Oh yes... I have had plenty of men saying can i move in i will help you with the bills, boy stop lying you dont even work or if you do you work at a temp job and you barely work that. Its always a hell no from me. I had one i was messing with i regret til this day. He kept asking me can he move in or when will he get a 🔑 i told him that will not happen. He said " Ever girlfriend i had i stayed with them." I said this one right here you wont. I learned my lesson years ago of letting a man move in. They sex dont be mind blowing as it is. After what i had to indure 8 months ago i dont even want to touch a man let alone a man touch me.
Talked to a guy here and there for a year, mosrlt venting about my narc ex, he pretended to be super supportive and also a victim of narc abuse.. i always rejected him for a date and kept it cool and casual bc i got weird vibes and suddenly he shows his true colors in the nastiest way by talking to me out of line for no reason and saying he was trying to date me for 2 years when I clearly never lead him on and we never got that close to be waiting for me or anything.. why wasn't he pursuing others or trying to get pursued? He only asked me out a handful of times and the effort wasn't there at all.. he never had a date planned and made it seem like he just wanted to hook up which i dont do.. then i said u never make actually plans of where we gonna go so where? And he said can we have a date at a coffeeshop or his car????? 👋 Imagine if I gave him a chance?! Our first intuition is spot on. 💯 trust it ladies ‼
I believe everything that you're saying is true. I am focused on my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I pray for wisdom daily. And I ask that the holy spirit guide me. I think a praise God I don't have these problems I am focused on my relationship with my loader Savior Jesus Christ. And focus on health. And I'm focused on my money back. Everything else that I can't get the good Lord will provide.
Yeah you're celibate and single. Good job. Slow clap 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You're also gonna likely die alone unless of course you buy a dog🐕 This woman is clearly single and there's a saying "Single women keep women single." Stay celibate and keep believing God's gonna just drop a man from the sky. All the while you women are getting older each day and losing value in the sexual marketplace. And you'll only realize it when you're older and you have to accept the truth.
If u wanna catch a liar, voice record his stories then wait a few days and ask him that story again n say cuz its interesting. He will maje 2 or 3 mistakes in his story as he re explains.
Very true words. I didn’t pay attention to the red flags so I found out exactly what you’re saying. I’m totally no contact with the mf and everyone else that thought they could keep fooling me. I’m taking care of myself now and moved away 👍👍👍
I will keep this short but to the point video on repeat not only for myself as a reminder that I'm on the right track but for the younger ladies that I mentor. They need to hear something short and sweet and to-the-point about why it is so important for them to have standards and boundaries and expectations for how not only these funky males🤢 but for everyone their lives! I wish I had known sooner that when you center men and relationships, it really is a recipe for disaster because you lose valuable time and energy that can be used on yourself and those that you value who deserve it! Thanks SWB!❤
Very true ! I cut off talking to the guy in prison. Caught him lying about his financial situation and how he was using that to manipulate everyone around him. To get what he wants like food or a place to stay when he gets out. Girl he got irrate and angry at me for calling him out! This was all on messenger while he is in prison. Soooo glad I watched your shows and videos. I am awake now. No more,!
Yea the key word is “prison! That’s what my brother been doing for 20 plus an he still manipulate our mom an was manipulating my sister! An everyone else! You can’t trust 🙏😇nobody in prison hun. Even when they fresh out of jail! Waxen oit!😮😊😊
Thank you so much! I remember it was the first week of dating my ex and literally on the second day or third day he insisted on having sex with me. I really didn’t want to do it, but I was kind of frisky at the time so I went for it. But yes, now this makes perfect sense! And you’re very true when you say that, we need to test their emotional intelligence and see what their character is before we even allow them to enter into our own personal sanctuary. God bless you and thank you so much for this work that you’re doing! I am absolutely shocked to see how, this narcissism has grown exponentially in the last five years! God help us all! ❤️❤️❤️
Dickmatization isnt a bad thing as long as the guy takes care of u n u build a future together with kids. Problem is these guys who are up to no good figured it out n use it as a tool to build their ego n mess up ur future.
Just described my ex to a T. TO A T. I didn't see this to the extent that it was when we first met, this malignant narc did seem like a kindhearted guy at first that had just been through alot (I had to learn a too late lesson with staying the hell away from people you meet that immediately have a sob story). But over time, it was clear. He played an acting role to just get one thing from me, and one thing only. That was a really hard realization to come to. So he now can be the empty vessel he is without dragging me down in it and using me. I've been completely single two years now and love my life. I now understand why some women give up on a relationship with men. It was probably after a terrible experience with one of these types of narcissistic men that just want sex and cheat
“a DickAmatised” yes You all facts and love the delivery a true libra form 11 of October I miss my late husband cus he used to go off same birthday and he go off like you shit be REAL .. I thank you so much
Absolutely it's terrible I was and maybe some what is from my kids father smh. What until i get with the right one if. He can go to the Left. Should be Starting now, not because I'm Lonely or bored!
I subscribed to your channel today because "birds of a feather"! Thank you so very much for teaching this! I am so fucking tired of all the damn narc's out there! Male and female! Friends, lovers, spouses etc. And THANK YOU for not sugar coating this teaching! I just came out of a ten year hiatus to all this BS out in the dating world! I am bamboozled, discombobulated and nearly thought about retreating, but I know there is plenty of good men out there, issue for me is chemistry! And I know chemistry can sometimes be a little late and I give men a chance (and them I) but if chemistry isn't there, that bitch just isn't coming to the party😜"NEXT!" Experience with narc's: They usually always give themselves up on date ONE! They move FAST! Talking about shit that should never be spoken about on a first date, such as marriage, being his or her girl or man, living together, getting into your bed tonight! All about future shit when it should be all about seeing if the pair can be friends. Clue 2: They ask questions to see what type of support you have, family, friends, etc. They no likey a strong support system! As soon as you describe how strong your support OR that you are well armed against predators WATCH how fast that love bombing stops, watch their body relax and demeaner change to disinterested. It is rather comical. Narc's are HIGHLY charming! Ridiculously charming! DON'T FALL for it! Everything they do (male & female narc's) is to SET you UP! Feeling you out... EVERYTHING!
You're the second woman I heard this from. One woman told me over 20 years ago she needed her own bedroom I think this is more common than women really want to discuss I find Nothing wrong with it.
Celibacy is your best weapon
Strongly Agree my friend !!!🔥🔥🔥💯🙏🏽🙏🏽
Facts
Truth 👏
Not Celibacy…Wisdom
9 months celibate
She not lying
She sure isn’t.
@@tijeraslack3I can attest to that! I show got dickmatized back in 2017 by a narcissist.
This is so true
She is right frfr
AMEN! I've been through this and I'm still going through this right now!
Yes thank you finally someone said it. They ain't ready for that conversation.🙌🏾🙌🏾
Strongly Agree!!👍🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️💯
Cause society pretends women cannot be dickmatized cause they are Mother Mary sex hating virgins
Ikdr
💯. I tell women all the time to STOP having sex with these mofos. And pay close attention to his character. Many are before you to TAKE and USE. 😑
Facts..
Yes !
FACTS!!!! Cause good D ain’t bout sugar honey iced tea when it’s attached to trash. I love being singleeee.
Once the veil of lust came off i found out that this man was 16 years older than me and very immature.
Be celibate , protect your heart and your body...🙏❤️
Oh yes... I have had plenty of men saying can i move in i will help you with the bills, boy stop lying you dont even work or if you do you work at a temp job and you barely work that. Its always a hell no from me. I had one i was messing with i regret til this day. He kept asking me can he move in or when will he get a 🔑 i told him that will not happen. He said " Ever girlfriend i had i stayed with them." I said this one right here you wont. I learned my lesson years ago of letting a man move in. They sex dont be mind blowing as it is. After what i had to indure 8 months ago i dont even want to touch a man let alone a man touch me.
I agree with this video. Also, watch how he is around kids.
Talked to a guy here and there for a year, mosrlt venting about my narc ex, he pretended to be super supportive and also a victim of narc abuse.. i always rejected him for a date and kept it cool and casual bc i got weird vibes and suddenly he shows his true colors in the nastiest way by talking to me out of line for no reason and saying he was trying to date me for 2 years when I clearly never lead him on and we never got that close to be waiting for me or anything.. why wasn't he pursuing others or trying to get pursued? He only asked me out a handful of times and the effort wasn't there at all.. he never had a date planned and made it seem like he just wanted to hook up which i dont do.. then i said u never make actually plans of where we gonna go so where? And he said can we have a date at a coffeeshop or his car????? 👋 Imagine if I gave him a chance?! Our first intuition is spot on. 💯 trust it ladies ‼
I knew a guy like that....very low effort. Always just trying to chill at each other's houses, sit in the car. It was so wack and such a turn off
I COMPLETELY agree with this.
And some of them aren’t even good it’s just mind games.
Thank you for making me laugh because when you know you know.
PREACH!!!!!!
I believe everything that you're saying is true. I am focused on my relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I pray for wisdom daily. And I ask that the holy spirit guide me. I think a praise God I don't have these problems I am focused on my relationship with my loader Savior Jesus Christ. And focus on health. And I'm focused on my money back. Everything else that I can't get the good Lord will provide.
The abusive moron I once knew, wasn’t all that great! It was easy to get rid of him!!! 😡😡😡
You are right and the d of the narc I was with was small if ya take any pitty on them it's over for ya as well
SWB always speaking TRUTH! Preach Sis.
Love you Sis for keeping us on mf point!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
💯💯💯
😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 Beautifully said SWB 👏!
I'm celibate for 3 years and she's speaking facts
Yeah you're celibate and single. Good job. Slow clap 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You're also gonna likely die alone unless of course you buy a dog🐕
This woman is clearly single and there's a saying "Single women keep women single." Stay celibate and keep believing God's gonna just drop a man from the sky. All the while you women are getting older each day and losing value in the sexual marketplace. And you'll only realize it when you're older and you have to accept the truth.
You always come at the right time! This ain’t nothing but facts right here 💯
👍
Nothing but factssss on factssss. Have to have mind control over these men and their 🍆. Also have to say what you mean and mean what you say💯
I did it! I got a baby from it! And i regret it!
Preach !!!! That’s some wisdom talking there….
SWB…is telling nothing but the truth. This happened to me recently🥺
Amen, tell him like it is
AND I DID JUST THAT!!! HE BEEN GONE.
If u wanna catch a liar, voice record his stories then wait a few days and ask him that story again n say cuz its interesting. He will maje 2 or 3 mistakes in his story as he re explains.
You Is Right About That
Exactly 💯
Keep it real SWB whistleblower 😊
Thank you for not putting all the game. 💯
Yes so true 👍
Don't let the magic wand wirk its wonders. 😂
Theres occult info on this..but she's rite
The Truth!!!!!
Hey sis this is so TRUE! I TEST ALL SIS
POINT BLANK PERIOD!!!!!🔥💯👍💥💥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🌋🌋
That’s so true
Big facts big sis them narcissist ass men .
Very true words. I didn’t pay attention to the red flags so I found out exactly what you’re saying. I’m totally no contact with the mf and everyone else that thought they could keep fooling me. I’m taking care of myself now and moved away 👍👍👍
Telling the Truth about that
Talk yo SHYYYYT SIS 💯💯💯💯🗣️
A good background check will do wonders too
Exactly Right
She ain't lying 🙉🤶😁
I will keep this short but to the point video on repeat not only for myself as a reminder that I'm on the right track but for the younger ladies that I mentor. They need to hear something short and sweet and to-the-point about why it is so important for them to have standards and boundaries and expectations for how not only these funky males🤢 but for everyone their lives!
I wish I had known sooner that when you center men and relationships, it really is a recipe for disaster because you lose valuable time and energy that can be used on yourself and those that you value who deserve it!
Thanks SWB!❤
PREACH HONEY!!!!
Very true ! I cut off talking to the guy in prison. Caught him lying about his financial situation and how he was using that to manipulate everyone around him. To get what he wants like food or a place to stay when he gets out. Girl he got irrate and angry at me for calling him out! This was all on messenger while he is in prison. Soooo glad I watched your shows and videos. I am awake now. No more,!
Yea the key word is “prison! That’s what my brother been doing for 20 plus an he still manipulate our mom an was manipulating my sister! An everyone else! You can’t trust 🙏😇nobody in prison hun. Even when they fresh out of jail! Waxen oit!😮😊😊
I was talking to a dude who went to prison and girl I ran!!! 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨💨💨💨💨
Thank you so much! I remember it was the first week of dating my ex and literally on the second day or third day he insisted on having sex with me. I really didn’t want to do it, but I was kind of frisky at the time so I went for it. But yes, now this makes perfect sense! And you’re very true when you say that, we need to test their emotional intelligence and see what their character is before we even allow them to enter into our own personal sanctuary. God bless you and thank you so much for this work that you’re doing! I am absolutely shocked to see how, this narcissism has grown exponentially in the last five years! God help us all! ❤️❤️❤️
THAT part. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Big facts
🎤I love your truth👏🏽👏🏽
In other words, marry before you carry? Before the magic wand has you in a fringe.
Yup and DESTROY OUR LIFE PERIOD
So true! 💯
Thanks much for sharing!!
I've been viewing sex so differently and I can't allow anyone into the cookie jar.
Preach girl preach !!!
i love you lmaoooo
FACTS!!!!!
FACTS 100 LOVE YOU SIS YESSSSS 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is so true!!
There's a difference between Love and Lust!
Can you talk about how narcissist men on the dl compete with their female mate .from her apearence and lifestyle and how the insult apearence
I did this and he still was 💩.... he only ever let me meet his mom and dad....the mama use tk lie for him.... i left regardless
Dickmatization isnt a bad thing as long as the guy takes care of u n u build a future together with kids. Problem is these guys who are up to no good figured it out n use it as a tool to build their ego n mess up ur future.
🙌🏻 yes yes yes and yes! Facts
Happy Birthday SWB hope all is well and wishing you all the best❗🎉😅😂❤
TRUE!
Just described my ex to a T.
TO A T.
I didn't see this to the extent that it was when we first met, this malignant narc did seem like a kindhearted guy at first that had just been through alot (I had to learn a too late lesson with staying the hell away from people you meet that immediately have a sob story).
But over time, it was clear. He played an acting role to just get one thing from me, and one thing only. That was a really hard realization to come to.
So he now can be the empty vessel he is without dragging me down in it and using me. I've been completely single two years now and love my life.
I now understand why some women give up on a relationship with men. It was probably after a terrible experience with one of these types of narcissistic men that just want sex and cheat
TRUTH!
Your courage is unmatched ❤
You can’t stop the reign!!!
“a DickAmatised” yes You all facts and love the delivery a true libra form 11 of October I miss my late husband cus he used to go off same birthday and he go off like you shit be REAL .. I thank you so much
Sounds like someone who's been there before. Pookie mustve been knocking them walls down huh?
You preach G.O.L.D! Thank you sooooo much.
💯🔥🙏
🎉in point!!! ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Preach 👏 ☝️ 👍 👏
Praise God I'm not weak woman.
I am a Daughter of the King and carry myself as a God fearing woman 🙏
💯💯
I got a woman dickmatized right now.She just bought me some all black Air Force 1✊🏿
Absolutely it's terrible I was and maybe some what is from my kids father smh. What until i get with the right one if. He can go to the Left. Should be Starting now, not because I'm Lonely or bored!
❤❤❤
Good teaching
I subscribed to your channel today because "birds of a feather"! Thank you so very much for teaching this! I am so fucking tired of all the damn narc's out there! Male and female! Friends, lovers, spouses etc. And THANK YOU for not sugar coating this teaching! I just came out of a ten year hiatus to all this BS out in the dating world! I am bamboozled, discombobulated and nearly thought about retreating, but I know there is plenty of good men out there, issue for me is chemistry! And I know chemistry can sometimes be a little late and I give men a chance (and them I) but if chemistry isn't there, that bitch just isn't coming to the party😜"NEXT!"
Experience with narc's: They usually always give themselves up on date ONE! They move FAST! Talking about shit that should never be spoken about on a first date, such as marriage, being his or her girl or man, living together, getting into your bed tonight! All about future shit when it should be all about seeing if the pair can be friends.
Clue 2: They ask questions to see what type of support you have, family, friends, etc. They no likey a strong support system! As soon as you describe how strong your support OR that you are well armed against predators WATCH how fast that love bombing stops, watch their body relax and demeaner change to disinterested. It is rather comical.
Narc's are HIGHLY charming! Ridiculously charming! DON'T FALL for it! Everything they do (male & female narc's) is to SET you UP! Feeling you out... EVERYTHING!
I’m a man watching this and this is hilarious
Me and my husband don't even sleep in the same room, so tell me what you think about this
You're the second woman I heard this from. One woman told me over 20 years ago she needed her own bedroom I think this is more common than women really want to discuss I find Nothing wrong with it.
I think you and your husband are roommates!
I hope all is well with you spiritual whistleblower❤
Omg where have you been. My son just turned 1 and I didn't know nothing of these narcissistic people before. 😢
Right
👏👏👏👏
I am new to your channel but I know you touched on the mother that can contribute to the males behavior. Can you do a video on that?
EXACTLY
When i come to nyc you have to be my sensei❤
Ohhhhh she's in New York....me too
Save You$elf ❤
Where you been SWB?!
U NOT LYINGGGGGGGGGGGGGG🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
So true 💯
Attraction and arousal.have a way of sidelining this
Facts😂😂
Amen!!! I been doing this for longest.
#Facts ❤
Say that!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤