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Full title: How to Be a Man and a Brief History of Feminism
This is a talk on what it really means to be a man. You will learn why masculinity today in the 21st century is in crisis, how it affects you, and what you can do to initiate yourself into manhood.
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About James Marshall:
Before founding the Natural Lifestyles, James had a very colorful career in an amazing variety of areas. His different vocations and passions have given him a unique set of skills directly applicable to seduction and modern romance. From touring the country in his band (playing everything from huge festivals to a private performance for the Rebel Motorcycle gang), running his own successful massage business, to studying martial arts at Shaolin temple and representing Australia in Kung Fu; James has always pushed himself to explore his ultimate potential in whatever he pursues.
Women are naturally attracted to men who follow their dreams, so along the way he has developed great proficiency with them. Applying the discipline and intensity of a martial artist, the sensitivity of a masseur and the artistic passion of a musician to this pursuit; he has dated many incredible women and learned a great deal by observing and listening to them.
As a coach James is an astute listener and is able to read between the lines to get straight to the heart of his clients issues. He has an deep knowledge of body language and conversational patterns, which allow him to transfer immediately useful practical advice to his clients. His style infield is relaxed and charming and he is particularly good at helping clients get into deep rapport with the women they meet and setting them up on the path to successful relationships.
James brings a wealth of life experience, innovation, empathy and humor to the Natural and is committed to seeing other men making the absolute most of their time on this planet.
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Man...sorry if I'm going overkill with the praise, but that thing you said, "every person who is an extremist has their own philosiphy to prove why they are right." Perfect.
I just feel the need to express that I have substantially more than a little bit of admiration for you intelligence.
your*
He's had 200 years of experience in Middle-Earth and has now caught up with Earth's social system. So yeah, that gives him a little more wisdom than most. The Return of the King...
I've got to say, this was a compelling combination of things that I agree with, disagree with, and that I don't have a verdict on yet.
This guy speaks from logic and experience as opposed to emotions and dogma.
Aragorn , is that you ?
lol
Aragorn
I love this guy's banter. That crowd is dead.
They don't mic the audience.
@@ernststravoblofeld 4:09
well the nuances of social movements tends to stiffen people up
He has glued them to there seats thru raw honesty, if your board you have a lot to learn.😉
Reject all ideologies they're CULTurally ingrained belief systems. There are 3 sides to every story, history, herstory and the truth which always sits in the middle while the conversation takes place around it. This is why I will no longer call myself a feminist. As soon as you label yourself you become shackled to the ideas and belief systems of that cult. Be a free thinker, a seeker of truth. Men and women are not equal in nature, we are meant to balance each other. Thankyou for this talk, I disagree with some points but agree with far more- a very necessary contribution to the conversation.
Yeah sundal, you should always listen then analyse what's right.
Insightful and unbiased comment, you don't really find that on youtube.
Easier said than done. I say just have a deep questioning mind. We're inevitably gonna be left with beliefs and assumptions, I believe
Thank you James Marshall, for teaching me so much in my life thus far.
What a polite way to shut down a audience member at 4:33 !
pretty sure that was sasha joking about it ^^
Whow lol
i think the tile should be "How to Be a Mangina | James Marshall | Full Length HD"
the tile
He's banging hundred chicks a year just because he is good looking. He has absolutely no concept of the lives of average men who bang an average of hundred chicks "a never". @@itisWhatitis12345
@@itisWhatitis12345 you’re a fool. Banging girls doesn’t equal masculinity you fool
Wait till you get divorced and your kids and money gets taken away you will speak in a different tone
All Total Coaching THE real truth.
Both of you are bitches 😂
All Total Coaching It won't happen to him. He operates out of choice
yeah the speech was pretty stupid. the idea that woman never had power or that men created the patriarchy to keep women down is so patently wrong it's mind boggling.
All Total Coaching I agree going through a second divorce , most of these women wanted to rip you off .my two ex wife’s have NPD I didn’t know about this disorder until I was in therapy .
I can't imagine a more apt or appropriate way to approach the subject of how one "becomes a man". I wasn't sure where he was going with the beginning, but it all fit together very well. The last 15 minutes or so were pure GOLD. It's not just about getting b*tches or whatever one would choose to call it; but how to grow as a human being, with undertones of sensuality/sexuality.
Love the Trainspotting reference at the start
If it were true to say that feminism was for equality then feminism would have effected change to the family court system in the same wsy as they effected other changes. I judge feminism by its outcome not by its stated objectives.
One of the aspects of James that I like is the fact that he rarely sounds like he's reading from a textbook. He's usually a no-bullshit, trust-your-own-instincts kinda guy. So it's disappointing to hear him spout something that sounds like a verbatim Tumblr post from a first-year gender studies student. For someone who often talks about 'unplugging' from flawed societal narratives, it baffles me that he should jump on today's most vacuous media narrative just as it's beginning to implode under it's own bullshit.
I'm no MRA. Men and women face different challenges in life, and I think it's both morally right and useful for men to understand and appreciate the trials women face (just as the reverse should also be true). But anyone who thinks this stuff through with a critical mindset can see that 'the patriarchy' is a pseudo-intellectual bogeyman/conspiracy theory. I'm sure Marshall knows a lot about female psychology, but this leaves me wondering which of his one-night stands made him read Caitlin Moran.
+neonatalpenguin Well said.
- ADJ
+21 Studios No, POORLY said. Patriarchy is an obvious and important fact of history, NOT a "pseudo-intellectual bogeyman/conspiracy theory." Where feminism runs into trouble is in exaggerating the import of patriarchy in the modern world, in which patriarchy plays a much smaller (or even non-existent) role. That's where the "bogeyman" etc. slur starts to make some sense. But what Marshall said about patriarchy and etc. was spot-on and historically accurate. He did not exaggerate in either direction. Good, balanced presentation, and a good antidote to the anti-feminism backlash which has gone too far. Feminism has its excesses, but also has its truths, which are important.
alan2102 You're homogenizing feminism into a singular movement and event. False. Feminism has distinct waves.
The current wave doesn't have "some truths" and "some excesses". It is *all* overboard, and leeching off of the legitimacy of classical feminism that has long disappeared from the movement, consisting of individualism, justice, and a real respect for Western Civilization.
Your approach reeks of middle ground fallacy.
yourlogicalfallacyis.com/middle-ground
- ADJ
+alan2102 Look, I understand why groups of people (whether they’re feminists, religious people, 9-11 truthers, etc) buy into twisty-turny narratives that look good on a blackboard, and confirm their pre-existing views. It’s just disappointing when someone who has taught people practical ways of freeing themselves from such narratives then buys into one.
I’m sorry, but the notion that men get together (presumably at some sort of MRA Bilderburg Group) and work out ways of oppressing women (in often needlessly complicated ways that only end up hurting men) is loopy. If the patriarchy existed, it would have proven so ludicrously bad at achieving its aims, that it would have been abandoned centuries ago.
The truth is; even 800 years after the Magna Carta, we still live amidst the remnants of a feudal system. Modern gender roles still bear the imprint of when we were dirt-poor tenant farmers living in twig huts on land owned by a tyrannical king, who needed us to be cannon-fodder at a moment’s notice (an arrangement that often worked out poorly for men and for women). If that’s what you mean by ‘patriarchy’, then fair enough. But when many feminists talk about the patriarchy, it's like they're recounting the plot from an early-70s conspiracy theory novel.
There are so many different contradictory tenets and worldviews under the ‘feminism’ umbrella (some of which, as you say, make sense), that the word is near-meaningless anyhow. But if an “anti-feminist backlash” is beginning, maybe that’s a sign of half-baked narratives crumbling, and a healthy equilibrium being found, much like a malaria patient getting rid of a long and delirious fever.
I can't imagine a more apt or appropriate way to approach the subject of how one "becomes a man". I wasn't sure where he was going with the beginning, but it all fit together very well. The last 15 minutes or so were pure GOLD.
I find I disagree with this as he talks about it in the same way Blue-Pills talk about being yourself. "Masculinity is in you. Be your own form of masculinity".
The thing about "equality" (an impossible term to define) is that there are lots of inequalities in lots of different areas. Men don't benefit from all these.
So if feminists concentrate only on the areas where women are behind, and ignore men's problems, then they aren't "pursuing equality" they are just using the word equality to get a better deal for women (& one that gets worse for men all the time, you start to notice this when you become a Dad). Big difference
Then there's the question of whether absolute equality in all areas is possible or desirable at all (because the sexes are different). There are so many things wrong with that remark of James' that I'd be writing an essay to address them all...
I felt the same while listening. He didn't explore the grey areas. I think it should be acknoledged that there's a massive difference between everyday women trying to strive and totalitarians with a fixation on identity politics, and sadly it's these people who hijacked feminism and it's these people who are affecting our media, jobs, children and so on.
But I don't think James explores this fringe and neither was it necessary to prove his point. The fact of the matter is, there are too many men who blame feminism for their struggles, and they'll get nowhere just like the feminists who blame the patriarchy for everything.
Very interesting and intelligent talk. Enjoyed it thoroughly. I definitely disagree on 3rd wave feminism, they explicitly don't deal with oppression of women in 3rd world countries the way you portray them but rather with petty made up "issues" in western society, so that part was misinformed. But I do agree with the message that blaming and hating feminism is not a good strategy. And that part about not sticking to one ideology is golden, pure wisdom.
We don't deal with the oppression of women in 3rd world counties either :p Let's point the finger at ourselves first. Everyone wants the ideal only differ in ways of communicating it.
"not one of us has been accused of false allegations" it didn't happen to me so it doesn't exist. Great argument. :D
He didn't say that. What he said is that it doesn't happen more often than it does with other crimes.
@@gzoechi Who made the point that it happened more often than other crimes? Nobody said it did, so why would him saying otherwise have any bearing, whatsoever?
good talk ...listen the whole way through
Waited for Marshall's speech to be published on youtube for literally almost a year and wondered why did the full version take so long to be published here. Now I no longer wonder why.
I really hope he'll still be invited for 21conv but with a speech as groundbreaking as his previous ones.
I appreciate that you are in favor of gender equality but the feminism of today would like me to apologize for being a man. However, I refuse to be cowed because I was born a man something for which a good number of women have expressed appreciation for very enthusiastically.
Key points:
“Learn to process your process from and objective point of view.”
“Inventory where you are bleeding time and energy”
“Don’t get too sidetracked by other people’s agenda.”
James is spot on.
James is THE man!!!! I feel I am totally in the same page!!!! What he says is really quite elementary, but still so many fail to realize it. It is not all about a perpetual war between men and women, never was. Regretably, there is still much hatred left, and it is not his fawlt that there's is so much hatred on both sides of the field. In stead of staying bitter and angry, on lieu of perpetuating this hatred with more hatred, we must bring the change about with what we love most, which is love and compassion!!!!!!! Thank you 21st Studios.
+The Man From Utopia llllll iiiiiiii
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Great talk. Thank you.
OH James, much respect to you as a dating coach and helping men, but lot of your beliefs about feminism need to be challenged (and of course no one did in this video) and that is why you received a thumbs down from me. Sorry man. Love other stuff though.
mans speaking facts. whoever came here, dont take the video for granted
thanks james, great speech
It never fails to surprise me just how easily, and without realizing it, people can shift between using the majority "norm" and anecdotal edge-cases, when choosing what to believe.
If you find yourself referencing the most common scenarios to justify one belief, but disregarding the most common scenarios and justifying a different belief with minority edge-cases ... you are bullshitting yourself and likely others. Period.
I think James is trying to strike a balance that still may need to play out in the course of history. I applaud his synopsis though, and the conclusions he formulates are wise, compassionate, and logical to a degree I’ve very rarely seen.
1:46 Irvine Welsh reference. What a legend!!!
Amazing point of view.
At 20:15 "Oh, he's harassing me, that's kinda cool"😁... Thanks James, I have so much respect for you. I have learned a lot from you.
A man who loves feminism, is this speaker, is all I can say.
I usually enjoy James Marshall talks because of the insight it offers to all men. However, I'm a bit disappointed with this one. 21:18- 23:05 makes it seem as if women never spew false rape accusations, especially if the guy is a good seducer. Furthermore, James discounts this phenomenon by saying it is a mere "2%" as if that isn't thousands of falsely imprisoned men going to jail. This is the type of feminist mindset that causes a lot of problems. I have no problem with spreading equality between men and women, and actually advocate for it, but feminism always seemed like the wrong tool to go about it.
+Dominic Mills I would have to agree with your assessment of his coverage of false accusations. This is a real problem and he gives it short shrift. Not good. But overall a good presentation, even if with flaws.
He discussed everything except "how to be a man"!
He gave it in 30 sec dint he?
The real title. "My Theory On How To Be A Man"
You need to get james tusk on the 21 convention, hes the real deal
i really really like this man, he is a very sharp thinker with a very broad perspective
"I don't believe in ideology or the concept of right or wrong." -Says James Marshall, as he lectures you on right and wrong based on his personal ideology.
He means we shouldn't follow other people's ideologies; we should find our own paths.
FINALLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYYYY.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
congratulations marshall for talk about a super important subject.. i really liked
I think this speech goes right over the head of primal instinct driven viewers that look to 21 convention videos for quick tips on how to bust a nut. This is an actual lifestyle video that deals with the subtle interactions that occur within our society. Kudos James, I salute you for being so bold.
+Paul Hidinger The 21 Convention is the only company in the world to successfully integrate philosophy with self-improvement, and to also do so across such a broad range of ideas. Grossly generalizing our audience into viewers looking for "quick tips on how to bust a nut" is one of the most insanely stupid comments I have ever seen on our channel.
James was anything but bold throughout the bulk of this video. The views are conventional, the claims arbitrary, and the attitude widely dismissive. Your "salute" is unearned and undeserved.
- ADJ
+21 Studios I am advocate for the company's mission and the products/information you create and supply (especially because information is "free" in a sense on youtube to us. My aim was not to "grossly" generalize your following, but to use harsh exaggerations to convey a point. Obviously, 21 Studios disseminates a wide variety of information (health, finance, philosophy, exercise, etc), however a fraction of followers look to PUAs because they feel hurt or scorned by women and are seeking retribution. Although this is a minority and the confidence that PUAs instill in their clients do translate to other facets of their clients' lives, "men" such as this do exist and James mentions direct interactions with them in this speech.
The real area we seem to disagree then is that you say, "James was anything but bold throughout the bulk of this video." I would argue that any presenter, especially one being videotaped and uploaded to the internet- regardless of topic-, is bold by this act alone. These presenters you upload are voluntarily putting themselves at risk of being crucified for their ideas by anonymous trolls, uninformed/informed individuals, and (apparently) the company uploading the video in the first place.
Paul Hidinger Thanks for the reply.
Those followers you refer to are not actual fans of The 21 Convention. As you seem to imply (and if so, I agree) they are here only because it is a source of dating advice to them. They could mostly, give a shit less about the platform those ideas are being presented on, in the full context of other speeches and ideas being given on the same platform.
This is why the videos are so different from the events. The events cannot be consumed in isolation. All of the speeches are heard consecutively over 3-4 days, and are even compared to one another, live.
As I see it, the "pua followers" who watch our videos have little to nothing to do with us. They are stuck in the past and refuse to move forward to better ideas.
Regarding the men James mentioned, as having direct contact with, you are failing to mention one important fact that James did remember to say: he did not meet them at The 21 Convention, but another conference that has nothing to do with 21 Studios.
James' comments then were not even addressed to the 21C audience, but to other audiences that we largely repel and do not widely attract.
Regarding your final comment, the act may be bold, but the ideas weren't. Read my former comments closely. I was not addressing the act of speaking, but the substance and ideas themselves.
Also, we're not crucifying James. The video was published intact and uncensored on our mail channel, as well as 21 University, our private streaming service. We even created previews and a special trailer for the talk.
James is not above scrutiny and I'm taking him to task for what I believe are completely false ideas, lacking rigor.
Had James previewed the bulk of this talk with me, I would have vetoed it and asked him to pick a different topic if he wished to speak.
Speakers in the future will be required to do so to prevent mistakes like this from happening.
- ADJ
+21 Studios Yes I agree with the first premise absolutely. Those men only looking at the dating advice are not the avid followers- they are not making a palpable display to their valuation of 21 Studios because they are not purchasing the tickets(like you said those that do literally(and then figuratively) buy-into the company are your true followers or "tribe" that your company will back and support as your target audience while the prior are your inadvertent audience that you do not identify with).
Excellent discussion.
Thank you for clearing up the whole situation and the company's stance on this video.
As I stated earlier I did not mean to offend in my first comment in any way. I apologize if my words were misconstrued for whatever reason.
Keep it up.
Paul Hidinger Thanks for the reply, and apologies if my comments came off offensive as well. Really appreciate your thoughts here.
- ADJ
not the best James Marshall speech, but still good
+ThatIncredibleJordan Agree.
This is why this speech sucks; he says:
1) ''Don't automatically put women in submissive role...it should be her decision.''
- As if she doesn't have a choice to leave if she doesn't like it.
2) ''You don't have to be a traditionally masculine man.''
- This is like the advice ''just be yourself'' given to a 25 year old insecure virgin.
If being ''yourself'' produce worse results than being ''traditionally masculine'', than you should do what does produce results. And in this case, most women prefer a traditionally masculine guy over the feminine guy. Especially hot women.
Political correctness is one thing, but reality is another thing. And reality is that most women prefer a masculine men over feminine men.
And since the opposite polarities attract each other, the more feminine (a.k.a. hotter) the women is, the more masculine guy needs to be to attract her.
OFC, not all cases, but you get the gist...
3) ''Male and female roles in society are not fixed (pre-decided) by nature. It is a cultural thing.''
- Yes, they are. Males have testosteron, women have estrogen. That's why most men are suited for a leading role in relationship, and most women are biologically suited for submissive (supportive) role.
You're absolutely right. This dude is wrong about feminism. It hurts women the most.
Very brave to talk about this on this environment. Respect, man!
Even though I am female, this video applies a lot to me and my life
Cherry Astropsych yeah why real men doesn’t associate to his speech.
@@inpersonaDK Which part of the speech did you disagree with, exactly?
@@51MontyPython I agree with everything he said except that in 2015 the feminine movement was not as bad as it is today. Manhood is truly under attack for real this time. I don't mean that it is the masses that are against masculinity but the media/Government is trying to see how far they can promote/push feminism to the point where the healthy power play he mentioned that IS great, is not adhered to but instead far out to the point where the male counterpart is minimized and held with discontent. For a man to have 50% of the say is seen as bad simply because masculinity is seen as being the base of the patriarchy. It was never masculinity that is the cause of the patriarchy but dogma as he stated which I agree with. But today in 2021, masculinity is under figuratively speaking "attack". Wrongfully accused of course.
@@calarencrow7480 I agree.
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“You have your way, I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.” -Nietzsche
In my opinion, this speech turned a bit like Rollo said - man are man and women are the way they are because of men. So you men, men up and take care for those desperate single mother and treat them like independent princesses.
Sorry, but that has nothing to do about what a man is. We are about drive, mission, purpose, invention , exploration.
During the wars, I bet there were a lot of single mothers, because their husbands died, but that did not prevented their male kinds from being men and growing strong. They were not lost, cause they took on responsibilities from an early age.
Usually when the head of the family dies, the eldest son becomes the head of the family - that is huge responsibility.
Also, I don`t believe there are sensible people / men that would oppose women having equal rights and responsibilities. In my country (Easter European) women were never forbidden to vote , drive a car, pursue a career, but women prefer to be stay at home moms , take care for kids and their husband and be his wing men, and he took care of her , because that is what made them happy.
Honestly the biggest problems in the world come from social constructs and experiments made in the USA that some people think this should become a global norm for each society , country, region, etc.
Listen to James. Here stands a great man.
Great perspective 👍🏻
"the journey is cycle" :)
Loved it...perfect!
True equality is achieved when we build our relationship on mutual respect and financial interdependence. We can work as a team, in charge of things we are good at doing, and are always each others back up so when things fall apart we can pick the other person up.
@Entrenched Mgtow Yet it is still possible to build a strong bond with the opposite sex. My SO and I deal with biological, cultural, languages, racial (me Asian him Caucasian), and personal upbringing (born and raised in 2 different continents) differences every day. It's not easy but we keep our communication channels open. He gives me love, commitment, loyalty and i give him the respect he deserves for being a hard working man. We admire each other's masculine and feminine qualities and have great polarity in our intimacy. Sometimes that's all it takes for a relationship to work.
Lily in the Valley .....unfortunately this “bliss” only lasts on average of 7-10 years. No problem unless kids are involved, then the fallout is on them.
@@bwalsberg Well we both love our kids so much, I can't imagine life with them.
Lily in the Valley ....yes, and in the end most people end up loving their kids more than their partner....then the marriage fails.......Statistically speaking it is not a matter of if, but when.
@@bwalsberg The purpose of a marriage is to raise kids together. Without this common goal, I believe men and women can live in different planets. Then once kids grow up , we have the happy memory, and each other to grow old with.
Definitely took a lot from this. Thank you
oh man, i was about to start liking this guy and now...
This man marries charisma & wisdom very nicely. Impressive. Womanism had always been about women rights & the injustice against real victims, but it is getting tarnished by the attention seekers who keeps stealing the spotlight & spitting ideas that are overshadowing the more serious issues just so they can feel included. We are at the stage in time where masculinity is no longer determined by the patriarchy but the matriarchy sure is trying to define that. Being a man is all about being independent & responsible for yourself. You can be anything so long as you dont bring others down & you are at ease with yourself.
bravo James. very intelligent, truthful communication. I truly enjoyed this and learned from this.
Great content! Wide range of topics were mentioned profoundly realistically
you are a wise man agree!!
just amazing, thanks james
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Thoroughly enjoyed this video and have learned a lot from what you have said
Just out of curiosity, what exactly did you learn from this?
Dude could be a stand-up comedian.
The fact that so many guys disliked this is actually worrying. These men have plunged so far in their ideological dogma that their ability to reason and to be open to new information has been severely impaired. Fantastic video and I applaud you James Marshall. This helped me challenge a lot about what I believed in.
Maybe it's you who have plunged into a ideological dogma. It seems like you can't tolerate that people do not agree with you.
One of the best (the best?) speeches on this channel. So bad it has no support of channel's owners but respect that they left it here anyway.
+Jan Klosowski I believe it may be the worst speech every given by an alumni speaker. The first public thing I said about it was that it represents the first ever catastrophic failure of ideas by an alumni speaker at T21C. James failed to live up to his own history at The 21 Convention in this particular presentation.
- ADJ
21 Studios We are on the opposite sides with our opinions then For me, it may be the best thing on this channel.
But what I value the most is a situation when different voices can coexist together. Thank you for publishing it anyway. Respect and peace.
Jan Klosowski I think you're context dropping. There is little deliberate intention for this speech coexisting alongside our other presentations. As I have stated, had I known that it was going to be given, I would have rejected the speech and asked James to pick another topic, or sit the entire convention out.
The fact that it exists is primarily a mistake, not an intentional outcome. Publishing it is just the best choice given all of the circumstances, history, and other factors surrounding the speech.
You're valuing something that the platform it exists on does not support, at all. The platform is here to support what is right and true, not a random assortment of different ideas "coexisting".
The platform is as much about destroying bad ideas as it is presenting good ideas.
- ADJ
+Guy Fawkes Nothing bad about it! Just ruffled feathers of excessively anti-feminist morons.
+alan2102 I got it straight off the bat. The guy said he was here to talk about life. Here we have it lol.
key points, brother ! very nicely said !
This guy hasn't digested the red pill yet.
This guy has always been right I guys because he actually considers life easy and that's it
Becoming a man is a process, not the other way around
This is a brave and honest speech.
***** So retarded people are invisible to not retarded people? Brilliant come back
***** I should have know... metaphor is wasted on morons.
gayEEE!!!
_The wisdom of this PUA!_
This was a perfect lecture, so impressed.
To the guy who wrote the thesis and asked the question about intimacy: Check out: Daniel Bergner - 'What Do Women Want?'
Feminism is misandry don’t confuse people.
Excellent summation! Wow.
Whiny commenters don't know fuck about history. Evidently these guys have no conception that people are not responsible for the circumstances of their own birth. Since there is no such thing as free will, these whiners cannot help being idiot pussy-boys. Whining asswipes show opt to grow up. Isn't that why you watched this?
great video thanks
I made a video reacting to the what women want, one of my favorite dating coaches. Like a modern day james bond.
7:59 - Bonobos are egalitarian, chimpanzees are based on a hierarchy of competence, same as human beings. It's not power it's competence. And 'equality' i.e. communism has led to hundreds of millions of people dying of the last 100 years or so, so having an issue with that is not flippant, it's completely logical.
let james live a long time to teach us
For a more accurate understanding of feminism, you can watch the following series of videos by Dr. Christina Hoff Sommers --- czcams.com/video/4sKBMcLzRHY/video.html
Gandalf Wiz "a bit edgy"? Quite the opposite is true. As one commenter put it, James sounds like a first year gender studies student writing a tumblr post.
His positions are entirely, 100% conventional and unoriginal.
- ADJ
+21 Studios
Way to publicly bash on one of your speakers who's brought a million plus views to your channel and whatever number of people/dollars to your event. It's all good to disagree with the guy, but to display your platform as one that throws its speakers under the bus to win an internet fight with "Gandalf Wiz" doesn't really seem like "A Universe for the Ideal Man"
21 Studios, thank God you put this link in. Feminism is cancer.
He needs to watch them. His facts are confused.
it's because of all of the social engineering, James. And not just regarding men, actually women have been even more of a target, vis-a-vis neo-feminist ideology.
Good lesson
thanks James
James was correct about Feminism until he started speaking about 3rd Wave Feminism. The feminists of today do not advocate against female genital mutilation or the oppression of women seen in other cultures. They are completely silent about human trafficking or inequality in 3rd world nations. They do not want equality, but rather, female privilege--with no concern for men's rights or needs.
The 3 core issues of 3rd Wave Feminism are Patriarchy, Wage Gap and Rape Culture...all of which do not exist in Western society, and all of which paint men as oppressors and women as victims. This speech would have held more legitimacy for me if he also told women to stop making themselves into victims through feminism. I completely agree that men shouldn't whine about feminism and use it as an excuse for not living the life they want. But they should also be warned to avoid women brainwashed with this type of victimhood ideology.
I feel like he thinks arrogantly speaking of broad topics makes him an expert.
I hope his other stuff isn't boring and possibly useful.
Some pretty good points made here but his opinion on feminism feels a little naive.
+Nitro are you sure or does it just not fit in with the narrative you like?
James is spot on regarding feminism. It's about equal rights. Separate the radical feminist who denounce men from the concept of feminism.
hume1234561 Exactly. The same as the far right and far left. We're heading into a horseshoe effect that no one seems to have the sense to realize.
well, imma go with his word over most anyone else and say its true, he gets way more action,, and knows way more than any of us watching, and hes words are probably well reasoned
The media distorts the reality a *lot*. A handful of extremists can discredit a movement of millions with honest and good intentions just because the media prints their extremists viewpoint on every days frontpage until you believe that's actually the only topic the whole world wants to discuss while in reality nobody gives a damn.
Yeah, and my mother also warned me “women are treacherous”.
This is a very long speech that can be boiled down to "Be yourself"
Classical feminism and neo-feminism are completely different, in fact the former is in harmony with natural law, and the latter is misogynistic at its core.
Good video but I struggled through the feminist history portion. Once that part was over I found the video insightful.
It's bluepilled shit. These guys are forcing men back to the plantation.
How to be a man.
Be successful enough to strive toward accomplishment regardless of obstacles through your values.
Edit
Challenge the world through your ideals and values towards a higher being.
Does this guy actually has long term serious relationship or you know, just short term casual relationship? Because listening to him actually give me hope in long term relationship (I am guy who wants long term and serious relationship) however after giving it some thoughts, he is actually giving hope towards short term relationship.
Just short term. Plus he's a sub/masochist. so he's not attractive long term to a girl.
I agree w all the old ideas !
This is a good man! Thank you for this informative video!
It is always only your turn, it is not if she will leave you, but when, and how much does she take when she goes. It is not at all worth it when 93% of US marriages end in under 10 years. And when a "hello" will / could / can get you nailed with a sexual harassment claim in the #MeToo / Nottinghamshire world (with other jurisdictions pushing for similar legislation) there simply is no good reason to speak to a girl. She will not help with my finances, but I am always expected to bail her out, She will not provide emotional support as any weakness will be tabulated, recorded and assessed against me at a later, She will not bring peace into my life as they all thrive on drama - and when there is not drama; they will create it.
What is the f'n point? I find none.
Make money to travel - see new places - die in an unmarked grave. And I hope there is not reincarnation - as once in this show is quite enough.
How could anybody dislike this?!
"Oppressive norms based on religion" - Yeah I'm done with this video.