Me too. From what I've seen... Jay's been consistent with that since they 1st posted up. He shows his love for her in his eyes & most importantly his actions. Respectfully disagrees and makes clear concise points. Jay never talks over Rasha nor shows aggression towards. Seems easy to talk to l. Honorable since he seems to be a large, fit man who at 1st sight looks a bit intimidating.
I think that was the most tasteful and well explained quote from them, based off of respect for one another. And I think it makes in difference in the long run as well. If your partner can imagine themselves with someone else, where else or what else could that thought lead to.
Rasha, your just like me. When you know you know. Trust is there until you break it with me, once it’s broken I can’t go on in the relationship. I lose respect for my partner.
First lady Rasha, from a woman's point of view I think it's a beautiful thing when your mate makes you feel that secure that you don't feel jealousy to the point you're questioning, doubting or bickering with one another. That's a wonderful feeling when your man doesn't give you reasons to feel that type of jealousy. But you can feel jealous of JAY he's a handsome devil inside/out😊. Much love. GOD BLESS you both.
I love you guys, you're mirroring me amd my husband just laid back and beautiful kids well mannered, what more can you request of God. Good health amd blessing to you all
I honestly feel it goes beyond feeling secure in yourself. A person should create a partnership with someone who does not cause or plant reasons for insecurity, or doubt, or second guessing. Some people want their partner to be jealous, and that is very unhealthy to deliberately do things to cause jealousy in the other person.
I have been married too long. The only thing I would be jealous about is if my husband is doing something for a woman that he doesn't do for me. Otherwise, if a woman can pull my husband then by cuz I am not fighting for someone who wants to go. See yah.
Rasha and Jay I agree with the other comments and I will say it again i just love ❤️ the way you two look 👀 at one another you can truly tell the both of you are really in love with one another and the both of you have a lot of respect for one another may God keep blessing you and your beautiful family. Happy New Year 🎈 and yes the video was good could hear you loud and clear.
It’s nice to see the trust you have in each other. This limits that jealousy aspect in your relationship. Men will look, but you are secure within yourself & your relationship.
The volume always sounds just fine when I time in! I always enjoy your videos never too long for me. Thanks so much for sharing your views on jealousy..... it was very informative and funny as well! I just love you all so much! ❤️👍🤗❤️☮️
You guys are Spot on💯 if you Love someone and want to Risk it, be a fool. The dog though 😂😂 am so weak. And I have told my boyfriend before, hey look at her, if a person looks nice or is beautiful, look but not lust. And again she do have a light up the room smile🤷🏽♀️and I can tell you guys will be together Forever 💪🏾❤️
Wonderful and realistic discussion between two loving and mature people who understand how to enjoy each other, from an honest and mature place with a great sense of humor. Appreciation of others from a mental and physical aspect that is respectful. And, can laugh. It is refreshing listening to older couples offer pearls of wisdom.
No probs with volume for me-good discussion! I felt all of it hahahaha. Y'all are too happy together to be worried about jealousy... but I'm going to concur about that "line" though.
The volume and topic were great. I like to believe I'm not a jealous person and think like Rasha, but I've never been placed in a jealous situation. lol
Tbis was so entertaining to watch Jay keeps getting on your nerves by being so funny 😀😀love you two keep the videos coming cos i keep going back to watch the old ones lol
Yes! This was a suggestion I made for a topic! So important to address . Some jealousy is flattering some is scary. Take a look it’s in a book reading rainbow! Great video as always . Rasha I love your security . Your fine guy not going anywhere . He looks at you with love. You are a beauty too ❤️❤️❤️ checking passwords is so consuming . I never check my mans phone I never ask for passwords unless it involves something I need to access. I know people who are OBSESSED with what their partner is doing or not. Ugh . ❤️❤️❤️❤️ People also need to respect both of you and check their comments . We all can appreciate a good looking person but keep yourself in check . Respect one another. I’ve had girls ask me how I got so lucky and got such a handsome husband , can you imagine how that sounds??? Window shopping fine , as long as nobody buys anything ! We are all human and can appreciate good looking people . ❤️
Window shopping!! That’s it!! 🤣🤣 As always Steph we appreciate you watching and for the support! I know we can’t always keep up with who suggested what but thank you for the suggestion!! Was definitely a great topic!!🥰❤️
Omgooodness, I love your topic and I love you guy's relationship , it's almost like I am see my relationship in y'all's relationship . Its awesome to be secure as a woman in your relationship and allow your husband to be himself. Blessings to you and family 🙏🏽💜
A very good morning from the Lake of Konstanz in southern part of Germany. I am smiling the entire time while watching this episode. From my assessment, the answer is going to be 50/50 . Ha ha ha.
I think that's beautiful; Communication is the key. For me, trust comes over love. No faith, no love! Yes, your husband is handsome, but you aren't sucking on a soup bone your damn self. #melaninpoppin Women don't usually look, but like sis said, in our mind, Daymn!! 😆
Now that we got that out the way.....ooooh Girl, he fine! 😂 Rasha you’re absolutely stunning both inside and out and your position is much like my own. I’ve mentioned in other comments that I will be divorcing a man with a lot of personality issues and on the topic of jealousy, he would do something called triangulation with females in his life. Pretty much trying to create situations where they would be jealous of one another. Jealousy and causing ppl to be jealous is an illness. Leave that mess right over there. Great vid and the sound was better on this one
Thank you so much 🥰😊 We appreciate you sharing with us your situation and views. Hope all works out best for you!! And yes jealousy is a sickness, an illness. Avoid negativity at all costs!!
@@SheSaidHeSaid thx for the well wishes. Very much appreciated. God is in control and we learn from everything we go through. May your family be blessed.
I really believe that for any healthy relationship there has to be a little bit of jealousy... Not to be disrespectful or anything, but to know that the person you are with values you to not want to lose you, God says he is a Jealous God, but once there is respect and communications then Jealous won't be an issues!
Rasha.....gurllll, lol....you know we black women talk without talking! If looks could kill..... Some of those looks you give Jay when he's trying to justify, let's me know....you were taught well. I can tell you are not a jealous person, but also...You are no fool! IJS....Respect is the matter of concern, and I love how both you and Jay have mutual respect for one another and know each other's motives so well and can laugh about it♥️
Yes Jay is fine, no doubt. Your love is deep and trust is real. God bless you both. I'm JEALOUS hahahaha ☺☺☺☺ I love y'all. Rasha you talk and laugh just like my Aunt Barbara!
When you're spirit is telling you to start looking into a partners private stuff it's because you're partner is giving u a reason to not trust her. Ive been cheated on by 3 different people and I knew it without catching them in the act.
Being secure in yourself is key as is having a partner who also gives you a sense of security within the relationship. Love, communication and friendship strengthen the bond. You guys are cool...love that.
Just found yalls channel, Bravo to your wife, a real woman, secure in her own right. Love it! Shes right, if your man wants to go then he can go. I feel like if my man ( dont have one right now lol ) but if a man of mine leaves, I feel he wasn't there to begin with & I'd rather lose someone than beg them to stay. You want someone to WANT to be there, not have to be there. Anyway, loved the video Oh & the man can be a little bit jealous because it's kinda flattering, not necessary,I but kinda nice. ✌💜
Great vid Jay & Kasha. What people have to realize is if you think your partner looks good there's gonna be other people think they look good. My wife and I really don't have any issues in the jealousy area..just don't let me run into Tika Sumpter, Lord I'm in trouble!! Well ,Jay & Kasha be safe and God bless
I think both of you look good so don’t down play yourself Raja with people assumptions. I come to learn that no one really one up each other in looks unless one is dirty. We are all a soul with flesh that will soon die. I compliment as well to other human beings but it’s all flesh. .
This is good. From this video I have learned that security in relationships comes from not losing yourself. The ability to still be an individual even in a partnership. In the midst of being “us” each can still be a “me” and trust each other if that makes sense.
I love the way Jay looks at you.
Me too. From what I've seen... Jay's been consistent with that since they 1st posted up. He shows his love for her in his eyes & most importantly his actions. Respectfully disagrees and makes clear concise points. Jay never talks over Rasha nor shows aggression towards. Seems easy to talk to l. Honorable since he seems to be a large, fit man who at 1st sight looks a bit intimidating.
How could you not look at a black woman like that, they're beautiful!!
Yep. I love that too. I noticed that. It's a beautiful thing
When both are committed, secure, respectful, and trustworthy there's usually not a jealously issue.
Rasha you are absolutely gorgeous! Your husband is a lucky man.
Thank u🥰
She is very gorgeous and has beautiful skin too. She has beautiful eyes
You're such a healthy couple☺️☺️☺️ May your love thrive forevermore ❤️
Thank u❤️🥰
Perhaps his behaviors contributes to making you feel secure. Good husband!
I like that “you can see beauty and not be lustful.” Great topic
Thanks 🥰
I think that was the most tasteful and well explained quote from them, based off of respect for one another. And I think it makes in difference in the long run as well. If your partner can imagine themselves with someone else, where else or what else could that thought lead to.
I love the way he looks at you. That man is in love.
She looks so beautiful with her very short natural hair...You two make a lovely couple tho 💞
Thanks ❤️
Rasha, your just like me. When you know you know. Trust is there until you break it with me, once it’s broken I can’t go on in the relationship. I lose respect for my partner.
You two are so great together..
Love the term "the island" 😊
First lady Rasha, from a woman's point of view I think it's a beautiful thing when your mate makes you feel that secure that you don't feel jealousy to the point you're questioning, doubting or bickering with one another. That's a wonderful feeling when your man doesn't give you reasons to feel that type of jealousy. But you can feel jealous of JAY he's a handsome devil inside/out😊. Much love. GOD BLESS you both.
Thanks Margo for watching and for your input on this topic!!🙏🏽❤️
Trust and respect make jealousy less of an issue in a relationship. ❤
I love how she laughs so hard and all he does is look at her and presents this smilish grin💕
You guys are so cute together. Yes, the volume is low and yes your husband is fine! Smile!
Thank u🥰❤️
This was a very respectful conversation.Great job keeping it real.
Thank u🙏🏽🥰
I absolutely love the way he looks at you!
Well i had to turn my volume all the way up.. If that helps.. You guy are are a Gorgeous couple.
Thanks for sharing. All great points
Thanks for watching!❤️
Such a beautiful couple I just love them
Thank u🥰
Very mature and healthy perspectives. You two communicate well. That is so key in a relationship.
Thank u🙏🏽❤️
No need to be jealous. Either they will stay or they will go. You both have good personalities .❤
Thank u❤️
"Why was he coming to help?" LOL. Both of you make me laugh. I really enjoy your videos.
Thank u🥰
Relationship goals, you guys are awesome
Thank u❤️🥰
I love you guys, you're mirroring me amd my husband just laid back and beautiful kids well mannered, what more can you request of God. Good health amd blessing to you all
Thank u so much!! God bless!!🙏🏽
YOU BOTH make eachother feel secure!!! You broke the code! God bless you both❤
I honestly feel it goes beyond feeling secure in yourself. A person should create a partnership with someone who does not cause or plant reasons for insecurity, or doubt, or second guessing. Some people want their partner to be jealous, and that is very unhealthy to deliberately do things to cause jealousy in the other person.
Both of you are blessed to find each other and build build a great and respectful relationship
You look good together....Enjoy yourselves guys.
Thanks🥰
I can see why he is jealous,she is beautiful.but she is devoted .
Gurl.......I feel you!!! I think me and my hubby share the same experience
I absolutely love the way your husband looks at you!! True love ❤️
Lady, you are like me, I agree with you.
God bless your marriage, family and entire life.
Thank u🙏🏽❤️🥰
Best couple conversations on CZcams 👏🏽
Your both beautiful natural people 🙏🏾🙏🏼
Thank you🙏🏽🥰
Guuuuuuurl...you love his little jealous ways. Im the same EXACT way with my man.
Lol
I love the maturity in your relationship and I like watching your videos.
Thank u🥰
Hii your wife looks so beautiful 😍her skin is glowing thanks for sharing..
Aww thank u🥰
Y'all are funny 👀👍😂😂😂 y'all have a healthy relationship i hope!!
Yes we go through things like anybody but we definitely try to keep things in perspective and love to laugh and joke!!
This was a great topic. I’m the same way Rasha. Unless you give me a reasoning then it’s on and popping.
Not on and popping Tonia😂😂
@@SheSaidHeSaid yes all the way and bells 🤣
@@tonia3371 🤣
I have been married too long. The only thing I would be jealous about is if my husband is doing something for a woman that he doesn't do for me. Otherwise, if a woman can pull my husband then by cuz I am not fighting for someone who wants to go. See yah.
I’m like you sis, not a jealous person and yes your guy is handsome. Just stay secure in your skin.
Thank you❤️
It is okay to be jealous of each other But it must be a healthy one.
It's an evidence of love❤💗💝💖
Love the video...I can hear clearly
I can hear it but it's definitely still low volume for sure
Thanks!!
Great Couple!!
I feel the Love..
😍😍
Thanks!!❤️
Love the confidence girl, I see you 😎
😘❤️
I love the love between you two. I hope to have the love and respect that you have for one another one day! Continue to be blessed!
Rasha and Jay I agree with the other comments and I will say it again i just love ❤️ the way you two look 👀 at one another you can truly tell the both of you are really in love with one another and the both of you have a lot of respect for one another may God keep blessing you and your beautiful family. Happy New Year 🎈 and yes the video was good could hear you loud and clear.
Thanks for watching!! Glad volume was good!! 🙏🏽🥰❤️
You’re a beautiful couple! I appreciate the openness and sharing of your experiences.
It’s nice to see the trust you have in each other. This limits that jealousy aspect in your relationship. Men will look, but you are secure within yourself & your relationship.
Thank u❤️
It's "take a look, it's in a book, a reading rain...".
The volume always sounds just fine when I time in! I always enjoy your videos never too long for me. Thanks so much for sharing your views on jealousy..... it was very informative and funny as well! I just love you all so much! ❤️👍🤗❤️☮️
Thanks for watching. Glad the volume was good. 🙏🏽❤️
Watching you makes me feel I could hang out with you both. Love your honesty and chilling. Keep up your love for each other.
Thank you so much ❤️💜
You guys are Spot on💯 if you Love someone and want to Risk it, be a fool. The dog though 😂😂 am so weak. And I have told my boyfriend before, hey look at her, if a person looks nice or is beautiful, look but not lust. And again she do have a light up the room smile🤷🏽♀️and I can tell you guys will be together Forever 💪🏾❤️
Wonderful and realistic discussion between two loving and mature people who understand how to enjoy each other, from an honest and mature place with a great sense of humor. Appreciation of others from a mental and physical aspect that is respectful. And, can laugh. It is refreshing listening to older couples offer pearls of wisdom.
Thank you for watching and for your words 🙏🏽🥰❤️
No probs with volume for me-good discussion! I felt all of it hahahaha. Y'all are too happy together to be worried about jealousy... but I'm going to concur about that "line" though.
Glad the sound was good!! Thanks for watching!!🙏🏽❤️
The volume and topic were great. I like to believe I'm not a jealous person and think like Rasha, but I've never been placed in a jealous situation. lol
Lol
Tbis was so entertaining to watch Jay keeps getting on your nerves by being so funny 😀😀love you two keep the videos coming cos i keep going back to watch the old ones lol
We will!! Thanks for watching them!!!!😘😊🥰
I absolutely looove how you both love and respect each other. 💖 May God bless your unity. 🙏🏽 I’m binge watching all of your videos.
Thank you so much🥰❤️
You guys have what everyone is looking for! The love, trust and chemistry just radiates out of you guys!
Thank u❤️
New subscriber! Love your videos!
Thank u for subscribing 🙏🏽🥰
Yes! This was a suggestion I made for a topic! So important to address . Some jealousy is flattering some is scary.
Take a look it’s in a book reading rainbow! Great video as always .
Rasha I love your security . Your fine guy not going anywhere . He looks at you with love. You are a beauty too ❤️❤️❤️ checking passwords is so consuming . I never check my mans phone I never ask for passwords unless it involves something I need to access. I know people who are OBSESSED with what their partner is doing or not. Ugh . ❤️❤️❤️❤️
People also need to respect both of you and check their comments . We all can appreciate a good looking person but keep yourself in check .
Respect one another. I’ve had girls ask me how I got so lucky and got such a handsome husband , can you imagine how that sounds???
Window shopping fine , as long as nobody buys anything ! We are all human and can appreciate good looking people . ❤️
Window shopping!! That’s it!! 🤣🤣
As always Steph we appreciate you watching and for the support! I know we can’t always keep up with who suggested what but thank you for the suggestion!! Was definitely a great topic!!🥰❤️
it's about respecting each other keeping that communication flowing I just luv u guys because you guys are real much luv to you guys
Thank you so much🙏🏽
I Love Jay's voice and how attentive he is to Rasha.😇
Omgooodness, I love your topic and I love you guy's relationship , it's almost like I am see my relationship in y'all's relationship . Its awesome to be secure as a woman in your relationship and allow your husband to be himself. Blessings to you and family 🙏🏽💜
Thank you so much for watching and for sharing with us!! Stay blessed!!!❤️🥰
Great video !! I enjoy watching you two y’all are funny as well .
Thank u‼️❤️
Love this conversation, and how real y’all are, and soo true, you gotta have trust and love conquers all
A very good morning from the Lake of Konstanz in southern part of Germany. I am smiling the entire time while watching this episode. From my assessment, the answer is going to be 50/50 . Ha ha ha.
Good morning!! Hope all is well!!❤️
You two are too cute. Yes, J would look much better without the beard ...BUT... since the Mrs. likes it, that’s all that matters. Take care!
I think that's beautiful; Communication is the key. For me, trust comes over love. No faith, no love! Yes, your husband is handsome, but you aren't sucking on a soup bone your damn self. #melaninpoppin Women don't usually look, but like sis said, in our mind, Daymn!! 😆
Thank you and thanks for sharing🥰❤️
Beautiful down to earth couple.
Thanks ❤️
I love to see ya together it reminds me of my parents 💪👍🗽
❤️
"Loving this, you guys are funny in a good way Lol.
Thanks 😂
Walking in confidence is the BEST part of a good, healthy relationship. 🙏 Be Blessed.
Awesome video, cheers to 2021!!
Cheers🥂
Now that we got that out the way.....ooooh Girl, he fine! 😂
Rasha you’re absolutely stunning both inside and out and your position is much like my own. I’ve mentioned in other comments that I will be divorcing a man with a lot of personality issues and on the topic of jealousy, he would do something called triangulation with females in his life. Pretty much trying to create situations where they would be jealous of one another. Jealousy and causing ppl to be jealous is an illness. Leave that mess right over there.
Great vid and the sound was better on this one
Thank you so much 🥰😊
We appreciate you sharing with us your situation and views. Hope all works out best for you!! And yes jealousy is a sickness, an illness. Avoid negativity at all costs!!
@@SheSaidHeSaid thx for the well wishes. Very much appreciated. God is in control and we learn from everything we go through. May your family be blessed.
@@nahmastay7497 your welcome!!
I’m like Rajsha, get your 3 seconds and turn back 😂😂 . The volume was high enough!
😂😂
I really believe that for any healthy relationship there has to be a little bit of jealousy... Not to be disrespectful or anything, but to know that the person you are with values you to not want to lose you, God says he is a Jealous God, but once there is respect and communications then Jealous won't be an issues!
Exactly!!! Great points!
You two are such a sweet couple..I just love your vibes..anyways I wish for you a happy new year, give my love to your children too💯👍
Thank you!! Happy new year!!
Rasha.....gurllll, lol....you know we black women talk without talking! If looks could kill..... Some of those looks you give Jay when he's trying to justify, let's me know....you were taught well. I can tell you are not a jealous person, but also...You are no fool! IJS....Respect is the matter of concern, and I love how both you and Jay have mutual respect for one another and know each other's motives so well and can laugh about it♥️
Thank you so much!! Gotta keep each other on point! Lol.
You Folks are wonderful, many of us should learn from you!
Thank U so much🙏🏽🥰
Yes Jay is fine, no doubt. Your love is deep and trust is real. God bless you both. I'm JEALOUS hahahaha ☺☺☺☺ I love y'all. Rasha you talk and laugh just like my Aunt Barbara!
Thank you🥰❤️💜
Y’all are so in love
When you're spirit is telling you to start looking into a partners private stuff it's because you're partner is giving u a reason to not trust her. Ive been cheated on by 3 different people and I knew it without catching them in the act.
Great point!
I can see the balance in this relationship!! Introvert & extrovert at its best!!
U 2 have a dynamic chemistry! The respect that u have for each other is what makes it work. God put u 2 together😘!
🥰❤️❤️
I can tell both of you are very confident people. Jealousy is sometimes a result of insecurities.
The sound is good for me. Great video
Good to hear. Thanks!
Volume was OK, wishing you and your family a happy new year. Looking forward to more videos next year ❤🎉🇯🇲🇬🇧
Happy new year!!🥂
Being secure in yourself is key as is having a partner who also gives you a sense of security within the relationship. Love, communication and friendship strengthen the bond. You guys are cool...love that.
Thanks for your thoughts on this!! 🙏🏽❤️
Just found yalls channel, Bravo to your wife, a real woman, secure in her own right. Love it! Shes right, if your man wants to go then he can go.
I feel like if my man ( dont have one right now lol ) but if a man of mine leaves, I feel he wasn't there to begin with & I'd rather lose someone than beg them to stay. You want someone to WANT to be there, not have to be there. Anyway, loved the video Oh & the man can be a little bit jealous because it's kinda flattering, not necessary,I but kinda nice. ✌💜
Thank u so much for watching and for sharing your insight on this. 🥰❤️
24, 36...that water is a brick house. Lol
I know right!!!🤣🤣🤣
Love this!
Thank you..the volume is much better on this video💚
Glad to hear!!
Great vid Jay & Kasha. What people have to realize is if you think your partner looks good there's gonna be other people think they look good. My wife and I really don't have any issues in the jealousy area..just don't let me run into Tika Sumpter, Lord I'm in trouble!! Well ,Jay & Kasha be safe and God bless
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I feel ya Bryan!! She is fine for sure!!
Appreciate ya watching!! God bless!
I think both of you look good so don’t down play yourself Raja with people assumptions. I come to learn that no one really one up each other in looks unless one is dirty. We are all a soul with flesh that will soon die. I compliment as well
to other human beings but it’s all
flesh. .
Jay is fine! And he sounds like a brother. He seems to be a good man. Good men are hard to come by. For Real!! Where is GOD in y'alls life?
God is always first!! Most definitely !!
Love the honesty and transparency you guys are awesome 🙏🏼💕
Thanks Justice!!🥰
New to the channel. Loving the energy of you two!
Thanks for joining us!!💜❤️
This is good. From this video I have learned that security in relationships
comes from not losing yourself. The ability to still be an individual even in a partnership. In the midst of being “us” each can still be a “me” and trust each other if that makes sense.
Yes makes sense!! Great point!