Rebecca Doig is 31, Pregnant and has Alzheimer's

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  • čas přidán 2. 03. 2010
  • Rebecca Doig is 31, Pregnant and has Alzheimer's

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  • @pamnamisniak3158
    @pamnamisniak3158 Před 4 lety +2739

    Alzheimer’s is not discriminating. It is the cruelest disease ever.

    • @Mucho-Taco
      @Mucho-Taco Před 4 lety +16

      No disease is discriminatory. Name one this?

    • @Chloxoxoxoxo
      @Chloxoxoxoxo Před 4 lety +72

      Mucho Taco it’s just a saying. People say it referring to many diseases and illnesses. It’s just a reminder to those of us who are fortunate enough to have our health that any one of us can fall ill and we have to be thankful. It’s a good figure of speech to remind us how we are all human and shouldn’t take our health for granted!

    • @Mucho-Taco
      @Mucho-Taco Před 4 lety +3

      @@Chloxoxoxoxo never heard of that saying🙃

    • @allisongarrett4824
      @allisongarrett4824 Před 4 lety +13

      I agree. It took my grandma away from us way too soon.

    • @ukmedicfrcs
      @ukmedicfrcs Před 4 lety +19

      Unfortunately there are many many diseases that are worse.

  • @anthonysantiago1651
    @anthonysantiago1651 Před rokem +1221

    My girlfriend who is the love of my life is dying from early onset alzheimers. She has a rare genetic trait. Her father died when he was 36. She is 33 and can barely talk or walk. This is all been unbearable. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Whole-Milk
      @Whole-Milk Před rokem +74

      I’m so so sorry. I wish I had something better to say. Please try your best to look after your health through this, and don’t be afraid to find support you can lean on. Sending you love 💗

    • @noongourfain
      @noongourfain Před rokem +30

      Hang in there friend.

    • @inestorres6789
      @inestorres6789 Před rokem +17

      Gracias por contarnos tu historia.
      Mucha fuerza, recuerda los momentos felices vividos con ella !!!
      Ponle la música que a ella le guste !!!! Eso ayuda mucho !!!
      Saludos desde Uruguay 🇺🇾.

    • @liathegreat1
      @liathegreat1 Před rokem +23

      I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I hope she feels at peace and experiences only happiness. I’m a scientist studying Alzheimer’s, do you mind sharing which genetic mutation she has? Is it an APP mutation?

    • @triciac1019
      @triciac1019 Před rokem +10

      Oh I am so sorry!

  • @henrysmom1742
    @henrysmom1742 Před rokem +161

    I was a hospice nurse and once cared for a beautiful man, age 46 with Alzheimer’s. He was diagnosed at 43 with two very small children. It was heartbreaking to see his rapid decline. Rebecca’s husband was so loving and devoted that I am sure he is a great Dad to their daughter.

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 Před 9 měsíci

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @dianajohnston3042
    @dianajohnston3042 Před 2 lety +342

    My grandma who raised me had Alzheimer's... it was hands down the most gut ripping pain both she and I endured. My grandma would cry asking God what she did to deserve it... the day of my wedding..my husband and I live 2.5 hours away from where my grandparents lived....she couldn't travel so we took our wedding to her...it was the last day she knew my name. My heart goes out to this family. This is years later, but I hope she is at peace. I wouldn't wish Alzheimer's on my worst enemy

    • @darrylg3861
      @darrylg3861 Před 2 lety +24

      You took your wedding to her. That was so kind and sweet of you. She raised you well!

    • @msjackson6131
      @msjackson6131 Před 2 lety +2

      🥰

    • @DefiantAngel87
      @DefiantAngel87 Před 2 lety +5

      So touching. I'm so deeply sorry

    • @sammynox
      @sammynox Před rokem +9

      My grandma had it too. It was heartbreaking 😢. I loved her so much and miss her every day

    • @kimgeorge9596
      @kimgeorge9596 Před 3 měsíci +1

      My Sister got it at 30 and passed at 35
      Left behind 4 kids
      2 never knew her, too young
      Hers was genetic
      Traced to the Volga River Germans in Russia
      Large study on them at UofW found the genetic defect in her
      Died 4/4/94

  • @1900maniac
    @1900maniac Před 8 lety +3006

    "Mom and I will manage... no trouble."
    What a guy

    • @BenMaxwell37
      @BenMaxwell37 Před 8 lety +129

      That is Love.

    • @Fleurbunny
      @Fleurbunny Před 7 lety +70

      1900maniac that is precisely where I broke. I had to go back and watch it again, crying even more the second time. So sad to know that her little girl will never know her. The disease progressed so quickly. I hope her family find peace in the eyes of the little one.

    • @stillirise9705
      @stillirise9705 Před 7 lety +33

      love- those are the ties that bind

    • @mjade1673
      @mjade1673 Před 7 lety

      U guys are funny 😅

    • @mjade1673
      @mjade1673 Před 7 lety +1

      love would have prevented, period. imho

  • @community1949
    @community1949 Před 4 lety +1840

    It's bad enough to get Alzheimer's in your 70's or 80's but to get it as young as this girl is and pregnant too is just horrible.

    • @quasimobius
      @quasimobius Před 4 lety +32

      This really hits home as a mother I expected that anything like Alzhiemrs would, possibly, strike me first, before my children. Instead of the "natural order" of the older generation ailing and dying first, my oldest daughter is showing early signs, weirdly, coincidentally less than a year of a 23&me test telling her that she's genetically prone to get the disease. This has caught me off guard since we've never had an older relative suffer from senility, not even into their eighties. Not on my side of the family anyway. They've all died from heart attacks and strokes.
      My daughter's memory and impulse control is failing and she looks at me like she doesn't know me.

    • @zinnia3684
      @zinnia3684 Před 4 lety +8

      Nancy Desch I cant help but think, like autism, there is a connection to vaccines. The stats are outrageous. Not where they don’t have the vaccines though.

    • @torchyswinson7264
      @torchyswinson7264 Před 4 lety +13

      Nancy Desch my husband was 84 when he passed from Alzheimer’s and had been suffering for about 5 years. This is much more dreadfully sad. Sooo much worse.

    • @zinnia3684
      @zinnia3684 Před 4 lety +5

      keith cunningham there are many people who would argue that with you but you do sound so sure of yourself that I’m betting your a right fighter, so I won’t bother. I will give you this to chew on . I worked in long term care with Alzheimer’s patients and my mom was having a assessment for care. It was at the time when the problem seemed to be pushed front and centre. Healthcare was pleading with the gov.
      For funding so they could expand the level of care and research. I was at the assessment and she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and lived a further 15 years with no indication other than some memory loss. She was 95. My point is the system comes up with goals and then manipulated the population. Science is a continually changing study, not stagnant. Sugar is poison, so is processed foods, drugs, and
      HMO’s. Vaccines are dangerous. Check out Dr. John Berg he detoxifies people and works with the human body’s miraculous way of healing itself.

    • @zinnia3684
      @zinnia3684 Před 4 lety +5

      keith cunningham right about the time of ramped up vaccines. Check out Dr John Berg on utube He detoxifies poisoned children.

  • @Trilling0Fong
    @Trilling0Fong Před rokem +258

    I know this is years and years ago and Rebecca has since passed but I was seriously moved by how caring, observant, loving, respectful and just downright incredible the husband is. Truely an incredible human and I hope this family is doing well despite their immeasurable loss

    • @gamayun1224
      @gamayun1224 Před rokem +17

      Yes, I was struck by that too. A very loving man.

    • @ceceliamathews7190
      @ceceliamathews7190 Před rokem +10

      💔💔💔😢🙏✝️💞2023

    • @meaningoftheunicorn
      @meaningoftheunicorn Před 9 měsíci +25

      He got her pregnant after her mind was slipping to that extent... How could she consent? Not to mention their child is probably at high risk of having the same disease. I would have made different choices. Just saying.

    • @katvtay
      @katvtay Před 9 měsíci +31

      @@meaningoftheunicornThank goodness the daughter tested negative.

    • @kvall4088
      @kvall4088 Před 9 měsíci

      @@meaningoftheunicornAre you a complete oblivious AHole all the time? Or just cowardly & anonymously on the internet? Just asking.

  • @lynseyw1061
    @lynseyw1061 Před 3 lety +337

    What a disgusting system when you have to separate to get financial help!

    • @talkingtina4519
      @talkingtina4519 Před 3 lety +16

      That’s horrible, while there are thousands of people cheating the same system.

    • @NOTRUMPZONE
      @NOTRUMPZONE Před 3 lety +8

      What a disgusting justice system who will let white police walk FREE after murdering unarmed BLACKS despite all the evidence.....

    • @NOTRUMPZONE
      @NOTRUMPZONE Před 3 lety +1

      @Elisson Dormezil well IM TALKING ABOUT IT.....Your point? 😂 Don't bother replying. You're blocked and muted 🤣😂 next in line. No lines. No waiting

    • @antjobert
      @antjobert Před 3 lety +13

      Now imagine they lived in the USA with its broken for-profit healthcare system. It'd be a hundred times harder.

    • @timburke4837
      @timburke4837 Před 3 lety +3

      Hey but it’s national health care!

  • @ddramos7997
    @ddramos7997 Před 8 lety +5038

    How sad and horribly tragic. She died just a little over a year later, in July of 2011. She was only 32, and her baby was only 15 months old at the time. May she rest in peace.

    • @commenter7893
      @commenter7893 Před 8 lety +397

      i often ponder and get scared about how tragic life can become....

    • @ddramos7997
      @ddramos7997 Před 8 lety +268

      commenter78 I guess that's natural, but there's no point in pondering these things too much. Just enjoy the life you have while you have it. That way, you'll have no regrets. Of course, I don't mean "don't care" about them. I definitely have a lot of empathy for those who suffer these tragedies. But there's no point in thinking about them too much. Just my 2 cents.

    • @SlimeDawgy
      @SlimeDawgy Před 6 lety +59

      How did she die?

    • @maviswilliams9322
      @maviswilliams9322 Před 6 lety +14

      MG888 888 MG888 Oh she died ?

    • @MsDoxma
      @MsDoxma Před 6 lety +64

      AND ISN'T THAT JUST DANDY FOR THE BABY? That fucking moron got her pregnant, having NO compassion for a motherless child. He should have been arrested. Absolutely no morals!

  • @ChristinaMayoAR
    @ChristinaMayoAR Před 7 lety +1592

    That dad is priceless. I love him and he isn't even mine.

    • @billwilson5341
      @billwilson5341 Před 7 lety +40

      The dad, the mom and the husband. What a team!

    • @tilday
      @tilday Před 7 lety +41

      it's a beautiful thing to see a dad like that :)

    • @shaneluke346
      @shaneluke346 Před 7 lety +8

      This story sounds VERY SAD

    • @momthree789
      @momthree789 Před 6 lety +39

      How many men would stick around and be that loving...not many.

    • @karenkaneshiro9861
      @karenkaneshiro9861 Před 6 lety +72

      A dear friend's wife was diagnosed in her 40's, & her husband was about the same age. My heart melted to see him, once she could no longer manage at home, come every single day to the nursing home where I worked. He stayed for hours with her, and walked her with a 'gait belt' until she could no longer be supported. For the last year or so of her life she lost the ability to speak, but never lost the beaming, loving smile she had for him whenever he came to see her! He patiently fed her, and helped the nurses dress her & otherwise care for her. Eventually she could not swallow, and had to be fed with a g-tube. Her husband never ever abandoned her for even one day. The love was heart-breaking & precious.

  • @lovetolearn881
    @lovetolearn881 Před 2 lety +141

    One of my best friends lost her teenage son and started loosing her memory almost immediately. She was 51. At first we were told it was severe depression, understandable, but within a year she was no longer able to do simple math. It is 9 years later now and she is entering the later stages of Alzheimers. Luckily she has a boyfriend that loves her. Caring for her and working to make money to pay their bills which include the huge expense of caretakers is his life as he does not want to put her in care. The doctors have finally admitted what we suspected all along that her Alzheimers was trauma induced. There is no one in her family with it and her grandparents lived into their 90s. The only good thing that has come with these later stages is that she no longer cries every day for her son. The long tragedy of it all has been so heartbreaking to watch. All I can do is be there for her until the end.

    • @evakal9293
      @evakal9293 Před 2 lety +10

      How sad and cruel😔life can be.

    • @melindabarrios2176
      @melindabarrios2176 Před 2 lety +11

      I have never heard of trauma induced Alzheimer's. Alzheimers disease you physically die from. Brain cells literally die. Dementia you don't die from and you can have it for years. My Grammy had Alzheimer's, her son, my dad had it as well. I take after them. I now do crossword puzzles daily. I don't know if it helps but it can't hurt.

    • @ineedhoez
      @ineedhoez Před rokem +2

      Water fasting. The brain can regenerate.

    • @peachaesthxtic23
      @peachaesthxtic23 Před rokem

      @@ineedhoez what is it?

    • @leighmac7696
      @leighmac7696 Před rokem +6

      @@melindabarrios2176 sorry about your family..that's rough. I do have to say that Alzheimers is just a type of dementia so you do die of dementia..there are many different types and most you die from eventually..the only ones is maybe a temporary dementia due to alcohol or an illness.

  • @thedustiev1
    @thedustiev1 Před 3 lety +391

    Having lost my partner at 44 I know how cruel diseases are but I think Alzheimer's is by far one of the cruelest. This broke my heart how she had everything to look forward to & it was cruelly ripped away from her & her husband. Rest in peace 🙏

    • @maam-yj8ph
      @maam-yj8ph Před 2 lety +9

      I think Alzheimer's disease is the hardest disease for the family and caregivers. A disease like severe cases of multiple sclerosis is worse for the patients because they are trapped in their bodies but still have their conscious minds and as such are in constant torment.

    • @DefiantAngel87
      @DefiantAngel87 Před 2 lety +3

      I'm so deeply sorry

    • @johnmcquade7201
      @johnmcquade7201 Před rokem

      @@maam-yj8ph Mary Miller what's your point ???? I am going to be rude now ... In Every Bunch of Roses there is a PRICK and you a that .... :-)

    • @lindak990
      @lindak990 Před rokem

      ALS and Alzheimers

  • @STHFGDBY
    @STHFGDBY Před 5 lety +588

    Shameful government that offers no financial aid for this family. Shame on them.

    • @margarethensley7107
      @margarethensley7107 Před 4 lety +28

      But let's give a mother who has 19 kids help but not this poor soul.

    • @domoisawsome123
      @domoisawsome123 Před 4 lety +4

      @captain_ahab brown people bad

    • @happyliving1922
      @happyliving1922 Před 4 lety +12

      @captain_ahab Nobody asked you Nazi pricks for your opinions.

    • @happyliving1922
      @happyliving1922 Před 4 lety +2

      @@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 It's "their" you stupid idiot

    • @harry9392
      @harry9392 Před 4 lety +13

      If they were asylum seekers they would get money, the system is wrong.

  • @razagilani
    @razagilani Před 3 lety +1446

    I just saw this video, many years after this poor lady passed away. I would like to offer my belated condolences to her husband and parent's. I hope she went to a beautiful place.

  • @joeestes8114
    @joeestes8114 Před 3 lety +17

    My mother just passed away, she had Alzheimer's and towards the end she didn't know me. Its a heartbreaking disease.

  • @dejamesola
    @dejamesola Před 3 lety +27

    This is heartbreaking!!! Yet, she's fortunate for having such a strong support system!!

  • @karenkaneshiro9861
    @karenkaneshiro9861 Před 6 lety +2518

    She passed away in Sydney, Australia. She was not very ill & had not received a diagnosis when having scans for her pregnancy. Her birth was by C-section, and she does did not remember the birth nor was she able to interact with her child at all until she died. Her illness was a very rare form of a genetic illness, with a swift decline. I believe her child was tested in utero, and does not carry the gene. It was an atypical but tragic illness. Thankfully the remaining family appears very close and supportive...wonderful people.

    • @lindawilliams7519
      @lindawilliams7519 Před 5 lety +38

      Karen Kaneshiro I wonder if it was a neurodegenerative disease like Batten's.

    • @wendypekrul9957
      @wendypekrul9957 Před 5 lety +64

      i posted my comment about the disease before i read your comment, yes im glad to hear the family stayed close and faired this horriable disease, i know how hard it is in old people, the fact she was just starting life makes it so much harder for people to take thank you for the up date,

    • @johnnyice256
      @johnnyice256 Před 5 lety +71

      @@RichardClark-hw6ic Just poor sentence structure i think.

    • @gloriadorlich2878
      @gloriadorlich2878 Před 5 lety +322

      @@RichardClark-hw6ic
      I don't think we need the Grammar police. 😤

    • @prettygurlbounce90
      @prettygurlbounce90 Před 5 lety +19

      Gloria Dorlich 😂

  • @snowflakemelter1172
    @snowflakemelter1172 Před 4 lety +628

    She was loved to bits by her family and that's the best care she could have.

  • @catherineb5066
    @catherineb5066 Před 3 lety +211

    I feel for them.my hubby has Parkinsons with probable Lewy body...he fades ..we have no family..our friends 1000 miles away with their own lives..I lift 265 pounds of love each day into his wheelchair
    .each day I pray for strength.and patience 🙏💝🕊💪

    • @marywilkinson5937
      @marywilkinson5937 Před 3 lety +6

      Prayers for you and your husband. This awful disease took my father.🙏🏻

    • @jackiehealy6114
      @jackiehealy6114 Před 3 lety +6

      God bless you! You always do amazing, remember that god is always there when you can’t be ❤️

    • @henrychu6928
      @henrychu6928 Před 3 lety +6

      God give you strength and you are a loyal and caring person...this is meaning of true love and sacrifice..your husband is worth it..never doubt that ever..

    • @luckdragongirl
      @luckdragongirl Před 3 lety +3

      My great uncle just went into hospice 3 days ago. He's had Parkinson's for years. Terrible disease. My mom died from ovarian cancer in 2017. I was her sole caretaker. It's exhausting. The physical is bad, but the emotional and mental toll is worse. It's just sad. I pray that you'll find the strength, patience, and have some support somehow.

    • @catherineb5066
      @catherineb5066 Před 3 lety

      @@luckdragongirl 💝🙏🕊

  • @Marasovsbuttcheeksareblu
    @Marasovsbuttcheeksareblu Před rokem +23

    She is so lucky to have a set of parent and a husband that are soooo loving and caring

  • @tbh_thebrand
    @tbh_thebrand Před 4 lety +677

    God bless that man... because he loves his wife

  • @deborahhavens1959
    @deborahhavens1959 Před 6 lety +2284

    I hope no one minds if I post a poem I wrote for my sweetheart, Bill. We found out about a year ago that he has Alzheimer's. It has devastated me. I am 58 and he is 75. I can't imagine my life without him.i thought it was a slow disease. It's not true. If anyone is angry that I posted this poem, I will remove.
    Thirty three more
    Tears fall silently on my pillow;
    I choke back the sobs.
    This man lying beside me sleeping peacefully;
    Unaware of my utter despair.
    You promised me thirty three more years.
    Stay with me my love; I am not ready.
    I am frightened of the grim time ahead.
    This thief called dementia
    Robs my love of our precious memories.
    How long will you remember our times together?
    How long will you see me?
    Why do they call it Sundowners?
    That seems like something wonderful and idyllic; not a robber of our sweet evenings together.
    But I will take them just to be with you.
    My friend, my lover, my confidant, my everything.
    You have given me the best years of my life.
    I will give to you my patience, my kindness and my unswerving love.
    I will gently guide you and walk with you.
    I will laugh with you, cry with you, and pray with you.
    For better for worse
    For richer for poorer
    In sickness and health
    Bound together by this thing called love
    For thirty three more years;.
    Author: Deborah Overbey
    Written for the love of my life!

    • @taviaa.66
      @taviaa.66 Před 6 lety +105

      Deborah Overbey it's beautiful bless you and your family.

    • @aoc092
      @aoc092 Před 6 lety +67

      Deborah Overbey, Such beautiful words to express love that transends.

    • @europianbob
      @europianbob Před 6 lety +47

      Deborah Overbey. Im here for you. My grandma had it and it was horrible. I can still remember her moans and howls. =/ I hope things get better for you, love! ♡

    • @deborahhavens1959
      @deborahhavens1959 Před 6 lety +43

      Miss Amber thank you so much! I remember my grandmother so fondly. She too had Alzheimer's. It is different when it is the man you love and have loved for over half your life.

    • @treyboy27
      @treyboy27 Před 6 lety +17

      Deborah Overbey wow

  • @moxievintage1390
    @moxievintage1390 Před 2 lety +255

    As a clinician I’ve worked with several early onset patients in the early 90s. However, the youngest was a 50 year old female. I can’t imagine having a patient as young as the lovely woman featured here, suffering an incredibly rare and destructive condition.
    It’s almost a blessing, and I feel terrible saying this, but the younger a patient is when diagnosed, the faster the decline and subsequent death.
    I worked for over 25 years across the Western US, developing programs and designing medical communities. This included educating staff and families in hospitals, assisted living communities, nursing homes, etc.
    The suffering of the families was heartbreaking- while the patient themselves is soon unaware of their deficits, the family is left living with merely a shadow of their loved one’s former self.
    It’s very common for families to try to “correct” the patients disorientation….so if Dad goes and sits on the porch, and says he’s waiting for the bus, *instead* of saying “OH DAD DON’T BE SILLY, there is no bus coming”……just GO WITH IT. Ask what route he’s taking, or if he has enough change. Wherever the conversation goes, you go there too.
    MANY people will instinctually correct the patient, repeatedly. This can be very distressing for the patient. They are simply not going to be able to follow what’s being said, and they will likely feel uncomfortable. Whereas acknowledging their “plans” is in fact, very comforting……
    Love and condolences to all who have suffered…… 💔❤️‍🩹

    • @ashleydixon4613
      @ashleydixon4613 Před 2 lety +17

      My parents, ages 80 and 89, both have vascular dementia in the moderate stages. I’m slowly but surely having to learn not to “correct” everything anymore unless I really have to, such as for my dad‘s safety in the kitchen.

    • @frodobeutlin1066
      @frodobeutlin1066 Před 2 lety +3

      Very wise comment 🙏

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 Před 2 lety

      Dementia and Alzheimers is caused by malnutrition. Polyphenols found in olives, peanuts, eggs, avocados, grapeseed oil, avocado oil, olive oil, peanut oil for frying. Polyphenols are an essential nutrient that reverses brain damage.
      Manufacturers and restaurants have been ignoring the nutrition experts for decades.

    • @moxievintage1390
      @moxievintage1390 Před 2 lety +5

      @@ashleydixon4613 do the best you can, but definitely time for more support once the kitchen chores become a safety issue. Your father will eventually not be able to retain verbal safety instructions. You might consider posting laminated signs with short concise instructions. You may want to contact your local Alzheimer’s association (yes I understand your folks are dealing with a vascular dementia) and see if they have someone or can recommend someone, to come to your parents home to do an independent safety evaluation. The trick can be making decisions that are proactive rather than reactive. I know it can’t be easy, and I am so sorry. There are MANY housing options for your parents these days, where they can remain in a home like setting, that is safe and subtly structured. 💔❤️‍🩹

    • @moxievintage1390
      @moxievintage1390 Před 2 lety +3

      @@frodobeutlin1066 thank you 🥰

  • @marksark1119
    @marksark1119 Před 2 lety +42

    My parents suffered from the Alzheimer's and died from it in their early 80s. But to see teens and young adults like Rebecca suffering from the affliction is heartbreaking. Young people just starting out on life's adventures and then coming upon a roadblock with no detour. It's a damned shame.

  • @gemmawatson1879
    @gemmawatson1879 Před 5 lety +413

    Nothing on CZcams has ever made me cry, until this! I am 32 now and this just breaks my heart!! Her parents and husband are amazing people. 💞

    • @IamXenorex
      @IamXenorex Před 4 lety +14

      My girlfriend also has Alzheimer please pray for her 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @brendaharley3252
      @brendaharley3252 Před 2 lety

      She.will not.be.A B I e.to.have A R e L A T I.O N S H is.with.the.C H I.L d.

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 Před 2 lety +2

      @@IamXenorex What's her name and how is she Sayan?

    • @cindyj5522
      @cindyj5522 Před 2 lety

      Oh indeed. Talking over her and speaking for her and telling everyone who she is and what a horrible pain in the ass her situation is for them. What about the life she is losing? What about her thoughts and feelings? That she was showing symptoms two years ago and that husband STILL failed to protect her from pregnancy. Total jerks, husband AND father. Like she is a pedigreed animal that failed to perform.

    • @emilydoig5906
      @emilydoig5906 Před rokem +5

      Well hello it’s me the daughter Emily doig this was my mother Thankyou for this it really makes me happy ❤❤

  • @jong8775
    @jong8775 Před 5 lety +274

    Rebecca's parents are the sweetest.

  • @ryanrodriguez7911
    @ryanrodriguez7911 Před 3 lety +106

    Their little girl should be 10 years old now. I hope she and her dad are doing well

  • @GrannyJB
    @GrannyJB Před 3 lety +47

    I can’t stop crying. This is the saddest thing I have seen in such a very long time. She is so young and precious and seems so innocent, like a child. God bless her family. 😥

  • @sarahsherwood217
    @sarahsherwood217 Před 5 lety +1000

    What a kind, wonderful husband.

    • @ericamae7287
      @ericamae7287 Před 4 lety +28

      He's selfish he should never have
      got her pregnant

    • @iamart8751
      @iamart8751 Před 4 lety +11

      Erica Mae You’re parents are more selfish. They should’ve never brought you to this world. What a waste of space.

    • @mluna9cr
      @mluna9cr Před 4 lety +1

      @@ericamae7287He was horny. You can't judge

    • @maxalberts85
      @maxalberts85 Před 4 lety +13

      @@ericamae7287 Moron. No one knew she was ill when she became pregnant. Illiterate fuck.

    • @ericamae7287
      @ericamae7287 Před 4 lety +3

      @@maxalberts85 😂😂😂😂illerate, fuck off

  • @bubbabitty5438
    @bubbabitty5438 Před 7 lety +836

    That's a real man alright

    • @adamwebbartistwriterwebb7760
      @adamwebbartistwriterwebb7760 Před 6 lety +5

      Bubba bitty instead of puttlng money aside for Brexit, they want to put money into trylng to stop this and other heath issues.
      The bravest,strongest woman ever.

    • @stephanieboond5082
      @stephanieboond5082 Před 6 lety +3

      Bubba bitty never a truer word has been spoken, well said. That is surely what a TRUE man is. NOT many men would of stood by her. God love them all.

    • @nowvoyagerNE
      @nowvoyagerNE Před 6 lety +17

      yeah...a real man...who impregnated a woman who has been showing signs of a neurological problem for TWO YEARS! she can't give consent to sex or getting pregnant. yeah...that's a real man all right!

    • @molly557
      @molly557 Před 6 lety +9

      nowvoyagerNE you idiot she was already pregnant when she was diagnosed.

    • @kiara198923
      @kiara198923 Před 5 lety +1

      A true stand up family

  • @Reggae_Bubbles
    @Reggae_Bubbles Před 3 lety +59

    I am almost 50 years old and I was shocked that any man would stick by their spouse in this situation. It was almost like I was watching people on another planet. I've watched family members get ill and my family and everybody leaves them and they die alone. I never really believed that anybody would ever help a family member in this situation . It made me realize that maybe it's just my family that doesn't have love for one another and that other people's families wouldn't do that to each other this was a wonderful story to see how other people can have normal,honest and loving marriages and don't blame there spouses for being ill.

    • @mysticmom616
      @mysticmom616 Před rokem

      I am so sad for you that you don’t have family that will stay by your side during difficult times. You deserve so much better. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I don’t know what area of the world you are from but I wish you love, security and happiness. Please know you deserve more and don’t accept anything less. (((Hugs)))

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 Před rokem +10

      I hope you find an amazing partner and get to have a wonderful family yourself one day.
      We can’t pick the family we’re born into but we CAN pick the one we make 💕

    • @melissamoore1648
      @melissamoore1648 Před rokem

      He was cheating while she was sick

    • @SimplyASweet
      @SimplyASweet Před rokem +5

      😢😢😢😢 this is just so sad thee saddest comment I've seen thus far , I hope that u find someone that'll love you like uve never been loved before, so that your out-take on life isn't so gloomy towards love unconditionally 😢😢❤❤ God bless you ♥️🥰🥰♥️

    • @justtotallygorgeous
      @justtotallygorgeous Před rokem +2

      It’s very sad that this is a surprise to you. I hope you work through that trauma and you find someone supportive yourself

  • @noonthumbs2644
    @noonthumbs2644 Před 3 lety +20

    Alzheimers and other forms of dementia are beyond evil.
    I am a carer in a nursing home for predominantly dementia residents. There is a lot of joy but there is an equal amount of heartbreak.
    31 is no age at all. I am beyond heartbroken for the family.

  • @luxlox9029
    @luxlox9029 Před 5 lety +880

    You can see the early stages in this interview, especially with that sort of way she stares off at nothing

    • @barefooterin2817
      @barefooterin2817 Před 5 lety +86

      Totally. She looked like all the old demented people i see all day at the hospital i work in... even her thinning hair and decrepit posture. What a sad story.

    • @aspentree4935
      @aspentree4935 Před 4 lety +35

      @@barefooterin2817 yes i noticed the hair and her body language. I guess it affects more than the brain? I wonder if there's something underneath all of it but Alz is thr easiest to name or most tragic aspect of premature aging.

    • @barefooterin2817
      @barefooterin2817 Před 4 lety +4

      @@aspentree4935 yeah, I wonder the same

    • @booyah7415
      @booyah7415 Před 4 lety +22

      @@aspentree4935 It's not on the same level, but you can somewhat compare it to depression. When you're really deep into your depression, you can come into a state as if you're in a trance. The aimless stance and the blank stares she had is similar to depression. When your brain is full of fog, it's hard to move.

    • @aspentree4935
      @aspentree4935 Před 4 lety +10

      @@booyah7415 last winter I worked two FT contracts requiring a lot of thinking. One day I started to not be able to make sense of the icons on my car dash. I just saw symbols. When I was done with both finally, I sat in bed and stared at the wall with soft music on for about a week. I wasn't depressed but my brain was a fog, done. In grad school also, I remember it growing, I could actually feel new pathways growing it was uncomfortable . It truly is a muscle.

  • @raechelyndawn2580
    @raechelyndawn2580 Před 7 lety +354

    I am so sorry for your loss. Truly an unbelievably sad story but the love of the husband and parents was incredible. Made me cry. Prayers to all and RIP Rebecca.

    • @michelledenis6620
      @michelledenis6620 Před 7 lety +6

      Raechel Frantom she passed away?

    • @raechelyndawn2580
      @raechelyndawn2580 Před 7 lety +9

      Juliana Silva yes she did...15-months after giving birth.

    • @MrHandoverfist
      @MrHandoverfist Před 7 lety +4

      Raechel Frantom....How and why did she die??? i did not think alzeimers was deadly, esp to a young woman like her....

    • @billwilson5341
      @billwilson5341 Před 7 lety +4

      MrHanover Smith: "i did not think alzeimers was deadly, esp to a young woman like her...." That it happened to such a young lady is an anomaly (or so we hope). Part of the purpose of this video is to alert others that it happened to someone so very young so not out of the realm of possibilities.
      Re: the affects of Alzheimer's - you've got some research to do.

    • @raechelyndawn2580
      @raechelyndawn2580 Před 7 lety +5

      Bill Wilson I work in a hospital. I found the video by accident when I was doing research and studying on the disease. It was an awakening to me and very sad. Prayers for the family. 🙏😥

  • @girlywirlypoo
    @girlywirlypoo Před 3 lety +166

    It's so sad to know she passed with her baby only being 15 months old. This disease came in and took her so quickly. Bless Rebecca and her family. RIP 🙏

    • @emilydoig5906
      @emilydoig5906 Před rokem +16

      Thanks girly it’s me the daughter Emily doig thanks for all the love

    • @amaliasafaryan4256
      @amaliasafaryan4256 Před rokem +3

      @@emilydoig5906 are you scared you might genetically get your moms disease too?

    • @marinasolis9332
      @marinasolis9332 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@emilydoig5906😢

    • @katvtay
      @katvtay Před 9 měsíci

      @@amaliasafaryan4256Just read she tested negative as a baby.

    • @trickortrump3292
      @trickortrump3292 Před 9 měsíci +6

      @@amaliasafaryan4256They tested her at birth. She doesn’t have the gene.

  • @natahliak7691
    @natahliak7691 Před 3 lety +14

    I am 42 and I am getting tested for this horrible disease.
    What a beautiful couple. It's heartbreaking.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před měsícem +2

      How did your test go? I hope you're okay x

    • @woofawoof7616
      @woofawoof7616 Před 11 dny +1

      Hope you're ok❤

    • @natahliak7691
      @natahliak7691 Před 11 dny +1

      @24JJ821 Thankfully, I don't have Alzheimers but unfortunately discovered that I have chronic active ebv.
      Better known as mono/glandular fever. We have however been able to monitor and treat some symptoms.
      It's not pretty but it's manageable and better than the alternative for me at least.
      Thank you to both of you for asking 💕

    • @natahliak7691
      @natahliak7691 Před 11 dny

      @woofawoof7616 The above reply was meant for you also 💕

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Před 10 dny +1

      @@natahliak7691 So sorry to hear you have chronic EBV, but glad you don't have Alzheimers! Hope you manage the symptoms okay x

  • @sm5288
    @sm5288 Před 5 lety +540

    What a stupid system regarding the pension. Unbelievably cruel and unjust.

    • @sophiajoyceferry7150
      @sophiajoyceferry7150 Před 5 lety +27

      Yes i agree the government need to sort the system out,
      Should be a case by case decision as every situation is different deffintly not right the way things are

    • @petercallaghan9851
      @petercallaghan9851 Před 5 lety +4

      You're not wrong. I have had to live inside it's mental prison for 19 years.

    • @nsellers2010
      @nsellers2010 Před 4 lety +7

      It is basically the same thing here in the states.

    • @stankyp.7858
      @stankyp.7858 Před 4 lety +11

      SM
      That's the same stupid system that we have in the USA, except, if you're illegally here then they get everything!

    • @daisychainmilk
      @daisychainmilk Před 4 lety +7

      @@stankyp.7858 You are a dumbass

  • @kennyduren0831
    @kennyduren0831 Před 6 lety +221

    My heart is absolutely broken watching this.

    • @ednasole854
      @ednasole854 Před 6 lety +4

      Kenny Du Ren live life to the full we never know what round the corner

    • @alethiabrown6276
      @alethiabrown6276 Před 4 lety +1

      Indeed😔😪

  • @ajimenez1719ify
    @ajimenez1719ify Před 3 lety +18

    She is younger than I am now. I have had a small taste of what it's like due to a stroke I had a few years ago and let me tell you, it's the scariest thing ever to just go blank when your midsentence or not be able to remember what something that you see on a daily basis is called or when you walk into a room and turn around and not even remember getting up off the couch to come in there. Those things give me so much anxiety but, this poor young lady passed away at 32 from something so much worse than anything I've ever gone thru. I'm always worried that my memory problems and cog fog is going to get worse. It's one of my worst fears to end up like this poor lady. God rest her soul.

  • @andreawood991
    @andreawood991 Před rokem +12

    I have watched this many many times and im watching it now in 2023 😢 to remind me how precious life and my family are. Hugs and love from NZ always to her family ❤️🌺❤️

    • @lisah.375
      @lisah.375 Před rokem +1

      Same here….I come back to this every so often. It’s so sad and shocking that she was so young.

  • @harry9392
    @harry9392 Před 4 lety +92

    Sometimes you think you got it tough until you see such a great girl with this disease . My wife is in a nursing home at 56 with polynuropithy .

    • @tjisawake6005
      @tjisawake6005 Před 3 lety +4

      So sorry

    • @artparty222murphy9
      @artparty222murphy9 Před 3 lety +2

      Harry Williamson mom had polyneouropathy. She worked and didn’t need a nursing home

    • @harry9392
      @harry9392 Před 3 lety +13

      @@artparty222murphy9 she is very lucky lady to still be living a normal life
      My wife has no use of her legs can just about lift her arms no use of her hands and has a permanent peg feed .
      She can't talk as such due to have a tracheostomy in for over 2 years .
      She went into a coma and was given 24 hours to live, but she is a fighter and still here , God bless

  • @60Macushla
    @60Macushla Před 4 lety +972

    Her husband is a saint. What love he has for her. What a great dad he must be. ❤❤❤❤. How sad.

    • @lmc2664
      @lmc2664 Před 4 lety +26

      Life changes true love doesn't.

    • @AlessandraBosiVEG
      @AlessandraBosiVEG Před 3 lety +51

      Saint??? A man Who get pregnat a sick woman Is not a Saint Is mad.

    • @AlessandraBosiVEG
      @AlessandraBosiVEG Před 3 lety +37

      Get pregnat a woman with alzaimer means do something which her didn't choose. So...it's a violence. It's not a Saint it's a shame.

    • @lisaschooler9992
      @lisaschooler9992 Před 3 lety +27

      Alessandra Bosi I don’t know any more about the story than what is here, except that she died over nine years ago I think, but didn’t they say that the pregnancy and the diagnosis both came at the same time? I’ll have to watch it again more carefully of course Because now I’m wondering……

    • @AlessandraBosiVEG
      @AlessandraBosiVEG Před 3 lety +1

      The title Say that She Is 31 Years old , pregnancy, and with alzaimer.

  • @stephaniemccord6100
    @stephaniemccord6100 Před 3 lety +10

    Extremely sad. Unfortunately I had a similar situation in having to divorce my husband before he passed to avoid bankruptcy due to his excessive hospital bills. What a sad thing to gave to do to your loved one when they're dying.

    • @WDBsirLocksight
      @WDBsirLocksight Před 3 lety

      "In Sickness or Health"
      |
      doesn't this mean going down in bankruptcy with them...?
      But its a difficult decision either way.

  • @theresashea413
    @theresashea413 Před 3 lety +154

    Would love to know how her parents, husband and baby are doing now❤️.

    • @wizenedcrone
      @wizenedcrone Před 3 lety +7

      Rebecca sadly died in July 2011. RIP

    • @larsonfamilyhouse
      @larsonfamilyhouse Před 2 lety +1

      They’re sad without her and miss her dearly and wish she 2as there with them

    • @larsonfamilyhouse
      @larsonfamilyhouse Před 2 lety +2

      @@wizenedcrone what does that have to do with her comment

    • @joannekinsella9904
      @joannekinsella9904 Před 2 lety +3

      @@wizenedcrone yes we know. The comment was "would love to know how her parents, husband and baby are doing now".

  • @NonnasNursery00
    @NonnasNursery00 Před 6 lety +768

    She died in 2011 with her was her mother, father an husband right by her side. R.I.P. Rebecca you will be missed 🎈

  • @user-jp7sc2vb9w
    @user-jp7sc2vb9w Před 4 lety +59

    “mum and I will manage... no trouble” - my heart broke 💔😔

  • @elizabethhaas9369
    @elizabethhaas9369 Před 3 lety +18

    This is such a sad story. I hope all is well and I know that he's probably a great dad teaching the child about his wonderful mother

  • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
    @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 Před 3 lety +44

    I almost got scared because the reporter wasn't moving at the beginning

  • @lalalala660
    @lalalala660 Před 4 lety +102

    How sad for us we forget how blessed we are everyday😭 .

  • @deedeewinfrey3181
    @deedeewinfrey3181 Před 4 lety +456

    He knew she was still in there, and she gave him a child to remember her by.

    • @mindyschocolate
      @mindyschocolate Před 3 lety +5

      Dee Dee Winfrey so glad for that.

    • @MustObeyTheRules
      @MustObeyTheRules Před 3 lety +13

      @JONES yep. She shouldn’t have had a kid. Just passing on more suffering.

    • @mskimberly7777
      @mskimberly7777 Před 3 lety +9

      @@MustObeyTheRules Yes it's genetic so I think it's not fair for a child to inherit it.

    • @An__-
      @An__- Před 3 lety +10

      @JONES how do you know she passed on the gene? Just because its genetic doesn't mean her child has inherited that Gene. Also she was already pregnant by the time she got her diagnosis.

    • @sasharodriguez384
      @sasharodriguez384 Před 3 lety +17

      To everyone complaining that she passed on the genetic disease to a child, you're entering a whole subject of whether anyone should have children if they suffer from diseases that can be genetically inhereted. Disabled people often ponder on whether its morally right or not to bring up a child that could potentially have what they have. That in itself is a big debate and honestly, i think everyone rolls the dice when they have a child. You can be perfectly healthy and still have a child with a terrible disease, just like you can have a terrible disease and have a perfectly healthy child. To me what i think is most important is that you're committed to taking care of that child no matter if they are healthy or not. I wont speak for everyone but many people with diseases and disabilities or just overall bad experiences would say that theyd rather be alive and dealing with their problems than to have never lived at all.
      The point is, be open minded and understand that not everything is black and white. You have a right to your opinion and what you would do, but dont judge others on such a gray area. That is their choice to make. (This is besides the fact that she was already pregnant before they knew, just general advice.)
      I feel for the family and hope they have been able to cope in the last ten years.

  • @n.e.barton1299
    @n.e.barton1299 Před 3 lety +7

    I have an elderly parent and my heart goes out to her. I am glad that Rebecca had a baby.

  • @gerryd7027
    @gerryd7027 Před 2 lety +11

    Abhorrent disease heart goes out to the lovely couple. Brilliant Mum and Dad too.❤

  • @traciebutton1886
    @traciebutton1886 Před 5 lety +59

    I'm a carer and I've never met someone so young to suffer from this cruel evil disease. My heart goes out to all of them. Hope baby is ok

    • @tracieconte71
      @tracieconte71 Před 2 lety

      This is so heartbreaking my Dad has Alzheimer’s in his 70s so sad..God Bless this family 💖

    • @ruthbuchholz1556
      @ruthbuchholz1556 Před 2 lety

      I also take care of people with the disease and to see someone so young have it and was never able to enjoy her precious child makes me cry,God bless her family and wonderful husband who supported her

  • @angelic_virgo
    @angelic_virgo Před 5 lety +68

    She seems so scared and heartbroken..💔 Love to this family

  • @kathrynoneill5862
    @kathrynoneill5862 Před 2 lety +9

    My grandma is just starting to get mild dementia but she is 98 and it still breaks my heart but I can't imagine having a family member who is 31 get that horrible disease. it's not fair. I'm so sorry.

  • @JohnPaul-ig7sg
    @JohnPaul-ig7sg Před rokem +1

    Thank you for posting I have never heard of this in a young person.

  • @joen.8364
    @joen.8364 Před 4 lety +157

    That is about the saddest story I have heard in a long time.

    • @VOD713
      @VOD713 Před 3 lety +6

      Very cruel

    • @chandrarockett162
      @chandrarockett162 Před 3 lety +2

      Freakin heartbreaking, and so unfair. She was way to young to be stricken with this horrible disease. She has an amazing husband and incredible support from her parents. May God Bless them.

  • @MegaBpop
    @MegaBpop Před 5 lety +43

    This is the first I heard about Rebecca. I held back the tears . She truly is an Angel. God Bless her entire family.

  • @monkmell
    @monkmell Před 3 lety +13

    This is truly heartbreaking. Brings you to tears. I cannot believe that the Government, the system that’s been democratically installed to help it’s citizens...cannot or WILL not offer this couple and others like them the right support at the RIGHT time. Time being as precious as air is the currency this couple don’t have. DREADFUL. My love, support from afar and universal blessings to this couple and families like them. xx

  • @joanfordham1305
    @joanfordham1305 Před 3 lety +7

    Well Bless that lovely man ! I hope Scott is as good as possible now

  • @larahilton7417
    @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +115

    What a lovely, lovely family. So brave. I can’t imagine the tears they’ve shed over the cards they’ve been dealt. I understand Rebecca passed away after the birth of her child. Hopefully they’ll be able to single out the memories of Rebecca as she was before this cruel disease took hold. Sending my best wishes to this incredible family from 🇬🇧.

    • @lilianmalone7110
      @lilianmalone7110 Před 2 lety +8

      It's extremely tragic, thank God there was a blessing at the end , a beautiful baby, a new life keeping mother's memory alive x

    • @judithryle2113
      @judithryle2113 Před rokem

      I would be afraid to have the child and it inherit her disease

    • @paranoidasteroid3439
      @paranoidasteroid3439 Před 10 měsíci

      @@judithryle2113 Another comment states that the baby had been tested for the gene and was not carrier, so she is most likely safe from sharing the same fate with her mum. Its still quite tragic through

  • @mauna85
    @mauna85 Před 7 lety +823

    Unfortunately, 15 months after giving birth to her little girl, Emily, Rebecca lost her battle with Alzheimer's and passed away in 2011 surrounded by her loving family.

    • @The15secondsOfame
      @The15secondsOfame Před 7 lety +35

      Judit Bódi
      Heartbreaking news.

    • @susiedalziel2171
      @susiedalziel2171 Před 7 lety +30

      I nearly cried reading that xx

    • @carriebizz
      @carriebizz Před 7 lety +12

      Judit Bódi oh no 😢

    • @kathleenmagee228
      @kathleenmagee228 Před 7 lety +32

      Judit Bódi Devastating situation. Joy for the birth of baby heartbreak for the death of Rebecca.

    • @HarleyQuinnJokr
      @HarleyQuinnJokr Před 7 lety +29

      Oh dear, thats so sad. prays to the family. Alzheimer's and Dementia are difficult to go through, for them its a confusing time and for the families who want them to get the best quality of life. its so hard to see loved ones slip away...my grandmother has dementia atm and when I visit im not even sure she really knows who I am but I love her..I need to be there for her.

  • @kat_astrophe4279
    @kat_astrophe4279 Před 3 lety +7

    My grandmother recently passed after a long battle with Alzheimer’s. It’s so sad to see that not only long lasting marriages but also blossoming families have to suffer from the sheer cruelty of this disease

  • @pamelaphelan4144
    @pamelaphelan4144 Před 2 lety +5

    That is the saddest thing I’ve ever heard about. Wishing Rebecca and her family all the blessings they deserve!! ❤️🙏

  • @Toffee146
    @Toffee146 Před 7 lety +773

    What an absolutely amazing husband. Many men wouldn't stick by their partner if something like this happened to them. Such a terrible thing to happen.

    • @aMuenchGrinch
      @aMuenchGrinch Před 7 lety +18

      Harriet Lundt True love isn't always flowers and sunshine... Their example of staying together and having a baby is an amazingly strong example to the world!

    • @maryann2876
      @maryann2876 Před 7 lety +9

      my worst fear, that if something happens to me he will quickly move on or do it right under my nose in my house, and my worst fear is leaving my children with no one

    • @paulah229
      @paulah229 Před 7 lety +42

      Sarah R
      He had to do that for her to get any government assistance. It is addressed in the video.

    • @LadyASolveg
      @LadyASolveg Před 7 lety +16

      Sarah R did you even bother to pay attention?

    • @ChoppingtonOtter
      @ChoppingtonOtter Před 7 lety +8

      What a sad story. They seem a nice couple too. There is something touching about her mum and dad taking care of her like a child again.

  • @taika.melissa2798
    @taika.melissa2798 Před 5 lety +48

    This is all very sad and tragic. My Dad died of Alzheimer's 3 yrs ago when he was 81 yo. It was horrible to watch him lose his memory and become a shell of his old self. But he had a long and happy life, this poor young lady had only started hers.

  • @brodieellis2545
    @brodieellis2545 Před rokem +3

    My husband has Alzheimer’s and has had it for a couple of years. It gets worse by the month. He was just diagnosed with heart failure and while he will likely lose some years of life I pray his heart takes him before this devastating disease does.

  • @cmpacomplex7981
    @cmpacomplex7981 Před 3 lety +5

    She's is so adorable and cute. May Her Soul rest in peace

  • @lightsinthesky4989
    @lightsinthesky4989 Před 5 lety +141

    He just loves her so much, you can tell

  • @takitosbitch7441
    @takitosbitch7441 Před 4 lety +86

    Such a young and beautiful woman, may she Rest In Peace.

  • @peggytoes99
    @peggytoes99 Před 3 lety +3

    God bless her and her family for dealing so bravely and lovingly with this heartache.

  • @jujuoliver6959
    @jujuoliver6959 Před 3 lety +7

    This is the cruelest case of Alzheimer’s or Dementia I have heard of. I have heard of really early onset cases which in itself is tragic but to be pregnant as well is incredibly cruel and awful.

  • @floridagal9542
    @floridagal9542 Před 4 lety +210

    My mom had early onset Alzheimer’s. She was 59 when we found out. My dad couldn’t take care of her and my husband and I tried also. I would have to pin my nightgown to hers because she would roam at night. No matter how we tried to fix the door, she’d find a way out. We finally had to put her in a nursing facility. It’s simply an awful disease.

    • @brendaharley3252
      @brendaharley3252 Před 2 lety +4

      My.mom.had.T H is

    • @panchang810
      @panchang810 Před 2 lety +2

      I'm just curious why your dad couldn't take care of your mom.

    • @floridagal9542
      @floridagal9542 Před 2 lety +19

      @@panchang810, my father had just a ferocious temper. He loved her but once we got her settled in the nursing home that was it for him. He told me quite a few times that he felt as if he already lost his wife because she didn’t know any of us by then. When I had to get in the car and drive to get her out of their home, he had just broken her wrist! Probably he was trying to get her to go somewhere and she didn’t understand. Mom had been in the nursing home maybe a month and he quit taking his insulin. He knew what would happen, he would go into a diabetic coma and that was it. Unfortunately it took 4 days before his neighbor checked on him after seeing newspapers collecting. It’s Florida and it was summer so…I hope I don’t get it. Our cousin got it and her mother was my mom’s sister. But their father had it in the 50’s when there wasn’t a name for it except hardening of the arteries. Well I just wrote you a book, I bet that’s the last time you ask me a question!!

    • @panchang810
      @panchang810 Před 2 lety +9

      @@floridagal9542 I'm so sorry to hear about what you and your family went through. Perhaps your dad just couldn't bear witnessing how his wife deteriorated precisely why he opted not to take care of her. Obviously he was hurting and seemingly he didn't know how to handle it. For sure his love for your mom never ceased despite what happened to her, he just didn't know how to cope with it. I hope you won't get it. I heard that reading, exercise and good diet could help. Maybe you can do those to help your brain cells kaep healthy. 😊 I wish you and your family all the best and good health. 💐❤

    • @tracyb3198
      @tracyb3198 Před 2 lety

      @@panchang810 Sounds like to me they all were selfish there’s no way on Gods green earth I would put either one of my parents in a nursing home

  • @yvessully7815
    @yvessully7815 Před 4 lety +81

    I'm in total shock because I never knew that someone can have alzheimers at such a young age

    • @marieparker2162
      @marieparker2162 Před 3 lety +2

      I had a classmate in college who's Mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at 40!

    • @windwoman3549
      @windwoman3549 Před 3 lety +3

      They said it was a RARE FORM of the disease - which makes all the difference. I don’t think you need to be too concerned.

    • @tabby73
      @tabby73 Před 3 lety +4

      General dementia can even hit children.

  • @andreawood991
    @andreawood991 Před 3 lety +14

    I still watch her in 2020 she's so beautiful ❤️ I'm sure she's in heaven watching all the babies with my beautiful friend Julie who passed from cancer 😢 🙏 she's so sweet 💙 her husband is a 🌟 blessings to them all of them 💗

  • @777violett
    @777violett Před rokem +6

    I am nearly her age and I can’t imagine passing so soon. On top of that she didn’t have the chance to enjoy her child, this is so heartbreaking 💔😢

  • @danielledavies9860
    @danielledavies9860 Před 7 lety +114

    I'm a permeant carer for my grandmother, have been for over 5 years. I'm 25, she's 79. I found this video through searching CZcams for some sort of relief, today I was sat feeling sorry for myself after my gran had a bad day.
    Watching this has made me count my blessings. I honestly believe Alzheimer's is the worst disease in the world. All my thoughts and prayers are with Rebecca and her family. You're all amazing!

    • @karenrussell7338
      @karenrussell7338 Před 5 lety +1

      Is there anyone else in the family who could help?

    • @Moe-nm4nv
      @Moe-nm4nv Před 5 lety +3

      YOU are amazing.

    • @Moe-nm4nv
      @Moe-nm4nv Před 5 lety +2

      You really really are, I dont doubt for a moment how much you do for her. Be well.

    • @jeansavage3618
      @jeansavage3618 Před 5 lety +2

      Danielle Davies I was a Alzheimer’s nurse private duty years ago before many knew about it. My ( male ) patient lived 9 years in my care and relief nurses at night. I am not a large person ( lady) but as we went along I devised more ways to care for him daily. He became very combative the last few years. We loved him very much.God bless you ..

    • @tommy70786
      @tommy70786 Před 5 lety +2

      Danielle Davies have been a caretaker. It is hard task. Please don’t forget to take care of yourself.

  • @clarkbrady2786
    @clarkbrady2786 Před 5 lety +353

    31, unbelievable. I never thought knew it would attack at this age.

    • @alicenolan8927
      @alicenolan8927 Před 5 lety +16

      Clark Brady there’s a childhood dementia that kills its victims in their early 20s. I remembering reading about a seven year old with it.

    • @virginiaconnor8350
      @virginiaconnor8350 Před 5 lety +10

      @@alicenolan8927 Batten's Disease. I think it has a different cause, but like Rett Syndrome, ALD, Tay Sachs, the child with it goes downhill after a certain age. Look it up on You Tube for more info.

    • @booyah7415
      @booyah7415 Před 4 lety +3

      It kind of makes sense. When you compare the humans from the past and now, we're not suppose to live this long; that's why many people in that age group and further have complications of their bodies. With our lifestyle that helps us with our longevity, the evolution is still in it's beginning stages to process that.

    • @stacitaylor1064
      @stacitaylor1064 Před 4 lety +1

      Clark Brady very,very rare💔

    • @AlastorTheNPDemon
      @AlastorTheNPDemon Před 4 lety +4

      @@alicenolan8927 This scares me. I've always had issues with short-term memory and finding words for things, but lately I've been really slow on the draw the past few months and it's making life difficult. I'm twenty-three. It isn't so bad when I don't have to do with things on my days off, but when I've got a schedule, very frustrating.

  • @sleeptilnoon5445
    @sleeptilnoon5445 Před 3 lety +26

    Coming from a family where Alzheimer's is hereditary and evident, this is absolutely heartbreaking. God bless them. That man truly loves her😭 I need an update

    • @deesott5123
      @deesott5123 Před 2 lety

      Jesus is the healer. Have a blessed day

    • @Superkeen1952
      @Superkeen1952 Před rokem +2

      She lost her Battle when her Daughter was about 15 months old. I think in 2011.

  • @joannsanders242
    @joannsanders242 Před 2 lety +1

    What a heartbreaking story. I am so sorry to read that she passed away. I lost a very dear friend to this disease at 44. I still haven’t quite gotten over the shock, and it was years ago. Prayers for her wonderful husband.

  • @vanessaallan7311
    @vanessaallan7311 Před 7 lety +98

    A touching Story, i'm going to hug my family tonight. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Lena-uh3ky
      @Lena-uh3ky Před 7 lety +10

      Vanessa Allan so nice of you to say that. hug to you too

  • @OfficialGankTownDurt
    @OfficialGankTownDurt Před 4 lety +405

    I forgot this was Australia I thought he was putting her in the drivers seat

    • @yvettegrant3335
      @yvettegrant3335 Před 4 lety +12

      Lol so did I,from canada.

    • @Kay-oz2tk
      @Kay-oz2tk Před 4 lety +8

      🇺🇸 me too 😂😂😂

    • @mansfieldtigers1
      @mansfieldtigers1 Před 4 lety +13

      I was thinking the same lol she has short term memory but hey you good to drive?

    • @johnsonjack4611
      @johnsonjack4611 Před 3 lety +4

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    • @this1hmongFem
      @this1hmongFem Před 3 lety

      Lolol same!

  • @blacksunshine5758
    @blacksunshine5758 Před 3 lety +8

    I wish the best for this family. Im so happy that she is surrounded by awesome people!

    • @mylifeinanutshell6931
      @mylifeinanutshell6931 Před 2 lety

      She died at 32 when their baby was about 14 months old. Baby was tested and will be ok.

  • @blamemama
    @blamemama Před 3 lety +2

    This is incredibly heartbreaking. I'm so sorry they're going through this. As an American with chronic illness, I know the same types of challenges with insurance and money and getting the "pension" (SSI or SSDI here). And when I asked to be sent to a skilled nursing facility to help me regain mobility, they said the only thing I was eligible for was to enter a nursing home for the elderly that was not geared for rehabilitation and I would be signing away my rights ???!!!!! It is scary and unfair.

  • @crystalblue3842
    @crystalblue3842 Před 3 lety +208

    She's blessed to have passed away. Imagine living another 50 years this way

    • @deepblueinthedark9856
      @deepblueinthedark9856 Před 3 lety +34

      Crystal Blue, my sentiments exactly.When I read in the comments she passed away only a little over a year later, I felt nothing but relief. I have worked with dementia patients and she is blessed. Rest in peace, lovely girl.

    • @maidahaltrecht6577
      @maidahaltrecht6577 Před 3 lety +17

      As sad as it is she is in a better place. But I still feel sad.

    • @Jerseygirl777
      @Jerseygirl777 Před 2 lety +11

      I agree death can be a mercy

    • @anacleta424
      @anacleta424 Před 2 lety +3

      God took care of her so she wouldn’t
      suffer that terrible disease
      God bless the family and keep them safe

    • @judys37
      @judys37 Před 2 lety +1

      True. My sister had the disease for 15 years and passed at age 61. It was HORRIBLE to watch her fade away.

  • @sarahsmith5216
    @sarahsmith5216 Před 5 lety +38

    Through sickness and in health 💙
    Husband goals 💙

  • @betweenthepoles
    @betweenthepoles Před 3 lety +87

    I always thought dementia was just a condition of mental decline in the elderly until I heard about much younger people having the disease. It is a disease because it not only destroys your brain but your body as well. Since many elderly people are already frail and forgetful we don’t think of older Alzheimer’s patients as having a disease, only complications of old age. Poor Rebecca was a poignant example of how deadly Alzheimer’s can be. R.I.P. Rebecca. I wish your newborn and husband happiness despite having to live with losing you so young.

    • @timmywitty1432
      @timmywitty1432 Před 2 lety

      It’s being caused by the geo engineering, chemtrails are dropping heavy metals such as aluminum, cesium, barrium and strontium. It is NOT natural!

    • @ivaniliev2272
      @ivaniliev2272 Před rokem

      It is disease. Healthy people even at 100 know who they are and they are present etc. I known a dozen of people past 90 who were with sharp mind. While there is some mild cognitive decline in older people they are certainly themselves and should function normally.

  • @pauline8987
    @pauline8987 Před 3 lety

    Absolutely heart-breaking .... R.I.P. Sweet Angel!

  • @escape0007
    @escape0007 Před 4 lety +293

    She was Diagnosed Aug 2009, died July 2011. She ended up at a care home where she passed away peacefully. Her rare disease rapidly deteriorated her brain and bodily functions which lead to her passing. She always lit up seeing her baby and husband. “She was always happy and laughing. She never blamed anyone for her condition. She just said ‘I don’t want to be like this’. So sad.....

    • @1whocs486
      @1whocs486 Před 4 lety +7

      Dang that's the same kind my mom died from its so sad their brain closes down the body an it does go very quickly. Its a blessing in a way some end up being a vegetable for years its so sad

    • @bettynthembwa760
      @bettynthembwa760 Před 3 lety +1

      00 00

    • @johanvajse8410
      @johanvajse8410 Před 3 lety

      I just read that same article.

  • @KCsFunHouse
    @KCsFunHouse Před 4 lety +63

    Absolutely heartbreaking, what an amazing family she had to be so patient and kind. This disease genuinely scares the absolute crap out of me. It’s so hard on the family losing their loved one.

  • @debbieyzuel7887
    @debbieyzuel7887 Před 2 lety +3

    I was 52 when my husband passed with Alzheimer’s at 57. It’s a cruel disease, prayers for the family.

  • @sensualasya
    @sensualasya Před rokem +1

    The way Scott keeps reiterating that "Still Rebecca" reminds me of the film Still Alice....a similar story.

  • @emmacahill4624
    @emmacahill4624 Před 5 lety +10

    I am a nurse and I have the honour of caring and sharing these beautiful people's lives. I am so sorry this has happened to you; please stay strong and keep pushing forward . Centre link you stink. Unreal lots of love to all of you xx

  • @joarnold7753
    @joarnold7753 Před 3 lety +21

    This broke my heart,, being a first time mother should be one of the most amazing things you ever achieve, Bless her, I can see in her eyes.. Dementia nurse here.. We pray for a cure.. x

  • @Jo-zr9pl
    @Jo-zr9pl Před 3 lety +3

    My prayers are with the family, that baby will be your reward. Such a beautiful couple.

  • @oldandnew1234
    @oldandnew1234 Před 3 lety +2

    This broke my heart. I'm so sad this illness has happened to them. Hope their pregnancy goes well. Xx

  • @perwirawan
    @perwirawan Před 10 lety +332

    I have the same story, my girlfriend 26 years old. last year's suddenly coma and was unconscious for a month. after she woke up in the ICU. she has turned into a different person. forgetfulness, withdrawal from social, very moody and can't control emotions. and the doctor diagnose its a dementia (I do not know exactly). but that has not changed is she has the same love to me, same as before.It broke my heart & ruin my live, im very very loving her. sorry for my bad english, I'm from Indonesia. I hope that will be a miracle for her..

    • @abbiehartley8551
      @abbiehartley8551 Před 10 lety +25

      Dementia can be caused by any sort of brain damage really. I'm sorry you're going through that.

    • @cookie71559
      @cookie71559 Před 9 lety +1

      Read up on Coconut Oil.........it will help her memory alot! Make sure you follow how much to take.

    • @grobanite4ever85
      @grobanite4ever85 Před 7 lety

      cookie71559 honey will help too and papaya

    • @northline5670
      @northline5670 Před 7 lety +25

      adit perwira I m sorry for what happened to her and how it affects your life ! It have to be scary and heartbreaking and tough. You are a good man to stand by her and helping her . Take care of you too ! Wish you all the best ! 🍀✨

    • @billwilson5341
      @billwilson5341 Před 7 lety +4

      I assumed adit perwira was a female but regardless, I agree with NORTH Line.

  • @deborahc7300
    @deborahc7300 Před 6 lety +13

    Imagine being in her shoes, all of a sudden you're forgetting and you can't do anything about it

  • @RiaTk
    @RiaTk Před 3 lety +1

    May you both be blessed 💖 May your life be fulfilled Scott. Just a great man and woman with a beautiful baby

  • @Prophezora
    @Prophezora Před 3 lety +18

    Her husband loves her so much...heartbreaking.