WHEN YOUR DAD MAKES YOU THINK YOU ARE PREGNANT Part 1

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Komentáře • 700

  • @sashimicat9105
    @sashimicat9105 Před rokem +3315

    "I'll make sure he understands." Ohhh...that was ominous and I can just see Austin REALLY making sure he understands.

    • @Telenaus
      @Telenaus Před rokem +96

      i agree. dont know how but he will

    • @JohnDoe-ligma
      @JohnDoe-ligma Před rokem +44

      Lol what you think Austin is gonna kick his ass? I've seen people try to play the Samaritan. Doesn't usually end well

    • @nehirunal7278
      @nehirunal7278 Před rokem +107

      @@Telenaus even talking to the girl and help her to talk w a psychiatrist is a huge step. Also, you tell her o let another relative know about this incident and they might kick the dads ass in the family

    • @xaviermartin2753
      @xaviermartin2753 Před rokem +122

      Won't lie want a continuation of this

    • @steveioe
      @steveioe  Před rokem +581

      Austin can get pretty serious when he needs to!

  • @eatsnacks4681
    @eatsnacks4681 Před rokem +1880

    I've witnessed this happen twice. Insane to have to explain to an adult the trauma of their actions, and doubly insane that the adult's excuse both times was personal experience. Aka: They had lied about it, so their kid - being raised differently - must have made the same choices that they had.
    Innocent until proven guilty, huh. Yikes.

    • @steveioe
      @steveioe  Před rokem +414

      The hardest thing is having to explain to the father with it seeming like we are trying to tell him how to raise his child :/

    • @artscraftsgaming7169
      @artscraftsgaming7169 Před rokem +106

      This is my parents. “Well my sister snuck out as a kid so you can’t be trusted either.”

    • @eatsnacks4681
      @eatsnacks4681 Před rokem +48

      @@steveioe Thank you for your hard work. The parents may not appreciate it but I certainly do.

    • @sarajayne8214
      @sarajayne8214 Před rokem +75

      @@steveioe The sad thing is that these are also the men that claim women are "emotional". This statement does not give me any joy.

    • @rhov-anion
      @rhov-anion Před rokem +88

      @@artscraftsgaming7169 I had 3 older siblings around a decade older than me. By the time I came around, my parents didn't trust me with ANYTHING and assumed I was lying about everything. Feeling sick? Liar! Want to sleep over at a friend's place? You'll get drunk or knocked up! Depressed? You're just making it up for attention! Once, I had put on rapid weight in my lower belly and then suddenly had severe abdominal pains. My mother insisted I must be pregnant, lying about being a virgin, and I was probably in a miscarriage as punishment from God. Turned out to be a very large ruptured ovarian cyst, which explained the increased stomach size. (Seriously, the WORST pain of my life!)

  • @axelsmom7257
    @axelsmom7257 Před rokem +1886

    Austin is the kindest sweetest soul- a good example for all of us. 💜

    • @steveioe
      @steveioe  Před rokem +233

      He really is the best in all of us :)

    • @BROUBoomer
      @BROUBoomer Před rokem +24

      @@steveioe Hi,
      He's the cutest one too. 👵✌️🖖

    • @urfav.emma0
      @urfav.emma0 Před rokem +5

      eh i’m not so sur-

    • @geminiacleo7ewe
      @geminiacleo7ewe Před rokem +25

      ​@@steveioe ok... can't lie... I got choked up. Austin's sensitivity and patience... I love Austin. We NEED more Austin.

    • @BERRY_SODA1
      @BERRY_SODA1 Před rokem +1

      Ikr

  • @hannahgast1284
    @hannahgast1284 Před rokem +1219

    This reminds me of when I was in high school, and my dad got me pregnancy tested without my knowledge. I was struggling with insomnia and he got me a doctor appointment. "Thank goodness!" I thought. Maybe they'll be able to help me get sleep. They took a urine sample, let me explain my insomnia, and then let me go. Called three days later with test results. "You're not pregnant!" "Um... yeah. I know. Is there anything else?" Nope, they just tested for pregnancy because it turns out the only reason my dad could come up with for insomnia was anxiety about being pregnant. He didn't talk to me. He didn't ask me. He got me the doctor appointment, and the nurses and doctors were all totally cool with seeing a girl for insomnia, taking a pee test for pregnancy, and nothing else. I was so used to my dad being weird, I was so much angrier about not getting help with my insomnia than the egregious trespass of medical care.

    • @eatsnacks4681
      @eatsnacks4681 Před rokem +144

      That's honestly horrible. My dad was the same way, after my mother died. It was a dehumanizing journey to find out the lengths he would go to feel as if he were in control. I am sorry it happened to you.

    • @hannahgast1284
      @hannahgast1284 Před rokem +87

      @@eatsnacks4681 Thank you. We're on largely good terms now that I'm an adult and he can't have any say in my life. Still pissed at the doctors who heard a father say he was concerned his teen wasn't sleeping because she had anxiety about pregnancy, listened to me explain the problems I was having, and still only tested me for pregnancy

    • @emilymulcahy
      @emilymulcahy Před rokem +31

      @@hannahgast1284 honestly they have to do what your guardian says, it was your dad not the medical professionals, after all he was paying for the procedures and insurance... Hell I got pregnancy tested even though I hadn't had sex in over ten years by my own doctor as an adult and I pitched an unholy fit because of it

    • @hannahgast1284
      @hannahgast1284 Před rokem +64

      @@emilymulcahy It absolutely does not make it ok that they never even tried to get to the bottom of my insomnia.

    • @emilymulcahy
      @emilymulcahy Před rokem +13

      @@hannahgast1284 again, were you an adult and you paid for the visit, I'd agree, but legally they cannot treat you for something your guardian says to ignore as long as it's not life or death, then they'd be liable and would need to contact authorities on your behalf, it's not their fault, it's 100% a legal matter and your dad's fault

  • @maryjane4432
    @maryjane4432 Před rokem +404

    Seriously people, take your kids feelings into consideration. She tried to tell him, has he never heard of the stomach flu, appendix bursting. Or even worse for her an ovarian cyst. They hurt like hell. But him treating her like that is just wrong.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před rokem +44

      Or even generalized anxiety from living with an insensitive, bonkers parent!

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +30

      @@missnaomi613 Abusive, just say abusive. I wish people would stop using synonyms for ableist slurs and just say abusive.

    • @mellie4174
      @mellie4174 Před rokem

      Typical. Women are just uteruses in America.

    • @brendyi.m7044
      @brendyi.m7044 Před rokem +8

      Hello! This video is based on my comment/story I posted on one of his videos. I assure you my dad was not half as bad as he makes it seem in the video. I just thought that somehow I might be, but it was indeed ovary cysts as it was shown in the ultrasound.

    • @1whitkat
      @1whitkat Před rokem +1

      @@brendyi.m7044 I feel for you, I went through the same. While my mother was very understanding the medical staff at my Drs. office wasn't. It wasn't until one of the cysts burst that they believed anything was actually wrong. I hope you are doing better now.

  • @sirflimflam
    @sirflimflam Před rokem +487

    Was in an ER waiting room waiting to be seen some years back and witnessed one of these dads burst into the ER with teen daughter in tow. Absolutely mental. The lady behind the desk trying to calm the guy down so she could get some basic information from him looked like she'd seen this a million times before.

    • @kateherr2893
      @kateherr2893 Před rokem +64

      Besides this being heartbreaking and abusive toward minors, it also takes time away from people experiencing actual emergencies, and that's a tough pill to swallow.

  • @sarahlyon157
    @sarahlyon157 Před rokem +96

    Omg... thank you for asking him to leave the room. I had an abuser when I was this age who always wanted to be up in my business (wanted virginity checks, etc) and if I had been put in this position I would have been so relieved to have the nurse help me stand up for my right to privacy.

  • @NoImNotTellingYou45678
    @NoImNotTellingYou45678 Před rokem +800

    We all need people like Austin he did the right thing and it’s important that the patient can trust their medical professionals. I remember when I cracked the bone in my arm I was so scared of the ER but the doctor was so nice and kept making jokes to cheer me up, I am so thankful for what he did.

  • @katieb9428
    @katieb9428 Před rokem +157

    Honestly I feel that. When I was that age, a virgin and not even dating anyone, my dad made it clear if I so much as looked at a boy I’d get pregnant. It scared me so bad

    • @donnaleeah5075
      @donnaleeah5075 Před rokem +22

      A classmate kissed her cousin. This was the 8th grade. Her mother told her ,, likely joking the classmate had no humor she was now pregnant. The kid was freaking. We explained the why that's not true. She didn't believe us.

  • @kalieris
    @kalieris Před rokem +114

    I still can’t get over how I was able to forget that wasn’t a real 16 year old girl when the main prop was a pink tshirt on her head. Very well done.

  • @Ninth_Penumbra
    @Ninth_Penumbra Před rokem +186

    I was trying to write something about this, but all I could think about was how extraordinarily compassionate Austin is. This is what healthcare should be about, _caring for each other._
    I've heard too many horror stories about how kids in the US are deliberately profoundly undereducated about sex & the consequences. There are statistics about _repeat_ teen pregnancies in some US states.

    • @artscraftsgaming7169
      @artscraftsgaming7169 Před rokem +19

      I know a ton of kids do it because pressure for various reasons, and because they’re family dynamic has left them so utterly miserable they turn to fake love (basically sex with non-caring individuals) just so that they feel even a slight bit better.
      It’s heartbreaking really.
      Most girls I’ve met have this mindset to find ‘love’ and end up spiraling down a path of misery, simply because they can’t love themselves because of things their family (or friends or society) has taught them to believe.

    • @ferretyluv
      @ferretyluv Před rokem

      Well in this case she’s a virgin and couldn’t be pregnant.

    • @afropoppette
      @afropoppette Před rokem +1

      Mmhmm. Comprehensive sex ed is sooo taboo in the States, except for some liberal ones and pockets of liberal communities. Many states, lawmakers, etc vote against what would help reduce teen pregnancy, and more.
      Get this, different topic, but a library with 67,000 book titles, and a community that disagreed with 90 of those titles voted to defend the library. And.... poof, no more library. Completely gone. They didn't think it would actually happen. They just wanted to "send a message". Things are so, so backward right now.

    • @ferretyluv
      @ferretyluv Před rokem

      @@afropoppette Most states have comprehensive sex ed nowadays. But the deep red ones don’t.

    • @Ninth_Penumbra
      @Ninth_Penumbra Před rokem

      @@artscraftsgaming7169 A disgusting corollery of religious/patriarchy-based gender roles (and the anachronistic valuation of women as being little more than baby factories & sexual outlets for men / husbands), is the truly repulsive *_"Purity Culture"_* which equates _virginity_ & _feminine sexuality_ with personal & moral value.
      Some of the worst aspects of this practice are:
      • It equates feminine sexuality with _used chewing gum_ & _dirty old shoes_ - implying that for a woman to be sexual (outside of marriage) is to become unworthy of love & respect,
      • It denigrates women who've had sex (out of wedlock) as being _promiscuous_ (indescriminate sex with multiple partners) & _immoral_ - neither of which follows.
      • That it's not only objectively terrible at it's primary goal of both educating teens about their bodies & preventing (pre-marital) teen pregnancy, but (when women & young girls fail to adhere to it's unrealistic standards) also leads to _toxic guilt, clinical depression_ & (at it's worst) increased rates of _teen suicide,_
      • It simultaneously reinforces some of the worst aspects of _toxic masculinity_ through the denigration of sexual women (the vile _"she was asking for it"_ trope).
      • It indirectly places more value on a fetus than the wellbeing of a pregnant woman. (⊚)
      ⊚ - Which, thanks to *Roe v Wade* being overturned (by utterly ignoring centuries of legal precident & with the flimsiest of legal justifications:) by a clique of religious zealots within *The United States Supreme Court,* as has been explicitly & grotesquely exposed in many *Republican* run *US States.*

  • @copiouscareerist
    @copiouscareerist Před rokem +275

    Thank you for this. It's so important to show these moments. An overbearing parent, a father in this case, clearly needs a formal education in patience, kindness and real love. Very strong short story.

    • @44125
      @44125 Před rokem +10

      Keep going… there’s a few more fruits of the spirit to list!!!❤️

    • @steveioe
      @steveioe  Před rokem +44

      Thank you! I agree these moments are equally as important

    • @copiouscareerist
      @copiouscareerist Před rokem +6

      @@steveioe In story telling, my favorite moments are of something relatable while also being funny, but possibly surprising us with an emotional tear of empathy and/or sympathy. You've done quite a few of these. Thank you, again, for making us not only laugh, but use our brains at the same time. There's still so much to learn about kindness in this crazy world.

    • @gemstorm16
      @gemstorm16 Před rokem +1

      @@steveioe I can tell how much this story means to you by the number of replies you've made to commenters. That's why I follow your channel. You have a good heart. Thank you for telling these stories. I see so many kids with extreme anxiety from their parents' judgmental abuse. It needs to stop.

  • @brobles8888
    @brobles8888 Před rokem +273

    What a touching skit. Thank you for bringing awareness to anxiety causing dads (and moms)
    It really helps that people see there is hope. TYVM!

    • @jarla90
      @jarla90 Před rokem +8

      I have a mom like this, and for my past self and my present self, I wanna see Austin rip that dad a new one soooo bad 😭🥺

    • @brobles8888
      @brobles8888 Před rokem +4

      @@jarla90 i totally agree that would have been cool to see. Good to see you are healing from all that. Hang in there, sweetie. We’re rooting for you. ❤️‼️

  • @jojoabushkr3343
    @jojoabushkr3343 Před rokem +35

    Lol I forgot that he's playing all the characters

  • @steveioe
    @steveioe  Před rokem +245

    I hope you are all having a great day!

    • @joss_eq
      @joss_eq Před rokem +6

      It’s going well! How are you? I feel like people don’t get asked this enough

    • @IneffableChild
      @IneffableChild Před rokem +5

      @@joss_eq agreed, I hope everyone is doing okay, and if they're not, I hope things get better for everyone here!!

    • @karinagutierrez7134
      @karinagutierrez7134 Před rokem +3

      Likewise! Thanks for the great content!

    • @netherminer101
      @netherminer101 Před rokem

      So what were the results I know she wasn't pregnant but was she at least ok and please tell me you told the dad off for being a complete shitfuck

    • @kmarch6630
      @kmarch6630 Před rokem +1

      I certainly am. I hope you do too!

  • @SensitiveSage
    @SensitiveSage Před rokem +272

    these are the type of dads that resent having a "feEmaHle" child

    • @etikhad4754
      @etikhad4754 Před rokem +5

      Not arguing with the post, but what is the "feEmaHle" supposed to mean and why did you write it like that?

    • @missfortune8553
      @missfortune8553 Před rokem

      @@etikhad4754 Because men who call women females tend to view us as lesser.

    • @etikhad4754
      @etikhad4754 Před rokem

      @@missfortune8553 I see, thanks for the reply.

    • @i_will_not_elaborate
      @i_will_not_elaborate Před rokem +36

      I think it's more of the fact that society often romanctizes the "overprotective father for his daughter" and ends up creating control freaks

    • @pennyinheaven
      @pennyinheaven Před rokem +18

      @@i_will_not_elaborate I doubt that's being overprotective. It's just being ignorant about pregnancy and dismissive of someone else's pain all for the sake of, prolly, their ego.

  • @beardiemom
    @beardiemom Před rokem +101

    How the hell is Austin becoming the most well adjusted character in the cast now?

    • @Esprix
      @Esprix Před rokem +8

      Austin is the hero we need

    • @Redorgreenful
      @Redorgreenful Před rokem +10

      Because in every single instance, he maintained he remained curious and open to learning. He hasn’t been jaded (yet, at least). These are qualities of a healthcare provider that I want to see.

    • @beardiemom
      @beardiemom Před rokem +5

      @@Redorgreenful yeah, agreed. When he first was "introduced", he just appeared very naive. But I think the voice also plays into that.

  • @HaleyNichole69
    @HaleyNichole69 Před rokem +104

    I hope a part 2 is in the making! I need to know how this ends!!! I hope Austin put that father in his place!

    • @The_Maroon_Rose
      @The_Maroon_Rose Před rokem +4

      Me too!

    • @potocatepetl
      @potocatepetl Před rokem +3

      enterocolitis? appendicitis? E-coli? gallstones? a lot of things are possible

  • @maggiestinnett8926
    @maggiestinnett8926 Před rokem +66

    See as a child of a lawyer who practices primarily family law (and see's behavior like this borderline / straight up mental abuse) I would have just called social services and show them that the father is not creating a safe environment for his child.

    • @jeepstergal4043
      @jeepstergal4043 Před rokem +7

      No.
      CPS is not the answer. In my professional experience as a psychotherapist and school social worker, CPS is only for the most extreme cases.
      Is the dad in this skit a dick? You betcha. But he's not uneducable.
      A sympathetic conversation with the nurse or hospital social worker, a recommendation for counselling for at least the young lady, hell, just telling her that she isn't the crazy one, is enough to de-escalate the situation.
      Bringing in CPS more often than not makes things worse.
      I saw it both in a major city, and also in rural areas
      Not saying you should never call CPS. Just saying there are other, more appropriate, interventions before you drag them in.

    • @maggiestinnett8926
      @maggiestinnett8926 Před rokem +9

      ​@@jeepstergal4043 Honestly, I do agree, but I also have a knee-jerk reaction to his behavior as I have witnessed about 75-80% of my friends throughout their childhood to early adulthood referring to how their parents/stepparents / and family members have treated them (physical, mental, sexual assault) and how I've first hand witnessed the dialogue between parent and child and thought that someone...anyone should have noticed long before and done something, but in 10 out of 12 cases in just sexual violence alone, no one ever did, and still won't. So yes, I know that CPS isn't always the answer, but I am sick and tired of watching people I grew up with and people I know who have been consistently hurt because no one ever did anything, and it's hard for them even to find resources now. It feels even worse knowing it's still happening to other kids in my community who are going through the same thing. Still, for a mixture of reasons, no one around them at school or in their day-to-day life takes any notice of the evident problems occurring, or it just gets swept under the rug because the child isn't worth the trouble to some schools.

    • @dying2survive298
      @dying2survive298 Před rokem +1

      @@jeepstergal4043 Calling him a dick doesn’t quite some sum up that he’s literally abusing his child
      The program should also help correct the parents behavior when they are abusing their children
      Maybe getting them involved would get his attention and make him realize he is doing something wrong. People like that face no repercussions and then they don’t see a goddamn thing wrong with what they did

    • @pisces2569
      @pisces2569 Před rokem +4

      @@jeepstergal4043 which is what CPS does. They try to educate the parents so they can be reunited with their kids . It’s when they don’t comply that their parental rights are terminated.

    • @zb2845
      @zb2845 Před rokem +1

      I disagree. Even though people do that and they did no wemrong, it takes a long time to get your child back. Cps is not always for the good of the child.

  • @ssjess2504
    @ssjess2504 Před rokem +105

    Austin is so sweet ♥️ hope there's a part 2

  • @Stripesheal18
    @Stripesheal18 Před rokem +29

    It's amazing to me how full grown adults just assume pregnancy first. Even in my case, im a full grown adult. I am and have been having severe abdominal pain and other problems. For the first several months of trying to figure out what was going wrong all the doctors wanted to do was check me for pregnancy and STDs. In my case, I am a full grown adult telling them that isn't what's going on. That's not even possible, but they still didn't want to believe me. I must have had 25+ pregnancy tests, and 6+ full std panels. Among my multiple ER visits and doctors visits. It took me 8 months to find a doctor who actually started digging. Still don't know whats going on, but at least they believe it's not just a stupid simple answer that I'm "too embarrassed" to share.
    P.s. still a little bitter.... I have a good doctor now. But man was it rough finding her.

    • @missfortune8553
      @missfortune8553 Před rokem +6

      I feel this. Glad you found a doctor who listens, I’m still working on that.

    • @Stripesheal18
      @Stripesheal18 Před rokem +2

      @@missfortune8553 I'm so sorry to hear this. In my case I ended up going with Baylor concierge doctors. After alot of digging and referrals from doctor friends etc. I also ended up with a really pissed off doctor who openly admitted he hated his job. But he actually referred me to someone he wasn't supposed to because he didn't give a crap about the system. But he recommended the best neurologist I had seen, and that neurologist actually did find something. He was the first one to tell me that I wasn't testing normal.
      Anyway, rambling aside. If you are in the U.S. Baylor Scott and white concierge doctors actually seem to want to dig into things. If you are out of the U.S. then I recommend asking as many doctors as you can who they recommend. And if possible, checking reviews. I found a good doctor by compiling recommendations from doctors, news sources, family members and friends, and reading as many reviews as I could. But I went through many doctors. Additionally, I was told many times that it was all in my head, that I was just getting older (30 yrs old), and that it was just stress. After some real digging, we know that I have nerve damage, and that my GI track has stopped (that 1 took a while to set in).
      Again sorry for the rambling mess. I would love to offer any experience that I have that might be helpful to someone else looking for a good doctor. As they are very hard to find. But they do exist. I have a great pcp now. She actually is digging into things, and if anything goes overboard. But I trust her judgment, and don't feel like I have to twist her arm to get her to help me. My neurologist was a doctor recommendation who ended up being awesome. My GI doctor is also a doctor friend recommendation who has so far been very impressive. But I've only seen her a couple of times, so I'm still waiting to see what happens but with her I'm hopeful too.
      Just don't give up, and if you know something is wrong, don't let them tell you otherwise.
      Best wishes

    • @missfortune8553
      @missfortune8553 Před rokem +1

      @@Stripesheal18 Thank you! I’m glad to hear this, I’ll look into them but it’s so hard to get help depending on what insurance you have etc, I may not be able to talk to anyone out of state.
      Wishing you the best 💕

  • @RachelMullerCreations
    @RachelMullerCreations Před rokem +16

    Vomiting and a tummy ache don't mean that she is pregnant. I once had a cyst rupture, and it presented as appendicitis. Some females get cramping monthly, and both of those can also happen.

  • @twirlgirl2286
    @twirlgirl2286 Před rokem +302

    This is PRECISELY WHY we need formal sex-education in public schools. I personally believe it needs to be for TWO FULL semesters as well. I always say we need it because otherwise, the kids are getting their (mis)information from OTHER ILL-INFORMED KIDS!!

    • @twirlgirl2286
      @twirlgirl2286 Před rokem +13

      @@pawakin 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 That is an _awesome example_ of just what I mean. Like you said, the repetition definitely helps make sure that info gets thru and stays with you. I seriously wish🪄all other public school districts would do this same thing.😒 *And **_having that information does NOT make you wanna rush right on out to experiment._** It DOES however, allow you to make informed decisions.* Thx.

    • @potocatepetl
      @potocatepetl Před rokem +18

      I would make it compulsory for parents as well... Some are more clueless than the kids.

    • @twirlgirl2286
      @twirlgirl2286 Před rokem +8

      @@potocatepetl yes, you are correct, because some of them are. 😒

    • @TheBeetress
      @TheBeetress Před rokem +10

      Age appropriate information at multiple year levels

    • @evil1by1
      @evil1by1 Před rokem

      Umm gaslighting and abuse won't fix abusive fathers and misogynistic society. Past about age when ever you get your period everything is always either because your pregnant, because of your period or drugs.
      Parents and doctors are bad for assuming everything that comes out of your mouth is a lie and badgering you until your no longer sure about anything. More sex ed won't fix that. Its not that the dad or even the girl doesn't know how pregnancy happens but the father doesn't believe anything she says, keeps Insisting shes lying and telling her she's pregnant. Thats gaslighting...its abuse and the girl isn't to blame for being so confused.

  • @floodlime8620
    @floodlime8620 Před rokem +10

    When I was a freshman in high school, I would flirt a lot with this boy named Sam. Somehow a rumor started going around that we were sleeping together. Well, my guidance counselor heard the rumor, called my parents and straight up told them I was pregnant with Sam’s baby. My parents insisted that I take a pregnancy test, which of course came out negative. It was pure craziness.

  • @lindseymcdougall9774
    @lindseymcdougall9774 Před rokem +35

    Please do a follow up. Either get Ben to smack dad over the head and set him right. Or even better Austin actually getting angry with the dad and telling him some home truths while the others listen in fearful for dad’s life. Everyone has their tipping point

  • @ShenGen69
    @ShenGen69 Před rokem +25

    I love Austin. He’s the kindest, sweetest soul. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @giggle_snort
    @giggle_snort Před rokem +27

    Ooooh parents like that piss me off. You're the problem, you're why your daughter is crying, hell you're probably the reason for her stomach ache. 😡

  • @amywillows8335
    @amywillows8335 Před rokem +17

    Can we please have a part two? You're such a wonderful actor I forget it's just you filling in all the roles and I want to see that poor girls father learn something.

  • @kaylee1769
    @kaylee1769 Před rokem +10

    It’s horrible some parents are like this and don’t trust their kids! These parents want their kids to be honest and to talk to them, yet they can’t even trust them when they’re telling the truth. Sad some kids have to go through this

  • @ciphex5641
    @ciphex5641 Před rokem +26

    that father daughter relationship must been real awkward now

  • @commonsense571
    @commonsense571 Před rokem +5

    “I got you” from Austin is what everyone needs in life.
    There would be peace on earth and no pollution. 💕

  • @xLittleulipx
    @xLittleulipx Před rokem +7

    Austin is one of my favorite character 🥺 Such a sweet person!

  • @MadMage1993
    @MadMage1993 Před rokem +21

    Know what is wild to me? There are people who go through this crap. This is why I strongly believe in sex education in schools. Also, that dad is whack! Did he even ask his daughter any other questions?! Did he just assume shit? What was even happening there?! The fact she has anxiety all the time breaks my heart! How is he even raising her?!
    I was told by my grandmother how sex was something that just wasn't talked about back then. So when she did end up with a guy, she did end up pregnant and had no idea. She had to have the talk WITH THE PHYSICIAN. There is lot more to the story about the before and the after but that is very personal information and I just don't feel comfortable sharing THAT much about my grandmother. What I will say is she was and is a good person who just had one of those mothers who loved her sons more than her daughter. Her father loved his children equally be they boy or girl but he had to work a lot and he would go hunting on his spare time.
    So if this is just ignorance, then education is the key to fighting it. If this is just assumption with psychological abuse, someone needs to call social services.

  • @RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber

    Every once in a while, comedian Steveioe loads up a boxing glove with "da truth" and sucker-punches us right in the feels.

  • @Rose8
    @Rose8 Před rokem +24

    Lucky girl got Austin on her side 💞

    • @missfortune8553
      @missfortune8553 Před rokem

      Yeah, for a moment. Then she goes back home to that monster/moron.

  • @paige8916
    @paige8916 Před rokem +14

    Part 2 please 🙏
    My oldest kid's friends go through this nonsense with dads too much

  • @LorienInksong
    @LorienInksong Před rokem +7

    Abusive father is the worst. Mind totally would have flipped out that I used birth control for my painful periods and called me a w****.

  • @hannahholly8108
    @hannahholly8108 Před rokem +5

    I love Austin. I'm straight for him. He is so nice.

  • @firechasersparkles2023
    @firechasersparkles2023 Před rokem +3

    My mom and I absolutely love these videos of how different characters handle different situations. Thanks for giving us a glimpse into what life is like as an ER nurse, Steve. Keep 'em coming!

  • @ameliashostak4764
    @ameliashostak4764 Před rokem +1

    That "it's okay, I got you" at the end...WOW! What an emotional roller coaster ride! Chefs kiss

  • @abigailrose1806
    @abigailrose1806 Před rokem +4

    I was there once too, thinking I was pregnant and terrified. I’m so lucky my mother kept a calm head and didn’t react badly when she could see how scared I was. Turns out I wasn’t but it’s a moment I remember to know I have a good parent.

  • @reneecarson8960
    @reneecarson8960 Před rokem +18

    I'd love to see a Part 2 on this one. How did dad behave after he was told what was really wrong?

  • @moonrose100
    @moonrose100 Před rokem +6

    Part Two is Austin giving a grown man the talk, and recommending therapist for the kid and adult

  • @jessicaculp3829
    @jessicaculp3829 Před rokem +4

    "Just breathe I got you" 💜💜💜💜

  • @jessiealexander3515
    @jessiealexander3515 Před rokem +2

    Honestly, you do such a good job with both the nurses and patients that I always feel for them 🙏❤️

  • @joss_eq
    @joss_eq Před rokem +7

    They really be outta line sometimes 🫢

  • @lindabennett9068
    @lindabennett9068 Před rokem +1

    Aww Austin. You are so sweet and compassionate. And totally adorable.

  • @chinablueliberty2822
    @chinablueliberty2822 Před rokem +1

    This happened to a cousin of mine around 35 years ago. She stopped menstruating, turned out it was a hormonal problem. Her mum, dad my mum and other aunts did an "intervention" repeatedly asking her if she was pregnant and that she should tell the truth and that they would not be angry with her but she had to tell the truth. She was a virgin, we were Roman Catholic and with the questioning she convinced herself that she was pregnant. She honestly believed that it was an immaculate conception because none of the adults in our lives at that time told us or possibly did not know that periods could stop for a myriad of reasons and not just when a woman becomes pregnant. I will never forget the shock and horror I felt when she told me that my mother was involved in this "intervention" We laugh about it now, more at our ignorance about such matters.

  • @sciamhach
    @sciamhach Před rokem +4

    I really want to see part 2 of this where Austin REALLY makes sure that dad understands.

  • @sparklegemrose
    @sparklegemrose Před rokem +4

    The sun at full radiance cannot hope to rival Austin’s smile

  • @JayeEllis
    @JayeEllis Před rokem +5

    Gee, maybe if your 16-year-old daughter and her partner had access to SEX EDUCATION and BIRTH CONTROL, you wouldn't be so upset, Dad.

  • @44125
    @44125 Před rokem +7

    Sad, because this happens irl.

    • @spicybeantofu
      @spicybeantofu Před rokem +2

      I'm pretty sure all of these stories are true experiences

  • @scoutlaceharding
    @scoutlaceharding Před rokem

    I love Austin and I'm really grateful for the healthcare workers he represents.

  • @IslanderloverBKK
    @IslanderloverBKK Před rokem +3

    1:06 It's so realistic when he was looking while the dad leaves.

  • @rondaherriott
    @rondaherriott Před rokem +1

    Austin- the nurse who has not yet been jaded.

  • @DiamondElisha
    @DiamondElisha Před rokem +8

    this is my family
    when I was a teen i got my period super late and my mom gave me hell to the point even I thought I was pregnant eventho I didnt have sex lol (turned out ot happened bc I didnt take my birth control regularly)
    and just last year same story;
    I have terrible stomachs aches that lasted 8 hours and came in shorter periods during the day
    my mom and sister were like "oh you're pregnant" bla bla
    turned out I had uti and gallstones 😅🙈
    family gaslighting you your whole life really is a thing.

    • @beardiemom
      @beardiemom Před rokem +6

      Stomach aches in women being mistaken for either pregnancy or period cramps is such a big issue, too.
      "Oh, your stomach is killing you? You must be pregnant, just get a test and if it's positive, go to an obgyn."
      *six hours later, in the ER*: You were not pregnant, you had appendicitis, but because you thought it wasn't urgent, now your appendix burst and you're being rushed into emergency surgery.

    • @DiamondElisha
      @DiamondElisha Před rokem +6

      @@beardiemom right!!!!
      Now that you mention it I forget that one too
      I went to my primary care physician when I was younger complaining about stomache ache. They had me in the waiting room for hours just to tell me that I'll have to go see a gynaecologist. So I went there with another long a** wait just for them to tell me I'd have to go to the hospital.
      So after a whole day off pain I had to undergo surgery and get my appendix out.
      Wasnt so much saying I was pregnant (as I was around 10 or 11) but the whole "go to the gynaecologist to get help" seemed off bk then already

    • @beardiemom
      @beardiemom Před rokem +6

      @@DiamondElisha I kind of came up with that one on the fly, but I am so sorry that happened to you.
      It sucks that being a woman can give us a worse outcome prognosis on multiple conditions, just because Doctors have tunnelvision for our lady bits to be this issue.

  • @ripleyr9792
    @ripleyr9792 Před rokem +15

    Austin for the win. Love him. That dad has got to go..... got her all wound up.

  • @bmaiceman
    @bmaiceman Před rokem +2

    Nooooooo don't leave it like THAT..
    We want to see the conversation with Dad!!!!

  • @tommiegirl2441
    @tommiegirl2441 Před rokem +9

    Love this. Let Austin take care of the poor girl - she needs someone like that right now - and turn Rich loose on her dork father. Problem solved! 💜

  • @cynnajackson4556
    @cynnajackson4556 Před rokem

    You are such an incredible actor. I believe each character you play. AND you are bringing really important issues like stress, anxiety, pressure to be perfect, and thoughts of self-harm to the forefront. Thank you 🙏🏻🦋

  • @andreakeeling9217
    @andreakeeling9217 Před rokem

    I love medical personnel. Most of them are so kind like you.

  • @mosstheboss5606
    @mosstheboss5606 Před rokem +2

    “I’ll make sure he understands”
    *Cocks gun*

  • @luciep9741
    @luciep9741 Před rokem +1

    I just love when Austin enters Papa Bear mode.

  • @Fox-Mann-Fam
    @Fox-Mann-Fam Před rokem

    Excellent! Looking forward to part 2.

  • @ERYN__
    @ERYN__ Před rokem +2

    Cliffhanger

  • @Michelle55
    @Michelle55 Před rokem +5

    Aw bless, all hospitals need an Austin 🥰 lol

  • @DavidRay39
    @DavidRay39 Před rokem +2

    0:47 - your hat glitched out of existence for a sec!

  • @lillygirl3304
    @lillygirl3304 Před rokem +1

    Being so anxious because of your parents reaction that you literally can't even reason hit so close to home..

  • @ashleahbeautyfromashes8541

    Austin for the win!

  • @rebeccarowe4201
    @rebeccarowe4201 Před rokem +9

    I want more of the story, especially the part where the father grovels and apologises-- oh, wait-- that's never going to happen, is it?

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Před rokem +5

      As a kid of a father like this, oh absolutely never. Never ever. Ever. At best he’ll act like it never happened.

    • @brendyi.m7044
      @brendyi.m7044 Před rokem +1

      This was my story I commented on one of his videos a while ago my story has. 400+ likes and he made it into a skit. •-• dad never apologized and I was this way because I had ovary cysts.

  • @olivenboo
    @olivenboo Před rokem +2

    austin is such a good dude! please do a part 2 so we can see him boost that girl’s confidence and then go rip dad a new one!

  • @kellyaquinn
    @kellyaquinn Před rokem +1

    I need a part 2 and 3 on this one!

  • @yokaiofwater
    @yokaiofwater Před rokem +1

    I hope there's a part 2. I love Austin.

  • @Siege.Guerra
    @Siege.Guerra Před rokem +3

    Really hope we get a part 2

  • @TheLaughingDove
    @TheLaughingDove Před rokem +1

    This one... Hit really hard. I never had this scare. But I know how it feels to have someone you know and love furiously assert their reality over yours to the point where you lose sense of the world. My mother cussed me out for years about bleeding on the sheets and my period, which it later turned out had never been normal, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent that with how much I was bleeding. She was so convinced I was just lazy and a slob, and so was I. I ended up needing surgery and ironically, hormonal transition plus IUD turned out to be a way to manage whatever it was, thankfully, but...its rough.

    • @tisvana18
      @tisvana18 Před rokem

      As someone with a similarly hellish period, I feel you. I had to live with my MIL for a time and I one time bled on her couch, and it was very fun getting disgusted looks and comments. My husband’s brother was even like “why don’t you just change your pad more often”
      I had put in a fresh tampon and pad less than fifteen minutes before sitting down. I ended up severely anemic from that period and it took months to recover.

  • @dawnsabo5664
    @dawnsabo5664 Před rokem

    I love your kindness to everyone Austin. 💓

  • @mw7576
    @mw7576 Před rokem

    This part 1 and 2 totally made me tear up

  • @kathy-anndaniel-gittens9043

    SteveIoe Is so good at the different roles!

  • @shalinastilley446
    @shalinastilley446 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm addicted to your videos. You're brilliant!

  • @dragonflyfirefly9465
    @dragonflyfirefly9465 Před rokem +5

    Ok I need more. I want Austin to tear a new one on the dad 😜

  • @melanielunsford1451
    @melanielunsford1451 Před rokem

    This was awesome!!!

  • @josephibarra1757
    @josephibarra1757 Před rokem +1

    Recently retired ER ICU nurse I’ve seen this happen over and over or families with loved ones It’s draining but we live for the family members we get through to 😢

  • @fannydawn2848
    @fannydawn2848 Před rokem

    My heart just exploded and shit itself.

  • @feliciafox9419
    @feliciafox9419 Před rokem

    That was so sweet and understanding 🤩 hope we have Austin's in all ers all over the world 😘

  • @zahrabasiri7784
    @zahrabasiri7784 Před rokem

    We need a part 2 for this

  • @MrJojomylove
    @MrJojomylove Před rokem +1

    This breaks my heart for people who have bad parents like that guy

  • @korab.23
    @korab.23 Před rokem

    "I'll make sure he understands." I was expecting to see Ben come in!😂

  • @lanaeinkheart7597
    @lanaeinkheart7597 Před rokem

    Definitely need a part 2.

  • @yavannapr
    @yavannapr Před rokem

    Glad sometimes we get to find nurses like this one.

  • @lilijustlove3242
    @lilijustlove3242 Před rokem

    Aww man. I was looking forward to seeing you make sure the dad understood!! Can we get a part 2? 😁

  • @acwhit1593
    @acwhit1593 Před rokem

    Okay, I'm going to need a part two

  • @Natakk-xr4lj
    @Natakk-xr4lj Před rokem

    Austins character has went through so much development I love it

  • @erosore
    @erosore Před rokem +5

    you are extremely good at imitating teenage girl crying… a little too good. are you sure you’re not a teenage girl on the inside?

    • @spicybeantofu
      @spicybeantofu Před rokem +1

      We all are teenagers still on the inside forced to grow up too fast

  • @tunkiyo
    @tunkiyo Před rokem

    I wish I had a nurse or friend like this good work

  • @Emo_Bunny2000
    @Emo_Bunny2000 Před rokem

    I love Austin. He's such a sweet heart.

  • @dragonjoy1313
    @dragonjoy1313 Před rokem

    Love Austin, he's the sweetest.

  • @dinahassan4320
    @dinahassan4320 Před rokem

    The pink t shirt on his head 😂😂

  • @evershade254
    @evershade254 Před rokem

    the way that I can literally insert myself and my father into this sketch and it would play out the exact same way.

  • @chele277
    @chele277 Před rokem

    Austin is such a good soul

  • @susanglovesthecamboys
    @susanglovesthecamboys Před rokem +1

    Austin is such a caring person