ADULT FRIENDSHIPS W/ GUGULETHU NYATSUMBA | Outgrowing Friends, Boundaries, Jealousy & Sisterhood

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  • čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
  • This one is for everyone trying to successfully navigate adult friendships👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩
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    ✰ ABOUT ✰
    We’re back for another episode of According To B and my co-host for this one is fellow CZcamsr, podcaster and creative entrepreneur Gugulethu Nyatsumba popularly known as Sis G.U! Join us as we talk all about adult friendships and her experiences navigating them. We also discuss adjusting to changing friendship dynamics, the importance of communication, space and healthy boundaries.
    Gugu expresses her views on learning to evolve together and preserving the love in friendship, shares how being in community with other women saved her life, speaks on the importance of needing space in her friendships, how to create healthy and long lasting boundaries and why communication is necessary for the survival of friendship.
    ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰
    Gugulethu Nyatsumba is a South African social media influencer, CZcamsr and podcaster. She is known for her relatable, empowering and fun content coupled with a powerful and perfect voice for broadcasting voice; Nyatsumba has won the hearts of many.
    Her podcast After School is After School was inspired by her CZcams channel Uncomfortable Growth where many enjoyed her highly sought after/unique voice and she also saw an opportunity to translate her videos into a podcast. (She has also worked with multiple high-end brands in her capacity as a social media influencer.) Both her podcast and CZcams channel focus on topics relating to navigating the turbulence and fun of the twenties
    ✰ TIME STAMPS ✰
    00:00 - Teaser
    01:01 - Intro
    03:37 - Understanding the origins of the name SIS GU
    04:57 - About The Assembly
    07:36 - What friendship means to Gugu
    13:28 - Sustaining a good friendship
    17:06 - Outgrowing friendships
    25:13 - Making new friends in adulthood
    28:57 - Romantic relationship changing the friendship dynamic
    33:09 - Comparison and envy in friendship
    38:45 - How the girls should be pouring into their friendships
    42:27 - Advice for girls who've been hurt by girlfriends
    45:43 - Where to find Gugu on social media
    46:12 - Afterthoughts & Takeaways
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    Gugulethu
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    ✰ LISTEN ON ✰
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    ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰
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    ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰
    Director: Bokang Lehlokoe
    Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi
    Videographer: Maxine Araujo
    Editor: Nelani Majozi

Komentáře • 48

  • @zintlefeni9718
    @zintlefeni9718 Před rokem +57

    So many gems were dropped here 🥺 and for someone who has been struggling to find her feet in relationships, especially friendships, I’ve learnt sm 🥺♥️ yho ha a i could listen to you guys speak forever 😂🥹

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem +2

      I'm so happy this conversation helped you Zintle! I think a lot of people can relate on still finding their feet in friendships and that's exactly why we have these chats! 💕

  • @ms_adelina4623
    @ms_adelina4623 Před rokem +33

    Gugu is definitely my online big sis❤❤ i love you so much Gugu😊😊❤

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem +6

      I think we all totally understand why! She's amazing 😭❤️

  • @ThulisileKolweni
    @ThulisileKolweni Před rokem +27

    Let’s give each other Grace and just giving each the same amount of chance we give to romance relationships.

  • @lmokgalo4157
    @lmokgalo4157 Před rokem +4

    “Need space to take better care of myself and in a better space” -Felt 😊

  • @luyandaketelo
    @luyandaketelo Před rokem +5

    This helped me so much cause I’ve been in such a weird space in my friendships

  • @lianmay5050
    @lianmay5050 Před rokem +1

    No man I love Sis G.U

  • @thembz3464
    @thembz3464 Před rokem

    beautiful episode! 💕

  • @kabelomohapi4600
    @kabelomohapi4600 Před rokem +4

    Ever since I had a child, I've been struggling to connect with my most dearest friends. I have tried to reconnect from time to time, but I came to a realization that I'm the one that was is creating this "disconnect" while my friends were willing to offer support. This podcast has helped me start certain conversations with my friends and be open about where I am in life or what season I'm in. Thank you. ❤

  • @sthembisomasilela447
    @sthembisomasilela447 Před 11 měsíci

    This is such a gem. Yall helped me so much ❤

  • @dimakatsoinnocentia3128

    I really enjoyed this soo much🔥🙌thank you soo much,definitely subscribing to both of y'all,looking forward to many more episodes

  • @sihle_khums
    @sihle_khums Před rokem +2

    I really enjoyed watching this, such a unique content style 👌🏽

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts Před rokem +1

    The whole video was so Reassuring! ❤

  • @zintlefeni9718
    @zintlefeni9718 Před rokem +5

    I really loved this episode 🥹♥️

  • @spokenpriestess
    @spokenpriestess Před rokem +1

    I needed to hear this. Food for thought, even for a relationship as well. 🥺

  • @holly_kalonji
    @holly_kalonji Před 10 měsíci

    This was literally everything & more!🥺🤝🏾💙

  • @oratilemoyawa2936
    @oratilemoyawa2936 Před rokem +2

    The relevance in your questions ❤️

  • @colette_d
    @colette_d Před rokem

    Profound❤👏

  • @VeronicaZebra
    @VeronicaZebra Před rokem

    Fave Gugulethu. Sis G.U

  • @ntombik_
    @ntombik_ Před rokem +1

    I enjoyed this so much ! Thank you for such a meaningful conversation. ❤

  • @princess_fundi
    @princess_fundi Před rokem +4

    I’m obsessed with both of y’all❤️‍🔥😂🥹

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem

      Ahh thanks Fundi! 🥰 So happy we could make this happen!

  • @lykahartist
    @lykahartist Před rokem +9

    This was such a profound episode. Thank you ladies 💕

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem

      Its our absolute pleasure girl!!! 💕

  • @kamohelomonareng4762
    @kamohelomonareng4762 Před rokem +8

    What a beautiful episode. I related so much. Keep it up guys! ❤ You've definitely earned yourself a subscriber and I look forward to many more episodes 🎉

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem +1

      Welcome to the family! And many more episodes are definitely on the way 💃🏾

  • @faithlee.official
    @faithlee.official Před rokem +1

    Love this sm ❤

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem +1

      Yay! Thank you got joining us Faith ❤

  • @masase19
    @masase19 Před rokem +3

    Love this! ❤

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem +1

      Yayyy! 🙌🏾 So glad you enjoyed!

  • @TheeTage
    @TheeTage Před rokem +4

    Yay, ready to dig into this episode❤
    Edit: gems were dropped shoutout B & Sis GU.

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem +1

      Hope you enjoy the conversation Thando! ❤️

  • @reitumetseharris1220
    @reitumetseharris1220 Před rokem +2

    Loved this❤....

    • @TheBWord
      @TheBWord  Před rokem

      So happy you did Reitu 🥰

  • @lefiika
    @lefiika Před rokem +2

    Love her outfit 🤍

  • @Laylls
    @Laylls Před rokem +1

    Tik tok brought me here ❤

  • @SimplyBontle
    @SimplyBontle Před rokem +3

    Kele rata gore❤

  • @lesedi3040
    @lesedi3040 Před 10 měsíci

    I love Barbie 😂😂

  • @brendamahlangu4443
    @brendamahlangu4443 Před rokem +1

    I am done with women friendships , total waste of time n energy 🤮🤮, I HV one good friend n we good with that.

  • @tshepangmohapi3558
    @tshepangmohapi3558 Před rokem +4

    what a lovely episode. 🥹♥️

  • @lehlohonolohappiness437
    @lehlohonolohappiness437 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Where have you both been ! I love it here 🥹❤️. Totally inspired !!
    Its both the beauty and conversations ! ❤️🥹