FBI Negotiator Chris Voss Reveals How To Negotiate Real Estate Deals | Founders Club ✅🔥

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    Summary:
    What if you could learn how to negotiate real estate deals from one of the top FBI negotiators of all time?
    Our guest for today, is former FBI negotiator and Founder of The Black Swam Group, Chris Voss who shares with us his distilled wisdom on tactical empathy, giving the illusion of control, and striving for a win-win outcome can prove to be disastrous for a negotiation.
    You will learn how Chris sharpened his negotiation skills on the suicide hotline in NYC. And his AH-HA moment when he realized that he was really good at his job.
    We talk neuroscience in today’s show, and you will learn how to use Chris’s Black Swan method in a real estate negotiation.
    We hope you enjoy this show!
    Key Takeaways:
    00:00 - Chris’s background information
    01:44 - Trial by fire - how did Chris sharpen his negotiation skills?
    04:22 - The AH-HA moment - when did Chris realize he was really good at his job?
    07:15 - Using tactical empathy in negotiations
    08:58 - Talking neuroscience, and why displaying honesty, vulnerability can work in your favor
    11:53 - Neutralizing the negatives and reinforcing the positives
    13:44 - Real estate negotiation strategies from Voss
    19:30 - Finding common ground and establishing an emotional connection
    23:33 - Why it is disastrous to go for a win-win outcome
    23:56 - The two types of negotiators
    27:54 - Using the black swan method, the purpose of tactical empathy, and filtering out the tire kickers
    34:48 - This is how you get access to Chris’s newsletter
    36:39 - What is the number one thing that real estate agents are not doing?
    40:47 - Using the process of Guided Discovery to avoid lowering your ask price
    44:40 - Giving the illusion of control
    46:19 - How to position yourself in the best light when you are trying to close a deal
    51:19 - Do’s and don’ts when things start getting tense
    53:18 - The black swans that every side possesses in every negotiation
    55:58 - Some parting advice from Chris - Enjoy your mistakes!
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    Quotes:
    “Empathy is really the transmission of information. And the transmission of your understanding what the other side's perspective”.
    “The win-win mindset is usually ineffective and often disastrous, don't settle and never split the difference”.
    “It the secret to gaining the upper hand in a negotiation - it is giving the other side the illusion of control”.
    “Enjoy your mistakes. Mistakes are actually an accelerator for learning. And some people are embarrassed by mistakes”.
    Resources:
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Komentáře • 33

  • @JohnCampenOfficial
    @JohnCampenOfficial Před 6 měsíci +2

    Right around 28:45, love having the confidence to walk away from a deal with people who aren’t aligned.

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před měsícem

      @johncampdenofficial totally agree! Thanks for the feedback! Let me know if there are any other guests or topics you’d like to see 🙌

  • @bulldog3512
    @bulldog3512 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Cherished memories of the past, elegant emotions for the future

  • @kjo7256
    @kjo7256 Před 2 lety +5

    Another great Chris Voss interview!! He is the master and I have learned so much from him… he has advanced my income 35% year over year for the last 2 years since buying the book and watching his interviews… thanks Chris!!

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před 2 lety +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! It was great getting to interview Chris Voss, he dropped some gems 🏆🔥

    • @Steve-nm9qy
      @Steve-nm9qy Před 2 lety

      What would be the best tip that you have learned from him? Thanks

  • @marladrexler1922
    @marladrexler1922 Před 2 lety +3

    Great interview Oliver! And, thank you Chris for sharing so many great antidotes and strategies to be more skillful in negotiating!

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před 2 lety

      Thank you, glad you enjoyed it! Chris Voss was a great guest and have some amazing tips on negotiating 🔥🙌

  • @josuardgonzalesmedia
    @josuardgonzalesmedia Před 2 lety +2

    Great questions, 👌 brought out the genius of Chris

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for the kind words, it was a great pleasure getting to interview Chris Voss 🙏🙌👍

  • @allenazimi4408
    @allenazimi4408 Před 2 lety +2

    Underrated video, thanks for the vid

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před 2 lety

      Thanks, glad you enjoyed it, tell a friend! 😂🙌👍

  • @albongo3949
    @albongo3949 Před 2 lety +2

    Never heard the frog scorpion analogy thank you

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před 2 lety +1

      🙌 agreed, that was a good one! Chris Voss is full of negotiating gems!! 🏆🔥

  • @gregorykhan4182
    @gregorykhan4182 Před rokem +1

    Brilliant discussion and analysis

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před rokem

      Thank you, much appreciated, let me know if there are any other topics or guests you’d like to see? ✌️

  • @SOSM209
    @SOSM209 Před rokem +1

    Great Stuff
    Maintain Autonomy
    Working with folks

  • @iducreyes
    @iducreyes Před 2 lety +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @markg5986
    @markg5986 Před 2 lety +1

    @51:20 "It feels like we're close. What's stopping us? ... People are far more willing to discuss obstacles, because it doesn't feel like they're making a commitment."

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před rokem +1

      So good, thanks! Let me know if there's any other guests or topics you'd like to see on the show 🙌

  • @iducreyes
    @iducreyes Před 2 lety

    A1!

  • @SOSM209
    @SOSM209 Před rokem +1

    Cool Host

  • @worldclassrealtors
    @worldclassrealtors Před 2 lety +1

    With all due respect on behalf of every agent across the nation I would suggest each one to go according to your local broker or state law in regards to the letter.
    I have encountered this many times in Arizona and it’s extra risk for the agent, if you do try stay away from age, race religion, nationality, living status (single or married).

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před rokem +1

      Great point, thanks! Let me know if there's any other guests or topics you'd like to see on the show 🙌

  • @Steve-nm9qy
    @Steve-nm9qy Před rokem +1

    Did Chris tell you he is an FBI hostage negotiatior?

    • @OliverGrafTV
      @OliverGrafTV  Před rokem

      Yeah, it was a great interview, really enjoyed talking to Chris Voss!

  • @maribethcondrillon1079

    Or my property❤

  • @maribethcondrillon1079

    Please i dont want to sale my realstate because i have my children over there