are inspirational.mama of two.thank you☺

  • @juliefitzgerald-frangos2211

    great video!!! really enjoyed your tips, and I especially love the laid back style. I wish more moms would allow this. we are all so worried about every little thing. it was refreshing to hear you say you relax on eating and clothing...etc. but I also find naptime and after bedtime to be my go to times. nice to hear a day in the life of a fellow mom!

  • @melissawisley4299
    @melissawisley4299 Před 5 lety

    You and I are so much a like. It definitely helps to only have a certain # of outfits for each kid!

  • @AnotherStephJR
    @AnotherStephJR Před 6 lety

    LOVED hearing this ... 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @elizabethcarver9902
    @elizabethcarver9902 Před 6 lety

    This was so helpful and freeing!!!!Thank you !!

  • @RenaS7
    @RenaS7 Před 2 měsíci

    This helped me in a major way. Thank you!

  • @susilangdon196
    @susilangdon196 Před 6 lety

    This was really good and inspiring! I’m a very new mom and I’m needing to soak up tips and ideas from veterans like you! I especially appreciated your tips for working on your goals while having kids! Thank you so much!

  • @ElaHumanRightLawyer
    @ElaHumanRightLawyer Před 6 lety

    Very nicely put

  • @oscar-cesiafalcon1408
    @oscar-cesiafalcon1408 Před 6 lety

    Thank you so much for this information, keep up the videos, I love them!