@@MaryBeth1965 Well, maybe the word "resent" is rather extreme and seems bitter/harsh too. 🤔 Nevertheless, the "ageing process" can be really challenging and filled with dilemmas and frustrations though...particularly for women🙄
@@jennyyip8456 I'm a nearly age 60 kidney cancer survivor. So, every day is a blessing to me. I've lost 3 friends from high school already, and this quote means a lot to me. I know aging is a challenge. Very much so. But we have to keep a grateful attitude that we are lucky enough to be alive.
I'm going to be 71 in August. Cancer took my left kidney and my right kidney is functioning at 23%. I'm isolated, no problem being with no friends. I find it hard to leave my house and keep up with cleaning. Sadly, no life purpose since my sweet kitty at almost 20 died in May...her loss was/is very hard. What I find that helps me is to live with gratitude. Reach out to others with kindness when in grocery stores or anywhere in public. Leave nice and supportive comments with video posts. Who knows what will be my future...my thought is "what ever floats your boat and doesn't sink your ship" .... sending Your All Peace and Healing and To The World At Large💜💜💜
Hi, I'm almost 76 & I found out that a genuine smile will be the prettiest thing you could put on your face...people will remember you for how you made them feel & paid attention to. I think you look & dress very, very nice !!! May God continue to bless you....
You are slim. Pretty, and intelligent. Media has made women feel like our life is over if we don’t “look” like the perfect airbrushed pictures presented to us as what we should be! I was a workhorse…I birthed 9. Babies and cared for them in below poverty conditions. I got my nursing license at age 50 while I was on welfare with 6 of my younger kids. Nursing is hard on the body. After retiring I cared for my elderly sister as she passed of cancer. Then COVID 19 hit. I was depressed and sat at home for a year. Then I got an auto-immune disease so I’m in constant pain and cannot move anywhere near what I used to. Treatment has not helped. I push myself to work, cook, clean, and try to feel thankful I’m able to do what I do.
Wow! You are a Warrior! Constant pain or other symptoms really do make life challenging. I don't think people who don't experience that really understand. But the fact that you get up every day and keep making it happen is a testament to your powerful spirit.... 🤍🤍🤍
I’ve been shocked at the fatigue I feel in my mid 70’s. It keeps me from doing things I had planned to be doing. If I don’t get something done by lunchtime, it mostly doesn’t get done that day. I’m learning how to deal with it, but it has changed my life.
I'm going through the same issue 'fatigue'. I'm 67 I exercise, eat healthy and drink plenty of water. My bloodwork is always ok but for cholesterol which is genetic. I don't always give in to it but there are times I have to nap. I figure it's the aging process
@evcol5556 I'm mid 60s also and get suddenly acutely sleepy & tired - but this happened post covid far worse the first time I got covid & amongst other symptoms lasted 18 months. I'm currently still in that 18 month window of my second covid bout & think it's just long covid as I have other long covid symptoms. It seems to be getting very slowly better. I don't get very sick while I have covid, just general flu symptoms for a week & some loss of smell and taste.
Hi Catherine - this subject reminded me of a lady that I worked with many years ago... she was @70.... had lots of wrinkles.... grey short hair.... terrible teeth.... and all I remember thinking of her was how kind and lovely she was to everyone, she was always so happy and smiled all the time. Honestly, I didn't notice her "old" teeth..... or her wrinkles :) we all loved being around her and I admired her so much!
Hi! I'm 66, wear makeup very rarely and lightly. My hair is longish and grey, stopped dying it in 2016. As a youngster I was extremely self concious, had severe acne etc. I've noticed in the last maybe 10 years, that actually people don't notice as much as you think they do....they are mostly thinking about themselves and their own appearance!! We all do it xxx love your videos xx❤
I was told my whole life i was pretty. I put to much importance on that. It was something i could feel good about. Now that I'm older and aging i realized i had to let go of the younger version of me and be at peace with my older self and what that looks like. I'll admit i don't find it easy. There are some things we can change and some things we can't. We have to accept that and do the best we can at the stage of life we are in. Maybe thats what it means to grow old gracefully.
@denisekarding1844 I was going to talk about that in this video and then forgot. 😥 I feel like that may be an even more difficult adjustment for people who did feel beautiful during their youth and middle age... Because you are grieving the loss of something that you had and now see going away... So then it becomes about seeing the beauty that you uniquely possess in a different way. And we are our own worst critics! I imagine you are still beautiful! My mom, who is 79, has the same struggle. And she is still beautiful.... She just doesn't think she is because her beauty looks different than it did when she was younger. 🤍🤍🤍
Thank you for this. You spoke for me. I’m a 58 year old English rose…starting to fade and dry up a little and not nearly the way I looked and felt even 5 years ago. I’m struggling with the many changes in me, but I know the sooner I accept the changes, the better for me…but yes a real struggle 🌹
I worked in a children’s outpatient clinic briefly 20 years ago. It was then I fully understood being grateful, as a few of the children and babies I saw possibly aren’t with us. Be grateful, old age is a blessing not afforded to many.
@MelliaBoomBot Absolutely! I spent several months at the Denver children's hospital while my youngest daughter was fighting cancer, and It's amazing how being around that can really affect one's. perspective.... 💯
@ikeameltdown8012 Thank you! It is definitely not easy for everyone.... Some people really do suffer with horrible illnesses and disorders as they age and I have seen that. it is hard for them to find joy in that. But some do figure it out, and it is amazing how powerful and uplifting that testimony is to everyone around them. It's like overcoming!
I so appreciate your comment and your wisdom. I do count my blessings multiple times every day. It's the being kind to myself part that it's a little more challenging. 🙃 But I very much concur that I have a lot to look forward to.... and I want to meet it in the best possible health that I can! So glad you are here in the conversation with us! 🤍
I just found your channel. Thank you for your presence here. I am 70 and I too struggle with the ravages of a chronic condition. Nonetheless, I revel in the being essentially free of the need to conform to what society decides I should look like to fit in.
And my dad would call you young. He’s 91… he still is quite active. His brother in law is 98 and is in even better shape than my dad. Age is a number. I feel old most days at age 58 and that’s because of permanent nerve pain from a neck injury 12 years ago. I’m in pain 24/7. It is what it is. But I’m trying to stay positive anyway
Hi! Just found your channel! I’m 59 too. All these changes happening to us I feel conflicted. On one hand I’m blessed with another day but on the other hand I’m not digging the changes that are going on here too much!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Until very recently, I never gave one thought to aging. For the reasons you state here AND for the "station" in life we have entered which I call the "periphery". One clear example is going to a birthday party or a wedding. We seniors are no longer included in the "action". I've always enjoyed being an outgoing and vivacious person at celebrations. I am noticing that the expectation is that I maintain a more reserved position to the side. At first, I thought it was me being paranoid, so I began monitoring it and found my thoughts were true. I am dealing with it now that I realize it, but I miss my former life. Also.....I get so sad when I realize the artists of our age are dying. Sometimes I can't listen to my favorite music or watch classic movies that used to bring me such joy because an artist has died. I don't worry about dying myself just yet, but our mortality IS looking closer. I'd appreciate anyone's thoughts. I HAVE recognized that being in communication with others dealing with aging issues is very helpful.
I think previous generations didn't struggle with this as much. Because they couldn't still see the people they had lost in movies or even in pictures. I mean, it's a blessing, but it is also a saddening reminder of all of our mortality. I find that my faith in God and hope for immortality after this life gives me a lot of hope and peace in that regard. I tend to look at the stepping back that happens at events as passing the baton onto the next generation... And I usually find that they don't mind or reject some help when offered... as long as I don't insist that they have to do it the way I always did it. 🙃😊
Wish I was 59, that was a long time ago for me. I would hardly consider being 59 as being old. My challenge is losing weight, which I can do when I fast. Keeping a clean and tidy house and garden seems to be more of a challenge, but more from a mental than physcial perspective. The benefits of doing a Swedish Death Clean have not escaped me as I need to work on my decluttering. Problem is, the 'clutter' is mostly comprised of items of value gathered over a lifetime. As a prepper, I have art, photo, sewing, and Family History supplies, and need to spend time on the hobbies I had planned for my retirement. Moving more, sticking to my plant-based whole food diet, and improving my self care and dressing are all goals. After cancer, I decided to reinvent my life, to live more in keeping with my values. I have no fear of cancer recurrence after a session or two with a wonderful Psychologist. I allowed myself the luxury of Boom Cosmetics, because they are all natural and don't contain toxins. I like the idea of regularly refining my life to live with purpose and be the best version of myself. Slowing down and not socializing for the sake of it, works for me, I decided to engage more, in short nuggets of interaction, the kind that happen in waiting areas. The older I become I have less and less desire to be around others, and more desire to focus on my own goals. We are all different, but that is what works for me. When it comes to clothing, I love a YT website, Marie-Anne teaches French chic dressing and lifestyle, simple but classy. I love it!
@sjordan7085 There is a lot of wisdom in this comment! I don't consider 59 old either, but I definitely do consider myself to be in the aging category, LOL. It sounds like you have found what works for you...and what gives you peace in this life... and that's what this life tidy adventure is all about! Glad you are here with us! 🤍🤍🤍
Julie Morganstern wrote a book called "Shed Your Stuff Change Your Life". Perhaps that would help you. I would also ask the question, "who is your stuff valuable to?". Is it so valuable that you display it every day or is it stuck in a drawer, closet, etc...?
Loved listening to you. I too struggle with neck problems posture. Because of the work I done for years it’s hard trying to straighten up. So I joined Pilates. One class I was red as a tomato. Could hardly walk next day. lol. But I’m not giving up. I’m 64. and hate seeing wrinkles so I’m trying to look after my skin. Etc. I believe you got to set yourself some goals in life at my age. It’s so easy just to give up and grow and not live life. Age comes with intelligence. It’s just a shame your does the opposite 😂😂x
As I age (65) I feel so sad a lot of the time. I find technology extremely challenging and worrying about my info getting hacked is just so alarming. Having my finances stretch and health care costs are just another layer of worry. I did plan for retirement, but there are so many outside forces I have no control over that impact my standard of living.
@MultiLizc Oh, my goodness, yes, technology is a huge challenge for a lot of us older peoples. You just gotta love that moment when your 9 year old grandson figures The Thing out on your phone in 5 seconds that you've been spending 3 hours trying to figure out...🤣🤣🤣 And for sure, there are stresses about retirement and privacy in our culture right now. I think it is a scary time, even for young people, in regard to those things. There are so many things we have no control over. I think that's why I'm feeling so strongly that I need to take control over the things I DO have control over. which are my feelings about and responses to things. Wishing you peace in these chaotic times. 🤍
Bless your honesty Catherine. I am 64 and after 40 years as a nurse, ignoring my body, I am dealing with the neck/headache/GI issues, as well as other physical wear a tear. I am trying to find the joy in doing less and “being” more, and figuring out physically where that balance is. You are a beautiful soul, and your channel is a refreshing change from the misty, ethereal or stark white, no personality minimalist “tidy” videos on youtube. Thank you!
After hearing so many stories about nursing and how hard it is, I'm really glad I didn't spend the money to do that. I just worked in a nursing home caring for elderly with Alzheimer's. I was severely under paid working for a greedy man. I left my money in investments, which did quite well. Then at 50 years old, I bought my own home with no mortgage. My house had a lot going for it, but needed some care. I worked really hard, myself, fixing things. It is so awesome and I love it. The point is, at the age of 50, you don't want to spend on doing something that is taxing on your body. Work towards retirement peacefully. That is what I have now. I retired at 56, now 74. Of course I'm not married. Be careful ladies. One gets old before you know it. Be good to you.
I'm also 59 and will be 60 this year. I think your skin is beautiful. Skin damage from too much sun really ages us, so you will continue to be beautiful for years. I struggle more with the fact that I'm running out of time to do the things I want to do. My grandchild that I have raised will be graduating from high school in three years. I never had an empty nest. Anyway, I wanted to drive a RV and travel but my lower back is really bad. I could fly places but I'm single and disabled so there's no money for that or really anything. Some days I feel like my best days are behind me. That's my poor pitiful me story Lol. Honestly though raising my grandchild has been a blessing in many ways.
I so understand you feeling like you’re running out of time to do all the things you want to. I have an autoimmune disease which has become more disabling as I get older. I wish I had done more when I was younger. I also suffer with back and joint pain so it makes it more difficult to travel or go far. I tell my son to not wait until he’s older to do things. Travel or do what you want when you can. I’m thankful your grandchild has been such a blessing to you. My husband and I don’t have any yet but I’m very hopeful that we’ll have grandchildren in the near future.
I think many of us struggle with that feeling that our best days or behind us.... But I tried to remind myself that you've God was done with me here and there was nothing more for me to experience or do, He would take me home. And sometimes what we are here to do or experience isn't only all about us... What a blessing you have been to your grandchild!!! We haven't really had an empty nest either because as soon as our kids moved out, our parents started moving in! 😊😊😊
I'm 67 & trying to embrace the changes that age has brought. I can't travel far but if you pause & look around, you quickly discover that there is beauty and infinite possibilities wherever you live. I've learned to be grateful for what I have but it was tough giving up on those life long dreams.
For me its the loneliness. No family. No partner or husband and no children. Last time i lived with a man was 25 years ago and no serious relationship since. It's crippling me. Can't see why i should carry on. Just tired now.
I recently discovered there are groups on Facebook for Senior Orphans. You’re not alone. You’ve just arrived there sooner. More of us will join this group of people in the next few years. Not everyone has partner or kids. It does take a lot of energy to stay connected. Keep plugging along and I wish you all good things.
I was divorced at 25. Stayed single without a man in my life until 50. Then married again, but he died a year later. That was 14 years ago. I am single again, also without a man and close family. Sometimes a I long to be in a relationship with someone gentle and kind, but it's not something I tie to my well being. Stay strong and I'll be praying for you 🌹🙏🏻
I’m sorry you are feeling like that. I’m an introvert but I’m 64 and still working so I am ok like that for now. My mom is 96 and out of 4 other siblings, my youngest sister and I look after her and have gotten close. I know down the road I will be alone. I have cats and dogs that keep me loved. But I know when I get older, I won’t have as many. What ever the lord sends me. Connect to nature as nature is God. Much love♥️
Thank you for posting this message. It has been so very helpful to read about other peoples' experiences. I am 72 and have been blessed with good health until 3 yrs ago. Since then it has been an enormous challenge. It is a constant battle to stop comparing myself to my lifelong girlfriends who are still vital, extremely active and full of energy. Their lives have not yet changed much while my world gets smaller and smaller. I will not allow myself to be that person who moans and groans about their situation, but when im alone with my thoughts, i feel sad to observe how limited ive become in what i am abke to do. Lately ive been falling and im bewildered when it happens - for no apparent reason. I do know that i have much to be grateful for, but i have a new understanding of that old saying "getting old is not for the feint of heart". Blessings to you❤❤❤
I’ve thought about the older people in my life when I was younger and I’ve realize there were people feeling this way that I barely gave a thought to because I was busy with all the things. It’s happening to me and it helps me accept that life comes to us in stages and seasons and this is the season for me. It is an encouragement to me. I don’t want to be the whiny old lady in the room either! Hope you transition into your season well. 💜💜💜
If you are falling for no apparent reason I think it is important for you to follow up with your doctor as this is not normal. 72yrs is not ‘ancient’ so it is worth checking out. My very best wishes to you.
I'm new here. I will be 70 years old in a couple weeks. I'm going to hold back on what I so want to share because of time constraint. I will be binge watching your videos so I can catch up on what you have to share. I do want to encourage you to keep on keeping on. A Sister-in-Christ.
Hi, i think it's not your appearance that matters, it what's inside, and you are a beautiful soul, it seems you love to encourage us folks, so i thank you for that. You are a breath of fresh air, you keep on being you. Thank you, lovely lady . Blessings to you.
I am 75 and have been good til a close friend died suddenly in May. I am now reevaluating everything. I have been a recluse for many years but have cut off a few people who were not good for me and I feel much better emotionally. I have two kitties who are my constant companions so I dont feel alone. My health was bad in my 50s and 60s but is much better now except for macular degeneration that limits going out too much but I have adjusted well. I will do the best I can for as long as I have left. Your videos are very informative and I enjoy your presentation. Thanks.
I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Such experiences seem to happen more frequenty as we age. But, you are still a relatively young person, compared to those in their eighties and nineties. Animals are such wonderful companions and make our homes feel like home. My neighbour had vision issues, and joined a group in town that supported both blind people and those with low vision. She went on many trips and picnics with them as well as other activities. It provided companionship for her through other members and volunteers, and they also offered ways to obtain devices to help people cope better with everyday challenges caused by vision loss. She was driven to meetings by voluneers, because she had long since given up driving, but she always said she loved her life, whenever I drove her home. She liked to go out to breakfast, or lunch at a local buffet. In fact, she had a better social life than most teenagers, I kid you not! Her calendar was always full. As a young woman she was a Major in the Canadian Army, so could be a tad demanding. One night around 2am, she phoned to tell me there were crickets in her house. After going to check, I determined that the said 'crickets' was a smoke detector needing to have its battery changed. But, she was convinced the crickets were all over her house, everywhere!
Things start to pick up speed at 60. It looks like you are doing all the right things, so keep doing them. Stress is the killer. I'm on guard all the time. It still gets through the door, but I always notice now. That's a start. :)
everyone wants to live a long life but noone want to look like an old person. Crazy society. I am 47 years old and I try to see it like you. For me it is more important how i feel instead of how I look. I think in the end you shine from inside to the outside. I feel that you are having a lot of this light. Greetings from Germany.
I'm also 59 and I think you look fantastic. You have great arms. You are able to wear sleeveless tops which most women our age can't pull off as well as you do. You look amazing.
I think you look great and hope youll celebrate 60 with happiness in your heart and mind. I'm turning 70 next year! Yes, many changes with health and skin appearance. I quit wearing makeup upon retirement and only wore minimal makeup all my life, mascara mostly. So now I just wear to church because I like wearing my dresses there. I focus more on how I feel!
Hi, Catherine. Thank you for your openness about these struggles. I’m 71 and am also legally blind. This is a new struggle for me to accept my limitations (like not being able to drive anymore). My right eye is wonky and I can be so self conscious of it. My 69 year old sister and I were talking recently about how we worry so much about that spare tire we got with menopause and how we can feel like everyone is judging us a obese and lazy, when in reality we don’t look that bad (thankfully we are tall so we can carry a little extra and hide it😅). Thank you for your insights.
Lovely video, thank you ! I have very similar neck related issues to you, migraines, dizziness, pain and nausea - and when I look back I can remember being given advice on addressing my poor posture from kind ladies who must have been my age now. I also remember being offered good advice on taking better care of my eyesight and hearing too. None of these well intentioned ( and as it turned out eminently wise ) cautionary tales and advices had much impact at the time, as I merrily crouched and slouched and threw myself about like a rag doll until I was at least 50. I lifted heavy weights indiscriminately without a care, and also assaulted my eyes and ears with all manor of consistently intense strain. I feel a bit silly about it all now, but I guess that’s how life goes .. by the time you realise you actually are going to age, and by the way it won’t take half as long as you imagined it would , the damage is done! On the plus side, I’ve never been happier in my own skin, and never more confident with having the body I’ve grown to respect - ( however wrinkly and creaky it all is), it’s mine and it’s got me this far, I’m full of gratitude for it. Thank you for reminding us that it’s never too little too late to work with what we have and make significant improvements for the now and for our future selves. You mentioned that in your young days you felt ( or were made to feel ) like a ‘freak of nature’ , and I think we all feel like that one way or another. On a biological level, we really all are freaks of nature - if we weren’t we’d all be the same . So for me, the good bit comes when you’ve learnt to embrace all your uniqueness and freakiness and no longer wish it wasn’t so. No amount of being young and bendy and even beautiful can beat that feeling 🌎
Nice to join your channel Catherine. I am 71. I have been on many diets and health journeys. I have found many of my age who have gone carnivore for many reasons but the most important one to me was the many aging issues of lack of energy or sleep and various aches and pains. I eat mainly steak and pork, no vegetables or fruit. Just meat and water with morning coffee with double cream. No supplements except Redmans salt. Lost 10kgs and now have to watch I don’t lose anymore as I am satiated for long periods so lose the need to eat. Minimal wardrobe. It does change your appearance as a tendency to take years off you. Improved confidence. I do 8kms a day with Zumba, walking and rebounding plus a few strength exercises.
I’m 72 and my 4 year old grandson says pretty often, “you are old.” Yes baby I know. And I think you are lovely inside and out. Makeup just sinks into my wrinkles. I just want to be healthy.
I love this. I am 49 so I understand everything you're talking about. I appreciate you being so real. This is rare to find videos like this:) Yahweh bless you
First time seeing your videos, and boy I feel about what your going through. I am 63, white hair, and feeling the body changes........with weight and pain
I'm almost 62 and am feeling the exact same way- weight and pain. I also stopped dying my hair 20 months ago; it's also mainly white (which I actually like). One thing I'm finding challenging is working everyday. Just getting so hard, but I have to work until I'm almost 67. (Wish I could go back and do things differently in terms of job and money!)
I really appreciate this! 69 here, and my main issue is pain, making it more difficult to stay on my feet for very long and do things, so it's hard to find a job where I live and I'm struggling financially. You are amazing and an inspiration! 👍💖
Just try and keep as active as possible. My 91 year old dad lives with me. When we watch a little tv in the evening… when commercials come on he gets up and walks around my house. Walk walk walk. It’s so good for our whole body and mind 😊
@@cjhoward409 Thank you! Your dad is an inspiration. I walk almost daily even when I hurt, and stay busy around my house with the things I do, and I feel better for it.
❤ 😊 thank you for taking time to help change our thoughts about aging. I am 62 and love finding people like yourself accepting the life journey with love, encouragement and joy 😊. God Bless you 🙏
I have found the hardest part is my waning energy, and still dealing with the health problems, (Dr. says its weight) and i am beginning to think that the stress of dealing with sis & cousins health issues that are worse than mine are affecting my health. its causing increased autoimmune illnesses. i just have to keep tweaking my diet, breath, pray. (how did i get to 63 😮)and holding off with seeing new dr. just went through full phys last november. only thing off was chloesterol. im not worried about that. i still have 100lb weight to go. I am still praying for you as well. have a blessed remainder of the year. ~Lisa ann
Being too heavy is a struggle for many of us, especailly as we get older. I decided to fast, and make friends with my electric bicycle. Instead of thinking about weight, I think about becoming fitter and building muscle. I love cycling but with an unstable INR, bumping one's head on the tarmac, is a serious consideration. Dealing with the issues of family members, and ulitmately their deaths, can take a huge toll on our energy and well being. After serious illness or injury, makes being grateful a given. I have learned to be kinder to myself. The day after a particulary tiring event, I often have a Quiet Day. Though enthusiastic to write my 'To Do' lists, I also don't worry if I do not complete any list all on the same day. I do what is most important first, especially if it is not the most pleasant, the rest goes to the next day, and so on. Accepting limitations, and replacing such activities with ones that serve one better seems to work. A lot of it has to do with knowning oneself, exploring options, and making a conscious effort to live a well-balanced life. Quality is always better than quantity, so I nolonger socialize just, because. I do it on my terms, and when I feel like it. If I don't want to, that is OK too! Getting older, just as any other season of our lives, comes with both positives and negatives. And, beats the other alternative! I've decided to slow down a tad, and not take on tasks that do not enhance my well-being, or cause a financial burden. Being a little spontanious sometimes brings joy. If I feel like a new hair style occasionally, I can always go to the Beauty School and stay within my budget. Being selective about who I spend my time with, is a biggy. I gave up on the Senior Center, because it was not my cup of tea. And, I didn't enjoy it particularly and found other activities more rewarding. I make it a point to experiment and discover what works, and what doesn't. I make it a habit to review and refine how I spend my time. The older we become, the less time there is to waste. That said, there is nothing wrong with doing absolutely nothing once in a while, and not feeling guilty about it. A good question to ask is, " What would I like to do today? What would bring me joy? And, do it!
I am 80 and experiencing some similar issues as those you described. I am also having some other issues that are more complex and therefore more complicated for me to work through. They seem to be multifaceted and if one thing isn’t going well, it causes problems for another. Balancing everything becomes very important. Thank you for your video. I really like your style! You’re the kind of woman I admire! Keep up your good work.
Oooohhh, I really needed this today, especially regarding posture. I'm your age and have had a lifetime of bad posture, and it's obvious as I go through old photos. Taking action on it has been on my goals lists for so many years. Time to get busy!
I do the minimal wardrobe also. Also there is something about 'house shoes' ha ha! I never got why older people wear house shoes indoors but now I do. I like my clothes to be simple and comfy. I also get why us older gals like stretchy pants because they work if we're smaller or larger daily. Wonderful sharing 🥰💞🙏🏻💐👍🏻
Just very recently I feel like a ton of aging insecurities have hit me all at once. It’s definitely an uncomfortable mental stretch. Also, you have beautiful skin! (Though I’m sure it must be a change to you and that is difficult.)
I've really been thinking about adding a little more yoga to my morning routine. There are some postures I am not supposed to do because of my neck degeneration, but I do do the sun salutatiation several times most mornings because my chiropractor recommended that movement. Do you have any Yoga channels here on CZcams that you would recommend that I could follow along with? I wouldn't necessarily be into the spiritual elements of it, but the movements are undoubtedly super beneficial!
I will be 57 in December and I am starting to feel things physically that I can't do as easily as I once did. I don't wear makeup. I don't want to deal with it, life is too short! We are fearfully and wonderfully made. I don't think anything less of older people. They are great, some of them, have some great wisdom (as you do!) I look for their heart, their kindness. You have encouraged me. I try to see aging as you do. I hope you are having a blessed day!
i had an albino in my class. she was very open about it. I thought she was cool as she was different. she was a nice fun person, she is now a chef and travels round the world being a yacht chef. she was always adventurous
I live with an albino. Her name is 'Snow', and she is a lovely white rabbit. Such a sweet girl. When I took her to the vet, he sat on the floor. He opened her crate and she hopped out and sat on his lap. He said he had never seen a rabbit do that before.
@sjordan7085 I wonder if albino animals are also legally blind? I would think so, which would make it very challenging for them to survive out in the wild...
Thank you for sharing your challenges - many of us share similar ones. In reading some of the comments, I agree that when I think of older people that I have admired in my life they were the ones who were comfortable with who they were, took care in how they dressed (this didn’t require a large or expensive wardrobe), were optimistic, and were more interested in encouraging the person(s) they were with rather than being self conscious. I often fall short of this ideal, but I continue to work on it. 😊💕
Hi Catherine, love your idea about separate bins for different sizes. It's also perfectly normal, between the cold and the decreased sunlight, to put on a few lbs in the winter months (if one lives far enough north to experience it). I've always been this way, as are most people, with no apologies. As for women who remain fixated on their looks well into their senior years, I think that's pretty pathetic. Nothing wrong with wanting to look one's best, but hey, once one is no longer "a creature of reproduction" it's time to shift focus to all that one has to offer after a lifetime of experience, not cling pathetically to a time long past -- which is evident to everyone! Really enjoyed your video. Mush on!
@anneburland5306 There are indeed so many factors that influence these things. Montana winters definitely do inspire a little bit more snacking and a little bit more weight gain. 😊😊😊
So, when I heard your story about the little preschooler who came running up asking you what happened to you, I felt free to share my tiny story. I was sitting on my couch talking and laughing with two of my granddaughters. The oldest one started to video me and I asked her to stop as everyone knows I don’t like my picture taken. She then asked, “why, do you think you are ugly?” I replied that “yes, I feel ugly.” The younger one turned and looked at me and said, “you aren’t THAT ugly.” 😂😂 I was actually relieved that she felt that way. 💖
I find you very attractive and your personality adds to that even more! You take good care of yourself and that’s great, too! I struggle with my wrinkles but accept everyone else’s, lol. I have more important things to think about so I remind myself that. I like makeup but don’t want to look painted. I try to make the most of my looks with minimal makeup and flattering but not costly clothes. I try to wear a smile. God has clothed me in a robe of righteousness so I am well dressed! I have a lot of love to give and that’s worth something. I recently created a new wardrobe influenced by fashion experts- just for fun. Much of it is from thrift stores. I get complimented every week (at church) and that has been fun. It is not who I am but an expression of who I am. I want to look my best and have a good attitude. People seem to honor that. I am 72.
I love this...thank you for sharing. I fell and broke my hip in April and had a hip replacement (at 65 and now i am 66). I am so resentful of the challenges in the healing process and the time it takes and yet so grateful for my progress every day and lucky for the technology we have these days. Thank you for your positive vibes and wise messages.❤
Im 60 .I always do strengthening before bed . I only eat whole foods..I take shower e every-morning.I take care of my skin..My eye wrinkle is appearing and my gray hair is there …but its ok..as long as I smell good its matter..Because some of the old people smell bad.Don’t be the one.. Try to be more beautiful everyday..Good luck as we getting older..
I've been disappointed in many blogs & vlogs about ageing before this, and was hesitant to click into this one, afraid I'd be disappointed once again. Thank you for your honesty. It was a very refreshing & uplifting video. Much, much needed. Like you, I've never really cared about my looks, but I did take my strength for granted. It's the hardest thing for me to come to terms with. I'm still strong for my age (61), but I am not as strong as I use to be. For me, that's the most annoying thing. I love how you say it like it is, without the fake stuff you see on YT now days. BTW...my mom was albino, and legally blind as well. You look beautiful to me. Wish I still had her with me. You just got yourself a new subscriber. Look forward to more from you.
I'm 69 and have never dyed my hair and I quit wearing makeup decades ago. My glasses are my eye make up. I look fine and it doesn't take me an hour to get ready! Hubby loves that. I'm assuming you are using moisturizer designed for the special needs of albino skin. If not, please look in to that. The only thing I do sometimes is use a tinted lip moisturizer because I hate the feel lipstick. I'm fine with how aging is affecting me except for one thing...increasing bladder leaks. That has had the most negative impact on my quality of life. No one ever mentions that even though so many of us have that issue. I work around it, but I wish it wasn't a consideration. Thanks for your video and best of luck to you. You look fine!
My bladder leaking has improved so much with using vaginal estrogen cream. It is a hormone problem, not a bladder problem. The dose is extremely small.
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This is a tough year for me also, i feel tingling on hands and feet, anxiety , nausea sometimes, hypothyroidism ,gerd, and im going to anxiety education to help with everything and i walk 3 times a day , i have to pay attention what i eat because certain foods affect gerd and anxiety, glad i found your channel.
Thank you! I always enjoy your videos. I'm of the opinion that as we age, "less is more" as far as makeup goes. I'm pushing 64 right now and have since my 50's worn the bare minimum. Just foundation as my skin was sun damaged from my youth and just needs a bit of evening out. Concealer under the eyes to bring them out and cover dark circles. And the final, waa laa! I curl my eyelashes as I've refused to wear mascara most of my life, my lashes are dark black, were very thick and long most of my life. Now they are thinning a bit, but not from putting goop on them that made them look fake in my youth. Oh, and some form of clear gloss or chapstick. This on top of the lotions and potions with sunscreen and such to take the best care that I can of my skin. If it makes you feel any better sweet Christian sister, I can imagine you shinning so brightly in that great multitude which no man can number in Heaven for all of eternity. We will all be looking the best of the best that we ever have and then some forever. This time we have in this flesh is just a moment, an instant, a breath, compared to forever, eternity, infinity life, in the Kingdom of Heaven. So for me, I'm just not gonna worry about it. I want to feel well, take care of myself and stay active as long as I can. Today is the youngest I will ever be during my trip on this planet and that's OK. Tomorrow I will be one day older and so forth. No matter how many more days or months or years I have, I want to serve Jesus with everyone of them. May God bless you sweet sister and know that you are loved. I think you're beautiful inside and out.
A smile and a kind heart is true beauty. Kind peoples faces radiate inner beauty. Thank you for your honesty and you are obviously a kind and loving lady. God bless you as you go through this journey of life.
I’m sure it’s very common especially for women to feel all the emotions of aging. I turned 61 this year and honestly was ok emotionally until I turned 60. I’m sure a lot had to do with the fact that I lost my dad when he was 61.😢 It really has had a huge effect on me. I realized how much he missed and more so how much time do I have left?😫 I’ve had health issues for the majority of my life so that doesn’t help. I feel I’ve missed out on a lot. I don’t feel well daily so how can I feel better as I age? Most of my fears are health related versus how I look. I don’t mind wrinkles and some sagginess but my hair is thinning and that is a big concern. Stress doesn’t help but if you don’t feel well it’s hard to avoid it. To age is a blessing and I do feel incredibly fortunate to be here especially as I was very ill in my early adulthood. I just have to keep telling myself to enjoy what I can now and not to worry about what is to come. Thank you Katherine for this video and letting us express our feelings. God bless you.❤️🙏
The reality is that none of us ever know how much time we have left no matter how old we are, but somehow, we don't feel that when we are young. It becomes a very prevalent feeling as we get older.. I try to use that knowledge to motivate me to make the most of every day even if I am not feeling well. It is definitely a challenge! I always remind myself that if God was done with me here on this planet, He would take me Home. As long as I'm still here I figure I have something to do and to contribute to the lives of those around me. Hmmm... Should have put that thought in this video somewhere! Thank you for inspiring me!
II'm 65.5 still working full time , I've noticed I'm slower to retrieve things off the floor, which is a pain litrally, I'm on my feet most of the day, also have developed double Mormons nueroma, so no more pointy boots ( my favourites) also of course gained weight , I think making an effort every day helps, a little make up , hair clean, its getting harder, but I love trying, stay in the game, I've accepted what I look like as I've aged, to hell with other peeps opinions as I don't know one other woman who's perfect, unless their movie stars with the money at 65.5, health , being alive is our best gift, to each one us, live it and enjoy 😊
I recently turned 69 and see my doctor for bloodwork/labs annually. Thankfully, I am still not on any medications although there was one time, about four years ago my doctor wanted to put me on some kind of cholesterol lowering med....I told her, give me three months and lets do my labs again. Over those next three months I tweaked my diet and voila! My cholesterol dropped about 20 points, back into what was acceptable to my doctor. I also have a morning routine that involves 20-minutes of therapy/Yoga exercises then treadmill for 15 minutes at maximum incline. In my mind that morning routine is "non-negotiable" because to me it is overwhelmingly beneficial in maintaining proper balance, flexibility, strength and overall good health. I admire your tenacity and positive attitude even though you've had to overcome adversity. Cheers!
I’m 70, I look after my baby granddaughter four days a week, I have dogs that I walk about 3 miles a day. Yes I get tired, but as long as I can I will carry on doing this. If I was giving you some advice I’d say wear some bright colours, black is ageing as you get older
Put it like this, "today, you are younger than you will ever be". Be content with your life. If you are not, then change it. Don't listen to the opinions of others, they are not you. Live your life authentically. There is great peace in that. If you have lost your way, help someone else, this will give you enough perspective to find it again. Love and Kindness are real. ❤ ps 66yo (f).
I'm 3 days away from 60. I was struggling with it but decided a few months ago that it was time to embrace it. Time passes. I stopped dying my hair at 50 and love being grey. I wear very minimal make-up now because it's harder to apply to an aging face. I have noticed a lot of changes to the skin on my face. It was bothering me initially but then I figured people are more interested in a person who is friendly and smiles. They don't care about my sagging soon to be drool lines. haha Great video. Thank you for your willingness to share. All the best.
I found your video so positive, helpful and encouraging 😊 Thank you, I will have a better day because of the things you shared... I'm 68,and struggling with health issues and the process of aging. It's very challenging...
Thank you so much for the kind words and encouragement! You have made my day better as well! At least we know we are not alone in the challenges.... 🤍🤍🤍
66 and picked up the cello at 62 and now playing in a community orchestra. Just got a Pilates bar resistance system to work on strength and flexibility.
Hi Catherine, I so appreciate your sharing about your personal journey. I have just turned 60 and retired and am also happily receiving much meaning from all my Christian friends, family and church. I have recently watched a show by Chris Hemsworth titled ‘Acceptance’, being part of a series on Aging. Your talk flows on very well with his and could also be called Acceptance very aptly. In your courage to become vulnerable and share, I believe there is blessing for both yourself and others. Thankyou Catherine 😊
I'm so glad you didn't cave to the pressure of wearing makeup. You are who I aspire to be like. Thank you for being real. I too work with young kids and yes, they can be very honest 😅
I was in school with several albino people. I went to the Arkansas school for the blind and have been legally blind. All my life. Being different should be celebrated. At 75 the back strain from reading close-up forever is truly a challenge. Doing as much exercise to straighten the back as possible is truly necessary. I begin each day in pain, but I move move move move. Walk, sit in a chair and March sit in a chair and, move your elbows to your knees, etc. you’ve got it. Most of all try not to feel sorry for yourself because you’re different. Very different is just another way of saying you are unique. I beautiful creation.
To me you are beautiful. My sister was albino and she too was beautiful. It’s hard to explain the unique and special beauty of albino people. Part of it is a natural sensitivity and softness in personality and physical being. I so appreciate you and I’m glad I came across your channel. Thank you for being you.
You are a very relevant person on this topic. How cool it is to share this for people floundering. This is what happens when people have developed character. Give me better character than be a worry wart about the age spot….there is this one that really bothers me on my hand….i hve many but this ONE just sticks out. I went thru a stage when I went on a rant to my peers at senior meals how wrong it is that aging people usually shut up about it and say very little and keep a smile on their faces when I now know it’s awful, frustrating, depressing painful and foreign it is loosing mobility and being able to do things etc…. And how when you try to do some of the things they suggest to get back to normal they barely work….yes help…but sometimes cause a worse problem due to doing it “not exactly right”. Now I just walk. I do a little bit of stretching because yes….most else hurts. I say I am grateful to be able to walk. I’m not super limited….but it feels like I’m headed that way. Yes it is about keeping your independance.
You can just forget all about the Albino thought. Never crossed my mind as I watched you and Listened. Admired your Beautiful platinum. But i never thought of you as Albino until you said you were. Forget about that. Never mention it again. You're beautiful. Nothing a stick of red lipstick can't take care of. You shine on.
It seems to happen overnight - the crepey skin and chin that falls down. Doesn't seem to be too much to do about those things. Otherwise, holding my own in my mid-sixties. Regular maintenance helps - haircuts and color, nails (manicure and pedicure), classic but comfortable clothes, minimal make up. I worked out pretty regularly in my twenties, thirties, forties and into fifties - so I'm not as out of shape as some people are. Everything else is fine as is.
At 60, I'm trying to embrace my grey hair, and growing out the colour I have used for years. It's hard but I'm going to feel so free! I haven't managed to kick the make up thing. I would love to be free from that.
Greetings! I just found your video today, and I am so glad I did! You validated so much of my experience. It seems to be the trend to gloss over all the physical things that go wrong or that can go wrong, and skip to the positive affirmation part. I for one, have many of the same physical issues as you, including the dizziness and ups and downs of body weight and size. I really have felt quite alone in that. Thank you so much! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
You are absolutely gorgeous. You are true. You are real. You are speaking my feelings. I am 63 and grateful that your video appeared this morning. Happy Sunday. 🌞
I am 59 and I have put on a bit of weight,. I used to be an endurance cyclist but now I am a Nordic walker. I kept out of the sun so my skin is not wrinkly much at all. I am car free which makes me feel less old and I still cycle though mainly to the shops or a short cycle ride. I think not having kids is really helpful, I am not a mombie or grannie and have lots of hobbies, so dont have to talk about kids all the time
Im retired in Danbury, CT. Im on a fixed income. I have a section 8 voucher, for a one bedrm. I dont have family here. Sister in Austin, TX brother in Brinnon ,Wash, daughter in LA. Im alone here, and am on long waiting lists for senior housing Its difficult, at times, being alone. I had alot of deaths in the family, in the past15 yrs. A dusterbyo Lewy Body Dementia, ex husband , heart attack, and elderly mother, natural causes.Also a close male friend , heart attack, in Cali. This is life!
loved your very honest conversation. I am 76. This past year has been my wake up call. Got my weight down, off metformin with low carb high protein diet. Now working on more exercise. Also raising my on chickens for eggs.
Thank you, Catherine, for your honesty and vulnerability. I am 2 months younger than you and am looking forward to turning 60. I think that the most profound thing for me that you said in this video is the comment that 'your looks are the least interesting thing about you'. I love it, and I like to think that it is true about me as well! I have been eating low carb for years to manage my blood sugar levels and exercise 3 or 4 times a week. I stopped dyeing my hair 16 years ago and love getting compliments on my silver hair. I like to find flattering clothes in thrift or consignment stores and now wear minimal makeup and even go out without any makeup on occasion. I am focusing more on my inner and spiritual self and am learning how to set healthy boundaries (book by that title by Cloud & Townsend) and Bible study by Peter Scazzero entitled Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. Being friendly, cheerful, authentic, and encouraging to others is more important to me about how people think of me than just my wrinkles and other signs of aging. I want to set an example to younger women about how to age well, if you are fortunate enough to get the opportunity to do it! 🤗
Oh, Thank you for this video!! I am 63y and dealing with much musculoskeletal pain, and just having a really hard time accepting these changes,and injuries that keep coming. It is so wierd to me because I've always been strong and athletic! Now, I can't keep up even with the slowest it seems. Quite humiliating, and shows me I have much to work on with releasing pride. Such a strange time of life. I appreciate much that this time of life brings, slower pace, more authenticity, etc... But I am admittedly, trying to deal with the challenges, and not Bore EVERYONE with my complaints!!!
"Do not resent growing old. Many do not have the privilege. "
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Well, maybe the word "resent" is rather extreme and seems bitter/harsh too. 🤔 Nevertheless, the "ageing process" can be really challenging and filled with dilemmas and frustrations though...particularly for women🙄
@@jennyyip8456 I'm a nearly age 60 kidney cancer survivor. So, every day is a blessing to me. I've lost 3 friends from high school already, and this quote means a lot to me. I know aging is a challenge. Very much so. But we have to keep a grateful attitude that we are lucky enough to be alive.
I'm going to be 71 in August. Cancer took my left kidney and my right kidney is functioning at 23%. I'm isolated, no problem being with no friends. I find it hard to leave my house and keep up with cleaning. Sadly, no life purpose since my sweet kitty at almost 20 died in May...her loss was/is very hard. What I find that helps me is to live with gratitude. Reach out to others with kindness when in grocery stores or anywhere in public. Leave nice and supportive comments with video posts. Who knows what will be my future...my thought is "what ever floats your boat and doesn't sink your ship" .... sending Your All Peace and Healing and To The World At Large💜💜💜
Maybe, when you are ready, you could get another kitten/cat to give your love to in honor of your sweet kitty who passed away!
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Thank you for sharing your story. As long as we are alive there is always hope for better things
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Thinking if you. I bet another kitty or two would live to share your life.
I just turned 80 in March and I'm a Ballroom Dancer.... Heading out to the ballroom at 8:30 stay active happy and age will be only a number....Amen🎉
You sound fabulous! I bet you have lots of lovely ballroom dresses. Could you tell us more, please?
I know someone who is a big time dancer that's at least your age. She is very, very active and is constantly laughing 🙂
Hi, I'm almost 76 & I found out that a genuine smile will be the prettiest thing you could put on your face...people will remember you for how you made them feel & paid attention to. I think you look & dress very, very nice !!! May God continue to bless you....
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You are slim. Pretty, and intelligent. Media has made women feel like our life is over if we don’t “look” like the perfect airbrushed pictures presented to us as what we should be!
I was a workhorse…I birthed 9. Babies and cared for them in below poverty conditions. I got my nursing license at age 50 while I was on welfare with 6 of my younger kids. Nursing is hard on the body. After retiring I cared for my elderly sister as she passed of cancer. Then COVID 19 hit. I was depressed and sat at home for a year. Then I got an auto-immune disease so I’m in constant pain and cannot move anywhere near what I used to. Treatment has not helped. I push myself to work, cook, clean, and try to feel thankful I’m able to do what I do.
Wow! You are a Warrior! Constant pain or other symptoms really do make life challenging. I don't think people who don't experience that really understand. But the fact that you get up every day and keep making it happen is a testament to your powerful spirit.... 🤍🤍🤍
I’ve been shocked at the fatigue I feel in my mid 70’s. It keeps me from doing things I had planned to be doing. If I don’t get something done by lunchtime, it mostly doesn’t get done that day.
I’m learning how to deal with it, but it has changed my life.
It could be a health issue, such as vitamin or nutrition deficiency, some illness, lack of fitness...or post viral fatigue.
I'm going through the same issue 'fatigue'. I'm 67 I exercise, eat healthy and drink plenty of water. My bloodwork is always ok but for cholesterol which is genetic. I don't always give in to it but there are times I have to nap. I figure it's the aging process
@evcol5556 I'm mid 60s also and get suddenly acutely sleepy & tired - but this happened post covid far worse the first time I got covid & amongst other symptoms lasted 18 months.
I'm currently still in that 18 month window of my second covid bout & think it's just long covid as I have other long covid symptoms. It seems to be getting very slowly better.
I don't get very sick while I have covid, just general flu symptoms for a week & some loss of smell and taste.
I am 77 and my energy level is poor. I emphasize with you
I have just turned 70 and I feel just the same.
Hi Catherine - this subject reminded me of a lady that I worked with many years ago... she was @70.... had lots of wrinkles.... grey short hair.... terrible teeth.... and all I remember thinking of her was how kind and lovely she was to everyone, she was always so happy and smiled all the time. Honestly, I didn't notice her "old" teeth..... or her wrinkles :) we all loved being around her and I admired her so much!
That's the world I want to live in! 🤍🤍🤍
That sounds like my person…Miss Gladys!
Everyone loved her!💜
You are not in control of aging….do what you can and vote Democrat.
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OMG...59. YOU'RE A BABY!! I'm nearing 74 and so, could be your mom! I'd pretty much to anything to be your age again... 😞
Same here ! I was very fit at that age, I'm now over 77.
You're only 15 yrs apart 😅
Hi! I'm 66, wear makeup very rarely and lightly. My hair is longish and grey, stopped dying it in 2016. As a youngster I was extremely self concious, had severe acne etc. I've noticed in the last maybe 10 years, that actually people don't notice as much as you think they do....they are mostly thinking about themselves and their own appearance!! We all do it xxx love your videos xx❤
That is some wisdom right there! 🤍🤍🤍
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I was told my whole life i was pretty. I put to much importance on that. It was something i could feel good about. Now that I'm older and aging i realized i had to let go of the younger version of me and be at peace with my older self and what that looks like. I'll admit i don't find it easy. There are some things we can change and some things we can't. We have to accept that and do the best we can at the stage of life we are in. Maybe thats what it means to grow old gracefully.
@denisekarding1844 I was going to talk about that in this video and then forgot. 😥 I feel like that may be an even more difficult adjustment for people who did feel beautiful during their youth and middle age... Because you are grieving the loss of something that you had and now see going away... So then it becomes about seeing the beauty that you uniquely possess in a different way. And we are our own worst critics! I imagine you are still beautiful! My mom, who is 79, has the same struggle. And she is still beautiful.... She just doesn't think she is because her beauty looks different than it did when she was younger. 🤍🤍🤍
I love this.
Thank you for this. You spoke for me. I’m a 58 year old English rose…starting to fade and dry up a little and not nearly the way I looked and felt even 5 years ago. I’m struggling with the many changes in me, but I know the sooner I accept the changes, the better for me…but yes a real struggle 🌹
Aging doesn't stop an individual being beautiful. You will always be beautiful ❤
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I worked in a children’s outpatient clinic briefly 20 years ago. It was then I fully understood being grateful, as a few of the children and babies I saw possibly aren’t with us. Be grateful, old age is a blessing not afforded to many.
Well said… and a wise perspective. Thank you.🙏🏽
I consider it a curse. I'm dealing with it, but it certainly is not a “ joy”. I consider this woman lovely and positive.
@MelliaBoomBot Absolutely! I spent several months at the Denver children's hospital while my youngest daughter was fighting cancer, and It's amazing how being around that can really affect one's. perspective.... 💯
@ikeameltdown8012 Thank you! It is definitely not easy for everyone.... Some people really do suffer with horrible illnesses and disorders as they age and I have seen that. it is hard for them to find joy in that. But some do figure it out, and it is amazing how powerful and uplifting that testimony is to everyone around them. It's like overcoming!
At 89 i am saddened by your position at 59. Count your blessings and be kind to yourself. You have much to look forward to.
I so appreciate your comment and your wisdom. I do count my blessings multiple times every day. It's the being kind to myself part that it's a little more challenging. 🙃 But I very much concur that I have a lot to look forward to.... and I want to meet it in the best possible health that I can! So glad you are here in the conversation with us! 🤍
I just found your channel. Thank you for your presence here. I am 70 and I too struggle with the ravages of a chronic condition. Nonetheless, I revel in the being essentially free of the need to conform to what society decides I should look like to fit in.
That is such a freeing thing, isn't it? 😊
You don’t know what old is, I’m in my late 80,s. Now that’s old. There is nothing I can’t do. 🎉
❤️❤️❤️ That is awesome! That's what I wanna be! Any suggestions?!?
And my dad would call you young. He’s 91… he still is quite active. His brother in law is 98 and is in even better shape than my dad. Age is a number. I feel old most days at age 58 and that’s because of permanent nerve pain from a neck injury 12 years ago. I’m in pain 24/7. It is what it is. But I’m trying to stay positive anyway
80 ..how did that happen to me? Thanks for sharing and taking care of self❤❤
Hi! Just found your channel! I’m 59 too. All these changes happening to us I feel conflicted. On one hand I’m blessed with another day but on the other hand I’m not digging the changes that are going on here too much!
Exactly!!
Reducing stress is the main thing
Super important! Not an easy thing to do however. But I am making progress!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Until very recently, I never gave one thought to aging. For the reasons you state here AND for the "station" in life we have entered which I call the "periphery". One clear example is going to a birthday party or a wedding. We seniors are no longer included in the "action". I've always enjoyed being an outgoing and vivacious person at celebrations. I am noticing that the expectation is that I maintain a more reserved position to the side. At first, I thought it was me being paranoid, so I began monitoring it and found my thoughts were true. I am dealing with it now that I realize it, but I miss my former life.
Also.....I get so sad when I realize the artists of our age are dying. Sometimes I can't listen to my favorite music or watch classic movies that used to bring me such joy because an artist has died. I don't worry about dying myself just yet, but our mortality IS looking closer.
I'd appreciate anyone's thoughts. I HAVE recognized that being in communication with others dealing with aging issues is very helpful.
I think previous generations didn't struggle with this as much. Because they couldn't still see the people they had lost in movies or even in pictures. I mean, it's a blessing, but it is also a saddening reminder of all of our mortality. I find that my faith in God and hope for immortality after this life gives me a lot of hope and peace in that regard. I tend to look at the stepping back that happens at events as passing the baton onto the next generation... And I usually find that they don't mind or reject some help when offered... as long as I don't insist that they have to do it the way I always did it. 🙃😊
MAKE A GROUP OF SENIORS...DO YOUR OWN THINGS....ONE DISH PARTY....ENJOY....❤
Wish I was 59, that was a long time ago for me. I would hardly consider being 59 as being old. My challenge is losing weight, which I can do when I fast. Keeping a clean and tidy house and garden seems to be more of a challenge, but more from a mental than physcial perspective. The benefits of doing a Swedish Death Clean have not escaped me as I need to work on my decluttering. Problem is, the 'clutter' is mostly comprised of items of value gathered over a lifetime. As a prepper, I have art, photo, sewing, and Family History supplies, and need to spend time on the hobbies I had planned for my retirement. Moving more, sticking to my plant-based whole food diet, and improving my self care and dressing are all goals. After cancer, I decided to reinvent my life, to live more in keeping with my values. I have no fear of cancer recurrence after a session or two with a wonderful Psychologist. I allowed myself the luxury of Boom Cosmetics, because they are all natural and don't contain toxins. I like the idea of regularly refining my life to live with purpose and be the best version of myself. Slowing down and not socializing for the sake of it, works for me, I decided to engage more, in short nuggets of interaction, the kind that happen in waiting areas. The older I become I have less and less desire to be around others, and more desire to focus on my own goals. We are all different, but that is what works for me. When it comes to clothing, I love a YT website, Marie-Anne teaches French chic dressing and lifestyle, simple but classy. I love it!
@sjordan7085 There is a lot of wisdom in this comment! I don't consider 59 old either, but I definitely do consider myself to be in the aging category, LOL. It sounds like you have found what works for you...and what gives you peace in this life... and that's what this life tidy adventure is all about! Glad you are here with us! 🤍🤍🤍
Julie Morganstern wrote a book called "Shed Your Stuff Change Your Life". Perhaps that would help you. I would also ask the question, "who is your stuff valuable to?". Is it so valuable that you display it every day or is it stuck in a drawer, closet, etc...?
I am glad you are here with us too! You provide a very solid, intelligent, well thought out plan of action. Thanks for sharing.😊
Loved listening to you. I too struggle with neck problems posture. Because of the work I done for years it’s hard trying to straighten up. So I joined Pilates. One class I was red as a tomato. Could hardly walk next day. lol. But I’m not giving up. I’m 64. and hate seeing wrinkles so I’m trying to look after my skin. Etc. I believe you got to set yourself some goals in life at my age. It’s so easy just to give up and grow and not live life. Age comes with intelligence. It’s just a shame your does the opposite 😂😂x
Carnivore works.
As I age (65) I feel so sad a lot of the time. I find technology extremely challenging and worrying about my info getting hacked is just so alarming. Having my finances stretch and health care costs are just another layer of worry. I did plan for retirement, but there are so many outside forces I have no control over that impact my standard of living.
@MultiLizc Oh, my goodness, yes, technology is a huge challenge for a lot of us older peoples. You just gotta love that moment when your 9 year old grandson figures The Thing out on your phone in 5 seconds that you've been spending 3 hours trying to figure out...🤣🤣🤣 And for sure, there are stresses about retirement and privacy in our culture right now. I think it is a scary time, even for young people, in regard to those things. There are so many things we have no control over. I think that's why I'm feeling so strongly that I need to take control over the things I DO have control over. which are my feelings about and responses to things. Wishing you peace in these chaotic times. 🤍
Bless your honesty Catherine. I am 64 and after 40 years as a nurse, ignoring my body, I am dealing with the neck/headache/GI issues, as well as other physical wear a tear. I am trying to find the joy in doing less and “being” more, and figuring out physically where that balance is.
You are a beautiful soul, and your channel is a refreshing change from the misty, ethereal or stark white, no personality minimalist “tidy” videos on youtube. Thank you!
After hearing so many stories about nursing and how hard it is, I'm really glad I didn't spend the money to do that. I just worked in a nursing home caring for elderly with Alzheimer's. I was severely under paid working for a greedy man. I left my money in investments, which did quite well. Then at 50 years old, I bought my own home with no mortgage. My house had a lot going for it, but needed some care. I worked really hard, myself, fixing things. It is so awesome and I love it. The point is, at the age of 50, you don't want to spend on doing something that is taxing on your body. Work towards retirement peacefully. That is what I have now. I retired at 56, now 74. Of course I'm not married. Be careful ladies. One gets old before you know it. Be good to you.
I'm also 59 and will be 60 this year. I think your skin is beautiful. Skin damage from too much sun really ages us, so you will continue to be beautiful for years.
I struggle more with the fact that I'm running out of time to do the things I want to do. My grandchild that I have raised will be graduating from high school in three years. I never had an empty nest. Anyway, I wanted to drive a RV and travel but my lower back is really bad. I could fly places but I'm single and disabled so there's no money for that or really anything. Some days I feel like my best days are behind me. That's my poor pitiful me story Lol. Honestly though raising my grandchild has been a blessing in many ways.
I so understand you feeling like you’re running out of time to do all the things you want to. I have an autoimmune disease which has become more disabling as I get older. I wish I had done more when I was younger. I also suffer with back and joint pain so it makes it more difficult to travel or go far. I tell my son to not wait until he’s older to do things. Travel or do what you want when you can. I’m thankful your grandchild has been such a blessing to you. My husband and I don’t have any yet but I’m very hopeful that we’ll have grandchildren in the near future.
I think many of us struggle with that feeling that our best days or behind us.... But I tried to remind myself that you've God was done with me here and there was nothing more for me to experience or do, He would take me home. And sometimes what we are here to do or experience isn't only all about us... What a blessing you have been to your grandchild!!! We haven't really had an empty nest either because as soon as our kids moved out, our parents started moving in! 😊😊😊
I'm 67 & trying to embrace the changes that age has brought. I can't travel far but if you pause & look around, you quickly discover that there is beauty and infinite possibilities wherever you live. I've learned to be grateful for what I have but it was tough giving up on those life long dreams.
For me its the loneliness. No family. No partner or husband and no children. Last time i lived with a man was 25 years ago and no serious relationship since. It's crippling me. Can't see why i should carry on. Just tired now.
I recently discovered there are groups on Facebook for Senior Orphans. You’re not alone. You’ve just arrived there sooner. More of us will join this group of people in the next few years. Not everyone has partner or kids. It does take a lot of energy to stay connected. Keep plugging along and I wish you all good things.
I was divorced at 25. Stayed single without a man in my life until 50. Then married again, but he died a year later. That was 14 years ago. I am single again, also without a man and close family. Sometimes a I long to be in a relationship with someone gentle and kind, but it's not something I tie to my well being. Stay strong and I'll be praying for you 🌹🙏🏻
@@marlenegreyling8620 bless you 🙏
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I’m sorry you are feeling like that. I’m an introvert but I’m 64 and still working so I am ok like that for now. My mom is 96 and out of 4 other siblings, my youngest sister and I look after her and have gotten close. I know down the road I will be alone. I have cats and dogs that keep me loved. But I know when I get older, I won’t have as many. What ever the lord sends me. Connect to nature as nature is God. Much love♥️
Thank you for posting this message. It has been so very helpful to read about other peoples' experiences. I am 72 and have been blessed with good health until 3 yrs ago. Since then it has been an enormous challenge. It is a constant battle to stop comparing myself to my lifelong girlfriends who are still vital, extremely active and full of energy. Their lives have not yet changed much while my world gets smaller and smaller. I will not allow myself to be that person who moans and groans about their situation, but when im alone with my thoughts, i feel sad to observe how limited ive become in what i am abke to do. Lately ive been falling and im bewildered when it happens - for no apparent reason. I do know that i have much to be grateful for, but i have a new understanding of that old saying "getting old is not for the feint of heart". Blessings to you❤❤❤
I’ve thought about the older people in my life when I was younger and I’ve realize there were people feeling this way that I barely gave a thought to because I was busy with all the things.
It’s happening to me and it helps me accept that life comes to us in stages and seasons and this is the season for me. It is an encouragement to me. I don’t want to be the whiny old lady in the room either!
Hope you transition into your season well. 💜💜💜
@@marilynpeppers1356 thank you and you as well.❤️
If you are falling for no apparent reason I think it is important for you to follow up with your doctor as this is not normal. 72yrs is not ‘ancient’ so it is worth checking out. My very best wishes to you.
@@margaretgiudice7698 thank you, to you as well.
I am so in the same boat....good luck to you !
I'm new here. I will be 70 years old in a couple weeks. I'm going to hold back on what I so want to share because of time constraint. I will be binge watching your videos so I can catch up on what you have to share. I do want to encourage you to keep on keeping on. A Sister-in-Christ.
@shfrederick1 Welcome! So glad you are here!!! 🤍🤍🤍
Hi, i think it's not your appearance that matters, it what's inside, and you are a beautiful soul, it seems you love to encourage us folks, so i thank you for that. You are a breath of fresh air, you keep on being you. Thank you, lovely lady . Blessings to you.
Thank you so much! It is my hope to bring some encouragement! Thank you for encouraging me!! 🤍🤍🤍
I am 75 and have been good til a close friend died suddenly in May. I am now reevaluating everything. I have been a recluse for many years but have cut off a few people who were not good for me and I feel much better emotionally. I have two kitties who are my constant companions so I dont feel alone. My health was bad in my 50s and 60s but is much better now except for macular degeneration that limits going out too much but I have adjusted well. I will do the best I can for as long as I have left. Your videos are very informative and I enjoy your presentation. Thanks.
@@micajahsmom Thank you so much! Kitties are indeed very good companions! 😻😻
I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Such experiences seem to happen more frequenty as we age. But, you are still a relatively young person, compared to those in their eighties and nineties. Animals are such wonderful companions and make our homes feel like home. My neighbour had vision issues, and joined a group in town that supported both blind people and those with low vision. She went on many trips and picnics with them as well as other activities. It provided companionship for her through other members and volunteers, and they also offered ways to obtain devices to help people cope better with everyday challenges caused by vision loss. She was driven to meetings by voluneers, because she had long since given up driving, but she always said she loved her life, whenever I drove her home. She liked to go out to breakfast, or lunch at a local buffet. In fact, she had a better social life than most teenagers, I kid you not! Her calendar was always full. As a young woman she was a Major in the Canadian Army, so could be a tad demanding. One night around 2am, she phoned to tell me there were crickets in her house. After going to check, I determined that the said 'crickets' was a smoke detector needing to have its battery changed. But, she was convinced the crickets were all over her house, everywhere!
Losing a good friend is devastating, I feel your pain
Things start to pick up speed at 60. It looks like you are doing all the right things, so keep doing them. Stress is the killer. I'm on guard all the time. It still gets through the door, but I always notice now. That's a start. :)
It is definitely a discipline to keep stress at bay.... And the world just keeps getting more and more interesting... 🤣🤣🤣
everyone wants to live a long life but noone want to look like an old person. Crazy society. I am 47 years old and I try to see it like you. For me it is more important how i feel instead of how I look. I think in the end you shine from inside to the outside. I feel that you are having a lot of this light. Greetings from Germany.
Thank you so much for the kind words!! And for the greetings from Germany! 😊
I'm also 59 and I think you look fantastic. You have great arms. You are able to wear sleeveless tops which most women our age can't pull off as well as you do. You look amazing.
I think you look great and hope youll celebrate 60 with happiness in your heart and mind. I'm turning 70 next year! Yes, many changes with health and skin appearance. I quit wearing makeup upon retirement and only wore minimal makeup all my life, mascara mostly. So now I just wear to church because I like wearing my dresses there. I focus more on how I feel!
Hi, Catherine. Thank you for your openness about these struggles. I’m 71 and am also legally blind. This is a new struggle for me to accept my limitations (like not being able to drive anymore). My right eye is wonky and I can be so self conscious of it. My 69 year old sister and I were talking recently about how we worry so much about that spare tire we got with menopause and how we can feel like everyone is judging us a obese and lazy, when in reality we don’t look that bad (thankfully we are tall so we can carry a little extra and hide it😅). Thank you for your insights.
Lovely video, thank you ! I have very similar neck related issues to you, migraines, dizziness, pain and nausea - and when I look back I can remember being given advice on addressing my poor posture from kind ladies who must have been my age now. I also remember being offered good advice on taking better care of my eyesight and hearing too. None of these well intentioned ( and as it turned out eminently wise ) cautionary tales and advices had much impact at the time, as I merrily crouched and slouched and threw myself about like a rag doll until I was at least 50. I lifted heavy weights indiscriminately without a care, and also assaulted my eyes and ears with all manor of consistently intense strain. I feel a bit silly about it all now, but I guess that’s how life goes .. by the time you realise you actually are going to age, and by the way it won’t take half as long as you imagined it would , the damage is done! On the plus side, I’ve never been happier in my own skin, and never more confident with having the body I’ve grown to respect - ( however wrinkly and creaky it all is), it’s mine and it’s got me this far, I’m full of gratitude for it. Thank you for reminding us that it’s never too little too late to work with what we have and make significant improvements for the now and for our future selves.
You mentioned that in your young days you felt ( or were made to feel ) like a ‘freak of nature’ , and I think we all feel like that one way or another. On a biological level, we really all are freaks of nature - if we weren’t we’d all be the same . So for me, the good bit comes when you’ve learnt to embrace all your uniqueness and freakiness and no longer wish it wasn’t so. No amount of being young and bendy and even beautiful can beat that feeling 🌎
@@thermallyinvested I love this comment so much! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
Nice to join your channel Catherine.
I am 71. I have been on many diets and health journeys.
I have found many of my age who have gone carnivore for many reasons but the most important one to me was the
many aging issues of lack of energy or sleep and various aches and pains. I eat mainly steak and pork, no vegetables or fruit. Just meat and water with morning coffee with double cream.
No supplements except Redmans salt.
Lost 10kgs and now have to watch I don’t lose anymore as I am satiated for long periods so lose the need to eat.
Minimal wardrobe.
It does change your appearance as a tendency to take years off you.
Improved confidence.
I do 8kms a day with Zumba, walking and rebounding plus a few strength exercises.
I’m 72 and my 4 year old grandson says pretty often, “you are old.” Yes baby I know. And I think you are lovely inside and out. Makeup just sinks into my wrinkles. I just want to be healthy.
I feel the same way about makeup and my wrinkles! It definitely doesn't help. 🤣🙃😊
I love this. I am 49 so I understand everything you're talking about. I appreciate you being so real. This is rare to find videos like this:) Yahweh bless you
Thank you! And may He bless you as well!
First time seeing your videos, and boy I feel about what your going through. I am 63, white hair, and feeling the body changes........with weight and pain
I'm almost 62 and am feeling the exact same way- weight and pain. I also stopped dying my hair 20 months ago; it's also mainly white (which I actually like). One thing I'm finding challenging is working everyday. Just getting so hard, but I have to work until I'm almost 67. (Wish I could go back and do things differently in terms of job and money!)
I really appreciate this! 69 here, and my main issue is pain, making it more difficult to stay on my feet for very long and do things, so it's hard to find a job where I live and I'm struggling financially. You are amazing and an inspiration! 👍💖
Just try and keep as active as possible. My 91 year old dad lives with me. When we watch a little tv in the evening… when commercials come on he gets up and walks around my house. Walk walk walk. It’s so good for our whole body and mind 😊
@@cjhoward409 Thank you! Your dad is an inspiration. I walk almost daily even when I hurt, and stay busy around my house with the things I do, and I feel better for it.
I’m 84 and have been very concerned this past year with joint pain. Good to watch you. You “get it.”
Please try turmeric or curcumin supplements, they worked for me.
❤ 😊 thank you for taking time to help change our thoughts about aging. I am 62 and love finding people like yourself accepting the life journey with love, encouragement and joy 😊. God Bless you 🙏
I have found the hardest part is my waning energy, and still dealing with the health problems, (Dr. says its weight) and i am beginning to think that the stress of dealing with sis & cousins health issues that are worse than mine are affecting my health. its causing increased autoimmune illnesses. i just have to keep tweaking my diet, breath, pray. (how did i get to 63 😮)and holding off with seeing new dr. just went through full phys last november. only thing off was chloesterol. im not worried about that. i still have 100lb weight to go. I am still praying for you as well. have a blessed remainder of the year. ~Lisa ann
Being too heavy is a struggle for many of us, especailly as we get older. I decided to fast, and make friends with my electric bicycle. Instead of thinking about weight, I think about becoming fitter and building muscle. I love cycling but with an unstable INR, bumping one's head on the tarmac, is a serious consideration.
Dealing with the issues of family members, and ulitmately their deaths, can take a huge toll on our energy and well being.
After serious illness or injury, makes being grateful a given. I have learned to be kinder to myself. The day after a particulary tiring event, I often have a Quiet Day. Though enthusiastic to write my 'To Do' lists, I also don't worry if I do not complete any list all on the same day. I do what is most important first, especially if it is not the most pleasant, the rest goes to the next day, and so on.
Accepting limitations, and replacing such activities with ones that serve one better seems to work. A lot of it has to do with knowning oneself, exploring options, and making a conscious effort to live a well-balanced life. Quality is always better than quantity, so I nolonger socialize just, because. I do it on my terms, and when I feel like it. If I don't want to, that is OK too! Getting older, just as any other season of our lives, comes with both positives and negatives. And, beats the other alternative!
I've decided to slow down a tad, and not take on tasks that do not enhance my well-being, or cause a financial burden. Being a little spontanious sometimes brings joy. If I feel like a new hair style occasionally, I can always go to the Beauty School and stay within my budget. Being selective about who I spend my time with, is a biggy. I gave up on the Senior Center, because it was not my cup of tea. And, I didn't enjoy it particularly and found other activities more rewarding. I make it a point to experiment and discover what works, and what doesn't. I make it a habit to review and refine how I spend my time. The older we become, the less time there is to waste. That said, there is nothing wrong with doing absolutely nothing once in a while, and not feeling guilty about it. A good question to ask is, " What would I like to do today? What would bring me joy? And, do it!
@@sjordan7085 I have lost 50lbs. and i walk on my good days. arthritis in neck, shoulders, hips, knees, feet. i do what i can.
I am 80 and experiencing some similar issues as those you described. I am also having some other issues that are more complex and therefore more complicated for me to work through. They seem to be multifaceted and if one thing isn’t going well, it causes problems for another. Balancing everything becomes very important.
Thank you for your video. I really like your style! You’re the kind of woman I admire! Keep up your good work.
Oooohhh, I really needed this today, especially regarding posture. I'm your age and have had a lifetime of bad posture, and it's obvious as I go through old photos. Taking action on it has been on my goals lists for so many years. Time to get busy!
There are lots and lots of videos on youtube of exercises you can do to help your posture. Just start nice and slow. We got this!
Thank you for sharing. Glad to have found you. I am 66 soon. Embracing what’s beautiful in our life❤
I'm always amused when I catch sight of myself unexpectedly. Shock horror. Then I laugh.
I do the minimal wardrobe also. Also there is something about 'house shoes' ha ha! I never got why older people wear house shoes indoors but now I do. I like my clothes to be simple and comfy. I also get why us older gals like stretchy pants because they work if we're smaller or larger daily. Wonderful sharing 🥰💞🙏🏻💐👍🏻
Just very recently I feel like a ton of aging insecurities have hit me all at once. It’s definitely an uncomfortable mental stretch.
Also, you have beautiful skin! (Though I’m sure it must be a change to you and that is difficult.)
And it's a mental stretch that nobody really prepares you for or warns you about! But we're going to make the best of it, right? 😊
@@TheLifeTidy Yes, absolutely!
The clothing size problem is real! I also keep 3 sizes. Love your gesturing by the way.
I have prepared myself ahead of time to deal with aging. Daily yoga is one of the best thing one can do. Now I am 60, happy with my body and mind.
I've really been thinking about adding a little more yoga to my morning routine. There are some postures I am not supposed to do because of my neck degeneration, but I do do the sun salutatiation several times most mornings because my chiropractor recommended that movement. Do you have any Yoga channels here on CZcams that you would recommend that I could follow along with? I wouldn't necessarily be into the spiritual elements of it, but the movements are undoubtedly super beneficial!
I just thought you had fair skin. You look lovely and don’t have the brown spots all over from sun damage like so many of us.
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Catherine, you are beautiful! You shine from the inside out! Keep being you! You inspire me so much! God bless you!
Thank you! May God bless you as well! 🤍
I’ve been enjoying the aging process more with each decade. I’m 83 now. I loved this video. Keep up the good work. ❤
I will be 57 in December and I am starting to feel things physically that I can't do as easily as I once did. I don't wear makeup. I don't want to deal with it, life is too short! We are fearfully and wonderfully made. I don't think anything less of older people. They are great, some of them, have some great wisdom (as you do!) I look for their heart, their kindness. You have encouraged me. I try to see aging as you do. I hope you are having a blessed day!
i had an albino in my class. she was very open about it. I thought she was cool as she was different. she was a nice fun person, she is now a chef and travels round the world being a yacht chef. she was always adventurous
I live with an albino. Her name is 'Snow', and she is a lovely white rabbit. Such a sweet girl. When I took her to the vet, he sat on the floor. He opened her crate and she hopped out and sat on his lap. He said he had never seen a rabbit do that before.
@sjordan7085 I wonder if albino animals are also legally blind? I would think so, which would make it very challenging for them to survive out in the wild...
I love your attitude and sense of humor! -- Barbara
Thank you for sharing your challenges - many of us share similar ones. In reading some of the comments, I agree that when I think of older people that I have admired in my life they were the ones who were comfortable with who they were, took care in how they dressed (this didn’t require a large or expensive wardrobe), were optimistic, and were more interested in encouraging the person(s) they were with rather than being self conscious.
I often fall short of this ideal, but I continue to work on it. 😊💕
Hi Catherine thank you very much seeing aging through your eyes. You see far better than most people. May God bless you. ❤ Finci South Africa
Hi Catherine, love your idea about separate bins for different sizes. It's also perfectly normal, between the cold and the decreased sunlight, to put on a few lbs in the winter months (if one lives far enough north to experience it). I've always been this way, as are most people, with no apologies. As for women who remain fixated on their looks well into their senior years, I think that's pretty pathetic. Nothing wrong with wanting to look one's best, but hey, once one is no longer "a creature of reproduction" it's time to shift focus to all that one has to offer after a lifetime of experience, not cling pathetically to a time long past -- which is evident to everyone! Really enjoyed your video.
Mush on!
@anneburland5306 There are indeed so many factors that influence these things. Montana winters definitely do inspire a little bit more snacking and a little bit more weight gain. 😊😊😊
@TheLifeTidy For sure! As I spent several years in Saskatchewan I can certainly relate.
So, when I heard your story about the little preschooler who came running up asking you what happened to you, I felt free to share my tiny story. I was sitting on my couch talking and laughing with two of my granddaughters. The oldest one started to video me and I asked her to stop as everyone knows I don’t like my picture taken. She then asked, “why, do you think you are ugly?” I replied that “yes, I feel ugly.” The younger one turned and looked at me and said, “you aren’t THAT ugly.” 😂😂 I was actually relieved that she felt that way. 💖
Oh, my gosh, you gotta love kiddos! Thank you for sharing that story! 😊😊🤍🤍
I feel you sis! I’m 59 and I will be 60 in December 🎉 This milestone feels completely different! However It’s a blessing to be above ground 🙏🏾
I didn’t realize you were an albino, just thought, what lovely white hair.
I didn’t either. I was thinking, fair skinned and hair that instead of going grey, went white. It’s very pretty. 😊
I find you very attractive and your personality adds to that even more! You take good care of yourself and that’s great, too!
I struggle with my wrinkles but accept everyone else’s, lol. I have more important things to think about so I remind myself that. I like makeup but don’t want to look painted. I try to make the most of my looks with minimal makeup and flattering but not costly clothes. I try to wear a smile. God has clothed me in a robe of righteousness so I am well dressed! I have a lot of love to give and that’s worth something. I recently created a new wardrobe influenced by fashion experts- just for fun. Much of it is from thrift stores. I get complimented every week (at church) and that has been fun. It is not who I am but an expression of who I am. I want to look my best and have a good attitude. People seem to honor that. I am 72.
I love this...thank you for sharing. I fell and broke my hip in April and had a hip replacement (at 65 and now i am 66). I am so resentful of the challenges in the healing process and the time it takes and yet so grateful for my progress every day and lucky for the technology we have these days. Thank you for your positive vibes and wise messages.❤
I appreciate your honesty. This is a wonderful channel.
Im 60 .I always do strengthening before bed . I only eat whole foods..I take shower e every-morning.I take care of my skin..My eye wrinkle is appearing and my gray hair is there …but its ok..as long as I smell good its matter..Because some of the old people smell bad.Don’t be the one.. Try to be more beautiful everyday..Good luck as we getting older..
Nothing like Retail Therapy. Love to Redecorate my Bathroom completely. Put it all in the Basket and then put it all back. Aaaw feel better instantly
I've been disappointed in many blogs & vlogs about ageing before this, and was hesitant to click into this one, afraid I'd be disappointed once again. Thank you for your honesty. It was a very refreshing & uplifting video. Much, much needed. Like you, I've never really cared about my looks, but I did take my strength for granted. It's the hardest thing for me to come to terms with. I'm still strong for my age (61), but I am not as strong as I use to be. For me, that's the most annoying thing. I love how you say it like it is, without the fake stuff you see on YT now days. BTW...my mom was albino, and legally blind as well. You look beautiful to me. Wish I still had her with me.
You just got yourself a new subscriber. Look forward to more from you.
I'm 69 and have never dyed my hair and I quit wearing makeup decades ago. My glasses are my eye make up. I look fine and it doesn't take me an hour to get ready! Hubby loves that. I'm assuming you are using moisturizer designed for the special needs of albino skin. If not, please look in to that. The only thing I do sometimes is use a tinted lip moisturizer because I hate the feel lipstick. I'm fine with how aging is affecting me except for one thing...increasing bladder leaks. That has had the most negative impact on my quality of life. No one ever mentions that even though so many of us have that issue. I work around it, but I wish it wasn't a consideration. Thanks for your video and best of luck to you. You look fine!
My bladder leaking has improved so much with using vaginal estrogen cream. It is a hormone problem, not a bladder problem. The dose is extremely small.
@@kathy.7475yes me too. I started to suffer at menopause and did for a few years. 2 weeks and it went away. Doctors are allowing women to suffer.
Certain physiotherapists have special training to assess and recommend a set of exercises to improve the vaginal muscle tone. Benefits include reduction or elimination of bladder leaks, improvement of cystocele and rectocele issues, increased sexual enjoyment. All without the expense and possible side effects of medication.
This is a tough year for me also, i feel tingling on hands and feet, anxiety , nausea sometimes, hypothyroidism ,gerd, and im going to anxiety education to help with everything and i walk 3 times a day , i have to pay attention what i eat because certain foods affect gerd and anxiety, glad i found your channel.
Thank you! I always enjoy your videos. I'm of the opinion that as we age, "less is more" as far as makeup goes. I'm pushing 64 right now and have since my 50's worn the bare minimum. Just foundation as my skin was sun damaged from my youth and just needs a bit of evening out. Concealer under the eyes to bring them out and cover dark circles. And the final, waa laa! I curl my eyelashes as I've refused to wear mascara most of my life, my lashes are dark black, were very thick and long most of my life. Now they are thinning a bit, but not from putting goop on them that made them look fake in my youth. Oh, and some form of clear gloss or chapstick. This on top of the lotions and potions with sunscreen and such to take the best care that I can of my skin.
If it makes you feel any better sweet Christian sister, I can imagine you shinning so brightly in that great multitude which no man can number in Heaven for all of eternity. We will all be looking the best of the best that we ever have and then some forever. This time we have in this flesh is just a moment, an instant, a breath, compared to forever, eternity, infinity life, in the Kingdom of Heaven.
So for me, I'm just not gonna worry about it. I want to feel well, take care of myself and stay active as long as I can. Today is the youngest I will ever be during my trip on this planet and that's OK. Tomorrow I will be one day older and so forth. No matter how many more days or months or years I have, I want to serve Jesus with everyone of them.
May God bless you sweet sister and know that you are loved. I think you're beautiful inside and out.
Amen and amen and amen! Thank you so much for this comment! Made me cry. In the best possible way! 🤍🤍🤍
@@TheLifeTidy You are so very welcome. God bless.
Beautiful comment. Heaven will be awesome and in some ways we live it now.
@@vanessamay3689 Yes it will. Even our best moments on this earth is but a glimpse or a fraction of what awaits for us in heaven.
A smile and a kind heart is true beauty. Kind peoples faces radiate inner beauty. Thank you for your honesty and you are obviously a kind and loving lady. God bless you as you go through this journey of life.
I’m sure it’s very common especially for women to feel all the emotions of aging. I turned 61 this year and honestly was ok emotionally until I turned 60. I’m sure a lot had to do with the fact that I lost my dad when he was 61.😢 It really has had a huge effect on me. I realized how much he missed and more so how much time do I have left?😫 I’ve had health issues for the majority of my life so that doesn’t help. I feel I’ve missed out on a lot. I don’t feel well daily so how can I feel better as I age? Most of my fears are health related versus how I look. I don’t mind wrinkles and some sagginess but my hair is thinning and that is a big concern. Stress doesn’t help but if you don’t feel well it’s hard to avoid it. To age is a blessing and I do feel incredibly fortunate to be here especially as I was very ill in my early adulthood. I just have to keep telling myself to enjoy what I can now and not to worry about what is to come. Thank you Katherine for this video and letting us express our feelings. God bless you.❤️🙏
The reality is that none of us ever know how much time we have left no matter how old we are, but somehow, we don't feel that when we are young. It becomes a very prevalent feeling as we get older.. I try to use that knowledge to motivate me to make the most of every day even if I am not feeling well. It is definitely a challenge! I always remind myself that if God was done with me here on this planet, He would take me Home. As long as I'm still here I figure I have something to do and to contribute to the lives of those around me. Hmmm... Should have put that thought in this video somewhere! Thank you for inspiring me!
II'm 65.5 still working full time , I've noticed I'm slower to retrieve things off the floor, which is a pain litrally, I'm on my feet most of the day, also have developed double Mormons nueroma, so no more pointy boots ( my favourites) also of course gained weight , I think making an effort every day helps, a little make up , hair clean, its getting harder, but I love trying, stay in the game, I've accepted what I look like as I've aged, to hell with other peeps opinions as I don't know one other woman who's perfect, unless their movie stars with the money at 65.5, health , being alive is our best gift, to each one us, live it and enjoy 😊
I recently turned 69 and see my doctor for bloodwork/labs annually. Thankfully, I am still not on any medications although there was one time, about four years ago my doctor wanted to put me on some kind of cholesterol lowering med....I told her, give me three months and lets do my labs again. Over those next three months I tweaked my diet and voila! My cholesterol dropped about 20 points, back into what was acceptable to my doctor. I also have a morning routine that involves 20-minutes of therapy/Yoga exercises then treadmill for 15 minutes at maximum incline. In my mind that morning routine is "non-negotiable" because to me it is overwhelmingly beneficial in maintaining proper balance, flexibility, strength and overall good health. I admire your tenacity and positive attitude even though you've had to overcome adversity. Cheers!
Wow! I identify.Thanks for sharing. Greeting from the Caribbean. 🇵🇷
I’m 70, I look after my baby granddaughter four days a week, I have dogs that I walk about 3 miles a day. Yes I get tired, but as long as I can I will carry on doing this. If I was giving you some advice I’d say wear some bright colours, black is ageing as you get older
Put it like this, "today, you are younger than you will ever be". Be content with your life. If you are not, then change it. Don't listen to the opinions of others, they are not you. Live your life authentically. There is great peace in that. If you have lost your way, help someone else, this will give you enough perspective to find it again. Love and Kindness are real. ❤ ps 66yo (f).
I'm 3 days away from 60. I was struggling with it but decided a few months ago that it was time to embrace it. Time passes. I stopped dying my hair at 50 and love being grey. I wear very minimal make-up now because it's harder to apply to an aging face. I have noticed a lot of changes to the skin on my face. It was bothering me initially but then I figured people are more interested in a person who is friendly and smiles. They don't care about my sagging soon to be drool lines. haha Great video. Thank you for your willingness to share. All the best.
Happy 60th ! Birthdays of all ages should be celebrated. I’ll be 60 in 17 months and I want a BIG party 🎉 I’m embracing it. It is what it is. 😊
I found your video so positive, helpful and encouraging 😊 Thank you, I will have a better day because of the things you shared... I'm 68,and struggling with health issues and the process of aging. It's very challenging...
Thank you so much for the kind words and encouragement! You have made my day better as well! At least we know we are not alone in the challenges.... 🤍🤍🤍
66 and picked up the cello at 62 and now playing in a community orchestra. Just got a Pilates bar resistance system to work on strength and flexibility.
@@jenna2431 That is awesome!! 🤍🤍🤍 🎻
Hi Catherine,
I so appreciate your sharing about your personal journey. I have just turned 60 and retired and am also happily receiving much meaning from all my Christian friends, family and church. I have recently watched a show by Chris Hemsworth titled ‘Acceptance’, being part of a series on Aging. Your talk flows on very well with his and could also be called Acceptance very aptly. In your courage to become vulnerable and share, I believe there is blessing for both yourself and others.
Thankyou Catherine 😊
I'm so glad you didn't cave to the pressure of wearing makeup. You are who I aspire to be like. Thank you for being real. I too work with young kids and yes, they can be very honest 😅
Just never ask a group of small children how old they think you are!!! Thank you so much for your super kind words! 🤍🤍🤍
I was in school with several albino people. I went to the Arkansas school for the blind and have been legally blind. All my life. Being different should be celebrated. At 75 the back strain from reading close-up forever is truly a challenge. Doing as much exercise to straighten the back as possible is truly necessary. I begin each day in pain, but I move move move move. Walk, sit in a chair and March sit in a chair and, move your elbows to your knees, etc. you’ve got it. Most of all try not to feel sorry for yourself because you’re different. Very different is just another way of saying you are unique. I beautiful creation.
To me you are beautiful. My sister was albino and she too was beautiful. It’s hard to explain the unique and special beauty of albino people. Part of it is a natural sensitivity and softness in personality and physical being. I so appreciate you and I’m glad I came across your channel. Thank you for being you.
You are a very relevant person on this topic. How cool it is to share this for people floundering. This is what happens when people have developed character. Give me better character than be a worry wart about the age spot….there is this one that really bothers me on my hand….i hve many but this ONE just sticks out.
I went thru a stage when I went on a rant to my peers at senior meals how wrong it is that aging people usually shut up about it and say very little and keep a smile on their faces when I now know it’s awful, frustrating, depressing painful and foreign it is loosing mobility and being able to do things etc…. And how when you try to do some of the things they suggest to get back to normal they barely work….yes help…but sometimes cause a worse problem due to doing it “not exactly right”. Now I just walk. I do a little bit of stretching because yes….most else hurts. I say I am grateful to be able to walk. I’m not super limited….but it feels like I’m headed that way. Yes it is about keeping your independance.
You can just forget all about the Albino thought. Never crossed my mind as I watched you and Listened. Admired your Beautiful platinum. But i never thought of you as Albino until you said you were. Forget about that. Never mention it again. You're beautiful. Nothing a stick of red lipstick can't take care of. You shine on.
You are YOUNG! I am almost 64 and I am young too. I am healthy and happy and have gotten a real kick out of you. Just keep doing what you are.😊
Thank you for sharing. I think you are beautiful. Your thoughts are helpful and encouraging
It seems to happen overnight - the crepey skin and chin that falls down. Doesn't seem to be too much to do about those things. Otherwise, holding my own in my mid-sixties. Regular maintenance helps - haircuts and color, nails (manicure and pedicure), classic but comfortable clothes, minimal make up. I worked out pretty regularly in my twenties, thirties, forties and into fifties - so I'm not as out of shape as some people are. Everything else is fine as is.
Catherine, you are a blessing. I appreciate your encouragement ❤
At 60, I'm trying to embrace my grey hair, and growing out the colour I have used for years. It's hard but I'm going to feel so free! I haven't managed to kick the make up thing. I would love to be free from that.
Thank you for sharing this. I love your energy 🎉❤
Thank you so much!
Thank you, Catherine-all so true!
Excellent video/topic! Thank you for sharing. ❤
You are a lovely person. Thank you so much for this video ❤🌟❤️
You are beautiful!
yes!
Thank you, my husband, for telling me that multiple times a day! Love you!! ❤️❤️
Greetings! I just found your video today, and I am so glad I did! You validated so much of my experience. It seems to be the trend to gloss over all the physical things that go wrong or that can go wrong, and skip to the positive affirmation part. I for one, have many of the same physical issues as you, including the dizziness and ups and downs of body weight and size. I really have felt quite alone in that. Thank you so much! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
You are absolutely gorgeous. You are true. You are real. You are speaking my feelings. I am 63 and grateful that your video appeared this morning. Happy Sunday. 🌞
I am 59 and I have put on a bit of weight,. I used to be an endurance cyclist but now I am a Nordic walker. I kept out of the sun so my skin is not wrinkly much at all. I am car free which makes me feel less old and I still cycle though mainly to the shops or a short cycle ride. I think not having kids is really helpful, I am not a mombie or grannie and have lots of hobbies, so dont have to talk about kids all the time
Im retired in Danbury, CT. Im on a fixed income. I have a section 8 voucher, for a one bedrm. I dont have family here. Sister in Austin, TX brother in Brinnon ,Wash, daughter in LA. Im alone here, and am on long waiting lists for senior housing Its difficult, at times, being alone. I had alot of deaths in the family, in the past15 yrs. A dusterbyo Lewy Body Dementia, ex husband , heart attack, and elderly mother, natural causes.Also a close male friend , heart attack, in Cali. This is life!
loved your very honest conversation. I am 76. This past year has been my wake up call. Got my weight down, off metformin with low carb high protein diet. Now working on more exercise. Also raising my on chickens for eggs.
Thank you, Catherine, for your honesty and vulnerability. I am 2 months younger than you and am looking forward to turning 60. I think that the most profound thing for me that you said in this video is the comment that 'your looks are the least interesting thing about you'. I love it, and I like to think that it is true about me as well! I have been eating low carb for years to manage my blood sugar levels and exercise 3 or 4 times a week. I stopped dyeing my hair 16 years ago and love getting compliments on my silver hair. I like to find flattering clothes in thrift or consignment stores and now wear minimal makeup and even go out without any makeup on occasion. I am focusing more on my inner and spiritual self and am learning how to set healthy boundaries (book by that title by Cloud & Townsend) and Bible study by Peter Scazzero entitled Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. Being friendly, cheerful, authentic, and encouraging to others is more important to me about how people think of me than just my wrinkles and other signs of aging. I want to set an example to younger women about how to age well, if you are fortunate enough to get the opportunity to do it! 🤗
Oh, Thank you for this video!! I am 63y and dealing with much musculoskeletal pain, and just having a really hard time accepting these changes,and injuries that keep coming. It is so wierd to me because I've always been strong and athletic! Now, I can't keep up even with the slowest it seems. Quite humiliating, and shows me I have much to work on with releasing pride. Such a strange time of life. I appreciate much that this time of life brings, slower pace, more authenticity, etc...
But I am admittedly, trying to deal with the challenges, and not Bore EVERYONE with my complaints!!!