WHY COUPLES SHOULD NEVER KEEP MALICE
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- čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
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The problem with those who practice or justify silent treatment is, they focus on what they don't do vs what they do. You will hear "I don't beat, I don't shout, I don't slam doors, I don't throw things, I don't cheat" etc etc. But they fail to see how they are ignoring and emotionally abusing their partners. May God help us o.
Brother Ben 😂.you go... explain... explain ...explain...tire 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I think I need a lawyer 😂😂😂
Welcome back Aunty B, we missed you so much 🤗
Miss you ❤❤❤❤Aunty B... Queen Jamaica 🇯🇲 🙌
Welcome back auntie B, we missed you.
Does men/women that practice malice/silent treatment etc ever consider what will happen if their spouse does the same thing to them. No one has monopoly of m.a.d.n.e.s.s oooo
Absolutely
Keeping malice has led to the high rate of separation and divorce, specifically among diaspora couples.Women who separated from their men at the airport or others that did it as soon as they moved abroad etc are some evidence of deep-seated resentment.Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.Some would keep an old altercation and use it as an excuse, that is why women are the ones who initiate divorces for the most part.
Sadly, malice has ended a lot of marriages these days. Please work on this very well if you have the tendency for it. Silent treatments, lack of effective communication.Its emotionally abusive, no excuses please. Thank you Sis B for shining light on this.
patience is given by God. it cannot be learned.
This first caler bumi you need to work on your self 😂😂
Keeping Malice has serious consequences. Can you imagine you and your partner find yourselves in a burning building. Will you keep malice? If you would rather keep malice than save each other, you might want to re-evaluate this "relationship."
Uncle Ben O, it is not how long one has been married oh. Best thing is to nip it in the bud as soon as it starts. Shutting down is downright childish behaviour. One day is fine, but dont sleep on it. How can a man expect a woman to continue to beg and beg everytime they have an issue? Its gets tiring, and Aunty B said it can cause divorce. May God help the man if he is married to an emotionally expressive person. Its not right abeg.
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Sis B can I invite you to my podcast
Sister B miss you oh please how I join your whattapp group.
Mr. Ben, the point is that your “for me, for me”, doesn’t make your approach the right one.
Any time Ben starts talking I find myself cringing. He detracts from the conversation way too often.
ben moves the goal post too much, men cant learn nothing from that clown,
Really? The conversation is about Malice and silent treatment which is huge problem in our community. Atleast you heard both men and women admitted they practice one form or the other. I said I practiced “shot down” and Aunty B as well as other knowledgeable people on the show said it’s still a form of malice. Which I agreed. How did I deviate from the conversation by stating examples and circumstances that could lead to malice or showdown?? Hhmmnn my dear, this is why I love this channel Atleast we are free to air our opinions and learn… no vex 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Really? The conversation is about Malice and silent treatment which is huge problem in our community. Atleast you heard both men and women admitted they practice one form or the other. I said I practiced “shot down” and Aunty B as well as other knowledgeable people on the show said it’s still a form of malice. Which I agreed. How did I deviate from the conversation by stating examples and circumstances that could lead to malice or showdown?? Hhmmnn my dear, this is why I love this channel Atleast we are free to air our opinions and learn… no vex 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@LeeLee027thank you sir… this clown appreciate your insult 🙏🙏🙏
If I' am really offened, until my partner is ready to discuss and have a conversation about the issue, I wouldn't say a word even if it takes weeks.
@nkoira6841, 2.5 hours and you still learnt nothing!! Continue ....to your tenth o'Isreal🚶♀️➡️🚶♀️➡️🚶♀️➡️