Analysis of "Harry & Meghan" Netflix Documentary Episodes 1 - 3 | Dangers of Communal Narcissism
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the first three episodes of the 2022 Netflix documentary titled “Harry & Meghan?”
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“Never try to destroy someone’s life with a lie, when yours can be ruined with the truth.”
Love that !
Excellent! Very wise words. 😉
I am writing this one down. Excellent!!!
Well it did work for Johnny Depp
Well said! That's a brilliant quote & a very honest quote!
thank you for taking one for the team and making yourself watch this so we can get your analysis
lol, ain't that the truth!
Yes thank you Dr Grande, I don’t think I could stomach it.
I’m so tired of hearing about these people. It’s not interesting and wish hed just stop.
I definitely couldn't stomach it so many thanks for doing so Dr Grande
Yeah I tried a little but it’s not good.
"It is one of the greatest examples of self-love that I have ever seen." This Sir is why you are a legend.
Self love and self pity make for gingermegs ! Horrid people
He's a legend in his own mind and yours. Get your own perspective
Haha
@gmack3883
So, if one enjoys a person you do not enjoy or agrees with a person with whom you do not agree, one hasn't one's own perspective?
Interesting theory, which is, of course, ridiculous.
"The love the couple has for themselves is so strong that it would burn brightly even if the world ignored them. Which, unlike the couple's love, would bring peace and joy to millions of people."
Some true talk right here. Thank you for your candid and concise analysis, doctor! 👏
That was such a funny line.
Meagain is pissed because the Queen would not let her wear the tìara she wanted. Never say no to a narcissist. Very bad move
@@kathyfrancis9229 yes. Tiara-gate is real 🤣.
My best take away from the analysis.
It was a classic Dr Grande line - I wish he would be invited to do an in-depth analysis of these traitors on TV. Unlike anything, the Douche & Douchess of Sussex makes I'd watch Dr Grande's commentary with sincere interest.
The best analysis ever: “Their love story is historic; it is one of the greatest examples of self-love that I have ever seen!”
I agree.
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I loved that sentence!!! Great analysis and had me laughing. Thanks
Best statement 🤣🤣🤣
Hehehe. Great analysis!!
“They fell in love right away because they were so similar (slight pause) and amazing.” Tone and deliverance, bravo Dr. Grande!
I loved that part too😅
"Her life, which was close to perfect, was about to get complicated" : D
She stalked him for years !
She was coming to London
since 2012 dating rich men
footballers golfers etc etc
She was on the hunt and
Knew exactly how to ensnare
him ! Love story my ass
Lovebombing phase by her
Whenever I feel the need to step back and get away from all the craziness for awhile, I always make a Netflix documentary about myself.
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Bahahaha 😂😂😂😆💯
Yes, when I don't want the media to talk.about me I give interviews and make public appearances.
I haven’t watched it. Just seen clips but it looks like they’ve (or M) has been planning something for a very long time.
@@morgantaylor517 They don’t mind the media attention, actually they love it. It’s just the negative stuff, like being denied to start a charity and suggesting they start a NON profit instead. Lol
They don’t want to be told what to do, they want to control what is said and they blame everyone else for everything gone wrong.
They did the Royals a favor by leaving. Hopefully this will all blow over for the RF but I hope Americans reject this self serving elites.
You can tell even when he said she was late for the second date, after she gave him a hard time being late for the first, she couldn’t cop to it. Harry then backtracked it to being only five minutes late and then when she denied it still he just laughed it off and gave in. I bet that’s a very common dynamic for them. She can’t even admit a simple flaw like that.
Her exuce: "She had to take a shower" So her being late - was not her fault; She had to clean up! Dah.... Do you want a dirty person on a date? But she, on the other hand, was willing to call it quit when Harry was late (due to London Traffic AND he called her several times explaining the situation) She is very manipulative..! Textbook narcissist!
This will be there downfall as a couple.
Thank you Dr. Grande for “attending” Harry and Meghan’s self-pity party, so all of us did not have to.🎉
My thoughts exactly!
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Self pity party sums it up perfectly
I wouldn't have regardless, and despite netflix shoving the title in my face every other minute...
but I love to hear the good doctor's sarcasm... ehm... professional opinion on those two 😜
Yes! So grateful I can just listen to Dr. Grande rather than subject myself to watching the dumpster fire “docu series”.
The lady states she has a degree on International public relations, was a nerd in high school, very good at the Jeopardy game show. It is hard to believe that she was clueless about the royal family.
What’s hard to believe is that she has a degree in international relations, was a nerd in high school, and is very good at Jeopardy. In fact I don’t believe any of it.
International relations degree and clueless about Royal protocol. It bugs my mind, wouldn't you at least be intereseted how to present yourself accordingly, in front of the Queen?
Material from her graduation ceremony has been made public. She majored in marketing. Period. NO "international" anything.
@@ponohawelu4608 Marketing. That totally makes sense. Not that she's good at it but it certainly seems to be what she is trying to pursue.
@@ponohawelu4608 Thanks for the correction
This analysis is the CLOSEST I will come to watching that "documentary". Thank you for taking one for the team and sacrificing your precious time.
“They fell in love right away because they were so similar and amazing” 😅
“Their love story is historic. It is one of the greatest examples of self love that I have ever seen.” Favorite line in the whole video! And completely sums up them up as a couple.
Their love story is histrionic
“Harry and his wife see each other as similar, therefore they can easily channel their SELF LOVE towards each other” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣Dr. Grande had me rolling on the floor laughing!
Utterly disgusting, I don't find them beautiful as they think to be, ugliness on top of ugliness, the more they put the more Hurried Horrific it becomes, so Mega blinded by exterior of what people would think of them right in the middle of Earth Shoot price from his brother in Boston.
That was funny.
@@Zoney06 Spot on.
“It is a great and heroic love story....of self love“. Gotta love Dr Grande’s take on these two. It is accurate and sarcastically hilarious
They certainly are a great match together & that's what everybody wants from their relationship - seeking to find themselves in their partner as in a mirror, like Charles & Camilla, Twin-Flames 💞
Grande is so quietly superb. His droll delivery makes the hyper-drama of M&H a certifiable Folie à deux.
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Your deadpan delivery of the summary of the episodes is hysterical.
Agreed. I was laughing.
Dr Grande's review of the vice president at the end there was the outtakes when he lost it trying to keep it together describing Harris!!!
I'm dying over at Doc's sharp sarcasm throughout this entire video! And all with a straight face. How appropriate and perfect... 😂 Nailed it, Doc! ❤️
I was 😂😂😂 😂 the entire time. Those 2 and their minions are absolutely disgusting & poisonous. Spreading hate and racism. Just sickening.
He is simply amazing! I laughed all through 😂😂😂
From South Africa. My mother died in a car accident around the same time as Princess Diana. I was 19 years old and did not inherit a cent. From then on out I had to work and care for myself. Eventually I put myself through university working days and studying at night. It is tragic losing a mother but my goodness he had life so easy. I wish I had his awful life.
Well done Denise you have shown fortitude and resilience in your life some of the life skills Harry is lacking....Im sure ur Mother wud be proud of u 🥰
@@annettephilip5756 thank you 😊
@@denisekriel5892 u are so welcome xx
You came out successful because you are level-headed and practical, unlike our Prince and Princess
I am so very, very sorry you lost your precious mother at such a young age and had no family support. Congratulations on all you have accomplished. I'm sure your precious mother is looking down from heaven with great pride for your accomplishments. Life is not fair at all!
In the mind of a narcissist -- "I must tell everyone that they should like me, and support it with my own observations and opinions. That will achieve my popularity".
Excellent report and analysis, Dr. Grande. You have saved me (and likely thousands of others) from getting sucked in to this schlockfest. I thank you, sir.
I doubt if they give a damn if narcissists like you like them or not!
@Drea Exactly
@@miadodson1938 you're right! Narcissists don't give a damn about other people AT ALL, except that you pay attention to them.
Schlockfest?😅
@@miadodson1938they clearly care - a lot. They behave like typical toddlers who often believe that negative attention is better than no attention.
This is the best analysis I have seen yet. The dry sarcasm & accurate snark made my DAY. Thank you! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Brit here! It is well known that the British Royal Family make sure that every person who marries into the family, a commoner, if you will, and becomes close to any member as a boyfriend or girlfriend, are taught and shown by the Palace who to behave in every circumstance, and what is expected of them - including press and paparazzi. It isn't for everyone, but so many have stuck by their royal partner and have adapted to Royal expectations, that they have flourished and given back in many ways the privileges they are given. Most of the partners of the Royal Family are ordinary people - including the new Princess of Wales, have gone on to achieve great things via being a member of the the RF.
Meghan claims that she was singled out for attack by the tabloid press because she was biracial. But as a Brit with a long memory I remember Katherine Middleton’s background was pored over with some derision. The problem with Katherine was not her race but her class. Her parents started out as lower middle class: they worked for British Airways in average jobs. Then they developed a business idea and became successful. Their accents are not cut glass but downmarket. The tabloids dug out information about Kate’s grandparents and her sister. Before that, Prince Andrew’s wife to be (commonly known as Fergie) was “investigated”: her previous boyfriends, her debts, her “galloping Major philandering father”. All the dirty linen was publicised. King Charles’s phone was hacked in which he made quite lewd remarks to his now wife: wishing he was her tampon! So Meghan’s treatment was no different to other members of the royal family.
Very true
I think it was horrible that someone taped his private conversations, but that tampon bit floats through my head, every time I see his face.🤦🏻♀️
@@AedanGUnit I cope with the flashbacks by realizing he didn’t make that comment for me to hear. If it was actually him, he was violated by the media who taped it and played it.
@@AedanGUnit That conversation was dire but the tampon part is misquoted.
You have misquoted the tampon comment
Its been found out that this heroic letter she wrote to Proctor and Gamble was actually written by her whole class and teacher🤣
You saying she told an easily-provable lie? Say it isn't so!
@@lexiwilson9501 😅
Oh yes, & they never received a reply.....😂
Her dad has claimed it’s his own fault for convincing her that she’s the hero.
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"I am compelled to agree that their love story is historic. It is one of the greatest examples of self love I have ever seen. "
Absolutely loved your diagnosis, self love indeed. I find it uncomfortable to even listen to either of them, I cannot fathom why a middle aged couple feels the need to saturate the world with what they perceive as their greatness and love !! It’s astonishing they actually believe they are so very important to the world !! Great video Dr Grande. 👍
We all should be VERY thankful to her for having volunteered to teach humanity HUGE lessons!!
Many people's eyes are now open to the enormous dangers of associating with narcissists!
She actually DESERVES an award this time for having helped humanity.
Sophia, can't argue with you on that one!!
Lol, yes. An award given for helping people 'identify and avoid narcissists everywhere'...IANE?
Lol!! These comments are making my day truly
Thank you Dr. Grande for this analysis. You’re educating the world about how dangerous narcissism is.
You’re right. Thanks to her for teaching us on narcissism and destroying lives especially her family and her in-laws.
They met on Instagram and checked his profile. But on their engagement interview she said they were introduced by a “friend”… ahhh… the lies. They’re changing their stories, I can’t even keep up. 😮
Thanks to her we’re now aware on how deep narcissistic behaviour can do to any human being. It doesn’t matter if you’re family/friends, staff.
One sided story, super unconscious bias and they’ve never stopped talking since they left.
We now know who she truly is. And Harry’s enabled her bad behaviour all along. Because. He can’t believe that a ginger can attract a woman like her. Yes. He was targeted and trapped now in this nasty web of drama.
She uses word salad but her actions doesn’t match at all. Her energy is negative, have that angry vibe, and vindictive. We never heard of her reaching out to her father especially when he got sick. 😢 In fact, she doubled down in saying that she doesn’t have a father or sister. Like they never existed. Who does that? 😱
That’s why people don’t like her. It’s not about her excuse using the race card. 😱
Who can relate to their one sided story? They’re not convincing people now because they’re more aware about the actual truth. Not their version of “truth.”
Harry is the only one who is seen wearing a Nazi uniform. And she married him, right?
Boring story that is toxic, divisive and totally self-absorbed.
This documentary shows how they want to be seen, heard, validated, and accepted by the public. Yet. It’s not happening. The problem is people can see through her and Harry early on. Red flags everywhere.
ROYAL LESSON THAT WILL GO DOWN IN HISTORY
Entitled. Zero empathy. Grandiose narcissism. 😮
IANAM award, I'm a narcissist avoid me?
Excellent, Dr. Grande! Your summary had me laughing out loud! Will MM ever realize the hatred of her has nothing to do with race but her personality?
Not as long as she can continue to use it as portray herself as victim.
More like her personality disorder 😕
In a word - No
Impossible because she finds herself absolutely endearing. Perfect wholesome nerdy mom and all that 🙄
Well put.
Thank you Dr Grande as a British citizen the whole docudrama to date has been a nauseating rewriting of ‘their truth ‘. One many of us don’t recognise or ever saw. We have always tried to be empathetic to both Harry and William since the death of their mother . We in the majority highly welcomed Megan and were supportive of the engagement and wedding . King Charles walked her down the aisle for goodness sake ….
Sadly in their enthusiasm for displaying their ‘victim hood’ they have whinged and accused at a time when Harry’s Grandfather was on his deathbed with their tripe interview with Opera .( yes I know the spelling of her name ) Then carried on planning this tooth rotting sickly sweet filming, at a time when our Monarch had developed bone cancer and just celebrated 70 years on the throne . Whether one is a royalist or not she was working two days before she died on state papers .
The whinging of these two self indulged self entitled people from their prison of luxury filmed actually not in their own home but a more grand one up the road from theirs , has clearly shown their masks 🎭 falling to the floor .
I think this was geared to the American audience , no disrespect, but as we see , it’s appearing to backfire hugely .
Your analysis, although I know you are not diagnosing , is in my humble opinion spot on , right on the money if you will pardon the pun .
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Be assured that there are many in the US who agree with you completely and can see right through this melodrama and the actress who tries so hard to simulate sincerity that she comes across as completely phony. In addition to the fake house, it was clear that the whole set up of being chased was staged in an American parking garage--and that's just tip of the iceberg in this truly slanderous, treacherous "documentary." I understand Netflix claimed they reached out to the royal family with no response when in fact no contact was ever requested. Talk about lies and the lying liars who constructed this whole s***t show! I hope it bombs and the world ignores them. I know it would bring "peace and joy" to me, for one.
The queen had bone cancer? That’s sad. And that wasn’t their house?? 😳
Well said!
Watching videos on domestic violence, they say that one of the very red flags is when someone starts to tear someone apart from their family….
It is so hard to believe that they have only been married for 4 years & it's been nothing but chaos! I can't imagine going another 50 years like that! How exhausting!
It’s exhausting and boring just watching it on Netflix ….
This isn’t a documentary…..it’s just whining.
Nobody forced you to watch it, so why complain?
@@unstoppablefavour6224 I'm not watching it!!
Definitely don’t watch it. Ignorance knows everything.
Because they are married to each other it’s ok. If they were married to hateful narcissists maybe not.
Thank you so much for analysing this documentary Dr. Grande. Unfortunately Prince Harry & Meghan have cultivated an unattractive image of themselves. There is no need to "tell your side of the story" when the story seems to be so one sided.
Not as far as I’m concerned, they haven’t. They have never been given credit for any positive move they’ve made. Oh, I’m not saying it doesn’t get reported. I’m saying that when it is reported, like Harry’s speech to the UN, it’s always a accompanied by a side story with a snarky and resentful tone.
As well as their stories keep changing. Hard to digest and believe.
Thank you Dr Grande. There is nothing I would add, you said it all so perfectly
The problem with harry is he’s having a savior complex problem with thinking Meaghan needs protection like his mother needed. I think he’s still coping with the loss of his mom and subconsciously thinking he’s rescuing his mom by protecting Meagan when the criticism for Meghan is far more of a different scenario than from his mother.
She announced her relationship in a magazine article before Harry expected it to go public. I'm tired of their story. So much so, that I owe you a debt of gratitude (lol) for watching and reporting on the documentary. Your analysis is excellent.
They don't have a story
That’s right! I had completely forgotten about that. That tells you everything really. Right from the beginning she was talking control and doing things her way.
You nailed it Dr Grande! This couple is no one’s gatekeeper on unconscious bias! They just reflect misguided people. Thanks a lot !
Thank you Dr. Grande. Excellent analysis. She played him like a fiddle and he was ripe for the picking. "Nobody believes a liar...even when she tells the truth."
So it’s impossible he could like the girl. Even love her. Wow. He has no agency. Okay.
@@MeghannMonroe Exactly. They can't believe that he actually loves her & that he was/is willing to do what he felt he needed to do to protect his family. They think that just because other members of the Royal family have accepted tabloid ire so do they.
I just wonder how long it will be before she grows tired of him. He will feel like a train hit him. She did well setting up her future and secure it by having his children.
It is evident that he loves her but it's all tangled up with a 12 year old and a 36 year old adored mother. I'm 66 years old. "M" is not Diana.
@@MeghannMonroe I don't think anyone is denying that Harry is head over heels for Megan - to the point that his brains have fallen out.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about formerly famous people who mistakenly think the rest of us are interested in their lives like this.
Heh heh heh if it were not for Dr G I'd barely know who these people are :D
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I’m looking forward to the day we’re no longer talking about these people. I’ve allowed them to steal my joy and I’m just done
@@wkgmathguy218 Yes we shouldn't know about them. And when we do, we should have some way to choose to forget them somehow.
@@Dulcimertunes Thanks for the emotes!
Meghan lived in California with her father, who raised her. She seldom saw her mother and had basically no relationship with her until she decided to exploit her biracial background after she met Harry, and simultaneously ditch her middle class, white father. Prior to Harry, Meghan referred to herself as Caucasian on her DL, her imbd, etc.
Loved your analysis! A love story of self love is so spot on, I laughed out loud several times listening to you Dr Grande. Thankyou for that.
That mocking of the curtsey to the queen- right there - devaluing Harry by devaluing his family. Right there - isolating him from his family. The rudeness, the sense of entitlement, the arrogance is mind boggling.
You could see it hurt him and made him very uncomfortable. He adored his grandmother. The question is why he permitted that disgusting mocking and allowing it to be on Netflix.
Carry on "Em" you'll be sending "Aitch" right back to his royal family before you know it. That is, if he has the balls.
Good to point this out ,,,,, who does this ?
Bad actress, badly acting out a curtsey
@@princessofgenovia1407 Right? Who does any of this to their family? Going on Oprah and saying someone asked what color the baby would be is racist. Then saying they weren't comfortable saying WHO said it. They didn't dare confront the person when and if it happened, but let's vaguely accuse someone, then NOT say who it was. FFS, you're on global TV and you're uncomfortable about giving names? They are POS's
ABSOLUTELY
Here’s my interpretation: Harry is acting out his childhood loss of his mother. By conflating his mother and his wife and their respective victim hoods, he creates a scenario where by escaping, he is able to “save the mother” with his wife playing the role of his mother and he, the father, saves the little boy - him with his own son playing the part of son in this unconscious drama. I do feel bad for him in that losing one’s mother at 12 is totally devastating and without extensive therapy, will negatively affect the person emotionally. Even with therapy, there’s a pretty big scar there. Meghen simply has narcissistic personality disorder (possibly borderline too). She needs to subsume Harry, control him (and tries to control pretty much the whole world), isolate him from his family and friends. She needs to be the center of attention, she is grandiose and views herself, simply as being married to a Prince, true royalty, an international star, a revered philanthropist. I think most people see through her mask and facade. I think they have miscalculated their most recent move with the Netflix series. I think it’s going to take them down.
Well done!! I think Exactly the same 😈🤘
OMG You put in writting beautifully exactly what I was thinking.
Excellent analysis! Very succinct. Your explanation seems, to me, to be spot on!
very good- you've hit the nail on the head.
I lost my ENTIRE family,by the age of 18 when my paternal grandmother died in a nursing home penniless. I quit my jr year of high school because I had to support myself. I developed severe anemia.... became underweight amd very pale. I was slowly starving due to lack of enough food, living in a one room furnished apt. Forgive me for not crying for pitiful Harry. Yet I suceeded in life. ON MY OWN MERITS. And Meghan's victimhood? Please....There are people who had and HAVE it much WORSE than I did...I am ever aware of that. It didnt make ME a narcissist.
For a couple who claims not to want media attention it is odd how they keep inviting the media into their lives constantly
This is brilliant. Thank you Dr Grande.. for explaining their narcissistic self-love, story! 👍🏻
Two dysfunctional people whose dysfunctions are a perfect fit for each other, e.g. a narcissist and a codependent. That is indeed a timeless love story that has been occurring since the dawn of civilization.
Amen
The saddest thing is that these relating postures/psychological predispositions can only interfere with their ability to parent effectively. The children are paying the price.
@@kevinhornbucklethere is absolutely no evidence that the children presented to us are their children. They are different every time
@@kevinhornbuckle I agree. I feel so sorry for their children.
Spot on 👏
You are so right. They believe Megan is being misunderstood and targeted regardless of what she does.
They do not realise that maybe just maybe she is disliked because she is not likeable. The more we saw of her true self the more she was disliked.
But she hasn’t done ANYTHING. She received and keeps receiving hate for nothing.
@@EriiikaGuerra She was the one who leaked to the media about dating Harry for starters.
@@megamillionfreakher relationship. Her choice.
@@EriiikaGuerra Her project.
@@EriiikaGuerra There are a zillion credible stories about how badly she treats people.She uses and discards people when they haved served their perpose. S he's manipulative and a pathological liar. That's just for starters.
Wonderful analysis, thank you, Dr. Grande! I didn't know the term "communal narcissism" before and I think it fits perfectly for this case. I also liked the way you described their love as a reflection of self-love. Best analysis I've seen on this documentary.
Thanks for this, Dr Grande. I could not get past the second episode 🥱. It's a very interesting take on the situation and one I'm inclined to agree with, sadly.
Honestly, I think we got so sick of the pair of them saying they wanted to be left alone, constantly, on documentaries and in interviews, a lot of us in the UK breathed a collective sigh of relief when they left. Of course, they keep reappearing on TV and on Netflix now, just when we have forgotten them, to remind us that they want to be left alone 😂.
You are a very courageous and strong person for sacrificing who knows how many brain cells in watching this for us! Thank you for the great analysis! 😅
Thank you Dr for sacrificing yourself and watching this documentary so we don’t have to! It bust have been hard on you.
I encourage you to watch it. It was a really interesting and refreshing perspective. I wouldn’t recommend watching someone’s critical analysis of something and commenting on it without watching said piece! Watch it from the perspective that their intentions are pure because I feel as though people accidentally do the opposite going into it. it hinders judgment. give it a try and let me know what you think
the sacrifice is greatly appreciated.
I hope he doesn't hurt too much from all the eye rolling he must have done. 🙄
He deserves a metal for watching it or some gift
I'm glad you enjoyed it
Thank you Dr. Grande, your video affirms a lot of internal battle as a young psychotherapist, when watching the reality series. It is safe to say that i should have a problem with "single narratives" and question them. As a woman and a young psychotherapist, i feel empowered. Thank you!
This video empowers you?
@@Nickelini Terrifying isn’t it, wow 😯
This was so spot on, a perfect analysis, love Dr Grande’s ability to put things so logically and clearly
Great analysis Dr. Grande. I want to add that this is NOT a documentary, it is a publicity scheme. Note how so many of their most touching and intimate moments seem so choreographed as if they have photographers on round the clock retainer tasked with building a fairly tale image that Megan is so intent on managing. She apparently believes that if she tries hard enough, she can market this to the world, which will respond with adulation. What Megan misses, is that deeply good people tend to have a measure of empathy and compassion for others and are willing to cope with some measure of slight, embarrassment or even suffering to preserve their relationships. Megan's treatment of her own father and siblings clearly shows that her sensitivity is self-promoting.
Yeah, the fact that MM doesn’t patch up with her own father shows she’s heartless, unforgiving and an ingrate.
@@jacintaaconng1 Harry said she has no father. That's evil. Nothing he has done warrants that.
The whole curtesy scene to the Queen she re-enacted was appalling. They will end up divorced.
I think haz has used his mom for an excuse for so long it's a way of life for him. Monetizing his mother's memory is unforgivable
… a trauma is not something people use. Please. That’s just gross.
It’s gross that he continues to whine about it instead of focusing on doing real good for others in the world with his embarrassment of free time and the immense privileges he has been given
Unproven grievances and destructive bitterness are all these two spoiled children have to offer.
@@cleverkittn its called trauma, put it simply Harry has not healed, and Meghan is using his vulnerability to play the Diana card. I think this drama can only last as long as Meghan doesn't find another victim.
Yeah because losing a mother at such a young age and in a horrible way does not affect people and especially not men /s
I disagree with your comment. Its not an excuse but it can explain his behavior and way of thinking. This guy has been praised his entire life just for being born and has been sheltered from the world. The amount of pressure and expectations put on him is something very few people can relate to.
Also, he is constantly asked about his mom and her death.
I have a lot more compassion for him than I do for Meghan.
Best analysis yet. 😊And helpful too as I’ve struggled to understand them. Sad they are their own worst enemies. We can all relate to that sometimes!
Thank you Dr Grande for taking the bullet of watching the documentary so we don't have to... but still interested in the content!
I didn't watch either 😁, just want to hear what everyone said.
Thank you for your service. I understand her Father is recovering from quite a bad stroke. She has not contacted him. Being a victim is a busy life.
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This is satire and comedy gold...and at the same time so greatly accurate! Totally entertaining and hilarious!! Thank you!
Love the deadpan delivery and ironic choice of words. Devastatingly effective.
This is on point. Megan was in the royal family for a few years and now carry’s herself as an exulted person. She is a true narcissist.
She was in the Royal family for 18 months, she only did 72 Royal engagements where other senior royals do about 300 per year. She used public money to fly for holidays with Clooneys and Elton John and had the most expensive wardrobe of ANY European princess. The British public loved her initially saying she was a breath of fresh air but her lying, scheming and venom toward the Royals and the British public soon exposed her to be what she is, a nasty narcissist and racist!
Not years.... Few months as a working royal 😜
exulted as in cheered upon? 🤔
I think you probably meant exiled...
exalted?
Good people don’t denigrate their families and constantly complain and whine. Thank you Dr. Grande🥰
@@amuseher Harry's family isnt a good family. It's horrible what they put their children through in exchange for power and wealth.
It’s not a social trend. Leaving your family behind is painful and unnatural. But for many of us it’s less painful than being in contact. The royal family is massively dysfunctional.
spot on - I love how you use precise words to describe. You hit the marker spot on again and again.
Just amazing analysis and quite humorous! Love it. You got across a ton of serious issues in a short time.
I was appalled at the disrespect M showed towards the Queen with that fake curtsy stunt and the self satisfied look on her face as she did it.
To openly ridicule the people and customs of another country was-nauseating and H just sat there watching her insult his dead
grandmother!
I’m reminded of the Biblical Esau who sold his birth right for a bowl of mush. H has sold his too, but his bowl of mush has a name-Meghan!
I thought the exaggerated “curtsy” was one of the nastiest things she has done. Harry looked embarrassed imo but he is a weak man and unable to do anything to temper the steamroller of hate and destruction that is Meagain Markle.
It's funny how she can take the piss out of everyone including her husband who shall remain nameless, with her insults but when it happens to her it's the worst thing humankind can do and we all need to be punished.
Bc the Queen of England means so much to the United States. Or she can’t make a self deprecating joke about her experience. Wow.
Exactly my thought. That was below the belt.
@@frockabyebabyshabbychic2611It was straight out the Hunger Games movie. I personally loved it.
Thank you so much for your analysis Dr. Grande! As a future LCSW, you are truly inspiring! "The disapproval of the British royal family stings so painfully that only validation from the rest of the world will compensate it" sums up the documentary so well!
But remember, the British royal family didn't disapprove of her. She was the ONLY royal fiance to ride on the Royal train with the queen. She refused to wear tights and a hat which is required for formal royal dress code on this type of occasion and she was the ONLY royal fiancee to ever be invited to Christmas at Sandringham. It's clear from the timing of some of the images taken in the documentary that she and Harry had planned their leaving either before or very close to the date of the wedding. Their goal was a commercial plan to exploit the name of the Royal family. Many of us hope their titles will be revoked and they will then have to make their way as Mr and Mrs Windsor, nothing more.
@@shelaco1321 Interesting, I didn't know many of this. Thank you for informing me!
She married him thinking her titles would be a gateway to Hollywood. The wedding said it all. No family but famous people who she hardly knew
I believe Meghan had intentionally burned Harry’s bridges, as a narcissist would. Do you often see people subsumed the way Harry has been by Meghan eventually break free from their psychological captor?
It’s unnerving for Harry to believe that the loss of his mother is monumental, greater than anyone else’s loss of their mother.
I missed where he said that
"Harry & Meghan: a story about two narcissists, and the unreality in which they live every day".
W h o o o o ?
They're a joke and an embarrassment to our country and the the Royal Family!! Disown them!!
@@dennisossianderrmplmtcst2053 Y OO UU..
Dr. G, your analysis on this is stellar. Of all the reviews of the docuseries done this far, yours was so spot on in that you explained the psychology and rationale for their behaviour. Hopefully they stop blaming everyone and everything they deem responsible for their unfair treatment. To me they have gone too far, don't take ownership of the shit way they treat family and friends, and should be humbled instead by the unbelievable riches and advantages they do have. Again your analysis is 100% and this installment should be shared to all.
If no one understood what a narcissist was before…. THEY DO NOW!
They are perfect as a case study and their show clearly comfirms all the details that we can learn from. The greatest self- love story, indeed.
Yesssss!
Good God it’s hard to even listen to Dr. Grande’s summary - they are soooooo nauseating!!! 😜
Yes, times two!
So very true, I was married to a MM for 41 years. Now one year free on the 13th of this month 🙌💕✌️
These two drip with vanity, they even expect us to applaud their awesomeness. Ty doc for visiting their unique location ♥️
Thank you for watching the dreadful series so we don’t have to suffer. ❤
Everything you stated is pretty much echoed throughout the 🌎!
In the same way, thank you so we don't have to watch it.
Agree with above!
Ditto!
Yes!!! He's a soldier.
Very true!! I couldn't bear to watch it after 10mins. Too much fake and it was written all over Meghan face. She is terrible actor. And before I used to think she may be victim but this documentary proves I was wrong! She is evil not the other hand!
“It is one of the greatest examples of self-love that I have ever seen.” Thank you for the laugh, Dr. Grande! 😂😂😂
Beautifully said!! Thank you for your measured and professional critique of this program.
My favorite part of this video is at the end when you talk about Harry and Meghan's SELF-LOVE. It sums them up in a nutshell. Thanks for your spot-on insight.
Most importantly, the world owes these two massive attention and deference simply for "being amazing."
I'm agree with everything you say they acting like a victims they wants make money on acting victims I can't stand them I don't like them from Mra
Harry seems locked into the age he was when his Mother, the Princess Diana, was killed in an auto accident. He seems to me, to have the emotional strength of a child. And I am afraid I will never understand why any one would want to to be such a good digger as Meghan. I find her absurd in the extreme. I thank you for covering the two of them, you always make good sense.
If you ever get the chance there's a book by a psychiatrist under the name 'The body keeps the score.' He actually mentioned in a section that there are people who stay stuck in the mindset and age mentality that they experienced the trauma in.
This is the same thing I thought. His emotional development appears to be stuck at the age of his trauma.
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@@barbarakedzior2038 TF???
@Hel Lo No, they are not. I have close friends, a family where the mother left without warning. The 11 year old son was affected very badly, and is Harry's age now, and still quite immature. The two older children, 15 and 18 did much better, especially the 18 year old. Not saying it's like this for every 11 year old, but over the years, I can see how he was crushed by this. One minute, he had SuperMom, next minute, she ran off with another guy and told the Dad "You tell him. I just can't." So, some people are very strong thru trauma, and some just aren't. Not sure why.
Oh the part where you say Harry feels like a hero “saving” Meghan is so true! He almost wanted to have a chance to do that and Meghan made up the scenario for him to do this. A win win for her. How sad he can’t see through her. I feel like she has deep seeded needs to be seen and relevant.
I dunno...seems ppl have made the decision that Harry and Meghan aren't allowed to be as human as those who salivate at every chance to pass a harsh and negative judgement on them. I can't help but wonder why these same people appreciated the flawed but charitable Diana. Or why divorcing Charles and telling her story was not cause to shun and deem her narcissistic too.
I've been waiting for his analysis when I saw it on Netflix's Recently Added page. I thought to myself, "I should watch this because it's probably really hilarious. It would be great if there was a laugh track" But then I thought "Dr Grande will do this for us and there will be no laugh track however we will all be laughing anyway" because Dr. Grande regularly elicits humourous laughter with his very academic and serious style of comedy which ALWAYS MAKES IT FUNNIER
You watched it? That's dedication to your audience and your craft.❤️ Who knows how many IQ points we would have risked?
i watched a porno the other day.
Dr Todd has more than enough points to spare
One of the best tricks wealthy elitist assholes pull is somehow convincing the general downtrodden public in feeling some kid of sympathy for these jerks. I’m glad it seems a lot of people ain’t buying this tripe
Sadly, Grande did zero research and based this vlogpost on the fictional origin myth oozed in their mockumentary. Every lie in the first 3 minutes of this video can be contested with info which her PR juggernaut failed to scrub from the internet. She is the only GF he had that he kept secret until *she* leaked it to the media. The military *served him* not vice versa. Her "charitable service" amounted to photo shoots to bolster her resume in her pursuit of "H". Her father raised her as a single dad and produced the "famous" dishsoap ad on a lark in order to boost her ego. Mission accomplished "Daddy" Markle! We present Frankenstein 2.0!!
@@Nasdaqslaktarn was it the faux h&m doc? Cuz they themselves produced it and it couldn't be more self-centered and over the top self-glorifying.
Thank you Dr. Grande, I like your “make it sweet & short style” of explaining things. Your information is insightful, interesting & credible. Great video❤
Have you seen Samantha Markel’s interview with Nate the Lawyer? She is MM’s half sister (dad’s side) who affirms the dad was actually primarily caring for MM, and she is lying and trying to erase him from her history even though he was the one who raised her and paid for everything. She also identifies other lies/contradictions. It was fascinating
There are no burns more epic and complete than those of Doc Grande. If he put them into a rap he’d be the real Slim Shady.
😂🤣
.....".Meghan was able to find work as an actress "
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love it!
"...their love story is historic, it's the greatest example of self-love I've ever seen."
🔥🔥🔥🔥 No one can deliver the burn like Dr Grande. He is well named!
Totally agree and I’ve ALWAYS said this: Harry’s fears seem to be mostly genuine when he draws a parallel from his mother to Meghan, but she, being the narcissist she is, manipulated him to draw that parallel, and continues to do so. I have to coparent with a true narcissist…we spot you a mile away, honey. Maybe now that they’ve made their documentary and collected their checks, her story will FINALLY be told. That is, until she needs more attention to fuel her narcissistic supply.
With you on co-parenting with one 😔, it’s no joke. Harry was a sitting duck for her, he was a perfect victim. She is dangerous as she will tell blatant lies and not even the world stage tones that down or causes embarrassment. She is capable of anything as fas as i can see.
@@ecampbell5837 Hopefully, she won’t be dangerous, and the worst of it will be her never ending need for praise and the spotlight. 🙄
Oh gosh how many times is she going to tell her story? It gets LESS interesting each time and it's boring to begin with. I would think this would be fascinating but it's not. She's pretty low on material because she didn't even last two years and half of that time she was on maternity leave or some shit. The only fascinating part is watching two lunatics self implode.
Absolutely. She said, they fed her to the wolves. Wow. What an ungrateful narcissist.
Unfortunately narcissists are never satisfied enough to quit the path of destruction. It can only stop for an individual when they stay out of sight of the narc. Being public figures the BRF will always be in MM's sight. Her main targets being William and Catherine. She will target the children next. She aready tried to do it with Prince Louie and Catherine's parenting by making snide remarks about teaching kids manners. It flew under the radar because Prince Louie was too adorable, and insignificant at this point for her to set her sights on. I just hope more people will get to see the light of what MM truly is.
Dr Grande's dry humour is always on point 🤣
"Biblical proportions "!!! So hilarious! Love your wry descriptions!
You never disappoint. This analysis is superb, laced with irony and insight. Your explanation of how Harry's behaviour may have helped him bring a sense of purpose to Diana's death was eye-opening. As for MM - "the lady doth protest too much, methinks." Or, as you put it, "What Megahn could not stand about being a member of the Royal Family was the rule about being quiet." 👍
"They fell in love right away because they were so similar-and amazing." Hahahahahahaha! Priceless.
Love your droll recounting of ‘their story!’ How you kept a straight face I don’t know! I was chuckling! Tom Bower said watching the ‘docuseries’ was like self harm! I watched it and it was! Excellent analysis from 🇬🇧
I think the narcissist is always trying to control how people see them and they do this by making themselves and others look differently to what they are. MM is trying to paint herself as easy going, warm and relaxed with shoes off greeting Kate and Wills but she’s also trying to make them subtly look bad as stiff and not warm. Narcs are jealous and spiteful.
I absolutely never followed their story but you cannot tell me that if tabloids would write crap about you for YEARS apparently, you wouldn’t also try to tell people who you think you are? If Netflix comes to you to then make a documentary about the situation, every single one of us would take that chance to hopefully get some justice, or at least gain financially from this situation 🤷🏼♀️
@@lindalemoni5428 megan and harry have been caught in multiple lies, including lying about what the media has said or done. Thats why nobody believes they are 'just trying to tell their story and set the record straight.'
@@lindalemoni5428 Gain financially by trashing the Queen? You find this moral? Wow ...
@@mirelabarbu1009 lol but them being trashed over years is fine somehow
The subtle sarcasm at the end gets me laughing every time! 😂 Thanks Dr. Grande!
The intentions to do good, uplift others, etc. is admirable. The problem occurs when it becomes more about those doing the uplifting than those being uplifted.
Spot on!
Yes !
And lifting yourself up by trampling people underfoot
I don't have any intention of watching this series, but since it is very much in the news I am glad to have the opportunity of hearing Dr. Grande's analysis of it. Now I think I know as much as I will ever need to know about it. Thank you!
Eloquently said
This! ^
Me too...
People are a lot more intelligent than Netflix had anticipated!
Thank you for your analysis and for showing how truly irrelevant these two have now become!!!
We appreciate Dr Grande for going in depth with this. Seems like his insights become more fascinating as time passes.
The funniest part of the whole thing was seeing the clips of young queen Elizabeth sounding resolute, determined, competent, and poised after inheriting the responsibility of the monarchy at 21 years old while her middle aged, soft grandson and his 40-year old wife whined for hours about having to figure out how to work their dating schedule, which fork to use, and what colors to wear in public. The fact that these 2 pampered adults are either incompetent and proud of it or trying to seem relatable by appearing incompetent tells me all I need to know about their intended audience!
So true, HRH Elizabeth was a class act all her life. But she came from different generation and time. She grew into her role as a young teenager during WWII and even drove a truck and learned how to repair vehicles. She was born a princess and took the role of Queen with grace, dignity and honor. RIP YOUR
MAGESTY, you are missed.
Imagine having Meghan in the midst of your family. A real nightmare especially when a beloved family is in her clutches. However thank heavens they have gone. Britain and the Royal family are very very lucky to have them GONE.
”They fell in love because they were so similar and amazing.”. Lol. Had me rolling
😂😂😂SAME😂😂😂
I had deep empathy for Harry’s mother. I was heartbroken when Harry lost his mother. I’m not sure why Meghan rubs me the wrong way. Maybe it’s what you said Dr Grande, “grandiosity and communal narcissism.”
Also, about her father, why didn’t she travel to see her father after the wedding to find out what happened.? I suspect that he didn’t realize what he was getting into when he aligned (allegedly) with media. Meghan made it clear that she never moved forward, after the wedding, to heal this relationship. When she knew his phone had been compromised by the media and she knew it wasn’t her father texting her, she did nothing. I mean she did try calling “20 times” but I would’ve been worried FOR my father. I mean someone else was texting her pretending to be him. Instead she cut ties. She should’ve moved heaven and earth to protect him. IMO
I feel like there's 2 prongs to not liking Meghan. She comes off as very rehearsed and delusional.
I have an uncle who's a huge bullshit artist and we love his stories at Thanksgiving so on the ride home we can make fun of him, she reminds me of him. The second is when people defend her they don't really defend her. They just call you racist which I'm sure we all pick up on how it's disingenious. No one actually defends her as a person, they just attack the people who don't like her, which speaks for itself.
She's a shoddy excuse for a daughter, isn't she?
Her actions provide full evidence of her disgusting lack of character. It's scary how many people refuse to use critical thinking skills to draw the very obvious conclusion: her self centered, "I don't give a damn about anyone" nature is her WHOLE truth. Plain truth--she has no redeeming qualities.
MeGain and Thomas are both narcissists. What they did to each other was self serving and without empathy. They have both painted the other black, as in, bad.
Yah I was thinking her poor dad is in his 70's with heart issues, didn't ask for fame, was bombarded with media so what did he do that was so terrible? Even the staged pics were just of him reading a book about Great Britain. I thought it was a cute pic haha. So I agree that Meghan really should've been sticking up for him but instead it appears to me that she is embarrassed of that side of the family so sought to undermine them and have an excuse to disown them. The fact Harry has never even met him when he lives right down the road is crazy weird.
Magnetic Janet have you seen the videos online to be PDINA on CZcams if not, I recommend anyone to do it’s listen to grow side of the story.. where is it in the video?.. can you still protect my mom because he hopes for a reconciliation. Can you confirm with her to see the alleged children.. something about this entire H&M stores is off can’t figure it out..
So many great points in this analysis. I found interesting when you mentioned that “the default position for a white male is to be thought as racist, but that ideology itself could be thought as being racist.” This is such an excellent observation. In fact, I feel that at this point in time, white males are unfairly victims of terrible treatment, discrimination, and lack of empathy. Anyways, this is a digression from the topic, but I thought it’s important to be said.
This was an exceedingly insightful analysis, Dr. Grande. Thank you!❤
Ah, but they've re-defined "racism" to mean something that can only be white on black because white are defined as victimisers and non-whites are inherently "victim". It's a slippery ideology
I very much agree with your comment but I also feel like they, Harry and Meghan, should have used different words like "small prejudices" because everyone (black, white, asian, whatever) have prejudice against other races and each other. I don't think painting white men as innately racist is a proper thing but more so not being as educated in that kind of topic or more so unaware of certain words and things done can lead to a person from a minority group to feel slightly attacked. Overall, I do agree with your statement.
I agree with your point, but some people would just point out that I'm a white male so of course i think that lol
I personally believe this was part of her breaking him down. How else could she possibly one up someone born into royalty?
Hear, hear.
@@Aaron-kj8dv Why would they point out that you're white? (Unless it's relevant)