LGB Without The T: Messy Divorce Incoming

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  • čas přidán 22. 07. 2023
  • There's trouble in paradise for the LGBTQ community! Gays and lesbians are wanting a DIVORCE from trans and queer people and want them REMOVED from the acronym. Let's talk.
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  • @cannabisenthusiast0
    @cannabisenthusiast0 Před 10 měsíci +1981

    As a lesbian, it rly bugs me how people get so pressed about even accidentally misgendering them when people in 3rd world countries are getting killed for being gay. The TQ+ has made it a fight for privilege not acceptance

    • @jules2879
      @jules2879 Před 7 měsíci

      ur a lesbian, not a trans person. trans people also hav a high risk of being hate crimed here and trans women especially the black and brown women are the reason we even hav the recognition we hav today

    • @vitaliasb
      @vitaliasb Před 6 měsíci +148

      Listening about American lgbtqa+++++++ community struggles as a russian lesbian who is now considered an extremist in my country just based on my sexuality is a lot of fun actually

    • @amandavieira2543
      @amandavieira2543 Před 6 měsíci

      It's funny you saying about gay dying in 3 world countryes, and forgeting that statistics shows that violence and discrimination is worse for trans than for gays in those countryes.

    • @KevinKamto
      @KevinKamto Před 6 měsíci +38

      ayoo... WHAT is goin on with your name 😂?

    • @enmodeavion8871
      @enmodeavion8871 Před 6 měsíci +48

      As an african, I can't stop thinking that people have gone coco in USA anytime I watch woke videos. What is going on ? Tout part en vrille ma foi 😩 !

  • @Pandamonium626
    @Pandamonium626 Před 11 měsíci +7250

    The TQ+ aren't fighting for rights, they're fighting for privileges.

    • @obsidianjane4413
      @obsidianjane4413 Před 11 měsíci +214

      The privilege to exist?

    • @ressesdave2250
      @ressesdave2250 Před 11 měsíci +164

      It's a privilege to get Healthcare?

    • @canton1694
      @canton1694 Před 11 měsíci +479

      @@ressesdave2250I mean yes? Healthcare cannot be a right because it requires someone else to provide it, and you can’t force someone else to provide you with something without providing something in return, it’s a service.

    • @treechada8196
      @treechada8196 Před 11 měsíci +40

      But blaire herself is trans

    • @ressesdave2250
      @ressesdave2250 Před 11 měsíci +45

      @@canton1694 yes but privilege in this context indicates something that cis people do not have. Which they are not at risk of not getting health care

  • @Anton_the_Vampire
    @Anton_the_Vampire Před 3 měsíci +394

    I'm an Elder Gay man, & I remember when our pronouns were "please don't Q-bash us!" We simply wanted to live life, love who we were attracted to, be recognised as next of kin, (a big problem in the 80s) & otherwise be left alone. We didn't care about 3rd person pronouns & controlling speech. We just wanted to be safe. How on earth have we got to where we are now?

    • @chesterlestrange7725
      @chesterlestrange7725 Před 2 měsíci +29

      Your second last sentence about being safe is a big point. They change the meaning of so many words. They will say not allowing your speech to be compelled is violence and so makes them unsafe. All kinds of marxist groups are doing it.

    • @roytran1514
      @roytran1514 Před měsícem +11

      Shit is wild lol as a straight man in SF. My brother is gay and it hard for him to come out to me. It was a moment because acceptance was so rare. Y’all went from wanting rights and forgetting what’s right lol.

    • @Anton_the_Vampire
      @Anton_the_Vampire Před měsícem +4

      @roytran1514 "Y'all....." no, not all of us.

    • @tomtom2719
      @tomtom2719 Před měsícem

      You know Mr. T chose that name because it guarantees that you will call him a respectful term. That was during my lifetime. Not too much of a stretch to assume that Trans people would like to be addressed with respectful terms as well.

    • @Anton_the_Vampire
      @Anton_the_Vampire Před měsícem +5

      @tomtom2719 Mr. T was a proper noun. If someone wants to be called Nebuchadnezzar, I'll oblige. What i won't do is call a man a woman, vice versa, or play along with something in-between.

  • @NunyaBizness2.0
    @NunyaBizness2.0 Před 29 dny +69

    10 months later and they’ve added more colors to flag and letters/numbers to the name.
    The flag is hideous. Absolutely hideous.

    • @mikewaterfield3599
      @mikewaterfield3599 Před 4 dny +1

      Which BTW is total ignorance of Harvey Milk’s original pride flag and what it represented.

  • @guavanectarforever
    @guavanectarforever Před 11 měsíci +3611

    The tomboy thing is a little sad for me. I was a tomboy in the 90s, swapping out my dresses for Levi jeans to climb trees and holler with the boys. My mom told me I wasn't a can of soup, so I didn't need a label. Even in the 00's, my peers would suggest I was a lesbian or whatever because I wasn't a "traditional girl" and was just living my best life as a teen, having fun. And I turned out to be a straight woman. Like, it's kind of sad that there are some young girls who aren't being able to express "masculinity" without being segmented into a box. It just comes off as sexist, in a way, too.

    • @CLangley-yl1fb
      @CLangley-yl1fb Před 11 měsíci +378

      Ironically, they've swung so far, they've become misogynists. "If you show masculine traits, you must be a man at heart!" nah, fam, it's just called having a 3d personality

    • @maddyhoverter
      @maddyhoverter Před 11 měsíci +180

      I grew up being a tomboy just wearing boys clothes and I still lean towards a more masculine look and I’m glad that I was never told I was trans for doing so but now I’m afraid for these little girls that want to dress masculine but are being told they have to transition to a boy now

    • @earthvariety
      @earthvariety Před 11 měsíci +116

      When I was in middle school, I actually got mad at my parents for not letting me be a boy. I wore baggy sweatpants, even tried to make my voice lower, and hung out with my boy cousins and brothers' friends. I thought of myself as a boy. I grew out of it in high school and after going through puberty. I'm now a mostly feminine looking straight woman in my 30s who still enjoys masculine things like not doing my nails, fishing, video games, etc. I shudder to think where I might be if I was told I could transition by the adults in my life at that time. I like where I'm at now and who I am. Even more so, I shudder at the thought of being taken away from my parents because they didn't agree with me at that time like some people are pushing for now.

    • @user-mg7sm6pt7z
      @user-mg7sm6pt7z Před 11 měsíci +43

      ​@maddyhoverter1670 Was a tomboy 20-30 years ago and had a lot of boy hobbies like fishing and video gaming (this was considered a boy thing for a long time). Today I would probably been told I'm trans for it.

    • @Nurseratchet101
      @Nurseratchet101 Před 11 měsíci +40

      Hats off to the mothers like yours. And to you for not hopping on that bus. I get it. I was a teen in the 90s. Freedom of expression is being obliterated and forced to conform to something. The big picture is of something so sinister none of us will be able to say we seen it coming. Anyway, I'm here for your comment all day..🙂

  • @AmericanPatriot-dn7iy
    @AmericanPatriot-dn7iy Před 11 měsíci +8305

    The obsession with identities is ridiculous as well. I can't crossdress without half a dozen people asking me my pronouns and recommending me hrt. This isn't complicated. I'm just a gay dude lol. Like Blaire said, bring back the tomboys and femboys

    • @peacockcrowe2718
      @peacockcrowe2718 Před 11 měsíci +535

      I’m sorry you have to deal with that. Apparently people have forgotten that fashion styles are a thing 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @jayrose4748
      @jayrose4748 Před 11 měsíci +108

      Trans has nothing to do with Femboys though

    • @alexbennet4195
      @alexbennet4195 Před 11 měsíci +289

      @@jayrose4748Wdym? Rn a lot of “progressives” seem to prefer to assume or label a male wearing stereotypically feminine clothing as “trans” or “genderfluid” etc, as if someone’s clothing preferences make them less of a man. Do you… not believe that’s the case?

    • @ZionistGundam
      @ZionistGundam Před 11 měsíci +172

      You do you! Don’t listen to them. Boys can wear a dress without being trans. That’s how it was at the start.

    • @ahomeforallanimals
      @ahomeforallanimals Před 11 měsíci +210

      Yes PLEASE. Ive always been a tom boy but im straight. Wear whatever clothes you want. I like jeans and flannel and its from the mens department bcz its better made. I tie up the bottom of the shirt and its cute. Just bcz i can build things and change a tire doesnt make me a lesbian it just makes me useful. I can be sensitive like a woman and tough like a man, but i think its sexist to say certain emotions can only belong to one group. Women can punch you in the face and men can give you a hug.

  • @seventhangel222
    @seventhangel222 Před 7 měsíci +260

    I’m a bisexual woman and I completely agree- I wanna live my life, work on my art, play my video games that I grew up with, work my job, go on romantic dates with my boyfriend, make my apartment all cute, etc. There’s no room for getting upset who doesn’t like me over my sexuality. I’m not looking for more validation because I found that for myself, by myself.

  • @lanewhittington
    @lanewhittington Před 2 měsíci +111

    "Wifi password community"😂😂 I love it and I love that she's talking about being oneself rather than grouping and speaking on other's behalf. Good on you, Blair 👌

  • @StyleSpiller
    @StyleSpiller Před 11 měsíci +2815

    In highschool, I feel it was super important to be who you are. Be gay. Be lesbian. Be androgynous. Be whatever and no labels if you want. Now everyone wants 200 labels and fit into a specific box. It's just so backwards to how I grew up in the 90s.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 Před 11 měsíci +270

      its so wild. our generarion fought so hard to be released from the boxes, and now theyre fighting tooth and nail to make the boxes as small as possible 🤦‍♀️

    • @wolfumz
      @wolfumz Před 11 měsíci +54

      The labels are just meant to be a shorthand to talk about yourself. We define the labels, The labels are not supposed to define us.
      I'd say the all the work young people did in the 90s is bearing fruit. Blair's audience is right learning and conservative leaning. Never in a million years would I think a center right conversation would be saying, "what's wrong with femme boys? What's wrong with being a tomboy? So what if a man likes to dress like a woman? These are all totally fine and cool."
      To be sure, being a femme boy or a guy who likes to wear women's lingerie, these were seen as abberations in the 90s, especially by conservatives. Being gay was a problem. So people are less judgemental in this area than they used to be.

    • @adrianahuihui8722
      @adrianahuihui8722 Před 11 měsíci +27

      for real. When I was in school I was a gay boy who wore makeup and did my hair and it was never a problem. Then I transitioned and right after Covid happened and everything went to shit

    • @thekalenichannel1812
      @thekalenichannel1812 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Gay, lesbian, androgynous, and straight are all labels lmao you people are so unserious

    • @amiedeecomedy
      @amiedeecomedy Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@blah914 exactly.

  • @MikeyMajesty
    @MikeyMajesty Před 11 měsíci +2093

    As a gay man, I think there’s a huge difference between genuine trans people and the tiktok “trans” people.
    That is the “T” I don’t want to be apart of.
    The real trans people are not the problem.

    • @Anonymous-uw4sr
      @Anonymous-uw4sr Před 11 měsíci +32

      Some are..

    • @Wild_flower_415
      @Wild_flower_415 Před 11 měsíci

      For some reason the T has been infiltrated by chronically online, mentally unwell people who aren’t genuinely trans, just looking for a collective to be a part of

    • @dezikatotaku302
      @dezikatotaku302 Před 11 měsíci +77

      Yes 👍 agree I feel this newer generation is ill

    • @cali5ive124
      @cali5ive124 Před 11 měsíci +8

      WELL SAID!

    • @cali5ive124
      @cali5ive124 Před 11 měsíci +81

      @@hdsie3883You're literally commenting on her video

  • @Notthedaddy75
    @Notthedaddy75 Před 2 měsíci +38

    As gay i just abandoned the alphabet. The whole issue is a non issue, and it's exhausting trying to explain. Its like cap sizes. One size fits all - doesn't fit all.

  • @WeAreTheTwintails
    @WeAreTheTwintails Před měsícem +39

    I hear "fighting for our rights" so much and it has never actually occurred to me that they already have all the same rights we do. It was kinda like a bolt to the face.

    • @stevencurtis6802
      @stevencurtis6802 Před 15 dny

      It's called gaslighting. I've even heard them comparing today to the aids crisis of the 80s, which is the biggest slap in the face to anyone around back then.

  • @cdrone4066
    @cdrone4066 Před 11 měsíci +967

    They don’t want equal treatment, they demand special treatment.

    • @torakuro1444
      @torakuro1444 Před 11 měsíci +46

      Yup, they don't want to make any effort to make their life better, they want everyone else do the job for them.

    • @icryinwalmart
      @icryinwalmart Před 11 měsíci +29

      This is exactly how I see it. Equal treatment is great, but they will paint it like we do not want to treat them equally because we won't give them special treatment. It's been so frustrating to watch my own community fall to pieces. Blaire is awesome.

    • @Holden_McGroyn
      @Holden_McGroyn Před 11 měsíci +8

      The whole "strength in numbers" idea is what started all the problems.
      But ignorant people don't seem to understand that no segment of society who share common ideologies think the exact same things 100% of the time.
      More voices in the mix isn't necessarily always a good thing.

    • @WickedWest669
      @WickedWest669 Před 11 měsíci +3

      You just summed it all in one sentence 👏👏👏

    • @alevaleeria
      @alevaleeria Před 11 měsíci +12

      Reminds me of 2 trans "friends" I have, they want special treatment in work and college but are the laziest bums society has to offer

  • @albatraozgirl
    @albatraozgirl Před 11 měsíci +1399

    People are pushing back because stuff is getting too crazy with the violation of women's rights, targeting to children, and the obsession with pronouns. It's just gone too far and everyones getting sick of the craziness.

    • @alexnumale1048
      @alexnumale1048 Před 11 měsíci +124

      Women are sacred in my opinion and need to be defended. ANd its gotten to the point that masculinity is equally being attacked though the threat is less visceral what with male spaces not being threatened by trans men just masculine standards and decorum being attacked. The fact no one ever mentions the women in prisons being rped and impregnated in prison is all you need to show the contempt homosexuals have for women.

    • @Camirodriguezr
      @Camirodriguezr Před 11 měsíci

      ​​@@alexnumale1048, as a man, love that masculinity is attacking her, it's just that I dream of a world where the word masculinity or femininity mean nothing, when sexist roles disappear from the collective imaginary Everything that means masculinity disappears and likewise everything that is femininity, we must continue to tear down these concepts. And both sexes are sacred, neither is better than the other. We are not complements either, those are heteronormative ideas

    • @Tara........
      @Tara........ Před 11 měsíci +54

      Personally, I find the whole pronoun controversy absolutely ridiculous.

    • @daMillenialTrucker
      @daMillenialTrucker Před 11 měsíci +32

      my pronouns are hand/some

    • @daMillenialTrucker
      @daMillenialTrucker Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@Tara........ i dont pay no attention to because Jesus commanded me to not worry about what my other earthly brothers and sisters are doing because i have FAR more problems then they do

  • @Shayna8099
    @Shayna8099 Před 3 měsíci +25

    As a lesbian, I really don't agree with most of what is going on in the LGBT rights movement. Especially the redefining lesbian as "non-men who are attracted to non-men"...yeah, no..I'm a woman that is attracted to women.

  • @danelwind2574
    @danelwind2574 Před 2 měsíci +76

    Kinda there were some signals: the Pride flag was modified to "include" Trans, gay black people and lesbian black. The flag was supposed to represent us all, but I guess some groups wanted more representation than others.

    • @YippieKiAy
      @YippieKiAy Před 11 dny

      Yes because when you start adding specific groups then you are certainly excluding any that haven't been thought of or created yet.

  • @Bobbymaccys
    @Bobbymaccys Před 11 měsíci +1067

    It’s the twerking in front of kids whilst wearing BDSM gear that’s where I draw the line

    • @RCSVirginia
      @RCSVirginia Před 11 měsíci +151

      This is an easy matter to resolve. The organizers of Pride festivities should have a set, written standard of conduct that specifies what will not be tolerated. Those who insist on violating it with inappropriate behaviour in front of children or with nudity should be expelled from the activity.

    • @Bobbymaccys
      @Bobbymaccys Před 11 měsíci +46

      @@RCSVirginia exactly! Code of conduct.

    • @livyann2143
      @livyann2143 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@RCSVirginia or simply having set hours (the night part of pride fests) where it's adults only. Where I live the pride fest did this. No naked gimp gear before 9pm when kids are around. After 9? Kids kicked out and all the degeneracy can commence. I say degeneracy as someone bisexual the bdsm sphere, truely that shit isn't meant to be around kids.

    • @linagreenlyfe6705
      @linagreenlyfe6705 Před 11 měsíci +87

      Or keep kids away from Pride events and restrict them to adult only venues. Adults are adult enough to decide if they want to see fetishes on display

    • @dont_think2x
      @dont_think2x Před 11 měsíci +43

      ​@@linagreenlyfe6705who's going to be the one to tell the parents? Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't there indecent exposure laws, I'm pretty sure if I were to walk around in my neighborhood or just around town with the same attire (or lack of) they were in these parades I'd be arrested

  • @howlpendragon9728
    @howlpendragon9728 Před 8 měsíci +1034

    I've completely disassociated with the LGBTQIA+ community, the whole movement has just become awful and difficult to tolerate.
    Totally on board with disbanding because this movement has been hijacked and does not reflect my values at all.
    If anyone tries to argue that I cannot be gay without being in the "LGBTQIA+ Community", I simply explain the following:
    If you breathe air as a natural reflex, you don't need to be apart of an "Oxygen Inhaling Community" to continue to breathe.
    I'm naturally attracted to men as a man, and I don't need to be apart of the "LGBTQIA+ Community" to continue to be gay.

    • @Mazarty
      @Mazarty Před 7 měsíci


      what
      Yes, if you’re gay you are in the lgbtq+ community. That’s what the G is for. Anyone who isn’t straight or cis is a member of LGBTQ. Why do you care?

    • @fal54
      @fal54 Před 6 měsíci +41

      What I’ve noticed about our community, they have to make somebody something like them, I was bi I had gay friends, they couldn’t accept being bi I had to be gay, they try to sleep with me, anyone who kissed a guy, what are you must be gay. I made a trans friend, never questioned my gender, I said I felt uncomfortable going in the toilet started getting into my head about being tans there is indoctrination. I’m glad I found some people in the gay community are like myself. Sexuality is just who you sleep with. It’s not a personality ,
      Look at transition forget whether you agree or disagree they can change. ANYONE who is pro puberty blockers, does not care. Forget feelings. We know that gender reassignment surgery is less successful/if at all on underdeveloped males to females, need additional surgeries because there is an enough material to transition. That’s negligence. That was a reason it was 18 so you could go through natural puberty. You’d want the best outcome for them.

    • @0neInTheChambie
      @0neInTheChambie Před 6 měsíci

      @@Mazarty No, if you are an active part of "the LGBTQ+" you deserve an insane asylum. those who are an actual part of the REAL LGBTQ+ arent loud and vocal and deserve the best life they can live.

    • @velvetinedrapes4359
      @velvetinedrapes4359 Před 5 měsíci +22

      I never associated with the community until about 2021 when I joined a bunch of servers (local and like LGBT fandom servers) as well as going to pride events and looking in my local community but the more time I spent in those circles the more I wanted nothing to do with the community.

    • @outerik90
      @outerik90 Před 5 měsíci +10

      Just say that you are part of the LGB community.

  • @noonespecial9704
    @noonespecial9704 Před měsícem +9

    I kinda called it in High school when some of my peers started to believe they were trans. When I asked why, they said because they like boy things or girl things. Imagine their bewilderment when I told them I liked girl things like MLP, Rom Coms and fashion (Particularly Dresses and what might look best). They were asking why I thought I was a guy, I simply replied "Because I can be a man and like girl things. Who says I can't? We're all unique and shouldn't be labeled in any way.
    Most transitioned and told me how miserable they were.
    Also Tomboys are the best! They're the most straight forward and badass friends to have, even better than some guy friends!

  • @lenawilliams539
    @lenawilliams539 Před 2 měsíci +25

    I'm new to your channel. As a bisexual woman, I think all of us in the community needs to hold the bad apples accountable because they're spoiling our bunch.

    • @Virtualsleeze
      @Virtualsleeze Před měsícem

      What about the rest of the fucking orchard yo?

    • @lenawilliams539
      @lenawilliams539 Před měsícem

      @@Virtualsleeze More of got to speak up too.

  • @genmaicha.lapsang
    @genmaicha.lapsang Před 11 měsíci +1134

    "Way too many people are using 'we' as a pronoun."
    YES THANK YOU.

    • @sweetiespoon5150
      @sweetiespoon5150 Před 11 měsíci +14

      Who's this "we" ish? Got a mouse in your pocket? 😂

    • @gigahorse1475
      @gigahorse1475 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@sweetiespoon5150People who say they have DID or identify as more than one person.

    • @Raphaeltheslayer
      @Raphaeltheslayer Před 11 měsíci +22

      @@gigahorse1475are indeed quite insane

    • @codenamestark
      @codenamestark Před 11 měsíci +4

      ​@@sweetiespoon5150yeah it makes us that are diagnosed look bad.

    • @sweetiespoon5150
      @sweetiespoon5150 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @gigahorse1475 A split in the psyche doesn't make them literally multiple people. It makes them an individual (singular) who is damaged due to severe trauma. Playing into their delusion doesn't do them any favours. It only perpetuates the harm.
      If you sustain a physical would, it needs to be cleaned, dressed, & diligently tended until it heals. Affirming the existence of the wound while doing nothing to treat it will only cause lasting harm (and we all know where gangrene & sepsis leads to...).

  • @Nerd_9000
    @Nerd_9000 Před 11 měsíci +994

    So glad it's getting separated. The QIA part had me ,13 year old GIRL believing I was genderfluid because I'm a woman who dresses masculine AND feminine interchangeably. Clothes have no gender, I can dress however I want! I'm 16 now and I'm happy being a tomboy and very girly at the same time. Love you tho Blaire you helped! 😊😊❤
    Edit: OVER 500 LIKES? LORD TYSM

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 Před 11 měsíci +115

      Same. I was "trans" from 11-15. Turns out it was my autism. Pretending to be a boy was way easier on my senses to cope with the world around me. Now I'm just a female who dresses rather feminine but some days I throw on "boy clothes" because my sensory issues are too much that day

    • @ashleyganton6558
      @ashleyganton6558 Před 11 měsíci +42

      Glad you went and did some research you can be whoever and dress however you want. Don't change for anybody or to fit into 'society standards'. You can change your clothes daily you can't change your body parts like that.

    • @Ms.MD7
      @Ms.MD7 Před 11 měsíci +36

      Thankfully some young ppl are realizing this; I have a hope.

    • @leavethishere3105
      @leavethishere3105 Před 11 měsíci +24

      Happy to hear you both dodged getting hurt by all of this. Lots of girls and women just don't conform to stereotypes-probably most of us don't, to one degree or another. It's normal and doesn't require a new ideology, or any body modification. Don't let anyone pressure you.

    • @alucylu9714
      @alucylu9714 Před 11 měsíci +5

      You’re 16?

  • @AmSuperBlessed
    @AmSuperBlessed Před 2 měsíci +21

    Yes, you are right. For what? What are missing. And who persecuting them? People are just angry now because they are too demanding .

  • @ninjakitty4816
    @ninjakitty4816 Před 3 měsíci +18

    My son and his husband just wanted to be Pat and Will next door, they just wanted to be accepted into regular life. They feel like everyone hated them for being the two gay guys that want to change everything

    • @Virtualsleeze
      @Virtualsleeze Před měsícem

      Because the world is hateful. And now people are hating on trans people, right here in this comment section(and literally everywhere), just like they were hating the gays before(and still are). It appauls me that people don't see that it's the Same. Exact. Thing.

  • @AidylasiaFirestar
    @AidylasiaFirestar Před 11 měsíci +1664

    As a bi, I love your message here. Gender Identity and Sexual Preference are so different, and this whole alphabet mafia is bull that needs disbanded for sure.

    • @Ewoooo8
      @Ewoooo8 Před 11 měsíci +27

      As someone like you, I completely agree

    • @iAmNothingness
      @iAmNothingness Před 10 měsíci +13

      It’s not preferring or preferences?!
      I only love men sexualwise. It’s not a preference. I can’t choose one over the other but like both.
      Maybe BI can but i can’t.

    • @davidarthur4457
      @davidarthur4457 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@Ewoooo8am bi never have I really supported lgbtstisvjkmq there tooo toxic

    • @davidarthur4457
      @davidarthur4457 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@iAmNothingnessare you a man or your straight am confused 😂

    • @Ewoooo8
      @Ewoooo8 Před 10 měsíci

      @@davidarthur4457 ya

  • @JoshyDavid
    @JoshyDavid Před 11 měsíci +1383

    I'm a gay man and all this shit on tiktok is killing me. I love all people ofcourse but ive been called transphobic because i am only attracted to biological men and not a transman with a V. Like im suppose to invalidate my sexuality to do things im not attracted too. Or be labled transphobic. I found this channel a couple days ago and im loving all these videos

    • @tuttuttut7758
      @tuttuttut7758 Před 11 měsíci +138

      You gotta love the logic of not being free to be attracted to a person of your preference. I wonder if they ever heard of consent

    • @khanimefreak
      @khanimefreak Před 11 měsíci +46

      I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I just don't get why people can't live their lives LOL

    • @jorassisgrass6273
      @jorassisgrass6273 Před 11 měsíci

      Sounds to me like it's gone full circle and those people are homophobic as hell, just like the people they complain about. It's not a surprise TBH as I'm bi and a lot of the people in the LGBT community get on us because we're not "gay enough" if we choose to be with the opposite sex.

    • @user-zg6ds3gi3k
      @user-zg6ds3gi3k Před 11 měsíci

      Stop no trans person wants to sleep with you😂😂😂😂 silly Sally

    • @chilenapromedioRU
      @chilenapromedioRU Před 11 měsíci +1

      You do know this trans feminine youtuber has a P, right?

  • @blissfulluxurylife
    @blissfulluxurylife Před 2 měsíci +55

    I absolutely agree with the separation. As a bisexual I do not support the made up pronouns and the whole pushing inappropriate things pushed on kids. I totally agree with you Blaire.

  • @rydbthatsme
    @rydbthatsme Před 6 měsíci +14

    I’ve always hated labels and have had to fight against them most my life even within myself. I realized as I got older I’m just me and I don’t need to label it or fight about it.

  • @lilith3953
    @lilith3953 Před 11 měsíci +1067

    When lesbians talk about the LGB divorcing the T, they are very much talking about protecting the rights of lesbians (to woman only spaces, to lesbian only spaces, to not be pressured into having sex with men), protecting the rights of lesbians from autogynephilic male sex offenders.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yes. The fact that lesbians are banned from lesbian dating apps for saying that they only want to date biological women... Because they're transphobic is absolutely crazy! I want private female spaces and sports to be for women only.

    • @janb92
      @janb92 Před 11 měsíci

      @@ClearwaterKBit’s the case for me…..lesbians are being kicked out of exclusively lesbian spaces because they don’t want to see some trans woman’s penis…..why is everyone so concerned with their comfort but fuck me and mine?? It’s misogynistic af

    • @VivianStorm
      @VivianStorm Před 11 měsíci +344

      @@ClearwaterKB well she certainly speaks for me and all my lesbian community. One of the troubles with having L in the same category as T is that when our rights as women conflict with the demands of the T, our very valid concerns as women are completely ignored.

    • @veen-a2092
      @veen-a2092 Před 11 měsíci +37

      This this is why I left the radical right ideology

    • @veen-a2092
      @veen-a2092 Před 11 měsíci +142

      ​@@ClearwaterKBThen you believe that lesbian women should be should be pressured to have sex with someone who have a penis cause majority of lesbian as a whole will not agree to that. Then why do you differ from her opinion state yours

  • @Luciferkrist
    @Luciferkrist Před 11 měsíci +795

    The hardest part of winning a war.. is remembering to stop fighting enemies that aren't there anymore.

    • @tammyrogers9129
      @tammyrogers9129 Před 11 měsíci

      Transpredators are very real and they prey upon women and children. They are the enemy. Not the whole community, but many within.

    • @Stormymoxx
      @Stormymoxx Před 10 měsíci +42

      I think people fought for so long that they got stuck in an echo chamber and can't move forward

    • @TransKidsMafia
      @TransKidsMafia Před 10 měsíci +6

      My toddler came out as trans,

    • @canarygoodie3873
      @canarygoodie3873 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@dli7423 okay a trans troll❤❤😂😂

    • @errorsansglitch208
      @errorsansglitch208 Před 10 měsíci

      @@TransKidsMafiathis is a wendy’s

  • @terryalbright2207
    @terryalbright2207 Před 5 měsíci +10

    You’ve nailed it-all of this noise is about validation, not acceptance; and ultimately one needs to be able to accept and appreciate themselves!

  • @amycimaglia913
    @amycimaglia913 Před 6 měsíci +18

    I’m 49 years weird, now I’m a trad wife. We need more love and acceptance across the board.

  • @rinzler9775
    @rinzler9775 Před 10 měsíci +897

    A divorce is when two married people separate. This is more like that person you sort of know and let them stay at your place for a while, and then they dont leave and start taking over your house.

  • @memyselfi7292
    @memyselfi7292 Před 9 měsíci +536

    I'm female and straight. I was a tomboy as a kid. I'm glad i was born before this crap. I love men. Period. I don't want to be one.

    • @aislynndraconisart8427
      @aislynndraconisart8427 Před 7 měsíci +20

      Same!

    • @darlingdeb7010
      @darlingdeb7010 Před 6 měsíci +27

      Right 😂 I remember saying I wanted to play in the NFL and be a navy seal. i just looked up to my older brother. Thankfully that was in the 90s 👀

    • @razbury3398
      @razbury3398 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Wanna cookie?

    • @darlingdeb7010
      @darlingdeb7010 Před 5 měsíci +34

      @razbury3398 doesn't everyone? Lol what an odd question

    • @razbury3398
      @razbury3398 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@darlingdeb7010 i was replying to the original comment

  • @rockkandyplay5692
    @rockkandyplay5692 Před 6 měsíci +9

    As a straight Christian woman, even I was trying my best to support and be all inclusive but it has gotten to the point where the movement has become so blurred that I don't even know who or what I'm supposed to be supporting. Activists have been given an inch, now they're trying to take a mile. I admit I don't get it. Most people I've met who are gay and so on, are amazing people! The key is they are just people like us. Hear that activists?! You can keep everything else. Be decent and you will be treated decent❤❤❤

  • @rw2382
    @rw2382 Před 7 měsíci +14

    The L(s) attack other L(s). That's their worst crime. My favorites are the A(s). The A(s) shouldn't even be mentioned. The A(s) just go about their business. Many different people feel like the A(s) from time to time. Protect the A(s) and remove them from the alphabet group.

    • @mitsuri_supremacy2342
      @mitsuri_supremacy2342 Před 4 měsíci +2

      The Ls only attack other Ls cause they can’t handle someone who doesn’t fit stereotypes.

  • @lonziex2
    @lonziex2 Před 11 měsíci +516

    When I was younger in my teens, I dyed my hair crazy colors all the time, wore eyeliner and mascara and my favorite colors were purple and pink. The number one question I got asked growing up was “if you could be a girl would you?” And I’ve always answered no. I just want to be me.. a gay man who likes girly things, simple as that.

    • @lk_dslr1951
      @lk_dslr1951 Před 11 měsíci +15

      Aaa Wholsome! femine men are amazing *sending love form the t in lgbbq*

    • @hees0009
      @hees0009 Před 11 měsíci

      I am absolutely convinced a large percentage of trans kids are actually just kids who would grow up to be homosexual, and their lives are being ruined by this... many will never experience full s*xual pleasure if they undergo certain surgeries, or have reproductive capacities with certain hormones. It's crazy.

    • @volkova6209
      @volkova6209 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@lk_dslr1951 lgbbq lol

    • @davemccage7918
      @davemccage7918 Před 11 měsíci

      And why is that a problem now? I genuinely don’t get it.

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob Před 11 měsíci

      Same as Blaire

  • @stevenharris1460
    @stevenharris1460 Před 11 měsíci +715

    "give em the right to marry and they're already talking divorce"
    One of the classic lines of all time.

    • @jryan9547
      @jryan9547 Před 11 měsíci +21

      I legit laughed and said “ok, this will be good” lol

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 Před 11 měsíci +2

      im still advocating for me ( intersexual and bi-female ( forced male role as a teenager/1993-2020~ ) and married to a sis-female-bi ) and others on bisexule/polly marriages 5max linked license's, but yes im for informed consensual sexual activity/relationship's aka no pedo's please

    • @meghanodonoghue9066
      @meghanodonoghue9066 Před 11 měsíci +11

      @richardprice5978 How about a decent human being who loves a decent human being? This desire to endlessly lable ourselves is just a complete regression for the decades of those who fought for the simple lable of 'person'.

    • @stevenharris1460
      @stevenharris1460 Před 11 měsíci +15

      @@richardprice5978 F*#k that's a lot of labels, how do you remember them all?

    • @southboundpookoderm9802
      @southboundpookoderm9802 Před 11 měsíci +6

      @@richardprice5978how about you’re a f’ing human who loves another human? What is with all these weird labels

  • @deorlingdraegunn7180
    @deorlingdraegunn7180 Před 25 dny +4

    Asking when is the IDGAF+ community of people who don't want to do anything but live it lives get some Rights and privileges?🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Orybailey
    @Orybailey Před 10 dny +1

    I have felt this my whole life. I’ve never fit in with the community. The only part that I ever fit in with was worrying if my parents would except me and I was cleared on that fast.

  • @Heartwing37
    @Heartwing37 Před 11 měsíci +477

    “Why don’t we just disband it all and learn to be individuals”…. Wise words!

    • @yuptooyoungtoknowanything8654
      @yuptooyoungtoknowanything8654 Před 11 měsíci +16

      movements do tend to fizzle or disband but it seems that these "movements" want to cling onto something (hint: money)

    • @MaraJadeSkky
      @MaraJadeSkky Před 11 měsíci +19

      Exactly! Sexual preference shouldn't equate to a personality. My roommate is a mega gay man...won't catch a rainbow on him, because he has a whole amazing personality, him being gay is just one part of who he is as a whole.

    • @magnuscarlsson9969
      @magnuscarlsson9969 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Well that won't happen, not as long as there is 'massive' money to be made. Usually i just blamed organizations for this issue, but these days people make money just for being 'stunning and brave'. The day everything queer will be considered normal, most of them will just disappear... because there is no money, fame or victim status to be made just for being part of a group. This ofc. don't apply to everyone in said group, some people just don't care about others opinions, but it's not those people we see in media everyday making a massive stink about pronouns etc.

    • @austindermody302
      @austindermody302 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Even straight people like me want to be individuals. Blaire is always spot on.

    • @obsidianjane4413
      @obsidianjane4413 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Because conservatives don't.

  • @cherryh207
    @cherryh207 Před 11 měsíci +634

    I was a tomboy in my early years of middle school, the kids would tell me I was gay and peer pressured me into actually thinking I liked girls, I was convinced I was lesbian but now that I’ve matured and grown up I realize that no, I’m straight, always have been. And I’m not trans either

    • @beatrizarevaloleal4181
      @beatrizarevaloleal4181 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Hi, just wondering because of some personal issues with someone else. At what age did you realized that you were not lesbian? I know someone who is lesbian because a friend told her so, and since then she has changed so much... is sad and her new personality is killing the family

    • @Greenaura101
      @Greenaura101 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Its okay just b urself bestie dont b forced into liking something that u dont really like

    • @rickberglund2134
      @rickberglund2134 Před 11 měsíci +5

      How can anyone not know what gender their attracted to...?

    • @vanillapudd1ng
      @vanillapudd1ng Před 11 měsíci

      @@beatrizarevaloleal4181 Hi I know you are asking the one who wrote the post but I had a similar experience...I was a tomboy, but got tangled at 15 with a lesbian who slowly over 2 years tried to turn me a lesbian aswell & it almost worked. Sometimes things are so invisible to a naive child that they can change you over time....but when I realize what she was doing (it happened when she pushed me to sleep with her) I broke everything off & thats when clarity came. When I eliminated the culprit (her) I became me, the tomboy girl that is 100% straight. It's been 18 years since & I never ever questioned myself again. I am horrified & saddened of what I see today....kids are being brainwashed & groomed like I was....but being brainwashed & groomed by 1 girl is different then by the government, society, communities, media & so on....to over come all of this..... I hope your friend will find herself again. But in my case my family helped a lot, they saw it all & always talked to me about it in a calm respectful manner while standing up for me & my well being.

    • @Ewoooo8
      @Ewoooo8 Před 11 měsíci +28

      @rickberglund2134 many younger people are really affected by peer pressure, so I think it can affect how they think about it. I'm no expert though just some teen

  • @ritan8204
    @ritan8204 Před měsícem +4

    “The Wi-Fi password community” 😂 I need to remember this one!

  • @lillianpilto2377
    @lillianpilto2377 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Blaire I completely agree on your reasoning. And so do the statistics, Jordan Peterson explained it very well on a pathological level. Let children grow into who they are without having identity politics forced down their throats. Back when I was growing up, I was told so many times anything other than heterosexual was considered sinful. My family didn’t really go either way with this, never were prejudiced but I heard it everywhere else. I still identify with the B component, but never forced myself to conversion therapy because I had a supportive family who didn’t condemn either way. Such as in a similar fashion to what is happening to young children just trying to find themselves. When you don’t know yourself and someone convinces you of something else-when you grow up you more than likely will realize how much of your own self you were deprived of.

  • @uptonogood1893
    @uptonogood1893 Před 11 měsíci +878

    I was a tomboy growing up. I had family who labelled me as a lesbian with no other basis other than how i dressed. I was straight then, I'm straight now. I'm relieved that the trans movement wasn't happening then or i would have been hassled about "you should trans, blah blah blah." I don't think i would have, as i had a habit of pushing back on taking medications without cause. But its so easy to sway young people nowadays. Its cruelty to transition children. They are defenseless.😢

    • @CarlyAnneBloom
      @CarlyAnneBloom Před 11 měsíci +37

      Totally relate to this! I think all the time how thankful I am that this wasn’t going on while I was a child

    • @SakuralovesGaara1
      @SakuralovesGaara1 Před 11 měsíci +20

      I totally relate to that and children shouldn't transition til 18 cause that gives them more time to see if they love being their own gender or not

    • @THE_CDN
      @THE_CDN Před 11 měsíci +29

      As a straight white guy (AKA The Enemy by some, LOL) growing up, I never thought tomboys were lesbians. Tomboys were the straight cool girls who liked guy stuff and could rock a ball cap ponytail and a Metallica t-shirt. Definitely my type back then and now. Young people now are hit with an unending barrage of ideological messaging that actually invalidates who they truly are. It's like when some gays and lesbians back in the day didn't believe people when they said they were bi ("No, you're really this."). I dated a few bi girls and they got some nasty comments from their so-called friends.

    • @nicoleglenn8101
      @nicoleglenn8101 Před 11 měsíci +11

      I totally relate as well. I was into fishing, hunting, sports, and all of the tomboy things. Still am. I am super glad trans wasn’t a thing pushed on us. For sure doctors would’ve told me to transition. My mom would have fought back and protected me.

    • @homesteadgamer1257
      @homesteadgamer1257 Před 11 měsíci +13

      Same here. If this trans fad was happening when I was a teenager, I know for a fact I would have jumped on it because I was physically uncomfortable with my breast development. Everyone quietly gossiped behind my back about whether I was a lesbian, when I just wasn't impressed with any of the boys in high school (that was the era of the Justin Timberlake-N Sync bleached tips look; barf).

  • @vanadians3819
    @vanadians3819 Před 11 měsíci +451

    How can they not understand "We are coming for YOUR children" IS a direct threat!? If it is satire, well then, play stupid games win stupid prizes. Everyone is being told to choose your words carefully in this society because of the consequences it may bring. Why are they any different?

    • @734ch3r
      @734ch3r Před 11 měsíci

      They got used to being protected by Big Daddy Government for being a minority and became emboldened.

    • @scooby25611
      @scooby25611 Před 11 měsíci +50

      they claim it's satire, I guess. pretty fucked satire if it really is (doubt)

    • @plants-xo7ug
      @plants-xo7ug Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@scooby25611I’m gay and agree those men are disgusting and should rot in jail. There are normal gays who don’t want to prey on your children hope you know that!

    • @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613
      @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613 Před 11 měsíci

      How can people not understand that gay people, not trans people, were behind the gay choir.

    • @PotionOfProof
      @PotionOfProof Před 11 měsíci +2

      4 of them turned out to be on a the S3x Offender Registry. Surprise surprise....

  • @Vincent8190X
    @Vincent8190X Před 2 měsíci +3

    "Wifi password community." Blair kills me.

  • @user-wm3ze9mr5n
    @user-wm3ze9mr5n Před 5 dny

    Thank you for your clarifyications here omg this is so needed

  • @mariusvanc
    @mariusvanc Před 11 měsíci +636

    Not just LGBT++++ acceptance was on the rise, but so were other things, like racial relations. Year by year, things were getting better. But then some people wanted a revolution, they wanted a utopia of some kind NOW, and everything went to sh*t.

    • @zatchbells
      @zatchbells Před 11 měsíci

      yeah the communists wanted to take other peoples stuff so they used identity politics to cause political turmoil so they can get away with breaking the law examples rioting and looting in big cities

    • @angelsbicep154
      @angelsbicep154 Před 11 měsíci +57

      You are so correct. It’s like someone shook the jar.

    • @oldmemememe
      @oldmemememe Před 11 měsíci +82

      i feel like we really almost hit that sweet spot a few years ago. like everything was so calm. but then tiktok happened...

    • @TheRealArobTheArab
      @TheRealArobTheArab Před 11 měsíci +65

      @@oldmemememe I hate to say this, but it wasn't TikTok, it was Barack Hussein Obama. I am perhaps bitter because I supported him after his 2008 election, but by 2012 I realized what a divisive, destructive figure he was. I should be smart enough not to feel that as a betrayal, but apparently I'm not. I don't expect many to agree with me, but I am confident in my analysis.

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 Před 11 měsíci +34

      The road to alleged utopia always leads to dystopia.

  • @0000zz2
    @0000zz2 Před 11 měsíci +2990

    I wouldnt be asking for the divorce if all trans people were like you blaire
    Edit: omg thx for the likes besties 🤸🏼

    • @willdegra317
      @willdegra317 Před 11 měsíci +213

      that's how most were before it became pushed by ideologues and external forces.

    • @nightowl2486
      @nightowl2486 Před 11 měsíci +36

      The wef is using this topic as a way to usher in mark s im.

    • @elperrodelautumo7511
      @elperrodelautumo7511 Před 11 měsíci +84

      If many lgbt folks were behaving like Blaire, no one would even dare give the group a bad name

    • @funkmeyer4614
      @funkmeyer4614 Před 11 měsíci +98

      Most are like her. But people don't notice. They only notice the crazies.

    • @ClearwaterKB
      @ClearwaterKB Před 11 měsíci +65

      @elperrodelautumo7511 99% of the people with whom I interact on a daily basis have no clue I am gay. It is such a small part of who I am as a person.

  • @bradmoyse6162
    @bradmoyse6162 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This has to be my favourite video to date. You’re always spot on! The groomers are in every group. As a gay man. That choir snip is disgusting!!

  • @gngirl1
    @gngirl1 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love how you fit comedy in between the education.

  • @CosplayHeroUnite
    @CosplayHeroUnite Před 11 měsíci +543

    I’m a detransitioner and it was constantly brought up that I was a “transman” when I sure tf wasn’t. I struggled with my own femininity because of a SA that had happened to me and I needed time to heal to reclaim my femininity. But no, peers wanted to claim I was lesbian or trans.
    I was convinced like “hmm, maybe I am”. Best tip, NEVER GET A THERAPIST THAT WORKS IN A GENDER CLINIC. They don’t care about helping your trauma or unresolved issues. Their goal is to get you on hormone’s immediately.
    I’m lucky as hell that I never took T consistently, because I still look feminine and it was easier detransitioning. But I’m a bisexual woman, but I want nothing to do with the community when the T is doing so much and making the whole group look bad. So no, I don’t mind separating T

    • @elin_
      @elin_ Před 11 měsíci +64

      I'm glad that I grew up in the "emo" era.. that's easier to "revert" from.
      The whole transgender trend among younger people nowadays is getting outta hand.

    • @linagreenlyfe6705
      @linagreenlyfe6705 Před 11 měsíci +40

      At least being emo doesn't require medicalization

    • @elin_
      @elin_ Před 11 měsíci +23

      @@linagreenlyfe6705 exactly. It's possible to leave it without any lasting damage.

    • @LaurenMartins
      @LaurenMartins Před 11 měsíci

      Always Bisexuals thinking they are Trans and destroying the acceptance for real Trans people like myself and Blair!

    • @bperez8656
      @bperez8656 Před 11 měsíci

      Most trans women want to be left alone
      It’s the non binary gender ideology activists

  • @richardbicycle5262
    @richardbicycle5262 Před 11 měsíci +330

    draft the papers, call in the lawyers, cite irreconcilable differences...should have been done YEARS ago. The circus tent has gotten waaayyy too big

    • @dominiccobb6470
      @dominiccobb6470 Před 11 měsíci +6

      circus tent lmao

    • @zisforzzu
      @zisforzzu Před 11 měsíci +3

      CIRCUS TENT ☠

    • @cocoa_alpaca
      @cocoa_alpaca Před 11 měsíci +1

      nahhh bro lol

    • @andrewparle9183
      @andrewparle9183 Před 11 měsíci +2

      The circus tent has to be huge in order to accommodate all the clowns.

    • @theresas740
      @theresas740 Před 11 měsíci

      And the circus has been nothing but clowns for years.

  • @Serenity-vn5on
    @Serenity-vn5on Před 12 dny +1

    Who exactly gets to add these letters to the name???? Plus the LGB’s had a societal issue -they wanted the right to marry. The TQetc they want what? To change language, society and reality? Interfere with children? The cause is unstated and def unclear.

  • @diyashikha93
    @diyashikha93 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm just coming to know about this divorce right now.

  • @marycrawley6388
    @marycrawley6388 Před 11 měsíci +95

    I am an older generation Post-op Transgender Woman, and all I have ever done is just blend in

  • @TheNarutoshipuden5
    @TheNarutoshipuden5 Před 11 měsíci +399

    This whole thing got me depressed because when I was just a teenager, all I wanted was to find my love (I am a gay man), get married, and live my life, as every normal person does. And now I fear because I don't want people to think I am like these gay "groomers" or these queer activists, and I fear because of them we, normal LGBT people, lose our rights. This is my greatest fear.

    • @tula1433
      @tula1433 Před 11 měsíci +71

      I wrote this in a comment above but I’m a transsexual. I transitioned, I pass, and I met a traditional conservative man who hunts and fishes and treats me like an absolute queen. No one besides us and my family knows I’m TS, because my medical business is not anyones concern, nor do I need to brandish it for victimhood points! I literally just joined straight society and live a very happy life! Sorry LGBTQIAplus mafia! 😂 🤷‍♀️ 🇺🇸

    • @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613
      @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613 Před 11 měsíci +7

      Well then call out the groomers in the gay community and stop blaming it on trans people.

    • @TheNarutoshipuden5
      @TheNarutoshipuden5 Před 11 měsíci +21

      @@mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613 I don't belong any community! The problem is treat us as a community. As Blaire said we are individuals.

    • @tjhooker824
      @tjhooker824 Před 11 měsíci

      I hate to say this but gay people stood by while these cultural marxists waged war on our society and you kept voting Obama, and Hillary, and Biden. Not saying you have to vote republicans, but you activity voted for this situation.

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 Před 11 měsíci

      @@tula1433 so your man is queer... good for him to come out of the closet. Like Blaire says, trans women are a kind of man.

  • @SuperKertiz
    @SuperKertiz Před 4 měsíci +1

    I really enjoy your perspective. I have a few days off and I'm watching a lot of your past videos. I used to watch you in the past, but then something changed and I felt you were crass. Now I am 40, and I feel like you have a very good perspective on what is going on.

  • @hiimabot8937
    @hiimabot8937 Před 5 měsíci

    Amazing conversation that challenges both sides of the argument, thank you very much.

  • @TheBeesNyssen
    @TheBeesNyssen Před 11 měsíci +118

    I grew up as a tomboy in the 90s. Thank god I wasn’t born in this generation. I’m a mother now and couldn’t be happier

  • @kerribelleville7958
    @kerribelleville7958 Před 11 měsíci +366

    The “we’re coming for your children thing” is legitimately terrifying & creepy. I’m so deeply disturbed. It feels like watching the animatronic chuckeecheese guy when I was three.

    • @brandonallen3808
      @brandonallen3808 Před 11 měsíci +46

      They claimed it was a joke. They're actions say different.

    • @NatJuno
      @NatJuno Před 11 měsíci +20

      These guys are giving people reasons to be violent against us.

    • @kendra9688
      @kendra9688 Před 11 měsíci +8

      I have 3 boys and that song makes me soooo angry!

    • @brbsnortingcatnip
      @brbsnortingcatnip Před 11 měsíci +8

      It was quite obviously a joke because it's a ridiculous accusation and they are making fun of it. Let's be real, the most kiddy diddling is done by those involved in organized religions and kids' own family members.

    • @brandonallen3808
      @brandonallen3808 Před 11 měsíci +25

      @@brbsnortingcatnip And yet when David Chappelle jokes about them they throw hissy fits and even physically attack him.

  • @marylowrey8911
    @marylowrey8911 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You are so spot on about the “industry “ post the achievement of rights. I’m gay and never wanted gay “ marriage “: civil partnerships, of course - that was OUR thing , but the sacrament of marriage? Kids living with their own mum and dad? NOTHING to do with me. I definitely stop at B , but only because of the trashing of our hard won rights from the T onwards. Forty years ago I had no issue of the Ts hanging around gay clubs , certainly knew a few Ts and counted a couple as friends. That’s why it’s good to listen to you, it starts to chill me out again and remember those good people and those good times. So in truth, it’s the bloody chancers who are creating a huge backlash that are the problem. Glad I found your channel. You have it totally worked out and express it brilliantly.

  • @Random-mess
    @Random-mess Před 7 měsíci +3

    For the topic of tomboy. I was playing an online game where two people were discussing their genders in the public chat and one said that she was a girl, used the pronounces at lest, but was a more masculine type of one. So I asked if she just meant she was a tomboy(she said she was auzgender or something) and they FLIPPED. Started to call me transphobic and homophobic, a bigoted ass, selfish(?), and more. Then they acted like they had just won something by blowing up chat with insults.

  • @Kimster182
    @Kimster182 Před 11 měsíci +384

    I’m gay and sometimes I wonder if I should just live a heteronormative lifestyle. I’m almost done with the lgbt activist crowd and think I should protest by taking myself out of the community

    • @tula1433
      @tula1433 Před 11 měsíci +106

      I’m a transsexual. I got my surgeries and pass and don’t tell anyone besides my family and my bf. Got myself a nice conservative gun toting man and just live a straight lifestyle like any other couple. I view my Transsexuality as a medical condition I’ve fixed. 🤷‍♀️ 🇺🇸

    • @geraldtheseal03
      @geraldtheseal03 Před 11 měsíci

      @@tula1433bruh if a male is having relations with a transgender he is not conservative

    • @tula1433
      @tula1433 Před 11 měsíci +49

      Homosexual is your sexuality. Gay is a political grouping of homosexuals. Tons of homosexuals all over the globe don’t identify as gay. Some abstain from the gay lifestyle, others are celibate for life, and some like myself (a transsexual) present my homosexuality in a cross sexed manner via sex change and transition medically. I’m like Blaire. Clinically I am a bio male HSTS transsexual. The word gay was invented by gay men who wanted gays to be masculine and pretend to be the same as real men, while simultaneously being bent over lol ..Hitler was the same way, he hated feminine homosexuals. I did not want an egalitarian type of relationship. I could never be with a man who is attracted to masculinity which is why I am much happier as a transsexual. I think the mix of a masculine man and a feminine woman (TS or not) is a beautiful thing and really compliments each other. I suggest you just start calling yourself a homosexual, find one person who will love you as you are and move on with life like I did ! No political identity for me thank you!

    • @skyhawk_4526
      @skyhawk_4526 Před 11 měsíci

      Straight guy here. But if you're gay, you're gay. So be it. Being gay doesn't mean you need a nonsense "community" of people who don't agree about anything because they all have different and selfish agendas. Just be yourself. No one is bothered by that.

    • @trailertrashfire
      @trailertrashfire Před 11 měsíci +21

      That's what I did. There really isn't anything to fight for that everyone else deserves too and now it's just elitist and extremist

  • @IceDragon978
    @IceDragon978 Před 11 měsíci +508

    The argument that "LGB and TQ+ can't separate because we have to protect each other" gives me pause. What protection? What protection does "The LGBTQ+ Community" offer? If there is any actual, real protection from "The Community", why couldn't "The LGB Community" offer it to themselves, and "The TQ+ Community" offer it to themselves?

    • @XYLGEM
      @XYLGEM Před 11 měsíci +86

      not to mention they're super aggressive when you don't entirely agree with their views. Never have I ever experienced more hate than from TQ+ community in recent years. I completely cut myself off from the community because they're so hostile.

    • @rylanmalis1162
      @rylanmalis1162 Před 11 měsíci

      It's the Rainbow Mafia. If you don't want their protection, they'll make you want their protection through threats and intimidation. I have friends in the LGB part of the community, and I even know a couple in the T section...but even they can't stand the Rainbow Mafia section but are afraid to speak up or get bullied by them.

    • @kateofone
      @kateofone Před 11 měsíci

      Well if the LGB community want to divorce themselves from trans people I won’t help gays when the right comes for them.

    • @kateofone
      @kateofone Před 11 měsíci

      @@XYLGEM What have you done to them?

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Před 11 měsíci +17

      Protection from what? And what will this imaginary acronym do for you? The problem today is too many still want to “identify” with a collective but times aren’t like they were before. Be yourself and don’t carry the weight of these people’s baggage.

  • @KnightOMoon
    @KnightOMoon Před 14 hodinami

    As an ace, I'm wondering what the heck the other aces are doing to be included in the divorce. Some of us just vibe and don't make it our whole identity.

  • @Arminius420
    @Arminius420 Před 2 měsíci +1

    So true, I don't know any gays or lesbians that asked to be part of a club that they never agreed to or signed on board with.

  • @claudiastokes6485
    @claudiastokes6485 Před 11 měsíci +372

    LGB fought so hard for rights they deserve and SOME in the TQ+ are ruining it all.

    • @Redpanda99998
      @Redpanda99998 Před 10 měsíci +27

      T also fought for our rights lmao some of the most vocal people were transwomen.

    • @claudiastokes6485
      @claudiastokes6485 Před 10 měsíci +62

      @@Redpanda99998 so true, but as I remember, the trans women of before were not like some of the ones now. I'm referring to the craziness that's been going on. Men who say they identify as women and wipe out women in sports. All of this is giving trans a bad name and it's really a shame.

    • @HotMothPimp
      @HotMothPimp Před 10 měsíci +8

      You’re so right

    • @sydbarrett5975
      @sydbarrett5975 Před 9 měsíci

      @@claudiastokes6485Yeah, not to mention so many of them are pedo groomers and really make it tough for the rest of the alphabet folks. I think the TQs should be bounced.

    • @justinmcloughlin6375
      @justinmcloughlin6375 Před 9 měsíci

      its the ones pushing the P agenda the evil MAP/Nambla club

  • @darkestgray0
    @darkestgray0 Před 11 měsíci +396

    I'm a 27 yr old lesbian who used to lean left, but still, I could never get past the T in lgbt. Let's just say nothing's made me lean more right than the wifi password community itself. Its a snake eating its own tail at this point. Making us OGs (original gays) want to cut ties and separate ourselves from this sh*t show. Let's hope the divorce will one day be finalized.

    • @ragingjaguarknight86
      @ragingjaguarknight86 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Ouroboros?

    • @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613
      @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613 Před 11 měsíci +1

      LGBs need to stop gro oming kids too.

    • @drunkenant7319
      @drunkenant7319 Před 11 měsíci

      Not surprising, as it seems like the lesbians are getting shafted pretty hard in this movement

    • @raaaaaaarr
      @raaaaaaarr Před 11 měsíci

      Same, girl. 30 year old lesbian, voting Conservative for the first time in 2025. Trudeau also made me RESENT the left. He ruined Canada. Canada is basically dead.

    • @jess-yd7wu
      @jess-yd7wu Před 11 měsíci

      @@alexr2172 It's generally 'expected' to be as far-left as possible if you want to be involved in the alphabet community, it's a massive circle jerk that will absolutely demonize you if you have any other views. I used to be involved back in my Tumblr days and if you voiced any other opinion that wasn't far-left you would be demonized, ostracized, told to kys, all that good stuff. I presented myself as far-left for many many years before I realized I don't actually align with those opinions at all and I was just pretending to to not be shunned

  • @Lifeonmarslooksrad
    @Lifeonmarslooksrad Před 3 dny

    You hit the nail on the head. It's the predatory males masqauerading as gtq+ that aren't legitimately part of those letters.

  • @bookworm3005
    @bookworm3005 Před 2 měsíci

    The end of this video is especially gold!! A lot of people (LGBT+ or not) really feel the need for external validation. I struggle with that too!! That's something that we all need to work on together

  • @kyahnichole6750
    @kyahnichole6750 Před 10 měsíci +363

    I lived in the Bible Belt for several years and of course I experienced homophobic crap but 85% of people who seemed homophobic at first really only had a problem with all the crap the community has caused. Once they realized I wasn’t about targeting children and didn’t push my crap on others and minded my business they were 100% fine. Homophobia exists but it’s not nearly as common as woke chronically online people make it out to be. They just don’t like how extra the community is.

    • @darlingdeb7010
      @darlingdeb7010 Před 6 měsíci +6

      THIS! I'm a straight female and this is exactly all it is for me. Meaning, be you, totally cool...don't involve the kids. This is exactly how most of us feel. Thank you so much for saying this ❤

    • @kat-2point0
      @kat-2point0 Před 5 měsíci +6

      The targeting children bothers me the most. The perverted parades as well. I've never felt part of the LGBTwhatnot community.

    • @-Harijalam
      @-Harijalam Před 4 měsíci

      What do you mean by "targetting children" ?
      Do you think that we can't approach the children topic healthily ?
      For me, it's ok to adopt children (who don't have parents !) when you're a gay couple because that exists in animal world and I think it works in humans too.
      I'm just against the surrogacy 'cause that's pretty scary like transhumanism. I don't want to live in a world like this.😫

  • @f4ckdr4gs444
    @f4ckdr4gs444 Před 8 měsíci +276

    transsexual male here. Your channel is a dose of reality the whole world needs to hear. You inspire me so much.❤

    • @VRonnie7723
      @VRonnie7723 Před 7 měsíci +60

      I’m a transsexual woman and same here!! I used to care so much about pronouns and people misgendering me because I was told to seek validation from others.
      But after listening to Blaire for a while I completely changed my attitude. I don’t care anymore if someone calls me a he, I know my worth and I won’t make a scene about it, unlike many others. I’m not focusing on nonexistent issues anymore.
      I have very different political views from her but I really want to thank her for this breath of fresh air.
      (I’m not American btw)

    • @fluffy777aye
      @fluffy777aye Před 4 měsíci

      you have no self respect, so desperate to get the validation of right wingers

    • @n0long3rhuman
      @n0long3rhuman Před 3 měsíci +14

      @@VRonnie7723 i totally agree. im also a trans male and i also used to care when people misgendered me (i was not correcting them but i was really upset and depressed about it) but as i grow older i realized that it doesnt matter because i am not yet transitioning so its not their fault.

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 Před měsícem

      @@n0long3rhumaneveryone should think like u

    • @laxelford3533
      @laxelford3533 Před 28 dny

      ​@@VRonnie7723bit late but good on you.

  • @denexki
    @denexki Před měsícem +1

    Man it makes me happy knowing theirs people like you out there.
    We need more individualistic thinking and less hivemind mentality.
    I heavily agree with your last line as well people do need to find their own happiness.

  • @heatherfritz787
    @heatherfritz787 Před 4 měsíci

    Really good points here. So much emphasis is put on things being the T's fault that I hadn't even thought about the Drag Queens being gay men as well as the choir seeing about coming for the children. I remember that video, but I hadn't thought about it in context to this argument. Good stuff!

  • @manulafuente7020
    @manulafuente7020 Před 11 měsíci +79

    As a gay Man I agree... this is ridiculous! I refuse to be a G In an alfabet that has lost its mind... love my trans sisters and brothers but we are not the same! Let's be individual people that come together to protect our rights.

  • @savannahalexander2345
    @savannahalexander2345 Před 11 měsíci +80

    ive been told im gay because i am a tomboy and it is honestly so annoying like girl no i am not 💀

    • @Whoareyoupeople900
      @Whoareyoupeople900 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Isn't the bigotry? They're basically saying a girl can't like boyish things without being gay/trans.

    • @lavenderlesbo
      @lavenderlesbo Před 11 měsíci +4

      i’m gay and i’m the most feminine gal ever, people always tell me i look straight

    • @milkandblue
      @milkandblue Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@lavenderlesbosame and I also love pink, I’ve been told that “ALL lesbians are more masculine”, like what? I know straight women who are more masc/tomboy than me 😂

  • @Wendy6v
    @Wendy6v Před 16 dny

    You make so much sense..why clump anyone who is not straight into one 'community'? It's getting so large no one can remember the 'wifi password' acronym! It's so diverse too.. who determines the acronym anyway?

  • @darcid5180
    @darcid5180 Před 10 dny

    You always make me think and remember Blair. Your spot on on this stuff

  • @Proacari
    @Proacari Před 11 měsíci +361

    I’ve been a bisexual for as long a I can remember, and never once did I consider myself apart of the alphabet mafia. I’ve always just did me and saw myself as an individual, so really any group or whatever that I was a part of, I never really associated myself with. I’m glad more people are more open to the idea of individualism, because all of these collective groups are ruining what it means to be your own person. The only group I am apart of is the human race.

    • @OfficerHotpants
      @OfficerHotpants Před 11 měsíci

      Same. I've never wanted anything to do with that guild of freaks. Wearing those letters is as much a warning as bright colors on a snake to me. Met _plenty_ of perfectly normal homo/bisexuals and transgenders _outside_ of it but never within.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 Před 11 měsíci +11

      same. ive decided i wasnt a part of it when i was attacked at a pride even for "being straight". i was already on the cusp bc apparently it was okay to not let bi ppl into gay clubs if they werent "gay enough". my lawd, my own conservative grandfather 'didnt understand' why gays would want to marry, but otherwise went with the not-my-cock-not-my-business policy. i have never in my exsistence recieved as much hate for my sexuality frlm any straight or conservative ppl, the way i have from the lgbt. after coming out, that was a *brutal* realisations.

    • @webymcduck
      @webymcduck Před 11 měsíci +9

      My friends 16 yr old says she is pan sexual . She says there is no such thing as bi because there is no such thing as male or female. Pan sleep with any human. I asked her if she went to get a sex change. What± 2 choices does she have? She got mad and walked off.

    • @beatrizarevaloleal4181
      @beatrizarevaloleal4181 Před 11 měsíci

      And honestly the community are just awful with bi people, it hurts

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 Před 11 měsíci

      frustrating to me that im blocked from marriage license 🇺🇸 with both sex's ( and my religions believe's) at the same time but hay sis and gays can get full rights in 2000-24/now, id like to assimilate into "normal community" without any fear or dissemination ect

  • @bigpuppa7789
    @bigpuppa7789 Před 11 měsíci +120

    Disbanding ALL letters would be the logical next step.
    I wanted to be able to be married and have a family with the woman I love. I now have that right.
    The original advocates for gay acceptance, including trans acceptance, wanted to be accepted as normal members of productive society. They wanted to be ignored. They wore business clothing, didn’t hold hands or kiss in public, and their fight was “were just like straight people.”
    Keeping the LGBT together as a group only allows bad behavior to be attributed to all people of that sexuality or gender, whether gay or trans.
    We are only discussed as our acronym, rather than the person who did the horrible thing.
    This is the best, most important, video on this channel, in my opinion.

    • @mutestingray
      @mutestingray Před 11 měsíci +11

      The fight for a semblance of normalcy is something this social-media-obsessed society has quickly forgotten. There’s nothing wrong with being unique, but there’s nothing wrong with fitting in with the wider society, either.
      I guess when you can’t or won’t fit in, you just recreate society to fit you.

    • @bigpuppa7789
      @bigpuppa7789 Před 11 měsíci +7

      @@mutestingray yessss.
      I’m a millennial. And I had forms of social media since I was 12 or so, but this new social media generation (part millennial, part Z) is trying to quickly overturn and delete any memory of inequality or societal hardship within the last 40 years. It’s astonishing.
      And those who forget their past are doomed to repeat it. That’s why we learned about the horrors of slavery every year in school.
      I’m not sure what kids are learning these days to cause this regression.

    • @deolihp
      @deolihp Před 11 měsíci

      Right says!

    • @raaaaaaarr
      @raaaaaaarr Před 11 měsíci +1

      Amen!

  • @elpasocpr1982
    @elpasocpr1982 Před 14 dny

    Ma’am you nailed it by saying that most of these activists have to keep the fire going because it keeps the paycheck coming in. Very insightful and true.

  • @gazettefan42
    @gazettefan42 Před 22 dny

    I used to know someone who wanted to be part of literally every group. One time he showed me he had the flags he related with saved on his computer and there were at least 10 of them.

  • @maxthebestboy71
    @maxthebestboy71 Před 11 měsíci +320

    Yes girl! People need to have a personality beyond their gender or sexuality. I've been around LGBT teens because of my job and I always encourage them to be a whole person. Be who you are, just don't make that EVERYTHING you are. Everyone is more than just one trait.

    • @teamtundra2619
      @teamtundra2619 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Blame that on discriminatory people!

    • @prestonscott6757
      @prestonscott6757 Před 11 měsíci +33

      @@teamtundra2619discriminatory people do not determine who you are as a person. If they don’t like you because of your sexual preference or even self identity, then why do you care? You can’t make everyone happy.

    • @teamtundra2619
      @teamtundra2619 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@prestonscott6757 I have every right to criticize them however

    • @prestonscott6757
      @prestonscott6757 Před 11 měsíci +36

      @@teamtundra2619 sure you can criticize. No one can stop you from judging whoever you so choose. But being worried about other people’s opinion of yourself is no way to live happily.

    • @MetalRocksMe.
      @MetalRocksMe. Před 11 měsíci +6

      I say this, don’t allow yourself to be defined by your sexuality because i know there’s more to you than that. Sexuality is just a part of you and not even a big part…

  • @josalynlawrence4948
    @josalynlawrence4948 Před 10 měsíci +145

    “Way too many people only know how to think, if it’s group think” thank you Blaire!!!

  • @guyplay
    @guyplay Před 11 dny

    I’ve completely dropped out of the “community” years ago.

  • @julierochell80
    @julierochell80 Před 10 dny

    Blair, I’m so glad you’re here. Thank You so much for sharing your beautifully, unbiase, intelligent mind. We love you and support you.

  • @samueltitone5683
    @samueltitone5683 Před 11 měsíci +85

    Not LGBT, but I do like flags. If this divorce happens can we go back to the original, actually aesthetically pleasing, pride flag?

    • @arsvivendi2636
      @arsvivendi2636 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Facts the 2nd and 3rd rendition are an eyesore

    • @skyhawk_4526
      @skyhawk_4526 Před 11 měsíci

      @@arsvivendi2636 So are most of the people they represent. And that's part of the problem. It meant one thing in the 1980s and now it's been hijacked by absolute nutcases. It's become a joke like the TQIAP+ people who have recently been admitted into the "community."

    • @SirKaeyaStoleThisAccount
      @SirKaeyaStoleThisAccount Před 11 měsíci +13

      Same bro Not LGBT but I think the modern Pride Flag looks very hideous. I want old Pride Flag to return. Stop adding more colors, and KISS (keep it simple stupid).

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@SirKaeyaStoleThisAccount THIS! I miss when it was just a plain rainbow

    • @AliciaTheTroonSlayer
      @AliciaTheTroonSlayer Před 11 měsíci

      It didn’t go anywhere, that’s what the LGBT area of town (which isn’t really LGBT per sea anymore, times are accepting) uses. I was surprised to see White House actually go ahead and try to get one of their new “versions” made and it looked ridiculous lol

  • @pfilipesf
    @pfilipesf Před 11 měsíci +412

    " The wi-fi password community " thank you Blaire for making me laugh.

    • @d2vmusic
      @d2vmusic Před 11 měsíci +2

      Ditto, just over a minute in, too - quality!😂

    • @cradica
      @cradica Před 11 měsíci +1

      I just found out I fit into the "A" (aromantic). That actually does have something to do with sexually NOT gender identity!

    • @eggpam8908
      @eggpam8908 Před 11 měsíci +5

      ​@@cradicayeah idk why people count asexuals etc in tq+

    • @cradica
      @cradica Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@eggpam8908 I simply stated that some claim that asexuals aren't lgbtq someone and someone called me homophobic just for saying that

    • @kskerlake1284
      @kskerlake1284 Před 10 měsíci

      @@cradica lmao im asexual myself and people are so stupid. asexual people can be straight too and im literally straight myself i just feel no sexual attraction because it is what it is😂people think everyone in the LGBT community is automatically a gay person but then they just forget the aromantic and asexual people. the person that called you homophobic is stupid

  • @jLjtremblay
    @jLjtremblay Před 3 měsíci +1

    The "divorce" can't happen fast enough!

  • @user-rj2sy9nu2j
    @user-rj2sy9nu2j Před 2 měsíci

    The fact that I just came across your video and it said it was eight months ago know that kind of just tells you I’m not online I spend more time give me a copy of the people than I do spending on social media which again haven’t been on in four years

  • @dotnorton6569
    @dotnorton6569 Před 11 měsíci +663

    I am so glad this is happening, Trans activists need to be by themselves.

    • @oliverklozov13
      @oliverklozov13 Před 11 měsíci

      Yup! TransSEXUALS are legit. Transgenders are NOT.
      One group has a valid reason to believe themselves to be born in the wrong body.
      The others are performative attention whores.

    • @TheChloe1331
      @TheChloe1331 Před 11 měsíci +38

      Yep, locked up somewhere like Siberia

    • @Wyomingchief
      @Wyomingchief Před 11 měsíci

      Exactly, LGB has nothing in common with the tea plus all the other crap, that are really nothing more than mental illness

    • @sweetthunderoflove1
      @sweetthunderoflove1 Před 11 měsíci +13

      And their allies

    • @barrydabee6752
      @barrydabee6752 Před 11 měsíci

      @@TheChloe1331Stop watching if you don’t like Trans people

  • @anixkyuun3357
    @anixkyuun3357 Před 11 měsíci +137

    Blaire, I feel that your advice on not seeking external validation can apply to people who aren't lgbt too, since I have Asperger's Syndrome, and a lot of your videos have been inspirational for my self-esteem by letting me pull myself up with my own strength and drawing self-worth internally. So thank you for that.

    • @tonnadean3318
      @tonnadean3318 Před 11 měsíci +18

      Same. I'm Epileptic and I kept thinking how weird it would be to feel forced to tell everyone I meet. "Hi, my name is T'onna and I'm epileptic. What's your name?" In no way am I embarrassed about it, I just let everyone I know closely, friends, family, coworkers, etc. in case I have a seizure, so they know how to handle it. I don't have any problem with self-esteem, but I do have to make sure I'm not stressing myself out too much or putting anyone else in an uncomfortable situation.

    • @prestonscott6757
      @prestonscott6757 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Hey, same! Hope you’re well!

  • @ionechisholme7552
    @ionechisholme7552 Před 7 měsíci

    Thankyou for your honesty it helps all sides

  • @Kaimayra
    @Kaimayra Před 6 měsíci +30

    As a conservative republican (and I'll catch flak for this) I don't have a single problem with trans individuals. I have a big problem when a trans person pushes that on everyone else around them.

    • @PeterKuzemchak
      @PeterKuzemchak Před 3 měsíci +4

      As a fellow Conservative also. I also don’t care if a person is trans. But like you, I draw the line when such people expect the rest of us to use specific pronouns, or become mentally unstable, or become radical.

    • @Virtualsleeze
      @Virtualsleeze Před měsícem

      So you don't mind trans people.. as long as they don't speak up for themselves? You're only unbothered by people who think just like you or aren't easily in the position to advocate for themselves? Eesh 😬

    • @1r0zz
      @1r0zz Před měsícem +2

      @@Virtualsleeze
      So “coming for our children” is speaking up for themselves?

    • @1r0zz
      @1r0zz Před měsícem

      But what about Jeezus Crust!

    • @spaghettimonster5650
      @spaghettimonster5650 Před měsícem

      ​@@VirtualsleezeI don't have a problem with trans people. As long as they shut up and don't come around me

  • @kikitaguerita
    @kikitaguerita Před 8 měsíci +45

    The obsession with how one identifies has gone way too far.

  • @j2174
    @j2174 Před 11 měsíci +175

    More importantly than “who I want to go to sleep with” is that it is ‘whom I can form meaningful, natural romantic relationships with’.

    • @nell3321
      @nell3321 Před 11 měsíci +29

      Yes exactly!! It may be called a sexuality but it's way more than just sex. People always seem to forget that it isn't all about sex and that it includes romantic connections and relationships just as much! If anything, in my opinion, the romantic partnership aspect is MORE important and should be celebrated more than who you want to sleep with as that's the aspect that affects society as a whole; so much more than what you do in your private time. And it IS just as all-audiences-friendly as the straight partnerships!

    • @anonymousonyx7755
      @anonymousonyx7755 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Literally

    • @residentgrey
      @residentgrey Před 11 měsíci

      I don't recall a single "activist" ever mentioning love. It is all fear and hate.

    • @fup723
      @fup723 Před 11 měsíci

      Bonding is the chore issues of your sexuality. Very difficult for you guys to bond with anyone !! It is mostly about sex

    • @j2174
      @j2174 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@fup723 Oh look, a generic troll. Apparently it’s easier for you to be a homophobe and an all-around douchecanoe, than it is for you to spell.

  • @doristhecoder765
    @doristhecoder765 Před 2 měsíci +1

    My children have children now so not in school but I am insensed to think that BS that I protect my kids from is brought directly to them in school.

  • @MT-ys6ju
    @MT-ys6ju Před 17 dny

    I'm a gay man born in the 80's and I completely agree with what you're saying! I'm happy to have come across your channel!