⏳ (2023 will ask you to) Reclaim Your Abandoned Self
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- čas přidán 7. 02. 2023
- Lee shares his intuitive insights into the energies of 2023 and the need to reclaim those parts of ourselves that we have given away or lost to the demands of others, in this clip from a recent Energy Tune-Up broadcast created for members of The Portal, his online community.
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When Lee said: If you’re someone who has been great at making everyone around you comfortable, this is going to be a year of making yourself comfortable… I can’t even describe the wave of emotion that came up and was released. 😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Me too❤
Me too ❤🙏
And it feels like moving a boulder!!!
@@ctheo2020 YES!!!🙏🏻
Weird sync…I read your comment, right as Lee was speaking the words you are commenting on…It gave me the oddest feeling, as if I was reading his lips 🤯 (hard to describe but I also felt emotional, as you described feeling ❤)
Right on. It took me years to finally accept and love my abandoned self with compassion.
True love calls us to be present now despite any emotional dysregulation.
It feels like home these days compared to betraying myself.
Take care everyone.
We’re all in this together. ❤
I do like Lee’s acceptance and support of anything we might be going through - any confusion, anger, fear. And he just gently point us to our own self acceptance on this journey. And boy is it a journey
For a long time I felt that when I would set boundaries, I felt guilty because I wasn’t doing my empath thing. I felt that I was being selfish, and unfeeling. But you have explained very clearly what was happening. I could see you numbering on your fingers all the points I was having. It’s now time to become clear with myself. Thank you, Lee.
I was raised where no boundries existed. Was 65 and I had to google what boundries and self love even were. You reach a point when you cant unsee or unhear anymore then are gobsmacked at what you find your life has been
You are a mild and wise ancher to so many hearts in the world right now, Lee. Thank you for being visible 🙏
Wow. Moving through this intense energy this past week it has been almost unbearable!
I now reclaim my Abandoned Self.
🌻.
Thankyou Lee for your service yo humanity 🙏 ❤️
A tremendous number of people I believed I could count on have recently revealed themselves and I had to say take off! Or as I became more and more authentic they cruelly left. Well it's all alignment and authenticity isn't it. Yes. Facing abandonment tapping onto several other experiences! In fact at 68 reliving teenage " why don't I belong?'
Yes yes and yes Lee!! I love that you talked about not demonizing the other person. Universe placing people, removing people. I can't go where they are they believe where I am is evil ( their religious beliefs) but I am getting healed
This is why I follow you Lee...everything you say resonates in my soul and I know everything is exactly as it needs to be..despite the struggles with cancer, relationships, health and home. 💕💖💞🙏
Spot On! I am spending this year to work on me. I am meditating, using affirmations, deep breathing and taking better care of myself ❣️The last 2 years I've been going through anxiety like never before. Thank you Lee for all you do ❣️
I abandoned myself when I was 7 years old. This year I will be 49 years old. Realize that I have been an abandoholic. Sad. But something happened inside me in August 2021. My whole body and soul completely shut down. Couldn't go on. Getting back to myself has been the toughest journey I've ever taken. Even getting to know me now. In a way, I haven't existed. But now I exit in my own life first. Want to be available for myself. Going on a date this Saturday. With myself. Taking one day at a time and seeing where my life is going for me. The journey I've been on that got me to where I am today. Is the sickest thing I've experienced inside. Like a trip without drugs. Got to see things played out like on film from when I was a baby until now. Painful as hell. But I now follow this path. Never give up on myself.
6:31 - resonated. “Your human doesn’t know everything. It isn’t suppose to. Often our humans are playing catch-up.”
Thank you Lee! What you are saying is so exactly on point to what I’ve gone through over the past 40 years!! Its only the last 3 months that I now know the rhymes and reasons why this happened to me over and over again. You’ve no idea how heartbreaking it is to realize all of this only now! I’m sixty now and moving forward with new direction and knowledge, for my best life. I hope that other, younger people, wake up to this game here on earth to have the best possible life and not let years go by in chaos.
I am 60 also. Thanks for posting.
Its never too late, age is just a number.. 🥹 Be glad and grateful that its happening now.. It all takes time.. Stay grounded and be gentle on yourself.. take care 🤍
I oscillate between a deep understanding of the path I’ve been on and the perfection of being where I am here and now with a kind of shame and embarrassment at all the opportunities I had and never converted to growth because I didn’t really know myself.
I have always wanted to figure things out for myself, and I “struggled” with life until I started figuring out my path and talents and defense mechanisms from within. I am more at peace than ever before, and still sometimes wonder if I missed out on an easier life for 60 years. It is satisfying now like never before, and I look forward to my best life yet for the rest of my life.
I feel the same ♥️
I'm 61 and after 3 failed marriages find myself a drift with no real anchor. I've been reading, listening, meditating but it all seems pointless. To what end is all of this introspection?
It’s ownership. It’s being in awareness. Pressing pause. Stepping back to be the observer in all things playing out.
I've never felt so seen and understood as I feel watching this.
Makes so much sense personally and collectively..all boils down to ourselves being broken, putting ourselves together even better, new, free and moving on...
You are speaking to me, Lee. I am a recovered people-pleaser, indeed the 2 Enneagram... This is my year to tune into me and be who I am mean to be in this life. Like you said, it broke my back always looking out for other people's wellbeing. I know you know the feeling... Thank you, Lee. Your teaching helps me come back to me. I am great at making others comfortable. I sat for a long time with "not wanting to fix others" and discovered a way that fixing is not part of my soul work. Reframing it through the power of metaphors and poetry helped me step into my own magic. Thank you for helping me refine and rediscover this journey back to my soul. May you always be blessed with all that is yours as you always offer your truth to the world, with us all... I am deeply grateful to you!!!
Absolutely SPOT ON, have just realised how long I have abandoned myself (in the last couple of days). How freeing. THANK YOU LEE xo
So true Lee I can feel it deep within-the need to reach and reclaim as you say, "my abandoned self" and rise like a Phoenix into authentic sovereignty and self expression. Thank you for everything. I have following you for many years and love your work! ❤️
Omg this so relevant for me right now. Been doing a deep dive into old beliefs and trauma from the family line. I had a healing session last week where I reconnected with so many of my abandoned child parts..I called them home and my soul and light into my body. Lol then yesterday my lower back spasmed and I got sciatica. So relevant to how Lee Speaks about the spine. Its all good. I am giving myself permission to rest, heal and receive. I am worthy 🙏
I left my husband and broke away from almost everyone I know. I realized that so much of where I had put myself was not good for me. I try to pick up the phone and reach out sometimes but I just can't make the call. It doesn't feel right for me.
Today I saw how many times I agreed to something they said or did that was dysfunctional because I was afraid, afraid to speak up or even just walk away. I grew up with my boundaries pushed so far that I didn't know how to stand up for myself or protect myself. And in that, I accepted things that made me feel uncomfortable or used me. Then I would expect a healthy response later, how could I not have seen the healthy response I wanted was probably never going to be possible? I expected function in dysfunction and my thinking or making myself small or accepting was also a HUGE dysfunctional response.
I am reclaiming my inner child who was diminished I love myself dearly. Yes I have worked at making others comfortable at my own expense. That is changing big time!!
Thank you once again, Lee. What really resonated was knowing that it is ok to let people and projects go because they aren't going where we are going/meant to be going, and that's ok. We give them and ourselves much love in our individual journeys forward. Tinge of sadness as I acknowledge that fact and the people and projects I've let go, but am comforted as well. ❤
Thank you Lee! 🙏🏼 It’s been such a long process for me (decades) my childhood was so complex and the health issues caused by it, maybe even more so. Been working on disentangling , healing and taking all the abandoned parts back, bit by bit. It felt discouraging sometimes, but kept going no matter how exhausted I was 🙏🏼
Same. ❤️🤗❤️
I think your right .My parents did the best they could.Wild and crazy family.
Yes indeed.This year 2023 the year of number 7.Have more self care& self love to ourselves….
Sitting here on New Years Eve the 31st December 2023 just as we are about to enter 2024, I can say that everything you have said here Lee has happened to me in the last year, and at 54 I have finally found inner freedom and clarity, I have so much gratitude. Thank you for communicating all the words of wisdom. Happy New Year to eveyone and here's wishing for the manifestation of peace for all sentient beings throughout the world 🙏❤️
I am separated from my husband but we still live in the same home with our daughter. I resonate with the dynamic that Lee discusses-holding onto false hope to not face the pain and grief of loss and future changes. This pattern has persisted in my life, I wish I were more decisive in being my own best friend. But they say that awareness is the first step.
Healing love energy hugs for EVERYONE!!! 😎♥️🍀🌞⚖️🌎☮️🫶🏼🎵🔊🕺💃🏄♀️🚣♀️🌊🦈🐬♓️ Thank you Lee for this perfectly timed as always permission slip message.
This message was made for me. I so needed to receive&hear this today 🙏. It is such a joy seeing you thriving after leaving the UK. I had the honor&pleasure meeting you at the CC Mental Issue Workshop in Berlin with Sandra Heuschmann and Linda Hoppe, I think 2010 or 11. I am a great admirer of your line of work. Thank you for this sublime & beautiful message @LeeHarrisEnergy 🙏❤
Many times in my life I experienced several opportunities that I spent time and money and effort on and nothing ever stuck as a life long opportunity. What I have learned is that I had multiple experiences to master and now I am realizing how all these things are coming together in a very unique and valuable way to help others heal and come into their own as well. Yoga, bodywork, meditation, psychic attunement, holistic arts, psychology, and more all coming together in one. In the past these things weren’t realized as all being an integral aspect of each other.
I feel so out kf myself. Difficult to make new friends; family there but not there. Wanting to move but dont know where to go. So far retirement is just depressing
My younger years (only child) extended family ( grandparents, uncle) not allowing emotions to be shown. My Mom was very emotional but passed suddenly when I was 16. Life has been a journey.
I broke illusions that I call a “backstory” just recently. To my surprise I’m a high dimensional light being starseed. I was told to listen to lee, hope I’m in the right place 😇
5:38 min so true for me 3/4 of my world changed so that I can find my abandoned self
Wow Thank you. After the passing of my Dad and my Father-in-law in 2022, and having just over 4 years clean and Sober I have had the opportunity to work through childhood Trauma Bonding with my family of origin. I realize that I do not and will not be the little girl that rushes in and trys so desperately to make it all better at the expense of myself. This was very triggering in my Soulbriety, so with the help of my Sponsor and the Beautiful Angel in my 12 step program I was able to walk away from that. It was not easy however the alternative was not good. I have worked through so much of my past experiences around my childhood. I Will Always Love my Family of origin, I am here to learn that I am Loveable and Worthy of Happiness, Peace and Love. And I'm not here to make others feel (anything) I'm Powerless over People, Places and things. I am Empowered by the non-reactive Action I choose each and every day I choose to be in the Sunlight of the Spirit 🌟🌟
There is a saying in Al-anon “If it’s hysterical, many times it’s historical” speaking on reactions that aren’t aligned with our recovered/authentic self or that triggers our nervous system.
Thank you universe, Lee and the Z's for sending me this gift, it's exactly what I needed to hear. Lately I feel like I am barely holding on but I remind myself that the universe has a plan for me and I trust that. I am grateful for my insight and awareness. I am grateful for my dedication to my healing process. I am grateful 🙏🏼
AND THANK YOU LEE, THIS IS HOW I AM TRYING TO KEEP MY BALANCE IN THIS EARHQUAKE DISASTER IN TURKIYE💜🙏🏻💜
Wow. Was meant to watch this today to hear the sabotage comment. Left a relationship after 23 years. I can see now he sabotaged it because the path I am on is not for him. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This is exactly what is happening! 🙏💪 🎯
I watch it in February. I have just opened my rejection and abandonment wound in last December. I left my existent and started to work abroad, and it recquired to to do a short course on children online. I had faced with approved facts that actually I went through neglection and abuse by family and teachers. I hold it back because it didn't hit the visible line and the worst case "standards", physical with emotional abuse combination. I had inside "bleeding" all along. I am 33, this magic number brought me too to the edge to jump over my precipice.
Greatly appreciate this
😭 I needed to hear this… thank you! ❤ This road is never easy.. I can be blinded by the emotion and the chatter in the mind.
Great message! Empath going inward! Allowing yourself gets easier!
Yes to all of this and thank you 🙏 I feel it so clearly, and for the first time in my life I feel that I am able to surrender and follow the waves coming through my body. I have been an in-my-head individual all my life thanks to early training and now it feels like such a wonderful blessing to be able to hear my intuition guiding me. I am so, so very grateful 🙏
This happened to me ❤❤❤ something that I thought was sureball suddenly wasn’t. It was almost like a nightmare when all of a sudden I just saw how our values were not aligned & I just needed to admit it & keep moving forward because forcing it would have worked at my expense & I could never abandon my self or my values that way (anymore) - so yes I do believe sabotage is the universe’s way of signaling there is something better! And there was! ❤❤❤
Lee, you have described my experience of 2023 exactly. It has been a really profound thing to hear your perspective and feel myself resonate. Thank you for putting it (and yourself) out there.🙏💞
Listening for the first time on cancer new moon, and that opening line packs a punch like this nodal square to the lunation and Pluto. Deep stuff, Lee, appreciate your gift. ❤
Thank you Lee.
I now know where I stand and whilst it's sad, at least I know.
RIGHT ON LEEHARRIS. For over a month, I have been dealing with reclaiming my Self, grieving new and old issues from childhood (separation from Self, lost pieces) etc. Beyond your work... the book Complex PTSD by Pete Walker is a great place to explore the ways you lost pieces of yourself, and created a type of defense system growing up that have been running the show. Grieving is one of the key to the kingdom. RAdical Acceptance, meditation by Moojiji also assist this process to get to the Real Self. I hope you don´t mind to share this 3 source of information that have been very helpful in my journey too. THANK YOU TO BRING LIGHT AND UNDERSTAND TO ALL OF US. This was a GREAT video. Blessings
Omg!!! So needed to hear this today. Thanks Lee and the 'randomiser algorithm' that started playing this video for me. We are blessed. 😊
I cried almost listening to this... I knew this year is about me and find my strenght to step up for myself 🐚 Thank You 🤍
Lee thank you for the clarity of this message because it is right on. Healthy new family boundaries, staying present in daily self care and reclaiming my power lost in childhood as being diligently groomed hyper vigilant caretaker is over. Hooray! 🥰🤩Free at last💝🌈
Thank you. I always hear so much of my inner guidance in your teachings. 💟
All the way my story finding yourself..and emotionally wow hard but worth it
When you said when it "breaks your back and spine", i couldnt ignore it. I have a cancerous tumour in my spine, that has no treatment. Its a big deal but this is ringing true to me.. Thanks Lee 🙂🙏💜
I am going to believe that spiritually and medically there will be a treatment
Big but gentle hug my friend with lots of love. Close your eyes and envelope yourself in a beautiful etheric ball of light with soft rays coming from every chakra. Emerald green for healing or white for peace and safety. We all have an innate system. Talk to it and ask it to talk to you. I always start with ‘I can only ask ...’ and end with ‘thank you for being there and trying even when I didn’t or don’t listen.’ No need for special place or pose. It’s an old friend. Also if interested video by university of California “Nutrition and Cancer: dos and donts.” I watched for a friend. It’s comprehensive and w/a very experienced integrative oncologist incl Q&A. I don’t usually pass on so much unasked to strangers (or anyone) but I’ve had a few go thru similar. I hope you find what’s best and right for you. ✌️
Sending Healing...please check out Banerji protocol....hope it can help! 🙏💕
@@katelittlewolfwelshrosesan3630 tha nks for your support 💜
@@jmc8076 thanks for the support 💜
Thank you, Lee! I am grateful for your perspective
(So) powerful...
~ was drawn to listen to this again.
w/Love and Gratitude! 🥀🌴🐝
Lee we love you. Perfect timing as always
Yes ! Yes ! Yes !
I stretch my arms wide open to receive all of my goodness. I call upon my abandoned self. I call upon my power.This IS the year where I choose to take care of myself. So powerful when you said, “ There comes a time when an empath’s job is no longer just to loose themselves on the outside world, but instead to find themselves inside.” 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you again Lee! ♥
He's my shadow. Right on the money with my life.😮
OMG! I just had to end a 2 year relationship in a business possibility. And before this part of your video you were talking about the dynamics we were experiencing just before!!!😮
It broke my head on Monday this week, a ‘head crack’ from a fall, miraculously okay (thank you guides) but it’s my reset to slow the f*** down and rest to reset
That's definitely me.
Thank you Lee.
Lovely video, Lee! Thank you.
Excited to be here xxx thanks Lee for all you do
Lee’s reference to John Edwards interested me. I’ve been watching him on CZcams lately. Before that my parents showed up in my dreams often. Now I don’t see them. I have questions I’d like to know the answer to. Unfortunately it’s not likely he will come to Canada any time soon. Your energy updates are a regular part of my life. Thank you Lee.
This is such a timely message Lee, especially in the relations to the uncertainty. Thanks so much xXx
😊 felt so good watching you and listening to your words. Resonates on so many levels.
Thank you Lee for sharing this.
Thank you so much, Lee... You just described exactly what I have been going through. Blessings!
Wow, going to listen to this many times, really needed this Lee, much gratitude 🙏
wow the portal is so cheap, im on welfare and always assumed i couldnt afford it, $12 a month. nice one Lee! i now have 4 days diary free, its time to concentrate on me me me, forget the world, forget my family and their issues, just chill with my laptop and talk to a few friends on social media, already got food in. sorted! x
Needed to hear this today 💛🙏🏻
Sometime before my father died he said something that just now makes sense " You cant go where I am and I cant stay where you are." Feels like it was the message I would need for this time. Thanks!
Wow , I love the concept of the universe banking stuff for us. Love that xXx
You are amazing
Lee my heart felt gratitude to you for this.
As soon as you spoke about this, a situation with my son came to me. I started to cry …. We have always been close , but he walked away 2 years ago , I cannot begin to express the absolute trauma I felt. This was my biggest fear, I have done alot of inner and outer work on myself. I totally understand the journey we are both meant to take . When you said ‘clarity’ OMGOSH… that came in like a hurricane. I absolutely can see everything now. Thank you with all my heart , thank you 💗💗💗
I can not express my gratitude enough für your throw words. Joining Rebirth this year for the first time really made me ready to take in the messages and take over my responsibility in a loving and caring way (including für myself) being so challenged by accopmaingning my adult son suffering psychotic stages which is so extremely hard for both of us
Yes you are so right.
This is so incredibly spot on
Thank you, Lee. Always so helpful. Much love. ❤
Love everything you say & how you say it! Keep it up. Thank you!
I so much enjoyed and felt held by hearing your message. Yes, the main question for this year is : what do I need right now in order to feel well? To feel at peace with myself? And respect and honor the other 😊 thank you! It helped me get clarity and come closer to myself ❤️
Brilliant
Thank you so much. Your kind and authentic talk helped me to go within and be in God's presence, the Christ lights, and let the Holy Spirit gently embrace my heart. In quietness and awareness, I decided to let go of my old habits.
Blessings 🙌
This is so utterly helpful! Thank you, Lee
I love when you release these snippets from your work. I remember listing to this during Rebirth and it popped out at me. Listening to it again is like a church ringing … reminding me this is something SIGNIFICANT for ME.
Thank you Lee. Much gratitude for you and The Zs 🌺
Wow. Completely spot on
Hello lee!
Ho waow!!waow!!!
Je n ai pas d autres mots!!!
Nous sommes sur la même ligne de temps!!!
Un tout lumineux merci lee!!!
Amour et lumière 💜
Thank you. I am releasing a relationship I gained great clarity in. My partner sabotaged it; attributing my courage and final clarity concerning something to trauma when it was me going against my trauma allowance by saying "no" to something - finally 🎉 So, ah ha: he's not going in the same direction. What is stored up for me will honor and adore that very thing about me. I believe that.
Thank you so much for the work you’re doing ❤
It’s the most helpful energy for me right now🙏
Wow
This come on right time
Thank you very much 🙏 Lee
Thank you for this Lee! This message is so on point for me right now. I just got dumped in a very immature and insensitive way… I thought that I’ve found finally someone with whom it clicks…. It hurts so much, but with this message, I understand better what’s happening for me and what I need to welcome and work on. Thanks a million ✨
Absolutely right on,thank you
This is so spot on! Thank you so much!!! 💕🙏🥰❤️
❤ exactly what I needed to hear ❤ and your message was my first this morning and it's spot on for me❤
Wow! I wish I had this information in 2017! Lol. That's the year that I gave up being a massage therapist and energy healer after doing it for 12+ years and moved two states away to a state where I didn't know anyone. This also involved leaving all my friends and family. Everyone thought I had gone crazy (including myself but I KNEW beyond a shadow of a doubt that I just couldn't stay anymore. Thank you Lee for finally giving me clarity on this. I felt pretty guilty leaving everyone behind like that. Life has had its ups and downs and it's dramatically different now, but much better
Thanks for sharing Lee! Great work, it helps a lot!