My Indian Grandma’s Intercaste Love Story | Afternoons with Aaji

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Komentáře • 134

  • @sreelakshmi7472
    @sreelakshmi7472 Před rokem +856

    It's amazing to see how progressive Aaji is.

    • @crankboost
      @crankboost Před rokem +21

      Most of the maharatrians are progressive.

    • @svvardhan1997
      @svvardhan1997 Před 11 měsíci

      Progressive means imitate or mimic west with weird accents and dress , culture
      Literally white man regime is running all around the world 🌎 😩

    • @_o6629
      @_o6629 Před 10 měsíci +7

      ​@@crankboostand bengalis also

    • @crankboost
      @crankboost Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@_o6629 right

    • @varshamishra3340
      @varshamishra3340 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Only People in love can open their mind and heart

  • @anirbanghosh3576
    @anirbanghosh3576 Před rokem +530

    Real heros are ajis parents.

    • @MeetimeHolidays
      @MeetimeHolidays Před 7 měsíci +8

      Ajis parents are quite common in Marathi families

    • @RevelingScribbler
      @RevelingScribbler Před 2 měsíci +2

      Not really, it is aji because she is the one who came up with a convincing strategy and managed to convince them. She is the real hero because she helped them understand and change for the better and become more accepting

  • @kalyanic2821
    @kalyanic2821 Před 8 měsíci +39

    Aajji is so cute...reminded me of my ajji❤

  • @arcane1874
    @arcane1874 Před rokem +182

    You guys have the same laughhhh ❤❤❤

  • @persaud1
    @persaud1 Před rokem +172

    🤣🤣🤣 👏👏👏 "He had no minus points"....
    That is why they agreed.....
    ..... not cos of Shiva Parvati.

    • @panjabipandit
      @panjabipandit Před 9 měsíci +25

      Well obviously not but it was a good example. If their ok with devtas (heavenly beings) marrying despite obvious differences then why not humans? Brilliant example.

    • @devanshxvii
      @devanshxvii Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@@panjabipandit yes, you're right

    • @Teepukimamma
      @Teepukimamma Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes

  • @merladyneptune3908
    @merladyneptune3908 Před rokem +47

    Wowww Glove to see your Grandmum @ Paatti Ji,,, awwww she was so ahead of her times ❤😊 she knew how to speak to her parents and stand by her choice ❤

  • @HarshKharwar-jp6nf
    @HarshKharwar-jp6nf Před 3 měsíci +21

    Your grandmother so cool 😎

  • @Anonymous-og9uj
    @Anonymous-og9uj Před 6 měsíci +3

    Avanti,ur grandparents are gems. they decided for intercaste mrg n ur greatgrandparents also allowed it some decades ago.how progressive ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pankajkumar-pd5vc
    @pankajkumar-pd5vc Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dadi ji is amazing, super cool. Pranaam to her🙏

  • @akhyasahay310
    @akhyasahay310 Před 9 měsíci +21

    I like that strategy too😂😂

  • @varunvachaspathyam
    @varunvachaspathyam Před 6 měsíci +2

    Intelligent Doctor Ajji. So lucky you are

  • @NativeVsColonial
    @NativeVsColonial Před 5 měsíci +9

    The concept of hereditary Caste division itself is not Indian, it's a superimposition of the Spanish/Portuguese caste system and the English Class system in India, intending to divide the natives and use them against each other while the English hold power and work as a mediator.
    Caste was a pyramid scheme that Europeans sold to Indians via their English imposition in Indian society to divide Indians into groups/ghettos and make them fight with each other.
    So don’t mix up Varna with Gotram, Varna is Profession, and Gotram is Lineage.
    Hindus are free to marry in different Varnas, only avoid marrying in the same Gotram because it is considered the same bloodline, hence we don’t marry between brothers and sisters.

    • @kenokyu7227
      @kenokyu7227 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Why did indians choose to keep the caste system?

    • @NativeVsColonial
      @NativeVsColonial Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@kenokyu7227 Because India never gained freedom, it was a transfer of power, the leftover crooks inherited the colonial legacy of divide and rule.

    • @kenokyu7227
      @kenokyu7227 Před 3 měsíci

      @@NativeVsColonial as individual why don't they back away from their caste ?
      In india people love their caste , so much so that they are willing to kill intercaste couples.
      You can't deny that caste based marriages are not common , according to government estimates 96 percent marriages are within caste.

  • @dhawani9630
    @dhawani9630 Před rokem +22

    I like her grandmom and her bond

  • @user-qm8ng7df4n
    @user-qm8ng7df4n Před 9 měsíci +15

    Coolest granny ever

  • @gajarlaanusha3638
    @gajarlaanusha3638 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Shiv aur parvati ka example mei bhi follow karthi hu... ❤❤
    Love u dhadhi.. ❤

  • @bhavyalambhate6971
    @bhavyalambhate6971 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Aaji’s laugh is so cute 🥰 ❤

  • @emerald.m1061
    @emerald.m1061 Před 6 měsíci +2

    ❤ u Amma. Here from Kerala 🙏🏼

  • @ntnjadaun
    @ntnjadaun Před rokem +9

    Kabir singh dadi 😄

  • @Hitakshi_Rupela
    @Hitakshi_Rupela Před 8 měsíci +3

    Shes so cute ❤

  • @vaibhavkumararya9952
    @vaibhavkumararya9952 Před rokem +17

    I think Aaji is your best friend❤❤😍😍

  • @shritikapawar5144
    @shritikapawar5144 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Plz aaji come to convince my parents also❤😊

  • @doctor2187
    @doctor2187 Před rokem +4

    ❤😍wow medical..love story🙏

  • @Dumplings14
    @Dumplings14 Před rokem +1

    Loveeeee your grandma 😭😭😭😭

  • @funclubadarsh7523
    @funclubadarsh7523 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It’s difficult now also 😢

  • @user-zt4xx1wo3h
    @user-zt4xx1wo3h Před 9 měsíci +3

    *I told my parents about Lod Shiva & Ma parvati .... Still they are not ready to accept 😥😥😥💔💔*

  • @neeraj3587
    @neeraj3587 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I deserve this kind of love story and married life

  • @pranavig2340
    @pranavig2340 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I am so scared because intercaste marriage is a big nono in our family side. I really want to convince my dad and my family side. His family side are totally fine with me. I love him so much, it scares me

  • @flyforfoodzz
    @flyforfoodzz Před 8 měsíci +1

    Sweet❤❤

  • @mrittikabasu08.10
    @mrittikabasu08.10 Před rokem +1

    How lovelyyyyy

  • @harkiranjeetkaur
    @harkiranjeetkaur Před 8 měsíci

    So cute ❤

  • @kanak1418
    @kanak1418 Před 7 měsíci

    That Laughs❤

  • @MAGICALAttika
    @MAGICALAttika Před 6 měsíci +1

    😂😂😂so cute..

  • @shrutikumari4393
    @shrutikumari4393 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love uuuu ajji❤😊

  • @stutikirti6132
    @stutikirti6132 Před 8 měsíci

    Beautiful

  • @AM-sk5up
    @AM-sk5up Před 3 měsíci

    Aaji ❤

  • @shveta...
    @shveta... Před rokem +3

    I miss my grandmother even more 😔

  • @Akn9044
    @Akn9044 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Shiv ji pure jagat k swami h wo adi h अनंत h

  • @akshayr5514
    @akshayr5514 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Let's write ✍️ new story for her grand children 🙈

  • @PANDA83576
    @PANDA83576 Před 4 měsíci

    Grandma got the the study rizz

  • @ZameerAbbas-tw4wr
    @ZameerAbbas-tw4wr Před 3 měsíci

    Peoples Loves you Avanti Sab ko Pata hai

  • @SubhashTyagi13474
    @SubhashTyagi13474 Před 4 měsíci

    ❤Respect

  • @vijaychallachalla3467
    @vijaychallachalla3467 Před 7 měsíci

    Baa ❤

  • @natssinha
    @natssinha Před 4 měsíci

    Cute

  • @MeetimeHolidays
    @MeetimeHolidays Před 7 měsíci

    Lovely 😂 😊

  • @PoojaSingh-hf3qt
    @PoojaSingh-hf3qt Před 8 měsíci

    I love your aaji ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ love you maaji

  • @nidhigosai6595
    @nidhigosai6595 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤

  • @Mannya_dhalwal
    @Mannya_dhalwal Před rokem +5

    Hlo Avanti big fan❤❤

  • @user-sf8gp2xt5s
    @user-sf8gp2xt5s Před 8 měsíci

    What's brand watch are you wearing, Avanti

  • @dailyjournaling1737
    @dailyjournaling1737 Před 7 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @PaswanSaheb
    @PaswanSaheb Před 7 měsíci +2

    Intercaste marriage ko prmote karna chahiye.

  • @ajitpathak5218
    @ajitpathak5218 Před 7 měsíci

    Post unedited video

  • @sindujasivakumar6268
    @sindujasivakumar6268 Před 9 měsíci

  • @surjitkamaldas5599
    @surjitkamaldas5599 Před 7 měsíci

    Cool dadi. I'm missing my grandparents....❤❤❤

  • @DeepDiveinUniverse
    @DeepDiveinUniverse Před 6 měsíci +1

    So ek sath padhna jruri hai😅 mauka mil sakta hai

  • @shak_sea702
    @shak_sea702 Před rokem

    Wahh wahh 😂

  • @vandanawaval1791
    @vandanawaval1791 Před rokem +6

    Aaji cha number share kar Avanti,Aaji knows me very well we have worked together. I don't have her contact details

  • @sudhanshusharma3415
    @sudhanshusharma3415 Před 3 měsíci

    So called love😂 in this era

  • @alphagamer5142
    @alphagamer5142 Před 6 měsíci

    Har har mahadev

  • @LordofKings-Raj
    @LordofKings-Raj Před 9 měsíci

    मराठी मुलगी

  • @rahulanand7657
    @rahulanand7657 Před 3 měsíci

    agar inter caste marriage ho tab manunga castism khatm ho raha hai. log kehte hai ab kaha hota hai cities me to ekdam nahi hai me ekka dukka, lekin shadi dekho to pata chalta hai jaati dekh kr shadi cities gao har jagah hoti hai castism k against shadi to ikka dukka hoti hai extremely extremely rare.

  • @rajakaminishorts
    @rajakaminishorts Před rokem +4

    kya sacchi mujhse shaadi karegi kya

  • @dcmhsotaeh
    @dcmhsotaeh Před 2 měsíci

    Inter province marriages were not rare
    Linguistic boundaries were nonexistent
    Karnataka being bang in middle of many other linguistic areas
    Kannada marrying Telugu or Marathi or Tamil or Malayali but within caste boundaries was not rare for example
    Lingayats are there in Maharstra Andhra Tamilnadu Brahmins in all provinces so too Reddy
    Naidus are there in Karnataka and Andhra
    Other castes also had their counterparts in different linguistic areas and marriages between them was not rare
    It was the caste barrier that was broken in recent times provincial barriers were not sacrosanct

  • @user-zk4sj1he5t
    @user-zk4sj1he5t Před 9 měsíci +1

    neet pass karlo bol rahi hain aaji !

  • @rc-hz8mv
    @rc-hz8mv Před 3 měsíci

    Progressive and educated woman

  • @idontexist444
    @idontexist444 Před rokem +7

    Please don't compare yourself from Shiva or Parvati 😂

    • @HenneCindie
      @HenneCindie Před 8 měsíci +12

      Just an example that at the end love matters more then casteeee

    • @idontexist444
      @idontexist444 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@HenneCindie Shiva and Parvati mata were casteless. They are God.

    • @Whois_serene
      @Whois_serene Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@idontexist444nope she took birth in kings family

  • @sue7702
    @sue7702 Před 7 měsíci

    Sound just like my marriage.

  • @v1.commander108
    @v1.commander108 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Intercaste marriage is a sin. It leads to Varnshankarta. The outcome of such sinful marriages are such characterless women like Avanti with no ancestral roots.

    • @SHATRUJEET-sj7sx
      @SHATRUJEET-sj7sx Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yes but today's generation will not understand.
      It is too late

    • @v1.commander108
      @v1.commander108 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@SHATRUJEET-sj7sx If they don't understand they will suffer and the pajeetland will also suffer. Btw, I am also from this generation.

    • @Whois_serene
      @Whois_serene Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@v1.commander108tf? Yes then we Brahman shouldn't marry you and act same as we used too🤡

    • @DikshaJaiswal-tc1yg
      @DikshaJaiswal-tc1yg Před 4 měsíci +1

      Where it is written gyani dev 😂😂😂

    • @supriyakumari2617
      @supriyakumari2617 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Wahi socha yanha pr gyan dene koi to aya hoga ....Mahan hai aaplog ...ek jindagi sambhalti nhi ...aur generations ki soch lete hai ...inhone 3 generation bita liye ...haste khelte ...Marne ke baad ke bare me aaplog sochiye

  • @aditiigour29
    @aditiigour29 Před 9 měsíci

    Iphone ka flex krna is must😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kirtidwivedi153
    @kirtidwivedi153 Před 8 měsíci

    Didi please speak Hindi 😂❣️

  • @dipakborse6285
    @dipakborse6285 Před 2 měsíci

    50 rs kaat over acting ka😂😂😂🥹🥹

  • @ADARSHKUMAR-xm8ro
    @ADARSHKUMAR-xm8ro Před 3 měsíci

    Intercaste marriage should be banned immediately.

    • @appz5946
      @appz5946 Před měsícem +1

      The more u ban the more goes out of ur control

    • @ADARSHKUMAR-xm8ro
      @ADARSHKUMAR-xm8ro Před měsícem

      @@appz5946 have you married intercaste or inter-religion.

  • @gajputara
    @gajputara Před rokem +15

    Shiva Parvati ko apne gande sexual love story mat lao😠🤬.

    • @gajputara
      @gajputara Před rokem

      @Hasini Krishnakumar mujhe bhi laga inki bato se. She is not supreme here.ok. ye ladki bachpan se hi black foreigner hai. India me pta nhi kaha se aa gyi. Fuck western culture 😠

    • @thedesispoilers9881
      @thedesispoilers9881 Před rokem +4

      ​@Hasini Krishnakumar why to justify your sexual desire on the name of gods
      Is there any comparison between us and God
      They are supreme deity that's why we pray to them. These all mindset have came to India with westerners. Some Indians are shamelessly following all western things. Be Indian Be original
      Love Marriage is Okay
      Having A boyfriend is Okay But why to talk about your sexual life on camera and give examples of Deities.

    • @vartika76297
      @vartika76297 Před 9 měsíci +14

      Sex ki to baat hi nhi ki hai

    • @luviestar
      @luviestar Před 8 měsíci +3

      Chill man, it's not that deep

  • @suuuiiii
    @suuuiiii Před 6 měsíci

    Chal haat!

  • @AbhishekKumar-jm1tw
    @AbhishekKumar-jm1tw Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dadi hi defect hai

  • @ananyasarangi936
    @ananyasarangi936 Před 3 měsíci

    ❤❤

  • @Theraj007
    @Theraj007 Před rokem