What my dad thinks about me being gay 🌈

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  • @martice.9021
    @martice.9021 Před 3 lety +274

    I literally came out to my dad today and he said, “you’re still my son and I’ll love you no matter what.” I cried so hard because I didn’t think he would because he’s a very religious man.

    • @kenjiyamaha2879
      @kenjiyamaha2879 Před 3 lety +17

      Childish, ditto. I was terrified that my radical rightwing religious authoritarian dictator father would reject me. I was shocked when he said those exact words. . . I guess we are blessed beyond understanding.

    • @SeattleDad
      @SeattleDad Před 2 lety +16

      As a dad who is gay, I came out to my sons..they were sooooo supportive. They even attended my gay wedding. That is so great guys. Proud of your dads. LOVE IS LOVE, NO MATTER WHAT!

    • @michaelhighlights1614
      @michaelhighlights1614 Před 2 lety +1

      @@kenjiyamaha2879 bruh

    • @Ali-mp3xg
      @Ali-mp3xg Před 2 lety +2

      i am extremely happy for you💖

    • @traviscoleman4192
      @traviscoleman4192 Před rokem

      I'm so proud of you! Much love

  • @terrycarr-hall4246
    @terrycarr-hall4246 Před 3 lety +95

    Did anyone catch how incredibly sad Dad got when talking about his gay brother that is no longer here? He was fighting back tears. Right in the feels for me...

  • @tallactordude
    @tallactordude Před 3 lety +192

    Your dad is the kind of father every gay guy ought to have, even though many of us don’t (or didn’t). It’s clear that he loves you and that you love him, and that’s very nice to see.

  • @PatrickArgentina
    @PatrickArgentina Před 3 lety +196

    "We're all different, we all have special gifts. Don't ever let anybody take that away from you" >>> love this !!!

    • @ryverOSX
      @ryverOSX Před 3 lety +5

      Hey Chris. Was checking out some of your older stuff. Saw you signing onto Crawford's onlyfans. You were talking about posing for nudes. Haven't signed up for your only fans yet I'll do that after I write this. Anyway. If you discover a photographer that you're totally comfortable with and they're creative (I specifically chose a guy for different reasons) posing nude is actually fun and a great experience. You'll also have a fantastic collection for future posts so I'd do several themes. Just my advice. Cheers!

    • @boomer666ize
      @boomer666ize Před 3 lety +3

      Your dad is a cool dude your lucky to have him

    • @artssims1070
      @artssims1070 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ryverOSX increíble!🤩

    • @1980NANO
      @1980NANO Před 2 lety

      Truly a great man, your father...

  • @henryk9305
    @henryk9305 Před 3 lety +82

    Papa Stan is an awesome dad ......he stans. You have given him every reason to be proud of you and he is very proud: "You are an awesome kid."

  • @davidc.7953
    @davidc.7953 Před 3 lety +40

    There's never just one gay guy on a soccer team.

    • @denaroth7296
      @denaroth7296 Před 3 lety +5

      Yeah, the football (soccer) is VERY homophobic. but only the masculine, the feminine soccer is very accepting. There is also a lot of misogyny. I tell you as a person who lives in a country where soccer is everything...

    • @artssims1070
      @artssims1070 Před 3 lety +2

      @@denaroth7296 got you and confirm!🙃

  • @marcberm
    @marcberm Před 3 lety +76

    You're fortunate to have such a great dad!!! 🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @PatrickArgentina
    @PatrickArgentina Před 3 lety +34

    Looking forward to this. I've only seen Mr. Stanley once before. It was on TikTok and he was being scared with balloon rockets :)

  • @animefreak0593
    @animefreak0593 Před 3 lety +30

    Glad you’re dad was so open and embraced you as you are.

  • @stevenguybilodeau
    @stevenguybilodeau Před 3 lety +6

    My dad said "How did this happen...I (he) was in the military" Huh? Now this was back in the 70's so a different time and era.

  • @RealSteveTheGoat
    @RealSteveTheGoat Před 3 lety +16

    Papa Stanley is very wise. We need more like him in this world.

  • @mjc63
    @mjc63 Před 3 lety +16

    Dad is so cool...no wonder you seem so grounded and “yourself”! Nice vid

  • @zacomorriso
    @zacomorriso Před 3 lety +6

    I admire your dad for being so supportive of you.

  • @marcberm
    @marcberm Před 3 lety +22

    How about a video where you and your dad do something together that he likes but isn't usually your thing, then you do something you like that isn't his thing. Like a fishing trip then a shopping trip.

  • @lajimi
    @lajimi Před 3 lety +14

    You are VERY fortunate to have a father like him. Mine would go out of his way to tell Gay jokes or find a reason to use the word fag whenever I was around.

  • @westlondo3312
    @westlondo3312 Před 3 lety +13

    Fantastic Dad. It's called "Unconditional Love"

  • @patriziobucher2145
    @patriziobucher2145 Před 3 lety +36

    Cool dad! Though, being gay is NOT a decision nor a choice.

    • @StanChris
      @StanChris  Před 3 lety +5

      tea

    • @NorthStarPNW
      @NorthStarPNW Před 3 lety +4

      @@StanChris Maybe you could ask him when he chose to be str8? He seems cool enough to appreciate this learning opportunity. It's important that he understand that you did not choose this.

  • @acefifty1
    @acefifty1 Před 3 lety +22

    I would like to know more about how you were treated by your soccer team when you came out and what impact that had on you.

    • @StanChris
      @StanChris  Před 3 lety +11

      tea. i mention it a little in my coming out vid but good idea

  • @itsame4373
    @itsame4373 Před 3 lety +8

    What a sweet video! Thanks to your dad from all of us not so lucky. Hope you are feeling better and appreciate all of your efforts to give us content. You are obviously well loved.

  • @ehhjeep
    @ehhjeep Před 3 lety +12

    Kid I hope you understand and appreciate how lucky you are to have parents that get you and love you! Stay safe.

  • @brettandry3709
    @brettandry3709 Před 3 lety +12

    Looking forward to sharing this moment with you. 💙
    After: Awesome video! Your dad is so kind and genuine. It's obvious he is very proud of you Chris!

  • @thomaswilke6312
    @thomaswilke6312 Před 3 lety +8

    Your dad is so cool. He’s such an awesome dad

  • @gpicken
    @gpicken Před rokem +2

    I'm 62 and didn't come out till my mid 40s also a believer and your dad speaks truth. Love your sense of humor. Makes my day. He is right be yourself and the people who are your true friends will stick with you those that don't were never your friends to begin with. Take care, enjoy life we only get one run at it. 🇨🇦

  • @mcgamerbr2605
    @mcgamerbr2605 Před 3 lety +18

    You're so handsome Chris!

  • @wesgrooms941
    @wesgrooms941 Před 3 lety +5

    You already know, we stan your Dad.

  • @jebc88
    @jebc88 Před 3 lety +3

    "it is what it is kid" - loving that chill vibe from your dad

  • @jeremiahallyn4603
    @jeremiahallyn4603 Před 3 lety +25

    Wow, your dad is a great guy! I wish all gay people had such an accepting dad. You should def feature more of him 💯👍👏

  • @steverdms
    @steverdms Před 2 lety +2

    Give him a Dad of the Year award. Amazing.

  • @mattypants
    @mattypants Před 3 lety +5

    I absolutely love this. It's amazing to have parents who accept their children. I remember coming out to my uncle, who was practically my dad and raised me. He said "I'm so honored you know you can express who you are to me. But I've known since you were 10" 🤣🤣

  • @danieldonaldson2816
    @danieldonaldson2816 Před 3 lety +4

    Your dad seems super chill and friendly! It was cool to see him in a video! Hopefully he is in more in the future! So since you’ve had both my future mother/father-in-law in videos. What about a videos with your brothers? 😊

  • @augiedogie561
    @augiedogie561 Před 3 lety +3

    Your dad is the best. I love this guy and I don't even know him, god bless him.

  • @Princedevlor
    @Princedevlor Před 3 lety +4

    Great video and wish more parents was like that. That’s for sure a nice thing to see hoping one day all parents could be like that in not thinking anything of it

  • @thomasdahl8876
    @thomasdahl8876 Před 3 lety +6

    You are really lucky to have such a great family Congratulations Chris.

  • @lenni8560
    @lenni8560 Před 3 lety +14

    Omg im admiring you soo much.. i wish i could talk about that topic with my parents so easily.. im not even outed to them yet... youre kindof a role model for me xd keep on producing such great content in the future 🔥🔥

  • @jakerothschild500
    @jakerothschild500 Před 3 lety +1

    Your dad is awesome and I am so glad you two have each other Chris. Thanks for an awesome introduction to him.

  • @joebellnier6397
    @joebellnier6397 Před 3 lety +5

    Your dad is amazing...so happy for you.. my dad never supported me being gay and still don't. Yes we wanna see more dad.

  • @vapor4den
    @vapor4den Před 3 lety +5

    My Mom and my older sister know that I'm Bi for a week now... The only left is my Dad and I can just hope he will be 1/10 as open minded as your Dad Chris ! I really dont know how I will do this for now pfffff

  • @mattgilmore1971
    @mattgilmore1971 Před 3 lety

    I'm glad that your dad is very supportive of you. That makes it easier for sure. Great video too. I would love to see more videos with your dad.

  • @bigjohn65
    @bigjohn65 Před 3 lety +1

    Chris, You have a great dad!!!! He reminds me a lot of mine, they both have the same outlook, were the lucky ones!!!

  • @troymoser5960
    @troymoser5960 Před 2 lety +1

    Chris! I can see why you have such a level head on your adorable shoulders. Your dad is amazing. Make sure you take the time to really cherish the obvious awesome relationship you two have. Never take it for granted bro!

  • @ck85x65
    @ck85x65 Před 3 lety +7

    You, and your Dad, are amazing. You are fortunate to have him. Find ways to tell him, often. I’m curious to know how he earns a living, and how he relates to others. He is one of those guys who has wisdom, irrespective of formal education or life experiences. He obviously loves you very, very much. I can see where you get the best elements of your individuality and personality.

  • @drewwho4512
    @drewwho4512 Před 3 lety +1

    Chris,
    What an awesome Dad! I often wondered when watching your videos about your Dad and his take on you being gay. To have the tremendous support of not only Mommastan but Dadstan (?) as well makes me so happy for you. I wish my parents were as accepting as yours. But alas, sadly, not all parents are alike in that regard.
    Drew

  • @mikebrady2073
    @mikebrady2073 Před 3 lety +21

    When are we going to be introduced to your Gay Uncle? Oh, so sad, how did he die? Show us a photograph and tell us something about your deceased Uncle. Did you ever meet him? Share his history with us. How about doing an episode honoring your Gay Uncle. That would be cool.

  • @KrimzonDante
    @KrimzonDante Před 3 lety

    Chris you have such an awesome dad! It's so nice to see such positive support. Thank you for this video!

  • @landrybeck
    @landrybeck Před 2 lety +2

    What an awesome Dad! I'm in the Northeast too. My being gay is the one thing my dad doesn't really want to hear about. He knows; he accepts it; but he's also tacitly uncomfortable with it. Not in a hateful way, but in a "I just can't understand what you get out of it" way. Well Dad, I don't know what I get out of it either. It's just what I am.

  • @thegame248
    @thegame248 Před 3 lety +5

    Your dad is awesome. You should ask him why he hates the heat on lol

  • @engine890
    @engine890 Před 3 lety

    Chris, You are soooo lucky to have a dad that is so understanding, supportive and loving. KUDOS to you both...

  • @Kurt634
    @Kurt634 Před 3 lety +2

    Your dad seems like a really kind, respectful and down to earth dude. I can tell he's done a really amazing job raising you with great morals. You're very lucky to have him 💛

  • @davidclaytonddc
    @davidclaytonddc Před 3 lety +1

    Was a nice video, your dad is cool, glad you had the support 🙂 I would love to see more of you guys hanging out together, maybe doing something in the yard? Glad to see you look to have made a full recovery and look in good health! * hugs *

  • @icantthinkofagoodhandlename

    ILY chris! I love how supportive your dad is. My dad was so supportive when I came out and I am so proud how for the LGBTQ+ rights movement has come. I will always support you!

  • @lovetaloveyababy3977
    @lovetaloveyababy3977 Před 3 lety +5

    What a cool dad! Thanks for sharing

  • @zaydae6394
    @zaydae6394 Před 2 lety

    You’re dad seems like a chill ass guys with a huge heart!!! Lucky guy you are.

  • @garymotley8196
    @garymotley8196 Před 3 lety +14

    Boys are reared in our society with a built in deficit of how to manage reactions that deal with emotions and intimacy, especially when it comes to other males. Unfortunately, it is the norm for males to be awkward with other males and not to have healthy platonic relationships with other males. So it's no wonder that teenage boys tend to go over the top when a peer comes out. As a society, we need to do a much better job at rearing boys to be more comfortable expressing their emotions and intimacy that are non sexualized so that they are better equipped when others issues of intimacy are revealed. Well rounded men make for better husbands, peers, family members and so much more!

  • @alliejoopai4870
    @alliejoopai4870 Před 3 lety +4

    Looking forward to this

  • @jamesthompson248
    @jamesthompson248 Před 3 lety

    Love your show!!! Many blessings and positive vibes to you and your dad!!! ❤️✌🏽😘❤️

  • @TheRemyRomano
    @TheRemyRomano Před 2 lety

    I would love to see more videos with your mom and dad. They are so awesome. You are very fortunate.

  • @kenjiyamaha2879
    @kenjiyamaha2879 Před 3 lety +4

    Great responses, Dad! Wish there were many more like you. I wish that gay kids could have real community support. There should by safe places and people who can chat and give gay kids an ear to listen and help them figure it out. Having someone to turn to can help decrease sadness and lonliness and encourage them to grow.
    Thanks Chris for sharing this video. I think of all your video topics this one ranks in the top 3 for relevant, impactful content.

  • @ScubaSteve3560
    @ScubaSteve3560 Před 3 lety +1

    You are literally the cutest...awesome your dad is supportive

  • @andrekusumayadi4820
    @andrekusumayadi4820 Před 2 lety

    Both of you are awesome!! Love the connection between you and your dad.

  • @kylelo7884
    @kylelo7884 Před 3 lety +4

    I would love to see longer videos

    • @StanChris
      @StanChris  Před 3 lety +8

      they will be! i might even upload an extra video this weekend. I am officially fully better i think, we filmed this when we both actually had just gotten over covid.

    • @kylelo7884
      @kylelo7884 Před 3 lety +2

      @@StanChris thanks Chris. My heart is with you and your family 👍

  • @saverioartale1440
    @saverioartale1440 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for finally having your dad on your channel. I hung around with a Richard Stanley from Bay city Michigan and always thought that was the uncle u spoke about😁

  • @victorjason2558
    @victorjason2558 Před 3 lety +4

    I can see where you get your relaxed personality from. very cool.

  • @peterashman5749
    @peterashman5749 Před 3 lety

    “It’s a bummer” when talking to/about your gay son! 😂😂😍

  • @larrykrause2373
    @larrykrause2373 Před 2 lety

    Great pops you have TwinkStan. Wish my mother & father were a little more understanding when they found out. How about a video of you showing pops your dance moves with him and pop's dance moves with you?

  • @binkman9
    @binkman9 Před 3 lety +3

    North East - so true except for maybe California. Here in the South, being gay can be difficult. Also, Your Dad is great.

  • @ourcobra
    @ourcobra Před 3 lety

    Awe, how sweet! He shared some wonderful words of wisdom!! What a great and supportive dad. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @gossimer3
    @gossimer3 Před 3 lety

    Your dad is AWESOME! Everyone should be so fortunate to have a dad like you do, Chris! ♥️

  • @tomweisser6203
    @tomweisser6203 Před 3 lety

    Your dad is amazing... I haven't spoken to or seen my dad in decades... he cut me off when my parents got divorced when I was 16

  • @JamesBrown-ij1px
    @JamesBrown-ij1px Před 3 lety +1

    Your Dad is an amazing Dad and an amazing human being! You’re lucky to have him for you Dad. (And he’s lucky to have you for his Son). 💜

  • @ricsroccharles
    @ricsroccharles Před 2 lety

    Your Dad is awesome! Unfortunately my Dad passed away a month before I came out. But I know he’s looking down from heaven in complete acceptance! Your Dads rad! Your lucky!

  • @anthonyamato1
    @anthonyamato1 Před 2 lety

    I always loved your intro / tag line💥

  • @jeremiahmcclenahan7158
    @jeremiahmcclenahan7158 Před 3 lety +1

    What a wonderful guy. I love his response, how beautiful!!! Nicely, said.

  • @stevenschmitzer299
    @stevenschmitzer299 Před 3 lety +3

    Now it makes sense why you are such a great guy. Great parents.

  • @user-kf3oz6yu5n
    @user-kf3oz6yu5n Před 3 lety +3

    Hey Chris u know, ur so lucky ur parents are really accepting... My parents at least my mom can be understanding.. But my dad thinks tht idk how to identify my sexuality. And plus its even because I come from a religious family, and my father is really religious
    I tried explaining it to him tht if people are in love, there's no sin in it irrespective of thier gender. Love has no labels anybody can love. He just doesn't understand tht🥺😢

  • @mullencat2
    @mullencat2 Před 3 lety

    OMG I can't stop looking at the white corner of the orange banner. My OCD needs you to fix it before your next video. Your dad is amazing.

  • @steveankeny840
    @steveankeny840 Před 3 lety

    I love this so much. Thanks for sharing 🥰🥰🥰

  • @SteveNoblin
    @SteveNoblin Před 3 lety +2

    Awe, your dad had some really sweet things to say!

  • @denaroth7296
    @denaroth7296 Před 3 lety +18

    Hope you are better

    • @StanChris
      @StanChris  Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you i am so much better

  • @mayflower551
    @mayflower551 Před 3 lety

    Your dad is so chill. Take care and stay well

  • @allenculpepper9553
    @allenculpepper9553 Před 3 lety +6

    I stan Chris ‘s dad.

  • @mikalpdx11
    @mikalpdx11 Před 3 lety +1

    What an awesome dad. Now you two need to start hugging. Chris looks so nervous and wanted that video to be done but how come you couldn’t even look at him?

  • @mitchpatton3796
    @mitchpatton3796 Před 3 lety

    Chris you are so blessed to have a loving supportive dad. You seem to have a great relationship with him.

  • @AyushKumarSharma-np5cb
    @AyushKumarSharma-np5cb Před 3 lety +7

    I hope this goes in a positive direction. Btw, love you so frickin much ❤️

  • @Mega_Casual
    @Mega_Casual Před 3 lety +5

    Your dad's brother...hmmmmmm.....tell me again that it's not hereditary. Chris, your dad is awesome. Feel lucky to be you! Hope your're healing up well from Covid.

  • @danmills3273
    @danmills3273 Před 3 lety

    Thanks to you and your Dad for sharing this with us. It will help others! See how popular you are, nearly 3500 views in just 4 hours.

  • @ricardoribeiro8037
    @ricardoribeiro8037 Před 3 lety +1

    You have awesome dad! More dads need to be accepting of their children like him! God bless him and you!

  • @Binarychaos_
    @Binarychaos_ Před 3 lety +2

    omg i love ur dad hes the sweetest

  • @York22
    @York22 Před 3 lety +2

    Your dad is awesome. I wish more people thought like him

  • @baronlipschutz-perry5089
    @baronlipschutz-perry5089 Před 3 lety +1

    Your Dad has real pearls of wisdom. Some Dads have their stuff really together. That obligates you to keep your stuff together and contribute to your various communities, especially if you become a father.

  • @MikeInIN
    @MikeInIN Před 3 lety +1

    Yes! More videos with awesome and loving Dad!

  • @larrystowe2761
    @larrystowe2761 Před 3 lety

    He told it like it is.. that's great. This is a great video. I'll be watching for more. Stay safe..

  • @darkzomb
    @darkzomb Před 3 lety

    Kiddo, you have the cutest dad ever. hes such a sweetheart. Everyone deserve this type of father.

  • @stanloonagays6643
    @stanloonagays6643 Před 3 lety +9

    I wish my dad was like this ಥ‿ಥ

  • @johncunningham1098
    @johncunningham1098 Před 2 lety

    You have a good dad. I came out decades ago in another world. My family didn’t speak to me for five years. You are blessed to have the father you have. ❤️

  • @grumpygrandpa5084
    @grumpygrandpa5084 Před 3 lety +2

    Man, how times have changed. When I was your age, things were different. After my mother discovered me fooling around with another boy, ... well I never saw him again. He had disappeared from my home town. I wasn’t even aware that I was gay at that moment.
    I envy you.

  • @johntjones3037
    @johntjones3037 Před 3 lety

    What a great Dad! Very wise also! Love your work!

  • @chriscoleman5242
    @chriscoleman5242 Před 3 lety

    I am glad that your father accepted you. That was sweet what your father said and true. And I love watching your videos

  • @davidblack2693
    @davidblack2693 Před 3 lety

    Stan Chris we 're both lucky to have our father's love us unconditionally. U the man

  • @Dreama40
    @Dreama40 Před 3 lety

    Chris i can see why you're such a great guy! Your dad is a good man, a really good man, cherish that.

  • @GB-je5tc
    @GB-je5tc Před 2 lety

    Excellent Pops, you are blessed... Be there for other youngin's.