Asking Japanese Girl for Dating Tips (because I'm single af)
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0:00 Intro
0:42 Who is she?
2:03 Best place to meet new people in Japan?
4:05 Where to go on a first date?
4:41 You have to confess first before dating?
7:05 Why is your blood type important?
9:51 Does dating differ from Kansai to Kanto?
12:33 How to tell if a Japanese girl/guy likes me?
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"I'm really bad with girls"
Has miss Osaka on speed dial...naniii?!?
They’re “Highschool friends”
@@mariluzgallardo24 wasted"
"I'm single af"
Proceeds to introduce miss Japan
She's miss osaka/contestant for miss japan, not miss japan. aisha harumi tochigi is.
🤦🏻♀️😂😂
biggest Friend Zone ever...
@@Lumidar best friendzone ever.
thats because she isnt hitomi yet. every man is single until he gets hitomi.
Girl: "What do you think SHUN?"
Shun: When girls call me by my first name, my heart skips a beat
I noticed that too.
My man Shun was quick to capitalise on that. We cant blame him. I would have done the same.
She’s answering questions, he’s playing 5d chess😂
@@arturomntl5003 lmaoo
Your nor supposed to call him out lol 😂
Hearing Japanese people speak casually in the foreign language with the subtitles feels fun. You understand what they're saying and you can really hear all of the intricacies of the language and how unique it is.
It's even more interesting as they switched to Osaka dialect after a minute or two into the video. That's also why it sounds a bit different.
@@Ergzay I was literally grinning all the time because of the beautiful Osaka-ben.
Alternative title: Japanese guy gets dating advice from model for 16 minutes
Nah, he was actually asking some straightforward questions! Very revealing.
Japanese guy flexing for 16 minutes?
It's more like friend caught up each other after a long time and got recorded XD
Not enough desperation bro
Well played Shun, well played. "Genki desu" you translated as "disgusted to see your face". Trolling at a high level here
He learned a trick or two from Filthy Frank 😁
Does it means..
.. how are you?
@@niroattamaggarwal5750 It means "[I am] well"
It is so funny when u know that it means “I am well”
Yes, I wonder how many people noticed
I love SHUN chan, one of the few I've subscribed and I know this is a comedic video, but just in case someone's looking for actual advice on dating, I'll condense all my knowledge into a few sentences. STOP TRYING TO F***K A GIRL THE MOMENT YOU MEET HER. Stop caring about if you're going to end up in a relationship, in bed, friends, whatever. Just one thing you should have in mind: 'This is an interesting person, I would like to spend time with them' with no purpose behind it. Not only that way you'll get to know the girl as a human being, and trust me you're probably one of the few that will do it, but you'll also increase you chances of being with her for a specific reason. Removing any purpose from the equation, will help you relax and get to know the girl, get to know her more, even bring your secret lovely traits that would either way be hidden if you tried to get in bed with her. You never know, she may actually be into you wearing your everyday pink Crocs. Have fun! Get to know people, it'll come to you!
This comment needs more likes!! 👍
If was really fun to watch you guys chat. It seems like you have a natural friendship chemistry.
I felt like I was hanging out with you guys. I also love insights into the Japanese mindset. I’d love to see more interview chats about various topics. (:
you monster how do you write (: instead of :). Go to therapy
"-hello *crush name
-omg why you so ugly"
100% relatable
It's tom cruise
Yes I got rejected twice bro
She didnt actually say that, he probably wrote that in the subtitles as a joke xD
@@I_Epicness yeah, I know :D but still funny
Well she she said hello but he changed it
Bro you gotta ask this girl out on a date for “research reasons “
But don’t listen to me, I’m B+
I second the motion
I third the motion
I fourth the motion
I fifth the motion
Calls him "Shun-Chan" talks about how they are compatible, talks about how cute you are......I can't say much on this as I have missed some fairly epic signals in my life... But, seems like she likes ya boss, she also seems like she has an amazing voice, very soothing.
Also when he asked the question
“ what are the signs that a Japanese girl likes you “
She immediately said “ what do you think Shun “
As if she wanted to See whether he got her signals or not
Lololol
Yeah gosh I was instantly smitten by her voice, it's very pretty~
she does not - she has a bf. You guys are terrible at reading girls... 'a girl smiles, she likes me!'
@@alexlaurence lol why else are most ppl watching these videos weebs or virgins lol. Pros won’t come here for advice unless they want to be entertain
They're friends. She was teasing him.
I could listen to her talk all day. She has such a beautiful voice. 🥺♥️
This video was so fun to watch, also on the "how to tell if she likes you" topic:
Her:" What do you think SHUN?"
Him: "Doesn't it take a lot of guts to call someone by their first name?"
Her: "Ahhh yes it does it does"
I see what you did there 😄
Nice move shun chan.. nice move! 😂
That's game right there. 🏈 My man's going in for the TD
That's my boii
Things you love to see
he's just so obvious I'm dyingggg lmaoo
Shun-chan was literally smilling for a whole 16 minutes
Lol, too bad hes not her type😭
@@squoreacts1837 She did say that A and O blood types are compatible though
i can't believe in this stupid crap...
@@mynameisjeff9560 lol, you can see how she talks to him. Blood type is inadequate,if she me met a guy with B blood type, shell still date him🤷♂️
Imagine if he wasn't... that would be very awkward.
“You don’t want to find love at a club. It won’t turn into a serious relationship” I met my fiancé at a club in Osaka when I was a study abroad student in uni and he was in his first year working full time 😅 we’ve been together 3 years, and I moved to Japan so we could be together. Definitely wasn’t expecting to meet someone there but life has a funny way I guess ☺️
She’s stunning and her VOICE is amazing!
If you listen closely, you can hear Shun's rattling nerves while Sakira's introducing herself
Idk what you talking about😐
Dont take it serious Shun
lmao hahahah
@@SHUNchanjp haha DONT worry shun :)
I can't talk to women without getting nervous either because I always think I'm gonna embarrass myself in front of her
Feels like I'm spying on their first date XD
me too, I couldn't finish the vid
Me too 😂😂😂
For reals!
Too funny
@@davidstone-haigh4880 they're so cute. Are they married yet?
Where’s part 2 man? I need to see it 😂
Hopefully he didn't plan to date her as Part 2 and it went wrong ^^
Someone asking the important questions, finally
This was a lot of fun!
I really like videos where you can hear / read people talk Japanese to each other its very helpful with learning :)
When I was with my ex and people ask how we met, I loudly proclaim "from the internet!" just to embarrass her lol. Hmmm, maybe that's why I'm single now
lol she didn't appreciate that and didn't get the joke. damn
This was too cute. Take notes man haha. Osakans really are the coolest.
Yes idk
"I wonder if this exists in overseas too"
Well yes, for example I'm Dutch, so I'm from a relatively small country. Our country is divided into 11 provinces(regions) and there are quite some noticeable differences in manners, way of thinking and culture between those 11 provinces. Like how we perceive or approach certain things. Not in a way that it's insurmountable, many people end up in relations with people from other provinces but it is often easier when talking to people from the same province(or provinces near it) because you have a little more in common and share a bit more of the base mentality, things like how direct your approach can be when you express things/opinions to someone. Somehow it's just easier to get along with people from your own region. For example there are some rivers running through the Netherlands and many people living south of those rivers tend to like the mentality & manners more of those from "under the rivers"(literally translated) than those born and raised above them.
About confessing, it's usually very okay to say you like someone before going on a date or something like that. Asking someone on a date is basically admitting to that anyways, but to truly confess in the way of 'I love you' or 'I really, really like you' is very rare and will often be seen as weird when you don't already have a long established connection with them. I think it stems from the mindset that "You cannot love someone until you really know them and how can you really know someone if you haven't spend a lot of time with them" and that if you confess before you really get to know someone it kind of feels superficial, because there's probably a lot about that person(both their way of thinking/doing things) that you don't know about. That's not to say you have to know absolutely everything about someone before you can 'love' them, but it's felt that you at least should know them well. However this does really change from person to person and I feel like it's kind of tied with how impulsive your personality is and for what reasons you want to be liked as a person yourself.
This was great interview. You asked really hard questions and she answered without hesitation! You both did great!
Meanwhile everyone here calling shun by his first name😂
it took me a while to get used to it when I just started living in the states😅
@@SHUNchanjp In the states, when people call you Shun how do they pronounce it? I live in Minnesota and used to work at a Japanese restaurant with a guy named Shun. When I met his American high school friends, I was surprised that they pronounced his name like the English word "shun" (like to avoid)... and some of them even pronounced it like "Shawn". Did you find that Americans struggled to pronounce your name?
@@liamarie1661 unfortunately us Americans struggle to pronounce every name. Lol
@@SHUNchanjp People used to call others by their last names until invited to use the first name in previous generations in the US. But then there was an emphasis on being open and friendly and calling people by their first names. So this social rule in Japan seems sweet and old-timey to me.
Ofc it would
She sounds like the American Google voice girl but if she spoke perfect Japanese
Hahaha yeah she sounds so refined. I just need her to say ara ara~
@@bugcatchertimothy7380 Refined Kansai-ben lol
@@bugcatchertimothy7380 I see you're a cultured individual as well.
@3:37
SHUNCHAN: Are you personally okay with meeting someone online?
SAKIRA: I would rather meet someone organically.
ME: How about meeting someone synthetically?
This was awesome tonic for the heart, thanks to both of you for sharing your thoughts and vulnerabilities. Asking someone out is tough, figuring out what’s going on in their head/heart without exposing yourself too much but also letting them know you like them is a really difficult thing to do. Confessing… I remember when I told my wife that I had grown very fond of her when we first started to see each other. I thought she’d say something on a similar level but instead she said “oh, and how did this happen?” I could have died ten times right then… I don’t remember what I said after that, but she still wanted to see me.
If you look closely his face turns several shades of pink in this video
I noticed that too but I think he's just a blusher in general i do that all the time too :c
yea we asian blush for no reason and i meant that literally. Sometimes we feel what is usually the reason but it is also because we blush just like that
I have rosacea and my face is literally always flushed. :( the pain of rosacea is creepy men thinking they made you blush. 🤢
@@octohex2908 I don’t think that’s because of you being Asian
I love how Shun-chan's Osaka dialect gets so pronounced when he's talking with her :D (Like, I think there were some Osaka-isms before, but not as in-your-face as in this video, he used to talk a bit more neutral in the earlier ones :D)
Yeah it was cool to hear it but also kinda challenging to understand
I was thinking the same thing. Went from keigo to full on Osaka-ben
At first i had no idea you were from kansai ,but listening to this conversation made me really excited how kansai accent is so much friendly and how you guys sems to be polite and clear at same time.
Definettly i want to visit osaka area !
Wow, I'm currently binging your youtube channel instead of studying for my japanese exams. This is my favourite video so far. You appear so naturally funny. Also I like the videos where you mostly speak japanese, it helps me learn :)
This just in: Japanese guy roasts girls who are into that star sign crap but doesn't see why blood type is also weird
in America if someone says they love you after a few dates you're peacing tf out of there
so true
Well yeah, that's totally jumping the gun.
I do that. That's why I'm married now. Trim the fat. If people are just playing around you ought to know.
@@KrunkMunkey I met my girlfriend online, we knew pretty much instantly that we were going to hit it off but were hesitant with feelings on our first two dates just so we could really get to know each other. After a month or two of talking and being together daily, it hasnt stopped since and Im saving up for a ring. Patience, communication and trust is key
Agreed.
This was the cutest video ever! I was smiling the whole time.
A lot of times early on movies dates are somewhat horrible because you spend much of the time not getting to know the other person.
My personal suggestion would be mini golf. Its a place where you can jokingly enjoy yourselves, are able to chat and make fun of each other doing something not serious. Its also very casual so you can see more of who they might be normally and not when they are trying very hard to impress.
"PURELY EDUCATIONAL"
lmao
When you guys were talking about blood types, I felt like our mans heart skipped a beat 😂
I was enjoying listening to Shunchan & his guest! Will there be a part 2 with the rest of the conversation?
I've been going thru shun-chan's videos randomly for the past two hours and thinking his simple way of speaking in a calm tone is so comforting to watch... then i see this video where he's so grinny and his voice is like so different from his prev videos that i could feel he's literally テンション高い and now im just grinning here... seeing the difference😂
Sakira-san kept saying he's cute and im here like 😳😳 😂😂
Right when she mentioned she likes guys with O Blood Type, Shun got way too hyped. I get it my guy, I'm also O Blood Type. But hey, it's not every day you get the chance to talk with Miss Osaka, or whoever wins the beauty pageant of your area.
I still don't get why the blood type matters
Can someone pls explain?
@@ImWhyMortalsCry i think it's more of cultural they seem to believe it same as for to zodiac sign's in other places ,they seem not to believe zodiac signs but blood over it since it what run in your veins or at least that's what they said .
İ am not japanese..
@@ImWhyMortalsCry It's like matching zodiac signs for westerns
@Clone Rayne I got the teasing, but was she flirty? 😅😅
@Clone Rayne Ohhhh, I see. Thanks for the info ^^
Just an excuse to talk to a girl. You can't change my mind.
Noooooooooooo!!!
@@SHUNchanjp lmao 😂
@@SHUNchanjp HAHAHAHA
hey, you succeeded though! Congrats on that.
I wonder where people find people to socialize with nowadays...
He's just playing the cards he's been dealt. Game recognize game
Great video! Looking forward for the second part!
Awww, Shun is such a cutie. The hand gestures, facial expressions and intrigue was great and cute, especially when he confesses how he get’s nervous when a girl calls him by his first name.
Damn you went to school with Miss Osaka. Insaneeeee
This guy may have gone to school with Miss Osaka, but I got to go to school with a dude who raped a goat and is currently in jail for harassing his little cousin... so I win
@@guccilibrarian4728 woah🧐
@@guccilibrarian4728 ok yeah you get 🥇🥴
@@lbvg1013 dont
miss osaka is not a big deal. go see the photos on facebook.
Step 1 - Be attractive
Step 2 - Repeat step 1
Don’t forget money and status. These and looks constitute the meme of “personality”
We live in a society 😢
IM IN LOVE WITH BOTH OF YOUR KANSAI ACCENTS AH
This was soooo fun to watch! Please do more guest back and forths! I love the differing opinions!I’m with her too! No matter how old I am I would like to be asked out too. It’s just more thoughtful I feel instead of the whole “I guess we just became boyfriend and girlfriend somehow?..” lol.
Sakira san just admitted she's into O blood types, AND called you cute. You've got a chance, Shun!
I was feeling that way about the video. Like maybe she's just playfully flirting because it's funny, or maybe she actually thinks he's cute and he doesn't have the guts to approach her as he's mentioned. But she was definitely flirting.......I think lol
@@lifjyruss I mean, I'm not Japanese, so I don't understand how or why they'd flirt with others. But generally speaking, I'd assume you don't start flirting with someone if you're not interested in them.
@@Ajz092 I agree, and especially if you're miss Osaka of all people.
They've known each other since school. If they wanted to date they would have done it by now (especially with her being willing to make the first step if the guy is too shy). I don't think they were flirting. Shun was nervous though with all those sipping on his drink
@@IsleNaK How could you not pick up on the obvious flirting? Sakira playfully insulted him (classic flirt tactic), complemented an important element ingrained in their culture (blood type), and then straight up just calls him cute.
F in the chat for all the "B" blood types
I have AD lol
But why does the blood type matter?
@@ImWhyMortalsCry I am also thinking about it.
She said just said that in japanese dating culture blood type determines compatability and the a was compatible with o and B was not compatible. They compared this the zodiac signs that some westerners use to determine compatability just superstition really.
@@JadedConfusion2 Yeah but does that mean that if you get along really good but then it turns out you 2 have let's say A and B
Does that mean instand breakup or what?
It sounds like that
I mean it would really suck if you meet THE person and the other person really likes you the same way
But then it turns out you have B and she A and then the other person breaks up with you because of that even tho you got along so well
@@ImWhyMortalsCry well I can't really speak for japanese people but for me it wouldn't matter but I suspect if both people really hit it off thats all that would really matter.
I watched quite a lot of anime stuff some time ago, and I was even interested to learn the language a bit better. It never happened, but I still love to hear conversations in japanese, it's so soothing and many sounds you guys make and react with that can be weird to the foreign ear is something that is pleasantly familiar to mine. Also I really love her voice. You two made such an adorable and interesting duo.
I'm sorry but I cant help but ship the two of youuuu!! You both are adorable!
This was like the first half of a romantic movie.😆
Yeah, I feel saying "you should take care of yourself" is exactly the kind of vague signals that goes over the heads of most guys.
I was thinking the same thing
I say that to all of my friends and am now wondering if they take it as “mixed signals” since I’d even say it for a friend not very close ...
So very few people seem interested enough to send a message with good wishes, that when they do, I read it as:
I am thinking about you. I care.
Honestly, that means more to me, than fluffy small-talk..
I am really hooked on your channel, you are so funny and witty! Greetings from Greece!
The Kansai-ben just popped out when you got into the middle of the conversation haha. I love it
I don’t like how they say the hub so much it just makes me think of something else
Can't resist huh 😏
Time to cleanse your soul
I know, right away I thought, " my car does need new wheels" too. Man damn
Mate, i love your content. Keep making it !!!!!!! :)
i laughed so much watching this :) that you for your unique way of presenting things. I love this channel.
Love how Shun’s Kansai-ben comes out more and more as he’s talking, so cute
Osaka/Kansai DOES 100% have their own vibe. Even as a foreigner you can tell the people there are way more chill and open. PLEASE don't use more tatemae -- we like y'all the way you are!
Solid interview Shun! You should have your friend on more often since your A & O types match 😉😂 (I'm also now a lil worried if I have B blood after that beating lol.)
I have to say this: she has a really beautiful voice. I could listen to her talking all day long
Whaaaaat!!! Where's the second part of this video?? I really wanna hear her answer to the last question hahahaha
Omedetou, nice videos on your channel. Ganbatte!!
Sakira's voice is so soothing.
I am loving that polite Tokyo shade XD
Oh man the Osakans are roasting Tokyo peeps like no one else 😂 it's hella fun to witness
me when shun-chan answers:
externally: interesting 🤔
internally:
write that down WRITE THAT DOWN 🗒 🗒🗒
😂😂😂😂
It’s interesting to see how in japanese you express so many ideas very quickly, in spanish even when we speak fast our longer words make it hard to convey complex ideas as fast
I never knew that blood type is a big deal in Japanese relationships :D It was so interesting to hear! You're so into it!
I speak Japanese so when I heard them speak and saw the subtitles I was confused and thought I was misunderstanding. 😩 nope! Hilarious subtitles.
Did you notice they were using Osaka-ben?
@@DhikaRizkySumanto sure did live in the Kansai area for two years.
@@bluetastick I still understand nothing if someone speak Japanese with Kansai-ben 🤣
Y’all feel some chemistry between these two or what !!! Shun looks like he is sweating through his shirt!
This wasn't an online date I'm watching? 🤔
So I found my way here when thinking about my boyfriends from japan. I felt as though the dating process with them were very different. Did I feel as though the boys I dated from Tokyo were definitely more cold, maybe even distanced? It almost like they was really overly concerned about everyone judging them. while on the other hand, my boyfriends from Osaka were more open to expressing PDA. As a first-generation American-Latina PDA is defined very differently for me than perhaps others since I understand a lot of the "lack" of PDA. (in contrast to American PDA) interestingly enough I think the only boyfriends who asked me about PDA were from Osaka, and after I explained to them how American and Mexican Latinos usually show affection in public they put forth a lot of effort to communicate with me in my love language. Even though we broke up I am still friends with them to this day because they really showed me what an amazing type of person they were. (We broke up due to distance.)
i learnt Japanese primarily for work and watch their shows & dramas. now here i am feeling lucky i can actually hear & understand the nuances in this dialogue.
I love these types of videos. Shows the cultural differences between Japan and other countries, but also the differences between different areas of Japan, in this case specifically Osaka. I think Osaka is my favorite part of Japan so far from what I heard, even though I haven't been to Japan yet.
Dude! I got the impression she was dropping hints all over you! Calling you cute, by your first name, talking about the touchy feelings part.
She is so pretty, I enjoyed this video. Thanks for the content 🙏
"I don't know the history dakedo" finished me LMAO, man said Japanglish ftw
Shun, I think you can make a popular series if you decided to make videos teaching Kansai dialect. There are some youtubers doing it but not nearly enough in my opinion. I'm really liking your videos! Keep it up!
Love this!! When is part 2 coming?😆
Chad Shun-chan adding in the extra questions here and there😭 I see you bro
write that down write that down write that down write that down write that down !!!!
She is embarrassed that she won a competition and became Miss Osaka ? That's not what I would expect of a beauty queen... Maybe cause I live in Texas.
That's merely a cultural display signaling well-mannered modesty. But if you watch again, it was done with guile. She got that out there and established very early in the conversation.
And no, you wouldn't expect an American beauty queen to behave that way.
I like me Texan women 🥰 keep it up
Hmm. Its Japan's culture of prioritizing display of class by being humble. If not, the typical response is "their parents failed them with family education" which I think is what plagues us in parts of our country as each region of the US is vastly different.
Think David Letterman and how he handles due praise.
That’s how Japanese in general behave, it’s how they are brought up. Americans, on the other hand, would probably react differently.
@@PokeTwilight depending on where in America they are from but yes
"I can't take the risk it's bad for my heart" I feel you man
Had a lot of fun watching this. Please do the follow up and or the next few questions.
Yeyyyy part two... I thought shun was click baiting me but when i see her "woaaaaaah😳😲".....
Shun chan is so cute with his Osaka accent and the way he sweetly smiles at her. Awwwww
I really enjoyed this. It is nice to see how people think and feel about these things in another culture.
The subtitles at the very start of their conversation were hilarious 🤣
best dating tips: make a call and ask about dating tips ahhaha well done shun
Me, a B-type:
"I hate B-types"
wtf, blood types don't mean any-
"B types are interesting weirdos"
actually 100% true 😂😙
i agree TT
im b too and weird as hell
@@miorii6553 forget the other types! if we stick together we'll B twice as good
Blood type B gotta stick together man T-T
Real question is... What do they think of ab? Best of both worlds?
@@zeroqp as he said 'interesting weirdos'
This was so entertaining to watch!! I definitely think regional cultural differences are a thing here in the USA too- I live in NYC and am from the east coast, and Californian culture is so hard for me to vibe with. It's not a dislike per se, but as you were describing, there's a disconnect there! Similarly, my partner Yoshi and his Mom are super Kansai culturally (it was fun watching your conversation in Kansaiben!) and I find that way easier to be around than the formality of Tokyo. Osaka in general reminds me so much more of NYC than anywhere else in Japan! We will (hopefully) be moving to Osaka in 2022, in fact, and it will be interesting to see more of the similarities once we live there. That being said, I should probably figure out my blood type before we move there.... or maybe I'll never check and try to play it off as being mysterious haha!
You 2 have chemistry lol. You should ride the wave and ask her on a date for next video xD!.
I just found your channel today and I've spent hours watching your videos! Nice work bro.
You both seem to like each other. It was cute to watch you flirt in together masked as a QA video 😄
Cringe they weren’t flirting imo
@@sly_zamasu7690 yeah i feel like they're just good mates
When Shun Chan talk with Osakan, his Kansai dialect is so strong 🤣
Yes. PURELY educational.
I have never seen Sunchan so happy!
Great fun, but you torched the B blood types pretty hard (I'm an O) LOL! You should do more Q & A with Sakira because you have good chemistry together. Cheers!
may I say your brows look so good all the time
This video (and channel in general) reminds me why I love people from Osaka.
*This is the smartest "ask me on a date ladies" video I have ever seen. And it will work too*
Japanese culture and personalities are so attractive in general