@@Akoalawithshades Like, at the airport over the intercom or something? "Welcome to Japan, where we are famous for our prostitution, anime, and tentacle porn"
Why? It is famous for that. When I was in Japan few years ago I did visit great brothels(it's usually registered as hostel or motel) where prostitutes were just housewife's living in close proximity. It's service unlike anything in any other country. You go to brothel, you pick room to suit your kink (great choice)and the rooms are super nicely done. You literally brows catalogue of prostitutes with photos, kinks, what they do and what they dont, some are on spot let's call them professionals but there is this section in catalogue with housewifes, students etc just normal women that need extra money. If you opt for them then you have to wait because they need to call her and ask if she wants white guy (it's hard to get to such brothel as non japanese person but if you know some locals or pay extra they let you in) then she says sure or not and you have to choose another, but shel make it in hour or two, so what do you do? You can order food like in 4* restaurant that will be delivered to your room, you watch tv etc while you wait. Who also gets such good service in brothel, only in Japan. And don't even get me started on massage parlors etc. So yeah Japan is great for such Turismo but be warned you have to know some locals or pay extra like very extra or they will not let you in and even then many places will refuse foreigner do font be surprised or disappointed it's how it is.
Cheating is not really part of Japanese culture but a trend in some groups of young people. If you ask people in Kabukicho then you will get answers very different from the rest of the population. In my experience living in Japan 90% of people are adamantly against cheating but the remaining 10% speak the loudest and create the most rumours.
So *Geishas* weren't a symbol of the western imagination.... It's usually those outwardly demure and conservative cultures that are often times the most sexually deviant behind the outward presentation.
I know I can't believe this😂!? I'm like no no no, omg, goodness. I know it's a cultural differences but dang it's hard to take in what these woman are saying 😅
if it's a random girl there's likely smth more going on than sex. if it's a prostitute it's just abt money for her and sex for the guy, (edit: could also be abt sex for her but ehh semantics, ultimately it's for money) they're not gonna date or w'ever. I'm sure that's what she meant
@@freddiesimmons1394 Actions speak louder than words. Japanese people are literally among the highest suicide rates, because of severe depression and repressing emotions that they do practice in their daily lives.
@@yahirsanchez-silva2127 it is fascinating to watch people deal with ideas that they dont have the capacity to understand. OP 100% would have burned witches back in the day
PROSTITUTION DOES AMOUNT TO CHEATING, AND I AM A WOMAN AS WELL FROM INDIA, THE FAMOUS SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY; ONLY SHAMELESS AND PERVERT GIRLS AND WOMEN THINK PROSTITUTION IS GOOD.
Well realistically I get it. To most it genuinely doesn't feel like their partner is cheating since those prostitution services are legal and were made specifically for married men, so I'd expect if most women are cool with it and most of them shown here are older women. Ofc there's preference but Japan is a weird place.
Don't forget this was taken in downtown Tokyo. It's like asking a question about sex on a red light district in Holland. If you ask such a question to young ladies who are always having fun, it is only natural that you will get impure answers. Their opinions are not representative of the Japanese people as a whole.
Not wild. These women are smart af to understand their (probably high earning) providing husbands are just horndogs and they trust them not to cheat emotionally. It’s more like 4D chess for marriage.
@@awarem8739 That is the result of industrialism all over the world not just Japan. Most couples cannot live like this but to say it’s wild is being naive.
@@xlaowsozown9372 because you should want your partner to be as happy as possible? Why are you happily and actively imposing a worse life on your partner
I am a Japanese male. In Japan recently, the lifetime unmarried rate has been rising, and the media has also picked up on the trend of young people moving away from love and relationships. The frequency of sexual intercourse among married and unmarried couples is also quite low on a global scale. What is happening? For your information, I am 28 years old and have not had a girlfriend for 10 years. I have been invited to partake in the services of the sex industry throughout my life, but I have almost always declined. I feel discomfort with acts devoid of love, yet I cannot find love in reality. The worship of looks and the contentization of sexual love are likely to continue accelerating in the future.
@@jamesbuchanan3145men and women are not as different as you think, women where raised different. You just don't like the thought that some some may be a loooot like men, wich is threatening
@@alissaa2809 It isn't threatening. Women in the modern world have simply become destructive to society itself. Men and women are meant to be complimentary, halves of a whole. We have broken homes, crime, addiction, lack of morality, and weak men, and weaker women.
As someone who lives in Arkansas most women would skin you alive and feed you to the deer if you hooked up with a prostitute while with them, huge culture shock
@@prankgirl9112you definitely don’t want them Arkansas boys, you can find better in other states. Just poking fun at the Arkansas guys. They’re not all bad.
It boggles my mind how people forget we are animals. The vast majority of animals do not practice monogamy. It’s not natural. Spreading one’s seed is an ingrained instinct and yet people’s emotions want to make it personal. I have been in the same relationship for 10 years and have even given my partner permission to cheat (because I want to since one person gets boring no matter who you are), but I somehow ended up with one of the last truly loyal guys on earth. He won’t cheat (and so I can’t either because I know he’d get pissed, and he’s not smart enough to understand my biological instinct argument).
@@softerhaze the same way getting ice cream is polite to that girl. The problem is that the girl is having an unreasonable expectation and emotional response to the "ice cream". What is her rationale for wanting me to be sexually exclusive? Forcing your partner to deprive themselves for you sounds "impolite" to me.
@@freddiesimmons1394 how is getting ice cream in any way comparable to having sex w another girl while in a relationship?? A romantic relationship automatically implies sexual exclusivity, that's literally the bare minimum.. unless you agreed upon polyamory. And wtf u mean by deprive themself, if sex is that important for u then perhaps you should t be in a relationship in the first place
I'm in Japan quite often and it's too bad none of the husband's of my Japanese clients feel the same way about gigolos. Lol I'd bet those women interviewed would be hurt, furious and worried if they actually found out their husband was seeing prostitutes. STDS
I lived in Japan for 3 years, this video is clearly “cherrypicked.” Most women, of any nationality, do not want their men seeing prostitutes. There’s the jealously factor and the STD factor.
I think the video is meant to show that in Japan that this mindset exist for their women. Not so much trying to say that all jap women is ok with this.
I am Japanese. My experience is that I sometimes went to the Fuzoku with my school classmates and colleagues. However, I believe that using Fuzoku is equivalent to cheating. Only single people should use Fuzoku. Sorry for my poor English.
She said, "go to a prostitute if you want to cheat", idiot. They're literally giving their men permission to go to prostitutes. Stop playing the victim
Where I'm from, cheating is cheating. I've never thought of stepping out of any relationship I'm in. I was taught to be loyal,and faithful to the one I'm with that's why I'm single,was treated poorly in my last relationship
Cheating being cheating isn;t a line... Personally cheating is defined by the relationship itself, and differs. But also trust and communication are the two biggest foundations of a relationship, and what is said in the video aligns as they say as long as the guy is honest about it. I agree, if it makes someone happy go for it, I support them being happy.
Japan is a very patriarchal country. Not so long ago in the US, Europe and so on this was also the normal situation. Prostitution has always been an institution to make women's bodies available to men without being considered rape (which it actually is). There has to be women available for men. Marrying for love in a somewhat equal relationship is very new. Marriage has always been an institution where men could have women as property and have legally recognized children that are their property too. Wives have been forced to look the other way when their husbands would go to prostitutes and with other women in general... Japan is still like that. And sex exploitation there is a very harsh reality, and if people don't care about it in the West you can see there how much they care in Japan, who is known for being a submissive society who doesn't question the way things are...
What about your friends? Family? Do you know what they think about it? I honestly couldn't believe so many Japanese women thought it was okay. I wonder if it's a majority opinion.
And all the women of color have been shouting this and no one believed us. This is why US men want Japanese and foreign women so badly because they know that they're so docile to the point where they've been brainwashed to think that prostitution and cheating is just normal and to be accepted. Yet let a woman cheat on one of them and they go shoot up a bar and kill multiple people like that one cop did in California last month.
@@BellicVVery likely. Most capital cities are very weird these days. I am from Berlin, Germany and people here are straight up crazy but not in a good way and people from other german cities have confirmed that too 😂
It makes sense in a way. I knew a swinger couple that was happy banging other people until the wife decided to keep one of her boy toys secret (I think because she developed feelings for him). The lie was the deal breaker in their marriage, and they divorced.
They have a huge red light district industry. Just about any sexual act between consenting adults with the exception of vaginal penetration is legal and monetized. Even illegal prostitution is swept under the rug.
Prostitution is illegal though unless it's Las Vegas. The government set this norm that it was a bad thing yet a victimless crime. Differentiating from sex trafficking of course. As long as the prostitute is doing it of free will and no coercion or threat then it is a victimless crime and really is nothing bad. It's one of the oldest professions in the world.
As an American I hear tons of women saying similar things.. and cheating is irrelevant to holding these views or against these views… ggs with the anecdotal evidence and narrative.. btw according to studies men cheat slightly more and FOR LESS.. 💀 so stop lying.. tons of American women AND MEN hold similar views.. Lao either ur lying and don’t live in America or ur pushing a false narrative u’ve convinced urself is true… guess Pew Research is wrong and ur right huh.. entire fields of extensive universities and science institutions doing social sciences are mistaken huh? 52% of Americas across all political spectrums support decriminalizing sex work.. literally 50% with lots of dogmatic religious views are against open relationships.. 33 for it .. the rest no opinion/don’t care one way or another .. so ur objectively false.. 😂 like stop lying.. how u feel and think ppl think is wrong.. majority don’t hold that view.. also according to the research .. because half the country are relitards lot of ppl don’t openly share or want p to think they accept certain things.. this is American.. political divide is insane that most ppl are comfortable sharing their views especially on sex and sexuality.. it’s taboo.. it’s the same reason for decades ppl who where gay where in heterosexual relationships.. we also know main reasons open relationships fail is literally cause of “monogamous” ppl.. majority of fail poly relationships are reported by those ppl the hate and shaming from friends family an coworkers was too much they ended their open or poly relationships for mono ones to avoid the shaming… ONLY HALF the country is against these things.. 😂 I’ll give u benefit of doubt and assume u just by chance live around ppl who dude to relitard societal aspects don’t ring it up.. in y expirence which reflects the data half the ppl DO say these things half don’t… wut rock you live under 💀
@@jimmyjon9970oof, bad take dude. You could always just spank the monkey or buy a sex toy, or you know… communicate with your partner/go to couples counseling? Cheating is not the solution to a dead bedroom.
I think this guy clipped scenes with people who said that prostitution is okay. I'm a Japanese woman but can't believe this video is true. I have never heard women around me and in the internet say like people in this video. I think prostitution is big betrayal.
People who chose to determine what is right/ wrong by themselves will always make mistakes. I’d encourage you (the person reading my comment) to at least read the Bible once. God makes good and evil much more obvious and helps us from falling into sin that will only hurt us in the end.
@@Maybehaha755u are no one to say that. U have to understand their perspective instead of keeping a close mind. Try to be open minded and find reasoning and understand someone else's perspective instead of calling their whole culture bad. I mean some culture are bad but u have to try to see it from their perspective too before making a bold statement like that
@@thedivinefeminine1821 Because they're insecure. He only wants to use her for her body for some fun. If she can't understand the difference between wanting a woman for life companionship, love, intellectual and emotional connection, and mutual unconditional support; and wanting the prostitute just for some mindless pleasure; then she's absolutely just insecure.
As a japanese no one accepts this around me. when the woman say it's ok if it's prostitute, it means she doesn't care much about her bf or husband that's it.
I worked at japanese company before. Most of japanese went to karaoke everynight, used LC and charged it to company next morning. All of them has a wife, and the wives looks ok with it😂
Im a japanese. and what youre saying is false. We always go to the prostitute if we want to, and the wife will be happy for their husband. We only hire prostitute for companionship.
smiles and giggles don't always come from joy and happiness, but often from awkwardness and being uncomfortable and wanting to conceal negative emotions
prostitutes save marriages with open and honest communication. plenty of marriages where the lady doesn’t want sex anymore or wants it once in a blue moon
No fr the first girl said she’s rather her bf do that then go to random girls… like they are random girls.. not to mention the STDs your bf can bring back to you
@@peewee139nah it is. From experience only insecure people get into relationships like this. They never last, STDs become a problem, and no matter what anyone says- humans crave monogamous, mutual love. I've been in a few "open relationships" they're not it and destroyed what little sense of self worth I had and gave me extreme trust issues. It essentially is "honest cheating" it's not cool and actually pretty disgusting.
I can understand her logic. He's paying for sex, a quick encounter, and nothing more. But if he talks to a random girl, there's a chance he could become romantically involved and replace his wife with this new girl.
@@freddiesimmons1394why are you hardcore defending this ideology? These woman arnt just considerate half of them admitted in some video that they cheat with a prostitute as well. It ain't a one way street.
@@freddiesimmons1394guess what people want to experience love oh that's might sound strange to your fuckbody World and no taking accountability for honering a relationship.
Based on your ideas of monogamy and relationships maybe. Mine too, but Japan is not my culture and if both parties are truly fine with it and that's communicated, who gives a fuck?
I think they rationalize it as long there is payment then it no longer becomes about it "being a random girl" but when there is service involved then its okay for some reason....
@@mirandawalewska4841They're straight up gaslighting themselves in order to justify why their spouse or significant other doesn't want to spend time with or confide in them. That's some super copium, if you as me. Like, just because they paid money doesn't expunge the fact that they hired a whore to cheer them up or sleep with them when they have a wife or girlfriend; either they need to get better wives/girlfriends, or really take some time to analyze the social flaws in their relationship. But then again, when your wife is doing mental gymnastics to trick herself into believing it's fine for you sleep with whores cause you paid for them, maybe you're good.
Some other random YT dude did similar interviews back in the day but he chose random chicks off the streets without even asking first if they were in relationships. I feel that it’s important who they ask and interview because their answers vary depending on whether they’re single or not. Most Japanese women from Japan are single and do not care.
You’re allowed to talk on public transportation, most just don’t because it’s considered rude to stand out and make yourself known. They don’t hug, they bow. That would be like a Japanese person saying oooo they hug, they don’t bow that’s weird. I can see why you don’t get it because you didn’t stop to use your brain at any point while typing your comment out.
@@jbboyne It's like going for drinks after work. Social gatherings which employees can't get out of because of the work culture. Except in this case what's normalised isn't the booze but the hookers.
Japanese is not selfish, most make their husband a slave, they love expense things. So if some one have to smell his sake breath better be paid the poor women
@@ARandomPerson-- I think what they are saying is if it's with a h00ker than it's just transactional and there's no feelings involved, but if it's a new girl he's talking to he might want her for more than sex and loose feelings for her (gf).
@@ARandomPerson-- No, ideally they're sharing the cost in one way or another. Only traditional and theoretically progressive but hypocritical people _want_ relationships where only the man pays. As a feminist, I believe that neither men nor women nor anyone in general are responsible to pay everything for their partner. I believe in equality. If you're in relationships where you always have to pay, look for an actually progressive woman. She won't want you to pay for everything, but on the other hand you'll have to treat her as an equal and as a human being.
I’m a Japanese former sex worker and I didn’t know there are women who are ok with it. Some customers actually start to develop feeling or attachment to us, so it’s not smart to think there’s no emotional cheating involved. There are men who feel a lot like women. Not every guy is completely detached when it comes to be intimate with a woman. I have seen men who have never been a player type, more like with polar opposite personality, very serious people who are married, fall in love with a sex worker. I could see they were actually in love and they even said they were soulmates. It’s kind of dismissive if a wife thinks she’s ok with her husband sleeping with other women. It’s normalized toxic culture. Also, remember most guys always try to have sex with us without wearing protection if they think they have a chance. When it comes to safe sex, men are not trustworthy. Doesn’t matter if they seem decent or a good person. We get tested for std regularly but they probably don’t. If you let your man go to those women, at least make them get tested regularly or it might ruin your health. I still don’t understand why those women are ok with it though. Think for yourself more. Don’t just go along with what’s supposed to be normal. Edit: Thank you very much for people who gave likes and comments. I was a sex worker because I had a very difficult childhood which caused me mental+physical illnesses, some of which I got diagnosed, some others doctors couldn’t figure out what was wrong with my body. My family of origin is toxic (alcoholic dad etc. etc.), so I had to cut off all of them. Those symptoms got bad when I was a freshman in college, and because of it I couldn’t make any friends or lost all the social circles. I couldn’t do anything except being depressed, but I needed to make money to survive. That’s how I got into sex work. Living on welfare system wasn’t an option at the time for me, because it’s considered very shameful. Also, they don’t cover my expenses for alternative medicine that I needed to try to figure out how to heal my body. Doctors couldn’t help me so I had to do it on my own, or the pain was killing me I literally wanted to kill myself. Somebody in the comment section said I should have excluded married men from my service. I know what you mean but if we work for escort service type of places in Japan, we usually don’t get to choose customers. Many of them probably try to lie their marital status anyway if we are to check it. I did it just to survive. I didn’t have a choice. If I had a choice, I would have chosen “right" customers. I mean, if I had a choice to refuse this kind of job and still had ways to survive+cure my illnesses, I would have. Maybe I’m a hypocrite. Maybe I don’t have the right to judge them. But those women have a choice to walk away from/have a serious talk with their boyfriend/husband and protect their health or find a better relationship. I was a sex worker but it’s not like I thought it was a normal job or morally right. I hope you understand. Edit 2: Somebody in the comment section said I had a choice. I understand I did have a choice in a way. I had a choice of living on welfare while not being able to do anything about my illness, or be a sex worker and suffer in that way but I can try different treatment. I probably meant I had a choice but all the choices I had sucked and I wanted to kill myself. Bad choice of words. Sorry. I meant I didn't have a choice not to suffer. "Having been a sex worker" doesn't mean I sacrificed my body but had a substantially good life. I worked only like 7 days a month and got average income to cover my minimal expenses+altanative medicine. Other days when not working, spent all day on my bed battling physical pain and depression. I'm 34 now and I'm still trying to improve my condition. It's been 16 years. I still suffer from depression and pain in my body. I'm still on my own. I still don't know how to get out. Been meditating a lot because that’s only thing I can distract myself. "Living on welfare is considered shameful." You can judge me for not having been able to go against it. But now I'm on it so I can never be authentic with Japanese. My mother told me that I should have tried harder when she came to know that I decided to be on welfare. She knows I even had to be a sex worker to survive until then, and that's the comment I got. I understand you don't understand because you're probably from different culture but it's devastating to get that kind of reaction even from your own family. Rest of my family also know my situation and nobody is helping me. In their mind, people living on welfare=lazy stupid people who didn’t make effort enough. Even caseworkers clearly despise me but I have to act “submissive” and “obedient” because that’s how we supposed to act or they don’t like it and they try to in some way kick out of the system. This is how people choose to commit suicide, I think. I thought about it a lot in the past. I still sometimes do. But I lock myself up in my apartment so that I don’t do anything stupid. When I share my story to people from other countries, many of them are like, “I’m sorry but there’s no way it’s that bad. You’re in Japan.” But I think our country is pretty famous for having a high suicidal rate? There are reasons for that. It's not that we're naturally mentally weak compared to people in the rest of the world. I think our pain is more emotional and invisible. We don't have a culture to "speak up" then people support you and make a big social movement and make a change. An American person suggested me to do something like that in the past, but this is not America. It can't happen, so people like me try to leave Japan and find a place to belong in somewhere else. My plan was to leave Japan too after finishing college. That’s why I leaned English and am able to leave comments like this in English. I wanted to be an actor in the U.S. My mental escape as a child was watching movies while being neglected, abused, and bullied so… Edit 3: Somebody in the comment section said I can’t judge them because they might not have a choice neither. I know. I have lived in this culture as a woman, so I know why they feel that they have to say they are ok with men cheating. I even said “Maybe I don’t have the right to judge them” but I think I wasn’t really judging in the first place. Bad choice of words again, I’m sorry. It was more like, “At least protect your health at all cost girls! It’s not worth ruining your health or staying in an unhappy relationship!” because I can see my younger self in them when I thought going along with the value was the only choice I had. I didn’t know my worth so I allowed men to walk all over me when I was younger. I learned it very hard way, I didn’t want them to suffer in the same way. It was more like an advice from older women to young girls. English is not my first language after all, and I’m not used to having discussions and arguments with people in English where you have to be precise with words. I'm sorry for all the confusion. Edit 4: Thank you again for everyone who left comments. I can't individually reply but I'm reading everything. Even if it's a criticism or an opposing opinion, I think everyone has a point. It's just that we come from different places and grew up experiencing different things while developing different brain wiring. People read this comment in their own way and try to come up with their own opinion about this. They're given very limited information about me or my story, so I'm trying not to take things too personally. Anyhow, thank you everyone. Someone said this is the longest comment on CZcams. Yeah, I agree.🤣 Also, I can see that Japanese people are reading this too and are leaving comments in English. 状況が状況なので、基本は日本の方たちとこの情報をシェアをするのはちょっと怖いんですけど、わかってくださる優しい方々がいるのももちろんわかっています。 読んでくださった方々、ありがとうございます。🙇♀️
9 have ye not known that the unrighteous the reign of God shall not inherit? be not led astray; neither whoremongers, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, the reign of God shall inherit. 11 And certain of you were these! but ye were washed, but ye were sanctified, but ye were declared righteous, in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-11) Mama, read from the Gospel of John to Revelation. Read Shepherd of Hermas, C S Lewis's Great Divorce and Problem of Pain. The truth will set you free. Come back to the Creator who made you.
the irony that so many men here tryna justify the girls mindset for the sake of "different culture" but a former sex worker yourself thinks how very naive it sounded 😂 i think you got the point, they are not very smart.
How funny would it be if they all said, "yes prostitution is cheating..." but the translator just really wanted his wife to be cool with prostitution 😂
It's because women stop having sex with their husband once they have a child. And of course, they also start visiting male prostitutes or even cheating with other married men, foreigners, etc.
No. Sex-Workers pay more attention to their personal health and safety. Hygiene is paramount and when I worked legally, all clients have STD checks under a bright light prior to sexuality contact (and a shower, obviously) Sex-Workers have regular blood tests, use Condoms, etc.... Random girls on a night out are not nearly as clean as Nd safe as a sex worker!
@@MsTtilly “Prostitution” covers more than an “official” registration as one. Anybody can ask someone to pay them for sex, whether or not they’re part of whatever “legal” screening program you’ve referenced. If an 18 year old in college posts a message on Snapchat and says “hey, I’ll sleep with people for $100,” that’s prostitution. By definition. Prostitution covers any paid sex act of any scale, regardless of whether those people have been tested or use condoms or whatnot. Prostitution is prostitution, and engaging in it regardless of preparation will have a higher risk of STDs. I’m not endorsing going out to have random flings at the bar either. My only point was that prostitutes are as much people as anybody else. To say otherwise would only dehumanize them into objects. If that’s what a prostitute wants to be, far be it from me to control their life, but the fact remains they are still a person, and in the context of paying someone for an anonymous sexual encounter, they’re almost certainly random as well.
I'm not saying that they are like that, but data has been released in the past that suggests there are more women in Japan who have worked temporarily in the sex industry than people would imagine. If you or a friend has worked in that profession, it's hard to deny it. It's also not uncommon to hear stories of infidelity and infidelity from both men and women close to you. In a way, there may be a sense of fairness in Japan.
@@Arvak777 you clearly didn't pay attention to the video we are talking about traditional women too there was nothing about prostitutes in this conversation pay attention next time before embarrassing yourself
I mean… most marriages that are for looks end up crashing and burning as soon as a wrinkle sets in. Also most people that have intercourse with their partner usually try to leave them fully satisfied. You darn well that dude is jack hammering for 30 seconds on the prostitute and then leaving. No connection. No care. Just wants to feel good and dip. This is also why Japanese marriage and relationships last longer. If they want a quick one night stand. They can hire a prostitute. No need to fake it just sleep with someone and ghost them. I’m serious. There are people in the west that will date someone for 2 months just to sleep with them, and then a week or 2 later the relationship falls apart.
My partner and I are in long distance, we have this agreement. All love, atenttion and time to each other, if they want to have sex, they can go and do it. Just not hide it and be thruthful and safe.
And they are still considered the most developed country on Earth and apperently aliens will make contact with them first. Maybe the most behaved, domesticated
Just uploaded full video of these interviews!
Why release the shorts so early? Doesn't seem good if you wanna gain traction should release the shorts at the same time.
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@@loyalty3881 wdym? I love this guys videos just wanna see him get the best reach he can.
Can you asked the same question to Japanese men?
Did you ask Japense men what they think about women and random sex "as long as it's not a prostitute " it should be ok, right??
“Japan is famous for its prostitution” is not a quote I thought I’d ever hear.
the first thing you'll hear in Tokoyo
@@Akoalawithshades Like, at the airport over the intercom or something? "Welcome to Japan, where we are famous for our prostitution, anime, and tentacle porn"
Look up "soapies". Now I know why everyone in the US Navy begs to stay in Japan.
I thought its thailand though
Why? It is famous for that. When I was in Japan few years ago I did visit great brothels(it's usually registered as hostel or motel) where prostitutes were just housewife's living in close proximity. It's service unlike anything in any other country. You go to brothel, you pick room to suit your kink (great choice)and the rooms are super nicely done. You literally brows catalogue of prostitutes with photos, kinks, what they do and what they dont, some are on spot let's call them professionals but there is this section in catalogue with housewifes, students etc just normal women that need extra money. If you opt for them then you have to wait because they need to call her and ask if she wants white guy (it's hard to get to such brothel as non japanese person but if you know some locals or pay extra they let you in) then she says sure or not and you have to choose another, but shel make it in hour or two, so what do you do? You can order food like in 4* restaurant that will be delivered to your room, you watch tv etc while you wait. Who also gets such good service in brothel, only in Japan. And don't even get me started on massage parlors etc. So yeah Japan is great for such Turismo but be warned you have to know some locals or pay extra like very extra or they will not let you in and even then many places will refuse foreigner do font be surprised or disappointed it's how it is.
"Are you okay, honey? You barely hired any prostitutes this month."
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"should we go to the brothel and get Megumi to cheer you up? She's your go to right?"
@@marcodragneel8035☠️
"First I fire you then get a new girl." Like car, trade them in when they start making weird noises.
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@marcodragneel8035... "actually our neighbour is my favourite and it's free, but you can just imagine that I pay her." 😂😉
That's not a culture shock. That a whole thunderstrike😂
its not uncommon for women to be asked “how much?” 😅
DUUUDE... RIGHT!
They need guidance
I’m going to Japan 😂😂
@@sandrabaumgardner2151you can find prostitutes at your country, dude.:))
Cheating is not really part of Japanese culture but a trend in some groups of young people. If you ask people in Kabukicho then you will get answers very different from the rest of the population.
In my experience living in Japan 90% of people are adamantly against cheating but the remaining 10% speak the loudest and create the most rumours.
Kind of like here in the West about most topics
10%is a lot of people ,the cheating rate is higher i believe more than 50%japanese men cheating
I agree. Also westernization has a say in this. I’m all for intercultural exchange, just not the immoral type.
Cheating is part of Japanese culture, that's the truth.
So *Geishas* weren't a symbol of the western imagination....
It's usually those outwardly demure and conservative cultures that are often times the most sexually deviant behind the outward presentation.
“Our budget is out of control. We have to cut back on some things.”
“Okay, honey. Only TWO prostitutes this month.”
In the words of Eric Cartman "youre breakin my balls here, ma'am....breakin' em"
😂😂
I know I can't believe this😂!? I'm like no no no, omg, goodness. I know it's a cultural differences but dang it's hard to take in what these woman are saying 😅
LMAO
Really? Only TWO?! You’re the best. That’s why I married you, Darling.
Women supporting other women's business on another level 💀
Lol💀
Support local!
@@stardewhillbullyu wild for that line 😭😭
Feminism right there
@@NapoleonVelascoCarrilloand only Western modern "feminists" will b*tch about it.
“don’t cheat with random girls , cheat with a prostitute”. IVE NEVER BEEN MORE CONFUSED IN MY LIFE. 😮
Like the prostitute isn't a random girl😂
@@cabun_copy unless it’s like-that random prostitute will soon become a regular visit, shedding the title of “random girl”💀💀
if it's a random girl there's likely smth more going on than sex. if it's a prostitute it's just abt money for her and sex for the guy, (edit: could also be abt sex for her but ehh semantics, ultimately it's for money) they're not gonna date or w'ever. I'm sure that's what she meant
It's a paradox.
You're confused about the simplest things?
as a Japanese woman, they're just pretending to be okey.
Or, maybe, stop pretending that you know what other people think. Sorry if theyre more emotionally mature than you're used to
@@freddiesimmons1394
Sorry if you were dumped by your ex because your weiner can't stay in place if it detects a woman's presence from 2 kilometers.
@@freddiesimmons1394 Actions speak louder than words. Japanese people are literally among the highest suicide rates, because of severe depression and repressing emotions that they do practice in their daily lives.
Stop projecting, you don’t know what other people think and feel.
@@yahirsanchez-silva2127 it is fascinating to watch people deal with ideas that they dont have the capacity to understand. OP 100% would have burned witches back in the day
As an American man engaged to an American woman, “It’s not cheating, I paid her for it,” would absolutely end with me on an episode of dateline lmao
PROSTITUTION DOES AMOUNT TO CHEATING, AND I AM A WOMAN AS WELL FROM INDIA, THE FAMOUS SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY; ONLY SHAMELESS AND PERVERT GIRLS AND WOMEN THINK PROSTITUTION IS GOOD.
Why would you be on dateline? Unless the girls you would want to cheat with are underage.
@@Autonomous_17 No one should respect a prostitute.
@@basugunjajudgy much? Grow up please
@@freddiesimmons1394 I am a woman in my early 30s and so I am pretty much grown up, and being judgmental is nothing wrong.
Think we just found the biggest cultural difference 😂
Well realistically I get it. To most it genuinely doesn't feel like their partner is cheating since those prostitution services are legal and were made specifically for married men, so I'd expect if most women are cool with it and most of them shown here are older women. Ofc there's preference but Japan is a weird place.
There are more differences. Look into the Lolita "phenomenon" in Japan.
Don't forget this was taken in downtown Tokyo. It's like asking a question about sex on a red light district in Holland. If you ask such a question to young ladies who are always having fun, it is only natural that you will get impure answers. Their opinions are not representative of the Japanese people as a whole.
@@AIIIAKS-vn4co these are older women tho.
@@AIIIAKS-vn4coNot the same but i agree to an extent.
"told my bf go to a prostitute if you wanna cheat" is such a crazy thing to say to your partner, Japan's cheating is wild
Girls who said that going to prostitute is not cheating are prostitutes lol
BIG L for Japan
It's hella wild
Not wild. These women are smart af to understand their (probably high earning) providing husbands are just horndogs and they trust them not to cheat emotionally. It’s more like 4D chess for marriage.
@@p3nglin yes it is wild. That is why japans society is declining
@@awarem8739 That is the result of industrialism all over the world not just Japan.
Most couples cannot live like this but to say it’s wild is being naive.
5 years in Japan and none of girls I met had this opinion.
Mostly a Tokyo thing fr
Unlucky you
@@nickfowler547 I was in Tokyo
@@freddiesimmons1394 or not.. ? why would I want my girl to cheat
@@xlaowsozown9372 because you should want your partner to be as happy as possible? Why are you happily and actively imposing a worse life on your partner
It's not cheating I'm just supporting local businesses
whats wrong with boosting the economy?
It’s against sharia the beautiful islam❤
😂😂
Do you have a problem with local business?😂😂
@@georgemarliis6346yeah thankfully prostitution is not a thing in the middle east. Right? 😊
“As long as he is honest” was the key part to that entire question.
Honesty, sure. But if you aren’t doing it much with your wife and you ARE going to the Prost BECAUSE it’s ok. That’s going to cause a problem.
nope.its as long he stills loves me and doesnt have feelings for other girl i dont have problem doing sex just for pleasure.
Bruh, she would be saying a whooole different opinion if it was the man that was the prostitute
@@NeonForceGetsuga i found the guy with no b!tches. point and laugh
But he can bring the STDs with him yk. It's not something that only impacts him
That's a culture shock right there 😅
More like mental ilness this is not normal. Society destroyed their hormones.
Yea this was a wild one
More like the very reason why japan's birth rate is declining...
@@kravenkilleryt1083 lmao, all the potential children are going to waste at a whorehouse
Same here! 😮
I am a Japanese male.
In Japan recently, the lifetime unmarried rate has been rising, and the media has also picked up on the trend of young people moving away from love and relationships. The frequency of sexual intercourse among married and unmarried couples is also quite low on a global scale. What is happening? For your information, I am 28 years old and have not had a girlfriend for 10 years.
I have been invited to partake in the services of the sex industry throughout my life, but I have almost always declined. I feel discomfort with acts devoid of love, yet I cannot find love in reality.
The worship of looks and the contentization of sexual love are likely to continue accelerating in the future.
that is so sad. I mean we got hook up culture in the west, but cheating and disloyalty is even worse.
In My country, prostitution has been and wil always be cheating. Not to mention, in here, it's illegal too!
I invite you to islam brother
@@Cjoybellclovescake Anime is mostly made for a younger audience, so yea it's nothing like reality.
Hope you get hidayah, light, the right way from Allah (God). Aamiin
Honey, Im not in the mood, you can order out tonight.
Underrated comment frl
mm hmm Sushi is on the menu
😂😂
LOOOOOOL
😂😂😂😂
"HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME" "Don't worry babe, I paid her" "Oh, okay then"
So funny.😂
Doesnt sound like Japanese honor…
Then again they are hard with misogyny 😳
Weakness
hahaha😂
Lmfao 😂😂😂
I wish more people like you would speak up.
I wanna hear what the men say about their female partners cheating.
Yeah where's the balancing opinion?
It's obviously going to be a double standard...which I'm fine with. Men and women are different, there should be different standards.
@@jamesbuchanan3145if men are allowed to cheat women should be allowed to harem build
@@jamesbuchanan3145men and women are not as different as you think, women where raised different. You just don't like the thought that some some may be a loooot like men, wich is threatening
@@alissaa2809
It isn't threatening. Women in the modern world have simply become destructive to society itself. Men and women are meant to be complimentary, halves of a whole. We have broken homes, crime, addiction, lack of morality, and weak men, and weaker women.
アホに聞いたらアホな答えになる笑笑
I thought it was just cultural
@@jmgonzales7701 No these people don’t represent the majority at all, that’s why these videos are so misleading
@@gabrielcruz9147ce é brasileiro ou japonês ou quer ser japonês
訳さずにコメントが全部分かります😂
ウィーアブー(日本を異常に信仰してる外国人)に向けたチャンネルだと思う
First girl really said "Not like they love those hoes, who cares?" That's cold as hell.
Just realized after my 233rd comment read, that this Comment section is a girl's commentary.😂
But he also doesn’t love her if he needs other girls for pleasure ?
@@roro-si3wy not really? If it's so normalized he's paying other girls for sx not love.
@@ice_plssex is a soul tie regardless what any sex driven maniac says.
@@lesliedenise96no it isnt rofl
As someone who lives in Arkansas most women would skin you alive and feed you to the deer if you hooked up with a prostitute while with them, huge culture shock
How would the men of Arkansas react to their gf/wife going to male prostitute?
@@prankgirl9112pretty much exactly the same as AR dude jus described
@RandoManFPV
Well I'll be sure to never see a male prostitute if dating a guy from Arkansas lol. Or anyone else, that is just gross to me.
@@prankgirl9112you definitely don’t want them Arkansas boys, you can find better in other states. Just poking fun at the Arkansas guys. They’re not all bad.
Imagine being from Arkansas…
The longest and loudest "HUH?!" I've ever let out
Fr
It boggles my mind how people forget we are animals. The vast majority of animals do not practice monogamy. It’s not natural. Spreading one’s seed is an ingrained instinct and yet people’s emotions want to make it personal. I have been in the same relationship for 10 years and have even given my partner permission to cheat (because I want to since one person gets boring no matter who you are), but I somehow ended up with one of the last truly loyal guys on earth. He won’t cheat (and so I can’t either because I know he’d get pissed, and he’s not smart enough to understand my biological instinct argument).
Not the loudest, but I did the "Huh?" too.
Bro what are you doing here? I usually see you in the isle vids comment section 🤣
Fr bro
これはプロパガンダインタビューですね。信じないように
불륜이 많은 나라이긴 합니다
@@user-mr8gb3jo4f한국은 없나요?
@@user-mr8gb3jo4fソースは？そこら辺の信頼も実績もないCZcamsrのインタビュー？
可愛いね〜！
"Babe what's wrong?"
"My prostitute dumped me😭😭"
A prostitute would dump someone over money...and so would a wife ^^
Did you at least get your money back?
having the right to refuse business to anyone.....
" you're fired "
Bro!😂😂😂
@@RansomMemoryAccess Go marry a dude then if you think a wife is so bad 💀
“I would get upset, but it’s still acceptable” she says with a smile. Unreal
Different cultures. Meanwhile in the west is ok to have polyamory relationships
@@h.s.5995Poly relationships are quite uncommon in most western countries though.
@@h.s.5995you mean relationships where they are all consenting? And this is coming from someone who thinks they are dumb asf
@@h.s.5995 in which culture is this OK??? It's only ok for some people, wtf
haha... looks like these days ppl enjoying grp s..x more . it will be normalized oneday too haha. @@angelinaa.5260
As a Japanese woman, I never want be dating with a man who “buys” women. (Sorry if my broken English is not appropriate😅)
don't worry, It is completely understandable
At last a normal women is still around mind those bastard dogs find the one trully to you and both
You're not buying the woman, you're just paying for a service... but, I respect your choice.
Rent is the more appropriate word, and I agree. However, it does seem to be part of the culture, as well as women cheating on their man
Yeah, to an American like me (from admittedly a prudish culture), the opinions of the women interviewed in the clip are shocking.
少数派の声がデカすぎる
w
Not loud enough, the entire world needs to hear!!!
as a japanese women, most of my friends count buying prostitutes as cheating, and feel really betrayed. don't take this video seriously.
They should grow up.
Japanese don't speak to like you
stop talking loser@@freddiesimmons1394
The fact it's only most and not all showcases the cultural aspect this video is highlighting.
Thank you. I was really thinking Japan is weirder than I thought. 😂
"Japan is such a reserved and polite country" vs
"Japan is famous for its prostitution"
Not a contradiction
@Babycake.Please try your vewwy best to explain how prostitution and politeness are contradicting one another
@@freddiesimmons1394 if you get a prostitute while also having a girlfriend, how is that polite to the girl?
@@softerhaze the same way getting ice cream is polite to that girl. The problem is that the girl is having an unreasonable expectation and emotional response to the "ice cream".
What is her rationale for wanting me to be sexually exclusive? Forcing your partner to deprive themselves for you sounds "impolite" to me.
@@freddiesimmons1394 how is getting ice cream in any way comparable to having sex w another girl while in a relationship?? A romantic relationship automatically implies sexual exclusivity, that's literally the bare minimum.. unless you agreed upon polyamory. And wtf u mean by deprive themself, if sex is that important for u then perhaps you should t be in a relationship in the first place
“It’s not considered cheating. We have to support local industry.”
Support small businesses
Ahah😂😂
Workers rights! Lol
😂😂😂
Oral for local
何十人にインタビューして何人が浮気じゃないっていう回答だったんだろう😅印象操作やめてほしいし、風俗は日本ならではの文化とか言わないでほしい。彼氏が風俗行ってたら浮気云々より普通に心に傷負うよ。
男はほぼ全員行ってますよ。
遊び人も真面目な男も嫁や彼女がいても、みーんな隠れて行ってます。
@@SA-zn2hq
97%がいってると思ってるみたいだけどそんなワケないし行く必要がない
君は金使わないとできないの？
じゃあ男より女の方が不倫する確率が高いってデータはどうすんねん…男の方が心に傷負ってるぞ
@@SA-zn2hq あなたの事例を誇大解釈するのは間違ってますね
風俗は単純に気持ち良いんだよ…
プロのテクは凄いんだぞww
でもあのテクを彼女に使われると
イヤなんだよ😅
I don’t think I’ve had a greater cultural shock my entire life
X2 Insane 😂
Absolutely!
No kidding! Sheesh....
😂 me too! This is nuts
Clutching pearls intensifies 😅
The fact that this is just so widely accepted in other cultures is wild.
Nope on my culture
I honestly think it's because the women also cheat even though they won't admit it, so it's fair.
I'm assuming in most atheist countries it is. I guess people just lose a lot of morals.
I think it has to do something with their history with "comfort girls" which was an accepted concept in their society.
I'm in Japan quite often and it's too bad none of the husband's of my Japanese clients feel the same way about gigolos. Lol I'd bet those women interviewed would be hurt, furious and worried if they actually found out their husband was seeing prostitutes. STDS
I lived in Japan for 3 years, this video is clearly “cherrypicked.” Most women, of any nationality, do not want their men seeing prostitutes. There’s the jealously factor and the STD factor.
oh thank god
Good!
Ah! Not so strange then...
How accurate are the subtitles?
I think the video is meant to show that in Japan that this mindset exist for their women. Not so much trying to say that all jap women is ok with this.
これ何人にアンケートとってるんかね
普通に印象操作やめて欲しい
I absolutely did not see this coming
That's what she said!
Ba dum psshh...
😂
Said by every japanese (in 1945).
@@gamingwarrixrthat got dark all of a sudden😅
I did. They marry for money, not love.
Agree I absolutely did not either.
I am Japanese. My experience is that I sometimes went to the Fuzoku with my school classmates and colleagues. However, I believe that using Fuzoku is equivalent to cheating. Only single people should use Fuzoku. Sorry for my poor English.
What is fuzuko ?
@@lolespacio8977 In the video it is called "Prostitution".
Sorry for my poor English. Uses literally perfect grammar you’re doing great keep learning English don’t be shy. (I am an American living in japan)
Your English was fantastic by the way
英語上手
"Go to prostitution if you wanna cheat" kinda blow the whole argument up
Instead of cheating
Go to a prostitute, if you want to cheat.
That's divorce material in America lol
She said, "go to a prostitute if you want to cheat", idiot. They're literally giving their men permission to go to prostitutes. Stop playing the victim
@@bigv6724rightfully so
Where I'm from, cheating is cheating. I've never thought of stepping out of any relationship I'm in. I was taught to be loyal,and faithful to the one I'm with that's why I'm single,was treated poorly in my last relationship
Well that is where u are from. The world is diverse of opinions and different perspectives. Also thisbis asia ur talking about😅😅😅
Cheating being cheating isn;t a line... Personally cheating is defined by the relationship itself, and differs. But also trust and communication are the two biggest foundations of a relationship, and what is said in the video aligns as they say as long as the guy is honest about it. I agree, if it makes someone happy go for it, I support them being happy.
My heart is too fragile for Japanese dating culture 😭😭
You ain't lying..... Mines too😢💔😞
Same as me 😢
are you all women?
Yep agreed
Oh God 😅 with the fact that im single here, there i would be single as a rock
This is the first time I’ve actually been shocked by Japanese culture
Take it you're oblivious to lolis and panties in a vending machine? 🤨
@@carlschultz3970in San Francisco you can buy Meth from a vending machine
Me too
Japan is a very patriarchal country. Not so long ago in the US, Europe and so on this was also the normal situation. Prostitution has always been an institution to make women's bodies available to men without being considered rape (which it actually is). There has to be women available for men. Marrying for love in a somewhat equal relationship is very new. Marriage has always been an institution where men could have women as property and have legally recognized children that are their property too. Wives have been forced to look the other way when their husbands would go to prostitutes and with other women in general... Japan is still like that. And sex exploitation there is a very harsh reality, and if people don't care about it in the West you can see there how much they care in Japan, who is known for being a submissive society who doesn't question the way things are...
@@laclochardprostitution is not rape. Prostitutes with pimps coercing them is rape. Don’t let your snowflake feelings muddy the facts.
this is the biggest culture shock to me and i’m japanese myself 😭
What about your friends? Family? Do you know what they think about it? I honestly couldn't believe so many Japanese women thought it was okay. I wonder if it's a majority opinion.
Might be a Toyko thing
And all the women of color have been shouting this and no one believed us. This is why US men want Japanese and foreign women so badly because they know that they're so docile to the point where they've been brainwashed to think that prostitution and cheating is just normal and to be accepted. Yet let a woman cheat on one of them and they go shoot up a bar and kill multiple people like that one cop did in California last month.
Bruh lol
@@BellicVVery likely. Most capital cities are very weird these days. I am from Berlin, Germany and people here are straight up crazy but not in a good way and people from other german cities have confirmed that too 😂
As a Japanese, this is a cultureshock to me as well
なんか地域によって違うみたいやで
私もカルチャーショックや
でもまあそういう考えもありかもなと思ったり
@@user-pp1nh5zj8nI have no clue of wtf are you saying but I agree my ninja
All of the harems in anime suddenly make sense
Lol why
Because theres no feelings involved, just plot.
@@AntiZer0 yea I follow this overpowered idiot because of circumstances it's not like I like you or anything baka
@bgrego88 bc is Japanese culture duh
@@brenertungano5999 dying population, youths not coupling, they are famous for prostitution and cartoon porn, yes quite centered indeed
This is interesting. Love how the dishonesty would hurt them more than the transactional sex.
This video should be titled "Women in Japan statistically too low-IQ to know Soul Ties exist"
It’s sad so sad.
That was most women before modern feminism, as long as their security and their children's was assured, it was only just irritating and maybe annoying
It makes sense in a way. I knew a swinger couple that was happy banging other people until the wife decided to keep one of her boy toys secret (I think because she developed feelings for him). The lie was the deal breaker in their marriage, and they divorced.
Isn’t that obvious?
"Japan is famous for its prostitution"
First time I heard about that.
I feel like I must of heard at at some point to some degree from the show MASH that Japan was this
They have a huge red light district industry. Just about any sexual act between consenting adults with the exception of vaginal penetration is legal and monetized. Even illegal prostitution is swept under the rug.
@@zero9112 NOO dude, Amsterdam is famouse for its prostitution, prostitution is very regulated at japan, it's even forbbiden openly.
They literally have pride within Geisha tradition...
As a service member who has spent time in Japan, prostitution is huge there and they love to go after military
これが日本の文化的なものだと勘違いして欲しくないんですが。最後の人が言ってた日本ならではの風俗の文化ってなんですか？？？
真っ当な人に聞いたら真っ当な返事が返ってきます。倫理観のおかしい人に聞いたら頭おかしい返事しか返ってこない。どこの国でも同じでしょ
For such a “modest” country, Japan really does some outta pocket shit. *Exhibit A:*
Seriously
It could be argued that this is a result of such a modest culture. Swing far one way and the pendulum swings far in the other
Fr though.....
exhibit B:
Dating services(rent a boyfriend/girlfriend)
Tentacle pron too 😳
Who said they were "modest"?
As an American this was crazy to hear, you won’t hear any of these western women saying that😂
But still they cheat lmao
Prostitution is illegal though unless it's Las Vegas. The government set this norm that it was a bad thing yet a victimless crime. Differentiating from sex trafficking of course. As long as the prostitute is doing it of free will and no coercion or threat then it is a victimless crime and really is nothing bad. It's one of the oldest professions in the world.
Nahhh its worst on America. Theres about 95% bitches on all every women on that country. Just think how they dress compare to japanese women.
I’m American and I’ve been saying this for years
As an American I hear tons of women saying similar things.. and cheating is irrelevant to holding these views or against these views… ggs with the anecdotal evidence and narrative.. btw according to studies men cheat slightly more and FOR LESS.. 💀 so stop lying.. tons of American women AND MEN hold similar views.. Lao either ur lying and don’t live in America or ur pushing a false narrative u’ve convinced urself is true… guess Pew Research is wrong and ur right huh.. entire fields of extensive universities and science institutions doing social sciences are mistaken huh? 52% of Americas across all political spectrums support decriminalizing sex work.. literally 50% with lots of dogmatic religious views are against open relationships.. 33 for it .. the rest no opinion/don’t care one way or another .. so ur objectively false.. 😂 like stop lying.. how u feel and think ppl think is wrong.. majority don’t hold that view.. also according to the research .. because half the country are relitards lot of ppl don’t openly share or want p to think they accept certain things.. this is American.. political divide is insane that most ppl are comfortable sharing their views especially on sex and sexuality.. it’s taboo.. it’s the same reason for decades ppl who where gay where in heterosexual relationships.. we also know main reasons open relationships fail is literally cause of “monogamous” ppl.. majority of fail poly relationships are reported by those ppl the hate and shaming from friends family an coworkers was too much they ended their open or poly relationships for mono ones to avoid the shaming… ONLY HALF the country is against these things.. 😂 I’ll give u benefit of doubt and assume u just by chance live around ppl who dude to relitard societal aspects don’t ring it up.. in y expirence which reflects the data half the ppl DO say these things half don’t… wut rock you live under 💀
'its okay if he pays money', a woman supporting local businesses 👏🏼
100th like
😂😅
finally a decent woman
🤣🤣🤣
it’s insane how men applaud this because the husband is getting pleasure, but get mad at girls who do Only Fans…
Wife, "Have a great time hun. I'll be out shopping spending your other money."
They are all so chill about it. That was a shocker.
just a diferent culture they are more liberal than us
I wonder if Japanese woman tend to be withholding in the bedroom?
It makes sense. And i agree with it lol
@@slvycu wouldn’t mind if ur partner slept with prostitutes?
I think to them it's all about if feelings are involved or not
Imagine in the West: your wife confronting you about cheating and then you respond with «it’s okay honey, I paid for it!» 😂
I can imagine no atomic explosion greater than a western wife reacting to that line
Start putting out and we'll stop looking elsewhere. How fucking hard is that to understand? Put. In. Work.
@@jimmyjon9970yikes buddy. You ok?
@@jimmyjon9970Tf? 💀💀
@@jimmyjon9970oof, bad take dude. You could always just spank the monkey or buy a sex toy, or you know… communicate with your partner/go to couples counseling? Cheating is not the solution to a dead bedroom.
This is genuinely the most shocking thing I've heard in a while.
Bro it should always be like that i mean thats our natural habit
@@sarkro1337 I think most of the world would disagree with that.
@@MGnKntkYonly the west
@@TheLegggend27 Parts of the Middle East kill adulterers.
@@MGnKntkYif your married it’s fine even to multiple wives - but straight up prostitution no 😂.
I think this guy clipped scenes with people who said that prostitution is okay. I'm a Japanese woman but can't believe this video is true. I have never heard women around me and in the internet say like people in this video. I think prostitution is big betrayal.
なんか必死に反対派の日本人がコメントしてるけど、割とこんな女の子多いよ。行って良い悪いじゃなくて、行ったからとて浮気とは見なしてない子が多いのが事実。
Instead of saying “it’s ok honey she’s just a friend” you can now say “it’s ok honey she’s just a prostitute” 😅
😂😂😂
xD
LOOOOL
Wow. 666 likes. Says something…
👿👿👿👿
People who chose to determine what is right/ wrong by themselves will always make mistakes. I’d encourage you (the person reading my comment) to at least read the Bible once. God makes good and evil much more obvious and helps us from falling into sin that will only hurt us in the end.
“I would get upset, but it’s still okay” girl what
Thanks everyone, I know what she meant. I was surprised, not confused.
The culture is fucke-
What she probably meant is I don't like it but it's fine.
FR HUH??
I don’t want this, but my feelings don’t matter
@@Maybehaha755u are no one to say that. U have to understand their perspective instead of keeping a close mind. Try to be open minded and find reasoning and understand someone else's perspective instead of calling their whole culture bad. I mean some culture are bad but u have to try to see it from their perspective too before making a bold statement like that
“Hey honey, I’m going to spend time with some prostitutes.”
“Okay, be back before dinner.”
😂
She only says that because after she's sure you're gone, "THAT MAN" shows up to "pay her a visit!"😏
@@19Pyrus70as long as dinner is ready by time I get back it's all good 😊
@@YSEternal_
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pimpin' yo' Jap wife ta pay fo' side ho' services?
This crazy how they just accept It like IT is normal😢
ほんとに少数派の意見だろ💢
日本の印象悪くさせるの辞めてくれ‼️
Not in a million years would I have thought to ever hear the statement "If he wants to cheat, he should just go to a protitute" like wtffffff
The western world used to have that and still does to an extent.
😂😂😂
@@WarsieI promise you there are zero wives or girlfriends condoning it
@@thedivinefeminine1821 yeah never in my life I've heard normal women saying things like that 😂
@@thedivinefeminine1821 Because they're insecure. He only wants to use her for her body for some fun. If she can't understand the difference between wanting a woman for life companionship, love, intellectual and emotional connection, and mutual unconditional support; and wanting the prostitute just for some mindless pleasure; then she's absolutely just insecure.
As a japanese no one accepts this around me. when the woman say it's ok if it's prostitute, it means she doesn't care much about her bf or husband that's it.
No, maybe you’re just selfish
I worked at japanese company before. Most of japanese went to karaoke everynight, used LC and charged it to company next morning. All of them has a wife, and the wives looks ok with it😂
Im a japanese. and what youre saying is false. We always go to the prostitute if we want to, and the wife will be happy for their husband. We only hire prostitute for companionship.
@@logicalmalethink4925n1gg@ what?!😂😭☠️
@RedHunterOfficial the question, then is why can't you have companionship with your wife?
The fact they say it’s okay with a smiling face gets me the most 😭
I'm pretty sure Japanese people always smile to be polite.
They'd be angry and upset and wanna kill yet still smile and giggle
smiles and giggles don't always come from joy and happiness, but often from awkwardness and being uncomfortable and wanting to conceal negative emotions
prostitutes save marriages with open and honest communication. plenty of marriages where the lady doesn’t want sex anymore or wants it once in a blue moon
No fr the first girl said she’s rather her bf do that then go to random girls… like they are random girls.. not to mention the STDs your bf can bring back to you
風俗は浮気じゃないって意見がこんなに並ぶの初めて見た。
Now could you please ask all the men the same question
Half these men think a saigon whore is the only way their gonna experience love. Oh how sad 😂👍.
this here, i bet the answers will be the total opposite
You know nothing of their culture. If you did you would know why your question is ridiculous.
All the men: “Yeah that hoe better not use another man’s body”
@@tomwhone9804日本は男女平等にもならないしLGBTも受け入れない、だがそれでいい。
If you're going to cheat in a relationship, stay single. Dang Japan.
Since they consider that cheating, all is good.
It's not cheating if your working!👯♀️💃
Facts
It's not cheating if your SO is okay with it and you're honest with them. Then it's just called an open relationship.
You see, Japan agrees with your comment as well because they don't even see paying for prostitutes as cheating
"as long as they dont hide it/dont have feelings" its basically an open relationship with boundaries
Open relationships is simply honest cheating, and the partner accepts these lower standards in their partner, or they think cheating is normal.
@@s.e.e455 or each couple sets their own boundaries between themselves, and cheating is breaking those boundaries?
@@s.e.e455or poly is a thing
@@s.e.e455you don’t have to like non monogamous relationships, but to look down on them and call it cheating when it’s not is just ignorant.
@@peewee139nah it is. From experience only insecure people get into relationships like this. They never last, STDs become a problem, and no matter what anyone says- humans crave monogamous, mutual love. I've been in a few "open relationships" they're not it and destroyed what little sense of self worth I had and gave me extreme trust issues. It essentially is "honest cheating" it's not cool and actually pretty disgusting.
I'm Japanese but I've never met people who have the idea like this😅
友達少ないだけやろ。
She literally said "I would prefer him to have paid sex than talk to girls."
I can understand her logic. He's paying for sex, a quick encounter, and nothing more. But if he talks to a random girl, there's a chance he could become romantically involved and replace his wife with this new girl.
@@triplocore
If you haven't seen men fall in love with prostitutes, you haven't been out much.
@@triplocorewell that is a stupid logic. Sex is not just sex
@@POTTEEEfor most guys, it is.
@@blacktoastmcbiscut8650 You have a problem with text interpretation? I didn't said I agree with this logic, I just explained the logic.
"Honey, we're moving to Japan, and we have to acclimate to their culture and values".
😂
dude die from overwork after 2 months*
Her: I don't like this
You: don't be a bigot, honey
@@finnwinn-tq4ui”it’s for the culture babe it would be rude not to”
@@samuelesanfilippo222fr😂
It sounds like emotional adultery is a no-no, but transactional sex is okay?
Yes! Some people may be nature enough to understand that
Its just messed up, but welcome to asia land of hookers
Sounds about right. They understand biology is a thing.
That's a very female perspective on cheating. For men the physical is paramount. Everything is forgivable up to sexual acts. Then it's over the line.
@@nono7105 thats a very binary perspective on reality. there's no biological nature to what you consider cheating.
It’s a sick world.
Yeah, who would have guessed that telling your partner how to live would get to be so common
@@freddiesimmons1394why are you hardcore defending this ideology? These woman arnt just considerate half of them admitted in some video that they cheat with a prostitute as well. It ain't a one way street.
@@freddiesimmons1394guess what people want to experience love oh that's might sound strange to your fuckbody World and no taking accountability for honering a relationship.
True!
Based on your ideas of monogamy and relationships maybe. Mine too, but Japan is not my culture and if both parties are truly fine with it and that's communicated, who gives a fuck?
*on Japan vacation* “No honey, it’s cool. This is a part of the culture here”
💀
I'm going to Japan and telling the women there "it's okay, it's not cheating if you just pay Me!"
@@RobertTapiaGod speed!
Hahahaha
When in rome 🎉
if a prositute isn’t a random girl then i don’t know what is…
I think they rationalize it as long there is payment then it no longer becomes about it "being a random girl" but when there is service involved then its okay for some reason....
A hired professional
@@mirandawalewska4841They're straight up gaslighting themselves in order to justify why their spouse or significant other doesn't want to spend time with or confide in them. That's some super copium, if you as me. Like, just because they paid money doesn't expunge the fact that they hired a whore to cheer them up or sleep with them when they have a wife or girlfriend; either they need to get better wives/girlfriends, or really take some time to analyze the social flaws in their relationship.
But then again, when your wife is doing mental gymnastics to trick herself into believing it's fine for you sleep with whores cause you paid for them, maybe you're good.
Gotta find the barcode stamped on em somewhere
Americans always want to be the moral police for other culture. You untraveled, uncultured bych.
The more I learn about Japan the more crazy it gets.
Behind all the sparkles and everything we love, there’s always some dark stuff
It’s part of the charm of any country, they all have darker sides
Them two nukes really hit hard
@@juancontreras2711 I don't know if I should be ashamed for laughing at this.
@@juancontreras2711💀i shouldn't have laughed
The more you realise you have a prudish culture.
Some other random YT dude did similar interviews back in the day but he chose random chicks off the streets without even asking first if they were in relationships. I feel that it’s important who they ask and interview because their answers vary depending on whether they’re single or not. Most Japanese women from Japan are single and do not care.
"Japan is famous for it's prostitution"
That is the only slogan the Japanese tourism industry needs.
😂😂😂
I don’t think they want that. Someone else said that brothels do their best to keep foreigners out unless they go all out with the spending.
You do have to show a Willy pic, and if too big they won’t let you in
I thought prostitution is illegal in Japan??
@@lexusleilgomez1911yeah isn't p0rn illegal in Japan.........how is this stuff going on
You can’t talk on the subway, hug someone as a greeting or litter, but you can cheat and go to prostitutes. I don’t get it!
Failed society 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You’re allowed to talk on public transportation, most just don’t because it’s considered rude to stand out and make yourself known. They don’t hug, they bow. That would be like a Japanese person saying oooo they hug, they don’t bow that’s weird. I can see why you don’t get it because you didn’t stop to use your brain at any point while typing your comment out.
Remind me again what’s the divorce rates in your country vs Japan?
They don't see it as cheating tho
Did this guy just say litter?
Passport bros renewing their passports like it’s Black Friday
Sadly most foreigners are not allowed on the rides because they are too big 😂😅
Lol
You got the Philippines as a Plan B 👍
😂😂😂
Not really.
How fucked up the situation has to be that you're ok with your partners cheating for a "decent reason" like companionship with their boss.
Forwarding their business relationships is a reason. So is fun
For companionship? Girl you are his companion wtf? 😭
That was mistranslated actually. They meant when you are accompanying someone, like your boss going to the brothel and inviting you.
@@macurvellothank you, I didn't really get what she meant with the translation
@@macurvello Ah makes sense. Still f*cked tho
Yeah, going with your boss to a brothel was just a whole more shocking level to it for me.
@@jbboyne It's like going for drinks after work. Social gatherings which employees can't get out of because of the work culture. Except in this case what's normalised isn't the booze but the hookers.
I’m so done with relationships.
Me too....
I have been in a very toxic relationship n I'm so fed up that i didn't believe in love anymore
This is literally going to vary from person to person. Don’t let a single tiktok dictate what you do lol
U and the rest of us
@@akagetobimaru1994There’s a difference between lust and love. Maybe whoever you were with was lustful
yo
That woman that was like "well if he sleeps with other women at least make him pay for it" 😹
You know…she has a point. He might be degrading your relationship but at least his pocket is getting degraded in the process.
@@Riyaanreality I just don't get how that's any different from a normal relationship 🫤. Is the girl paying for all the dates and bills otherwise?
Japanese is not selfish, most make their husband a slave, they love expense things. So if some one have to smell his sake breath better be paid the poor women
@@ARandomPerson-- I think what they are saying is if it's with a h00ker than it's just transactional and there's no feelings involved, but if it's a new girl he's talking to he might want her for more than sex and loose feelings for her (gf).
@@ARandomPerson-- No, ideally they're sharing the cost in one way or another. Only traditional and theoretically progressive but hypocritical people _want_ relationships where only the man pays. As a feminist, I believe that neither men nor women nor anyone in general are responsible to pay everything for their partner. I believe in equality. If you're in relationships where you always have to pay, look for an actually progressive woman. She won't want you to pay for everything, but on the other hand you'll have to treat her as an equal and as a human being.
From what I understand they don't see sex as cheating but rather the feelings
I’m a Japanese former sex worker and I didn’t know there are women who are ok with it.
Some customers actually start to develop feeling or attachment to us, so it’s not smart to think there’s no emotional cheating involved.
There are men who feel a lot like women.
Not every guy is completely detached when it comes to be intimate with a woman.
I have seen men who have never been a player type, more like with polar opposite personality, very serious people who are married, fall in love with a sex worker.
I could see they were actually in love and they even said they were soulmates.
It’s kind of dismissive if a wife thinks she’s ok with her husband sleeping with other women.
It’s normalized toxic culture.
Also, remember most guys always try to have sex with us without wearing protection if they think they have a chance.
When it comes to safe sex, men are not trustworthy.
Doesn’t matter if they seem decent or a good person.
We get tested for std regularly but they probably don’t.
If you let your man go to those women, at least make them get tested regularly or it might ruin your health.
I still don’t understand why those women are ok with it though.
Think for yourself more.
Don’t just go along with what’s supposed to be normal.
Edit: Thank you very much for people who gave likes and comments.
I was a sex worker because I had a very difficult childhood which caused me mental+physical illnesses, some of which I got diagnosed, some others doctors couldn’t figure out what was wrong with my body.
My family of origin is toxic (alcoholic dad etc. etc.), so I had to cut off all of them.
Those symptoms got bad when I was a freshman in college, and because of it I couldn’t make any friends or lost all the social circles.
I couldn’t do anything except being depressed, but I needed to make money to survive.
That’s how I got into sex work.
Living on welfare system wasn’t an option at the time for me, because it’s considered very shameful.
Also, they don’t cover my expenses for alternative medicine that I needed to try to figure out how to heal my body.
Doctors couldn’t help me so I had to do it on my own, or the pain was killing me I literally wanted to kill myself.
Somebody in the comment section said I should have excluded married men from my service.
I know what you mean but if we work for escort service type of places in Japan, we usually don’t get to choose customers.
Many of them probably try to lie their marital status anyway if we are to check it.
I did it just to survive.
I didn’t have a choice.
If I had a choice, I would have chosen “right" customers.
I mean, if I had a choice to refuse this kind of job and still had ways to survive+cure my illnesses, I would have.
Maybe I’m a hypocrite.
Maybe I don’t have the right to judge them.
But those women have a choice to walk away from/have a serious talk with their boyfriend/husband and protect their health or find a better relationship.
I was a sex worker but it’s not like I thought it was a normal job or morally right.
I hope you understand.
Edit 2:
Somebody in the comment section said I had a choice.
I understand I did have a choice in a way.
I had a choice of living on welfare while not being able to do anything about my illness, or be a sex worker and suffer in that way but I can try different treatment.
I probably meant I had a choice but all the choices I had sucked and I wanted to kill myself.
Bad choice of words. Sorry.
I meant I didn't have a choice not to suffer.
"Having been a sex worker" doesn't mean I sacrificed my body but had a substantially good life.
I worked only like 7 days a month and got average income to cover my minimal expenses+altanative medicine.
Other days when not working, spent all day on my bed battling physical pain and depression.
I'm 34 now and I'm still trying to improve my condition.
It's been 16 years.
I still suffer from depression and pain in my body.
I'm still on my own.
I still don't know how to get out.
Been meditating a lot because that’s only thing I can distract myself.
"Living on welfare is considered shameful."
You can judge me for not having been able to go against it.
But now I'm on it so I can never be authentic with Japanese.
My mother told me that I should have tried harder when she came to know that I decided to be on welfare.
She knows I even had to be a sex worker to survive until then, and that's the comment I got.
I understand you don't understand because you're probably from different culture but it's devastating to get that kind of reaction even from your own family.
Rest of my family also know my situation and nobody is helping me.
In their mind, people living on welfare=lazy stupid people who didn’t make effort enough.
Even caseworkers clearly despise me but I have to act “submissive” and “obedient” because that’s how we supposed to act or they don’t like it and they try to in some way kick out of the system.
This is how people choose to commit suicide, I think.
I thought about it a lot in the past.
I still sometimes do.
But I lock myself up in my apartment so that I don’t do anything stupid.
When I share my story to people from other countries, many of them are like, “I’m sorry but there’s no way it’s that bad. You’re in Japan.”
But I think our country is pretty famous for having a high suicidal rate?
There are reasons for that.
It's not that we're naturally mentally weak compared to people in the rest of the world.
I think our pain is more emotional and invisible.
We don't have a culture to "speak up" then people support you and make a big social movement and make a change.
An American person suggested me to do something like that in the past, but this is not America.
It can't happen, so people like me try to leave Japan and find a place to belong in somewhere else.
My plan was to leave Japan too after finishing college.
That’s why I leaned English and am able to leave comments like this in English.
I wanted to be an actor in the U.S.
My mental escape as a child was watching movies while being neglected, abused, and bullied so…
Edit 3:
Somebody in the comment section said I can’t judge them because they might not have a choice neither.
I know.
I have lived in this culture as a woman, so I know why they feel that they have to say they are ok with men cheating.
I even said “Maybe I don’t have the right to judge them” but I think I wasn’t really judging in the first place.
Bad choice of words again, I’m sorry.
It was more like, “At least protect your health at all cost girls! It’s not worth ruining your health or staying in an unhappy relationship!” because I can see my younger self in them when I thought going along with the value was the only choice I had.
I didn’t know my worth so I allowed men to walk all over me when I was younger.
I learned it very hard way, I didn’t want them to suffer in the same way.
It was more like an advice from older women to young girls.
English is not my first language after all, and I’m not used to having discussions and arguments with people in English where you have to be precise with words.
I'm sorry for all the confusion.
Edit 4:
Thank you again for everyone who left comments.
I can't individually reply but I'm reading everything.
Even if it's a criticism or an opposing opinion, I think everyone has a point.
It's just that we come from different places and grew up experiencing different things while developing different brain wiring.
People read this comment in their own way and try to come up with their own opinion about this.
They're given very limited information about me or my story, so I'm trying not to take things too personally.
Anyhow, thank you everyone.
Someone said this is the longest comment on CZcams.
Yeah, I agree.🤣
Also, I can see that Japanese people are reading this too and are leaving comments in English.
状況が状況なので、基本は日本の方たちとこの情報をシェアをするのはちょっと怖いんですけど、わかってくださる優しい方々がいるのももちろんわかっています。
読んでくださった方々、ありがとうございます。🙇♀️
9 have ye not known that the unrighteous the reign of God shall not inherit? be not led astray; neither whoremongers, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor sodomites,
10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, the reign of God shall inherit.
11 And certain of you were these! but ye were washed, but ye were sanctified, but ye were declared righteous, in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
Mama, read from the Gospel of John to Revelation. Read Shepherd of Hermas, C S Lewis's Great Divorce and Problem of Pain. The truth will set you free. Come back to the Creator who made you.
the irony that so many men here tryna justify the girls mindset for the sake of "different culture" but a former sex worker yourself thinks how very naive it sounded 😂 i think you got the point, they are not very smart.
How often were the services just hand jobs
Thank you for your input!
What were your rates tho?
Plot twist: this is a conversation about makeup and someone made up all the subtitles to get you to move to Japan 😂
I know you're joking but no, that's exactly what's they're saying.
LOL
@@vkak1 You speak fluent Japanese?
Yeah I can confirm, love me some yujo and joro. Or kuruwa geisha ❤❤
i'm already on the plane, damn..
they looked at him like " of course it's not cheating" 😂
and they wonder why they have a declining birth rate 😂
It’s disgusting. I prefer being single and safe than to have a partner that sleeps around 🤮🤮
How funny would it be if they all said, "yes prostitution is cheating..." but the translator just really wanted his wife to be cool with prostitution 😂
Or he interviewed 100 people and only showed the one's ok with it. Or the people he interviewed were the prostitutes.
They probably interviewed many more people than this then cherry picked the sauciest ones.
LOLLL
Well now we need someone who speaks Japanese to confirm what was said 😂
@@R3GARnator Japan is still very weird regarding cheating in relationships though. It's a different culture
"Sorry im late honey, was just at the prostitutes again, how was your day?"
😂😂 mind blowing
I can imagine their daily conversations like this 😂😂😂
Not only his mind that's been ' blowed '.
@@celianeher7637 🤣🤣😅😅
😂😂
@celianeher7637 All 2 inches baby! 😂😂😂
i’ve never felt culture shock like this 😅
@@untitledmisoumost Americans think that’s wack
@@untitledmisouyou are acting like that is the dominant culture of the US
@@kelechi_77 course it isn't never said it was. personally i think both are a bit strange but idc what others wanna do
@@untitledmisouthat's not cultural American nor normal maybe Jewish
You really thought anime is reality 😂 that's far away from reality
皆そんな寛容なの⁈風俗とかキャバでしか上司とコミュニケーションとれないならそれはそれで終わってる。
So basically, "Have your fun but *this* is your relationship and you must return to it.".
It's because women stop having sex with their husband once they have a child. And of course, they also start visiting male prostitutes or even cheating with other married men, foreigners, etc.
Is that ntr, cuckhold, or both
@@Sheenifier unofficial open relationship?
@@Sheenifierntr?
@@Sheenifier I think it depends on if the dude watches, and if he does, whether he likes it or not. Otherwise, I'd say it's an open relationship.
“I’d rather they go to a prostitute than talk to random girls.”
Wait… is a prostitute not a random girl?
they don’t see prostitutes as real people
No. Sex-Workers pay more attention to their personal health and safety. Hygiene is paramount and when I worked legally, all clients have STD checks under a bright light prior to sexuality contact (and a shower, obviously) Sex-Workers have regular blood tests, use Condoms, etc.... Random girls on a night out are not nearly as clean as Nd safe as a sex worker!
@@MsTtillyu can't legally pay to have sex
@@MsTtilly “Prostitution” covers more than an “official” registration as one. Anybody can ask someone to pay them for sex, whether or not they’re part of whatever “legal” screening program you’ve referenced. If an 18 year old in college posts a message on Snapchat and says “hey, I’ll sleep with people for $100,” that’s prostitution. By definition. Prostitution covers any paid sex act of any scale, regardless of whether those people have been tested or use condoms or whatnot. Prostitution is prostitution, and engaging in it regardless of preparation will have a higher risk of STDs. I’m not endorsing going out to have random flings at the bar either. My only point was that prostitutes are as much people as anybody else. To say otherwise would only dehumanize them into objects. If that’s what a prostitute wants to be, far be it from me to control their life, but the fact remains they are still a person, and in the context of paying someone for an anonymous sexual encounter, they’re almost certainly random as well.
Not much talking involved
Respect for the one girl who went against the grain.
Mad respect, especially bc japans known for being a culture that punishes outcasts
True.
@@theofficialrafff Like dumb foreigners.
So true
I'm not saying that they are like that, but data has been released in the past that suggests there are more women in Japan who have worked temporarily in the sex industry than people would imagine. If you or a friend has worked in that profession, it's hard to deny it. It's also not uncommon to hear stories of infidelity and infidelity from both men and women close to you. In a way, there may be a sense of fairness in Japan.
Passport bros: "im leaving to other countries for more traditional women"
The women:
Well they are more traditional women...
Traditionally rich men have wives and concubines
@@KARMAFORFUN Ironically even with them allowing cheating
@@KARMAFORFUNHow is sleeping with a prostitute traditional? You could argue polyamory is traditional cus we used to do it thousands of years ago 😂
@@Arvak777 you clearly didn't pay attention to the video we are talking about traditional women too there was nothing about prostitutes in this conversation pay attention next time before embarrassing yourself
It's like saying " honey you can physically cheat me but you can't emotionally cheat me" .
I mean… most marriages that are for looks end up crashing and burning as soon as a wrinkle sets in.
Also most people that have intercourse with their partner usually try to leave them fully satisfied. You darn well that dude is jack hammering for 30 seconds on the prostitute and then leaving. No connection. No care. Just wants to feel good and dip.
This is also why Japanese marriage and relationships last longer. If they want a quick one night stand. They can hire a prostitute. No need to fake it just sleep with someone and ghost them.
I’m serious. There are people in the west that will date someone for 2 months just to sleep with them, and then a week or 2 later the relationship falls apart.
My partner and I are in long distance, we have this agreement. All love, atenttion and time to each other, if they want to have sex, they can go and do it. Just not hide it and be thruthful and safe.
Well, for me could be easier to forgive a 1 night stand of sex, than 1 month of text/calls with hot content and no phisical interaction
That's really is a women thing to do
Sometimes its both and you wonder where you messed up and weither or not you should've been worried about the "guy friend" from the beginning
Went to Japan recently. Everything's happy-go-lucky on the surface but delve a little deeper and I swear I got second-hand depression.
the sexualization of children makes me want to die
If you look into their politics a bit and start to pull back the veneer of success... things get dark pretty fast.
And they are still considered the most developed country on Earth and apperently aliens will make contact with them first. Maybe the most behaved, domesticated
It's the downside of collectivists nations. Japan is no better than the West, just different.
Yuuuuup!! Be true people, be true.