Hi, I am Hailey and this is my story
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
- As someone who is known for being a happy go lucky girl I want to go ahead and warn you that this video goes over all of my life which can be pretty dark and heavy. Please read the trigger warnings and only watch if you feel like you can handle the topics. The last thing I want is for my story to be a reason someone is feeling dark.
So much love,
Hailey B
TikTok: Haileyonthedaily
Instagram: Haileyonthegram
Hailey you are such a beautiful soul. I'm 72 and I'd be honoured to have you as a granddaughter. May your journey be blessed always.
Hi Hailey
I'm 71 and I grew up with alcoholic parents who were very abusive. I survived and so will you. I pray to Jesus every day. I have cancer. He has always been by NY side. I live in Cincinnati, Ohio. Wish we were close so that I could talk to you and give you a big hug.
Be kind to yourself. Keep this communication open so your followers can continue to support you! God bless you!
Michele
It most definitely was never your fault. I hope that your life is full of love and happiness. You're not alone.
You are an incredibly beautiful woman and storyteller. I understand trauma. Not like this, but I do understand it. Being on CZcams and sharing your testimonies are very freeing and liberating. I was diagnosed with cancer and depression right around your age and this platform has literally saved me many times. Even when I only had 2 subscribers or 10 people watching. It’s literally free therapy where you don’t have to worry about being judged. Of course after a taste of popularity which I’m certain will happen for you very soon does come with hate. But that will do nothing but motivate you as a person who can see how strong you are. Please know that you are making a difference and I hope that by helping others and even more so, this especially helps you! I’m proud of you and i am glad you decided to come to this platform. Tons of live to you from another southern girl. ♥️
From surviving to thriving!!! So, so proud of you…❤️👍❤️
Hailey, your video came up on my recommended, and I jut want to say that you are so strong for telling your story. I hope you THRIVE continually in your life.
Thank You! I realize from listening to you that I too was actually born into a life of trauma and have lived a life of trauma! Now I need to heal but haven't learned how to!
I hope you can get some healing maybe therapy?it’s very brave to acknowledge your own traumas and feeling unsure how to learn to deal with them.
Wishing you all the best. Look after you!…. much ❤
I know ❤ me to ❤
I’m going to therapy and I have found out by going that I have PTSD and it’s why I didn’t know how to heal. I’ve been surviving though. And a psychologist I was seeing for an evaluation told me that he felt I probably had PTSD due to the childhood trauma 8 went through. I actually just decided to randomly share what happened to me. Something came over me and I felt that I could trust him. I’m so glad I did because now I am with the Best LMFT that I’ve ever seen in my life and she can give what they call EMDR therapy. And this can help us Heal.
Hailey, I have been following you for a while now. I knew you had been through a lot as a child. But I never knew how much you went through and endured. I’m so sorry you went through so much. You are such a bright light and absolutely beautiful. You radiate happiness and positivity. Thank you for sharing your story with us 🤍
Wow!sweethear u are so strong and a beauty young wise woman wear a story I found it all#9 inspiring , so pleased u are living a good life wel done , wishing u well and hope the yrs ahead are so knd to u now 🍃🦋🍃🇬🇧
Hi, Hailey. I first off want to start by saying thank you. Thank you for being so brave and so strong to be able to sit here and relive your life, to tell us all about it. I have been watching your videos ever since you started posting on TikTok and was IMMEDIATELY attracted to you and your extremely positive and genuine personality. From watching your videos, I NEVER would have guessed that you had went through so many horrible, horrible things in life but this video will help so many people going through the same thing you did. It will show them that it gets better and a lot of the times, that is all they need: to know that there is hope. I genuinely love you so much and am honored that I was able to hear your story. Thank you for all you do by uplifting everyone around you, including yourself. You are amazing and I love you.💛
I have to tell you…IM SO PROUD OF YOU!
little hailey is so proud of you !!!! sending you hugs xo
So so proud of you for sharing this❤ you are so incredibly strong and I’m so grateful to have you in my life!
I am a complete stranger from across the ocean. BUT.. I AM SO VERY PROUD of you …. Sending blessings from the UK xx
It’s amazing how you’ve been through so much trauma, and yet you are clearly someone who still managed to be loving, sweet, and able to tell your story with such grace. I admire you for being so honest, and I bet it will help so many others! 💕
I’m so sorry it happened to you, I went through quite a bit of trauma myself through my life. You seem to have turned out into a very precious, beautiful human. Take good care ♥
I’m so sorry you had to go through these things you are so strong you deserve to have complete happiness with life and in anything you do
You are a beautiful woman. Thank God you actually took control of your life and lived through all of it. I am sure your experiences made you the strongest woman. ❤❤❤❤
Helping people like you are why I became a therapist; your strength is just amazing. I know our system is so damn broken, it is never because of you sweet, sweet children. I am so proud of you and thank you for being able to inspire so many by just being you and telling your trauma. If you ever write a book, I would buy many to share with the world.
You are so strong Hailey for telling us your life experience story. You have given me the strength even more to tell my story.
Memories do come up and I know this because my memories are too. Like when I was born my mom wanted things to be wrong with me, like she says my legs were turned inward and she says she my feet turned inward and that I tripped over my feet. And said that I had to wear these shoes that were put together with a bar that held them straight the shoes straight and she put me in them to sleep at night! And I remember screaming and screaming till I fell asleep. I was 12 months old. I know what they look like too because I seen them she showed them to me. Anyways this is a past traumatic memory I have and I was only a baby. My memory was I use to cry a lot when I was a baby. And I asked about the shoes yesterday and she told me I had to wear them a lot because they stopped my feet were turning inward. Guess what they do turn inward well one does that’s my right foot and I was teased when I was younger that when I was running that I looked stupid running like a dork! Well that’s the problem I had and it wasn’t that bad. No need I’m sure for the shoe braces. Oh Hailey I’ve had other traumatic things happen with me. Like my mom telling my nine year old daughter that I’m a whore and that was because she found a list of boys I had wrote down that like on a piece of paper that she found in my past teenager stuff in a box. It was with other random things I had kept from my teenager years. So she was actually trying to destroy my healthy relationship with my little girl at that time. She now doesn’t talk to me! My daughter is closer to my mother and has chose to remove me from her life and not my mom! My mother is abusive to both my brother and I and I have more of a story when it comes to this.. but this is CZcams and I can’t tell it all in a comment with you. But I want you to know your so strong that your telling us your story…
Oh my gosh, you went through so much. Literally you are AMAZING and SO STRONG. And I am so glad I found you because you are a such a light and inspiration. You had me crrryyinn
Girl, you're so strong! 💖
It’s crazy how similar my childhood was to yours, I admire your courage to share your story thank you for sharing
Bless your heart. I’m so sorry you had that horrible childhood . sending you love! 💕💕🌸💕💕
Thank you for sharing your story. As someone who is still unpacking trauma in their late twenties, this video gives me so much hope. This is the first year I am really seeing progress and growth within myself after feeling like I've been in a toxic and self-pity cycle for a few years because of everything I've endured (essentially giving up and not wanting to continue), but now I'm so excited to see what the rest of this year and beyond has in store. God, I'm just so grateful this video found me tonight. You are beautiful inside and out girly, and hope to find people just like you with a heart of gold and a spine of steal. You seem like the most down to earth, genuine, perfectly imperfect soul❤ take care and best wishes
Came from Tik Tok, thank you for sharing your story ❤ So inspiring!
Dear Haily hi my name is Bronwyn from Melbourne Australia. I'm a single mum to my two gorgeous children now adults. I'm watching your video and I'm so so sorry and saddened about the life your so called family were. I'm watching this in bits as I'm so teary but writing this I'm so proud of you and I love you and I hope you can feel my surrounding hugs 🫂 coming to you and your sister right now....Much love prayers and strength from Australia the Land Down Under 😊🇦🇺❤🌸🌞🌊🙏🥰💎🦘🐾🐨🦋🌺
I also grew up in an extremely abusive environment. I admire your strength and courage. Thank you for sharing your story
Came from TikTok. I'm so glad you have a channel now❤
You are the same age as my first son by days . In fact my due date for him was the 29 of May 1998 but he came early. Your story just breaks my heart. I just understand people. I wish I could make you feel like you were part of my family. It broke my heart when you said you’re never going to feel like part of a family until you have your own.😭. I’m so sorry for everything you’ve had to endure. None of it was your fault sweet girl. You’re so incredibly strong! This life is hard but can be beautiful. I have my own struggles and I just try to live each day. You’re not alone sweetie. If you ever need to talk just let me know and I can DM you. You’re an incredible human and I admire you and your strength . Thank you for sharing your story and being vulnerable to help others going through or that have been through what you have ! So much love to you!!!❤️❤️❤️
Oh Hailey, what a bright and beautiful light you must be to have gone through so much darkness and still shine so brightly. 💜
Keep at it! I am a foster parent, and I have a hard time hearing how you were treated. But I know so many that were treated so badly, and came out on top! But you have the tools now! Great job!!
Wow! I just watched this video, you are such an amazing young lady!! I don’t know you at all but soooo proud of you! I am 62 years old and fortunately I had a wonderful childhood and I could say my children did also! I just can’t imagine being treated so poorly by so many people! Keep moving forward, im positive that your are going to be a successful human being! God Bless you sweet girl♥️
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve survived an incredible journey, and I am so proud of you! You are so deserving of love and light and also very deserving of parents who love you. If ever you need a mom, I’ve always wanted more than one child, and I am here! (Was adopted, too) Thanks again for sharing your story.
Hailey my heart absolutely breaks for you!! I went through sexual abuse at the age of three & up. I totally understand what you went through & still going through. I pray you know that none of this was your fault!! You are not & we're not ever the problem!! Just know you aren't alone. We all have to stick together & have each other's backs. You are in my thoughts, my Prayers & in my heart ❤️🙏🏻🥲
Oh Haley you are such a light ❤️ If you ever find yourself back in Nashville for travel nursing you should come to me and my friends board game nights on Thursdays!
Oh my, this is horrible for you. I'm so happy to see you on here as a survivor ❤️ your so strong. My sister and I are survivors as well of abuse from an older sibling. No one ever did anything to help us. Beatings from our father as well. Medication has been something i still have to rely on besides theraphy. 😢 Iam over 60 now. I have kept journals for years. Wrote songs and poems.It helps so much.We are awesome today as well. You'll be okay sweetie I love you too honey for sharing! Thank you 😊
Oh sweet girl!!! My heart goes out to you! I’m in my late 40’s but I look up to you already!! I’m proud of you and you got this baby girl!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your story!
Hope your having a good day ☀️☀️
What a beautiful person you are. Go girl!
I'm proud of you ! Remember you're not alone! You are beautiful inside and out!! ❤😊
You sweet sweet soul I just want to give you the biggest hug. Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. My parents did foster care throughout my childhood and one day I want to be a foster parent as well. I had around 20 foster siblings growing up, and I saw so many stories just like yours. As a Society, we need to do better caring for those who need a safe home. Every state in the US has more kids in foster care than they have foster families available. good people need to step up. It makes me mad when I see wealthy families with multiple extra bedrooms in the house that they just leave empty when they could easily give that bed to someone in need. I hope your story will inspire people to become foster parents (and for the right reasons)
You are a beautiful young lady, and you deserve everything in this world. That is great because you are
a great person. I'm sending you hugs, love, and the best of wishes.
Thank you so much for telling us your story Hailey. You have done amazingly and should be so proud of yourself and who you have become. That counsellor crossed a massive boundary by offering for you to live with her when she was your therapist, as that compromised the therapeutic relationship. Have to wonder if it was for financial reasons. Still, youve come through it all Hailey. Well done xx
This was so powerful! So excited you see what this journey takes you!!
You have got to be one of the strongest young ladies that I’ve ever heard to tell their life story. I wanted to ask you, your actual birth mother, do you ever hear from her? Not your grandparents, but your actual birth mother. Your sister, what’s the update on her? Stay strong and keep the faith. You absolutely kicked those curses in the butt!🔥
I am sooo sorry you went thru that! Those adults and that boy should be in prison. I pray you find love and happiness in your life❤
Wow, beautiful girl, what a gift you are giving by sharing your story. It’s heartbreaking!… however your bravery and strength are the real lessons ❤ God bless you - live the best life and keep shining your light. Hugs
In Nebraska it’s called uncontrollable juvenile I believe. I work with a victim witness unit and get juvenile cases with that charge all the time. Like you said all JV records are sealed but I dont know if that’s every state!
You’re such a beautiful person Hailey. No one deserves to go through what you have and many wouldn’t have made it out…and yet here you are thriving more than ever. You’re an inspiration and I hope you feel how many people online are rooting for you 🩵
I haven't been in trauma as you have but I have been in loss. I lost my brother in 2012 & my family of four, 2 kids & husband we lost our home to a wild fire in 2022. I have learned that God allowed these things to happen for him to be glorified in the end. Our walk with the Lord has grown & we have a testimony for others. I believe you have such a beautiful testimony for others & you will help so many that have been through it too. Jesus loves you. ❤
I hope you will keep healing and doing what is best for you. Your story was sad but you are a very beautiful person who shines don’t let them take your shine you’re beautiful. Children need care and love and you were not provided that but now you can give that little girl your inner child the love you never received. Wish you the best.
You are an amazing human being ❤️ Your kind words at the end meant so much to me.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are truly an inspiration.
You deserve all the happiness in the world ❤ you are a survivor !
You have come a long way, girl, keep shining life is for the living. Just know you are blessed ❤
Bless you Hailey, if I lived near you I would have loved to be your mum xx
Sweet girl, you are strong. You have a good level head on your shoulders. You are going to do great in life, I just know it. I love your personality. You keep improving and stay kind to yourself 🙏❤️❤️❤️.
Wow. I am so very impressed with you. You are able to relate to so many people; you are a positive, lovely, charming inspiration.
Thank you for sharing your story, it will bless so many others. I wish I could adopt you, then and now.🤗
Hailey, I just came across your channel! You're beautiful and sweet! I'm also a travel nurse! I hope to work with you one day! Thank you for sharing your story! Good luck with your surgery!Much love! Take care ❤
It doesn’t sound crazy, emotional abuse can be worse. I’m so sorry what you had to go through, but I am happy that you’re so amazing and dong well. It doesn’t make any sense that the foster care system just takes peoples word for truth and I wish that would change.
Thank you so much for sharing. It makes me heart so full to hear you speak so eloquently and bravely. You radiate so much love and kindness, and I have every bit of faith that these things will continue to manifest more and more in your life. All the best to you.
I'm really proud of you, Hailey! Keep loving yourself one moment at a time!
You deserve ALL the BEST!!!
Haley, thank you for sharing your story. I applaud you for coming out strong after such a traumatic past. You've spent the majority of your life just swimming upstream. You have finally reached calmer waters, but you will still experience ripples in those waters. Because of your experiences, you can navigate yourself to safety and comfort again. Trust your instincts and have the beautiful future that you so deserve.❤
Sending you a huge hug!!! You are an amazing young woman and I’m so happy that you are living a life full of excitement and love for yourself! Your video truly touched my soul 💜 Your smile truly lights up my heart. Keep on believing in yourself and always remember everything is possible!! Sending you love and light 🌸
Thank you, for sharing your story. My grandma (moms mom) raised me from 18 months on. My uncle, mom and dad were all killed by a drunk driver. My dads family were older. My moms not. So they got custody of me. My grandpa died when I was 5, leaving her to raise me. I asked her I’d she wanted me and she said,”no”. She didn’t want to raise me alone. She wasn’t mean, just ignored me mostly. I’m still glad it was her that raised me. Not the other side. I had a teacher, from my small Catholic School. She basically raised me. To this Dat, I talk daily to her. I was in foster care two years, 16-18. It was horrible. I acted up thinking it would be fun. My last one was. But I aged out. I have a great husband. Married almost 30 years and have 4 great kids. We raised them good and have a great relationship with them. They’re all having kids now. You are a beautiful girl to me. 🩵 this is the first video I have seen of yours, but I subscribed. Blessings to you, on the rest of your life.
Sorry for the errors, I have M.S. and I’m shaky. I’m sure you can get what I’m saying.
You are incredible and so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story ❤
Wow you’re very strong and talented person today you don’t need those horrible people you only need God he’s the only one who knows what’s best for you God bless you and have a great life
You are so cute and sweet. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story ❤️
My sweet honey Bee. You and I were raised In similar worlds. I am in New Zealand and I am just giving you a huge hug. I relate to this so fucking hard and I just feel like if we were in the same country, we would be best friends.
Oh my word - you are so gorgeous and beautiful. YOU HAVE GOT THIS ! You have worked it out - you just need to work through it and you will fly. You are amazing and have stood up straight with all the odds you had stacked against you. Keep your head up and keep looking forward ❤️❤️ and ps I stayed for the entire thing and hope there are more happy stories to come
You are awesome!!! Thank you for sharing your story!
You are such a beautiful person! Such inspiration for everything you have been through and what have already accomplished! Thank you for sharing that there is always light at the end of a dark tunnel!Keep on keeping on girl❤ Much love from another Haley🤍
I hope you’re feeling empowered after sharing your story! ❤
I am so sorry for everything that you went through. I have past traumas similar to you. Not quite the same. But I am just really sorry for the past and I understand feeling out of place and not feeling loved. I’ve never had therapy but I probably should.
Thank you for sharing your story I to was abused as a child but I know like you that what I went through shaped me into the perfect I am today and I do know God didn't want this to happen to me but that's where we have our free will comes into play because I know my Lord was on this person shoulder telling him no don't do it but he chose to do it anyway and now that I gave my life to my Lord and savior and fellowship with him and asked my Lord to help me forgive the person who did this to me because on my own I couldn't do this so over time and healing I forgave this person and I pray that this person ask our Lord into his heart so this person could be saved and I will be praying for you and God bless you
You a persevered through all the things thrown at you. What an inspiration you are for others who might be going through the same thing. My Mom grew up in a rough home life but never brought it into her own home with us thank goodness. Wishing you nothing but good things Hailey. Which just happens to be my daughters name and same spelling.
Oh Hailey hun, baby girl I’m so very sorry…I can so relate. I’m so sorry you went through all this ❤ I too was blamed for my own stepfather molesting me, started when I was 6 yrs old. Hailey, I don’t get it either how we at such a young age we can be anywhere at fault for what happened to me. It went on for me till in my early 20’s. My mom was in total denial, he was the love of her life and she stayed with him for a long time after or until he found another woman who he divorced mom for. I fought my whole life for my mom to love me. I’m 62 yrs old, I’ve not talked to her for 3 yrs now. I had to let go, I had to.
But not only that, I divorced and moved to another state to take care of her after a bad fall. Anywho, very long story short here…I over heard my mom and her now husband talking very negative about me. So much sad was said…but I confronted them, she said nothing kind and I said the same thing, I said “Mom, why do you hate me so much, I tried so hard to gain you love my whole life” She said nothing, she just starred at her computer and kept playing her game. I had all my stuff packed, took off for back home clear across country. Anyway, Hailey hun….i wish I could give you a huge hug! Please know this….Your story, you continuing to talk about you pain can help not only you but so many others. Your definitely not alone ❤
What surprises me is how this what you and I have gone through is sadly more common then we want to think….You know? Just know I love you, you are loved by our precious creator and so many here in the comments I’m sure.
I hope you keep your channel going, some need these branches to reach out too..this is all they have. Thank you for sharing sweet lady ❤
P.S. I didn’t proof read, I hope it all makes sense and sorry for the book here 😢
Please post more videos ❤we are all here for you and you always remember your Gods child. Prayers sweet lady
Hailey! You’re an amazing light!! You remind me so much of the light I used to carry! Thank you for giving me hope and inspiration to continue my own healing!💜💜💜💜
Wow you’re incredible. Beautiful both inside and out! Thanks for sharing your story
Beautiful and Lovely strong soul Haley 🤗 Many big warm hugs and Lots of Love to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ You deserve all the best of a Happy and Safe life!!!
Deep inside you never have up hope, although you didn’t feel so in the worse of times!!!
I look much forward to hea
Oops… more from you here! Subscribe go your channel now, all the way from Sweden in Scandinavia, Europe 😍❤️❤️
Very inspiring Hailey I’m so glad your healing 🫶🏼
I just happened upon your channel and I know it was Gods plan for me. I just want you to know you are loved. God loves you so much that He sent His son to die for you. He can give you peace that the world can not give. He is just waiting with his arms wide open all you need to do is invite Him in. I pray that this will not turn you off about God. You have not had the love you deserve but I can tell you you are worthy of being loved. You are not a problem you are a blessing to others who have had such a hard journey.. you are giving them hope. God let you live so that you can be an inspiration for others. Remember you may not believe it but this is true Jesus took on such abuse and suffering even to death that you may have hope and a future through him. He is real and no one could ever love you like He does. I am going to be praying for you sweetie because you are a beautiful young lady the deserves to know the love of God that He will never leave you. I am a 76 year old lady who has not had the best or the worst life but has gone through many struggles and I know I can only face tomorrow with a hope because of Jesus promises. Find a Bible believing Church and get a free Bible on line and read it. I know this is to long and you may delete it and say what a crazy old lady but I pray you will read it and know I don’t know you but I truly care about you.
Ur amazing wise words God bless u abundantly in life and raise u and keep u safe you got this Hailey so happy ur doing so well ❤
Hailey, just ran across your first live. You are a beautiful person don't let your past define you, You have made big strides and have accomplished so much from where you came. Give yourself time to heal from the past you already seem like you are on the right path. Praying for you and your sister, hopefully she will see your post and try to improve her situation. Bless you, and Thank you.
Hailey what a beautiful and strong person you are..! You have survived and pushed through so many hard things, and you seem such a loving young woman who is making a good life for herself. I hope you will expercience lots of good things and friendship and love from other people. I don’t know you and just got this video reccomend but thank you for sharing your story. I admire your strength! Love from the Netherlands 😉
Thank you for sharing your story, little Hailey is so proud of you! 💕
God bless you Hailey! ❤ You have been through so much and your doing a beautiful job being YOU now!!! I am so proud of you sweet girl! Keep Jesus by your side because he loves you so so much!!! ❤️
Awwww. :( this is heavy. I’m sorry you went through all that
I am so proud of you! I am sending you hugs!
Thank you for sharing your journey ❤
WOW…So I just started watching, before I go further I have to tell you your mom and I had the same good luck with cold weather and trauma. I was stabbed from the neck down, the ground was cold at the time and by that, it’s what kept my insides less swollen and same with blood etc. First time I heard of someone else having the same luck …so to speak. Ok, now to your story…Nice to meet you by the way, new subscriber here 😊
I’m sending you all of my love and positivity. 💜
You are amazing and then most wonderful woman ❤ I know we don’t know each other but I am so proud of you
You are. Such a brave young woman to share your life story so far. You seem incredibly insightful to your reactions to the trauma you have endured.
Many young people who have experienced what you went through would not have even finished school and gone down a completely destructive path, so you should be so proud of yourself. I don’t know you, and you just popped up on my recommended but I’m glad I watched your who.e vlog.
I understand how your are looking for a family to call your own, however we cannot chose our families but we can chose our friends of which I hope you have some good ones and it seems like this family are good friends for you. How did your sister move forward and are you still in contact? I hope it’s ok for me to ask that…..I truly wish you healing and love ❤️ take care of you! Im sure you will have helped others to acknowledge their traumas and get help. What a lovely, brave,articulate,beautiful young women.
So true we didn't talk bk then all secrets like the film for me empty promises me ant nothing l don't know dose my mother really loved me that's how l feel today at 58 yrs old never got counselling so sorry for small Hailey l.hurt for my inner child no healing❤
Haily I've finished watching you and your life's story and this is how I feel about Y O U Sweetheart 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🇦🇺❤🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
You have such a sweet soul Hailey. Your story was definitely not easy to listen to, but so thankful you are alive and thriving. How do you like AZ?
Girl keep the videos coming, this is the start of a journey ❤️
❤ you are so strong and an inspiration for everyone who is struggling with having been dealt a horrific hand in life. Thanks for sharing. 🎊 😇 🙌