I am a married 64yo and can honestly say I'm the luckiest guy ever. My wife fits the 15 attributes exactly. She has supported and matured me in every way. One of her qualities is she will always rise to the occasion when I'm down and struggling. The lower I am the stronger for me she is.
I was every one of these to my ex, but never ever got appreciated! Only took 18 years of this relationship to realise he ended up being narcissist! Dumped, just like that for whoever he secretly lured behind my back. No care in the world.
Romans 3:23 New International Version 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. John 3:16 New International Version 16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. Romans 10:9-10 New International Version 9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
My wife has all of these traits, I think I will never be this lucky again. I want to make her feel cared and loved for the rest of her life, she is an amazing person indeed.
@@lenavoyles526 I’m with a woman I’ve been with for a year and probably only meets 1 of the 15 criteria (I’m serious), my instincts tell me to leave her cause I am the one driving the continuation of the relationship and she won’t deny it as well. Yet she wants us to be married in a year or so! I need my head checked…!!!
@@y0057 do not marry her. I've been with mine 7 years and in the same boat. I'm told I overthink and I'm too emotional. I'm trying to pull away but it's hard and it breaks my heart
I did all these for my husband while he was struggling with addiction. It was the worst nightmare all the things he did, but I still stayed despite the advice of all the people to leave him,I stayed through the hardest times when I wanted to run and save myself, I gave him all my love and support, lifted him when he needed it... now we are very happy and all is behind us🥰 even though our marriage is only religious,and everyone considers us boyfriend and girlfriend cause we still haven't done the civil marriage, I call him a husband and treat him as such. And he appreciates a lot all my efforts and he constantly tells me he cant find another me, not even in million years 😊❤
😦Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually. And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands. The answer is very simple. Celibacy... Purity. Piety. Chastity. Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality. Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man. No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure. Celibacy will not kill you. You may think that celibacy and Chastity and the purity of the heart and thought might kill you but it will not. It will make you the best possible version of yourself. And never think that it is too late. Never think that you are too old or had too many sexual relationships and cannot become celibate and Chaste now. That is the greatest trick of the devil. Never ever back off from celibacy and Chastity -keep trying keep praying and keep praying and keep crying to God to give you the strength and the power and the ability to stay celibate and chaste no matter how old you are and no matter how many relationships you had.
@@nope5259 bro what the fuck is wrong with you. Did your crush not reciprocate feelings and now you find the need to ruin others day in order to feel like your better than everyone else. Listen bro, keep that negativity to yourself since others want to stride for that perfect relationship. You will find a person that loves you but you must fix this negative side that wants to spread itself before because no one will love you if you can’t show positivity.
Watch out for # 1....Narcissists also want to know everything about you at first during love bomb stage, so they can learn your weaknesses and use them against you
Definitely!!!!! I fee the same why after she tolerated my toxic family. : ) many blessings to you and wish you the best in your relationship in this one life we have.
Met a player that told me a unsettling story of how he's trying to find his ex gf and son that has been kidnapped. He said how his kid is holding a gun in his hand and how he needs to find them. He didn't believe I was old enough so he asked for a picture Id. Then took a pic of it. Which he couldn't do much with. Also we met at a church and he went nuts saying he needed to go get a gun. I told him he was crazy and leave me out if it. He texted me next day saying something about you have a knife and I'm telling police. I told him he is acting immature to leave me alone. Long story short I ended up ridding along ways with him and his uncle to see his friends and family because he thought I got lost around town 😆. I was scared and after heading back we ended up sleeping over night inside the car. I woke up heard someone talking and crying. It was him 😒🤔 speaking to himself in the front seat. I felt like I was apart of the crazy nutty family. I talk to myself too and could not believe I went through with all his bullshit. But I kinda liked him. His uncle said when are we getting married?. Lol . He said I have a wife. I thought he was just lying because. Why would he keep bothering me?
The woman in my life is so important to me. I feel compelled to work harder than I have ever done before to give her the best life possible. I don't know whether it is her love or respect for me but God knows, she's got me hooked. Forever.
Lot of truth to this vid. I was married for years to another woman and she did NOT rate well with this vid. We divorced. I re-married with another woman who DOES measure up to this vid! It’s the difference like night and day. I’ve been with wife #2 for 25 years now and glad we found each other!
😀😊 I call her my angel cake and/or angel love and I'm her handsome gorgeous lol...She's a true sweetheart 💖 that I can't let go of...It's tough out here in the world to find true love...I'm so happy I finally got it on the 2nd go around
Agree Lucy, and my ex did that and more in spades, know she would have done pretty much anything to see me happy, and on reflection I did not show her the love and respect she deserved, but I truly hope she will find one who is worthy of her...
My wife ticks all the boxes! When a woman will share the darkest parts of her past, the things that she wishes she never did, and help you even when you do something really stupid, you know you have a keeper. Of course, she also lets me know if I am behaving badly. I'm almost 65, and she is almost 57. We met and married in 2017, and before we met we were both widowed. She is Filipina, from Mindanao, and I retired and moved there to live with her. She knows that I am committed to her as well.
Yes they are good people Geofffery i have a friend in Switzerland she is poor she is from Mindoro, its a nice place,, i think its near Lipa city from what i can gather ,im glad to hear you found love , god bless both of you and good health
@@johnnoonan5802 God bless you too John! My wife grew up in a poor farming family in Baungon, Bukidnon. We live in Cagayan de Oro City. The Philippines is full of very poor people, many living on very little money, from one pay to the next, and with little job security. During the pandemic here, draconian measures the government instigated such as lockdowns, movement restrictions, and closure of most business, resulted in even more poverty. Here we are almost 20 months after such restrictions were applied, and while they have eased, there are still limitations.
@@gaufrid1956 Hello again Geoffrey greetings from Ireland ,its raining here and getting dark,, we had to put the clocks back for winter time , what a pity as i miss the bright evenings , so Geoffrey the bay of Batangas was the place i could not think of last night where the woman was born around Mindora and the capital city is Lipa city, so thats my information there , well the way its going here with the Covid there will be lockdowns in areas id say , the police were out last spring here on the roads and were fining folk here and turning them back to thier home , theres lots of folk here not wearing face masks and trying to be smart by not doing so , the anti vaxers are going to be rounded up by the Gardai,, is it hot in the Philippines at the moment as Norma used to tell me about the heat and humidity,, say hello when ever you want as its great to chat , all the best for now Geoffrey ,im sure its late now in Cagayan de Oro City.
@@johnnoonan5802 Good to hear from you mate! It's always hot and humid here in Mindanao, and in most of the Philippines for that matter. It's 30C here at the moment and 65% humidity. I've seen 97% humidity recently. Where Norma lived is in the south of the main island of Luzon. It's not too far away from Bulkang Taal, an active volcano, that last erupted in early 2020. I haven't been to Lipa, but I have been to Los Banos and Calamba just to the north of there, and the countryside is beautiful. I also spent time in Laguna just a drive of less than an hour northeast of there. That was before I knew my wife Helly, and since we met and married we lived for a very short time in Lapu-Lapu City on Mactan Island in Cebu, and since September 2017 here in Cagayan de Oro City Mindanao. Mindanao is the large island in the south of the archipelago. Our climate is tropical, as is most of the Philippines, and like Ireland, we get a lot of rain. We say in Cebuano "Init kaayo karun, ug tingali mag-ulan sa karung hapon o gabii"... "It's very hot now and maybe it will rain this afternoon or evening". Afternoon or evening thunderstorms are common. Luckily, we don't get typhoons often. Helly is Higaonon, one of the "Lumad" (indigenous) tribes of Bukidnon Province Northern Mindanao. Her usual daily languages are Cebuano and English, but she is also fluent in Tagalog (Filipno), Ilonggo, Boholano, and of course her tribal language, Higaonon Binukid. COVID-19 restrictions are still in force in the Philippines, but are easing a bit due to large reductions in infections. The measures taken here were among the longest lockdowns and most draconian on the planet. By the way John, my maternal grandmother was a Cregan, so yes, I guess that's why I have the Blarney! Amping ka! Take care!
There is a friend in my life, who does most of these things towards me, but she is already married. So, I just appreciate the fact that she truly loves me, as a friend, and that is wonderful.
I disagree. When a woman loves you she: Makes time for you. She wants you involved in her life (i.e. for you to accompany her to family events) and to feel like she's a part of yours. She accepts whatever baggage you carry. She accepts who you are. She does things for you (like cook, or wash). She remembers things that you say or do. She stands up for you and the relationship. She's easily hurt by you. She makes plans for the future. She does encourage your dreams and goals, if they're realistic.
will she also love you and accept you when sometimes you cannot resist temptation you know what I mean the occosational (british english poking someone elses pie from time to time not emotional but sexual infidelity I think not Sometimes attractions are difficult not a good comparison but you also can lose your temper in the heat of the moment breaking point
Guys, even if you are Red pill Don't take your woman for granted ! Especially, if she's "putting in work" for you. I made that mistake and I still regret it.
Omg wtf!! A crush of mine is like this! Almost fit all the category ! And she even gave me a hint that she liked me! She is also a nice person and a good looking 8/10 !? Wtf am i thinking! Now shes gone moved on to another location to study! I never got a chance to ask her out! Since i doubt myself that she'll reject me and never talk to me again! Well i regretted it so bad! Never hesitate guys ! Risk is better than regret! I'll be on a watch out again if it ever happens!
@@SubscribersNovideoChalle-ly5xb If you still have access to her, hit her up. Regret can be the worst feeling ever. Go after her if you really desire her. If she is still single, you still have an opportunity! Take it, before it's too late!
@@dapeace316 I do want to , now that i've known this ... but this corona virus is blocking me from doing it ! Its giving me chills every day ! I still have access through her , we talk sometimes like 5 times a month or even lower though! This sucks because of the covid 19 !
Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.
Yep these are good points! I have been married to a wonderful lady for over 58 years .Our relationship is vital to both of us and our love life is still red hot!
love is not unconditional people do not love and accept each other for who they truely are because once there's an attraction for someone else and you end up acting upon it he she will show his her true colours how they really love you and the worst prove of this love if you can call it that is divorce I only love you when you feel and act just for me is not real love real love is when your wife falls in love withj another she has a short affair you understand it although it hurts and you can forgive her and still want to be with her beacuse despite your own hurt you can show her at least some degree of empathy and humanity rather than judgment that is real love and I would like to think I am capable of that I am more empathic than most people I would say time and time again I am surprised about peoples judgement lack of empathy and humanity god or no god that makes any person a good human being !!!
Wrong!.I will explain.I have been with this woman for 15 years.I love her so very deeply,She is the love of my life!I have been cheated on and lied to repeatedly with different men.I am not getting into other things just this.I have been a faithful amazing man to her,it's how I was raised.I don't trust her because of all the deep emotional hurt,but I love her more than anything in the world.I don't know where this saying came from.Without trust there is no love is ridiculous!.I don't trust her but i love her to death!
@@timothygarrity5181 sorry for your pain lets face it seems the modern woman is like the old fashioned man many of them were not sexually faithful only it used to be very secretive for women (reputation was important) hush hush as they say no one talked about it , if most men cheat then most women cheat as well but that is not how it is being portrayed AND have always cheated (blue or black pill ?) so you should ask yourself if that is so anyway do I really want to be without her / cut her out of my life for good ? I hope this is good advice (you read so many stories yesterday the guardian newspaper(I am scottish from my mothers side living in holland) woman happily married always felt attracted to other men had casual flings with other men for has been married for more than 25 years still happily married sorry to say this but just be happy even if that is with someone who sometimes cheats (a womanizer is never going to become a one woman man) in 50 or 70 years time we will all be dead don't live with regrets go for the one you want you only live once be happy good luck
There was a dark time in my marriage we had just been evicted from our apartment because I had been fired from my job the good news was that our children were at their grandparents place before all this happened. My wife could have went to her parents but she chose to stay with me on the streets for three days during that time we were house hunting and job searching when I found a job and she found a house I called my in laws to pick us up and bring us to our children so we could tell them the good news I thank the Lord for a wife who stuck with me in my darkest hour...just like one of our marriage vows...for richer or for poorer
The part about women being nurturing and men being protective. Personally, I think the best way a man can make a woman feel, besides being completely loved, is safe.
This IS about my girlfriend, thank you. I’m from Holland (65), she is from Thailand(48), I am 1,5 year with her. She is so great. Wish I met her 25 years earlier.
She always call me as her best friend but does everything listed and loves me alot . I love her and I would definatley marry her no one can replace her . We both love each other . ❤♥️
Sometimes it can take 10 years for us men to realise that shes doing what shes doing because of love. Sometimes, we might find some of these things abit annoying and it shouldn't be this way. I wish everyone the best. Let us take care of our wives guys!
@@lorettaknox154 as much as this is true, I feel some education is needed or should I say communication in every relationship. Some people genuinely dont know much about woman, and so goes for men too. Once the understanding is established, I am sure everything will be excellent. Younger generation tend to be inpatient too, not sure if this plays a role in the dead-end arguments. Also a bad friend will influence you and ruin your relationship. Time is also needed to be put in the relationship (Covid-19 stay at home thing should be utilises wisely) 😀
I don't know whether this can help but here I go. I found a woman who doesn't need a lot to make her happy. Someone who puts her sadness aside when you are sad. Someone who believes in you when no one else will. I am grateful for her and loves her with everything I have inside me as if I will never see her tomorrow. I figure in life you go through hell to get to heaven. Everyday I think of a what I can do to make her life happy. I have been with this lady for 35 years. Looking for someone who is caring is sometimes right in front of you. Just open your eyes wider and think of others ahead of you. I hope this helps.
True* ...in such a way that if you easily got enticed by the outside appearance, you might end-up in a horrible breakup. . With lotto, you overspend and then and-up bankrupt and in debt😕
No. This depends on your mother. Mine was a narcissistic witch. Her love is entirely conditional. In life I have found all women to love conditionally. Men are very blind to this. There is no ‘one’ there is no ‘soul mate’. Just people who’s paths cross who are attracted to each other. Call it love if you like.
I think that's 1 problem. I found a wife not a mother. And theirs a line between mother and wife. Mature men distinguish between wife and mother. Even women need to distinguish between wife and mother their not the same thing.
I have been married to my Wife for 53 Years yesterday, and I love her possibly more now than I did when we first met, I often remind her how we met and how I loved her from that moment on, she's a lovely dancer, Wife, Lover, and just about everything else. She laugh s at me when I tell people I am almost 80 years old and do not look it! That's because I take such good care of you she says.
Absolutely they do and all they need is encouragement that what they are giving is contributing to the happiness of their partner. Tell a woman like this that she is doing a good job and she will just triple her efforts.
The man I've been secretly in love with has a long standing marriage with a beautiful smart stable mother of his children and as much as I hoped it was him saying he loves me too through the phone beeps and glitches I was praying equally if it wasn't for God to save their marriage and forgive my adulterous heart and let me be somebody's Chelsea, a country song by Reba. It's hard coming out of the closet of how massively in love with him I've been, yet had to after trying to give my heart away to someone else and it didn't go over so well at all; also I'm facing how massively hard it is for me to trust .. anybody.. as if that wasn't already a fact about me. Anyways I took my fears to the extreme regretfully and in trying to push past them all wound up crashing, Massively. The man I try to give my heart to doesn't want it and hates country he tells me all the time and in all reality idk, all I do is cry. I never really felt loved. Just want a man of my own I'm attracted to to love like this so much. Hard to find. Despite men wanting me I'm just never attracted back for some reason and I thought about settling, actually, just end up more depressed however to even debate doing that. Anyways I sort of like deleting everyone out of my phone and all my accounts online and even though I wound up homeless again like after my divorce, with nothing and nobody, it's sort of like a healthy time to get out the rest of the crying and take ownership over everything and acknowledge the only real victims in divorce is the children. With or without romance what matters is protecting our kids and them trusting our love After facing my deepest fears and seeing what I found online .. I'm ashamed to say, if I had known that stuff was so bad online and the statistics for shit was so high even without the evidence I was told is required I'd have exposed it in the courtroom a decade ago.. and all I feel anymore is I have failed them. They only have a year or two left before eighteen now, damn. I've never even got close to putting a man before them until now, when the world shut down. Not gonna lie, it left me wanting to run in the arms of a man so bad. Nobody likes being alone. Maybe I'm that somebody. Idk. I can go back to church but truth is I miss how it felt naked in his bed laying on his chest. Feeling stuck there emotionally First time in a decade I even tried to love Someone physically with my heart on the line and it wasn't the fairytale I imagined yet ironically, found maybe it's what I needed.
@@lenavoyles526 do loyal ones exist ? I would never cheat .I want a woman that will act the same .i would love a good woman with a caring heart .my dad was with my mom and she was a good woman but he left for another woman and now he's depressed.i don't want a woman that makes me feel depressed.i would love a good loyal woman with a good heart
My fiance does all these things and more I am so grateful for her in my life. She is my best friend and my true soulmate. I would not be where I am today without her love, devotion and acceptance. She make's me a better man...loving and caring for me the way she does.
I am dealing with a narcissist it not a easy thing... It like a hamster wheel hamster wheel.. cheat on me like it nothing... I just aducated myself about narcissist after 13 years of marriage... I alway know something was wrong untill now everything seen clear to me
Sometimes you don't want to know everything about a person, especially their past. Let the other person share thing's with you when they are comfortable to share their past with you. Don't dig into someone's personal life to much they may not be comfortable talking about every personal detail of their life. Unless it's about being intimate then yes ask away, ask what they like and what they don't like.
Yes I agree with you 💯 on what you said. Some things are just better left in the past, that's why it's called the past. Some people would rather just forget certain things didn't happen and that is why they don't ever mention them. Not because they are hiding something but to move forward and progress and not relive the past. 😊
I love this video - it's so accurate! Especially the last part about jealousy - thank you for putting this trait for once on the bright side. It's not a habit to be proud of, but after experiencing the worst type of jealousy I realised that it was only because I was so frantically afraid of losing him, and now I'm not jealous anymore because I know my worth now as well. It's all about being perceived as equally important by the partner!
Ummm, but you just said it yourself "and I know my worth now". Presumably, you didn't know your worth when you felt jealousy then., correct? So basically that jealousy was originating from a deficit entirely within you, because you didn't value yourself. It wasn't love that was fueling it, it was a manifestation of your insecurities. You didn't trust your relationship because you felt unworthy of their love and that made you afraid of losing them. A healthy relationship with a loving partner should not make you feel that way. A relationship should never cause you fear or distrust, it should be solid and rooted in comfort and security. So, if anything, your feelings of jealousy is even more reason to say jealously DOESN'T mean love. You know?
@@lblincoe2094 Yeah that’s what I already understood and know by now but only because I had to experience jealousy that way ;) but it’s good that you understood that too and wrote it down so that others can get it when they read your well-written text! Thanks.
I’m 28, i had been on and off with a girl for 2 years but never actually took it to the level of officially together . She would portray that she didn’t want a relationship but i recently found out she wanted to be with me . I was blinded and didn’t treat her well. It took her dating another guy that she wasn’t even happy with for a few months to make me realize what i had . Thankfully we’re “officially “ together and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been in my life . I’ve never felt this and experienced this type of love and it scared me at first but she’s shown me patience and nothing but love . She’s shown me that she’s exactly every single one of these traits and i definitely see a future with her . I have severe trust issues not just relationship wise but socially and some issues in my head . Going back to when i was a child and she’s been nothing but supportive . But i even know i need to be better because i don’t wanna lose her for good 🙏🏽 Also she’s a nurse so that’s a great thing too lol
Roberto Murillo you are young and possibly do not have the Looks/Money/Status to warrant such attention yet. But when you do, have your wits about you. Many of the traits described here are to aid her manipulations and to test you. They don’t knowingly do it. It’s nature.
I had the same happen with my gf but I still live her dearly but covid made us not be able to see each other because of my lack of a phone and because I can’t drive yet 😥😥😥
We have been in love for almost a year , one of the main things that make us love more day by day is the simple things which we sacrifice or ignore while one of us is not having a good day. For me she is a gem and i know that She also tells others the same about me whenever she has to. The main thing is that love is actually the small things combined together and also the care , feelings that we share each other. It's the little things actually that make a great relationship which lasts for a lifetime.
@@LiLsam972What does respect look like to you?I know we are on to something.☺️ I ask because I know that one begets the other.For her to show you respect,she has to show up,be present and interactive with you,be interested in knowing you and understanding your love language. Getting to a point where a man feels respected (loved) by a woman takes a lot of effort .What compels us to bother is the Love we feel for you.If we like you we can be led.Period.
@@natungashandahu2644A woman shows she respects her husband by valuing him in words and deeds, by respecting his decisions even when she doesn't agree with him etc...
15/15. Feeling lucky to have her. Almost broke up with her during the worst phase, but I am glad that I asked her what she want, and she said all she wants is me. Soon we will get marry and will never let her go.
My mother was labelled as a "glamour girl" with Hollywood beauty looks while it was her inner Christian beauty that made her what the video is talking about almost to a tee. I'd pass up women interested in me for years always searching for perfection which I knew I could have because of my appearance and wholesome personality etc. That was a BIG mistake for as I look back, I would have dated many more just to give them a chance, which runs both ways. Being too picky is not the way to go. Having the same value system plus of course physical attraction should be enough,
Thank you for this video ! Now I know that My Wife loves me , she really does love me , because you really described her in your video and Im very thankful for her ! I love you Wife ...
I just wanna say that I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with a girl named Kate and man, all those attributes describe her perfectly! When she doesn't text to me for a while, she gets physically ill and affects her body. That's how much she loves me! 😊❤ And all I know that when a girl tells a guy that she loves him, she means it!
@@colinthescienceguy24blackb48 we met in England when we were young and then we went our separate ways unfortunately. Then a few years later we both got phones so I got her number and then we started talking again
The guy I was seeing literally always told me he didn't think I loved him as much as he loved me, yet I have literally done all of these and I feel I was more judged on giving him a hard time about not drinking and eating healthy than seeing it as a sign I really cared for him. I have done all of this to show my love and nothing was good enough for him.
Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.
You tried and sadly certain people won’t value your effort, it hurts but it’s true and I learned it the hard way. Hopefully that guy will learn that the people who truly care about him will push him to be a better version of himself not just loving him the way he is, toxic habits and all.
There was a king who interviewed a beautiful woman he was interested in marrying. After he finished the interview, she asked him what missing, He said you are very beautiful and very smart but I am looking for a lady with an athletic legs . The smart lady told him I understand, You need a lady when you get in trouble, She is ready to run , But I think you need a lady who can stand by you and get you all the support you need and She makes sure you succeed. He changed his mind and married her .
according to this 15 indicators my wife never loves me and that my doubt holds true. I only wait for some years for the sake of my two children. Thank you the admin.
I told my wife of 30 years that I would marry her when I met her casually walking n Manhattan. She laughed I was serious. After all these years she’s been perception amazing This pandemic had only made our live even better
These are good things to know. My New Girlfriends has many of these attributes. She Loves Me with all her Heart Mind Body and Soul. She has supported me during a Very Bad Season in my Life and I can't thank her enough
I made all the sacrifices in my relationships. I was discarded twice, divorced for fulfilling the role of husband, like it was a bad thing for me to do. I guess that makes sense when they refused to fulfill the role of wife.
I have not felt truly loved ever since I came home from work one day to an empty home. Worst feeling ever. I gave it my all and apparently it's still not good enough....... 😐 😕
hello beautiful woman with a beautiful smile, how are you doing, oh my god you are very beautiiful how is the wearther over there , i hope you are having a nice day, i hope no stressed
I'm really blessed an thankful that I have such an amazing man I Love with all my heart an he Loves me as well an I Love watching these videos because they always give me pointers of what I can do to keep improving my relationship
These were things that my friend was doing for the one she loved after saying "yes" to his proposal. But the man then started ignoring her... most unfortunate man.. !!
I'm almost 26 years old. Because of chronic illness and of an uncommon "life path", I've never been in a relationship before. And I've suffered a lot because I've always craved it. I had to find the solutions to my health issues by myself, and educate myself (like many other people do) as doctors turned out to be pointless (may I say useless?). But whatever. My point is, I'm dreaming of knowing this feeling one day, you know. Watching this video doesn't make me feel bad about not knowing this kind of love. It actually nurtures the idea of a Relationship. When dwelling upon a desire, dwell upon the feeling of it being true. The joy of it being realized. I used to dwell upon the fact of not having what I wanted. But that's what create suffering and prevents oneself from finding it. So, now that I'm finally allowing myself the right to be loved and in love... Let's see what Life will bring about. The comment section is nice to read. Changes so much from the "all men/women are toxic nowadays". I guess it, once again, depends mostly on where you look. "For a moment, what we look at becomes [our] reality" as William James said. Probably misquoting, but still. Thanks for the video and beautiful comments to read.
Guys , my woman does all the 15 things even more. I was thinking she's boring with all those characters. From now on , imma apologize to her the way i took her for granted n be there for her. May God bless my woman
I'm the LUCKIEST man (husband) in the world... All the aspects of her behavior match cent percent with what you've expressed. I LOVE HER THE MOST, MY "MADU"...❤️😍😘
That's so true when a woman truly loves a man. The most educated women I encountered never showed such until I met this less educated lady. Very good mannered, hard working, dedicated and very loving naturally. Because of her I don't even feel there's any other lady in this world. She's God sent angel. She will never be at peace until she hears of me. Doesn't feel comfortable seeing me with other lady even chatting although she believes and trust me. When am sick she also feel sick. Wow! I love her so deep and enjoy every bit of her.
Guys You HIT the RIGHT BUTTON, YOUR'E SPOT ON .What a LOVELY, PRACTICAL,HONEST and FRANK ANALYSIS of HOW to KNOW WHETHER A WOMAN REALLY LOVES YOU .10/10/. GOD BLESS !
Wow after 46 years I have not found a single woman that meets up with these 15 items mayb one or two on that list but I am still searching as life goes on.. If I ever find one that meets half this list I'll b sure to accept that person
My mother taught me that supporting a woman in any way was a form of manipulation that women don't appreciate, I'm 34 years old and only just learning that it is OK to support a woman, and to be her rock, the problem with men today is the bullshit their feminist mothers brainwashed them with.
I literally exhibit all these traits for the person I like/love, but time after time, guys take it for granted and do not reciprocate these things. So I just have to move on.
The only woman who has ever done most of what was said here has been my beautiful wonderful mother.
Loser ah nigga
Double chin fs
There will never be someone that loves you like your mother did,a mother's love is a piece of creation straight outa god hands,amen,love you mom
Mommy’s girl
Sex is amazing
I am a married 64yo and can honestly say I'm the luckiest guy ever. My wife fits the 15 attributes exactly. She has supported and matured me in every way. One of her qualities is she will always rise to the occasion when I'm down and struggling. The lower I am the stronger for me she is.
You a lucky guy. A 1%'r
Wow God blessed you man
this is wonderful you are really blessed
Beautiful. And lucky you for realising it.
Beautiful !!! What do you do to show her you love her?
A woman that makes you feel wanted, needed, and cared for is all a guy could ever want.
LMao yea sure
Yeah but lots of guys don't want this so women like me are having a hard time finding that right man
Mental Health Hygiene w/ Kumar Really?👍😊
Deseryl Velez absolutely
I was every one of these to my ex, but never ever got appreciated! Only took 18 years of this relationship to realise he ended up being narcissist! Dumped, just like that for whoever he secretly lured behind my back. No care in the world.
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'Lust is when your heart desires what your eyes admire.
Love is when your eyes desire what your heart admires.'
nice!
Wow nicely put together I'll have remember your lines lol
I will love to know more
Romans 3:23
New International Version
23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
John 3:16
New International Version
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Romans 10:9-10
New International Version
9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
should i quote you?
My wife has all of these traits, I think I will never be this lucky again. I want to make her feel cared and loved for the rest of her life, she is an amazing person indeed.
liar!
👍 good for u
@@MEconcretepool are you the wife or neighbour? Why did you say liar?
Your wife is so lucky
Got lucky therr
How fortunate I am to have found a woman like this. 35 years and counting. We went on a picnic today; loved every minute with her.
Congratulations sir
the women from your generation were not mind-corrupted like the ones we have now, you are lucky sir!
God bless you both.
@@spermatozoea7830 Explain ..
I'm happy for you, Ray!
Despite what people in this world say, I still believe great women like this are still here. Even if I die alone with my Blessings.
Women are there but they are usually with the men who do not appreciate them. The problem is that those women still fight to save the marriage.... :(
But verry verry rare.....
We are here and desperate to be with someone who would enjoy being loved like this, instead of reacting with hatred for these very traits.
@@lenavoyles526 I’m with a woman I’ve been with for a year and probably only meets 1 of the 15 criteria (I’m serious), my instincts tell me to leave her cause I am the one driving the continuation of the relationship and she won’t deny it as well. Yet she wants us to be married in a year or so! I need my head checked…!!!
@@y0057 do not marry her. I've been with mine 7 years and in the same boat. I'm told I overthink and I'm too emotional. I'm trying to pull away but it's hard and it breaks my heart
I did all these for my husband while he was struggling with addiction. It was the worst nightmare all the things he did, but I still stayed despite the advice of all the people to leave him,I stayed through the hardest times when I wanted to run and save myself, I gave him all my love and support, lifted him when he needed it... now we are very happy and all is behind us🥰 even though our marriage is only religious,and everyone considers us boyfriend and girlfriend cause we still haven't done the civil marriage, I call him a husband and treat him as such. And he appreciates a lot all my efforts and he constantly tells me he cant find another me, not even in million years 😊❤
😦Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
Purity. Piety. Chastity.
Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure.
Celibacy will not kill you. You may think that celibacy and Chastity and the purity of the heart and thought might kill you but it will not. It will make you the best possible version of yourself. And never think that it is too late. Never think that you are too old or had too many sexual relationships and cannot become celibate and Chaste now. That is the greatest trick of the devil. Never ever back off from celibacy and Chastity -keep trying keep praying and keep praying and keep crying to God to give you the strength and the power and the ability to stay celibate and chaste no matter how old you are and no matter how many relationships you had.
I'm married for 7 years and I've got the love of my life...thanks to her I stopped smoking and drinking her support is means everything to me
You're good person for allowing her to have her good influence on you. I hope your marriage NEVER EVER fails...NEVER
She will cheat on you. You are a simp
@@nope5259 bro what the fuck is wrong with you. Did your crush not reciprocate feelings and now you find the need to ruin others day in order to feel like your better than everyone else. Listen bro, keep that negativity to yourself since others want to stride for that perfect relationship. You will find a person that loves you but you must fix this negative side that wants to spread itself before because no one will love you if you can’t show positivity.
I thought that you were married at 7 years of age 😅
@@maunamars968 good point
I am a woman, this video is true, and I approve this message.
I'm wondering if women watch these kind of videos? ( they should ) I think men do, more often than women realize.
Though I'm still searching,,,,,but all in this video is true so if any man has a lady who does that for him,,,, believe me that's your true love
@@florencenagawa8455 This is really a nice Video.
Ohh... thank you on behalf of the men creature.
now try and find one
She will also stand up for you if someone is putting you down.
Watch out for # 1....Narcissists also want to know everything about you at first during love bomb stage, so they can learn your weaknesses and use them against you
I had a narcissistic person, they will destroy you
sounds like good advice slower with the knowledge im 60 that you cant know in one day
Speak
This video made me realize that I have never been loved.
i know i havent.. and no woman has ever been there for me when i really needed.
@@robertravena I can relate.
Same here bro 🍻
Sorry Dear,
I prayed and soon after I got the deep love that I had always longed for.
Even me
I always say my wife is the only woman that can tolerate me. Four kids and 32 years married she still tolerates me. I won life’s lottery!!!!
Definitely!!!!! I fee the same why after she tolerated my toxic family. : ) many blessings to you and wish you the best in your relationship in this one life we have.
Met a player that told me a unsettling story of how he's trying to find his ex gf and son that has been kidnapped. He said how his kid is holding a gun in his hand and how he needs to find them. He didn't believe I was old enough so he asked for a picture Id. Then took a pic of it. Which he couldn't do much with. Also we met at a church and he went nuts saying he needed to go get a gun.
I told him he was crazy and leave me out if it. He texted me next day saying something about you have a knife and I'm telling police. I told him he is acting immature to leave me alone.
Long story short I ended up ridding along ways with him and his uncle to see his friends and family because he thought I got lost around town 😆.
I was scared and after heading back we ended up sleeping over night inside the car. I woke up heard someone talking and crying. It was him 😒🤔 speaking to himself in the front seat. I felt like I was apart of the crazy nutty family. I talk to myself too and could not believe I went through with all his bullshit. But I kinda liked him. His uncle said when are we getting married?. Lol . He said I have a wife. I thought he was just lying because. Why would he keep bothering me?
@SIRROMON Mandi I am that!!
@@tastelikechinahadababyandn9928 say whaaaaaat? Lol
This is why my relationship doesn't last. No women can tolerate me. I'm good at keeping the common areas clean but my room is always a disaster.
I've been married for 47 years and all the signs of love you mentioned are present. Thanks for confirming.
You’re very lucky .
You needed to watch a video to confirm this shows how insecure you are
Congratulations
Congratulations
Giving you the greatest happiness you could ever imagine
The woman in my life is so important to me. I feel compelled to work harder than I have ever done before to give her the best life possible. I don't know whether it is her love or respect for me but God knows, she's got me hooked. Forever.
I feel that bro shii bro I've never been type to think about marriage or baby's but current gf go me thinking bout that yk 🙌😇💯💯
What you said is nice. I am looking for a gf that cares for me the way I care for her.
Omg i think my bf feels exactly like this because he works hard for our future. 🥺
Lot of truth to this vid. I was married for years to another woman and she did NOT rate well with this vid. We divorced. I re-married with another woman who DOES measure up to this vid! It’s the difference like night and day. I’ve been with wife #2 for 25 years now and glad we found each other!
Amen to that ! I experience the same .
Lovee
Has she been loyal/committed to you ?
Bra he said 25 years. Yeah sht head she is loyal.
How are you
My wife does every single one of these points. Exactly why she's my wife, my Angel
😀😊 I call her my angel cake and/or angel love and I'm her handsome gorgeous lol...She's a true sweetheart 💖 that I can't let go of...It's tough out here in the world to find true love...I'm so happy I finally got it on the 2nd go around
W wife, I sure hope I get married one day
A woman in love fights for and defends her relationship, even her own man when needed. 20 years and so happy with my husband!
Agree Lucy, and my ex did that and more in spades, know she would have done pretty much anything to see me happy, and on reflection I did not show her the love and respect she deserved, but I truly hope she will find one who is worthy of her...
Lucky is the man who has a woman like this...
I do have a woman like this. Am I happy about it. 😁
I Have
you can say that again
same
I am..
This video just made me realize I currently have the love of my life as my girlfriend. I pray it ends well for both of us
Marry her and give your life to Jesus and be sure of heaven
@@paulnwazor588 thank you and by the grace of God I will marry her
@@Slimbillz make sure you live for Jesus Christ. Also, join a Bible believing church let God help u bro
@@paulnwazor588 I already attend a believing church but thanks for the advise. It means a lot
Y’all broke up yet?
My wife ticks all the boxes! When a woman will share the darkest parts of her past, the things that she wishes she never did, and help you even when you do something really stupid, you know you have a keeper. Of course, she also lets me know if I am behaving badly. I'm almost 65, and she is almost 57. We met and married in 2017, and before we met we were both widowed. She is Filipina, from Mindanao, and I retired and moved there to live with her. She knows that I am committed to her as well.
Yes they are good people Geofffery i have a friend in Switzerland she is poor she is from Mindoro, its a nice place,, i think its near Lipa city from what i can gather ,im glad to hear you found love , god bless both of you and good health
@@johnnoonan5802 God bless you too John! My wife grew up in a poor farming family in Baungon, Bukidnon. We live in Cagayan de Oro City. The Philippines is full of very poor people, many living on very little money, from one pay to the next, and with little job security. During the pandemic here, draconian measures the government instigated such as lockdowns, movement restrictions, and closure of most business, resulted in even more poverty. Here we are almost 20 months after such restrictions were applied, and while they have eased, there are still limitations.
@@gaufrid1956 Hello again Geoffrey greetings from Ireland ,its raining here and getting dark,, we had to put the clocks back for winter time , what a pity as i miss the bright evenings , so Geoffrey the bay of Batangas was the place i could not think of last night where the woman was born around Mindora and the capital city is Lipa city, so thats my information there , well the way its going here with the Covid there will be lockdowns in areas id say , the police were out last spring here on the roads and were fining folk here and turning them back to thier home , theres lots of folk here not wearing face masks and trying to be smart by not doing so , the anti vaxers are going to be rounded up by the Gardai,, is it hot in the Philippines at the moment as Norma used to tell me about the heat and humidity,, say hello when ever you want as its great to chat , all the best for now Geoffrey ,im sure its late now in Cagayan de Oro City.
Judging by your photo I’m assuming she is 800 lbs and is blind
@@johnnoonan5802 Good to hear from you mate! It's always hot and humid here in Mindanao, and in most of the Philippines for that matter. It's 30C here at the moment and 65% humidity. I've seen 97% humidity recently. Where Norma lived is in the south of the main island of Luzon. It's not too far away from Bulkang Taal, an active volcano, that last erupted in early 2020. I haven't been to Lipa, but I have been to Los Banos and Calamba just to the north of there, and the countryside is beautiful. I also spent time in Laguna just a drive of less than an hour northeast of there. That was before I knew my wife Helly, and since we met and married we lived for a very short time in Lapu-Lapu City on Mactan Island in Cebu, and since September 2017 here in Cagayan de Oro City Mindanao. Mindanao is the large island in the south of the archipelago. Our climate is tropical, as is most of the Philippines, and like Ireland, we get a lot of rain. We say in Cebuano "Init kaayo karun, ug tingali mag-ulan sa karung hapon o gabii"... "It's very hot now and maybe it will rain this afternoon or evening". Afternoon or evening thunderstorms are common. Luckily, we don't get typhoons often. Helly is Higaonon, one of the "Lumad" (indigenous) tribes of Bukidnon Province Northern Mindanao. Her usual daily languages are Cebuano and English, but she is also fluent in Tagalog (Filipno), Ilonggo, Boholano, and of course her tribal language, Higaonon Binukid. COVID-19 restrictions are still in force in the Philippines, but are easing a bit due to large reductions in infections. The measures taken here were among the longest lockdowns and most draconian on the planet. By the way John, my maternal grandmother was a Cregan, so yes, I guess that's why I have the Blarney! Amping ka! Take care!
There is a friend in my life, who does most of these things towards me, but she is already married.
So, I just appreciate the fact that she truly loves me, as a friend, and that is wonderful.
I disagree. When a woman loves you she: Makes time for you. She wants you involved in her life (i.e. for you to accompany her to family events) and to feel like she's a part of yours. She accepts whatever baggage you carry. She accepts who you are. She does things for you (like cook, or wash). She remembers things that you say or do. She stands up for you and the relationship. She's easily hurt by you. She makes plans for the future. She does encourage your dreams and goals, if they're realistic.
yes
Guy you should also be there for her.she love's you
will she also love you and accept you when sometimes you cannot resist temptation you know what I mean the occosational (british english poking someone elses pie from time to time not emotional but sexual infidelity I think not Sometimes attractions are difficult not a good comparison but you also can lose your temper in the heat of the moment breaking point
I approve of this message but not the cooking and wash. HOWEVER, you aren't 100% wrong. A man can cook too! Even a Sandwich!!! I CAN COOK!!!
My girlfriend didn't stand up for me.
Guys, even if you are Red pill Don't take your woman for granted ! Especially, if she's "putting in work" for you. I made that mistake and I still regret it.
Cold hard fact
Yep Good Luck hope things are getting better 👍
Omg wtf!! A crush of mine is like this! Almost fit all the category ! And she even gave me a hint that she liked me! She is also a nice person and a good looking 8/10 !? Wtf am i thinking! Now shes gone moved on to another location to study! I never got a chance to ask her out! Since i doubt myself that she'll reject me and never talk to me again! Well i regretted it so bad! Never hesitate guys ! Risk is better than regret! I'll be on a watch out again if it ever happens!
@@SubscribersNovideoChalle-ly5xb If you still have access to her, hit her up. Regret can be the worst feeling ever. Go after her if you really desire her. If she is still single, you still have an opportunity! Take it, before it's too late!
@@dapeace316 I do want to , now that i've known this ... but this corona virus is blocking me from doing it ! Its giving me chills every day ! I still have access through her , we talk sometimes like 5 times a month or even lower though! This sucks because of the covid 19 !
Accepting a person as They are is "Love" people are who they are the good, the bad,and the ugly.......
Be and do.
"With her I've became a better person."
"With him I've became a better person."
😊😊😊
Its call growth... people change all the time. If you stay the same your whole life and dont learn from your experiences, then you are a fool
@invincibles 04 you can refuse to acknowledge the information you get; but yes, we do not stop learning.
100%. Love is always unconditional. If you can't accept someone for who they are, you don't love them.
@@davidpean7952 I agree David .
2:23 they never stay during your darkest times…when you can no longer serve them…they leave.
This video made me realize that I don't want my ex back. She got 0/15.
After all «Men going their own way», isn't it?
@@lunicola Sure, a way to say is: "the juice is not worth the squeeze"; it simply means "it is a waste of time".
i can feel you😢
Hahaha
Haha there is a reason she is your ex. Always trust your gut- it is right 99% of the time. All about finding that "Hell Yes"!
A true lover is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself & especially to feel or not feel. 👍❤️
True
Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.
Exactly dear, you hit the point. I will be happy to live together with you, if possible dear
Yep these are good points! I have been married to a wonderful lady for over 58 years .Our relationship is vital to both of us and our love life is still red hot!
good for you! Go get her tiger!
The most important thing in any relationship is trust, because without trust, there is no love!
that's because love is NOT unconditional
love is not unconditional people do not love and accept each other for who they truely are because once there's an attraction for someone else and you end up acting upon it he she will show his her true colours how they really love you and the worst prove of this love if you can call it that is divorce I only love you when you feel and act just for me is not real love real love is when your wife falls in love withj another she has a short affair you understand it although it hurts and you can forgive her and still want to be with her beacuse despite your own hurt you can show her at least some degree of empathy and humanity rather than judgment that is real love and I would like to think I am capable of that I am more empathic than most people I would say time and time again I am surprised about peoples judgement lack of empathy and humanity god or no god that makes any person a good human being !!!
No. The most important thing in any relationship is respect.
Wrong!.I will explain.I have been with this woman for 15 years.I love her so very deeply,She is the love of my life!I have been cheated on and lied to repeatedly with different men.I am not getting into other things just this.I have been a faithful amazing man to her,it's how I was raised.I don't trust her because of all the deep emotional hurt,but I love her more than anything in the world.I don't know where this saying came from.Without trust there is no love is ridiculous!.I don't trust her but i love her to death!
@@timothygarrity5181 sorry for your pain
lets face it seems the modern woman is like the old fashioned man many of them were not sexually faithful only it used to be very secretive for women (reputation was important) hush hush as they say no one talked about it , if most men cheat then most women cheat as well but that is not how it is being portrayed AND have always cheated (blue or black pill ?) so you should ask yourself if that is so anyway do I really want to be without her / cut her out of my life for good ? I hope this is good advice (you read so many stories yesterday the guardian newspaper(I am scottish from my mothers side living in holland) woman happily married always felt attracted to other men had casual flings with other men for has been married for more than 25 years still happily married sorry to say this but just be happy even if that is with someone who sometimes cheats (a womanizer is never going to become a one woman man) in 50 or 70 years time we will all be dead don't live with regrets go for the one you want you only live once be happy good luck
There was a dark time in my marriage we had just been evicted from our apartment because I had been fired from my job the good news was that our children were at their grandparents place before all this happened. My wife could have went to her parents but she chose to stay with me on the streets for three days during that time we were house hunting and job searching when I found a job and she found a house I called my in laws to pick us up and bring us to our children so we could tell them the good news I thank the Lord for a wife who stuck with me in my darkest hour...just like one of our marriage vows...for richer or for poorer
Hey Tim you are so lucky bro ♥️ never give up
The part about women being nurturing and men being protective. Personally, I think the best way a man can make a woman feel, besides being completely loved, is safe.
This IS about my girlfriend, thank you.
I’m from Holland (65), she is from Thailand(48), I am 1,5 year with her. She is so great. Wish I met her 25 years earlier.
"Guys, does your woman make you feel loved?"
Yes she does, and she's amazing
Very true... Best part, she's imaginary too
No
Yes
There's a reason the woman that I've been talking to online are the reasons for it she makes me feel loved.
@@Metalpazallteway It's not imaginary metalpazallteway she is the one that exists Somewhere out there.
I know many of us are single, but still watching like we really enjoying 😂
A teacher did this all for me. She’s like a mom now it’s awesome. I never had a real mom that cared or was there for me before.
Damn son
She always call me as her best friend but does everything listed and loves me alot . I love her and I would definatley marry her no one can replace her . We both love each other . ❤♥️
Sometimes it can take 10 years for us men to realise that shes doing what shes doing because of love. Sometimes, we might find some of these things abit annoying and it shouldn't be this way. I wish everyone the best. Let us take care of our wives guys!
While guys are acting annoyed you're tearing someone's heart out. Do you guys ever even realize how much that hurts someone?
@@lorettaknox154 as much as this is true, I feel some education is needed or should I say communication in every relationship. Some people genuinely dont know much about woman, and so goes for men too. Once the understanding is established, I am sure everything will be excellent. Younger generation tend to be inpatient too, not sure if this plays a role in the dead-end arguments. Also a bad friend will influence you and ruin your relationship. Time is also needed to be put in the relationship (Covid-19 stay at home thing should be utilises wisely) 😀
Hell yeah
You are right! He didn’t even think about everything I had done and he even blocked me everywhere and gone. Now let him be, one day he will realise
@@lorettaknox154 my point exactly!
I don't know whether this can help but here I go. I found a woman who doesn't need a lot to make her happy. Someone who puts her sadness aside when you are sad. Someone who believes in you when no one else will. I am grateful for her and loves her with everything I have inside me as if I will never see her tomorrow. I figure in life you go through hell to get to heaven. Everyday I think of a what I can do to make her life happy. I have been with this lady for 35 years. Looking for someone who is caring is sometimes right in front of you. Just open your eyes wider and think of others ahead of you. I hope this helps.
That's true, we are looking for someone like our mother. Finding the right partner is like winning a lottery ❤️❤️
True* ...in such a way that if you easily got enticed by the outside appearance, you might end-up in a horrible breakup. .
With lotto, you overspend and then and-up bankrupt and in debt😕
No. This depends on your mother. Mine was a narcissistic witch. Her love is entirely conditional. In life I have found all women to love conditionally.
Men are very blind to this. There is no ‘one’ there is no ‘soul mate’. Just people who’s paths cross who are attracted to each other. Call it love if you like.
@@KJ-pu8dw you attract the wrong type of woman.
I think that's 1 problem. I found a wife not a mother. And theirs a line between mother and wife. Mature men distinguish between wife and mother. Even women need to distinguish between wife and mother their not the same thing.
Nah that's just you bro
I usually do those things to my boyfriend,,,, he is happy and say I don't want to lose you, you are beautiful
Wish you two a happy and healthy future together 😊
And work hard but do NOT make money thee end all.
I have been married to my Wife for 53 Years yesterday, and I love her possibly more now than I did when we first met, I often remind her how we met and how I loved her from that moment on, she's a lovely dancer, Wife, Lover, and just about everything else. She laugh s at me when I tell people I am almost 80 years old and do not look it! That's because I take such good care of you she says.
Women like that exist !?
Absolutely they do and all they need is encouragement that what they are giving is contributing to the happiness of their partner. Tell a woman like this that she is doing a good job and she will just triple her efforts.
The man I've been secretly in love with has a long standing marriage with a beautiful smart stable mother of his children and as much as I hoped it was him saying he loves me too through the phone beeps and glitches I was praying equally if it wasn't for God to save their marriage and forgive my adulterous heart and let me be somebody's Chelsea, a country song by Reba. It's hard coming out of the closet of how massively in love with him I've been, yet had to after trying to give my heart away to someone else and it didn't go over so well at all; also I'm facing how massively hard it is for me to trust .. anybody.. as if that wasn't already a fact about me. Anyways I took my fears to the extreme regretfully and in trying to push past them all wound up crashing, Massively. The man I try to give my heart to doesn't want it and hates country he tells me all the time and in all reality idk, all I do is cry. I never really felt loved. Just want a man of my own I'm attracted to to love like this so much.
Hard to find.
Despite men wanting me I'm just never attracted back for some reason and I thought about settling, actually, just end up more depressed however to even debate doing that. Anyways I sort of like deleting everyone out of my phone and all my accounts online and even though I wound up homeless again like after my divorce, with nothing and nobody, it's sort of like a healthy time to get out the rest of the crying and take ownership over everything and acknowledge the only real victims in divorce is the children.
With or without romance what matters is protecting our kids and them trusting our love
After facing my deepest fears and seeing what I found online .. I'm ashamed to say, if I had known that stuff was so bad online and the statistics for shit was so high even without the evidence I was told is required I'd have exposed it in the courtroom a decade ago.. and all I feel anymore is I have failed them. They only have a year or two left before eighteen now, damn. I've never even got close to putting a man before them until now, when the world shut down. Not gonna lie, it left me wanting to run in the arms of a man so bad. Nobody likes being alone. Maybe I'm that somebody. Idk. I can go back to church but truth is I miss how it felt naked in his bed laying on his chest.
Feeling stuck there emotionally
First time in a decade I even tried to love
Someone physically with my heart on the line and it wasn't the fairytale I imagined yet ironically, found maybe it's what I needed.
@@lenavoyles526 do loyal ones exist ? I would never cheat .I want a woman that will act the same .i would love a good woman with a caring heart .my dad was with my mom and she was a good woman but he left for another woman and now he's depressed.i don't want a woman that makes me feel depressed.i would love a good loyal woman with a good heart
My fiance does all these things and more I am so grateful for her in my life. She is my best friend and my true soulmate. I would not be where I am today without her love, devotion and acceptance. She make's me a better man...loving and caring for me the way she does.
When a woman says she loves you. She means it.
My girlfriend tells me every day, that is a good sign
Boy , are you guys naive....don't worry about if she loves you, worry about if she RESPECTS youj....you chumps are gonna get cucked....soon.
unless if she says it just for the money
Mine tells me but not in a meaningful way anymore
Some time they are pretend then love you
its safe to say, no woman has really loved me according to this...
Don't be so pessimistic :) I am sure more than one did
Narcissist will also do some of these things to lock in supply.
I agree
Agree.. very manipulative of them regardless if their male/female. The worst are the narcissistic cheater and in denial. What a psycho.
I agree . There are narc woman . Dated 2 of them
Truuuuue
I am dealing with a narcissist it not a easy thing... It like a hamster wheel hamster wheel.. cheat on me like it nothing... I just aducated myself about narcissist after 13 years of marriage... I alway know something was wrong untill now everything seen clear to me
I've been with my woman coming upto 8 months now,and I can say she ticks the boxes for all of these. It's a blessing when you have a good one 🙏🏾
Simp
a good one??? you are objectifying her now!?!?! YOU MENACE!
She hits every single mark. I love her and I'm thankful for what she does ❤️
😂😂😂😂
YOU DESERVE!!!!
@@luxyluz2442 deserve what
To love and be loved is a tale of another time.
:(
Sometimes you don't want to know everything about a person, especially their past. Let the other person share thing's with you when they are comfortable to share their past with you. Don't dig into someone's personal life to much they may not be comfortable talking about every personal detail of their life. Unless it's about being intimate then yes ask away, ask what they like and what they don't like.
Yes I agree with you 💯 on what you said. Some things are just better left in the past, that's why it's called the past. Some people would rather just forget certain things didn't happen and that is why they don't ever mention them. Not because they are hiding something but to move forward and progress and not relive the past. 😊
There is someone in my life who truly covers every discussed attribute in my case. Lucky to have her! and I love her!
I love this video - it's so accurate! Especially the last part about jealousy - thank you for putting this trait for once on the bright side. It's not a habit to be proud of, but after experiencing the worst type of jealousy I realised that it was only because I was so frantically afraid of losing him, and now I'm not jealous anymore because I know my worth now as well. It's all about being perceived as equally important by the partner!
Hello Anabel,how are you doing I'm Dwayne I'll like to know more about you where are you from..?
Thank you so much for these tips. They are very helpful
Ummm, but you just said it yourself "and I know my worth now". Presumably, you didn't know your worth when you felt jealousy then., correct?
So basically that jealousy was originating from a deficit entirely within you, because you didn't value yourself. It wasn't love that was fueling it, it was a manifestation of your insecurities. You didn't trust your relationship because you felt unworthy of their love and that made you afraid of losing them.
A healthy relationship with a loving partner should not make you feel that way. A relationship should never cause you fear or distrust, it should be solid and rooted in comfort and security. So, if anything, your feelings of jealousy is even more reason to say jealously DOESN'T mean love. You know?
@@lblincoe2094 Yeah that’s what I already understood and know by now but only because I had to experience jealousy that way ;) but it’s good that you understood that too and wrote it down so that others can get it when they read your well-written text! Thanks.
@@lblincoe2094 The video was just stating it's a sign she cares
I’m 28, i had been on and off with a girl for 2 years but never actually took it to the level of officially together . She would portray that she didn’t want a relationship but i recently found out she wanted to be with me . I was blinded and didn’t treat her well. It took her dating another guy that she wasn’t even happy with for a few months to make me realize what i had . Thankfully we’re “officially “ together and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been in my life . I’ve never felt this and experienced this type of love and it scared me at first but she’s shown me patience and nothing but love . She’s shown me that she’s exactly every single one of these traits and i definitely see a future with her . I have severe trust issues not just relationship wise but socially and some issues in my head . Going back to when i was a child and she’s been nothing but supportive . But i even know i need to be better because i don’t wanna lose her for good 🙏🏽
Also she’s a nurse so that’s a great thing too lol
She will eventually grow tired of being supportive,if you don’t change
Beautiful
I wish my BF realize my love for him n wakes up
I can confirm that most of these facts are real
Roberto Murillo you are young and possibly do not have the Looks/Money/Status to warrant such attention yet. But when you do, have your wits about you. Many of the traits described here are to aid her manipulations and to test you. They don’t knowingly do it. It’s nature.
Stories by Emily yes its indeed fact!
@POLLUX and your still having wet dreams with your 2 likes to the 143 likes for the man you commented about 😅 real facts
Stories by Emily true 😊
What does a mean if a girl is trying to make you jealous or if she tries to compare herself to you?
This video made me realize that I lost someone that truly loves me.
I had the same happen with my gf but I still live her dearly but covid made us not be able to see each other because of my lack of a phone and because I can’t drive yet 😥😥😥
I'm literally going through this now but there's still a little hope as we talk a lot about sorting things so I better fix up before it's too late.
But did u?
Stays with you and doesn't abandon you or even make you feel unwanted or not interested
These are the qualities of the kind of woman I want in my life
Don't waste your time. Women don't want a lover they want a provider.
In the US, you stand a better chance of finding a bag of money on the ground than you do a great woman. Best of luck, you will need it.
It will happen
Then when you find a woman who has these qualities, praise her for them.
That literally brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for showing me how much of my life i have missed while chasing my dreams.
We have been in love for almost a year , one of the main things that make us love more day by day is the simple things which we sacrifice or ignore while one of us is not having a good day. For me she is a gem and i know that She also tells others the same about me whenever she has to. The main thing is that love is actually the small things combined together and also the care , feelings that we share each other. It's the little things actually that make a great relationship which lasts for a lifetime.
good job stealing this from facebook
My girlfriend does all that, I'll definitely marry her
Hopefully you can update us on this. Praying for the best for you guys
Then why are you taking so damn long ? Stop having sex and marry her already.
How did it go?
This comment made my day bro.....just ask her out💞
Loads of wishes to u n wife to be
😂😂😂
What a man needs the most from his wife is respect, love comes after..
She can't respect you if she doesn't love you.
I think they go hand in hand
@@natungashandahu2644 true but a man can't feel love he doesn't feel respected even if his wife loves him😊
@@LiLsam972What does respect look like to you?I know we are on to something.☺️
I ask because I know that one begets the other.For her to show you respect,she has to show up,be present and interactive with you,be interested in knowing you and understanding your love language. Getting to a point where a man feels respected (loved) by a woman takes a lot of effort .What compels us to bother is the Love we feel for you.If we like you we can be led.Period.
@@natungashandahu2644A woman shows she respects her husband by valuing him in words and deeds, by respecting his decisions even when she doesn't agree with him etc...
15/15. Feeling lucky to have her. Almost broke up with her during the worst phase, but I am glad that I asked her what she want, and she said all she wants is me. Soon we will get marry and will never let her go.
How did they not have “she feeds you” on this list?!? That’s true love right there I tell you!
It’s an interesting that we tend to be attracted to the same qualities a parent had. I can definitely be nurturing like a mom when I’m in my feels!
My mother was labelled as a "glamour girl" with Hollywood beauty looks while it was her inner Christian beauty that made her what the video is talking about almost to a tee. I'd pass up women interested in me for years always searching for perfection which I knew I could have because of my appearance and wholesome personality etc. That was a BIG mistake for as I look back, I would have dated many more just to give them a chance, which runs both ways. Being too picky is not the way to go. Having the same value system plus of course physical attraction should be enough,
yes
I pray may God send to me a good woman
A woman of faith soon
@@williamsjames3002 She’ll come into your life when you least expect her to bro trust me. Believe and you shall receive 💯
A good wife/GF nurtures like a mother EVERY day.
Thank you for this video ! Now I know that My Wife loves me , she really does love me , because you really described her in your video and Im very thankful for her ! I love you Wife ...
Behind every good man, there's a good woman.
I just wanna say that I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with a girl named Kate and man, all those attributes describe her perfectly! When she doesn't text to me for a while, she gets physically ill and affects her body. That's how much she loves me! 😊❤ And all I know that when a girl tells a guy that she loves him, she means it!
Long distance is hard. I’ve been through it unfortunately but we made it
What happened, Caleb?
@@colinthescienceguy24blackb48 I live in Texas and she lived in Louisiana but she moved here to Texas
Cool. How did you guys meet?
@@colinthescienceguy24blackb48 we met in England when we were young and then we went our separate ways unfortunately. Then a few years later we both got phones so I got her number and then we started talking again
The guy I was seeing literally always told me he didn't think I loved him as much as he loved me, yet I have literally done all of these and I feel I was more judged on giving him a hard time about not drinking and eating healthy than seeing it as a sign I really cared for him. I have done all of this to show my love and nothing was good enough for him.
I get what you mean, but then i think you did what you can. if its real love then both sides would try to make it happen
Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.
Hello Janie
How are you?
Can you give me a chance?
You tried and sadly certain people won’t value your effort, it hurts but it’s true and I learned it the hard way. Hopefully that guy will learn that the people who truly care about him will push him to be a better version of himself not just loving him the way he is, toxic habits and all.
There was a king who interviewed a beautiful woman he was interested in marrying. After he finished the interview, she asked him what missing, He said you are very beautiful and very smart but I am looking for a lady with an athletic legs . The smart lady told him I understand, You need a lady when you get in trouble, She is ready
to run , But I think you need a lady who can stand by you and get you all the support you need and
She makes sure you succeed. He changed his mind and married her .
Good Story!
King - story. Thank you
according to this 15 indicators my wife never loves me and that my doubt holds true. I only wait for some years for the sake of my two children. Thank you the admin.
Mostly women search men with money;;;; LOVE is verry rare....
She marks all of the boxes. She is amazing and everything I need and I'm extremely lucky to have found her ❤️
I told my wife of 30 years that I would marry her when I met her casually walking n Manhattan. She laughed
I was serious. After all these years she’s been perception amazing
This pandemic had only made our live even better
When my fiance just met me and said those words🤪I thought he is out of his mind,only to realize if a man knows he knows🎈❤️
These are good things to know. My New Girlfriends has many of these attributes. She Loves Me with all her Heart Mind Body and Soul. She has supported me during a Very Bad Season in my Life and I can't thank her enough
MARRY HER !
All these things in women and men make a perfect family.
Controversial
Oh yes, my woman make me feel loved. After this video i know a lot of more things. Thank you !
I made all the sacrifices in my relationships. I was discarded twice, divorced for fulfilling the role of husband, like it was a bad thing for me to do. I guess that makes sense when they refused to fulfill the role of wife.
I’ve been married for 46 years and my wife is exactly that way.
Love this. I had a bad relationship with my mother, she taught me what not to be. For that I'm grateful
It is sad that hardship seems to create the best people, even if only by doing the opposite.
I have not felt truly loved ever since I came home from work one day to an empty home. Worst feeling ever. I gave it my all and apparently it's still not good enough....... 😐 😕
Sending hugs, I hope one day you get what you longing for
Same thing happened to me. Hurts like hell. Deal with the trauma man. Hang in there.
Sorry for what you're going through. I hope things get better for you
She left cause she not good enough
Yes...every man should feel lucky to have such a woman by his side‼
hello beautiful woman with a beautiful smile, how are you doing, oh my god you are very beautiiful how is the wearther over there , i hope you are having a nice day, i hope no stressed
YES RIGHT
I pray may God send to me a good woman
A woman of faith soon
Waoo I have a similar situation presently I prayed that it leads too a Happy home
I'm really blessed an thankful that I have such an amazing man I Love with all my heart an he Loves me as well an I Love watching these videos because they always give me pointers of what I can do to keep improving my relationship
The sad thing is when you can honestly say you do 95 percent of these and he still moves on
Un-reciprocated love.
In the area of love, people are usually on different schedules.
He left you ?
hi
Hello, Brenda. How are you doing today?
These were things that my friend was doing for the one she loved after saying "yes" to his proposal. But the man then started ignoring her... most unfortunate man.. !!
I'm almost 26 years old. Because of chronic illness and of an uncommon "life path", I've never been in a relationship before. And I've suffered a lot because I've always craved it. I had to find the solutions to my health issues by myself, and educate myself (like many other people do) as doctors turned out to be pointless (may I say useless?). But whatever. My point is, I'm dreaming of knowing this feeling one day, you know. Watching this video doesn't make me feel bad about not knowing this kind of love. It actually nurtures the idea of a Relationship. When dwelling upon a desire, dwell upon the feeling of it being true. The joy of it being realized. I used to dwell upon the fact of not having what I wanted. But that's what create suffering and prevents oneself from finding it. So, now that I'm finally allowing myself the right to be loved and in love... Let's see what Life will bring about. The comment section is nice to read. Changes so much from the "all men/women are toxic nowadays". I guess it, once again, depends mostly on where you look. "For a moment, what we look at becomes [our] reality" as William James said. Probably misquoting, but still. Thanks for the video and beautiful comments to read.
In a similar situation. Chronically Ill and Disabled, Bedbound. Life is hard. Do not give up. You are not alone.
Guys , my woman does all the 15 things even more. I was thinking she's boring with all those characters.
From now on , imma apologize to her the way i took her for granted n be there for her. May God bless my woman
🙄
I'm the LUCKIEST man (husband) in the world...
All the aspects of her behavior match cent percent with what you've expressed.
I LOVE HER THE MOST, MY "MADU"...❤️😍😘
That's so true when a woman truly loves a man. The most educated women I encountered never showed such until I met this less educated lady. Very good mannered, hard working, dedicated and very loving naturally. Because of her I don't even feel there's any other lady in this world. She's God sent angel. She will never be at peace until she hears of me. Doesn't feel comfortable seeing me with other lady even chatting although she believes and trust me. When am sick she also feel sick. Wow! I love her so deep and enjoy every bit of her.
that's so sweet!! All the best : )
Well, my fiancée does all of these for me and soon we're going to get married, I think that I'm really blessed to have her in my life
Guys You HIT the RIGHT BUTTON, YOUR'E SPOT ON .What a LOVELY, PRACTICAL,HONEST and FRANK ANALYSIS of HOW to KNOW WHETHER A WOMAN REALLY LOVES YOU .10/10/. GOD BLESS !
Wow after 46 years I have not found a single woman that meets up with these 15 items mayb one or two on that list but I am still searching as life goes on.. If I ever find one that meets half this list I'll b sure to accept that person
Some men won’t recognize it. If their mother didn’t show kindness, a man may see these as signs of weakness.
This is sadly true
My mother taught me that supporting a woman in any way was a form of manipulation that women don't appreciate, I'm 34 years old and only just learning that it is OK to support a woman, and to be her rock, the problem with men today is the bullshit their feminist mothers brainwashed them with.
Hello
The ones that didn't/don't appreciate it,its because they are not the right ones for you
Might be the one with my ex-husband... I truly loved him, even as he cheated on me
I literally exhibit all these traits for the person I like/love, but time after time, guys take it for granted and do not reciprocate these things. So I just have to move on.
I always wondered if my EX loved me. Now I know she didn’t
In love a powerful tool it's respect, you need to respect each other
I’m blessed to have my wonderful wife with these attributes. Great video!
I'm 73 and I agree with all points! Daddy showed me wholesome love. I am my man's friend and cheerleader.
every guy deserves a woman like this
For the first time in my life, I now have a woman who does all these things.
I am married for 5 years I just found a lady who loves me and she has all the 15 things
So many lucky guys in the comments. Warms my heart- there is hope ❤
Thanks.