Quiet quarrels, intimacy & other things marriage taught me
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- čas přidán 15. 09. 2022
- I am without question so grateful to God to celebrate marriage with my sweet husband. It has been a journey and I never have cause to regret anything done for the sake of love and obedience to God - it always turns out for my good. If not in this lifetime, then in the world to come.
PLACES WE VISITED:
1) My Coffee, 17A Ozumba Mbadiwe Avenue, WINGS, Lagos
2) Flowershop Cafe, 274 Akin Adesola street, Victoria Island, Lagos
3) Landmark Beach, 4 Water Corporation Drive, Victoria Island, Lagos
4) Oriki Spa, 4th Floor Oriental Hotel, New Wing, Victoria Island, Lagos
“As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” (Ephesians 5: 31-33)
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Hey guyssss! Thank you so much for all the love 🥺 we want to give back to you guys hence the giveaway we’re doing. Please see the description box of this video for more information 🤍
You deserve all the love, I pray for your happiness 💖
I'm always happy to see you happy 😇may God bless you always.....you've changed my view of life.
Happy anniversary
Love your story
I love the song in the intro. Please kindly share the song and artist's name, thank you and Happy Anniversary!
All the people that kept smiling like fishes throughout this video, gather here, let's take a selfie!😂😊❤️. Thank you for sharing, Ezinne! God bless you!
Yeah right 😂
😂cheese
We have gathered’o🙌🏽😂😂😂
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See me smiling like a roasted goat 😂😂
If you’re believing God for your own Isimeme, gather under this comment😭😭😭
Ezinne I love this video so much. I got married at the age of 22 although not planned but God had better plans. Sometimes I feel I shouldn’t have gotten married but God always proves me wrong and show me how wonderful of a man I married. Happy Anniversary Ezinne more fruitful years ahead
I have very similar story with yours 😇
❤❤
Same here I got married at 22 and many times I doubt if I did the right thing but God always proves me wrong
This goes to show that the so called my truth changes with time. It's a fact not a truth.
Time was when 22 years was considered old
It's surprising now people are made to feel 22 is too young
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 so true but I still feel 22 is too young. There are things I know that if I was older I would have known the best way to handle it, I’m not saying that I am able to handle it now but it won’t take so much time and energy before I figure it out as compared to if I was older.
"This example of selflessness that my husband sets encourages me to do the same" I got really emotional by that statement. True love inspires true love❤. May you marriage continue to flourish in Christ. ❤❤❤
One day I'd have my Isimeme🥺
Someone who wants to do God's will as much as I want to.
Amen!
SAY AMEN TOO!🥺
Me too o😂😂😂❤
Ameeeeeeeeennnnnn!!!
Amen
Heyyyy ezine, your marriage is a proof that hearing from God in the choice of a husband is sooooooo key. Your marriage is beautiful and watching this video just reminded me that it pays to wait on God and to hear from him. It just encouraged me soooo much, God bless you ma'am😍💝
This video made me say ‘I want to have an anniversary day out’. Then I remembered that I’m not married 😂😂😂!
Thank you for showing us this, I believe it’s a privilege that you’re even showing us thisssss! Love you guyssss so much, arghhh 😩❤️❤️❤️!
Happy anniversary my people! 🥰❤️
Your union will continue the relationship between Christ & His church! ❤️
Lol... I too
Amen.
Lol
I loved the part where Ezinne spoke about the importance of understanding your husband and the calmness he carries within himself, whilst Ezinne being more of the outspoken person. It’s so beautiful when Christian couples can influence each other in different ways. This video has encouraged and inspired to know that Gods love is reflected through a man that shows his love for a woman; more than that, it is the covering of the man that enables the woman to be safe and secure #giveaway
AMENNN!! I was just saying this😭❤️
This was beautiful!!!
I love the part you said "best husband" to him and he's said "I'm trying". So submissive to each other,I pray for such too.
#giveaway
Me too❤
If there's anything I learnt from this video, it's the fact that keeping track of those beautiful and memorable moments will eventually serve as a reminder of God's goodness and faithfulness to us. Hence, we can look back, and have a course to give him thanks, seeing how far he's has brought us.
I learnt this too😊😊 we just have to keep track of everything
This is so wonderful Ezinne🥺❤️. From your life I've come to know that Obeying God pays.
It sure does!
“We are not lucky or perfect people. The wisdom of God guides us in loving each other.”
This is it.
Please guy do the voting , Ezinne is on the top 3 , please lets help her win
Is it just me, or there's a special joy when Ezinne drops a video..🤗🤗🤗
That joy is unexplainable 😊
True
Not only you sis, there's a warmth l feel around her vlog♥
Yes because her content hits different.Period!❤️🔥
@@absolutelydneo1 🔥🔥
Lord I want to get married before I go for my national youth service 🙏🙏🙏
I am late to many things but not Ezinne's upload on CZcams
🤭💃😁
I don’t know if I have a “favorite” part of the vlog because every single detail was beautifully crafted. I do want to thank you for yielding yourself to God. Otherwise we would have missed out on this blessing.
As a single lady, this blog encourages me to not settle but to wait for God’s best to come. I love you guys and Happy Anniversary! #giveaway
“Marriage is about choosing steady over cinematic, faithful over fireworks, enduring over exciting… it is a long obedience in the same direction”. Wow. Thank you for this #giveaway
Your vlogs always give me a kind of nostalgia. All I think is 'God, I just want to live a simple and beautiful life, filled with your presence!
Love you Ezinne!
You tell stories, I luvvvv it!
Spot on!!! We share the same views
She's such a great storyteller that captivates one's attention to the videos/vlogs
Same here!!!
Pls put simple in capital letters ❤️
I know it's weekly but I keep checking everyday to see if you've dropped a video yet. 😂 Weird, I know. You're doing amazingly beautiful and I love you. Well-done miss Ezinne Zara.
Hahaha aww 🤍
So me 😅
Me three 😂😂😭
You’re just different 🥺
You two inspire me so much honestly
This is so Godly and so purpose-driven
And this is what I pray for every single day
God bless you both immensely
I’d like to meet you or even have a conversation you oneday
I feel I need to talk to you.
We will soon clock 2 years too and marriage has helped me build my femininity especially when God taught me how to understand men and know how the both genders are uniquely different.
Ezinne!!!!
Here to chill, learn and grow!!!!
My fave till tomorrow 😊😊😊
Our fave till tomorrow and forever
Happy Anniversary Once More Ezinne
Here's to forever with your bootang 🥂
@@genevieveewurum8519 my guyyyyy🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m literally watching this video and tearing up…. Thank you for being a symbol of a godly home…. I love you guyssss
I think I'd watch this video over and over again. Watching this makes me overcome an fear over marriage I might have. Thank you
I'm here thinking God when. I'm 22 and I am really praying for God's direction in marriage. The best part of the video for me was when you were at the beach and you smiled and said "God thank you oh". And also when you were in your hotel room and you said " Isimeme why are you doing this". I literally laughed out loud.
The way I feel sooooo drawn to Ezinne is on another level. I'm so happy for you two. Every year will be for you two a bundle of testimonies. From my heart of heart, I love you sis. God bless your home ALWAYS and FOREVER.
My favourite part of this vlog has to be when you quoted what that lady said about marriage. It just put your words about marriage building your character even more perfectly. Marriage can be all butterflies but the intentionality in it to put your spouse before you really is one of the most important things. One thing you teach me is that God himself is really intentional about us and we see that when we become intentional about him. That reflects so much in your marriage. Isi is definitely a man of few words but his actions are loud, God often is like that with us and honestly it gives us the room to be safe in him. I love you guys thank you for sharing this with us God bless you and your home❤ #giveaway
I'm early 💃💃💃💃💃. So excited to watch one of the most helpful content on this space.
My favorite part was when you broke down in tears at the hotel room after receiving another package…. It’s was overwhelming 🥺🥺🥺 thank you guys for the giveaway #giveaway
“Speechless, Speechless is how you make me feel” 😂😂❤ congratulations b!! 🎉🎉 God really did a thing with you both!! Enjoyed every bit of the Vlog!!
Have a blessed marriage, and may the Good Lord keep this union.
Amen!
Persistently watching all the ads cuz this quality content cannot go unrewarded. I have no words girl. Isimeme is a type of husband every man should emulate. My favorite part was when u were feeling bad for not getting isimeme his gift and you asked him if he still loves u lol so cute... #giveaway
It's hard to pick a favorite part of the vlog because it was all good. However I will say the past when you arrived at the second restaurant to have breakfast and you talked about how you have learnt that you don't have to shout when having an argument. That really blessed me, it's shows me that when you find the right person they bring out the best in you #giveaway
"Talking about things" have not only strengthened our relationships but also our love
Thank you for this video Ezinne. My favorite part of the video is when you were at the cafe and you mentioned that what got you was not the money spent but the intentionality and selflessness. You mentioned that him being selfless encourages you to be selfless and the first thing you learnt in marriage, is to selfless by putting your partners needs before yours. Thank you #giveaway
This is the peace and love that only God can give! ❤I'm happy for you Sissy. Congratulations once again 🥳
“The every body knows what’s going on except me “😂😂😂
I smiled like an idiot from start to finish 😂😂. May God continue to bless your home Ezinne Zara❤️
There's so much to learn from your life Ezinne. Your simplicity, attention to detail, yielding to God, hardwork, and intentionality: It's these little things that bless me the most.
My favourite parts of this video constitutes more of the BTS.😂 Especially the part where you and Isi spend the rest of the evening together, talking and enjoying each other's company, away from the cameras. This is me acknowledging the impact of the things unseen, upon those seen.🤭
I love you so much Ma, and I'm rooting for you, in every one of your ventures!❤️
Happy Anniversary!
#giveaway
The fact that any restaurant you visit, you end up sitting by the glass says a lot about how much you like choosing your space 😂
Just here standing in agreement with everyone else that I literally smiled from beginning to end 🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️ God is so good and so faithful and thank you for sharing your special day with us 🫶🏾
Favourite part of this video for me is when Isimeme was kissing your hands🥺❤️
I must ask, who edit your videos? because I love your video concept . You are one, if not the only Nigerian christian CZcamsr I have seen that gives quality content and also use your daily life to show that truly obeying and serving God isn't a waste of time. I wish you love, unending joy and a happy anniversary!!!
Hey! Thank you, I edit all my videos myself
@@EzinneZara wow 😮 that's amazing, you are really good
@@EzinneZara Good work!
Oh my
I think I'm seeing this video for the 3rd time and I'm still smiling as I did when I first saw it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I literally cried while watching (tears of joy though 😂)
God is indeed a creator of beautiful things ♥️🌹
Dear God in heaven, I want something just like this, if possible, even better. I know I deserve it. Thank you Ezinne for reminding us that true love, with Christ as the focal point, is possible.
I had to learn from my husband not to raise my voice when I am upset, and to choose humility instead of pride
This is my favorite part… because I relate with it. I come from a very large family where it’s normal to raise our voices over each other
And my husband to be calmly makes me understand that that is not right 😂
Now i find my family weird when they scream just to ask me to pass the cup
#giveaway
Ezinne, I'm so happy for you both and your joy in marriage is contagious... God bless Isimeme for all the efforts he put into making sure you had a great day...I wish you both the very best from my heart and I pray every year keeps getting better. AMEN
God has forever shown that He is good! Congratulations on 2 years!🥳🫶🏾
My favorite part was when you said most people would say 23 was too young. I can only imagine how it could have been for you to set out an entirely new course of life at such age. The fears, uncertainty, feeling of maybe not ready etc... But You said God's wisdom saw you through the past 2years. I'm sincerely happy for you @Ezinne Zara
And wish you more blissful celebration. Peace, joy love unending. Your marriage is blessed! #Giveaway#
Lord Jesus I pray for a God fearing, wonderful, loving, caring,romantic, supportive, understandable,wealthy husband
Congratulations on your anniversary, Ezinne. I wish you many more happy years together.
I call my husband to handle situations when I feel myself getting angry. Otherwise, I would take the reins. Love your vlog.
The best thing one can do is getting married to a man or woman that truly loves God!
Happy anniversary Ezinne ❤
I’ve watched this twice and here I am fantasizing how mine will be like when I finally get married 😅🎉🎉
God bless you dear,your videos have transformed me ❤❤
Am I the only one who cried, laughed and smiled throughout. This is the most beautiful video I've seen thus far. 😍
I'm a Christian whose voice goes up when I'm pissed off, agitated e.t.c.
I may not be even pissed off that much but my voice goes up and I hate it. It's way better now anyway. I pray to find a man who teaches me to be better like that.
My name is Ezinne too by the way
This is beautiful ! To think that marriage between man and woman reflects marriage between the Church and Jesus brings me to tears. So much thoughtfulness, laughter, love and affection is found in Jesus !!!
The part Mrs. Ezinne asked; "Isimeme, do you still love me?"😂😂😂. Talk about a Man that was created to love you and love God!!!... This is the "God type of Love".. Congratulations on 2years and Forever... In all honestly, it's the *INTENTIONALITY* ...God Bless this love! 💕
It’s so nice to see you so happy Ezinne. You deserve it all❤️. This was so beautiful to watch🥺🥺. God bless Isimeme!!
Your smile when you said “get him to sort it out”😂😂😂
Had happy tears in my eyes from the moment you started crying at the coffee house till the very end🥺. I love how you keep teaching that there's so much beauty in calm places🙇🏽♀️. There's power in how quietly the love between the both of you flows. I love your Journey and I'm so honoured to witness the goodness of God in your life. Happy Anniversary to you both🤗❤️
The whole video is a vibe from beginning to the end, the intentionality, the love shown everything!🥺
Giving steady "God when" vibes😂
Father, I am also your daughter 🙇♀️😂
From day one that I found this channel, I’ve been drawn to you! I really thank God honestly 🥺🤎
God bless you guys and congratulations again!
Many many many more years in joy and peace!
0:11 - "When you know, You KNOW!" That's the Line.
I swear I'm not crying I'm chopping onions 🥹❤️. This is beautiful. May God keep showering you two with a great marriage and greater growth. As a young lady myself I'm blessed by your content and seeing such beautiful godly love. Blessings upon blessings! Love from South Africa ❤️
Maannn I was beaming with excitement got me here telling Daddy (meaning God) how excited I am to wait on His timing 😭😭😭
4 minutes in, and my throat is getting choked up.
Ugh. You guysss. 🥺🥺
It's always the beauty in the mundane for meeee.
I started watching and clicked to share with my partner asap. This is so wholesome, Congratulations on your anniversary, indeed your home is blessed forever! I loved the part where all the intentional gifts really got to you in the room🥺🥺 #giveaway. My key take away is that marriage does help refine your character. God bless 🧡🧡
So so wholesome.
Well put.
That 'Hey! God, thank you!" I felt it! God bless your union! ❤️
This is what happens when two of God's children come together to make a home...bliss! Happy Anniversary🎊
I love the part that you said you’ve learnt a lot from your husband bcos I shout so much when I’m angry …..
And I also liked the part when you got to the hotel you were emotional and he held your hand to get the smell of the perfume
I Just Love every part of this video
You make me see Marriage so peaceful
#giveaway
It’s so nice to have someone you can depend on to sort things out❤️🙌🙌
Please who else noticed this woman is so beautiful 😍❤️ gosh 🥰🥰🥰🥰
An example of what God can do to someone and a couple who love Him
I’m older than you, but the grace God has given you both is teaching me. May your union continue to be blessed, and may there me many many more anniversaries like this 😍
Amen!
Love this!🥺❤️
this was beautiful. Congrats on two years!
It's the "I had a dream about water part for me"😂😂😍
Dear God , please give me a husband in whom I shall submit to and he shall be a friend , lover and partner.
I literally cried 😭
So amazing 👏 😍 🎉
Lovely 😍
Awnnn, lovely
This is beautiful 😍
Definitely love this
So so cute!!!❤❤❤❤
“Hehhhhe God thank you oooo”😂😂😂😂 I love those words
I’ve watched this twice now,commented,went on instagram,saw your post first,liked ,commented,posted,it’s plenty ZEE 🥺,and all I want to do is cry 🥺
This is beautiful ZARA 🥺
I don’t know what marriage is,I’m super scared of doing everything wrong 😔but I follow you and your obedience gives hope
Thank you Zara,Thank you Isi 🙌🏾
I’m honestly super happy for you both,continue to enjoy God’s goodness in marriage 🙏🏽❤️
Just beautiful 💖💖
Had to run to CZcams from Instagram...Loving this video already🥰
I love the parts where you kissed him and shared your coffee with him.
The love is real! 😘
Happy Anniversary to you guys.
❤
God bless you both!!
#giveaway
This video is just amazing.
I love love loved this vlog!!!!😭✨
My favorite part was when you asked Isimeme if he still loves you 😂 and when he said yes, you were like ‘thank you'😂✨
#giveaway
Yayyy another video🥺🥺❤
Love to see it😍😍
we definitely enjoyed watching this ❤
So beautiful to watch❤️
That's powerful we thank God