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- čas přidán 12. 02. 2021
- Doctor Vijayalakshmi ,Senior gynaecologist and infertologist speaks about the reasons of the high rate of infertility among youngsters.The lifestyle issues and much more
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കുട്ടികളെ വേണ്ടവർ മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുക, അവരെ ശെരിയായ രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താൻ അറിയുന്നവർ മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുക
ആർക്കോ വേണ്ടി എന്തിനോ വേണ്ടി കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കി ഇട്ടിട്ട് അവരുടെ ജീവിതം നശിപ്പിക്കാതിരിക്കുക
ഒരു ലൈക് അടിച്ചു. അത്രയേ പറ്റൂ.
👌👌👌👌
Exactly.. Athinte avasyam e ullu..
Satyam bro 😢
it's true bro
3yr aayi upload chaithatt. Ellavarum kaanunnathu ipol aanu..
ആധുനിക സമൂഹത്തിൽ ആളുകൾക്ക് പേറ് അല്ല പ്രധാനം. വരുമാനവും തൊഴിലും ഒക്കെ ഉണ്ടായിട്ടു മതി പ്രസവം. ദാരിദ്ര്യവും ദുരിതവും സഹിച്ചു സഹിച്ചു ഇവിടെ ആളുകൾ പിള്ളേരും കൊന്ന് ആത്മഹത്യ ചെയ്യുകയാണ്. കുറെ പേറു നടന്നാലേ ഡോക്ടർക്ക് ബിസിനസ്‌ നടക്കുകയുള്ളു.
പ്രസവം നടന്നില്ലെങ്കിൽ അടുത്ത തലമുറയിലെ ആളുകളുടെ എണ്ണം കുറയും. അതോടെ തൊഴിലും വരുമാനവും കുറയും. വീണ്ടും ദാരിദ്ര്യം ഉണ്ടാകും. ചൈനക്ക് ഇപ്പൊൾ സംഭവിച്ച് കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നത് അതാണ്
Exactly
ഇപ്പോഴും കുറെ പേർക്ക് കല്യാണവും ഭാര്യ ട്രോഫി അവരെ വളർത്തൽ പിന്നെ മരിക്കുക ഇത് തന്നെ
@@RIYAD28😂😂😂ഒരു നേരത്തെ അഷ്ടിക്ക് വക ഇല്ലാത്തവൻ, നല്ല ഭക്ഷണം സമൃദ്ധിയായി തിന്നുന്നവനെ നോക്കി, ‘ഇങ്ങനെ തിന്നാൽ നിനക്ക് ഭാവിയിൽ കൊളെസ്ട്രോൾ വരും ’എന്ന് പറയണപോലെ ഉണ്ട്.
China ഇപ്പോൾ compete ചെയുന്നത് സാക്ഷാൽ US ആയിട്ടാണ്. ..
@@whiteangel3333 കൊമ്പിറ്റ് ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ട്, പക്ഷെ ചൈന ഇപ്പൊൾ നേരിടുന്ന സാമ്പത്തിക പ്രതിസന്ധിയെ പറ്റി പഠിച്ചാൽ മതി. ഇന്ത്യയിലേക്ക് ഇപ്പൊൾ ഒരുപാട് ഫോറിൻ ഇൻവെസ്റ്റ്മെൻ്റ് വരുന്നുണ്ട്, അതിന് കാരണം ഇവിടത്തെ യുവതലമുറ തന്നെയാണ്. ഇന്ത്യൻ ജനസംഖ്യയുടെ 47% 27 വയസ്സിന് താഴെയുള്ളവരാണ്. അഷ്ടിക്ക് വക ഇല്ലാത്തത് കയ്യിലിരിപ്പ് കൊണ്ടല്ലേ. പുതിയ പാർലമെൻ്റ്, കാക്കക്ക് അപ്പി ഇടാൻ 3000 കോടി ഇങ്ങനെ കുറെ നശിപ്പിക്കുന്നതിന് പകരം കൃത്യമായി ഉപയോഗിച്ചിരുന്നു എങ്കിൽ പട്ടിണി ഒക്കെ എന്നെ മാറിയേനെ
വളരെ ഉപകാരപ്രദമായ വീഡിയോ👍 മൂന്നുവർഷം മുമ്പ് അപ്‌ലോഡ് ചെയ്തതാണെങ്കിലും ഇന്നാണ് കാണുന്നത്.
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Mee too 😊
മര്യാദക്കു കേൾക്കാൻ പോലും തയ്യാറാകാതെ comment വർക്കേഴ്സ് ഇവിടെയും ഉണ്ട്. എന്താണു പറയുന്നതെന്നോ അത് എന്തുമാത്രം ഗുണകരമാണെന്നോ അല്ല നോക്കുന്നത്.അവിവേകം ആഘോഷിക്കലാണല്ലോ ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ട്രെൻഡ്...
സത്യത്തിൽ ഡോക്ടറുടെ ഈ ക്ലാസ്സ് ദൈവികമായ ഒരിടപെടൽ ആയിട്ടു കാണേണ്ടതാണ്.Thank you so much 🙏
Wow. I respect this lady
Well well said 💯
Wow how well spoken she is!!! She’s excellent in her field!
Dr Vijayalakshmi speech such a pure truth 💎
Nice talk... What this doctor saying is very true... There is no sex education in this place.... I think this doctor and Dr anitha mani,, should sit together and give an awareness to the young generation...
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Doc your are very right talking 👍
Doctor pwoli...❤ really appreciate her words 🙏🏼
Informative discussion...👍🏻
സാമ്പത്തികമായി ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുന്ന പാവപ്പെട്ടവരോക്കൊക്കെ Doctor ചിലവിനു കൊടുക്കും കേട്ടോ. സാമ്പത്തികമില്ലെങ്കിൽ ഒരു കൊച്ചിനെ ഉണ്ടാക്കി നരകിക്കാൻ വിട്ടാൽ ദൈവം പൊറുക്കില്ല. വളർത്താൻ പറ്റുന്നവര് ഉണ്ടാക്കിയാൽ പോരെ. ഒന്നില്ലെങ്കിലും കഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നത് സ്വന്ത മക്കളാണെന്ന ബോധമെങ്കിലും ഉണ്ടാവണം
😄 Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
you know she is talking about people who are calling her asking for a baby, right ? not the other way round.
@@0708im so what? What if your parents had decided not to have you!
Every one have problems and stress in life. There are people who go to govt hospital and there are people who go to luxury hospitals. There are children who study in low fees schools and there are some whi study in high fees schools. There is always someone who is higher or lower than you. That doesn't qualify anyone to decide not to have children, in the same way problems in life doesn't mean you can kill yourself.
വളർത്താൻ പറ്റില്ലെങ്കിൽ, സാമ്പത്തികം ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ പിന്നെ എന്തിനാ വിവാഹം കഴിച്ചേ!
@0708im What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos they are middle class!!
What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos they had to earn and have responsibilities!!
What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos medical science had not developed much back then!!
Every generation has work stress. Previous generation had even more problems, less social security, medicine was not this advanced, no formal education(not to say schools).
Its not someones need that a person to have kids. Being a parent in itself is rewarding.
Infertility issue even in late 20s is something related to lifestyle because in older gen women used to be pregnant in their 30s and 40s.
Doctor കിടു ആണ്..... Straight to the point..... Busy schedule oru pride aayi kond nadakunna mandanmaar
One of the most informative interviews that I have seen! Thank you doctor for addressing such relevant issues. 🙏♥️
Any distressed couple going to meet her surely will come out totally depressed after hearing her merciless and blunt counseling, in a way also shaming them which one can make out the way she talks.
Well said Doctor 💯🔥👍🏻👍🏻
No. Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Those who find the missionery position difficult should try the soldier position. Keep the woman on the table and log in the standing position. This position requires much less energy than the missionery posture and can also delay the climax.
@@thebest8535yes and also eat less before sex. Full stomach makes you tired😌
1. Find a right partner ( similar and compatible to you in all walks of your life. )
2. Have frequent checkup with gp and gynaec and rectify if any issues. Freeze eggs.
3. Have a good lifestyle. Keep your intimacy in check with your partner. Understand each other well.
4. Whenever you both are ready to take that big step of becoming parents(apart from any external pressure), plan it accordingly. Consider finance, mental health, initial supports available, career challenges.
5. Consult doctor and take folic acid and know your ovulation date. Try to conceive. But don't stress out.
God bless and you will conceive., else try and check with doctors. Still you have your beautiful life ahead. Live peacefully with or without child. ❤
❤❤dr.mama.talking real .truths..grate job
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
It seems that this doctor isn't empathetic to her patients. She is setting templates and asking people to fit into that, irrespective of their psychological distress or financial situation. Excuses like back pain or smell are signs of some underlying fears. It should have been addressed empathetically by a doctor.
Pullikkariyude aduth consult cheyyaathe engane parayum empathy illaann..mandanmaarude comment box..
Kindky dont say that this doctor is an experienced person, she has been seeing people for more than 25+yrs .... കണ്ട് കണ്ട് she herself is feeling the Saddness inside of Couple.... empathetic അല്ലാത്ത ആളുകൾ എന്ന group അല്ല this Doctor.... നിങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് ഇത് unorthodox ആകും the way she is talking....
But having baby when we are in our goodhealth and age is much more better than delaying purposefully for some other gains is not a good idea
Aggressive and regressive at the same time. No matter how many years expertise she has, she needs to be an empathetic human in the first place as a doctor.
My thoughts exactly!
Truth hurts. She isn't regressive. She's just truthful to her profession.
@@zenjm6496 Whatever you say 🤦🏼♀️
What's exactly regressive about what she says. Trying to understand your thought process.
@@rprprprprprp712 You are posting same comment on everyone here opposing her differently. You might need to take a moment to look at yourself first.
Such a Great information with Reality
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ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ Gen വളരെ വിത്യസ്തമാണു.. നല്ല ടൈമിൽ കല്ല്യാണം കഴിച്ച്‌, ഒരുപാട് മക്കളൊക്കെ ആയി ജീവിക്കുന്ന ആ life, അതൊന്നും പറഞ്ഞ്‌ അറിയിക്കാൻ പറ്റില്ല...lot of comments കണ്ടു, നോക്കാൻ പറ്റില്ലങ്കിൽ മക്കളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കരുത്‌ എന്ന്.....ഏറ്റവും വൃത്തി കെട്ട ചിന്ത......🙏🏻
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@@HarithaVani-uq1vc നോക്കാൻ അറിയാത്തവർ എന്ന് നിങ്ങൾ എന്തു ഉദ്ധേശത്തിലാണു പറയുന്നത് എന്ന് എനിക്ക് മനസ്സിലായിട്ടില്ല.. ഒരു നേരം ഭക്ഷണം കിട്ടാൻ കൊതിക്കുന്ന സമയത്ത്‌ എല്ലാ വീട്ടിലും ഒരുപാട് മക്കൾ ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു, സന്തോഷവും പരസ്പര സ്നേഹവും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു.
എത്ര കുട്ടികൾ നരകിക്കുന്നു അവരുടെ കണ്ണുനീർ തനിക്ക് കാണാൻ കഴിവില്ലേ
@@onlyfor4372പട്ടിണി കിടക്കുമ്പോൾ സന്തോഷം എന്ത് വിവരം ആണ് നിങ്ങളുടെ 🤣
@@Skyenews ഈ ഭൂമിയിൽ നരകിക്കുന്നത്‌ കുട്ടികൾ മാത്രമാണൊ ?
Dont have kids in hurry, people say that have children at right time, but if that time is not right in financial t rms th n both you and kid will suffer
True atleast one should have a stable job
നാട്ടില്‍ ജോലി ഇല്ല . 2 masters എടുത്ത് 6 വര്‍ഷത്തോളം work experience ഉള്ള എനിക്ക് kittunnath 17000 rs ആയിരുന്നു... in lawsinte പോരും ശുഷ്കിച്ച salary um support ഇല്ലാത്ത ജോലിയുമായി valanju... ഒടുവില്‍ എല്ലാരെയും പോലെ ഞങ്ങളും vidhesheshathekk പോന്നു. ഇവിടെ ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ ജനിപ്പിച്ചു വളര്‍ത്താനുള്ള ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട്‌ വളരെ വലുതാണ് . സാമ്പത്തിക പ്രതിസന്ധി ഉള്ള sadharanakkarkk ഇതൊക്കെ vichaarikaan മാത്രമേ nadakkullu...
btech grad from government University... same അവസ്ഥ
പണ്ടത്തെ ആളുകളെ പോലെ കൂടുതൽ ചിന്ദിക്കാതെ അങ്ങ് ചയ്യുക. എല്ലാം പടച്ചോന്റെ കയ്യിലാണ് 👌☺️
ഞാൻ പത്തു വരെ പഠിച്ചുള്ളൂ. Psc പഠിച്ചു റെയിൽവേയിൽ ജോലി കിട്ടി 8yrആയി സാലറി 45+ഉണ്ട്. നാട്ടിൽ ജോലി ഇല്ലാത്ത കൊണ്ട് അല്ല. സാലറി കുറവ് ആണ്. അതാണ് ആളുകൾ പോകുന്നത്. പിന്നെ നല്ല ലൈഫ് ആസ്വദിക്കാനും
@@prajithkarakkunnel5482 PSC listil വന്നതാണ്.. പക്ഷേ 3 വര്‍ഷത്തോളം ചുമ്മാ pooyii...
@@marigoldtalks6774 ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ വളര്‍ത്തുമ്പോള്‍ അതിനോട് ചെയ്യുന്ന krooratha ആകരുത് അല്ലോ. സാമ്പത്തികമായി secure അല്ലാത്തത് കൊണ്ട് ജോലി രാജി വയ്ക്കാന്‍ സാഹചര്യം ഇല്ല... രണ്ട് പേരുടെ കാര്യം മാത്രം aanel ok. പക്ഷേ രണ്ട് പേരുടെയും parentsine നോക്കുന്നതും ഞങ്ങൾ തന്നെ ആണ്.
Reality! Well said doctor 💯
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Doctor doesn't understand job stress😂
Early marraige right partnere kandpidikkanum kurach paadavum...oru long lasting relationshipum venallo...
Good discussion.
But, why are you setting templates for people on how to live their life?
Sorry, I don't agree with everything the Dr is saying.
It's up to you what you want in life and how you define you family.
It's important to spend quality time with your family.
then dont cry when you dont have kids, doctor is saying its important to have kids at right time. Only the new generation have this quality time bs 😂
സത്യം..... പണ്ടൊക്കെ വീട്ടുകാർ ആയിരുന്നു എല്ലാം.. ഇപ്പൊ എല്ലാം കൂട്ടുകാർ....
Question is, how many friends will be there, when we fall into a problem
കൂട്ടുകാരെ നമ്പി ഇരുന്നാൽ ഊമ്പിച്ചു നിന്റെ കൈയിൽ തരും... വധംമേ.. 😂വീട്ടുകാർ എന്തൊക്കെ അവറതം പറഞ്ഞലും നമ്മുടെ ഉയർച്ച ആണ് അവര്ക് ഇഷ്ടം
@@srijithg6761 undayaal baghyam
@@srijithg6761how many parents will understand inter personal problems. Ultimate solution where get ..people go that way..
Well done Dr.
Sex is not a crime, but youths must be protected with proper guidances...
I disagree
Dr. Please study about Christian pre marriage course and comment on it. They cover almost all aspects of family life, such as moral, physical, spiritual etc.. etc .. in deep. Doctors take classes for physical matters including sex. Psychologist teach about the psychological matters and religious take classes about spiritual matters. In a short we can say that they cover all the aspects related to family life. Not like you think and told 😢
Interesting discussion
💯 agree with this doctor
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
I was enjoying the interview because of Dr's way of explanations.
All men and women must undergo a comprehensive medical checkup before marriage. This is necessary to avoid getting saddled with infertile partners
Will women agree to it ?
So infertile people didn't want marriage?
do you think this will help in love marriages ?
😮 so you are someone looking to get married according to the best checklist, think about having a trial run 🏃♀️ 😂
Kuttikal undakkaan matram kalyanam kazhikkunnu enna 17aam noottaandile chintha
Culture is changing slowly....
Yea westernism
Do you heard about vatsyayan and Kamasutra. Khajuraho sculpture???
Good thing
Thats reality
Dr well said
Like doctor said these ppl arent normal & my question is if these ppl become parents will they be able to parent their kids well.
Ath pinne ivarude department alallo 😂
In Premarital course we are advised not to resort to abortion, Unlike what's discussed here. It's also discussed that babies are God's gift.
life is one only.We should be happy in living the life. This is 21st centuary.The living expense is very high.nowadays,if both ones work only, we can meet our daily needs.So many sicknesses,even the covid vaccines also affected people’s health so seriously.Sadly,Old people will never understand the challenges what this generation are facing today!Why should we have kids when we have no enough money or health? It will affect our kids’ mental and physical state in different ways.I know personally some kids are feeling alone at home because their parents have no quality time to spend with their kids and they will do some mischiefs to get attention from their parents.And that will make the situation worse. think practically and logically.
I second that 👍
Glad someone spoke about this ❤
The younger generation don't want more kids because of all the overpopulation issues we all faced growing up. It is terrible. We have no more room to breathe or live a good quality of life. less kids , more greenery its better that way
This video don't make sense to me... there are alot of things in this generation...which is beyond having children
Exactly. Not everyone need to breed and overpopulate the country. Parenting is a burden for those who are not willing to take it as a challenge. Live free and enjoy the life without hurting the nature or it's living beings.
ഡോക്ടറേ ഞാനും premarriage കൗൺസിലിംഗിനു പോയതാ... അവരെല്ലാം പറയുന്നേ നല്ല പ്രായത്തിൽ കെട്ടണമെന്നു ആണ്, പിന്നെ സില്ലി റീസൺസിനു വേണ്ടി intimacy കുറക്കരുത്തുമെന്നു ആണ് പറയുന്നേ... 😍😍😍
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Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
I see many comments about her being regressive, unempethetic etc. I feel she is not generalising. She is talking about couples who come to her for treatment/IVF being an infertility specialist and she blame them because they come for IVF without having proper frequent sex. It is an individual choice to have children or not. But if you are planning dont delay to 35+ and wait for “well settled” to have children and go for treatment even without ‘trying’ properly.. Hope criticisers get her point.
She literally said "one should have a child to have a stable relationship".
Thankyou doctor 🥰👍
I regret i could only watch this in 2024
Good information❤❤❤
Good
I dont think it's right to force a couple to have kids when they dont want.i myself had a kid when I was not ready due to unbearable pressure from people and I dont like my motherhood stage at all.infact everytime my child throws a tantrum I curse the people who forced me to hv kids.there are so many families who have marital problems even with kids and that gets passed onto them and they grew upto be miserable.
True
U r too un lucky, motherhood is always pleasurable , marital problem s is not a mistake of kids , U should decision before having kids.
Absolutely right
Throughout your pregnancy, you didn't want the child. To fullfill other people's wishes that you are having that child. These thoughts of yours will effect the child's personality. The child is sure to become troublesome and throw tantrums. Parenting begins with pregnancy.
Ente ponnu chechi ningalkku vattundo. Aarelum nirbandhichal ningal ningalude kuttiye konnu kalayumo? Illa enkil pinne inganathe varthamanam parayaruth. Und enkil daivathe orthu aa kuttiye valla orphanagil kondupoyi aakkuka. allenkil divorce cheyyuka. Be realistic.
Well said 👍👍
Svantham makante oru karyavum nokkatha oru husband anu enikkullath.....adhehathintem chilavu nammalu nokkandath kond gathikett veedupekshich irangiyavalanu njanum ente makanum.........innadheham koode jeevikkan chellan case koduthekkanu...thalparyamillannu paranju,makante education nu vendi cash venam ennu paranjapo koode ninnal cheyyam ennu....inne vare onnum cheyyatha aal ini enth tharana....alkk vendath nammale onnum alla, food indakki kodukkanum,vazhakadilkanim,chilavu nokkanum aalu venam....athra thanne........
Nice
സാമ്പത്തികമായി ശക്തി ഉണ്ടെങ്കിൽ മാത്രമേ കുട്ടികളെ വളർത്താൻ സാധിക്കു. സാമ്പത്തിക ശക്തിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ വിദ്യാഭ്യാസം , രോഗം എന്നിവ വളരെയധികം ദുഃഖം ഉണ്ടാക്കും
നിങൾ ദരിദ്രനായി മരിക്കുന്നത് നിങ്ങളുടെ മാത്രം കുറ്റമാണ്.
ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ വളർത്താൻ ഒരു നായ്ക്കുട്ടിയെ വളർത്തുന്ന ചിലവ് പോലുമില്ല. നമ്മൾ തിന്നന്തിന്റെ ഒരംശം ഇവർക്ക് കൊടുത്താൽ അവർ വളർന്നോളും.
Dr avarude nalla arivugal parayumbho arivillatha moota karyam parayale
Well said👏👏👏
Healthy food and healthy life style is essential for reproduction. Artificial life style spoil every thing.
Nalla dr ithu polathe dr njan evidem kandilla .iganeyulla dr maran lokath vendath
Dr ...intimacy ku cheyyal pinne ....full negative adichu chathu pokum... . Busy, work load,veetile pressure....onnum illel urakkam varunn, reasons angane neendu kidakkuvanu.... felt like avoiding... felt value illaayirunnu. Verde love life waste aayi poyi...it affected
Ideally an arranged marriage happens in late 20s for a male.
If the female partner is also in late 20s , people say , chance for complication in pregnancy or fertility issues are very high.
The partners wont get enough timw to understand each other , and also settle with their lives.
Career , House etc .
On top of that brining a kid isnt it a burden ?
In these scenario , how to maintain fertility ?
Diet , exercise , regular sex
Is it fine ?
Kindly suggest doctor
Pinneyille. You don't need to understand anything in case of an arranged marriage. All understanding is done before the marriage by your family. You know them inside out. Me and my wife both are It professionals got married when we were 26 and conceived when we were 28-29. Ellaam aayittu kochundaakaan nokkiyirunnaal baakiyellaam kaanum. kuttikal mathram undakilla. We were lucky to get married early on. All of my friends asked us why are you getting married so early. But all of them are now depressed because pennu kittunnilla. Mookkil pallu mulachu pakuthiyennathinum . Marriage kazhinju oru kollam mathrame kaanoo ee curiosity and love okke. pinne if you're a woman and plan to be a mother you must get pregnant before you hit 30. House career okke ath kazhinju ishtam pole samayam und. And if you think bringing a kid to the world is a burden, please don't do it. That'll be the biggest injustice you can do to a kid.
What about the role of Covid vaccine on infertility?
Possiblity Undo
Yes
Possibility ond
അതിൻ്റെ പിന്നിൽ പോയാൽ corporate nte ചതി മനസ്സിലാവും
Bill gates
Ernakulath alle ellarum work cheyan varunathu, apo avidathe hospitalil alle ellarum poku.. athayirikille karanam
Get married at a young age, have a couple of children and spend rest of the life in their upbringing is not the cup of tea for the present generation. The world is definitely changing. For today's youth, marriage is a hurdle which is best avoided, or atleast, delayed.
ഇതുപോലത്തെ കുറേ വെളിവില്ലാത്തവരും കുറേ മത നേതാക്കളും ഒക്കെ പ്രസംഗിക്കും കുറേ കുട്ടികളെ പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടാൻ.. അവസാനം അഷ്ടിക്ക് വകയില്ലാതെ കുട്ടികളുടെ ജീവിതം ദുരിതമാകും.. കുറച്ചു വളരുമ്പോൾ അവർ തന്നെ തിരിച്ചു ചോദിക്കും നോക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ എന്തിനാ ഞങ്ങളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ പോയതെന്ന്... പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടാൻ പറയുന്നവർ ആരും ചിലവിനു തരില്ല.. സാമ്പത്തികം മാത്രമല്ല, കുട്ടികൾ വളരുന്നതിനനുസരിച്ചു അവരോട് ഒപ്പം സമയം ചിലവഴിക്കാനും നല്ല രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താനും അറിയണം.. അത് വലിയ ഉത്തരവാദിത്തം തന്നെയാണ്.. അതിനു കഴിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ ദയവ് ചെയ്ത് കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാതിരിക്കുക...
സാമ്പത്തികം ഇല്ല, കുട്ടിയോടൊപ്പം സമയം ചിലവാക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ല. പിന്നെ എന്തിനാ വിവാഹം കഴിച്ചേ. ചില വിട്ടുവിഴിച്ചകൾക്കൊക്കെ തയാറാകണം.
കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ മാത്രം അല്ല സെക്സ്
സെക്സ് ചെയ്താൽ ഇപ്പത്തന്നെ കുട്ടിയുണ്ടാവും എന്ന് ആരാ പറഞ്ഞെ,, കുട്ടി വേണ്ടെങ്കിലും വേണങ്കിലും സെക്സ് ചെയ്യാം,,വേണ്ടെങ്കിൽ മുൻകരുതൽ എടുത്താൽ മതി,, 👍🏼
മര്യാദക്കു കേൾക്കാൻ പോലും തയ്യാറാകാതെ comment വർക്കേഴ്സ് ഇവിടെയും ഉണ്ട്. എന്താണു പറയുന്നതെന്നോ അത് എന്തുമാത്രം ഗുണകരമാണെന്നോ അല്ല നോക്കുന്നത്.അവിവേകം ആഘോഷിക്കലാണല്ലോ ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ട്രെൻഡ്...
സത്യത്തിൽ ഡോക്ടറുടെ ഈ ക്ലാസ്സ് ദൈവികമായ ഒരിടപെടൽ ആയിട്ടു കാണേണ്ടതാണ്.Thank you so much 🙏
Exactly
Finally I heard someone with sense talking on the Internet
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Baavi thalamurayk vendi kuttikale indakenam en parayunavarod parayan uleth - ranjyathin vendi prasavikan njn gandhi ala.
😂
തലമുറ അവിടെ തീർന്നു പോകില്ലേ എന്ന് ചോദിക്കുന്നവരോട്;
"ഞങ്ങൾ മൗര്യ വംശമല്ല"
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"Stitch in time saves nine "
The phrase basically means it's better to solve a problem right away, to stop it becoming a much bigger one.
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👍👍👍
Very very regressive ideas
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Everything has its positives and negatives. Why does it feel like the doctor is trying so hard to insist on her ideology of making children must to people's minds. If people want to let them make kids, if not leave them alone. Don't make it sound like it's a mistake to not have kids.
എല്ലാ കാര്യത്തിനും ഓരോ സമയം ഉണ്ട്. അതാത് കാലത്ത് അവ ചെയ്തില്ലെങ്കിൽ / പേടിച്ച് ഇരുന്നാൽ / ജീവിതം കൈവിട്ട് പോകും.
ഓർക്കുക വെറും 15 ആം വയസിൽ നിങ്ങൾ എടുക്കുന്ന തീരുമാനം ആയിരിക്കും നിങ്ങളുടെ കരിയർ പാത്ത് നിശ്ചയിക്കുന്നത്. അതുപോലെ വിവാവവും കുട്ടികളും ഒക്കെ നേരത്തെ തിരുമാനിക്കണം. കരിയർ ഗോൾ ഒക്കെ നേടി ഒടുവിൽ അമ്പതാം വയസിൽ കൊച്ചുണ്ടായാൽ അതിനെ ഊതി വീർപ്പിച്ച് വേഗം വളർത്താൻ പറ്റില്ല..😂 ...
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
ഒഞ്ചിയം കർഷക കലാപം പുറമേരിക്ക് കൊണ്ടിട്ടത് എന്തിനാണാവോ ദൈവേ
Doctors ne kanaan manikkoorukal wait cheythirunna kaalamokke kazhinju. Innu ellarkkum samayathinu vilayund. Oru divasam full duty kalanju ninnale kanaan pattullooo engil aalukal atharam hospital and doctors...both will avoid... Athu Ella hospitals um onnu ormayilvekkuka
Sex is not for the only purpose of making child. More than something to share our feelings and love. It should not be conditioned to weekly once monthly once.... But always when your mood is good and to improve your mood.. jst remind to take precautions if not planing for a baby. That's all
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Mallu girls love black men
Have seen many of these FWB couples in UK & Us
Doctor sathyam vilich parayunu elarkum ath pidikanm aennila
ആരും കെട്ടാതിരുന്നാൽ ഇത്തരം ഡോക്ടർമാർക്ക് പണി ഇല്ലാതാകും .....marriage and family is a huge business for the corporates...
Shame on your thought
Nature an potra
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After 50,there’s no sex ennu paranjathu moshamayi poyi. I wish to have even after 50.
എനിക്ക് വയസ്സ് 31 എൻറെ പ്രായത്തിലുള്ളവർ പോലും കൂടുതൽ പേരും പണ്ടത്തെ ആളുകളെ പോലെ സെക്സ് എന്നു പറയുന്നത് കൊച്ചുങ്ങളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ വേണ്ടി എന്തോ ഒരു പരിപാടി എന്ന് മാത്രമായിട്ടാണ് കാണുന്നത്..
എനിക്കും എൻറെ പങ്കാളിക്കും പിള്ളേരെ വളർത്താൻ താല്പര്യമില്ലാത്തതുകൊണ്ട് പിള്ളേര് വേണ്ട എന്നുള്ള തീരുമാനത്തിലാണ് ഞങ്ങൾ പോകുന്നത്.. പക്ഷേ അതിൻറെ അർത്ഥം ശാരീരികമായി ബന്ധപ്പെടാറില്ല എന്നോ സെക്സ് ചെയ്യാറില്ലെന്നോ അല്ല.. മനുഷ്യൻ ഇതിന് മനസ്സിലാക്കിയിരിക്കുന്നത് തന്നെ കുറെയൊക്കെ തെറ്റായിട്ടാണ്
ത്നങ്ങൾ പറയുന്നത് ഒക്കെ okay... പക്ഷെ ഒരു biological ആയി sex ന്റ function സന്താനകളെ ഉണ്ടാകുക എന്നത് ആണ്... അതിന് വേണ്ടി ആണ് lust... ഒക്കെ... അതിനു അർത്ഥം നമ്മൾ ക് അതു വേണ്ടിയെ തീരു എന്ന് അല്ല ഞാൻ ഉദ്ദേശിച്ചത്... Actually biological ആയി ഏതു ജീവി യുടെ ആയാലും sex ന്റ prime function എന്നത് സന്താന ഉല്പത്തി ആണ്.. അത് വഴി വംശം നിലനിർത്തകാ എന്നത്
@@globalentertainerms4694 നിങ്ങൾ പറഞ്ഞതിൽ എനിക്ക് അഭിപ്രായ വ്യത്യാസം ഇല്ല.. പക്ഷേ കുഞ്ഞിനെ വേണം എന്ന് തോന്നുമ്പോൾ മാത്രം സെക്സ് ചെയ്യുന്ന ആളുകളുടെ തെറ്റായ മൈൻഡ് സെറ്റിനെ കുറിച്ചാണ് ഞാൻ പറഞ്ഞത്
ഞാൻ കുട്ടിയെ ഉണ്ടാക്കിയിട്ടില്ല 😃
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which is the right age to get married for a girl and boy
Any age after 25 at which you and your partner is mentally, physically and financially stable and ready to live a life with mutual understanding. Don't fall for this old people and their style of getting married at early age. Focus on your future and goals.
For a girl it's better to marry before 25, chances of having children are minimal after age 35.
There's no need of marriage if you don't intent to have children (that constitutes a family)
World is not just Kerala 😢.
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Inshort corporate ruined this world. 🙏
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Oh my god. Did this so called experienced doctor compare everyone with poornima indrajith??
See, financial stability is a major concern while planning for child. Eth profession aanenkilum stress undaakum. Doctors know that. Kutty undaayal the mother will have some sort of career break that will lead to financial imbalance. Allengil she has to struggle. Ithinokke ready aaytt ullavar alle child plan cheyyande. This is not an easy silly game. Parenting needs your time, money, effort and support. Ithil onnu illengil thanne poyi. Proper plan undenkil ninnal mathi. Don't compare your life with others. Especially highly privileged. Ayyo. I can't believe she is saying these things to a general audience.
Rathri poyi kanunna doctor sabine
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She's so motherly figure. 😍😍
Hai mam