Married couple or not, you can still report him for raping you. Omg. This lady makes my blood boil! So pathetic! Ruam tiag tiag. It's not your faith or bad luck. It's the bad choices you made with your husband. Smdh
It’s not because of bad luck. It’s just your life choices you made. You wanted your neej tsa to divorce you but this is America…you don’t need anyone’s permission to divorce from your husband. You chose to stay and take care of your in laws.. you chose to stay with your husband even though he brought home another wife. You chose to stay when he gave you a disease. It was ALL YOU. YOU made those choices. Because you were afraid of being alone. But here in America, all you need is yourself and your kids.
Oh man! U are stronger than u give yourself credit for. I can’t even start to imagine what you went through but you loved so hard and you’re giving your grandchildren hope their mother can’t even give them. May your good deeds come back to you, good luck n thanks for sharing your story. ❤
To the lady in this story. Your life is not predetermined. You had many chances to make decisions that would have made a difference in your life, but somehow you let others make those decisions for you. You have only yourself to blame for how your life turned out.
Yes I totally agree! This is America! Hmong or not she should have left yet she stayed and surmise herself to his cruelty. He got karma and she should have left.
Tus niam tais no mas siab zoo thiab siab ruam kawg nkaus. Nrog tus siab rau koj lub neeg mog. Ur growing as an orphan has a soft spot for humanity. May God continue to bless you with longevity and healthy life until u age to 120 yrs old.
Owner of the story life: why do you keep feeling sorry ???? You should be thankful you have been bless with all these kids especially when you are alone. You should feel strong and be proud of yourself for your accomplishments and strengths! You are so strong for going through this life raising the son that the mother didn’t want to raised and afterwards raising your adopted son’s children. Be proud of yourself and stop feeling sorry. You’re a very strong women. Be grateful❤❤❤
To the aunty of this story… bless your heart! These babies are meant to be yours! To the mother of these 4 children.. how could you leave your children? Their dad passed but there’s still you. Please don’t have anymore with your new husband incase he died too than more orphans but not orphans.
Why do I find it hard to believe this lady? Feeling sorry for yourself, playing the victim, and crying a river doesn't change your outlook or and destiny....only actions will change all of that. You put yourself in those situations, and that's the result you get. Only sad part is, if you've left that loser and his family, you would have more time to spend with your son. Life is indeed too short and precious, you just wasted most of it on nonsense stuff.
So sad 😢please love yourself and at least in the end you have your grandchildren. Praying God will make your life better and turn things around for you. Thanks for sharing sister ❤
God will always love her and guide her through all the hard times, but she needs to love herself first and if she doesn’t love herself then there is nothing no one can do to help her through.
Twb mus nyob rau Ameka teb lawm los Cas tseem muaj ib cov poj niam ua ruam npaum li no thiab o hmoob aw . Tos koj raug raug teeb meem los Vim koj txoj kev ruam ..xwb o me viv ncau aws .
Koj tus nyab los nqhis txiv neej tshaj nws cov menyuam lawm thiab ces tsis paub hais li lawm….thov tswv ntuj pov hwm nej cov me niam tub ntsuag os mog….
Niam tais awj kob nyob li cas lawm os cas mloog kojj zaj dab ng nob é yuav tu siab thia hlub kojj uab luaj kojj lub siab zoo dhau lawm os tiam sis kojj ruam ruam es law thiaj tsim tsim kojj uab luaj thia 😢😢🎉🎉
I completely hurt for you. I understand you were frighten and to all the people who blames her, she was hopeless. I’m a woman who was married at 14, hopeless as I am I fought for my life yet, the Hmong clan kept forcing me to go back. Young and hopeless. Now my son is getting married and because I’m a single parent they’re still making it hard because, as a Hmong woman, we have no voice. I understand you’ve been fighting for your life. May you ending be bright and happy. God Bless you!
Auntie its a good ending so dont be sad. You would be more sad if your daughter in law took the kids and you never saw them again. They will love you unconditionally like your adopted son. Prayers to you.
Niam tai koj txhob quaj quaj tsam koj tsi xis neej es ho tsi muaj Lee twg hlub koj thiab koj pab me nyuam ntsuag os mog koj yuav tsum tswj sia ntsee nyob nrog koj cov me nyuam ko es koj thiaj yuav ua neej nrog lawv nyob ntev os.hlub koj tu kheej es koj thiaj hlub tau koj cov me nyuam ntsuag.
Tus me niam tais aw cas Koj lub neej yuav txom nyem Siab ntsws li ko hais tiag li os. I can’t even imagine li ko os niam tais aw. Koj ma keej tshaj plaws li os. Vam tias Koj cov xeeb ntxwv yuav hlub Koj rau ntu laus nawb mog
Me sister awm cas koj lub siab yuav mus zoo zoo txog kiag qhov kuv pab hlub hlub koj thiab tu siab heev nrog koj os thov kom koj tau ntsib txog kev nkaj siab os mog❤️❤️❤️xuj xuj rau lub neej tom ntej no os mog.
Tsi paub yuav hai li cas li o niam tais mloog kj zaj neej neeg ces pab hlub kj kawg tab si pab meem txom thb npau taws rau kj thb tia cas hmoob me kas tseem tshuav tus ruam li koj thb uj......
You are a blessing for these kids. Don't feel sorry for your life. You have been doing everything you can. Heaven will see you and bless you in the future.
I have nothing good to say about this person. Some people are just as wise as they are in their story. So don’t feel sorry, mad, angry for her hardships. Never take others responsibilities. Never let others to make decisions for you.
I am so proud of you for being strong and love your adoptive son when his parents didn’t. You are his true mother. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are not. Sorry that you weren’t strong enough to leave your dead head husband to find yourself love and happiness within you. I know you will be a good grandma to your grandkids. It is not easy, but you will be ok. God bless you ❤
After listening to so many Hmong neej neeg, I cannot believe how many women don't want their children or don't take their children with them after a divorce, death of spouse, etc. As a mother, I just don't understand how you can leave your children behind.
Ua cas zaj dab neeg nos, kuv Mloog mas cas tus niam tsev nos zoo li tseem nyob plog teb, tsi tsim koj nyob teb chaws nos Kia li .koj yuav muaj lub tswv yim pab tau koj tus kheej thiab cas koj cia tus txiv Neej ua phem ntau koj tas koj tseem cia nws muaj kab mob los tsau koj thiab zoo li koj tsi paub tsis siab, koj yuav tau hlub koj tus nkeej thiab tus niam hluas aw
In this country, no neejtsa can make you marry someone you don't want to. You still want him that's why you agreed to marry him again. Don't blame anyone but yourself for your decision.
Cas koj yuav piav tau txaus meem txom ua luaj li...cuag li koj tsis muaj qhov ncauj li na...txoj dia yog koj li ..Cas pheej ua neej li txiv yawg khuam koj cia na..koj tsis muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv koj tus kheej li ces kawg mag lub phem txog hnub koj tuag lu xwb ma poj hmoob aw
Ab me viv ncaus aw koj tus siab rau qhov koj cov me nyuam. Hos kuv ces tu siab rau kuv lub neej tiam no thiab kuv kuj thov ntuj ib yam li koj thiab os nawj. Thov kom koj ntsib kev kaj siab musog..
She need to love yourself more. For her to keep staying this abusive life because she put herself so low cause she kept feeling sad for herself cause she a orphanages. Even tho in America she grown but she can't make her own decisions for her life. She want to be the better person and let everyone abused her just so people say she the nice one. Omg she had 4 kids to loved her but she want to be good in front of everyone. Why.....
Sister, you have so many choices but you have doubts and low self estimates upon yourself. Even though you have divorced your husband the first time but you let your relatives make your decision for you. You have to be stronger and stand up to all those people and your husband!!! Sister, don't be sad and cry no more, but just be thankful that you have your children and grandchildren. Give your life and love to them and be happy.
Ua cas ua ib tus poj niam hmoob cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os hmoob aw. Ua neeg nyob yuav ntsum hlub yus tus kheej thiab os cas yuav cia luag ua ua phem rua yus li os poj hmoob ruam aw.
This story angered me. This lady did not do anything to help herself! If I didn’t know any better, I’d say she liked it.
My same thinking. It's almost as if she chooses to be in this miserable life. Her loser husband took full advantage of it.....Sadly
Omg seriously!! Calling the cops, I do not effin care. Should’ve never allowed him back into her life!
I think she likes this game. 😂😂😂
I know right. 3/4 of her story was all about her...😢
Married couple or not, you can still report him for raping you. Omg. This lady makes my blood boil! So pathetic! Ruam tiag tiag. It's not your faith or bad luck. It's the bad choices you made with your husband. Smdh
It’s not because of bad luck. It’s just your life choices you made. You wanted your neej tsa to divorce you but this is America…you don’t need anyone’s permission to divorce from your husband. You chose to stay and take care of your in laws.. you chose to stay with your husband even though he brought home another wife. You chose to stay when he gave you a disease. It was ALL YOU. YOU made those choices. Because you were afraid of being alone. But here in America, all you need is yourself and your kids.
It’s easier to blame everything on your bad fortune rather than admit to bad decisions that lead to those bad results.
Tus neeg Lub siab dawb tiag tiag thiaj Hlub tau lwm tus li mi nyuam
Oh man! U are stronger than u give yourself credit for. I can’t even start to imagine what you went through but you loved so hard and you’re giving your grandchildren hope their mother can’t even give them. May your good deeds come back to you, good luck n thanks for sharing your story. ❤
To the lady in this story. Your life is not predetermined. You had many chances to make decisions that would have made a difference in your life, but somehow you let others make those decisions for you. You have only yourself to blame for how your life turned out.
You got to understand that she didn't have the will or tsi siab phem li peb ib txhia xav. Her heart is soft.
It's easy to say when you have no backers.
Niam tais aws koj lub siab zoo2 os koj yeej yuav tau txais txoj kev zoo xwb os mog
Lady you deserve these issues. You have choices and pathway to choose yet you choose to stay
Ah ya... tsi pom qab hais cov ruam no li lawm os
Sigh….. 33:04 this old lady made my blood boiling 🩸 sounds like it’s all your fault not to leave him.
Yes I totally agree! This is America! Hmong or not she should have left yet she stayed and surmise herself to his cruelty. He got karma and she should have left.
It doesn’t matter if you’re married. If he forces and threaten you, it’s still considered rape.
Tus mi niam tsev aw koj txom txom nyem es mus ntseeg vajtswv os mog es cov vajtswv thiaj li hlub thiab cov ntseeg thiaj pab koj nawb
Amen!😢
Sim neej no koj thiaj txawj ruam🥲🥲🙄
Uatsaug rau koj lub Siab zoo os me sister. Hlub koj mog
Tus niam tais no mas siab zoo thiab siab ruam kawg nkaus. Nrog tus siab rau koj lub neeg mog. Ur growing as an orphan has a soft spot for humanity. May God continue to bless you with longevity and healthy life until u age to 120 yrs old.
I agree with you. Rog koj tu siab os tus me niam tais.
Owner of the story life: why do you keep feeling sorry ???? You should be thankful you have been bless with all these kids especially when you are alone. You should feel strong and be proud of yourself for your accomplishments and strengths! You are so strong for going through this life raising the son that the mother didn’t want to raised and afterwards raising your adopted son’s children. Be proud of yourself and stop feeling sorry. You’re a very strong women. Be grateful❤❤❤
Look1.😊 area😊
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Easier said then done
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To the aunty of this story… bless your heart! These babies are meant to be yours! To the mother of these 4 children.. how could you leave your children? Their dad passed but there’s still you. Please don’t have anymore with your new husband incase he died too than more orphans but not orphans.
Zoo siab rau koj cov Menyuam thiab xeeb ntxwv os mog. Saib koj cov xeeb ntxwv tsis muaj niam tsis musj txiv nrog hlub es ua rau koj nco txog koj lub neej ntsuag. Koj yog ib leej niam zoo thiab siab loj es tus tsis yog koj yug los koj muaj lub siab hlub. May God bless your heart.
Tus pog no cas yuav nkim mov ua luaj li lauj
Txhob hais hais ntuj. Ntuj twb oab koj los koj tsis pab koj. Ntuj dhuav cov neeg ruam tsis txhawj pab nws tus kheej.
Yog kg kuv mas ntsub cov niag poj niam ruam2 le no tshaj le os
God can't help you if you make bad decisions over and over.
Why do I find it hard to believe this lady? Feeling sorry for yourself, playing the victim, and crying a river doesn't change your outlook or and destiny....only actions will change all of that. You put yourself in those situations, and that's the result you get. Only sad part is, if you've left that loser and his family, you would have more time to spend with your son. Life is indeed too short and precious, you just wasted most of it on nonsense stuff.
So sad 😢please love yourself and at least in the end you have your grandchildren. Praying God will make your life better and turn things around for you. Thanks for sharing sister ❤
God will always love her and guide her through all the hard times, but she needs to love herself first and if she doesn’t love herself then there is nothing no one can do to help her through.
You should feel blessed to have those kids bc you were once like that. That’s why God gave them to you bc He knows you’re capable to love them.
koj niam aw.koj cov xeeb ntxwv yuav hlub koj os.txhob tu siab cov me nyuam kom yuav loj hlob ib tug twg. lawv yuav hlub koj os mog😢😢😢😢😢
You are rich in love. Because you have a big heart, God will bless you.
Twb mus nyob rau Ameka teb lawm los
Cas tseem muaj ib cov poj niam ua ruam npaum li no thiab o hmoob aw .
Tos koj raug raug teeb meem los Vim koj txoj kev ruam ..xwb o me viv ncau aws .
Koj tus nyab los nqhis txiv neej tshaj nws cov menyuam lawm thiab ces tsis paub hais li lawm….thov tswv ntuj pov hwm nej cov me niam tub ntsuag os mog….
Niam tais awj kob nyob li cas lawm os cas mloog kojj zaj dab ng nob é yuav tu siab thia hlub kojj uab luaj kojj lub siab zoo dhau lawm os tiam sis kojj ruam ruam es law thiaj tsim tsim kojj uab luaj thia 😢😢🎉🎉
You chose this life - you had plenty of opportunities to fix your mistakes but you consistently continued to go down the rabbit hole.
Sadly, it’s easier to keep going down the hole than climb out of it
It's easy to think life is sad. But you gotta work hard to push yourself.
Koj txoj kev txom nyem tsis tim leej twg tim koj ruam koj tus txiv thiaj tsim tas los tsim duas
I completely hurt for you. I understand you were frighten and to all the people who blames her, she was hopeless.
I’m a woman who was married at 14, hopeless as I am I fought for my life yet, the Hmong clan kept forcing me to go back. Young and hopeless. Now my son is getting married and because I’m a single parent they’re still making it hard because, as a Hmong woman, we have no voice.
I understand you’ve been fighting for your life. May you ending be bright and happy. God Bless you!
Niam tais aw…coj koj menyuam nej mus ntseeg Vaj Tswv os mog.
Niam tais, txhob tu siab os mog. Yus yog tus neeg zoo lawm yus yuav zoo rau thaum laus. Tus neeg phem mas thaum hluas nws tau zoo tab sis nws yuav tsis zoo rau yav laus. Koj yog ib tug neeg siab zoo tshaj es koj lees tu koj niag niam hluas tus menyuam os.
Txawm koj tsis pom koob hmoov dawb vog ntawm koj xub ntiag los koob hmoov yeej npaj mlua mias tos koj lawm mog.
Auntie its a good ending so dont be sad. You would be more sad if your daughter in law took the kids and you never saw them again. They will love you unconditionally like your adopted son. Prayers to you.
Haib kawgggg thiab las❤
Niam tai koj txhob quaj quaj tsam koj tsi xis neej es ho tsi muaj Lee twg hlub koj thiab koj pab me nyuam ntsuag os mog koj yuav tsum tswj sia ntsee nyob nrog koj cov me nyuam ko es koj thiaj yuav ua neej nrog lawv nyob ntev os.hlub koj tu kheej es koj thiaj hlub tau koj cov me nyuam ntsuag.
Tus me niam tais aw cas Koj lub neej yuav txom nyem Siab ntsws li ko hais tiag li os. I can’t even imagine li ko os niam tais aw. Koj ma keej tshaj plaws li os. Vam tias Koj cov xeeb ntxwv yuav hlub Koj rau ntu laus nawb mog
Sister you will be bless soon.
Yeah...I'm not going to waste my time listening to this story.
Tu siab kawg😢
I don’t know why this woman still with this man
Me sister awm cas koj lub siab yuav mus zoo zoo txog kiag qhov kuv pab hlub hlub koj thiab tu siab heev nrog koj os thov kom koj tau ntsib txog kev nkaj siab os mog❤️❤️❤️xuj xuj rau lub neej tom ntej no os mog.
Thov koj cov me xeeb ntxwv koj zoo thiab hlub koj nawb mog
Tsi paub yuav hai li cas li o niam tais mloog kj zaj neej neeg ces pab hlub kj kawg tab si pab meem txom thb npau taws rau kj thb tia cas hmoob me kas tseem tshuav tus ruam li koj thb uj......
Tus mi niam tsev, koj thiaj tsim nyog tau lub npe "niam" tiag. Txawm yuav nyuaj npaum cas los koj yuav hlub nyuav nyiaj ntxeem kom pab tau koj tuskheej thiab cov me xeeb ntxwv.. thov qhuas, nrog koj hlub kawg mog. Cia siab ib hnub tom ntej lawv loj tuaj lawv yuav hlub koj pauj rov qab mog.. tus neeg zoo yeej yuav tau txoj hmoo zoo xwb mog... ua tsaug rau koj txoj kev hlub nawd..
Cuag txiv neej tag lm thb lau ntuj aw
You are a blessing for these kids. Don't feel sorry for your life. You have been doing everything you can. Heaven will see you and bless you in the future.
Tus niam tais nrog hlub koj os. Los ntseeg Vajtswv koj thiaj li tau txoj kev hlub tseeb. Ua koj tsaug koj hlub cov menyuam ntsuag, thov Vajtswv foom khoom hmoov rau koj.
I have nothing good to say about this person. Some people are just as wise as they are in their story. So don’t feel sorry, mad, angry for her hardships.
Never take others responsibilities. Never let others to make decisions for you.
Hlub koj ua luaj os tu niam tais aws
Sad story sis 😂😂😂😂
I am so proud of you for being strong and love your adoptive son when his parents didn’t. You are his true mother. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are not. Sorry that you weren’t strong enough to leave your dead head husband to find yourself love and happiness within you. I know you will be a good grandma to your grandkids. It is not easy, but you will be ok. God bless you ❤
After listening to so many Hmong neej neeg, I cannot believe how many women don't want their children or don't take their children with them after a divorce, death of spouse, etc. As a mother, I just don't understand how you can leave your children behind.
Ua cas zaj dab neeg nos, kuv Mloog mas cas tus niam tsev nos zoo li tseem nyob plog teb, tsi tsim koj nyob teb chaws nos Kia li .koj yuav muaj lub tswv yim pab tau koj tus kheej thiab cas koj cia tus txiv Neej ua phem ntau koj tas koj tseem cia nws muaj kab mob los tsau koj thiab zoo li koj tsi paub tsis siab, koj yuav tau hlub koj tus nkeej thiab tus niam hluas aw
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Tsis paub hais lawm. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os 😊
Txhob tu siab os koj xav tias twb yog muaj koj es koj 4 tug xeeb ntxwv thiaj tau chaw nyob os mog.
Cas zoo li kuv mloog koj cov neej neeg zoo li koj pheej nyiam nyiam repeat koj cov lus ne.
Koj thaj duab no koj yuag kawg
Omg this story makes my blood boiling😡 and so heart breaking💔💔💔
Twb mag tsawg zaus lawm los yeej tsis ntse li cas yuav muab sau txoj kev ruam tag nrho rau koj li lau
First person to click this story. Thanks for sharing
Cas koj yuav ua siab zoo luaj es tjaum ua rau cas tsis muab nws kaws ua es nws thiaj ua siab phem rau ntag mas tus m viv ncaus aw!!
Cas zaj dab neeg no es kuv mloog tag es yuav Tus siab ua luaj li os 😢😢😢😢😢
Koj txoj neej neeg tu siab heev lo os tus me sister ❤
You are a strong woman and have went through so much. Be proud of yourself to come this far in life.
Poj niam ruav ces yuam qhuav haum xwb os
In this country, no neejtsa can make you marry someone you don't want to. You still want him that's why you agreed to marry him again. Don't blame anyone but yourself for your decision.
Cas koj yuav piav tau txaus meem txom ua luaj li...cuag li koj tsis muaj qhov ncauj li na...txoj dia yog koj li ..Cas pheej ua neej li txiv yawg khuam koj cia na..koj tsis muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv koj tus kheej li ces kawg mag lub phem txog hnub koj tuag lu xwb ma poj hmoob aw
Koj txomnyem vim koj twb tsis hlub koj. Koj pheej tiv ua neej nrog cov neeg phem. Thov kom koj tau txais qhov zoo Tom ntej no mog.
Ab me viv ncaus aw koj tus siab rau qhov koj cov me nyuam. Hos kuv ces tu siab rau kuv lub neej tiam no thiab kuv kuj thov ntuj ib yam li koj thiab os nawj. Thov kom koj ntsib kev kaj siab musog..
Kj yog neeg ruam dhau li lawm mloog tau meem txom tiag2
She need to love yourself more. For her to keep staying this abusive life because she put herself so low cause she kept feeling sad for herself cause she a orphanages. Even tho in America she grown but she can't make her own decisions for her life. She want to be the better person and let everyone abused her just so people say she the nice one. Omg she had 4 kids to loved her but she want to be good in front of everyone. Why.....
This was the most frustrating story I’ve listened to, she must have done horrible things in the previous life to be punished this lifetime
She can’t blame anyone but herself.
Ruam li koj ce cia tu txiv muab tsim kom tuag kiag Ma txiv neej tag tu koj lawm ce ua siab tuag o niag
pog ruam
Koj lau lo koj xav sib ua thiab koj thiaj mob mo pog laus vwm
Zaj no kuv cia li ntxub tus poj niam hmoob no xyov cas ruam los yog siab zoo ntshe yog ruam xwb
This is an unbelievable story. Not in hmong Community
Ua lub siab loj,thov kom Tswv Ntuj nrog koj nyob os
Koj siab dawb tab sis ho ruam2 thiab es koj pheej cia luag tsim koj tas los tsim dua, tej zaum yog koj txoj hmoo thiab
Tsi txhob tu siab tus me niam tsev aw sawv dsws yeej txom nyem ib yam os cia muab liam rau txoj hmoo os mog
Yim ploog yim ntxub tu pog ruam no xwb os ntsaws tu txiv koj dhau cia koj mob ka ceev tuag Ma ruam aw
What very sad story n tu siab heev..ua kuv cry whole story to end.
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Sister, you have so many choices but you have doubts and low self estimates upon yourself. Even though you have divorced your husband the first time but you let your relatives make your decision for you. You have to be stronger and stand up to all those people and your husband!!! Sister, don't be sad and cry no more, but just be thankful that you have your children and grandchildren. Give your life and love to them and be happy.
Es koj niag niamhlus ces twb tsis mob nws ob ceg li es thiaj tseem hais li rau koj os es pab koj hlub2 thiab os mog .
Ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm lau!!
Mloog tau mob hlwb dhau lawm lau kj zaj neejj neeg no vim kj ruam dhau lawm os me niam lau aw
Ruam tiag tshaj poj niam hmoob
Ua cas ua ib tus poj niam hmoob cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os hmoob aw. Ua neeg nyob yuav ntsum hlub yus tus kheej thiab os cas yuav cia luag ua ua phem rua yus li os poj hmoob ruam aw.
Poj no ruam thiab meeg txom kuv kawg
Hmoob make tu zoo zoo kawg tu phem kawg thiab
Hmoob siab me me hlub tsis tau menyuam ntsuag lis.Hmoob mas phem tshaj.
Good thing you're well health wise.
Tu siab dab g na Yu nro Yu ruam 😂
Moob txuj kev ntseeg, Moob tug dlaab quas nuav limham hab phem ua luaj es ua caag Moob ho yuav ntseeg heev ua luaj?
I really don’t feel sorry for hmoob women like this one.
I think they like the drama.
It excites them.
ຈັງແມ່ນໂງ່
mloog mam npau ntawv dhau lawm o poj hmoob ruam aw cas kj yuav txawj ruam ua luaj txiv neej ntiaj teb tuag tag lawm lo
Ruam dhau lawm os