HOW TO REINVENT YOURSELF W/ SPECIAL GUEST VICTORIA MONET (EP. 42)

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    (S4, EP5) ‘HOW TO REINVENT YOURSELF W/ SPECIAL GUEST VICTORIA MONET’ Listen to Superstar Victoria Monet as she hangs with the fellas of “Nice & Neat” and discusses her journey to stardom in the music industry. The Grammy nominated artist got her big break as a songwriter, writing for some of the biggest names in the industry including Arianna Grande, Diddy, T.I., and now is focusing on a budding solo career! Monet also dove into her personal life, discussed love, motherhood and juggling the life of mom and superstar.
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Komentáƙe • 188

  • @BrittAlacious
    @BrittAlacious Pƙed 2 lety +176

    Wow, what a nice and positive podcast from Men! So refreshing to see black men having an uplifting conversation with a black woman đŸ™ŒđŸŸ great topic and episode!

    • @SOULarLioness
      @SOULarLioness Pƙed 2 lety +18

      This needs waaaay more views! Too many negative platforms getting attention and convincing Black women that Black men don’t love, protect, or respect us!

  • @tayyhenn6007
    @tayyhenn6007 Pƙed 2 lety +88

    SIDE NOTE: Victoria's hair is SO beautifulllllllllllllllllllllll!

    • @JenaeJenae
      @JenaeJenae Pƙed rokem +5

      It goes perfect with her skin, right!? I’ve been wanting that color now for this summer 😍

  • @shanethedirector
    @shanethedirector Pƙed 2 lety +153

    She has an absolutely beautiful singing voice

  • @ron-daywash4566
    @ron-daywash4566 Pƙed 2 lety +140

    I just love this woman’s vibe, voice, and songwriting! đŸ€ŽđŸ€ŽđŸ€Ž

  • @itsJMq
    @itsJMq Pƙed 2 lety +120

    great episode! I loved Victoria’s analogy with taking the street vs the freeway. I needed to hear that. It’s so easy to feel pressured by a self-imposed timeline that you overlook the development & lessons that come while you’re putting in the work.

  • @soundsofsultry
    @soundsofsultry Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +8

    Aspiring artist and single mother here. Thank you for having Victoria Monet on here and asking her all these questions. Definitely doing music and having women like her and Kehlani crushing their careers while navigating motherhood has been super inspiring and motivating for me to keep doing what I love. Love you Victoria!!!! ❀

  • @_iitspaybackk
    @_iitspaybackk Pƙed 2 lety +48

    She’s gorgeous! So soft spoken with fantastic energy. Great episode!

  • @briannaberry6607
    @briannaberry6607 Pƙed 2 lety +72

    Crazy how much I relate with Victoria with being vocally softer. Being talented would always push you to the forefront. Some (me) enjoy blending in & working within a group like a choir or background singer.

  • @veragoodson2224
    @veragoodson2224 Pƙed rokem +12

    Watching this a year later and it still being extremely relevant is amazing. The way y’all navigated this conversation as a whole and the metamorphic transformation is all that we are trying to grow and change in our lives is relatable in the best way.

  • @GarrettPaknis
    @GarrettPaknis Pƙed 2 lety +23

    So well spoken, humble, and wise. Beautiful talent and soul!

  • @diamondssairy374
    @diamondssairy374 Pƙed 2 lety +23

    Wow it’s really crazy how UNDERRATED!! This women is like .. she has this certain tone and voice that’s incredible and I feel as if she needs more recognition from the society. One thing about Victoria is she’s very ahead of her time and you know her talent should be well-known to say the least. This girl needs her cookies đŸ‘đŸœđŸ‘đŸœ because most of the songs thats out that has millions and billions of streams and views all because of this brilliant women right here. I really appreciate her music and the way she sets certain sounds , the mood and tone of it , her music is very different from this society today. I love how she has a old soul . She’s showing many people that soul hasn’t died and it’s not going to. And her and the color BROWN wow! Because i love how much she cares for the color brown some people might think the color it’s just a “color” but like she said the color has a deeper meaning to it every color does but it feels like home to her * if you guys didn’t know the color brown is a mix of blue, orange, purple , green , red and yellow originally* so this color is somehow representing MonĂ©t because she’s gives this bright and lovely personality but with a mix to it lol . I hope that one day she gets the attention and eyes that she deserves fr.

  • @katherinesmith8489
    @katherinesmith8489 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    Not all Dominicans consider themselves black. However, as Jalon said the slave trade was there as well. Before the slave trade the native people were Taino, the same race of people who inhabited Puerto Rico. They are now distinct. The island of Hispaniola is made up of Dominicans and Haitians. So the population at large is majority descendants of Africa. Now Dominicans are considered to be Afro-Latino
 heavy on the African decent mixed with Spanish (Spaniard) culture. As Spain came in and dominated DR. Yes, the race was mixed. Just like slave masters were getting it in with slaves and produced Mulatto or mixed people. Colorism is also an extreme issue in DR and accepting or acknowledging the African decent in which we are is mundane to a lot the people. If you consider the food of the island which is a Caribbean islands, most of our National dishes are of African culture, MangĂș, Mofongo/Bofongo, Platano (Plantain) and it’s very similar to African and other Caribbean food. My mothers family are what you consider “dark” Dominicans and although my mothers family speaks Spanish, they are black
 there’s little to NO integration there, and my grandmother will tell you. She is a black but the rest of them are in denial. How do you share an island with which once wasn’t separated with Haitians but you not black? You’ll always get a mixed answer from Dominicans because most of them are unknowingly black and feel superior because of the color of their skin.
    If you disagree God Bless. It’s all love đŸ‡©đŸ‡ŽđŸ‡ș🇾
    The ones who get it.. get it and the ones who don’t DONT.
    I hope I don’t start a riot.
    Keep doin y’all thing! This is my favorite weekly watch! Love y’all and thanks for keeping me up on game! đŸ„ƒđŸ’ŽđŸ€

  • @TiondaRae
    @TiondaRae Pƙed 2 lety +58

    I was with y’all ( except Victoria, I get what she meant)until the Latino/Black debate You can be Black and Hispanic, You can be White and Hispanic , Indigenous and Hispanic , Mixed and Hispanic. Hispanic and Latino is an ethnicity not a race. Victoria is right when it comes to the N word. That’s why it’s all of the sudden it’s cool to be “Afro Latino.” Other than that I still enjoy the Podcast ,and Victoria is that girl. Been rocking with her since that feature with Nas on You Don’t Understand đŸ€Ž

    • @minigyal8704
      @minigyal8704 Pƙed rokem +5

      For real! I hate when people mix ethnicity, nationality and race!

    • @atvt17
      @atvt17 Pƙed rokem +5

      I agree but we not gone act like a lot of latinos don't go out of their way to disassociate themselves from blackness..."I no black, I Dominican" is literally a catch phrase used by a lot of people

  • @Ny.Lynette
    @Ny.Lynette Pƙed 2 lety +159

    Cardi identifies as a black woman
 however she doesn’t really come to mind when I think of black women. So I get what Victoria meant đŸ€·đŸœâ€â™€ïž.

    • @bmotlow
      @bmotlow Pƙed 2 lety +15

      I definitely understood why she said that.

    • @AngelaElikya
      @AngelaElikya Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Cardi doesn’t identify herself as a black woman ! She has always said she’s a Latina with African/black ancestors

    • @Mel-go2pz
      @Mel-go2pz Pƙed 2 lety +49

      Cardi didn’t always identify as a black woman though. Remember she described her & Offset’s relationship as “an interracial relationship”. So yeah, I def get where Vic is coming from.

    • @SOULarLioness
      @SOULarLioness Pƙed 2 lety +29

      @@Mel-go2pz Because she ain’t Black. People get race, ethnicity, nationality, and ancestry all mixed up. I remember when she said that “interracial relationship” comment, too.

    • @megbewa264
      @megbewa264 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      @@SOULarLioness Right ?!! Like if you're only have one Black grandmother and everybody else is white or mixed, you're not Black ! It's not that hard to understand!

  • @amandacarr3929
    @amandacarr3929 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    This was straight JUICE!!!!!! Thank you guys so much for never missing episode after episode!!!

  • @naomigregory7012
    @naomigregory7012 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Outstanding episode!! Y’all’s joy and your willingness to share with the world is such a blessing

  • @michelewithoneellemelisan2038

    Yooooo
. So many golden nuggets dropped in this episode. I wrote down so many points made here. Genuine souls in front of the cameras. Much love to you gentleman and what you’re doing for the culture. 💗

  • @niles2467
    @niles2467 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Wow. This was such a powerful episode. So many gems man! Keep it up yall. Stay blessed!

  • @Ceceisgoochi
    @Ceceisgoochi Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Love seeing our people vibe together

  • @tmcc4975
    @tmcc4975 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I love scrolling and seeing my fave podcasts with the crazy link-upsđŸ„ł

  • @monetyoung6525
    @monetyoung6525 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    So happy to see my lovely on here!! All of my favs at once is a gift đŸ€ŽđŸ„ƒđŸ€ŽđŸ„ƒđŸ€ŽđŸ„ƒ

  • @bmotlow
    @bmotlow Pƙed 2 lety +10

    This episode couldn’t have come at a better time! So powerful! Great tips at the end of the video!!

  • @keeannahj.7498
    @keeannahj.7498 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    Wow I’m so glad y’all featured Victoria on this episode there’s not a day that I don’t get in my car & listen to her. She’s one of my favorite rnb artist

  • @sarahmoodle6076
    @sarahmoodle6076 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    I love her energy

  • @ccanela28
    @ccanela28 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I'm so glad I listened to the entire video definitely needed all the gems drop by everyone in this video. The part about transitioning was my favorite. Going through it at the moment; turning 30, heartbreak, at crossroads career wise. I feel like a Phoenix trying to rise from the ashes.

  • @sincerelykayyy
    @sincerelykayyy Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +3

    This episode is the one that put me on to Nice and Neat! One year later still watching y'all! đŸ‘đŸŸ

  • @LitaReee
    @LitaReee Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Oh y’all hit this one on the head. Great job! I love Victoria Monet and the topics and questions were super relevant and enjoyable.

  • @tynishawalker326
    @tynishawalker326 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    This episode was AMAZING!Thank you guys so much for this!Victoria is a GEM 💎

  • @wesleyjazz87
    @wesleyjazz87 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Her voice is angelic

  • @armykayla9971
    @armykayla9971 Pƙed 2 lety +15

    This interview/episode was amazing! Victoria is so freaking talented, and I truly hope for her to achieve even more success and happiness. If that Victoria/Silk Sonic collab comes, it’d be amazing!🙌

  • @natayarichardson1568
    @natayarichardson1568 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I LOVE this podcast. Grateful to have gone down the Chanel and Duke Rabbit hole because it landed me here. I have a newfound respect for Victoria. I always have supported her but this podcast let her share her journey and speak her mind. I love when she said I was preparing for this! It reminded me of her song “Ready”! I love how hardworking and self directed she is & still remains so graceful. Thats SO inspiring. I always discuss with my friends how she is the perfect level of stardom. Authentic, genuine, raw talent, and paid! Forever a fan đŸ€Ž

  • @BonnieBea
    @BonnieBea Pƙed rokem

    Loved this episode!!! Very great conversation, especially the end

  • @charliahstarks1071
    @charliahstarks1071 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I love seeing black excellence. This was a beautiful one â˜đŸŸ

  • @DaniSoCali
    @DaniSoCali Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

    Ohhhh this is a good a- positive show. Ya’ll hit some major points and her chill energy gave it balance. I love me some Victoria Monet! Give her all the flowers!

  • @dancenwhinefitness995
    @dancenwhinefitness995 Pƙed rokem +5

    My spirit led me to this podcast and im so glad it did. I needed to hear this. Victoria is a beautiful soul and i thank you all for being you💚 I've subscribed and will be tuning in consistently.

  • @FormerHeathen
    @FormerHeathen Pƙed 2 lety +1

    This was so good and fun to watch ! Her voice is so sweet and soft !!! Definitely gonna tune in more to the channel đŸ’«

  • @trulydorcas
    @trulydorcas Pƙed 2 lety +6

    I think it’s the ‘illusion’ access. I hear a lot of people say you can receive 100 DM’s but that doesn’t mean you can actually connect and have anything meaningful. So it’s so important to connect to the real people in your life. Great episode as usual ❀

  • @hnurse447
    @hnurse447 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I'm really thankful for this interview đŸ™đŸŒ 💙

  • @tylorwithanO
    @tylorwithanO Pƙed 2 lety +18

    This is my first time coming across this podcast and I’m sooo impressed. I just wanted to leave that feedback because this was such a breath of fresh air, great representation, and right on time! Thoughtful questions with insightful responses. Good shit đŸ€Ž.

  • @SOULarLioness
    @SOULarLioness Pƙed 2 lety

    Wooow. I’m so happy this popped up in my algorithm! Y’all are such a vibe with the interview and Victoria is so sweet and talented! 💖💖💖💖

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +2

    She’s pretty and definitely so smart about what it is she wants out of her career balance

  • @helenharris9698
    @helenharris9698 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    These brothers did a fantastic interview. I loved the respect they gave Victoria Monet. She's so đŸ”„ deep. We need her Artistry. Congratulations to her on her Grammy. I know they'll be many more to come....❀❀❀❀

  • @KayMarieee123
    @KayMarieee123 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Yess, I love Victoria!

  • @clairejenkins1521
    @clairejenkins1521 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    wow, loved the conversation! just listening to this, so thought provoking and victoria monet has such beautiful energy and seems so grounded and love love love when she talks about life and the journey. She really is doing her thing!!!! thank you for this beautiful conversation, feel really blessed to have heard this and wish victoria monet nothing but the best in her career, she will go really far, congrats!

  • @YezziYezzirOfficial
    @YezziYezzirOfficial Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Really appreciated this episode! so many gems

  • @nalabrown911
    @nalabrown911 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Loved this, love yall love her! great conversation

  • @jbateman3
    @jbateman3 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    My first time seeing this Podcast! What a superb show!! Thank you, youtube algorithm for sending me based on the fact that you know I stan Victoria Monet

  • @keimaari
    @keimaari Pƙed 2 lety +2

    This was a great conversation! The transformation advice was amazing

  • @abomatthews
    @abomatthews Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    I APPRECIATE THIS EPISODE SOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!

  • @intreegme
    @intreegme Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Great interview--- I absolutely love y'all and Victoria's advice in the end!!!!

  • @Yo-cr9ol
    @Yo-cr9ol Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    what an insightful episode ♄ the way you all navigated this episode demonstrates the intentionality and care that you all posses and I appreciate this interview very much, thank you

  • @cokochanel4134
    @cokochanel4134 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I live for Victoria!!!!!! Her success is so inspiring & she reminds me SO MUCH of myself!!!! I pray continuous success and happiness for her!!! 💕

  • @LaKae444
    @LaKae444 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    I luv this! I’ve become a big VM fan but have never seen an interview.

  • @tracijones4147
    @tracijones4147 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    great interview overall but those last words of reinvention really brought it home! Great job fam!

  • @jaz6789
    @jaz6789 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Ahhhhhh she’s so beautiful and insightful, a this was a pleasure to listening to

  • @arianaamores7147
    @arianaamores7147 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    Great group of men awesome conversation

  • @DesireeGray1206
    @DesireeGray1206 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Such a beautiful soul đŸ„șđŸ€Ž

  • @judyco004
    @judyco004 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I love victoria monet!!! this is your moment is my song!

    • @sunshinepeace
      @sunshinepeace Pƙed 2 lety

      The video is top notch as well đŸ‘ŒđŸŸ

  • @shanequabailey48
    @shanequabailey48 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

    She’s blessed!

  • @Lover-ur4te
    @Lover-ur4te Pƙed 2 lety

    I love this woman

  • @faithharris2982
    @faithharris2982 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    what a perfect wholesome episode, whew!

  • @QueecyBudgets
    @QueecyBudgets Pƙed 2 lety +7

    Omg! I loved this episode! Victoria is such a beauty and as you guys stated “a creative artist” ❀ always love and look forward to Nice & Neat Thursdays!

  • @lionra4523
    @lionra4523 Pƙed 2 lety

    Thank you!

  • @mayusoma
    @mayusoma Pƙed 2 lety

    Î look her to this lady +how she entered thee game + Ăź actually admire thee same influences being soft spoken with thee power of words + thee beauty of art! Yess! Prince was always ahead of his time sonically + Ăź agree authenticity will always align life. Lauryn Hill is a prime example of a mother in music + it's actually so necessary for that type of influence in music period. Women are teachers even wiser with mothers. And Ăź just got to the part about Lauryn Hill as Î was typing this. I absolutely thought of her setting that precedent. Moon energy most definitely just brings out thee creativity those unseen vibes mĂ· as an artist definitely look for too.

  • @AnnaE949
    @AnnaE949 Pƙed rokem

    This was dope, thanks for the video/podcast

  • @StopAskinMe4Shyt
    @StopAskinMe4Shyt Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Great interview. I love herrrrr

  • @Misana
    @Misana Pƙed rokem

    Best interview ever! She is wise.

  • @AngelaElikya
    @AngelaElikya Pƙed 2 lety

    Keep the guest coming please it add a little to the show ! Hello from đŸ‡«đŸ‡·đŸ‡«đŸ‡·đŸ‡«đŸ‡·

  • @bernadettecartr
    @bernadettecartr Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

    I dig the vibe of this interview. ✹💕✹ 49:55 You guys have gained a new subscriber. Blessings! Bravo

  • @sunshinepeace
    @sunshinepeace Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Omg not Ms Vicky on nice and neat! Liked the video already, i know this episode is gonna be đŸ”„

  • @IAmTicess
    @IAmTicess Pƙed 2 lety

    I enjoyed this podcast. I love her as an artist and seeing this interview is really inspiring. She’s inspiring and serene. Thank you guys for creating this platform.

    • @IAmTicess
      @IAmTicess Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Also I understood what she said in reference to Meg and Cardi I love them both but I’m always gone go with my own.

  • @tonyapitts8720
    @tonyapitts8720 Pƙed rokem

    Amazing advice!!

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Love me some Victoria MonĂ©t!! đŸ„°

  • @aljeronroker8782
    @aljeronroker8782 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Really dope interview đŸ‘đŸ»

  • @estheronala
    @estheronala Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

    This was such a great Interview, I really love Victoria's aura

  • @taliasanders9994
    @taliasanders9994 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    “I don’t wanna have it”😭put Victoria in the hot seat

  • @foolsgoald
    @foolsgoald Pƙed 2 lety

    great convos đŸ€

  • @ChristianJaLon
    @ChristianJaLon Pƙed 2 lety +8

    I really enjoyed this episode. My first time kicking it w/ y'all. I'm finna Sub!!!

  • @MakaykayLAMB
    @MakaykayLAMB Pƙed 2 lety

    In love with this woman. IN LOVE ❀

  • @avaprod.8622
    @avaprod.8622 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    great interview!

  • @Alejandro-ke2zt
    @Alejandro-ke2zt Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Y’all in Love Stuttering đŸ€Ł Shwoooot Me Too, Such a Soft , Smart Beautiful Queen âœšđŸ€žđŸŸ

  • @LamiAtZenith
    @LamiAtZenith Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I vibe with Victoria so much, I feel like we'd be besties if I knew her

  • @lilymoore7409
    @lilymoore7409 Pƙed 2 lety +16

    With the Cardi thing. Dominican is an ethnicity not a race, so she’s Hispanic but that don’t mean she’s blackđŸ˜­đŸ˜­đŸ€Ž

  • @Dubu131
    @Dubu131 Pƙed 2 lety

    I loved this episode!

    • @Dubu131
      @Dubu131 Pƙed 2 lety

      Had me taking notes at the end 😂

  • @antoniomere
    @antoniomere Pƙed 2 lety

    This was excellent

  • @Dudelulaynunay
    @Dudelulaynunay Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Moving without paralysis đŸ‘€đŸ‘€đŸ‘đŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸ

  • @naomib3804
    @naomib3804 Pƙed 2 lety

    Had to get on my other channel and give this a thimbs up cause yeah!

  • @marinaweibel
    @marinaweibel Pƙed 2 lety

    I liked this podcast right from the beginning

  • @faithdestiny2001
    @faithdestiny2001 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I had to search for this video lol it’s in the playlist tab not on your channel!

  • @eelah_supa_dupa1998
    @eelah_supa_dupa1998 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    Love. Love. Your podcast. Always looking forward to listen your perspective on things. I was wondering though, how come the sound is coming through super quiet because my volume is on the max and I can't hear. But when the ads come on, it scares the living creature out of me. I noticed this was the same with other vids too. Is anyone else experiencing this issue?

  • @shantecraft
    @shantecraft Pƙed 2 lety

    FIRE ASS EPISODE đŸ”„

  • @Miwihut
    @Miwihut Pƙed 2 lety +1

    This was amazing:)) just one thing! The audio was really quiet and i struggled to hear all of what was said in my car. May be different with headphones but just to keep in mind:)

  • @sharekabailey185
    @sharekabailey185 Pƙed rokem +2

    She looks like she could be Meagan’s sister! They favor a lot.❀

  • @ghettosupahstar3024
    @ghettosupahstar3024 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    LMFAOOOOO the cardi meg moment took me outttt

  • @khychelleflanders
    @khychelleflanders Pƙed 2 lety +17

    I feel like Dominicans consider themselves as black when it’s beneficial. đŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïž

  • @Kcarneirowashere
    @Kcarneirowashere Pƙed 2 lety

    She is beautiful yuuuuuuuh!

  • @darrylsmith9003
    @darrylsmith9003 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    44:14-44:33 that analogy was fire S/O 2 Queen V

  • @AA-ts2wi
    @AA-ts2wi Pƙed 2 lety +1

    The head bobs at the beginning need to be a gif 😂

  • @chellnicole5490
    @chellnicole5490 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    This was exactly what I needed đŸ€Ž

  • @intreegme
    @intreegme Pƙed 2 lety +11

    Some Dominicans only consider themselves black when its convenient (like when using the N-word). There's alot that do NOT consider themselves as such (IE: Cyn Santana- speaking on black men preferring her over black women)