What May Be Driving a 13-Year-Old’s “Out-of-Control” Behavior
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- čas přidán 14. 09. 2016
- A mom says her daughter is violent, steals, and runs away. The teen says her mom needs to back off. What may be causing the teen to act out?
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0:22 "Does he have another family ?"
That one hurt her
that was sad
The poor girl , you can tell she's really hurt
Yeah
prob
s i feel her :(
Doesn’t it hurt everyone that only has one parents feelings...
This child is clearly hurt, and I feel like her mom makes it worse.
Yea. But she’s famous now.
SHES FAMOUS NOW GET OVER YOURSELF
Fame solves everything yall clowns
@@useraccount5598 fame doesn’t solve anything
Bruh she is famous get over it she is like 17 right now but it happened so ya it happed and that was 4 years ago to sooo
I mean many ppl have traumatic situations and not everyone has to be rude.
this was humiliation, not therapy.
and after all she’s been through, the company behind her torture and abuse on the ranch still go unpunished.
💯💯💯
so true
Whateva! Whateva! I do wat I want!! Ax my hoe of a motha! Whateva!!!! - Eric Cartman
Yes! I feel so horribly for the people that go on this show, so lost in a circumstance or affliction that they cannot see what we see. Obviously most are people who know the game and go on to make a fool of themselves for money and attention but the ones who need actual help can’t and don’t see that and I worry for those strangers. I hope that they get what they actually need sooner than later.
Oxford university 😑
This feels so much different after Dani opened up about her mum. She’s the only victim in all this. Her parents where never really there for her. You can literally see the sadness in her eyes.
Children imitate those they fear. She needs to get off the street and move to a better neighborhood.
😂😂😂😂
yeah no, mom is innocent this girl is crazy
@@ballsinyourjaws4479all the money she makes she can’t spend only her mom can
@@ballsinyourjaws4479or could idk about now
her at 13: stealing cars etc
me at 13: scared to tell the mcdonalds cashier i want a mcflurry
Funny dude
😂😂
@trixterii _ was gonna say this
Not funny you stole this:)
I'm scared to order anything on a phone and I'm 15
“does he have another family?”....bro dani was devastated...when he asked that
Brooo she was
@j right and making her answer these questions on live television makes it so much worse
I agree. The hurt on her face was horrible
1.5k like
@@Jami-kj4fm So don't go on the show then. Dr. Phil show is known to be one of the most emotionally intense, raw, jaw-dropping, and chaotic shows in TV history. People who go on this show by and large know they won't be getting soft ball questions but tough questions that put them on the spot.
When Dr. Phil asked her about her father, my heart just broke. You can see the defensiveness of this young girl because she's been really hurt by the absence of her father, and you can hear her mother crying. This whole situation is sad. What's good is that this girl has a good mother. The father however should be there for both of them.
You can’t be hurt over someone that you never met
@@cjth4tguy Yes, you can.
@@GlazerX if he’s out of my life he’s outta my life for a reason
@@cjth4tguy That doesn't mean you can't be affected by it, though.
her mother is a monster lol what are you talking about
You can tell, she was hurt when he asked her father and if he had another family, she was holding back on tears. I'm with you Dani, you got this mama
Mostly all these girls who act like this are actually hurt and have pain tbh ( why so many likes?)
But acting like this is not a solution
@@swagatadas5121 fr there actually hella annoying and it’s makes them hella unattractive
@@jeremymedina8376 yes you are absolutely right it makes them unattractive and makes them look bad when they are not so bad and mean.
She was molested when she was a kid that’s y she’s like this
@@ejigthompson4645 that’s sad I hope she’s gotten therapy and is doing better for herself
Who's here after Danielle opened up about the abuse at the ranch?
me
Totally not me
Me
Meh
Me
He is the worst therapist I’ve ever come across.
What did he say you disagree with? He seemed to ask the right questions and you can tell by her emotional response. What do you want him to do? Not find the root cause of her problems?
@@danieldenton5721Yes, humiliating her and asking her if she even go to the fifth grade, showing this deep conflicted child the whole world and humiliating her forever, because the Internet does not forget, is really top therapy....
And the mob laughs.
That traumatised her forever.
@@danieldenton5721 he has no empathy and these are deep, triggering, personal questions broadcast to the world. How do you not understand why this is despicable?
Who are you to judge?
@@jamessams4133 read mine and alyssum’s responses
I feel so bad for her. She endured so much abuse in her childhood, then a un-doctor degrades her on stage in front of millions and sends her for more abuse at 'The Ranch'. She deserved better!
She didn’t want to cry, she was fighting tears this whole interview - and they still sent her to turn about. Disgusting.
Daniella lost it backstage at the end of the episode. Who could blame her? 🙁
Agreed. Absolutely unprofessional.
Is that the abuse center paris hilton was talkin about? is she bhad babie? this influencer?
@@agnes-juliemartin7030 yes this is bhad bhabie
she is now a onlyfan porn star
Her throat be moving I can tell she wanna cry
Yeah
She kept it in
🙄
Well, she admitted it herself, “Here go the waterworks.”
@@SunBunz i think she was referring to her mum
She's emotionally strong at such a young age......I can see it in her eyes and face expression.....Of course her guard is always going to be up, it's because of the rejection and humiliation she's received! Nobody is born "bad", it's the love not being there from the start is what turns someone bad......just my 2 cents...
Lemme guess you were on TikTok and got bored so you tried to find vids of her lol
some people are born "bad" though, take psychopaths for example. I do feel bad for sociopaths though
shes almost 21 years old, a millionare and about to be a mom now! Time flies! shes also sort of a pioneer- before her, people werent becoming millionaires on social media- she was probably the first normal person to become a celebrity due to social media memes
Dr. Phill really be deleting the comments everyday lmaooo
I think the newer comments just show up instead of the older comments
Really "is"
I like your pfp, that's a good pfp.
@@goofyahhdoflamingo9999 omg I love yours 😏😌
No they were turned off
This is the most messed up thing they possibly could have done to that poor girl
🙄🙄🙄🙄
Dr. Phil is evil
@@jessicagroot403 How is Dr Phil evil when she went to him for help? 🤔🙄 You don't ask for help from an evil person. SMH! 🤷🏻♂️
She is now richer than the majority of people watching this video. Can't feel bad.
She’s a millionaire from it as a consolation prize I guess.
She looks so dejected and sad. She was right about how inappropriate this was.
I love how much she’s grown over these past years it shows how mature she really is! ❤
I just read about her in the news that she is a 19 year old millionar.
😂😂😂😂 “matured” 😂😂😂😂
She is not mature the only reason she’s famous is because of dr Phil
dr phil is a conguy@@Splashbroprods45
@@amoranimalesjaylaesbud6575U Spelled Millionaire wrong
48M views, 10 comments. Dr Phil really Thanos snapped this whole comment section huh
*snap*
No, the comments were disabled beofre
Before*
They just turned on the comments on Dr.Phil’s channel. Now the comments are coming like a Tsunami tidal wave.
Fr
You can see in her face she’s hurting but this act was all a defense mechanism to keep people out and from getting in and hurting her. I feel bad for her after all the more recent info, and for how everyone mocked her 😕
She didn't deserve to go to turnabout.
No kid, no matter how they acted out, as long as they didn't kill someone they don't deserve that.
It baffles me how turnabout hasn't been shutdown or Dr Phil hasn't been arrested for knowingly sending kids to camps where they are abused or sending them to places at all without a license.
i feel for her, everyone was so quick to jump on her without realizing that she wasn’t like this to “just be like it” she was like this as a product of the things she’s been through. she was only 13, no 13 yro knows how to handle their trauma and emotions.
Shes a victim , and thank god she called him out
Dr.Phil didn’t do anything
@@bubbleguppy4892 he sent her to a ranch with horrible conditions
@@bubbleguppy4892 he did, he is sending children to the ranch and are getting abused
@@bubbleguppy4892 watch her vid
@@bubbleguppy4892 Educate yourself about the situation before making moronic statements.
She is actually such a big part of history. She is mad mature now
18 now
@Short Bus Bomber lmfao just stfu and stop acting cool
put on the clown makeup
@@JediTiga ok
"big part of history" lmao stfu
Damn I was crying my eyes out. I see a traumatized child who has learned to shut down and dissociate from trauma. Everyone wants to act crazy towards this girl in the audience because of ignorance. The adults at the ranch that punish traumatized children. Ignorance! People need to be educated about childhood trauma and this girl is now educating adults. Dr.Phil is responsible for anything that happened to these kids at the ranch
honastly this is so wrong. she’s was 13 and clearly hurt and putting her all over the internet was NOT GOING TO HELP
Dr Phil's staff abused her after this too.
She was not forced to come her. Her mom did that. You guys are putting the blame in all the wrong places.
@@bubbleguppy4892 dr phill was the one who sent her to a ranch which her mom thought that was going to help her but in reality it was very abusive and Dr. Phil knew that, but her mom didn’t
@@bubbleguppy4892 maybe u should see her video she posted a few days ago where she elaborates more
@@tanastan123 The ranch is a Private Facility. No one knows what goes on in there. Not even Dr.Phil
Who's here after she wants dr phil to apologize?
heree
I just saw her video
@@Nikkikoussof where is it?
@@crispasmr3853 on her channel
Why are you treating this like those
"WhOs HeRe In 2020?"
I will never forgive the internet for making this girl famous
It always disgusted me to my very core that people in the comments would say "the mother should be smacking that child" as if she wasn't a bad parent and could do no wrong. These parents fail their children and the blame always seems to be placed on those children as if those bad parents weren't the catalyst of their bad behavior.
She just called Phil out for the turnabout ranch today. Give it a watch if you haven't seen it yet.
It’s so messed up. She deserved better
Did she get abused before the show or after
@@cheyknight8370 after, when they sent her to a ranch
but does dr phil know that has been going on over there we dont know right?
I don't think the finger points to Dr.phil. I think he was just trying to help her. Unfortunately those people at the ranch are the blame not Dr. Phil
Who’s here after that video she uploaded by the camp she was in
Me lol
This comment will probably get deleted damn. But same here. Awful😭
me that video messed me up
Me
Me
Dr. Phil's analysis is correct. She was always on the defense. I know she got humiliated in other portions of the show - but not in this one. She was very, very clearly hurt and let down by her father. But I will say I'm almost proud of her for rising above and using that pain to make the lives of her and her mother better. Good on her. What a driven young woman. It doesn't matter if you don't like her music. You have to respect her drive.
You either die a villain or live long enough to become a hero
W
You can literally see the pain in her eyes when Dr. Phill asks "Does he (her father) have another family?"... Man... I wish I could go back in time and hug her and tell her that she is not alone in the world, and that she's loved and cherished, and she has every right to be frustrated. I would have told her so many things... I'd absolutely *love* to be her sister.
Who Bhad Bhabie?
@@Gocubs2345duh
A rapper simply search hear on CZcams and others
Ayo where are the comments
Fr
😭😭😭
They used to be turned off until a couple of months ago.
@@jaimeojeda4780 oh, i thought they were blacklisted
What u mean ?
2:36 lol even tissues are Dr Phil branded
You can see the hurt in her eyes. Somebody she trusted hurt her badly.
Im coming back to this video after watching the ranch video of dani. She was hurting and Dr.phill sent her away and insulted her and he didnt see that he ignored it and let her hurt didnt ressolve the problem normally
Wtf how was this 4 years ago feels like yesterday
Yh, time flies my friend.
Right
Fr
Right!
A lifetime goes by fast.
I have a strong feeling that a huge part of Danielle’s behavior is also due to her not having the proper support when she needed it. Somewhere along the way, she tried to express her feelings and vulnerability and somebody shut her down, leaving her emotionally damaged. Hence why she refused to open up or show sentimental feelings.
To ask a child who is thirteen years old or younger to handle these types of situations maturely and then punishing her for lashing out is in my opinion abuse. I’m also not saying that all her behavior was justified, stealing someone’s car has no link to what she’s undergone
Tbh she seems a lot more mature now. She’s even doing talks in universitys about the impact of social media and all etc… she kinda outgrew the cash me outside/rap phase
Who is here after her live when she talked about Ranch?
😐 me
me
She posted the vid 2 days ago but your comment is 2 weeks old
@@andreabocanegra6392 She had live too
it’s so sad now that we now know that someone actually took advantage of her and that she was being sexually abused and she was just saying “nope” in the video i’m so glad she’s open now and spreading awareness she’s matured a lot
Never make someone's pain a public spectacle, that is abuse in my psychological mind map. They are abusing her mental system, you can't get blood from a stone.
The only thing I can commend her on is how well she stays quiet and calm while they talk.
Dr phil is horrible he doesn't help these teens and guests at all. He just makes money off of them.
Facts
yeah like they're better off doing this in private, Of course she's going to act tough on live television.
Well his karma is that nobody cares about Dr. Phil anymore after this girl. It's just a TV show, not real therapy
Can we blame him? Or the parents that choose to go on live television instead of having a one on one (he does take care of patients off of the screen, these people choose to go on t.v. instead of private) on top of the fact that it is hard for people to talk about mental health issues and I do believe that having a show that makes people see how people are actually hurting from the fact that we don't address mental health. Now I'm not saying what I agree with as a whole, anything can be used for good and bad and the people who are choosing to see him live vs one on one in person is not dr Phil's fault it's the people going out of there way to be infront of the screen instead of behind. They're reasons Idk ask hey mother.
@@JustEPlease she didnt choose she said it on her video so go watch it
How does Dr Phil still have a platform? He literally gives children PTSD for a living by sending them to an abusive ranch and mocking them on national TV???
EXACTLY 😐
this and it's so sad to see tbh I hope the victims get some prof help
fr
It's their choice if they wanna go on tv bruh lmaoo
Right. He and other people with power get away with too much and aren't held accountable. Yet they preach about accountability. The hypocrisy in that.
Publicize a broken family! Way to go Dr. Phil!
You messed up a CHILD Phil. A CHILD. And many others. She is hurt and you just send her to a messed up ranch to be constantly punished. That’s no okay and it’s not helping. I don’t know if you’ll see my comment, but someone definitely will. This is not okay. It never will be okay. Phil is not licensed
Never seen a more defensive person. Reminds me of an animal that's been hurt
Strike first
Smh u been watching to much cobra Kai?
@@mannymichael260 LMFAOO
@@mannymichael260 Hahaha
Strike first
Strike Hard
No Mercy
💔💔
she looks so uncomfortable and even dr. phil is making it worse
You owe her an apology.
Does Dr. Phil ever focus on fixing the parent instead of just the kid? Cause it goes both ways.
It’ll never make sense to me how this segment turned into a career
Coming back to this video after seeing the ranch video is just sad Dr.Fill is disrespectful and will not let the kids say how they really feel
Dr. Fill
The fact that you can't even be bothered to spell his name right tho 😂😂😂
Huh? He asks her questions and let's her answer though
Lol it was proved that she was lying. And just looking at her attitude here. She just wanted fame. And guess what, she got it. Her insta hit almost 2 million followers and she made more than a million dollars from her onlyfans in *8 hours*
@@noone-hd1ck she wasn't lying if you haven't seen the video where she was send to ranch stfu
looking back after she talked about the abuse she experienced because of doctor phil i am horrified-
Abuse?
@@randomliy ye if u go in her yt channel she explains she was put in this place
"Okay. Here go the water works." This statement tells me that the mother's default response to her daughter's antic is to cry and the daughter is not moved by her tears. The only thing sadder than shedding tears, is shedding tears alone, while in the presence of others.
Hard to feel bad for her when the daughter came out detailing how the mother abused her
Are we gonna talk about what Dr. Phil put this girl through? She didn't deserve being treated this way in front of people with a camera pointed in her face
When he says “ does he have another family” her walls inside just collapsed she was so hurt and no one can disagree
Anybody here after she spoke out??
What did she say?
@@lisasjourney6593 look at her channel
Me
You can tell she’s hurt and felt the need to defend herself. Now she’s grown so much.
I think Danielle had a lot of stress in her life, for any reasons. She had personal problems, that made her this way.
noooooooo ?
i feel really bad now that i act watched this. she’s been clearly hurt by her father, she wants act all hard so she doesn’t have to show emotions. i’m kind of like that to, i don’t like showing emotions either. however, sometimes it’s okay. i don’t think that she is wrong by not saying her feelings on tv, it’s a public tv show and there are a bunch of people sitting right in front of her. i’m glad she’s doing better now
she’s clearly hurt :/
She's been given everything but love and meaningful attention!
Imagine blaming a kid when it's clearly the parent's fault
Are you saying that what she went through was meaningful? She went through unthinkable things and it sure wasn’t in a loving way.
@@Brunette_2005 HOW MANY KIDS ARE OUT THERE BEING ABUSED OR ABANDONED BUT ARENT ACTING LIKE RUBBISH?
See here is the difference of perspective. She didn’t just become who she was at 13. She saw that behavior and developed from her environment. Low self esteem and low self worth? I saw someone unique with a special way of protecting herself that the world doesn’t understand. Everyone doesn’t fall under the labels that society puts us on as we develop the defensive mechanisms to protect ourselves from childhood trauma. No one has the right to judge and the time that each person has to overcome their unique purpose and their unique gift to maximize their plan of their why. That is the truth.
Perfect way of explaining.
I remember back in 2016 so many people jumped on her but I’ve always known she was just really young and hurt because I kind of recognized my 13 year old self in her. I’m glad people are seeing through it now after all these years because she’s not a bad person at all
he be deleting comments because he know what he did
He not helping them by sending them to the ranch like he dont care what happened them at the ranch
2:52 His watch cost probably more than my car
Imagine using people's trauma for views and then giving them more drama by putting them in a ranch and then not taking accountability 🥰💕🥴
The sad outcome of being fatherless 😓
Is this what you think people who don’t have a father figure are like lol 😂
@@lilbaddie522 statistically, yeah
Thats not an excuse.
Some kids have fathers and still acting like rats in streets
@@lilbaddie522 same
Kids without moms are generally more depressed
Look where she is now. Who could have predicted.
The fact that the truth is coming out and she could’ve only been 10 years old in this video is heartbreaking
She was 13
@@jazleenluna Have you seen her birth certificate???
@@hollykralovec6009 it's literally known and she has said it many times 😭 lmao plus it's in the title
And THIS made her famous and a rapper and a multi millionaire and BHAD BHABIE!
She's a clown
@@267Alessio you’re a clown
@@267Alessio go do something better, i hope u go to doctor phil too
nah this made her come across as a crazy teen but she made her image into a rapper and millionaire as she should because dr phil put out a bad image of her
The fact that she was making CZcams video before dr phill says a lot lmao
she’s such a nice girl now...i feel so bad for her..
(Off topic) love ur pfp
@@erin1206 hehehehehehhe thx
@@faithbeez8450 it literally looks like he threw up the taxis
@@erin1206 imagine throwing up taxis 😭😭😭
@@faithbeez8450 that happend me younger I ate to much and threw up red wet takis it was gross (I didn’t go to school lmao)
i can’t believe you sent her there.
Danielle closes down because she went through her parents divorce. She suffered the pain and toxicity. As a teeenager it’s hard to cope with it. When he asked her “we’re you hurt by someone” and she was quick to say “nope” but you can see the pain. She’s taking her anger thats towards her father out on her mom because her did isn’t around for her to vent to. Her image is her defense mechanism to keep herself from feeling the pain
i just saw the Deepfake DrPhil version and thought „no way she‘s 13“ but nobody was wondering in the comment-section over there...
@FSJF Games 21 nah son she looks 16 at the most. You are now on the FBI watch list
@FSJF Games shes 17 ur still in trouble
Who's here after seeing Bhad Bhaddie's video?
this is literally how bhad bhabies career started
the way she looks at him when he says that she's not an evil girl, like she may be?! she was hurt clearly and sometime you don't trust people.
A lot of this makes sense with her behavior through the years. I hope one day she comes to terms with her past and her pain and is able to recieve the help she needs and move on
I personally think its the moms fault. Her child is very clearly hurt and all the mom is doing is making it worse in many ways. I dont get why her mom fights her daughter its stupid
STOP SENDING KIDS TO TURNABOUT ARE YOU TRYING TO HELP THEM OR HURT THEM EVEN MORE ?
idk something about the fact that a literal therapy session is broadcasted to the world for profits rubs me the wrong way
After watching her video about the turn about ranch, I really can see that she had no idea how to handle this because she was hurt and they were antagonizing her on a show for thousands to watch 😭
how does this man even have a platform? he treats children like animals, sends them to abusive camps, mocks them, breaks them down, and then profits from it. people have died from the ranch.
not people saying “shes famous now so its fine.” no its not fine. shes clearly hurt, and she’s still hurt. being famous doesn’t solve everything.
Her at the age of 13: stealing a car
Me at the age of 13:
sneaking into the kitchen at 3am to get a chocolate bar
Same
Same 💀🤚
Not having the other parent around is hurtful more than people think
watching this back just makes me sad. first of all she’s literally thirteen. a child. a very young child at that, middle school age. her childhood was traumatic and kids only turn into what they’re around. i get she’s done horrible things (im not excusing her crimes.) but you guys have to put yourself in her shoes. she’s traumatized and u can see it in her face, you all bullied her when she was so young and i always felt bad for her and still do. the audience was antagonizing her and as a kid she doesn’t know how to react other than anger and threats. which i understand bcs she’s has a rough upbringing. i’m so glad she’s grew from this and is an amazing mother now with millions of dollars!! she deserves it and more :) karma really had her back. much love
She is a rapper now and i think she is rich.. but money can't solve heart break
My heart really aches for Danielle especially after watching her video about the ranch a couple days ago . I can see the pain in her eyes an she’s trying to mask it up with other things . I pray that one day she gets the Therapy she needs. I’m a Sexual abuse/Physical abuse survivor so I totally can relate to how she feels!!
who's here after bhad bhabie called him out?
Mee
Mee
She just wants someone to smash the wall she created to help her. Everyone taunting her makes it worst. She just wants people to love her and understand her and not leave her behind like her father did.
And Dr. Phil saying how she should open up more is difficult to do a just day especially for a child who was abandonned and doesnt really trust adults. It takes years of trust and courage to open up to do that.
Making her feel safe first and accepted for her flaw would have been a better move by the show.
I feel like they had no business of discussing a 13 year old girl’s personality on national television.
It’s just natural she bashes out at them. She had no privacy or control in this interaction at all.