From Trauma to Hope X Sarah Jakes Roberts and Serita Jakes

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  • čas přidán 16. 12. 2022
  • A night of soul care with you and Jesus.

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  • @kameronytg8891
    @kameronytg8891 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Gods timing is perfect.
    Did anyone else stumbled across this video in 2024 ?
    I loved it
    Thank you Father for the beautiful women of God that you have placed in our lives
    Amen. ❤❤❤

    • @mechellemoore9446
      @mechellemoore9446 Před 3 dny +2

      LISTEN! I just stumbled across this video TODAY!!! This is the most beautiful conversation I have ever heard.

    • @Milani2k
      @Milani2k Před dnem

      Absolutely girll
      It is beyond amazing

  • @jayleenphipps2123
    @jayleenphipps2123 Před rokem +555

    This is beautiful ❤. For a mother to recognize how she may have contributed trauma to her child, apologizing and encouraging Sarah not to repeat generational trauma.

    • @elisadiaz320
      @elisadiaz320 Před rokem +9

      I pray that God help me help me heal those wounds. That he blesses me with a maternal mother figure one day. If it’s his will.❤

    • @brownbeauty4evryadig
      @brownbeauty4evryadig Před rokem +18

      My mother would never which is why we haven't spoken in 8 years. It's a generational curse that I will be breaking with my children. I always apologize to my children when I am wrong . I allow my teens and my 26 year old son to express themselves to me..I pour good things into my children. This conversation was my confirmation that what I am choosing to do is correct.

    • @adelejohnson8517
      @adelejohnson8517 Před rokem

      I’m grateful that I was present at that moment of the passing of the torch! It was priceless!

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Před rokem +4

      Yes
      Mine nvr acknowledged
      This is exactly what we wanted.
      Traumatized kids....angry adults
      Sometimes they just didn't know any better. But you hv to forgive. I've seen what it did to our family. I forgave my mom. It hurts though 😢 💔

    • @brijosttany
      @brijosttany Před rokem +9

      Every adult daughter should have a space like this to talk to there mother

  • @latoyarenee7792
    @latoyarenee7792 Před rokem +143

    "Sometimes we just need the acknowledgement" Such a beautiful and necessary conversation. Healing

  • @jazthejourney
    @jazthejourney Před rokem +83

    That her mom took accountability so quickly, apologized, and asked for forgiveness from her daughter so quickly, Oh miss Serita, so many little girls inside grown women needed to hear that. Such maturity. I wish I had a mother like her.

  • @Shelincali9
    @Shelincali9 Před rokem +314

    A lot of motherless daughters needed this. Thank you ❤

    • @tammywilliams9335
      @tammywilliams9335 Před rokem +5

      Yes most definitely. I even was teary from both of there conversation

    • @user-oi9ux5gc1b
      @user-oi9ux5gc1b Před rokem +3

      I just wonder why didn’t she ask her mother what she wanted to know while she was still alive instead of carrying this for so long? How can you have a normal relationship without asking… So much damage done.

    • @dorciabarnett2700
      @dorciabarnett2700 Před rokem +2

      Beautiful, open, honest conversation between mother and daughter. I’m believing God for in due season I’ll be able to have this conversation with my mother and daughters.❤

    • @dorethasharp7409
      @dorethasharp7409 Před rokem +1

      @@user-oi9ux5gc1b AMEN 🙏 🙌

    • @latoyajones6634
      @latoyajones6634 Před rokem +4

      I wish I could have had a conversation like this with my mom before her passing... I'm inspired to make this happen for my girls. Thank you for this!

  • @lifewithkasha
    @lifewithkasha Před rokem +296

    This made me bow down to our king !!!!! Lord, I forgive my mom 🥹

    • @swest20091
      @swest20091 Před rokem +1

      Listennnn ok😢this was me too sis

    • @MayerConstance
      @MayerConstance Před rokem +1

      Yaaaas Queen me too

    • @ellencapers8448
      @ellencapers8448 Před rokem +1

      THIS IS DEEEEEPPPP AND I LOVE IT! SO MANY OF US HAVE ISSUES UNSPOKEN! THERAPY WITH ONE ANOTHER IS HEALING! GOING TO ALL THE SERVICES PREACHING SHOUTING AND SPEAKING IN TONGUES DOES NOT MATTER IF WE R NOT REALLLLYYYYYYYY HEALED! WE MUST BE HEALED!

    • @DaughterOfDestinyLinda
      @DaughterOfDestinyLinda Před rokem +1

      Beautiful one sis...you're in turn freeing yourself. I had to hug my daughter and tell her I love her and that she must forgive me for all the ways I've wronged her.

  • @ButterflyRhomance
    @ButterflyRhomance Před rokem +145

    This conversation ALONE is a great gift for many! ❤

  • @bridgetteyelder77
    @bridgetteyelder77 Před rokem +39

    One day in my Mother's den before she passed away she looked at me and said Daughter I am so sorry. She apologized for things that happened in the past that were painful to me and it touched me in such an Amazing way. I really am enjoying this moment you all are sharing with us.

  • @Queen1ndonly
    @Queen1ndonly Před rokem +112

    I’m really crying 😢 I wish I can talk to my mom like this

    • @Yukia76
      @Yukia76 Před rokem

      Me too My mom passed when I was 8 years old 😢

    • @KAs14521
      @KAs14521 Před rokem

      Me too☹️

    • @kyrianjoseph1403
      @kyrianjoseph1403 Před rokem +3

      Me too,I live with my mom and it’s like living with a stranger.

    • @shaneyg25
      @shaneyg25 Před rokem

      Me too

    • @leelees1319
      @leelees1319 Před rokem

      Me too sis....me too.

  • @CR-mx6tj
    @CR-mx6tj Před rokem +340

    Now look….I can’t be crying watching this! 😆 This makes me see Mrs. Serita in a different light. I love her honesty & how she poured her heart out. Mrs. Serita is being open about the things she realized she did not do so well and admitting she has unhealed wounds and questions too from her own childhood. This was powerful‼️ Acknowledgment is Healing ❤️‍🩹 Thank You Mrs. Serita for being a source to so many with this message. Sara continue to talk with your Mom. It’s healing both of you❣️❤

    • @dove628
      @dove628 Před rokem +6

      I admire Mrs Jakes journey..& in tune with Sarah's calling & the people she reaches... with Pastor Tore... what a test.a.Mony

    • @MissPJ01
      @MissPJ01 Před rokem +10

      What a blessing, Cora need this same kind of interaction with her Mom too, each child need Mom differently, I'd like to see Cora as well, God continued blessings 🙏

    • @thabsilengcobo4880
      @thabsilengcobo4880 Před rokem +2

      There's too much power in that

    • @tonyajscott
      @tonyajscott Před rokem +3

      Perfectly stated and I too am grateful for this dialogue of healing. This conversation is also breaking yokes of bondage off of God’s daughters. Glory to God! 🤍🙌🏽🕊🙏🏽

    • @shondabonner2162
      @shondabonner2162 Před rokem +2

      This is nothing but the move of God! This is wonderful! I don’t think Sara really knows how valuable she really helps others. You are the best. ❤

  • @AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO

    I love how they really "See Each Other." Every Mother and Daughter needs this relationship. "I am truly a mixed veil of emotions." I relate.

  • @TheMaishaHarris
    @TheMaishaHarris Před rokem +40

    Now THIS is what true healing, communication, and accountability looks like. ❤❤

  • @sydneemays4412
    @sydneemays4412 Před rokem +41

    Sarah got the apology I always wanted. I felt that

  • @classydenisha
    @classydenisha Před rokem +133

    There's a little girl trapped inside of all of us. Love this!!!

  • @lrussell6668
    @lrussell6668 Před rokem +99

    This is so real and powerful. It’s enlightening to see how Ms Serita is open and honest with her daughter

  • @wandablackmon1780
    @wandablackmon1780 Před rokem +53

    Now that was a healing conversation. Many generational curses will be broken as a result of this video. Thank you so much for your honesty and transparency.💕

  • @La_Leocadia
    @La_Leocadia Před rokem +97

    This conversation was EVERYTHING!!!!!!! Wow! I didn’t think Sarah could be MORE relatable I was wrong. Sarah you are a gift to this generation and women of ALL ages. You are able to pull things out of people with no effort. Just your presence creates comfort even for your own mother. Watching her be so vulnerable and transparent and OPEN was healing even for me. I’m so grateful for her showing all of us what is possible if we just SAY our truth! Thank you BOTH for this gift. ✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @shawandamatthews9148
    @shawandamatthews9148 Před rokem +245

    I cried this whole episode. Thanks for always being transparent and vulnerable. I have always watch First Lady Jakes from the screen and the audience and I wanted to be classy, humble and funny just like her. Watch her be so human and real makes so many walls break for me. I feel seen and heard all at the same time. Thanks for your families continue sacrifice

  • @worshiplibrary7157
    @worshiplibrary7157 Před rokem +6

    To the 1% of people reading this: your amazing and loved God put u in this life for a reason and everything will be better soon...

  • @DaughterOfDestinyLinda
    @DaughterOfDestinyLinda Před rokem +14

    "You're not only healing your children but you're also healing the nation!" Mind-blowing! That was everything Mama Jakes

  • @nokubongamartins
    @nokubongamartins Před rokem +88

    This is one of the most beautiful conversations I’ve ever watched.

  • @hannahjames6
    @hannahjames6 Před rokem +20

    I would have fly all the way from France just to meet your mother she needs to have a documentary on Netflix. She is a legend . She is so humble and a perle rare ❤❤❤❤

    • @user-ys6gj5kz7b
      @user-ys6gj5kz7b Před 8 měsíci

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Totally agree: She is an invaluable and price phenomenal Queen doing exploits.....and we love her and thank God for her life, her love for God, her husband, the Potter's House ministry, her family and God's calling, purpose and destiny on her life. Amen. We celebrate you Mrs. Serita Jakes.

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee Před rokem +29

    This was my first time ever hearing Sarah’s mom talk. I loved this episode!! This was so beautifully powerful and moving. Her mom is such a beautiful example of being willing to listen and learn and grow. She said I was a drama major I’m weak same mama 😂❤

    • @callmenow303
      @callmenow303 Před rokem

      Send me a write up✍🏻💬☝️
      for prayers, counseling
      and daily motivation to keep your spirituality fit in the faith 🙏❤️❣️🥰❣️❣️

  • @veritastold830
    @veritastold830 Před rokem +26

    "Can't see the Glory without the entire story." "God made the difference." Amen, and Amen, Sisters!!

  • @joibrown4426
    @joibrown4426 Před rokem +177

    Y’all have released me today from something I didn’t know I was dealing with, I cried the whole time and don’t know why, but I feel free. I feel unshakable

    • @richgirl3457
      @richgirl3457 Před rokem +8

      I literally just told god this was what I didn’t even know I needed. Cried like a baby. And I too feel so refreshed. I’ve had resentments toward my mom that I’ve let go and forgiven her for but I feel like this gave us room to be okay with those hurts even though we’ve already forgiven. May god continue to bless everyone🙏🏽💕

    • @debbieyoyo2997
      @debbieyoyo2997 Před rokem +7

      Its the mother-daughter talk

    • @Caesarechez1
      @Caesarechez1 Před rokem +5

      HALLELUJAH 🙌🏾 GLORY TO GOD ❤

    • @ellenthompson7491
      @ellenthompson7491 Před rokem +1

      This is beautiful may God continue the union with you Mrs. Jake’s and your daughter Sarah it’s beautiful beautiful ❤

    • @MsPurplerain23
      @MsPurplerain23 Před rokem

      I’m 😢crying too. My mom did the best she knew and I’m grateful for her and love her so much 💜
      I’m crying because I wish I was a better mom to my children 😢 I love them and I know they love me
      Lord help us it stops here ❤

  • @zibahcharles109
    @zibahcharles109 Před rokem +99

    This is the most beautiful Mother-daughter conversation, that I am grateful to have the privilege to ‘listen in’ on. Very powerful & healing. 💜 My prayer for now & into 2023 is that God unapologetically love on me, receive my vulnerability & ‘mother’ my childhood wounds in a divine way. I have a daughter who deserves everything good.

    • @citygirlofbethlehem
      @citygirlofbethlehem Před rokem

      @hamisuabdullahi1819 dis a whole scam sis Sarah a introvert she ain't scamming

    • @DarSheaNaja
      @DarSheaNaja Před rokem +1

      That is a great prayer

  • @gautayasmin6365
    @gautayasmin6365 Před rokem +14

    I found healing in watching this. ❤ to see a mom not become defensive but opening herself up to listen to her daughter, acknowledging her mistakes and sincerely apologizing is so powerful.
    Some daughters might never receive this from their moms and it hurts .
    So thank you for allowing us to be a part of this life changing conversation.
    I receive this for myself too.
    God bless you 🙏

  • @sharycehunt2793
    @sharycehunt2793 Před rokem +3

    I was screaming in my kitchen! From the first time I saw you preach Sarah, I knew you were your Daddy’s daughter (2-fold). I’m so proud of you Sis! I have joyfully moved through “Woman Thou Art Loosed” to “Woman Evolve” Let’s go…we’ve got work to do!

  • @LazyLadyy
    @LazyLadyy Před rokem +53

    This is the kind of relationship I pray I receive with my future children. I won’t be perfect but I will do my best. This conversation is so healing.

  • @13thdisciple
    @13thdisciple Před rokem +20

    "I've not had many opportunities to feel joy." ... I can so relate.
    Yes, we have to give ourselves permission to give ourselves time to feel joy, to exhale, be still!

    • @aprilbrown6739
      @aprilbrown6739 Před rokem +2

      OMG! That part of this episode resonated so loud with me.

  • @terrymarie3738
    @terrymarie3738 Před rokem +12

    I’m not even halfway through and sobbing and wanting to call each of my children. How beautiful that you shared this moment. And when Serita said, “I’ll make stuff up” I laughed so hard but I couldn’t agree more. I will apologize to the end of time for whatever if it will heal my child in any way. Thank you ladies. You are both blessings to so many including me. 🙏❤️

  • @quinnetterjohnson2363

    The most beautiful dialogue between Mother & Daughter. Such a marvelous Grace on both of them!❤😊❤

  • @thewerkerb2932
    @thewerkerb2932 Před rokem +53

    I literally cried the entire episode. Apparently this was the healing all of us didn’t know we needed. Thanks First Lady for apologizing for the mothers who could not, cannot, or choose not to. My heart is full ❤

  • @lrrussellrussell8227
    @lrrussellrussell8227 Před rokem +33

    Just a SUGGESTION 😢😢😂😂 can we get a SISTER or SIBLINGS conversation such as this one. This was healing to me, Mrs. Serita is so my mum even her past to current. My mum was a Pastor I grew up in church as well 💯💯😫😫🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰

  • @uprayup
    @uprayup Před rokem +5

    I love Christians who are Balanced. There are so many things we can enjoy in life. I was raised in church where everything was a sin. I am so glad that I started reading the Word of God for myself and discovered what LIFE is all about. We loose our families and many more things in life when we become so distant from everything. Thank you for sharing this video. I love you both.

  • @lindaoliver8715
    @lindaoliver8715 Před rokem +8

    Two beautiful women of God, you both nailed it! I am so blessed. I even ordered the book. My mother is 92 years of age with 8 children. I am the only one seeing after my ill mother, who never paid me any attention growing up. Siblings treat me horrible. But, everyone was too busy to care for her, but I dropped everything and ran to her rescue she was on hospice. And she at first gave me a hard time, now realize I'm all she has. I am hurting so badly. And feel so lost. Because I have a lot of questions, but I don't want to upset her. To hear you both! you just enlightened me so much. Thank you 🤍my birthday is July 23rd..... 🕯

    • @NatayaMcqueen
      @NatayaMcqueen Před rokem

      Hey love where did you buy the book who wrote it

  • @patrina7608
    @patrina7608 Před rokem +107

    This is why Bishop and his family are great. They are transparent, sincere, kind and 😢very generous with their lives and time. Thank you for making faith and God real and reachable. Thank you.

    • @yvettemiller3352
      @yvettemiller3352 Před rokem +1

      💯 agree ❤️ 😢

    • @poochiegarner5030
      @poochiegarner5030 Před rokem +1

      That was beautiful ❤️. I volunteer when you come to Atlanta, Ga and Charlotte, NC and I just love you for who God made you. Thank you for sharing real life and reminding us to forgive. No parent get it right, all the time. I just love y'all 💕

    • @belle3055
      @belle3055 Před rokem +3

      Good for them. In my family we barely talk.

    • @Classy4514
      @Classy4514 Před rokem +1

      Yeah right

  • @Ckrissy013
    @Ckrissy013 Před rokem +20

    It’s tooooo early for me to be crying like this! Mrs. Serita is just so so sweet!

  • @Junior-ym2nt
    @Junior-ym2nt Před rokem +5

    Serita crying for the truth 😭😭🥺 imagine all the kids who are separated from their parents are having the same questions 😭😭

  • @tifftiff3162
    @tifftiff3162 Před rokem +8

    This was like a drink of water. So refreshing.

  • @dawney5467
    @dawney5467 Před rokem +89

    What a beautifully and honest therapeutic conversation. Thank you both for modelling that🙏🏽💕

  • @lwmsculver3628
    @lwmsculver3628 Před rokem +23

    Yes Sarah did!! She taught me, a much older woman to NOT be ashamed of my youth pregnancy. I carried that for a long time, but I tell MY STORY free now 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @divinejustice8359
    @divinejustice8359 Před rokem +6

    I am praying that the Jakes family find healing and peace from their problems and traumas.

  • @tamikoh.776
    @tamikoh.776 Před rokem +11

    I watched this at 2:00 am this morning. You never know what people been through or going through. Thank God she is getting the help she needs 🙏 🙌 ❤

  • @pumkinpie8730
    @pumkinpie8730 Před rokem +42

    God is good.....I'm so thankful for this conversation and to see her mom in a bigger and different light. This has helped me. So much I just called my son(only child) and had a heart to heart

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Před rokem

      Praise God
      This made me wish I had had a more indept convo with my mom. Her children are angry adults. She didn't acknowledge anything. That's all we wanted.

  • @tynitajackson452
    @tynitajackson452 Před rokem +33

    The transparency in this video feeds my soul. You both are given me permission to forgive myself and ask for forgiveness. Like First Lady Serita, I have unresolved issues with my own Mother. I also have 2 daughters 26 & 23. I have began my own journey of being accountable and saying I’m sorry. This video is a gift from the Holy Spirit. The transparency will help so many Mothers and Daughters. I am committed to sharing it with others. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @Rose.Marie.
      @Rose.Marie. Před rokem

      I am so proud of you! - a mom of a one year old who is also on a journey of accountability as well as forgiving parents and healing my own family wounds

  • @jennytaylor3962
    @jennytaylor3962 Před rokem +31

    To all the mothers. Don't be hard on yourself. There's no manual for parents and even if there was....one size does not fit all. You may not have got it all right, I appreciate you for not leaving or forsaking us even though it was tough. You did and continue to do your best. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

    • @blaknbeauty1
      @blaknbeauty1 Před rokem

      Awesome 💪✌️

    • @queenisrael8158
      @queenisrael8158 Před rokem

      God bless you and your family.

    • @awatkins8429
      @awatkins8429 Před 6 měsíci

      Many don't do their BEST or anything close to it...deliberately. Some mothers attempt to actually destroy their kids (especially daughters). And those are the ones who need to be held accountable.

    • @It.is.I-tx6ri
      @It.is.I-tx6ri Před 6 měsíci

      @jennytaylor3962, This is the comment that I, as an immature parent didn’t know I needed to read. If only my children would l/could say this and mean it 🙏🏾

  • @terralewis2680
    @terralewis2680 Před rokem +8

    Say what you want about this family but they are doing the work! They are showing us how to initiate the healing and restoration that needs to take place between generations. I love the work they are doing. My soul is glad! 🙏🏽♥️

  • @lezhatc56
    @lezhatc56 Před rokem +25

    THIS IS A BIT LENGTHY BUT ... .. Both of you ladies blessed me extremely
    bcos I was able to see I wasn't the only girl who grew up without her parents and siblings & I wasn't the only one who grew up in a violent home hiding in the bathtub from flying bullets amongst alcoholics cussing & fighting & shooting & cutn' one another & Etc. I also understand getting pregnant at 15 & having to take care of a child as a child myself. I had to grow up quick. I remember having to walk to work at 4 or 5am in the morning pregnant to get to work, no help but from God. I felt so alone, but God was always there for me through some very difficult , hard issues .... THE LORD DELIVERED ME FROM SO SO MUCH MORE AND I STILL HAVE MY RIGHT MIND ..... IN SPITE OF THE DRUGS, I'VE BEEN DELIVERED 25 YRS., IN SPITE OF ....... OOH CHILE .... THAT, THAT, THAT AND THOSE OTHER THINGS, I STILL MADE IT THROUGH IT ALL BCOS GOD LIFTED ME AND HE CARRIED ME AND HE BROUGHT ME THROUGH AND OUT OF IT ALL. I AM NOT IN A CLOSET SLOBBING, EATING COTTON AND PULLING MY HAIR OUR STRAND BY STRAND, BUT I MADE IT & FOR THAT I'M VERY GRATEFUL & THANKFUL TO GOD BCOS HE MADE ME WHOLE IN AREAS THAT I DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE I'D EVER BE MADE WHOLE IN.I KNOW HOW TO CLOSE THE DOOR TO TOXIC PEOPLE, PLACES & THINGS TODAY AND SAY NO YOU WILL NOT IMPEDE ON MY JOY, LOVE & HAPPINESS BCOS I AM A HUMAN BEING WORTHY OF LOVE, PEACE, JOY, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AND WHATEVER I DEEM NECESSARY. THE LORD GIVES US PERMISSION TO LIVE, LOVE AND BE JOYFUL THEREFORE NO ONE ELSE HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE THAT AWAY BCOS GOD HAS NOT GIVEN ANYONE THAT MUCH AUTHORITY IN ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE. THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING SO TRANSPARENT.

    • @lezhatc56
      @lezhatc56 Před rokem

      Thanks, but I am really so good. God Bless you and Grace & Peace.

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 Před rokem +62

    Beautiful Relationship between Mother and daughter 🙏🏾❤️

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 Před rokem +2

      GM, @Christine Porter,
      🤦🏾I wishd my mom & I had talks like this before she got really sick & pass'd on to Glory, etc. (RIP) Momma, she's absent from her body, but present with the Lord! 🙏🏾 👍🏾❤️

    • @christineporter9914
      @christineporter9914 Před rokem +1

      @@Jesus.SaVeS77 Amen, My Mother is no longer with us either she just passed away 5 months ago. We Miss her dearly. But we know we'll see her again.

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 Před rokem

      Gdm. @@christineporter9914
      Oh 😱 sorry to hear. I didn't know u loss yur mom as well. My condolences to U & yur family. I'll be 🙏🏾for yur comfort,🕊️, strength. The joy of th Lord is yur/my Strength... amen.
      My mother took her flight Apr. 2020.🤦🏾God knows! It still fresh like it was yesterday.
      So even tho I/U & other's may still feel hurt, sadness 😢, grief, 💔, etc...We shall see our dear mom's again. If we Endure until the end the same Shall be SaVed...In Jesus "Mighty & Merciful" Name, Amen.
      My sista, may God continue keepn & blessn U/I/others as well. Let's be/stay strong in the Lord, etc...amen. 💝

    • @christineporter9914
      @christineporter9914 Před rokem +1

      @@Jesus.SaVeS77 Amen Sis you continue to be strong as well, God Bless you 🙏🏾❤️

  • @creelelani7165
    @creelelani7165 Před rokem +41

    not having my mom here is not easy and this helped tremendously. Thank you so much for the transparency! I cried the whole time 🥺🙏🏽

    • @jessicarowling
      @jessicarowling Před rokem +1

      Similar
      ❤️

    • @notyourusualst
      @notyourusualst Před rokem

      Right? I’m grateful for this amazing chance to listen to a mother’s heart.

  • @tracigroce3412
    @tracigroce3412 Před rokem +27

    On my lunch at work, and balling my eyes out. Lord, I needed this.
    I'm currently seeking therapy, too. 🥺

  • @medoralittle8465
    @medoralittle8465 Před rokem +4

    I love this conversation between Mama Jakes and Pastor Sarah.. praise God

  • @suniwillbe
    @suniwillbe Před rokem +21

    This mother and daughter conversation is breathtaking 😢😢❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Před rokem +7

    Omg! My heart just broke in half when she said ‘you forgive me’. Awe this is too real from me. 😢 I gotta come back to listen…. Awe, Sarah.

  • @RhondaSRamos
    @RhondaSRamos Před rokem +4

    Kudos to ownership of how a parent's choices can be your child's consequences. This is so rare, unfortunately. Sarah has been liberated. Walk in your freedom. The captive has been set free! Hallelujah!

  • @fergusonartistry653
    @fergusonartistry653 Před rokem +13

    Guilt is what I felt when my dad died from Covid. The only time I got to visit him in the hospital was when he was taking his last breath. I struggled for a long time after that with my relationship with God. And I agree it’s hard to fight who you love. Although I wanted to walk away from God I couldn’t God kept drawing me with His love. In that battle I got to know God’s love for me on a whole new level. Not only was He holding me up when I was at my lowest. He was carrying me also! God is faithful!

    • @gigiFLOWER2023
      @gigiFLOWER2023 Před rokem +2

      Thanks for sharing. I can relate. I lost my baby sister on Christmas day last year. She was only 31. I'm still processing it all. Family wasn't that close prior, now a relationship doesn't even exist at all.

  • @andreashinault5616
    @andreashinault5616 Před rokem +30

    This is a tear jerker OMG. I needed this today. 😥

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Před rokem +4

    Omg!!! My whole heart just came out of my chest when Serita said it was like Sarah taking her first steps when she saw her on that stage accepting the torch. *clutches heart*😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭
    I can envision it.

  • @honey9651
    @honey9651 Před rokem +5

    Pastor Sarah this is something I really needed to hear and see. A generational curse was just broken in front of the world 🌎. Its so much strength in a mother saying Im sorry. We are Mothers we aren’t perfect 😢. Thanks so much. This is very powerful 😊

  • @bettiebrown2409
    @bettiebrown2409 Před rokem +4

    All i have to say as a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother
    At 77.
    Thank you ladies for the healing and gave me.
    You help me to Free
    My self, of so much things.
    God's blessing be with you both at all times 🙏 🙌 ❤
    Thanks

  • @jackiem.3812
    @jackiem.3812 Před rokem +11

    THIS. IS EVERYTHING!!!!
    It is so cathartic to see that we all have history, questions, and unmet needs from childhood. I personally have gone through my own healing, with out counseling, but litterly by the counsel of the Holy spirit. I knew I was depressed, suppressed, but I couldn't remember why? So I would pray to God to reveal it to me. So through out ten years I would meet someone from my past, that hurt me, and when I saw them I didn't remember right away, but days latter it was like I remembered and those feelings would come up...I was able to be in that moment, hurt, be angry, and make a choice to forgive, it was a choice until it was a reality, but when I was free from many offenses, I was free, indeed. How? By burying myself into the word, and taking the time to know who I was in Christ vs who I thought I was because of the trauma. That was healing...and it has helped me to recognize, and put the blame where it belongs, and not take it as I was not worthy of love. But that I was fearfully and wonderfully made by God... and that hurt people hurt people... jealousy is real. But there is deliverance in forgiveness!!! It wasn't easy, but, it was so worth it. God litterly counseled me through His Holy Spirit and I am stronger, so much wiser, and Better than better! To God be all the Glory for the great things he has done.
    Ps. Mother Jake's, I have know a man who was from a large family who was given to his aunt and uncle, and not raised with his family-because that aunt could not have children. ( he never knew- another one of his siblings told the family, the reason when he was in his seventies.) He said he felt rejected and alone, and didn't understand why he couldn't live with his family.
    Perhaps your aunt could not have children, and maybe having you stay there someone thought you could bring peace into that home. Just a thought.
    So I'm seeing that we all make mistakes unknowingly that can be traumatic to others. So we all have a need to forgive and to be forgiven. And
    we know because God works all things out for our good, we can trust that our steps although traumatic- the good, the healing, the forgiveness is ordered by the lord, to workout for our good...look at the beautiful nurturing, and protective mother and grandmother you have become. God knew that you would mother a child that would speak healing and deliverance to the nations and She would need her experience and your good mothering and the not so good mothering to cause her to have a NEED for a savior, healer, and delivery. Yes, it was all for God's glory!! Sin and the fall was the cause, but Jesus was and is the healer, and the hope for us all. In him we can be reconciled from trauma to this wonderful hope that we now have in Christ Jesus our Lord.
    (This is the very essence of salvation-sin, hurt pain, reconciled by one, and emplimented by our faith, forgiveness, and our hope in Jesus Christ. )

  • @LifeIsAWholeVibe
    @LifeIsAWholeVibe Před rokem +27

    This was so beautiful ❤ When Mrs Jake's said when she lost her mom she felt like she lost her anchor, I felt that in my soul 🥺

  • @meiekahenderson2428
    @meiekahenderson2428 Před rokem +5

    I really loved this VLOG, my mom doesn't talk to me like this; she talks to her niece , I'm a motherless child an only child if you will(but no matter what I always honor thy mother). I have been in therapy I always pray good things and I make sure that I treat , my daughter and two sons , grandson and granddaughter with love , joy and always love on them. But I thank God that I have been in remission for 6 1/2 years and I'm very grateful that God Blesses me to be here for me and my children Amen . Sarah Jakes , I'm 51 years old and I have been watching you every since I have been watching your dad preach and God has an awesome anointing on you AMEN. love you and mother Jakes . Blessings and Abundance

  • @JocelynHairGoddess
    @JocelynHairGoddess Před rokem +13

    Just imagining that “I’m sorry” coming from my mother. 🙏🏽 this is just so good thank you ❤

  • @r.z.j.8261
    @r.z.j.8261 Před rokem +7

    Sarah, you are very lucky to get along with both your parents!!! I ❤️ love how your Dad is everybody's dad!!

  • @UnequallyYolkedCouple
    @UnequallyYolkedCouple Před rokem +1

    I love mother's gray hair, beautiful. Great subject matter! Thanks!

  • @latoniayoung1057
    @latoniayoung1057 Před rokem

    Love these ladies. First Lady is beautiful all around. Sarah is so blessed. Love her as well. My favorite family❤️❤️❤️

  • @thevesselwithsisterb6060

    I just wanna say thank you for this powerful and unexpected treat! It was a treat to watch you two together engaging with such transparency and vulnerability💞 but I'm not surprised Pastor Sarah because it's one of your gifts! You talked about giving permission to feel Joy but you have this gift where you give people permission to be honest and to be themselves. You allow people to express both the put together and the not so put together parts of themselves on display removing barriers and things like guilt and shame and self doubt. That's a gift💥 you're able to dissolve walls that people have built and hide behind with such ease! It's so beautiful to watch🤗 I can go on and on but I'm just gonna end by saying this...I've watched you grow. I've been a fan for quite sometime now and I look forward to watching you evolve! Stay in alignment and obedience as you've been💞 remember it's never about us it's about who God needs us to reach! You're doing an amazing job! May the Mighty Lord continue to Bless you and your family always! Your dad made the right choice! Hey girl💞 you got this

  • @lazellclea107
    @lazellclea107 Před rokem +8

    Thank you First Lady and Sister Sarah ❤️

  • @kingdomwomanvictoria
    @kingdomwomanvictoria Před rokem

    Totally loving the spirit of Serita Jakes...she wears the spirit of humility like skin!

  • @FaithWawira-gy4wr
    @FaithWawira-gy4wr Před 4 měsíci +1

    You know that you are loved Ladies!!?? I hope you know this. Hats off. God bless you 🙏

  • @casandratappin6349
    @casandratappin6349 Před rokem +4

    "Every Girl Child has the opportunity to reproduce after their own kind." ~Serita Jake's
    THIS hit me like a ton of bricks!! What a Word to my heart. Even if I may not be able to physically produce after my own kind, I can spiritually! I really needed to hear that ❣️

  • @YolandaDHall
    @YolandaDHall Před rokem +12

    Wow! I sincerely appreciate the honesty and candor that you ladies shared. Never have I ever witnessed a “First Family” be so real, and sharing with us that they are just like us, imperfect, dealing with issues and working it out. Thank you, thank you you I have fallen in love with you all at a whole new level.💜

  • @kgilliam19
    @kgilliam19 Před rokem +1

    67 where?? cuz Pastor Serita you look goodt! ❤️ I have always admired your gentleness and your gracefulness. You are a gem to the body of Christ. Thank you for always empowering women with words of love and truth

  • @Mommii517
    @Mommii517 Před 6 měsíci

    ...and the book!! Oh my goodness!! It was so freeing and eye opening! It's not our fault!!! A must read!

  • @donotwastetime
    @donotwastetime Před rokem +23

    It is always encouraging to see black women move from mother and child to woman to woman conversations.

  • @SherrellsArt
    @SherrellsArt Před rokem +7

    I’m glad that we as a collective of (black) women are now tackling hard convos & generational trauma, early. Talking about it truly helps. Thank y’all for your vulnerability and service to bring us all healing, by example.

  • @lifestylewithchiffon
    @lifestylewithchiffon Před rokem +2

    This is so beautiful. Thanks for being so transparent women of God.

  • @Milani2k
    @Milani2k Před 4 měsíci +1

    Chile
    I can not express more how thankful I am for this story.😭😭
    I have been crying for most part of the video because I relate to it soo much😭😭
    If it wasn’t for my spiritual coach, my stepmom and one of my closest friend😪I definitely wouldn’t have survived.
    Dealing with so many traumas, including not having a father figure in the household until the age of 10 when God blessed me with one, and having abandonment issues when he couldn’t be with me anymore because of health issues and had to go back to Holland, having rejection problems and so many other childhood traumas, I am still here fighting and crying out to God like, How much more😭😭
    But thank you soo much for this ladies because It shows that I’m really not alone❤❤

  • @GorgeousHeather
    @GorgeousHeather Před rokem +13

    I plan to bring my daughter to the WE conference because it's on her birthday!!! We are so excited; she will be 10. I have been doing all of this generational healing, so this conversation was so eye-opening, and I loved watching the healing in you both! Parenting is not easy but I am to the point that I apologize to my children constantly. I thank God for giving me the inclination to be accountable because it's important to make sure they understand the intent of everything I do and say and that I understand what they are thinking.

  • @hannahjames6
    @hannahjames6 Před rokem +5

    I can relate to your mum she suppressed all her childhood trauma emotions until late I lost my mother I was 9 years old and her death up to today remains mysterious

  • @TreJ999
    @TreJ999 Před rokem +1

    Sis. Serita!! What a role model of grace and humility.

  • @AngelaKing-ov9bx
    @AngelaKing-ov9bx Před 19 dny

    Thank you, Sarah and Serita for this moment in time, of sharing and being transparent in the ministry of Jesus. Thank you for your honesty and humble spirit to yield yourselves to the ministry. Allowing the body of Christ to see that we are human, and that this is a learning and spiritual experience guided by the Holy Spirit. I can identify with the experiences of life we all have as Christians. The bible teaches us to confess our faults to one another that we may be healed. James 5:16. I lost my mother to Covid-19 in 2021, she was a saved women of God, who was my anchor we were inseparable and she was my friend and mother. I longed to hear the words "I'm sorry" for years, but never heard from my mother. Thank you, Serita as a mother for demonstrating the love of Jesus. A healing moment for me to hear. I remember our mother and daughter talks at the kitchen table. amk

  • @roseshabane177
    @roseshabane177 Před rokem +3

    Mmmm so touching and indeed bringing healing to all of us.

  • @Tedewindt
    @Tedewindt Před rokem +13

    Lady Serita and Pastor Sarah thank you so much this conversation and allowing us to have a front row seat. Your transparency is so healing 💕!

  • @MsJeanne1972
    @MsJeanne1972 Před rokem

    I love this honesty it's a cleansing that mothers need with their daughters. All of us.

  • @christinastoudemire4100
    @christinastoudemire4100 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is very helpful. Praying for greatness in my mother and I relationships. Love watching mothers day sermon finding your passion. Thank both of you women of God. Be encouraged.

  • @BoJoPoet
    @BoJoPoet Před rokem +8

    THIS is what healing looks like. It's the conversation that I wish ALL mothers could have with their daughters. The way no offense was taken by Sis. Sarita while Sarah was speaking her truth and the way Sarah listened and sat in the moment of her mother's pain was so beautiful and healing to witness. THIS is women's ministry...

  • @keynan394418
    @keynan394418 Před rokem +5

    "You playing out what I wish christmas would have been"..revelation in my life!!

  • @iamjayfill6992
    @iamjayfill6992 Před rokem

    Being a PK and having your mom talk about bearing all the things that goes with that definitely touch the soft spot

  • @7style0
    @7style0 Před 8 měsíci

    An authentic platform of genuine love and grace healing teaching of understanding and unconditional love threw the anointing of the holy spirit.
    Healing and Reconciliation with forgiveness of Restoration in holiness threw the truthfulness of Jesus Christ grace of love and compassion was shown here on this platform of grace given by God. Amen. It's Wonderful how Titus Two women complement each other with love. Amen.
    God bless you both always in peacefulness with serenity and calmness with tranquility in overflow. Amen. Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Praise Hallelujah 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌
    Thanks for sharing your love.

  • @sharonslilgirl77
    @sharonslilgirl77 Před rokem +10

    I wish i could have had this type of conversation with my mom before she died. This is so inspiring God bless you both

  • @Ehomespace
    @Ehomespace Před rokem +38

    This is so near and dear to my heart because I’ve had to navigate my way with teenage pregnancy and I’ve made mistakes. I apologized for them. Also have the layer of a lost mom who never told her truth. I’m going to get the books that were dropped here and move intentional and bigger with my children ❤ Thank you ladies truly heartfelt and transparent and admirable

  • @antauendennis479
    @antauendennis479 Před rokem +1

    Mama Jakes you are absolutely beautiful. ❤❤❤ and the honesty of this. The open apology and forgiveness.. this is all just so beautiful.

  • @gospelsongsdelilah4799
    @gospelsongsdelilah4799 Před rokem +3

    I keep on saying that peace is a luxury, not everyone can afford it nowadays and it seems like it's getting more and more expensive by the day, to the extent that one tends to feel guilty if you "think" you have it!🙏🏽🙇🏽‍♀️

  • @medrabanks2146
    @medrabanks2146 Před rokem +3

    Serita acknowledging her shortcomings as a younger parent spoke so much volume to me. I realize that I need to make some wrongs right with my children. I lost my mother at such a young age, and there are so many why’s, but I know I have to move forward. Her transparency of her childhood is so similar to mines as far as being alone and having rejection issues. I thank God for helping me heal from majority of those trauma and to move on past it. Thank you Serita and Sarah for helping us women to know that we are not alone.

  • @bribribizz
    @bribribizz Před rokem +10

    Man I can relate to Sarah in so many ways, definitely the teen pregnant part. That missing piece is hard to fill when u are young and want support.

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042

    ‘Now, I can’t see the glory without the story’ 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🙌🏾
    God is SO very good!!!!!!! Let’s do it all for the glory of God. Throughout all the Bible, my revelations started last year with the story of Pharoah and the Israelites- God does EVERYTHING for Himself and His glory. Put the fear of God right in my heart discovering that mystery I didn’t see till my 40s. I been reading that Bible since I could speak and just seeing this.
    Praise God!!! That is a God I don’t ever wanna be in front of…

  • @talisachris12
    @talisachris12 Před rokem

    I love the Jakes Family !!!
    I love their transparency…..they keep it real !!