Coming Out Asexual...And Non Binary

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  • čas přidán 14. 09. 2020
  • So this was very weird for me to film because I'm an awkward bean who doesn't know how to talk lol. But I'm so incredibly proud of myself for coming out on the Asexual Spectrum and as Non- Binary. I want to be someone that these two communities see as good representation. I will be talking more about the asexual spectrum and non-binary spectrum in later videos so look out of that!
    What I use to film!
    Camera: IPhone 11 - amzn.to/39b7Mox
    Stand: 62” Phone Stand/Selfie Stick: amzn.to/3tlbl1Z
    Lighting: GVM 2 Pack LED Video Lighting Kits: amzn.to/3zrvG9V
    Intro music: czcams.com/users/redirect?q=ht...
    Social Media:
    Twitter: / lynnsaga
    Instagram: / lynnsaga01
    Twitch: / lynnsaga
    Art Instagram: / lynnsagadraws
    Redbubble: www.redbubble.com/people/Lynn...

Komentáře • 35

  • @supreme_leader_of_the_internet

    CZcams has finally done something good and introduced me to this gem of a channel

  • @saphounetheteajunkie8626
    @saphounetheteajunkie8626 Před 3 lety +23

    Crushing on your friends is awkward but still good. I hate how people see the friendzone in a negative way. For me, friendship is also a goal and it may even lead somewhere for demis.

    • @BlueMoonFoxi
      @BlueMoonFoxi Před 10 měsíci

      As an aroace, I literally have to HOPE everyone of my friends see me as a friend and as a friend ONLY…. Unfortunately that hasn’t always been the case

    • @ChrisHauser1
      @ChrisHauser1 Před 4 měsíci

      your friends are not your friends if they dont stick by you about it

  • @kyleyjustme5828
    @kyleyjustme5828 Před 3 lety +17

    I love that CZcams recommended your channel to me as a fellow Asexual Enby.

  • @Avery3verlasting
    @Avery3verlasting Před 3 lety +14

    Omg it’s true when you open your mind to LGBTQ realities it’s like discovering whole new entire worlds!!! This was great I feel like we’re sitting across from one another having a chat!

  • @Avery3verlasting
    @Avery3verlasting Před 3 lety +15

    I give you props for being yourself that’s exactly the type of stuff I love to see from LGBTQ, be true to yourself and fully own your identity.. 💕💕💕

  • @AlienTem
    @AlienTem Před 3 lety +6

    I’m Ace and Non-binary too. Sending love!

  • @ryn2844
    @ryn2844 Před 3 lety +8

    Dang, can't imagine how tough it must be to have all that going on ánd be in the LDS. I grew up in a very accepting environment and I had a really really hard time coping with being ace and nb. So yeah, I definitely think you deserve to be proud of yourself.

  • @Avery3verlasting
    @Avery3verlasting Před 3 lety +13

    Wow, I love your honesty. You really gave use the ins and outs of your journey!!! Even the jealousy part when you got angry with ur friend, this was a great video ❤️

  • @bemolilli4533
    @bemolilli4533 Před 3 lety +11

    sending love, I'm glad I'm not alone in the vibes~

  • @bone_apple_teeth457
    @bone_apple_teeth457 Před 3 lety +5

    I grew up in a religious home too, and for a long time I just thought I was a lesbian. Now I think I identify as some type of variant on the asexual spectrum, because I sometimes have that attraction to someone on a show, but not in real life, lol. 😂

    • @stardewofpyrrhia4381
      @stardewofpyrrhia4381 Před 5 měsíci

      If you’re interested in looking into it, that sounds like the fictosexual/fictoromantic or aegosexual/aegoromantic parts of the aro/ace specs :)

  • @Phoenix-jf7kt
    @Phoenix-jf7kt Před 3 lety +14

    Love you my enby sibling!

  • @pbmakesmusicandstuff
    @pbmakesmusicandstuff Před rokem +1

    omg im so proud of u!! im also asexual, and enby, and also aromantic!!

  • @insertnamehere9684
    @insertnamehere9684 Před 3 lety +7

    Hi Lynn Saga! I admit that I have quite a hard time understanding the non-binary concept. Do you have gender dysphoria? Do you really hate your body because of your biological sex or did you only have a problem with your body changing? Are you bothered by pronouns? Why does your gender matter that much to you? Why couldn't you be a not so feminine woman? Don't you think that needing to identify as something is a little weird? Why couldn't we be just ourselves? I know, I ask a lot of questions, but I just want to understand your point of view.

    • @lynnsaga1397
      @lynnsaga1397  Před 3 lety +17

      i have no problem explaining a bit more!!! So I didn't go into everything because I am planning on making more videos about it but I'll answer your questions here. i do experience social and body dysphoria. I am planning on doing things about that but that will go into my personal medical history which I don't think I'll be talking about on this channel (this might change in the future but I'm not going to talk about that rn). I am bothered by she/her and he/him pronouns and go by they/them. I care very much about gender/gender topics because when I was younger I was told there were only two and I felt wrong and shame for having feelings otherwise. I can't be a "not so feminine woman" because when I tried to fit myself into that box I was very depressed/su****dal. I do agree that not everyone needs/wants lables and that is completely valid!!! I would never try to push the "everyone needs to be this or that" because that's just not ok to do to others. I think people just try to find words that help them find community and others who feel the same as them. I am all for everyone being who they are (as long as they aren't hurting other people). I hope that answers your questions!!

    • @insertnamehere9684
      @insertnamehere9684 Před 3 lety +4

      @@lynnsaga1397Thank you for answering my questions, I hope you'll have a happy life being yourself! I'll watch your future videos.

  • @alicegothqueen1701
    @alicegothqueen1701 Před 2 lety +2

    *I'm Asexual & Non Binary, too!!! 🙈🤯👽👻😈🙃🙊

  • @LyricTheAlicorn
    @LyricTheAlicorn Před rokem +1

    I am asexual as well (panromantic asexual, to be exact), but I am FTM transgender 😄

  • @AvaCarl99
    @AvaCarl99 Před rokem

    Thanks for the info! So do you have romantic feelings but not sexual ones? Just wondering what you mean when you say that you had crushes on your friends.

  • @RosheenQuynh
    @RosheenQuynh Před 3 lety +5

    I know it probably doesn't matter to you but as a Christian ace enby, I want you to know God wouldn't hate you for being enby I know that thought process was in the past but believe me, anyone who told you this lie is toxic. Even though I'm pretty sure you're atheist, if I recall correctly, it still breaks my heart that there are people out there who are led to believe this... Again, since you don't believe in God probably, it's moot point but eh... Anyway, HUGE props for coming out so freely! I am thinking of doing so myself at some point.

    • @lynnsaga1397
      @lynnsaga1397  Před 3 lety +5

      Idk if I said I still believe in God or not in this video but I do still believe in a God just not in the way most people think and it’s definitely taken me a long time to come to terms with all the religious trauma I have. Thank you for this comment ❤️

    • @RosheenQuynh
      @RosheenQuynh Před 3 lety +4

      @@lynnsaga1397 I can understand the trauma, it's awful 😞 You're welcome! 😁

  • @unknowngaming3256
    @unknowngaming3256 Před rokem +2

    Cool

  • @Sh4rkzz0n3x
    @Sh4rkzz0n3x Před rokem

    im non-binary and asexual too my parents support but im scared my ex-girlfriend (both bc i only have 2 that i still contact) wont support :

  • @bdariamihaela
    @bdariamihaela Před 2 lety

    I think I might be demi-romantic, I never had crush, on no one but I wasn't the most social person and I haven't had that many friends

  • @pinkpanda6184
    @pinkpanda6184 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm also an ace enby too

  • @vanzey90.
    @vanzey90. Před 11 měsíci

    SLAY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kyleyjustme5828
    @kyleyjustme5828 Před 3 lety +3

    Are you also demiromantic?

  • @muffinman7791
    @muffinman7791 Před 2 lety

    They are so hot idk why

  • @ChrisHauser1
    @ChrisHauser1 Před 4 měsíci

    your friends are not your friends if they dont stick by you about it