we told our dads we gay & THIS HAPPENED..😱

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 1. 12. 2018
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  • @Jayllnn
    @Jayllnn  Pƙed 5 lety +539

    Next Video Tuesday 12/4/18. SEE YOU THEN!! ❀x

    • @icetynsmith5451
      @icetynsmith5451 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      Jayllnn lovvvv u guys❀❀

    • @jaydalishenriquez6017
      @jaydalishenriquez6017 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      Jayllnn I love y'all so much ❀❀❀❀

    • @tangeni05
      @tangeni05 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      Congrats on hitting 90K subscribers, u deserve more than that... Love uâ€ïžđŸ˜đŸ˜˜

    • @thatboyyking6718
      @thatboyyking6718 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Cardo I texted u on ig but you never replied my ig name is h3artless.king

    • @killakelz3365
      @killakelz3365 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      We love you JAYYY😘 and Cardo❀

  • @josiemoore5806
    @josiemoore5806 Pƙed 5 lety +194

    His dad was preaching "they said there's one God but many religions who am I to say what's right or not" I felt that 😭💯

  • @bshelab768
    @bshelab768 Pƙed 5 lety +620

    Coming out is hard. Courage to you guys

    • @sahmiahrose8657
      @sahmiahrose8657 Pƙed 5 lety +11

      B Shela B it really is because you don’t know what to expect from people and it can go very good or very bad I’m just glad my parents except me

    • @bshelab768
      @bshelab768 Pƙed 5 lety +9

      @@sahmiahrose8657 I know how hard it can be. I live in Africa (where homophobia is mostly very normal) and am from a very religious background. Almost 98% of gays, here are in the DL

    • @makaylareed5552
      @makaylareed5552 Pƙed 4 lety

      Yes it sss

    • @iveonwilliams6822
      @iveonwilliams6822 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@swishbotter6725 bitch

    • @swishbotter6725
      @swishbotter6725 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@iveonwilliams6822 gay people exist to piss us off and also it's my birthday so stfu

  • @dazzedcucumber243
    @dazzedcucumber243 Pƙed 5 lety +183

    8:12 Cardo’s dad is giving a word he’s preaching to the choir and I’m here for it

  • @batsbeware163
    @batsbeware163 Pƙed 5 lety +197

    “there is one god but many religions, so who am i to judge?” we need more people like this in the world

  • @NaasirVoid
    @NaasirVoid Pƙed 5 lety +505

    3:37 y’all preaching!!

    • @Iamjaylinporter
      @Iamjaylinporter Pƙed 5 lety +10

      HEYYY UMMM I THINK WE TWINS CUZ I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE HERE THERE....BOE VIDEOS

    • @lando3123
      @lando3123 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      Naasir I see u under EVERY video I watch

    • @sosanaitv
      @sosanaitv Pƙed 5 lety +4

      OMGGGGG NAASIR WAS HERE đŸ˜±đŸ’•â€Œïž.

    • @dayclo3020
      @dayclo3020 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Naasir Void you are EVERYWHERE â€ïžđŸ˜‚

    • @keyivionboone8642
      @keyivionboone8642 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Naasir Void You're here too I see you everywhere

  • @nicandcarla
    @nicandcarla Pƙed 5 lety +382

    Damn I wish my pops would have reacted like this when I came out -- I love when he said it's one God but many religions 😍

  • @KKS-bp6eh
    @KKS-bp6eh Pƙed 4 lety +53

    I thought cardo was bout to say “I talked to Zion..he straight, talked to momma she straight too....only person ain’t straight is me”😍love the reactions tho❀

  • @princessdonti1726
    @princessdonti1726 Pƙed 4 lety +78

    I feel like Cardo’s parents are the reason he’s the man he is today (no shade today, totally in a good way) and I’m just in love with his personality! Such a bright happy spirit shout out to his parents! If only everyone’s parents are like that đŸ’”đŸ™đŸŸ... and I’m halfway through the video so I haven’t seen Jay’s parents reaction yet.

  • @ZoetheGreat93
    @ZoetheGreat93 Pƙed 5 lety +107

    His hand trembling almost made me cry

  • @jaredrollock1508
    @jaredrollock1508 Pƙed 5 lety +321

    i swore cardo's dad was a gangster

    • @iamhenriwilliams
      @iamhenriwilliams Pƙed 5 lety +6

      he didn't even tell his dad he was gay, he talking about he Bi, but currently with a ni**a, i think it's so stupid when guys do that.

    • @uniquelykiara4758
      @uniquelykiara4758 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      ShookTV that was jay

    • @kyashine1051
      @kyashine1051 Pƙed 4 lety +21

      @@iamhenriwilliams whatchu meann cardo is actually bi. you dont have to be fully gay to be w a nigga.

    • @CrackerBarrelkid555
      @CrackerBarrelkid555 Pƙed 3 lety

      Kya Shine facts

    • @willwowxdrice642
      @willwowxdrice642 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@kyashine1051 like what is he on ???

  • @StellarVibezzz
    @StellarVibezzz Pƙed 5 lety +72

    Awwww Cardo dad was the real OG💓😄

  • @mayiathorne4484
    @mayiathorne4484 Pƙed 4 lety +9

    Cardo dad was so sweetđŸ„°....he accepted his son for who he is...and he didn’t judge him‌ he was preaching‌❀

  • @emilyjc482
    @emilyjc482 Pƙed 5 lety +184

    When I came out to my dad he was like "well, I guess it runs in the family" cause my mom is bi too lol 😂

    • @TonyandTianaLawes876
      @TonyandTianaLawes876 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Wow. Thats beautiful. How did u find out

    • @itzwonique3817
      @itzwonique3817 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      @@TonyandTianaLawes876 maybe her dad told her or her mom told her about her journey growing up

    • @loveheartfilia1235
      @loveheartfilia1235 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Bro omg when I found out my mom bi to I was suprised

  • @KingZeusAntonio
    @KingZeusAntonio Pƙed 5 lety +38

    Jaylin dad scared me at first 😣 but he made some strong points and remember HE LOVES YOU!

  • @nii4901
    @nii4901 Pƙed 5 lety +59

    I love how they both comfort each other while each one was on the phone đŸ˜­â€ïž.

  • @tuxedomask009
    @tuxedomask009 Pƙed 5 lety +30

    Wow that was intense it sounds like jay' s dad is very open minded and willing to listen and hear what needs to be said which is just as good as acceptance

  • @seansoleyn7776
    @seansoleyn7776 Pƙed 5 lety +212

    This is the most scariest part of the video.....it was hard for me to finish watch the video, not knowing how both dad's reaction gonna be.

  • @jamarcussims5838
    @jamarcussims5838 Pƙed 5 lety +5

    You young men are truly strong to post this video of your father’s reactions towards who you are and the lifestyle you choose to have. It was bittersweet to watch the both of you two share what’s in your heart. Thank you and I wish nothing but the best for the two of you as you grow in your journey.

  • @YorkBaby95
    @YorkBaby95 Pƙed 5 lety +8

    My mother got married when I was young, so from experience whether you have a male role model or father figure it doesn’t stop you from having the feelings of being attracted to male, it doesn’t work that way. Congratulations to both of you guys for such bravery and commitment to changing the way ppl deal with coming out and their fears. We truly appreciate #JardoGang

  • @jerrellj
    @jerrellj Pƙed 5 lety +422

    I deadass almost cried because my mom doesn’t accept me ! But Ik it’s ppl out there that do đŸłïžâ€đŸŒˆ 🌈

    • @bossladyblue3689
      @bossladyblue3689 Pƙed 5 lety +10

      🌈🌈👍👍👍

    • @jerrellj
      @jerrellj Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Christopher Maxwell Thankss

    • @SH0124_
      @SH0124_ Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Jùrrùll Johnson what's the gram 👀

    • @derikay3x282
      @derikay3x282 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      What’s your Instagram?

    • @kamB4565
      @kamB4565 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      I do boo

  • @KLfilms2015
    @KLfilms2015 Pƙed 5 lety +9

    I am proud of both y’all for coming out to your parents. 18 years ago today 12/3, I came out to my parents, both parents split up, I did the same thing called my dad on the phone told him I am that I am Gay, my dad was Pastor at the time. My dad told me same thing that both of y’all dads told y’all. I had lunch with my dad he cried and said he loved me and will support me and God can only judge me when I get the golden gates in heaven. And when I spoke to My mom she told me she already knew about being gay. She is #1 supporter.
    I love you both 💕 I am so keep heads up. Don’t let know stop you for being you.
    Kev

  • @adoniswilliams7343
    @adoniswilliams7343 Pƙed 5 lety +24

    I heard that whole "it's just a phase" speech from my mom too. Ik exactly how you feel. Tbh they'll come around at some time once they come to terms with their self. Theirs no right or wrong way of coming out. Tbh I don't really believe in coming out. I see it as, if being gay or bi or w.e side of the spectrum you are is natural. Then why do we as the children have to come out and announce our sexuality. But str8 people don't, it's just assumed as the "default". That's why for me I just be chilling and be myself and let everybody find out for their self, and if I tell anybody then I told them for a reason of conversation or just to let them know hey we can relate about this. My oldest sister is a stud and my god sister is too. So it's rainbow gang all day over here.

  • @TheAnthonyBrownShow
    @TheAnthonyBrownShow Pƙed 5 lety +7

    Y'all got me over here crying. I love what you guys are doing.

  • @xaulmando
    @xaulmando Pƙed 5 lety +126

    My heart sank for ya when he said it was a phase.

    • @domzjb5053
      @domzjb5053 Pƙed 5 lety +16

      Nah man he was right cause Jay said he think he might be bi, there's no might and then towards the end he did say you might wake up one day and realize you're fully gay or you might be straight.
      He should have just said dad I'm gay or dad I'm bi, not might

    • @jasnhooon3133
      @jasnhooon3133 Pƙed 5 lety +7

      Domz JB you right

  • @eaglefit8239
    @eaglefit8239 Pƙed 5 lety +14

    Proud of you Both for leading the conversation with your family ..
    Much Love to you Both ..

  • @MrPoop-wc1wj
    @MrPoop-wc1wj Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Y’all is goals after everything y’all been through in such a short amount of time. Would have discouraged anyone, but y’all still stand strong it’s amazing đŸ€§đŸ€§đŸ’™

  • @randycooper537
    @randycooper537 Pƙed 5 lety +104

    I support you guys 100%. You guys make me confident to be myself and I appreciate y’all. Y’all keep doing y’all and stay positive. PERIODT❗

  • @RyaaDaG
    @RyaaDaG Pƙed 4 lety +37

    When I first came out telling my family that I was Bi I told my grandmother she said that it was okay because she was to. I then told my aunt she also said she was Bi. I then told my godmother she said she was also Bi. Some how someone told my mom she was upset that I didn't let her know first but she accepted it and told me she was Bi so know every year me and my family get together and go to the pride parade. #L.G.B.T.G.

    • @thsenator267
      @thsenator267 Pƙed rokem +2

      Absolutely love this! đŸ‘đŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸ

  • @paulguy9674
    @paulguy9674 Pƙed 5 lety +5

    Omg yall babies is so young. I remember comming out to my dad and I felt just like yall. My dad is a G and he was coo too. I can tell your fathers love you two and I'm glad it worked out. Be good to your father dont make it more than it has to be, it's your walk in life not his. I'm glad you two were able to be open with your pops cause alot of us are not that lucky. Good vid man

  • @darylsmith6906
    @darylsmith6906 Pƙed 5 lety +8

    Cardo I'm very proud of you man you kept laughing through this which made it easier for you best life to you and jay

  • @Frabjous_Jai
    @Frabjous_Jai Pƙed 4 lety +6

    This had my stress through the roof! It was almost like my dad story. Now he said some real shit! “if people love you, that won’t change” ❀

  • @mekhisworld7141
    @mekhisworld7141 Pƙed 5 lety +132

    Jayln voice changed immediately when his farther answered

    • @gameplanish
      @gameplanish Pƙed 5 lety +17

      Mekhi Wallace ya LMAOO SHIT GOT DEEP

    • @ohjeezitshim
      @ohjeezitshim Pƙed 5 lety +8

      Mekhi Wallace i peeped💀💀😭

    • @mpho2chris
      @mpho2chris Pƙed 3 lety

      It got deep real quick lol

  • @kaniyahcrawford7165
    @kaniyahcrawford7165 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    Cardo is so supportive he was patting his back while he was talking i definitely agree with cardo dad

  • @rays716
    @rays716 Pƙed 5 lety +4

    I need a relationship like Jardo. The love all around y'all is amazing. I know this isn't the perfect video to comment on but its the most recent. I love y'all so much and it just makes me happy to watch you guys be so real and make me laugh. Y'all are the literal best I've been caught since the I like you prank. Y'all have been my favorite CZcamsrs/couple since that video. Just wanna let y'all know that y'all do you and if you see this I love you so much. Jayllnn hang in there you did a good thing for yourself. Cardo keep supporting like you do. I already know y'all are perfect for each other and I love y'all so much.

  • @ant_b7878
    @ant_b7878 Pƙed 5 lety +5

    It seems like you both have very mature fathers and thats very important to everyone. This is a wonderful video, basically life is short be yourself.â€đŸ™đŸŸđŸ‘ŒđŸœ

  • @334steven3
    @334steven3 Pƙed 5 lety +14

    CONGRATS GUYS!! I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS, YOU GUYS ARE SO STRONG!! IGNORE THE NEGATIVITY AND HATE!! GOD HAS A PLAN FOR YOU GUYS AND YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!!
    ALSO CONGRATS, YOU GUYS MADE IT TO 90K SUBS!!

  • @djbusiness2010
    @djbusiness2010 Pƙed 5 lety +3

    This made me Cry tears of Joy. Y’all testimony will and have touched lives. This was Amazing and courageous. There’s people in there 30’s and older afraid to admit the truth to themselves or others. Once you have your families support the world doesn’t matter. So I understand the fear. But Good results from both parents. I’m saddened this is still a issue in 2018 people shouldn’t live ashamed or afraid. Keep doing yalls thing. Your both in my prayers as well as other Gays

  • @brittanypittman3492
    @brittanypittman3492 Pƙed 5 lety +25

    Y'all goals asf, and I can't wait till Y'all make more vlogmas videos I'm here for it. Ily guys and y'all were really strong for coming out to your dads and I want to congratulate y'all for that because it usually takes a lot of courage to open up about a serious topic like this.

  • @reesvandel2207
    @reesvandel2207 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Perfect I love that you share a little bit about your lives but only as much as you are comfortable with , love you guys.

  • @justnene3217
    @justnene3217 Pƙed 5 lety +3

    Y’all are now tbh my 2 favorite CZcams Couple y’all have grown so much in just a little bit of time I wish y’all the best â€ïžđŸ’™

  • @alexlewis7509
    @alexlewis7509 Pƙed 5 lety +11

    Man i was shaking with yall its so intense when it comes to conversations like this

  • @sosanaitv
    @sosanaitv Pƙed 5 lety +2

    i support y’all so much , my heart was racing with y’all , just be yourselves keep being y’all and keep doing big things. i love y’all soo muchh 💖.

  • @lamargrooms6087
    @lamargrooms6087 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    Much respect to you cardo , this video deff made it easier for me to talk to my family. Especially with stigmas that come with the conversation. Just feels like when u talk to people and express your self they expect you to act a certain way. Why does who I like determine how I’m supposed to act.

  • @ronaldosims2672
    @ronaldosims2672 Pƙed 5 lety +8

    Jay stay strong, and remember if your not happy with the response from your dad, there is always someone who loves you right next to you smiling

  • @carmenscott3582
    @carmenscott3582 Pƙed 4 lety +16

    When my brother told my dad he was gay my dad Kicked him out but I was still talkin to him and stealing food from home and gettin money from my parents just to give to him after that he got a apartment and a bf I was so happy for him and he asked me to stay with him and now I’m living with my brother and it’s great 😊😊

    • @hannah9560
      @hannah9560 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Same situation with my sister.

  • @michaelpearson5559
    @michaelpearson5559 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    Y’all inspire me! And know-one can tell anyone how to come out. You have to be comfortable and ready to accept the backlash and negativity that comes along with this issue.

  • @selftalk7591
    @selftalk7591 Pƙed rokem +3

    I’m proud of you guys for having the courage to tell them. I’m proud of your dads for loving you no matter what. ❀

  • @DiamondTVSpeaks
    @DiamondTVSpeaks Pƙed 4 lety +11

    Men wanna ignore their children then act confused. He’s not going through a phase. If you were in his life more you would know he was gay from the jump. Smh keep strong sweethearts you don’t need anyone’s approval or acceptance. Life doesn’t require membership or day passes.

  • @travongriffin5036
    @travongriffin5036 Pƙed 5 lety +13

    OMG JAYLLNN I know exactly how you feel about the whole situation đŸ˜© that took a lot of courage ❀

  • @seanjenkins331
    @seanjenkins331 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    This is still my favorite video from u guys. Not an easy conversation to have with your parents. We've all been there. Thanx for sharing

  • @havanquez5611
    @havanquez5611 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Cardo happy for you I am so relieved that BOTH your parents are accepting to your life and they are very positive about it. Jay don’t worry yourself about it at least you have your mom accepting of it and that counts because she carried you in the womb now your dad sounds like my mom and I really didn’t have either one of my parents in my life so I feel what you are going through 75% but YOU A STRONG YOUNG MAN AND DONT LET THIS BUM YOU OUT. LOVE YOU GUYS BOTH & Keep your head up Jay “everything is going to be alrightđŸŽ€đŸŽč”

  • @deshawngreenwood2219
    @deshawngreenwood2219 Pƙed 5 lety +3

    I'm a hundred percent happy for y'all that y'all had the courtesy n confidence to tell y'all mom's and dad's together that's a hundred percent what's up and just to hear their reactions touch my heart to know that they care and still love y'all as their sons but it's also cool to know that Jayllnn dad was upfront with him about everything and was nothing negative about it all positive and it's good that he said he would like to talk to him in person to see where it all started as in giving him the advantage to get to know you better so that's what's up to and a big step for both of y'all to reach but Cardio dad keep it real n was down with it I loved that

  • @Maudlinabrown
    @Maudlinabrown Pƙed 5 lety +8

    I’m just watching it and I’m scared already. Cardo is shaking oh my God I’m proud of you guys. I love you both

  • @katson3212
    @katson3212 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    My dad said the same thing that Jayllnn's dad said. I don't know how you felt but I was sad and irritated honestly, because he said how he wasn't in my life etc and that's why, but I just kept thinking how it's honestly not about him. Me coming out was me telling him that this is who I am, it's not a phase, it has nothing to do with him being present, and like y'all said you know if you are. I don't know you well enough to say I'm proud of you, but that took extreme courage, and I thank you for putting your story out for the world to hear. I honestly needed that so thank you!

  • @tinishiamcjay2845
    @tinishiamcjay2845 Pƙed 5 lety +17

    15:01 😭😭😭😭 Jay's voice sounded like he was about to cry...😭😭

  • @Boonies
    @Boonies Pƙed 5 lety +353

    Damn Jaylln you should of told your dad straight you was gay not “I might be bi” đŸ˜©

    • @AntrellFuller
      @AntrellFuller Pƙed 5 lety +35

      Jo Vu yea i feel like the “might be” changed the whole convo direction

    • @officialfredtv8516
      @officialfredtv8516 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      Right that’s what I’m saying but I also feel the vibe of them meeting and u know catchin up n shit

    • @bobwilson1028
      @bobwilson1028 Pƙed 5 lety +11

      Yeah I thought he was gay 😭

    • @Boonies
      @Boonies Pƙed 5 lety +2

      @@AntrellFuller Yeah it deffo did, i was liek damn noooo.

    • @Boonies
      @Boonies Pƙed 5 lety +2

      @@officialfredtv8516 Hopefully he tells him then x

  • @lovelypj
    @lovelypj Pƙed 5 lety +262

    Cardo I’m so happy for yhu. I’m glad yhu got to hear that. Jayllin I’m sorry if yhu didn’t hear what yhu wanted to hear, but it may not feel like much but we (the fans or whatever) can give yhu sum validation that yhu need. I honestly love watchin y’all videos and yhu keep meh happy.

    • @obscurasfantaseas
      @obscurasfantaseas Pƙed 5 lety +8

      you

    • @frogfrog9335
      @frogfrog9335 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      you not yhu

    • @lovelypj
      @lovelypj Pƙed 5 lety +7

      Obscura’s Fantaseas instead of correctin myi spellin (which I did intentionally) YHU should be applaudin meh for try’n to upbuild them by myi comment. Btw jus to give yhu a peek at meh I currently hold a masters degree in English and Literature and I’ve been teachin for a while now, also I’m workin on myi doctorates. #grownandaccomplished

    • @lovelypj
      @lovelypj Pƙed 5 lety

      Frog Frog refer to the message above.

    • @freelamps8678
      @freelamps8678 Pƙed 5 lety +15

      @@lovelypj although i don't mind your spelling, what's the point of a master's degree in English and literature if you won't use that knowledge. Bruh 😂💀

  • @sophiethesavage8274
    @sophiethesavage8274 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    your so brave! I love your videos! I been watching yall for a good minute and I went back and watched this and made me cry!

  • @an-tonio1523
    @an-tonio1523 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Once again as a father and much older, I look a these two as my nephews, or I see myself in Cardo as I was growing up. The only difference is that I had sons at a very early age and did not know myself, and Cardo does not have any children. I am glad that your response for us live was one that you wanted to hear, remember the conversation with the family will come up again and be ready and honest with your family and listen with a level head/positive answer. Jayllnn, son you did you best, and you spoke from your heart. I felt and saw you get a real nervous, but guess what everything is going to be okay. You are living your truth and speaking your honesty when you sit down with your parents. Pops might and might not understand, but remember you have spoken something different to his ears about his son. From how you talk moms will have your back 100%. Things are going to be okay, and you're going to be just fine. Just remember you both are a child of God and no matter what he will watch over you two all the way. Words from uncle, stay confident and strong and communicate with each other 100%, never go to bed mad, be truthful all while loving each other unconditionally. We all love you, and what you two are doing, uncle will be right here if you need to chat about you guys relationship or anything to keep you two together. Mad Crazy Luv from your fans and Big Unc

  • @Dominic-gv2yd
    @Dominic-gv2yd Pƙed 5 lety +103

    Jay's father seems like a closet homphobe like my mother, Still I hope your relationship with him turns out the best... cause mine didn't.

  • @DenetriaKenyatta
    @DenetriaKenyatta Pƙed 5 lety +120

    Jayllns dad really slick upset me â˜č like what the world ..

    • @keyivionboone8642
      @keyivionboone8642 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Sameeee

    • @shannonmagee44
      @shannonmagee44 Pƙed 5 lety +9

      Denetria Kenyatta yesss he did I know he didn’t mean no harm cuz he don’t really understand being gay but telling me that me being who I am is a phase is just kinda upsetting

  • @TaeMersay
    @TaeMersay Pƙed 5 lety +1

    New to this fam, you both are perfect and thank you for existing đŸ™đŸŸ

  • @alexasadventures5876
    @alexasadventures5876 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    I love y’all so damn much💕 I always be looking forwards to your videos đŸ˜­đŸ’•â€Œïž

  • @darylsmith6906
    @darylsmith6906 Pƙed 5 lety +87

    This must of been the hardest thing to do trust me it ain't easy

  • @yaethegod1065
    @yaethegod1065 Pƙed 5 lety +33

    Jay, it kind of sucks that you didn't tell the whole truth. That leads to more questions and more confusion. Wishing you the best :)

  • @deshawnsmith1548
    @deshawnsmith1548 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    I just want to say that the both of you are the best hands down. I can imagine what it’s like to be able to do this and no matter what your fans will support you through it all. Hopefully one day I hope I’m able to have enough strength to do the same. Just keep your head up we believe in you. #Jardogang ❀

  • @jeffsmith6452
    @jeffsmith6452 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Keep it coming y’all I can’t get enough of y’all and (life with Dee and Rob) y’all pushing out videos I live

  • @DenetriaKenyatta
    @DenetriaKenyatta Pƙed 5 lety +47

    Jayllnn I just wonna give you a big hug omg

  • @jay-liendaniels4418
    @jay-liendaniels4418 Pƙed 5 lety +28

    Cards dad is just like my dad thank you 🙏 dad like him and my Dad

  • @tristansafaryi4172
    @tristansafaryi4172 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there like y’all doing but I’m happy for y’all ♄♄♄ everything will get better! Nothing’s perfect but it’s worth it 💯

  • @t-moneytiger1815
    @t-moneytiger1815 Pƙed 5 lety

    Omg I hope y'all know how blessed y'all are!!! I can relate just my dad flipped on me later. Said one thing to my face then turned around and said I never told him anything. So happy for you two. God bless you in all you do.

  • @Dj-dd5kc
    @Dj-dd5kc Pƙed 5 lety +17

    Jay one watery eye broke my heart💔

  • @sammybanks3915
    @sammybanks3915 Pƙed 5 lety +4

    I’ve been waiting on this video since the post was made about the airtimeđŸ€ŠđŸœâ€â™‚ïžâ€ïž

  • @KuruptSociety
    @KuruptSociety Pƙed 5 lety

    I salute both of you guys. Coming out is hard for everyone. Cardo I’m super happy you have two supporting parents. That is fucking rare. Jaylln baby boy keep you head up and be truthful with them. I know it’s scary but be truthful. Your dad seems like he is wavering because you are. But whether or not they accept you KNOW that you are a beautiful, kindhearted, and funny individual. Don’t let that change you. Your fans and YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE HERE FOR YOU. i know that may not mean as much as love and support form your parents but we got you.
    Also, Watching this channel has been my happiness for the last couple of weeks. And i rarely follow people. But you and Cardo have this special way of bringing joy into my life and many others. And i thank you both for that. ❀❀❀

  • @Reid_Afari
    @Reid_Afari Pƙed 5 lety +1

    This made me feel all kinda kinds of emotional. Love you guys and your dads are really amazingđŸ‘â€

  • @zacharylavender1568
    @zacharylavender1568 Pƙed 4 lety +10

    In my opinion, a phone call will have a different effect than a one on one, face to face conversation.

  • @quentinkennedy7917
    @quentinkennedy7917 Pƙed 5 lety +13

    Jayllnn your dad is cool to. I'm glad that both of your dad love y'all the way y'all are

  • @niyathekidd32
    @niyathekidd32 Pƙed 5 lety

    Aww y’all did the right thing about opening up and I’m glad that y’all parents accept u❀❀❀❀❀

  • @teehedrick8759
    @teehedrick8759 Pƙed 5 lety

    This made me cry 😱 This is such a happy moment!!!! Love it!

  • @RamboQuellz
    @RamboQuellz Pƙed 5 lety +66

    Jayllnn you should have told him you was straight Gay! Not "I might be Bi" I know your fear got in the way but I think the conversation would have went differently. Because now he thinks the only reason you might like guys is cause he wasn't in your life or you're just doing it for his attention... still proud of y'all though! â€đŸ€žđŸŸ

  • @theobenitez2438
    @theobenitez2438 Pƙed 5 lety +4

    You guys are literally couples goals đŸ™Œâ€đŸ‘Ź ilysm ❀❀

  • @Ddub..09
    @Ddub..09 Pƙed 28 dny

    Jaylynn handled that gracefully . Acceptable adult behavior. By his dad at least , he didnt blow his mouth . Jaylynn❀ You are such a beautiful person .Ty both for being yourself .

  • @itzjuzkamryn
    @itzjuzkamryn Pƙed 5 lety

    Im Proud Of Both Of Yall. Cardo Congrats On Ur Results With You Dad, Cheer Up Jaylnn, u did a big thing just then and its a huge step but u did it. My mom side of the family knows im gay but my dad side still doenst know and im terrified bout tell them but u guys are hope seeing u guys come out to ur dads has encouraged me to come out to mines and i hope everything is well

  • @caroleprice973
    @caroleprice973 Pƙed 5 lety +43

    Today was my birthday so this was one of the best presents i could of got. A new video from jardo

  • @OnlyEllece
    @OnlyEllece Pƙed 5 lety +137

    Jaylln: if your parents are not comfortable with gay they not comfortable with them selves.
    Me: damn 😂.....???.....wait what😂

  • @miguelvega1534
    @miguelvega1534 Pƙed 5 lety

    You did an amazing job!!!! This isn't an easy task yet both if you did the best you could do. Keep up the awesome work. Love you guys so much

  • @faymb2702
    @faymb2702 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    My heart was beating so fast like I was there with them. Hbh I wish people would just accept people the way they are. They both said “I still love you, you are still my son.” My heart melted 😭 This is great love you guys â€ïžđŸ’Ż

  • @jeromekelley7759
    @jeromekelley7759 Pƙed 5 lety +21

    Don't understand all the fuss about Jaylln's dad. He seems ti need his son to come to him in his truth. The only thing that matters is he said he loves him. The best is yet to come.

  • @ajvasquez5823
    @ajvasquez5823 Pƙed 5 lety +4

    I love u guys so much.... Watch in a few months you guys will have millions of subscribers.... Bet... Just remeber me😂💗

  • @beaulaw
    @beaulaw Pƙed 5 lety

    I wish you guys the best of luck and remember dont forget to be who you are and remember you have all of us here to support you.

  • @josephedwards5872
    @josephedwards5872 Pƙed 5 lety

    Having a support system that's been there and understands is always helpful. Cardo will understand that in his training as a therapist. Nevertheless you have me as a support person.
    Love you guys. Stay strong and spend time with each other.
    Love you

  • @towerl7596
    @towerl7596 Pƙed 5 lety +33

    Nah I told my mom that I was gay once and she said "cool story bro"

    • @naewiththejokes3987
      @naewiththejokes3987 Pƙed 4 lety

      Randy Lester oh my - đŸ„șđŸ„ș

    • @baconlettucetomato06
      @baconlettucetomato06 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      I texted my mama I’m gay and that’s ok and she said she already knew and she still loves me so thank God for that

    • @Kamaydanelle
      @Kamaydanelle Pƙed 4 lety

      Randy Lester 😯 seriously?!

  • @mafiidon2475
    @mafiidon2475 Pƙed 5 lety +3

    The coming out part is always the hardest part I love y'all courageâ€đŸŒˆ
    I love you guys
    #jardogang

  • @wilkinssoto6280
    @wilkinssoto6280 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Loved the reactions everybody has their point of views just the fact they both dads put up with their support even they might not completely understand the fact of feeling a different way i do think the second father made it a-little bit harder but that is how he felt and u guys have to accept it .😱đŸ„ș. Love u guys new K and wish u the best .

  • @KLfilms2015
    @KLfilms2015 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    I love y’all videos. Keep the good work guys.

  • @071oakland
    @071oakland Pƙed 5 lety +4

    Cardo I'm very proud of you!! It's really interesting I feel this is a new life for you but you seem to be more confident about your decision then Jay. Jay youbbeen in relationships with other guys and you should be a little more further along about your feelings and about knowing who you are. That's just my opinion. Speak from your heart and tell the truth it's time for you to fess up!! You are living this life in front of millions of people so get real... Sometimes you going to lose some people on the way.. Or it might take them a minute to come around . But the real ones are going to stay on board and going to love you unconditionally and that's what you going to find out at the end.. 💜💜

  • @johnsherman9130
    @johnsherman9130 Pƙed 5 lety +4

    I know the feeling it hard to tell your Parents that’s how it was hard to tell then, y’all keep y’all heads up

  • @DageD214
    @DageD214 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    OMG this was one of the most intense vid you guys made, it was so hard for me to watch the entire video but I'm here for you y'all.. all love and support...

  • @Infinite_Deity_Ent
    @Infinite_Deity_Ent Pƙed 5 lety

    Omg! Cardo your conversation with your dad had me in tears because of the way he took it... He genuinely loves you, and it reminds me of when I came out to my parents as a transgender woman. My mom wasn't against it, but it took her time getting use to it. Now she's my best friend! My dad on the other hand has been my biggest fan and support since day one and I don't know where I'd be without him! Jayllnn, no disrespect to your father, but I didn't feel any genuine love and heart in his conversation. And for him to say he knows that you had other male figures in your life had me like woooooooooow I can't believe he just said that. Like for a man to express to his son about other men when he should have been the only man with the biggest influence on your life is insane. I love both of you guys and I wish ya'll the best in life, no matter what anyone tells you, only you are the true key holder to your own destiny!😘😘😘