Always interesting content! This" mouth freaks me out" I have to listen sparingly because I feel like he's doing some kinda weird voodoo thing in my head when I listen! Obviously he's British?🤷♀️🥰
Kanye. Occasionally makes some good points but showing strangers private naked pics of your own wife is so gross. And I’ve never understood the whole genius thing. He is not a genius and calling himself one is very narcissistic.
A person with narcissism is difficult to understand because you're not dealing with a self-realized person. You are dealing with a costume and that costume looks like whatever the narcissist thinks you want to see to make them look good. It reminds me of a skinwalker sometimes.
@@faiththrower7951 analysis a scientific word. But says humans are not humans. Inconsistent rhetoric there buddy. I guess at a certain level of intelligence. logic is out the window. I'm a misanthrope mainly due to obvious stupidity like this. It's legit infuriating. You know blatantly lying is pretty narcissistic if you ask me. It's a tool for manipulate deceive.
The most concise and accurate assessment of Meghan Markle's personality disorders that I've seen. It's untinged by any emotional bias. I am baffled by the public being remotely interested in any puff pieces about a woman who is bereft of a conscience and morals. I have one in my family and the only interest I have is the object of staying as far away from them as humanly possible. They don't deal with normal human emotions - they see them as potential targets for supply.
It is nigh on impossible to reliably diagnose complex disorders in people you've never met. With people like Donald Trump who have no filter and just never shut up, maybe, but it's rare. That's what HG is doing. It's possible he's right, he might have access to information we don't know, but he might be off the mark too, we certainly don't know. I have no interest in the Markles, none at all, I just don't like quackery and I don't like people watching a thing they agree with and then take it as gospel. Edit: it's absolutely not true btw that narcissists have no emotions and no bias. They just lack empathy. And empathy is pretty necessary to understand other people's emotions.
The most frustrating about narcs is their complete lack of self-awareness. And the fact that one cannot make them change. One might as well hit one's head against a brick wall, at least the physical pain will pass.
Narcs? I thought this video was about narcissists not drug cops or people who rat on others to the cops, but thanks for _explaining/repeating_ what was just said in the video.
I had two paid consultations with HG a few years ago and not only were they educational but absolutely delightful. He was very polite, listened to what I had to say, and gave me the correct guidance to help me with my situation.
I take it from that that he is a therapist then by profession? I suspected he was.......how ironic to have a psychopath psychoanalyse you if that is indeed the case?
Love the fact that all of my fave youtubers are hooking up. It's wild, things are blowing up in all quarters with all of your combined focus and reporting. Your combined efforts are bringing REAL news to the world. I've noticed all of your memberships and views rising every day. It's very exciting times indeed thanks to all of you.
@@AndrewGold1 We are born of the need and desire to learn as we've done since childhood; a parent tells the child no don't touch that oil lamp, its hot', but the child "will" eventually do it in your presence or not. When what we know as freedom of speech is intentionally denied us, we look for a way around that barrier of "denied". More and more people are looking for the why, how, where and who are these crack pots who are hindering our right to know, especially public figures. The leftist regime are threatened and are scared of an informed populace, that has been one area a dictatorial regime will go above all else to control. Many of these narcissist hid in the ranks of these regimes, they do all they can to control the flow of knowledge, but it put the spot light on them and they are in panic mode. Knowledge is power, a power that strikes fear in those who attempt to control the river of knowledge.
Not self proclaimed, he was intrigued by an ex saying he probably was a narcissist and wondered how he could use that to his advantage, so he went to a psychiatrist and got tested. He was formally diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Anti Social Personality Disorder (commonly known as psychopathy). Then he went on to study both and compare what therapists said to his own experience. A very unusual background and self insight combined with intellect and the narcissistic need to stand out and create a legacy has lead to an extremely useful source of information about narcissism.
I am loving both you guys. The programs are so informative and interesting. Loving HG and that deep dark voice. Keep up the great work guys. Cheers🙏🕊️🇦🇺🥰
I’m gonna fuel HGs narcissism by saying I thoroughly enjoyed this video. It was the best video I’ve seen in awhile. Wow!! Also you are a great interviewer.
I love how you have a channel where I can hear different opinions. I really don't want to be in a echo chamber, but at the same time I don't want to support people radical views from the other side. I think your channel really has great balance, and rationalizes different prospectives. Even if I don't agree with everything, I really like your channel.
I really like watching you two, it's always interesting. I've been subbed to HG for several years now, and he's helped me understand a LOT about narcissism. You, Andrew, are a great interviewer, I always enjoy your videos. God bless you both! (Yeah, yeah, I know, you're an atheist, but I'm blessing you anyway and you can't stop me! Lolololol!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂)
@Celia Osborne, yes, he is. He is extremely intelligent and also very funny. He is very captivating to listen to. You should have a look at his CZcams channel: HG Tudor- Knowing The Narcissist: Ultra.
You’re interviewing HG Tudor again :) He’s a pretty fascinating person. I like this that you’re interviewing people like him. I’m not sure what to make of HG though so I am just listening. He is informative on other subjects other than himself though :)
Great little snippet! HG obviously knows what he’s talking about with regards to MM. I don’t know anyone that seems to like her. Megyn Kelly regularly and logically takes MM’s podcasts statements apart because they are so ridiculous. Andrew feel free to bang on about her all you want, I won’t complain 😂
I started following HG when I decided to educate myself on narcissism in order to understand what a friend of mine was going through with her narcissistic ex husband. Listening to him I started to recognise behaviours that were very familiar. He was describing my mother. I have to say that his videos keep me thinking for days. The mind of the narcissist is so twisted! I love the Harry's wife's series. The HG roasts series are hilarious. His analysis of other famous people is fascinating
When people started saying trump was a narcissist, I looked up the symptoms and found my mother and my husband! Changed my life having a word for it! I had been telling people that they were mean to me. Ha. My mother was grooming me to marry this man. And they had secrets from me, and an intimacy I was denied by them both. Probably nothing physical, but an enormous betrayal nonetheless! Thank you for helping me understand what happened long ago. I am 77. Still crazy after all these years.
I've listened to HG's videos on Meghan and he is quite accurate. Listen to her interviews, her podcast and One World speech. It does check out. I would be interested if HG analyzed Tom Cruise. That's would be an eye opener.
I'd love to see MM interview somebody ORDINARY on her podcast. She could give a platform to black women who work minimum wage. Ask THEM about racism. Give other women a platform
Nature + nurture. Genes are the seed, and upbringing is the soil. HG says that if you inherit the narcissistic gene (from one of your parents) and are primarily raised by a narcissist (without significant intervention from an empath or normal caretaker like an uncle or grandparent etc) - you’re going to be a narcissist. if you have the narc gene but are raised by an empath or normal, you’ll turn out normal or slightly narcissistic. If you have the empathy gene, you’ll turn out different shades of empath/normal/slightly narcissistic depending on who raises you.
I’m not impressed with him to be honest, he’s just another broken person who happens to be making money from his personality disorder@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
Yes, it's like he's dissecting everything with the intellect, but there's no feeling ever. It's a very brilliant and in-depth understanding but calculated at the inteelect only.
The coaching of Serena and Venus by their father in the early years was relentless! He let them practice until their hands were bleeding and put them in tears, day in day out. It payed off and they're thankful for him putting the time and money on their behalf, they're hombled by his actions. Megan on the other hand heard nothing but praise, that she can achieve anything she wants and more of this non sense. I agree that Megan's father had all the good intentions in mind, but it back fired so she became that brat thinking she is better than the rest. The scary thing is that there are so many of these half souls but you can't tell them, if you do so they will turn it around and say that you are the problem. I know this cuz I was raised by both parents being narcissist and brother who got the same cushion treatment as Megan, him being the golden child and me the scape goat. He turned out being narcissistic as well.
It’s work like this that has helped me recognise the narcissists in my own family (mother, brothers) and those in my friendship groups who I should avoid at all costs.
The changing facades of the narcissist that they 'adopt' because of where they are and who is around them probably initiated the phrase 'two-faced' before other people's narcissistic traits were observed. Interesting in how, over the years, human behaviours are recorded and 'examined', including by unaware narcissists who cannot see their own behaviours. Sometimes, famous people who are narcissists are so obvious! Thank you sharing this conversation😊
I think my work colleague is a psychopath/narcissist. He's like a giant man-baby who throws hissy fits when he doesn't get what he wants. I just tell him no and laugh at him. Hahaha!
Hi Andrew, just wanted to say I’ve been binging on your videos since your first one with HG weeks ago! (Just finished the proud boys one 😬). I also came across Doug K through HG too….An Andrew/HG/Doug interview would be awesome 🤩!
@@AndrewGold1 Well, if you’ve got the thumbs up from a narcissistic psychopath, I’m pretty sure it’ll be good to go; so to speak 👍….fingers & toes crossed 😂
It’s true I can’t stand Harry’s wife but I didn’t know why and finding out she has no empathy and is self absorbed I, due to hg Tudor explaining I realise why. I’ve stayed around to learn more as I think I have had relationships and family who are narcissists. I can also see how people like hg manage to make you like them, that’s if you don’t know what they are or that they can’t think of people as to be owned and animals. This i really find awful about them. I have been told a lot of times that I’m an empath, even as a child.
I feel badly for J.K. Rowling. I never read a copy of any of her books...but as a reader of other fantasy books...I know what joy she brought to many people...we have to get out of the business of completely maligning people for things we don't agree with with...if we have complete conformity...we have automatons...not flesh and blood people...
I listen to HG Tudor regularly. I'm a fan. He just did a video on Taylor Swift and her hit song Anti-Hero. I've never been a Taylor Swift fan, I'm glad, especially after confirming that she's a ruthless narcissist. BTW, I do like the song Anti-Hero, but still not a fan of hers.
I am a "solid" fan of H G Tudor, just as the Duchess of Beige makes a solid spaghetti sauce. He spells it out like it is. I do like the references to Ginger Bollocks and the Prince of Pink Pancakes. How these two can lecture on carbon footprints, whilst popping over to Pearl Harbour for a photo opp does my brain in. Did Haz have permission to do that as the Missus was not with him? All the best from Australia.
HG Tudor is ferociously intelligent , highly articulate and eloquent and should really be made into an academic institution in his own right - attendance at all lessons to be compulsory . Added to which , he’s a positive narcissist - for the better and good .A man of great insight , vision and value . Combine that with his humour makes him a rare commodity in this world of ever increasing mediocrity , laxity and stupidity . Given the chance , I’d make him The Emperor - full autonomy .
I used to hate HG Tudor because his channel was so rude and sarcastic... I thought... this guy judges others and doesn't realize he is a narcissist. But now that I hear him openly admitting that he is one, I feel more open to hearing him out, I appreciate his honesty. A narcissist who doesn't know who he is, is a dangerous person. It's taken me 10 years to finally realize that I'm a narcissist. So many layers of illusion and self pride to sift through. It takes a humbling rock bottom to begin the journey. I found my refuge in Jesus and have experienced miracles in my life. The term... Pick up your cross and bare your cross is impossible for a narcissist until they are humbled. The weight of my cross keeps me grounded and the narcissism in check. It can't be forced upon a narcissist. That would only serve to inflate the defensivness. They have to come to their senses on their own, after rock bottom.
I want immigrants to come to my country (USA), but I want them to come legally, like I did. I waited 16 years to become an American citizen. No one should be allowed to get citizenship just by crossing a border. And yes, I'm a Conservative, and I have sympathy towards legal immigrants, but have zero sympathy towards illegal aliens.
@@cathy_clarinet H.G.’s fascination with Markel is curiously obsessive. I couldn’t care less about her. (Yet not a mention of Harry.) At least some discussion of Harry might’ve brought an interesting additional dimension to the discussion. Ultimately neither one of them has relevance to my life and has just as little relevance to this channel’s main focus. I can’t understand how a host is so unable to set the focus and boundaries of the interview for his guests. Is it so hard to set expectations and get the agreement of the guest in advance? It’s easy to merely let the guest steer the interview, but it makes it seem as though he’s desperate for them to appear on his channel and can’t afford to risk their disapproval or discomfort. Even in the beginning of her career Oprah conducted harder hitting interviews.
Andrew dont worry about what people say….speak the truth! There will always trollers. Any channel worth listening to is gonna make someone mad. Keep up the good work!
I'd say it's an extreme rarity for narcissists to recognise let alone acknowledge it if they were, its everyone else who has the issue in their eyes There's a view that 1 to 2% of the population are psychopathic for example, which doesn't always mean they have narcissistic personality disorder, though there are massive overlaps I'd wager that given the way society is these days and that NPD is believed to manifest through nurture, that the number is much much higher I know of 5, one ex, my brothers in laws sister, my step dad and half brothers mother and a close friends sister (who both also display strong hints of psychopathy) (also I have big families) There are personality traits that they look for in partners, particularly weakness, a broken past and vulnerable kindness, they're high up there - which my separated parents both display, both are weak people, as a result so was I when I met my NPD ex Male NPD are very different to female NPD, though of the 5 my brother in laws sister is in a relationship where her partner is more in control (he has a very controlling mother), but he has money and status so she will put up with that as it suits how she is perceived to outside society The one thing the all share is their generosity, which is as shallow as they are, you think they're so kind and generous, but nothing is ever for free Also NEVER call them out on one of their lies or deception plays with evidence, especially publicly, narcissistic rage is incomparable
Since HG Tudor is so self aware, how does he manage to stay on the right side of the law? Has he ever broken the law and if not, why not? What stops you or shall I say, how have you prevented that from happening?
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim I diagree and in my opinion and observation is that he is far too cowardly to risk doing anythjng that would place himself in a prison situation because then he’d have no control over the narrative and he would more than meet his match in one of those places.
@@webvole yes, that’s exactly what I was saying, simply in different words. If it makes you feel more correct due to adding the word “cowardly,” that’s fine by me. But you’re actually agreeing with everything I said.
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim roflol dont get your knickers in a twist. Everything he says is straight out of a text book. Its just his take and interpretation on the subject. This platform is just a money making vehicle for people like him thats all. If he really is what he says he is, then that says a lot about the people who subscribe to his channel 😎
@@webvole I really don’t care what he says or doesn’t. All I did was answer your question - i had no idea it was completely rhetorical and you didn’t want answers, in the first place. Then you responded to me by saying “I disagree” and then proceeded to repeat everything I said. I’m not sure what manipulative games you’re playing here, so I’m going to end this conversation.
I think I recognise his voice.. I really wish he has the chance one day to interview her and consistently say "so then Harry's wife, what about your ambition.. can you share what it is, in just 60 seconds: go"
The trouble with La Markle is that her narcissism far outstrips her intellect, which is only average, and her absolute lack of self-knowledge. Markle's ambition? She herself doesn't know, at least not to give an aim or specific: all she knows is that she wants MORE: more money, adulation, adoring men, fawning media. She. Wants. More. And she definitely wants her nemesis, the Princess of Wales, to have, if not nothing, then certainly less.
I have encountered a Narcissist in my every day life. had to completely cut her out. In show business.of course Tom Cruise must be one of the top plus Priscilla Presley. Ellen Degeneres All have to have complete control
Always listening in on HG as everyone should. Along with those other important things such as mortgages, taxes this should be understood by the population as a whole.
He wouldn’t say it just like that, he’ll do several episodes showing the evidence of TCs actions and then will reveal his conclusion. I’ve reached mine already, TC is definitely a narcissist!
With the proliferation of narcissism, why aren’t we going deeper in trying to understand how, why this is happening? We are beginning to understand the frustration and damage those people bring to the table and certainly helping people identify narcissistic people in their lives, but I’m interested in how to understand them from a humanitarian point of view.
The stage is set in early childhood. It is a mix of persanilty tendencies and primarily a result of poor parenting...and the way they choose to cope with it. Dr Ramani has a lot of content about how a narcissist is made. It is often related to overindulgence in a child's achievement and underindulgence in the child's emotional needs...
This is the second time I've had to marvel that of all the voices one hears in this world two only, in recent times, have been straightforward, honest, and perspicacious on any matter relating to people (not that you aren't, Andrew) and yet they have pathologies which would otherwise prevent their understanding others' feelings and motivations and further, disqualify their appraisal of same. Remarkable really.
I love HG’s videos but I can only watch you both during the day because your voices are too soothing 🤣 I drift off to sleep if I watch your videos during the day lol 😂
Dead on re Bo-Jo, but I always felt like he was obvious to an extent that people should've found it tiresome! Someone terminally on television always just happens to have messed up hair and goofy clothes when cameras are rolling despite an entire industry dedicated to ensuring people don't appear this way in public. The way the press fauned over his tea service was infuriating
I thoroughly enjoyed that. The outspoken honesty is actually refreshing but strange to hear in a world of unreasonableness and lies. Narcissism is fascinating when it is intelligent.... and not in your house. Lol! Does HG Tudor think it is curable? It feels like it would be a great loss to cure him though. Most others it would be an absolute relief!
At first I was so happy for Harry. I thought they were a beautiful couple. I began hearing stuff about her, but honestly didn't know enough to know if they were right. I just thought she was this gorgeous young lady. I started watching the Docuseries and for the first few episodes and I literally 6couldn't figure out what everyone was talking about. I felt sorry for them. I started researching stuff. By episode 3 are began getting a slow burn. I ended up full on angry about the whole thing. I am super grossed out! I don't think she should be burned at the stake or anything, though. I DO want to know the full truth but I'm not gonna hold out hope. Plus, I have other interest than spending all my time hating on them.
The media has talked about Markle’s narcissism to death already. Her own half-sister pegged her as a narcissist in March 2021. It’s been done over and over. Same with BoJo. His phony bumbling persona has been the subject of media as well. Does this guy have an original take on anything?
HD has provided great material about narcissism. Megan is an example to help his listeners to understand. Also, Megan keeps providing more information through her words and actions. So HD has more fuel to use her as an example. He has used other well-known people.
@@ellamaeloftus3493 OR you could read any of the gazillion books and articles on the subject. But an anonymous figure claiming to have expertise on CZcams is reliable a source? Smh
Had has been teaching about Narcissism long before Megan. She is only an example. To help people relate a behavior that they are seeing then use his material to understand and to help those living or associated with a narcissist that affects their life.
@@TrueClearMedia Like me, she probably has read,watched & listened to a plethora of stuff on narcissism; but they’re either from a clinical or victim’s perspective. These do help because they validate how the manipulation’s & behaviour makes us feel. HG Tudor on the other hand tells you it from a narcissists perspective; how & also WHY they do what they do. The increasing popularity of his work & testimonials speak for themselves.
Who would you add to the list of famous narcissists?
Always interesting content! This" mouth freaks me out" I have to listen sparingly because I feel like he's doing some kinda weird voodoo thing in my head when I listen! Obviously he's British?🤷♀️🥰
Hitler / JFK
Hmmm 🤔 gotta think about that question! I know I have a few I can think of 💕✌️
Kanye. Occasionally makes some good points but showing strangers private naked pics of your own wife is so gross. And I’ve never understood the whole genius thing. He is not a genius and calling himself one is very narcissistic.
@@tjm8128 yes yesyes "YE"
A person with narcissism is difficult to understand because you're not dealing with a self-realized person. You are dealing with a costume and that costume looks like whatever the narcissist thinks you want to see to make them look good. It reminds me of a skinwalker sometimes.
skinwalker lol
Good analysis. They're not human they have no empathy.
@@faiththrower7951 analysis a scientific word. But says humans are not humans. Inconsistent rhetoric there buddy. I guess at a certain level of intelligence. logic is out the window. I'm a misanthrope mainly due to obvious stupidity like this. It's legit infuriating. You know blatantly lying is pretty narcissistic if you ask me. It's a tool for manipulate deceive.
@@PuppetMasterdaath144 👍👍👍
@@faiththrower7951 👍
The most concise and accurate assessment of Meghan Markle's personality disorders that I've seen. It's untinged by any emotional bias. I am baffled by the public being remotely interested in any puff pieces about a woman who is bereft of a conscience and morals. I have one in my family and the only interest I have is the object of staying as far away from them as humanly possible. They don't deal with normal human emotions - they see them as potential targets for supply.
My dad was one. If I knew then what I know now I would have gone no contact aged ago. Narcissists are pure evil.
Everybody has one in their family - they are odious creatures
@@carolflower8015 they're everywhere around in the religious charity volunteer communities - communal Narcs. You have 2 combat them all off
It is nigh on impossible to reliably diagnose complex disorders in people you've never met. With people like Donald Trump who have no filter and just never shut up, maybe, but it's rare. That's what HG is doing. It's possible he's right, he might have access to information we don't know, but he might be off the mark too, we certainly don't know. I have no interest in the Markles, none at all, I just don't like quackery and I don't like people watching a thing they agree with and then take it as gospel.
Edit: it's absolutely not true btw that narcissists have no emotions and no bias. They just lack empathy. And empathy is pretty necessary to understand other people's emotions.
It's the train wreck angle.
The most frustrating about narcs is their complete lack of self-awareness. And the fact that one cannot make them change. One might as well hit one's head against a brick wall, at least the physical pain will pass.
Narcs?
I thought this video was about narcissists not drug cops or people who rat on others to the cops, but thanks for _explaining/repeating_ what was just said in the video.
The most frustrating thing about narcs is the time you wasted on them before you realized that they will never change.
Exactly.
I had two paid consultations with HG a few years ago and not only were they educational but absolutely delightful. He was very polite, listened to what I had to say, and gave me the correct guidance to help me with my situation.
What did he look like?
@@Psmith-ek5hq it was on Skype audio so I couldn't see him unfortunately
I take it from that that he is a therapist then by profession? I suspected he was.......how ironic to have a psychopath psychoanalyse you if that is indeed the case?
Interesting isn’t it
Having a psychopaths
Perspective
He could validate your emotions
But definitely side with you to understand the dark triads
Love the fact that all of my fave youtubers are hooking up. It's wild, things are blowing up in all quarters with all of your combined focus and reporting. Your combined efforts are bringing REAL news to the world. I've noticed all of your memberships and views rising every day. It's very exciting times indeed thanks to all of you.
Love that!
@@Threemore650 hmmmm ???🫣couldnt watch HG AT LEAST YET🤷♀️✌️✌️
Awesome
@@AndrewGold1 We are born of the need and desire to learn as we've done since childhood; a parent tells the child no don't touch that oil lamp, its hot', but the child "will" eventually do it in your presence or not. When what we know as freedom of speech is intentionally denied us, we look for a way around that barrier of "denied". More and more people are looking for the why, how, where and who are these crack pots who are hindering our right to know, especially public figures.
The leftist regime are threatened and are scared of an informed populace, that has been one area a dictatorial regime will go above all else to control. Many of these narcissist hid in the ranks of these regimes, they do all they can to control the flow of knowledge, but it put the spot light on them and they are in panic mode. Knowledge is power, a power that strikes fear in those who attempt to control the river of knowledge.
HG Tudor is the most brilliant self-proclaimed narcissist. It’s impossible for narcissists to hide from this man.
I don't think he's really a narcissist- he's far too intelligent and thoughtful
@@carolflower8015 You could be right.
@@carolflower8015 Thoughtful? What makes you say that?
@@carolflower8015 he is/was in therapy. Idk if he's been "cured" and got better. I'm one of his fans.
Not self proclaimed, he was intrigued by an ex saying he probably was a narcissist and wondered how he could use that to his advantage, so he went to a psychiatrist and got tested. He was formally diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Anti Social Personality Disorder (commonly known as psychopathy). Then he went on to study both and compare what therapists said to his own experience.
A very unusual background and self insight combined with intellect and the narcissistic need to stand out and create a legacy has lead to an extremely useful source of information about narcissism.
Dropped everything as soon as I saw this , I love the dynamic between you two , could listen to you both for hours.
Thanks Rachel ! We’ll do another soon
Agreed
This was great! New sub.
I wish HG would do a review of the women on the VIEW. There has to be a reason for their madness..
I am loving both you guys.
The programs are so informative and interesting. Loving HG and that deep dark voice. Keep up the great work guys.
Cheers🙏🕊️🇦🇺🥰
Tudor is the real deal. Ive lived with narcs my entire life and my intuition screams danger when he’s talking.
“ that’s not very empathic of you.” Haha! This was gold.
Absolutely spot on. H.G. Tudor always gets it right.
I’m gonna fuel HGs narcissism by saying I thoroughly enjoyed this video. It was the best video I’ve seen in awhile. Wow!! Also you are a great interviewer.
Ah thanks Marla
I love how you have a channel where I can hear different opinions. I really don't want to be in a echo chamber, but at the same time I don't want to support people radical views from the other side. I think your channel really has great balance, and rationalizes different prospectives. Even if I don't agree with everything, I really like your channel.
Ah thank you. It’s rare that people say that, as I get shouted at by both sides so often ! So it’s nice to read !
I really like watching you two, it's always interesting. I've been subbed to HG for several years now, and he's helped me understand a LOT about narcissism. You, Andrew, are a great interviewer, I always enjoy your videos. God bless you both! (Yeah, yeah, I know, you're an atheist, but I'm blessing you anyway and you can't stop me! Lolololol!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂)
I appreciate the blessings Vanessa! Much love ! :)
I came across this channel just now and I find the guest speaker very balanced and astute in his observations
@Celia Osborne, yes, he is. He is extremely intelligent and also very funny. He is very captivating to listen to. You should have a look at his CZcams channel: HG Tudor- Knowing The Narcissist: Ultra.
You’re interviewing HG Tudor again :) He’s a pretty fascinating person. I like this that you’re interviewing people like him. I’m not sure what to make of HG though so I am just listening. He is informative on other subjects other than himself though :)
This is a clip from the original but he is coming back soon!
@@AndrewGold1 I would love to see his opinion on Tom Cruise. That is going to be fun to watch.
One of the major issues with MeAgain is her total lack of self awareness.
".....the Duchess of Industrial Beige...."
🤣 🤣 🤣 👏 👏 👏
Great little snippet! HG obviously knows what he’s talking about with regards to MM. I don’t know anyone that seems to like her. Megyn Kelly regularly and logically takes MM’s podcasts statements apart because they are so ridiculous. Andrew feel free to bang on about her all you want, I won’t complain 😂
I started following HG when I decided to educate myself on narcissism in order to understand what a friend of mine was going through with her narcissistic ex husband. Listening to him I started to recognise behaviours that were very familiar. He was describing my mother. I have to say that his videos keep me thinking for days. The mind of the narcissist is so twisted! I love the Harry's wife's series. The HG roasts series are hilarious. His analysis of other famous people is fascinating
When people started saying trump was a narcissist, I looked up the symptoms and found my mother and my husband! Changed my life having a word for it! I had been telling people that they were mean to me. Ha. My mother was grooming me to marry this man. And they had secrets from me, and an intimacy I was denied by them both. Probably nothing physical, but an enormous betrayal nonetheless! Thank you for helping me understand what happened long ago. I am 77. Still crazy after all these years.
I've listened to HG's videos on Meghan and he is quite accurate. Listen to her interviews, her podcast and One World speech. It does check out. I would be interested if HG analyzed Tom Cruise. That's would be an eye opener.
I'd love to see MM interview somebody ORDINARY on her podcast. She could give a platform to black women who work minimum wage. Ask THEM about racism. Give other women a platform
Does HG Tudor ever think about how he would have turned out if he had not have been traumatised and abused as a child?
Nature + nurture. Genes are the seed, and upbringing is the soil. HG says that if you inherit the narcissistic gene (from one of your parents) and are primarily raised by a narcissist (without significant intervention from an empath or normal caretaker like an uncle or grandparent etc) - you’re going to be a narcissist.
if you have the narc gene but are raised by an empath or normal, you’ll turn out normal or slightly narcissistic.
If you have the empathy gene, you’ll turn out different shades of empath/normal/slightly narcissistic depending on who raises you.
I think he's doing pretty well with what he's got. But then again, I'm at a safe distance. 😊
I’m not impressed with him to be honest, he’s just another broken person who happens to be making money from his personality disorder@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
@@VeronicaVeroVero haha - very true.
Yes, it's like he's dissecting everything with the intellect, but there's no feeling ever. It's a very brilliant and in-depth understanding but calculated at the inteelect only.
Best crossover ever! Throw in Dazed and Confused and there will be fireworks
Love the interaction of you and HG!! ❤
The coaching of Serena and Venus by their father in the early years was relentless! He let them practice until their hands were bleeding and put them in tears, day in day out. It payed off and they're thankful for him putting the time and money on their behalf, they're hombled by his actions.
Megan on the other hand heard nothing but praise, that she can achieve anything she wants and more of this non sense. I agree that Megan's father had all the good intentions in mind, but it back fired so she became that brat thinking she is better than the rest.
The scary thing is that there are so many of these half souls but you can't tell them, if you do so they will turn it around and say that you are the problem.
I know this cuz I was raised by both parents being narcissist and brother who got the same cushion treatment as Megan, him being the golden child and me the scape goat. He turned out being narcissistic as well.
Fascinating and a very entertaining interview. HG is really funny. Even though he's so serious, had my in stitches
I love HJ Tudor’s work! It truly is remarkable 👌👌
It’s work like this that has helped me recognise the narcissists in my own family (mother, brothers) and those in my friendship groups who I should avoid at all costs.
The changing facades of the narcissist that they 'adopt' because of where they are and who is around them probably initiated the phrase 'two-faced' before other people's narcissistic traits were observed. Interesting in how, over the years, human behaviours are recorded and 'examined', including by unaware narcissists who cannot see their own behaviours. Sometimes, famous people who are narcissists are so obvious! Thank you sharing this conversation😊
How about Asia Argento and her relationship with Anthony Bourdain? I would love to have that relationship analyzed.
💯 spot on about Meghan Markle, the middle mid range narcissist.
Got to love HG Tudor! Thanks
I think my work colleague is a psychopath/narcissist. He's like a giant man-baby who throws hissy fits when he doesn't get what he wants. I just tell him no and laugh at him. Hahaha!
Good for you, because if he is, telling him no will piss him off no end
@@bethmcnaughton2503 Imo it would be the laughing at him that sets him off the edge 🤭 omg talk about pissing a narcissist off 🤣😂
A psychopath wouldn't throw a hissy fit LOL
😂😂😂
Excellent video, don't know how I missed this till now 👍
Hi Andrew, just wanted to say I’ve been binging on your videos since your first one with HG weeks ago! (Just finished the proud boys one 😬). I also came across Doug K through HG too….An Andrew/HG/Doug interview would be awesome 🤩!
Glad you like them! Will see what we can arrange Beth! :D
Just discovered these! I'm going to start binging too;)
@@AndrewGold1 Hope ai. Like the intelligent interchange between you three.
@@AndrewGold1 Well, if you’ve got the thumbs up from a narcissistic psychopath, I’m pretty sure it’ll be good to go; so to speak 👍….fingers & toes crossed 😂
@@miacrabtree2085 yesssss Mia!
I love this interview, HGT says everything I’ve thought but not had the education, skills etc to articulate accurately
Love listening to HG Tudor. Aways hits the nail on the head.
Narcs are attracted to acting because they have no real personality/core of their own and they can morph into the character instead.
It’s true I can’t stand Harry’s wife but I didn’t know why and finding out she has no empathy and is self absorbed I, due to hg Tudor explaining I realise why. I’ve stayed around to learn more as I think I have had relationships and family who are narcissists. I can also see how people like hg manage to make you like them, that’s if you don’t know what they are or that they can’t think of people as to be owned and animals. This i really find awful about them. I have been told a lot of times that I’m an empath, even as a child.
Love HG Tudor!! Good job getting him on!
He is right!
I feel badly for J.K. Rowling. I never read a copy of any of her books...but as a reader of other fantasy books...I know what joy she brought to many people...we have to get out of the business of completely maligning people for things we don't agree with with...if we have complete conformity...we have automatons...not flesh and blood people...
I listen to HG Tudor regularly. I'm a fan. He just did a video on Taylor Swift and her hit song Anti-Hero. I've never been a Taylor Swift fan, I'm glad, especially after confirming that she's a ruthless narcissist. BTW, I do like the song Anti-Hero, but still not a fan of hers.
I think her going to Uvalde to be seen laying flowers is the most phony baloney pathetic move yet. It was a disgrace.
Thank you HD Tudor!
This is the only time I have heard HG chuckle 😂
I am a "solid" fan of H G Tudor, just as the Duchess of Beige makes a solid spaghetti sauce. He spells it out like it is. I do like the references to Ginger Bollocks and the Prince of Pink Pancakes. How these two can lecture on carbon footprints, whilst popping over to Pearl Harbour for a photo opp does my brain in. Did Haz have permission to do that as the Missus was not with him? All the best from Australia.
I enjoyed this immensely. Big fan of Tudor and only recently discovered your wonderful channel.
Thank you Michelle !!
I'm an avid listener of your interviews and videos and of HG's so thank you Andrew this was brilliant, a real treat. 👌 🇬🇧
Thanks for listening joyce!!
HG Tudor is ferociously intelligent , highly articulate and eloquent and should really be made into an academic institution in his own right - attendance at all lessons to be compulsory . Added to which , he’s a positive narcissist - for the better and good .A man of great insight , vision and value . Combine that with his humour makes him a rare commodity in this world of ever increasing mediocrity , laxity and stupidity . Given the chance , I’d make him The Emperor - full autonomy .
I used to hate HG Tudor because his channel was so rude and sarcastic... I thought... this guy judges others and doesn't realize he is a narcissist. But now that I hear him openly admitting that he is one, I feel more open to hearing him out, I appreciate his honesty. A narcissist who doesn't know who he is, is a dangerous person.
It's taken me 10 years to finally realize that I'm a narcissist. So many layers of illusion and self pride to sift through. It takes a humbling rock bottom to begin the journey. I found my refuge in Jesus and have experienced miracles in my life. The term... Pick up your cross and bare your cross is impossible for a narcissist until they are humbled. The weight of my cross keeps me grounded and the narcissism in check. It can't be forced upon a narcissist. That would only serve to inflate the defensivness. They have to come to their senses on their own, after rock bottom.
“A tedious individual” lmao savage burn , love it
I want immigrants to come to my country (USA), but I want them to come legally, like I did. I waited 16 years to become an American citizen. No one should be allowed to get citizenship just by crossing a border. And yes, I'm a Conservative, and I have sympathy towards legal immigrants, but have zero sympathy towards illegal aliens.
I’d like to hear about cult leader narcissts
Pick any cult leader. They are all narcissists.
@@TrueClearMedia I wanted HG to talk about someone other than Megan 🥱 Totally agree with you
@@cathy_clarinet H.G.’s fascination with Markel is curiously obsessive. I couldn’t care less about her. (Yet not a mention of Harry.) At least some discussion of Harry might’ve brought an interesting additional dimension to the discussion. Ultimately neither one of them has relevance to my life and has just as little relevance to this channel’s main focus. I can’t understand how a host is so unable to set the focus and boundaries of the interview for his guests. Is it so hard to set expectations and get the agreement of the guest in advance? It’s easy to merely let the guest steer the interview, but it makes it seem as though he’s desperate for them to appear on his channel and can’t afford to risk their disapproval or discomfort. Even in the beginning of her career Oprah conducted harder hitting interviews.
@@TrueClearMedia You make good points. I just have no interest. Zero
@@cathy_clarinet TBH, same here.
Andrew dont worry about what people say….speak the truth! There will always trollers. Any channel worth listening to is gonna make someone mad. Keep up the good work!
Thanks Renee !
I find he's work extremely helpful!!
HGT always entertains.
The RF has got to care with her around. She's one step away from doing dangerous acts
why can some narcissists recognise it in themselves , and others absolutely cant and wouldnt accept it
I'd say it's an extreme rarity for narcissists to recognise let alone acknowledge it if they were, its everyone else who has the issue in their eyes
There's a view that 1 to 2% of the population are psychopathic for example, which doesn't always mean they have narcissistic personality disorder, though there are massive overlaps
I'd wager that given the way society is these days and that NPD is believed to manifest through nurture, that the number is much much higher
I know of 5, one ex, my brothers in laws sister, my step dad and half brothers mother and a close friends sister (who both also display strong hints of psychopathy) (also I have big families)
There are personality traits that they look for in partners, particularly weakness, a broken past and vulnerable kindness, they're high up there - which my separated parents both display, both are weak people, as a result so was I when I met my NPD ex
Male NPD are very different to female NPD, though of the 5 my brother in laws sister is in a relationship where her partner is more in control (he has a very controlling mother), but he has money and status so she will put up with that as it suits how she is perceived to outside society
The one thing the all share is their generosity, which is as shallow as they are, you think they're so kind and generous, but nothing is ever for free
Also NEVER call them out on one of their lies or deception plays with evidence, especially publicly, narcissistic rage is incomparable
I'm related to Michael Caine and yes. That's all I'm going to say :)
Since HG Tudor is so self aware, how does he manage to stay on the right side of the law? Has he ever broken the law and if not, why not? What stops you or shall I say, how have you prevented that from happening?
HG says that breaking the law comes with a risk of getting caught, and prison is hell for narcissists
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim I diagree and in my opinion and observation is that he is far too cowardly to risk doing anythjng that would place himself in a prison situation because then he’d have no control over the narrative and he would more than meet his match in one of those places.
@@webvole yes, that’s exactly what I was saying, simply in different words. If it makes you feel more correct due to adding the word “cowardly,” that’s fine by me. But you’re actually agreeing with everything I said.
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim roflol dont get your knickers in a twist. Everything he says is straight out of a text book. Its just his take and interpretation on the subject. This platform is just a money making vehicle for people like him thats all. If he really is what he says he is, then that says a lot about the people who subscribe to his channel 😎
@@webvole I really don’t care what he says or doesn’t. All I did was answer your question - i had no idea it was completely rhetorical and you didn’t want answers, in the first place. Then you responded to me by saying “I disagree” and then proceeded to repeat everything I said. I’m not sure what manipulative games you’re playing here, so I’m going to end this conversation.
15 minutes?! Noooo! Waiting is so cruel.
I think I recognise his voice.. I really wish he has the chance one day to interview her and consistently say "so then Harry's wife, what about your ambition.. can you share what it is, in just 60 seconds: go"
Aren't almost all famous people narcissistic or full blown NPD? It's seeking all the love, approval and validation to regulate the lower self esteem
I've been waiting for you two to come together again😊💫 just love both channels so much❤️
Ah thanks jb! Did you see the full version? This was just a clip
@@AndrewGold1 yeah, I realized that while watching🤣 my comment came too soon.. but anyways, always a pleasure☺️
@@Jb-ky8tb he's coming back on early january!
@@AndrewGold1 Oh great, well, I'll enjoy watching your other videos until then🤗
Its nice being Anonymous. You can all kinds of claims about yourself and people will just lap it up.
Enjoy these videos and HG Tudor's videos!!
Did HG Tudor ever say what happened to his perpetrators?
I wonder if HG Tudor feels the weight of reliance on other people for fuel and wishes he were self-fuelling, self-sufficient?
The trouble with La Markle is that her narcissism far outstrips her intellect, which is only average, and her absolute lack of self-knowledge.
Markle's ambition? She herself doesn't know, at least not to give an aim or specific: all she knows is that she wants MORE: more money, adulation, adoring men, fawning media. She. Wants. More. And she definitely wants her nemesis, the Princess of Wales, to have, if not nothing, then certainly less.
She is PURE narcissist, literally textbook example
How did I miss these colabs with the wise and all powerful HG?! No blame shifting Andrew…scary taking lips.
I have encountered a Narcissist in my every day life. had to completely cut her out. In show business.of course Tom Cruise must be one of the top plus Priscilla Presley. Ellen Degeneres All have to have complete control
Here, listening w interest lol
Everything you both say makes sense.
Im so sick of people pretending just because you arent a dellusional enabler, doesnt mean you hate them.
Always listening in on HG as everyone should. Along with those other important things such as mortgages, taxes this should be understood by the population as a whole.
I guess it takes a narcissist to know one. Did he sat Cruise was a narcissist?
i think so
He wouldn’t say it just like that, he’ll do several episodes showing the evidence of TCs actions and then will reveal his conclusion. I’ve reached mine already, TC is definitely a narcissist!
With the proliferation of narcissism, why aren’t we going deeper in trying to understand how, why this is happening? We are beginning to understand the frustration and damage those people bring to the table and certainly helping people identify narcissistic people in their lives, but I’m interested in how to understand them from a humanitarian point of view.
The stage is set in early childhood. It is a mix of persanilty tendencies and primarily a result of poor parenting...and the way they choose to cope with it. Dr Ramani has a lot of content about how a narcissist is made. It is often related to overindulgence in a child's achievement and underindulgence in the child's emotional needs...
Tudor has explained it; early childhood and the environment they are 'cooked' in. But I agree we should be lerning how to change it.
@@lnaph Yes. She’s good. Les Crain has helped me understand narcissism as well.
@@mmw5656 haven't heard of him but I'm curious.
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Keep talking about this woman. 😊. No complaints here. HG is the best.
This is the second time I've had to marvel that of all the voices one hears in this world two only, in recent times, have been straightforward, honest, and perspicacious on any matter relating to people (not that you aren't, Andrew) and yet they have pathologies which would otherwise prevent their understanding others' feelings and motivations and further, disqualify their appraisal of same. Remarkable really.
Love H G Tudor
I love HG’s videos but I can only watch you both during the day because your voices are too soothing 🤣 I drift off to sleep if I watch your videos during the day lol 😂
Hahaha not the first time I’ve been told I send people to sleep! 🤪
@@AndrewGold1 🤣🤣🤣 heyyyy That’s what she said! 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Dead on re Bo-Jo, but I always felt like he was obvious to an extent that people should've found it tiresome!
Someone terminally on television always just happens to have messed up hair and goofy clothes when cameras are rolling despite an entire industry dedicated to ensuring people don't appear this way in public.
The way the press fauned over his tea service was infuriating
I thoroughly enjoyed that. The outspoken honesty is actually refreshing but strange to hear in a world of unreasonableness and lies.
Narcissism is fascinating when it is intelligent.... and not in your house. Lol!
Does HG Tudor think it is curable? It feels like it would be a great loss to cure him though. Most others it would be an absolute relief!
At first I was so happy for Harry. I thought they were a beautiful couple.
I began hearing stuff about her, but honestly didn't know enough to know if they were right. I just thought she was this gorgeous young lady.
I started watching the Docuseries and for the first few episodes and I literally 6couldn't figure out what everyone was talking about. I felt sorry for them. I started researching stuff. By episode 3 are began getting a slow burn. I ended up full on angry about the whole thing. I am super grossed out! I don't think she should be burned at the stake or anything, though.
I DO want to know the full truth but I'm not gonna hold out hope. Plus, I have other interest than spending all my time hating on them.
Harry has his own issues he needs to work on, also.
Have you read Tom Bower’s book on her? (Revenge) it’s very well researched. Lots of insight.
@@PuddilyOops no.. sounds interesting though . Might have to check it out! Thanks.
Love it, you guys!
HG i Is right
Awesome clip!!! I love HDs work
What a dynamic here, gentlemen!!!!! Cheers from Portugal
When one thinks too highly of oneself humility is a bitter pill to swallow. Having a conscience is required to be humbled however.
Megan thought she was equal with the queen.
Terrifyingly charming.
👍👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼he went deep I love to hear thankyou
Excellent explanation!
The media has talked about Markle’s narcissism to death already. Her own half-sister pegged her as a narcissist in March 2021. It’s been done over and over.
Same with BoJo. His phony bumbling persona has been the subject of media as well.
Does this guy have an original take on anything?
Actually yes, HG Tudor publicly highlighted her narcissism on his blog years ago. Albeit in written form on his blog Long before anyone else
HD has provided great material about narcissism. Megan is an example to help his listeners to understand. Also, Megan keeps providing more information through her words and actions. So HD has more fuel to use her as an example. He has used other well-known people.
@@ellamaeloftus3493 OR you could read any of the gazillion books and articles on the subject. But an anonymous figure claiming to have expertise on CZcams is reliable a source? Smh
Had has been teaching about Narcissism long before Megan. She is only an example. To help people relate a behavior that they are seeing then use his material to understand and to help those living or associated with a narcissist that affects their life.
@@TrueClearMedia Like me, she probably has read,watched & listened to a plethora of stuff on narcissism; but they’re either from a clinical or victim’s perspective. These do help because they validate how the manipulation’s & behaviour makes us feel. HG Tudor on the other hand tells you it from a narcissists perspective; how & also WHY they do what they do. The increasing popularity of his work & testimonials speak for themselves.