As someone who works at a bank, and initially thought "i'm really good at this, let's do it forever", hearing you say "just because I'm good at it doesn't mean I have to like it" is really helping me cope with the realization that I hate my job 💕 really empowering me to think about what I want to do wether than what I "should" do ❤️
Mosby snoozing on the couch was a nice comfort during the heavier topics in this episode. A fluffy, content dog helps ease my anxiety, even if I only see him on screen.
As someone who has been in a shooter situation those drills are horrific. Going through those situations made the real thing 100x worse. My mom never went through drills or anything and in that situation she was fine. That was 3 years ago and I still have ptsd and nightmares from it
This was such an important topic to discuss. They are talking about the exact reason I left teaching myself. I hated the idea of being expected to become a human shield in attacks like this
In education on every level they have you go through active shooters drills. I worked for a university for a testing center and we had to talk about an active shooter plan. The told us to run and save ourselves which is very different than what they tell you to do in a school building. Thank you for shining a light on what it’s truly like to work in education. It is so much more than what people think
It’s such a traumatic experience that is sadly a necessity in all levels of education. My sisters were in a library on campus once when a shooter was on campus and thinking about that still makes me sick. I hope more people can open up about the struggles of this being our “normal”! Thank you for sharing your experience!
It for sure takes a special person to be a teacher. Regardless of if you are not a teacher currently or were a teacher in the past you truly are a special person. The non-verbal girl that you mentioned and the way that you talked about her shows how much you cared for your students. Please don't ever feel like you are less of a person or teacher because you are not a teacher anymore. You are still a very special person to the kids and the parents of the kids that you did teach. I can promise you that you do hold a special place in their hearts. I say this as a mom of 2 special needs kids. I can tell you that my kids teachers that took the time to care about, love on, and actually got to know my boys are some of the people that I have cherished the most. The kids have a special bond with those people. They are the ones that did all that they could to help my boys be successful in life and they are the people that my kids grew with the most. I can only imagine how draining it could be to feel like you had to hide part of yourself. As a parent I do not get why people have to be assholes and judge you for being a normal person. In my opinion I need my kids teachers to be themselves in school and outside of schools otherwise they are going to feel the same things that you have had to deal with. That is bullshit and to be honest if I was somewhere and I saw one of my boys teachers or therapist I would be buying them a drink and telling them to have one on me to thank them for all the shit I know my kids have put them through. You two ladies are fucking amazing and awesome people. Thank you for doing this podcast/youtube channel I love it!!!
i absolutely agree with what you said about potential clients seeing what you post! i’m in college for psychology and want to be a correctional counselor for juveniles and adolescents and i’m also passionate about tattoos and piercings. people say all the time that i won’t be taken seriously but i feel that being my authentic true self will allow me to connect with clients even more.
Love how relatable y’all are! 🤣 never laughed this much watching all your podcasts! Y’all are so genuine and the banter between the two of you is my exact humor! So happy to see how popular y’all are becoming! 🤗
love y'all!!! & I'd love a episode (or lil segment) for Ciara to talk more about her decision to get into psychology/what branch she studies and what she wants to do eventually with it :) i recently got my degree with psychology so i know there's sooooo many things you can do with it and branches of psych to study, so i'd love to know your perspective!!
this is such a good podcast i really love the vibes and as a junior in high school it’s nice to hear your guys life experiences and stuff about certain jobs such as teaching
The big sister in us wants to protect you from 99% of what we say but the human in us knows we wish we would have heard it as juniors in high school. Thank you for hanging out!!
I live in the UK and honestly blows my mind how active shooter drills are just kinda considered the norm when in reality it's traumatic even thinking about it. I have recently watched 'Killer Queens' cover Columbine too so it's harrowing to think of how students and staff must feel. Will always hope for some major change as no one should have to leave the house with that potential fear, for something which should be more preventable. Also love you ladies. Have decided to go back and binge the older videos since recently getting into your podcast. Keep being your boss ass selves. Also thank you for sharing your true selves xxxx
For eight years I had a job that filled my cup to the brim and then I was fired and told to move to Florida and try for something better. Two years later I had another job in a completely different field that once again filled my cup, but I lost it to the pandemic. Now I'm once again looking for something to make me feel passionate about working and I'm struggling. Thanks for the inspiration that it can still happen!
Without the Arts we as humans would be suffering so much worse than we are now. There is SO MUCH VALUE in the Arts and I wish society as a whole could see that. I also help teach Special Education as an inclusion aid for elementary and even though I love the kids, I don't think I want to be a teacher. I've considered it but ultimately my passions are in writing and creating artwork.
I love how you all mentioned that we are vastly different people at different ages. I definitely agree. The person I was in college/my early 20s is NOT who I am now. And while there are similarities, I have some differences in my core values in comparison to her. What she wanted out of life and out of a job/career is completely different to what I want now. People don't talk about this enough--we change throughout life and who we are when we are young may be temporary.
My high school AP gov teacher ended up miscarrying and had to miss a couple of days, and when she came back she sat us all down to explain what happened to her. She was also the cheerleading coach and they all knew what happened but knew they wanted her to share when she was ready
Jeri, i’m totally with you on the teaching thing. I was going to go into teaching but I didn’t like what was happening in the school systems. I loved kids and wanted to help them learn and grow; but I didn’t want to be told how to do it. I’m so glad you were able to build a career with your passion!
It’s such a tough thing to feel like you want to make a difference but the system makes it a struggle for some people to stay. Wishing you all the best!
I’m a server at a Texas road house and also a photographer. And I had to give up photography because everyone said I wouldn’t go anywhere. So I’ve been a sever for 1 year now and I’m only 20 and just went through two years of college. I have no idea what I’m doing with my life but you guys make me feel like I’m not alone.
Please know that you CAN be successful in photography. There’s room for everyone and if no one has told you yet- I am. There’s room in the industry for you and there is only one person who can capture the world the way you see it and that is IMPORTANT! You definitely don’t need to have everything figured out, but if there’s any advice I could have given myself it’s “do not allow other people to place a cap on your potential. Their doubts, fears and insecurities are not your responsibility.” DO YOU, BABY
You ladies are lovely! Thank you so much for this channel. I feel like I’m sitting down and having a nice conversation with friends and you uplift me everyday. I’m grateful for both of you and I appreciate you dearly!
Ok so I've thought about this ALL DAY, and just how you (Jeri) said once you start thinking about something you have to say it or you'll just keep replaying it in your head - I'm the same exact way lol so here it goes! I would LOVE for you guys to talk about failure. Whether that means career wise, personality/behavior, relationships, parenting, dreams, goals, anything! I'm having a rough couple of months dealing with failure in my 10 year relationship and my job, and you guys are so fucking cool and somehow always managed to pull me out of my funk and remind me that things can and WILL get better. So I think listening to your perspectives would really help guide me into a more positive mindset! Although, I completely understand if you guys can't or if you never even see this message lol regardless, THANK YOU FOR BEING THE LIGHT IN MY LIFE THAT I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW I NEEDED 🖤🖤🖤
My son is no verbal Autistic and in high school, so when you were talking about how worried you were about what to do with your students in a crisis situation that really hit home for me. I try not to think about stuff like that but that is definitely a legitimate fear of mine.
I fucking love you guys so much. I listen to you morning to night, when I’m alone and with my son or at school on my AirPods, listening to you guys makes me feel like I’m ok being who I am, like I am ok just being me and not trying to be anyone else. Listening to you guys has made me realize that I am or broken, that I don’t need to be “fixed”, and that I am perfectly imperfect exactly the way I am. Thank you for showing me this, and showing me the deepest parts of your emotional mental selves. I have a 10 year old son named Noah who I had at 19 years old, I thought my life was over and I never thought that I could really find true love. Ciara has shown me that I can and I can do this epic thing called life to it’s fullest. Also, I have such bad anxiety that I listen to your podcasts over and over again because now you guys are my familiar friends and I know what to expect. Rip to my not anxious self. I love you guys so so so very much. Thank you for changing my life. ❤️
I know this was done a while ago but I haven't been able to stop thinking about this podcast since I listened to it. It is exactly like you said so raw and real and it opened my eyes. As someone who lives in the UK I struggle to even comprehend some of the stresses living in America brings and to hear this felt so important to me and made me remember to keep striving to do the things I love not just the things I am good at or to reach "my full potential". I have always been very academic and people expect me to be a fancy psychologist after uni but I think I would be happier in a slightly lower position even if the pay is less and I COULD achieve more but this reminded me I don't have to. This was a lot but I just wanted to say I can tell this was hard for you but thank you.
Yessss so much this about the career paths! My husband and I are good at our jobs and we make ok money, but damn dude we hate our jobs and the last few months we've been seriously considering switching it up. Thanks for the encouragement, it's important to be happy and to put your mental health first, than to feel resentment towards a place you go basically every single day even if you're financially comfortable. (We aren't rich by any means, but we don't stress about bills anymore). Anyway, thanks for being here and living your best lives its obvious as a listener that you two definitely want to be here doing what you're doing. 💜
Thank you for hanging out with us!! It’s so scary to try to do something outside of the norm of societal expectations and pressure- not to mention the HUGE financial uncertainty. I’m so glad that so much of this resonated with you and hope you and your husband are able to find what works best for your hearts and minds!!
Hey! I came over from tiktok! And I resonate with this conversation so much! I’m 27 and I was a college dropout who went the opposite way, and have discovered within the last year that I really love teaching kids. But I wanted to be a fashion designer my entire life. I was a straight A student and went full throttle from a very small rural town to NY to pursue fashion design and I fricking HATED it. The professors at my school were so extremely rude to me that I left crying a lot of times. They called me stupid to my face. They told me to go back to the farm I came from. The students were horrific. Cut throat, stole, and lied and sabotaged each other nonstop. I just wasn’t built for that life. I’m a really shy, sweet, honest person. I wasn’t meant to go be a bully to “get ahead.” And for a long time I felt like a failure. But my mental and physical health got so bad from the stress there. I had put all this pressure on myself thinking that I had chosen this path, so I needed to stick to it for the rest of my life. And that’s not the case. So I came home and got a regular job that I happen to LOVE. I started working for Hallmark. And they’re seriously the best. And when the pandemic started, I live in a neighborhood with a ton of kids and young couples. It’s a military town. And I would constantly hear parents talking about how their kids were failing and giving up and didn’t understand the online schooling. So I decided to start tutoring kids on my days off from my other job and I LOVE it too! And word travels so fast here because everyone works with each other and knows each other. So I’m getting more kids. It’s just so fantastic. I love teaching them. They’re so funny. And when I was at my college, I did have some friends who were there to become teachers, and they always said that they thought I would make a great teacher. And some of my nice professors said that too. But it just seemed so daunting at the time. But I’ve been loving the kids I work with. It’s so rewarding seeing them change and grow and trust me more. And see the younger ones reading faster and doing math problems faster. And the parents love me and trust me. It’s so different going from, “oh you’re an artist? Do you make any money from that?” To, “Aww you work with kids! That’s amazing! I could never!” And I honestly was terrible at sewing. I was never going to be a good fashion designer, but I’m a really good teacher and their grades are improving significantly!
I know you’re never going to read this but I’m a parkland survivor and yeah it’s fucking terrifying. I have to still do active shooter drills and it’s so triggering. During a drill I was locked outside of my class one day and wasn’t allowed back in. That happened that day as well and I had a panic attack but nobody would help me. It’s more traumatizing than the actual shooting at this point. Now with the shooting that just happened I have to hear it everywhere and it makes me sick. People post about it and talk about this stuff constantly and I’m just meant to listen. I don’t get a trigger warning on life and it sucks. The amount of times I hear about the shooting in general life is surprising. It never stops. It makes me want to never go to school ever again but I can’t.
I have always felt so bad for teachers when doing active shooter drills. They have so much responsibility on them. I remember my junior year in high school when we were doing one my calc teacher straight up told us his room is one of the least safe rooms in the building so if it's possible we should get to another room. His door opened out so barricading was practically useless and the only way out would be the roof with a steep drop so if they were also outside or if you have a disability you were screwed. There were also giant windows along one whole side of the room and it was honestly so uncomfortable doing the drills in that class.
I’ve been binge watching this podcast since my bf and I broke up, rly makes me feel less alone and it’s been helping me soooo much. I greatly appreciate you guys!
Worked with a bunch of the pharma drug promoters when something happened in the medical industry. They went from bribing doctors and buying them steak dinners to serving pasta at Olive Garden in less that a week! Hope they took their lives in a more positive direction, pharmaceutical representatives are hacks.
I needed to hear this, i published my first novel and i feel imposter syndrome all the time. I think i can’t make it as an author often. I have to remind myself i can do what makes me happy!
i listen/watch your podcast while doing homework so i dont cry and feel drained from school because it makes me laugh and get my mind of the difficultence
It took me 32 minutes to realize there is a dog in the middle of that couch. I was so focused on what they were talking about the background was invisible.
So, I am now caught up to this Tuesday's episode, listening wise anyway. And I went back after finding you on Tik Tok and when I tell you its been a wild ride from then to now. I have cried, laughed and celebrated with you guys. Thankyou. For being so amazing and wonderful.
I moved to Ohio about 7 years ago and have had a hard time making and keeping friends that can keep up with my lifestyle (aka, staying at home and never wanting to hang out haha). I have two best friends from college that both live in a different state. I found your podcast from Tik Tok the other day and I'm now binging all of your episodes. You both remind me SO MUCH of my college days of sitting in our apartment and just sitting and laughing and crying with my best friends. Your videos make me feel so comfortable because I relate to you both so much. So thank you for bringing that friendship
god so relatable- i left teaching like 2 weeks ago and idk if ill ever look back. teaching in the us is genuinely such a thankless position and it was so goddamn stressful All The Time. my school also straight up never did shooter drills like. ever. seriously made me anxious as hell im so glad im out of there
I was frustrated when I chose my career, massage therapy, my SO at the time didn’t support me and told me it wasn’t gonna be worth it. My current SO has plans to help me jump start my business and is alway asking how he can help get clients…I hate how people influence your inspiration for life.
Hey Ladies! I do not have social media so could not DM you. I wanted to say how helpful this episode was for me. I’m a Psychologist and have been working in the system for a few years after moving on from nonprofit work. It’s been soul sucking and I’m finally at a place where I can move fully into private practice. I think this is an interesting theme for people in the workforce, not being in the right system/agency. I have many colleagues that think psychology is no longer for them but I think it is because they are being suffocated by a system that doesn’t allow out of box therapies and only does short term work. A nice thing about private is you only attract clients that are into your vibe, so I get majority feminist clients. I’d be interested in hearing your experiences if you ever used a non-private therapist or what Ciara thinks about working as a therapist in the future and how to navigate wellness in a broken system. Thanks!!
I remember in sixth-grade my art teacher told our class that we would go into the kiln room, which is hot, or run but we wouldn't know if there was someone waiting outside. In high school most of our threats were from the kids, bomb and shooting, so I also freaked out because they knew the plan. There was one week where we had like two lockdowns because schools around us got targeted.
I think a great podcast episode would be a look into the server life (sorry if you had done that before) but I think so many people need to learn about how hard that job can be to do! I would love to listen to stories about your serving experiences and also maybe ways you would want customers to change while dining out!
Hey Tiff!! 😄 We haven’t done one like this! Such a good idea! A couple people have reached out saying the same thing and we definitely want to use our experiences to shed light on the service industry! We’ll add it to the list 🤎
I feel you Jeri, I honestly almost skipped the last episode because I thought it might trigger me, but I'm glad I didn't. I only taught for 2.5 years in grad school, but I couldn't continue. For me it was all about my mental health, I was dealing with undiagnosed ADHD and had a lot of unprocessed trauma that caused me to be extremely socially anxious, I couldn't connect to my students, I felt like an imposter pretending to know more than they did. I procrastinated my lesson plans so badly yet never slept at night, just a few hours here and there in the morning and sometimes I'd take a nap in the parking garage. My students suffered because I wasn't capable of preparing for them. Besides my own issues, it's an assumption in academia that if you're serious about post-grad work it's up to you to train yourself to teach, even if it isn't even your academic goal. Even if it conflicts with your actual studies. I didn't know that going in, I wish I had. Maybe I would have taken a more purposefully laissez-faire approach.
in high school, we had active shooter trainings multiple times every year. the entire school gathered in the gym to watch presentations from our school officer and were shown graphs and statistics. we had a step by step process taught to us and shown how to barricade, told what to do if we had to go out the window, told never to grab the gun from the shooter because the police would shoot us, etc. my high school was so big that i truly felt that i would not be surprised if we had an active shooter before i graduated. thankfully we didn’t, but all of us were very prepared and trained if it did. it’s insane that America would rather have our teachers take the time and resources to prepare us for WHEN this happens, not if, rather than actually doing something to prevent it.
I’m sorry but I gotta say I LOVE YOU GUYS!! this podcast is so good like you go from serious stuff to funny as hell!!! Love the contrast and just love it thank uuu xx
I know this is old but I hated being in school because I was so scared of a School shooter. Any loud sound and I jumped. My school also had multiple threats. It's genuinely horrible. It's also very eye opening to hear what my teachers might've went through and what you and other teachers did go through. It's really heartbreaking because I would never want my teachers family to lose them.
I just want to say, I did substitute teaching for a few years and the reason I quit is because they started doing those intruder drills and NO ONE FUCKING WARNED ME AND I LEGITIMATELY THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIE IN A ROOM FULL OF TERRIFIED SECOND GRADERS😭
I remember going through repeated active shooter drills all through school, I used to be HORRIFIED of fire drills because I remember thinking of someone pulling the alarm and then taking us out while we all stood in a group outside.
I'm loving your videos ladies! I found you on tik tok and found myself watching all those videos. Then I seen your on here and im obsessed! You guys make me laugh! Thank you!
At 43:00 you said “privileged in that way for that transition”... I’d say yes and no because you still worked hard to make that transition for 5 years. Give yourself more cradit❤️
Thank you- I do give myself credit. I do want to acknowledge though that I did have help from my parents paying for college, I had scholarships and grants that helped prevent a ton of debt, my husband had insurance and supported me leaving and all of those things are a part of my privilege. I still worked my butt off to build my brand but it wouldn’t have been possible without those other little head starts. I so appreciate you though because I do need reminded that I’m allowed to give myself credit!
I get that reaction when people ask what I’m going to college for. I say songwriting and it’s always like “oh hm that’s interesting.” Or they suggest being a nurse, a vet, etc. Everyone needs to normalize people pursuing their passion.
Hey, that's me! 12:41 Alex! Yes, proprioception - the phenomenon that your body knows where it is at even when you don't see it. Like touching your nose with your eyes closed
I need friends like this. Those who understand that I just want to sit at home. I don't want to go out and do things very often (not that there is much to do here in Indiana)... I want to sit in my comfortable area in my apartment and chill!
I didn’t realise active shooter drills are such a massive thing in the USA. It’s a well known joke about guns and American schools, but that sounds traumatic as hell having to practice for that. In my 13 years of school in the UK, never once have we practiced or even mentioned the possibility of have an intruder or attacker in the school. Our schools don’t have security personal or police at all, just teachers and students. It’s mad to me that there needs to be such protection around children going to school
My mom is a middle school teacher and she told me that the school did something very similar where they had a fake gun that shot air and that she will never forget her principle shooting a puff of air in her face
I have been waiting and wanting this episode since I started listening! I am in school to become a teacher and I wanted your thoughts on it. Thank you so much!! 💕💕💕 I love you guys
Every year in highschool we had to watch a 20 min video on if there was a shooter what to do and had a full hour dedicated to drills when we watched the video. Then some teachers would have to walk around and bang on every door. I was scared everyday of school from those
OMG THAT WAS ME IN THE COMMENTS doing 🥺👉🏻👈🏻. It’s so funny because start doing/saying things ironically to make fun of it and then it slowly makes it’s way into my everyday habits....LOL. Also Im the youngest of my siblings (born in 97!) so it’s a very weird mixture of millennial and Gen Z in my brain 😂 So I went through a duck lips backwards peace sign phase but also i want to wear a middle part after years of side part??????
I was on the edge of my fucking seat waiting to hear where these keys ended up and I got an unskippable 2 minute ad for dominos I was like NOT NOW. i don’t want the PeppERonI passion! I wanna know where ciaras keys are 😩
I had a music teacher that said if it was an intruder she would have us barricade the doors with are chairs and then she would give us lights that had strobes on them and we would shine them in the persons eyes and she would grab her blanket and the fire extinguisher and she would spray the fire extinguisher fluid on him and then she will put the blanket over their head I’m really hit them with the fire extinguisher and she said she could she literally told us that is what she would do.
My aunt lost her job at the Post Office because she got put on bed rest at the start of her third trimester :) wild... its a federal job and they told her if she took longer than her designated maternity leave she'd lose her job.
The way I picked up my phone when you said “gen z have gestures” and I was like okay lemme investigate whatever you two are about to perform. My gen z eyes need to witness this for research 😆. You did the 👉👈👉👈 and I was like YEAH! You got it! 😆
Which one?! The hexagon is just two shelves my husband built stacked on top of each other and the stump one was given to me as a trade for a photoshoot 😅 bartering is alive and well! If you’re looking for a side table like the hexagon one- the guy who made it is opening a shop 😉😉
I feel like an appropriate response to someone saying they’re a photographer is to ask to see some of their work, or ask them to show me their favourite photo they’ve taken... maybe that’s just me tho..
This video is old but i just really want to tell this story. The day after my quinceanera we had another big party at our house with family and close friends, it was well over 100 people in and out of the house all day. At the end of the night after everyone was super drunk and after we had finished cleaning my cousin said she lost her phone and wallet which were on the table. Everything on the tables was trash so to make it easier we just picked up the table covers with everything in them and threw them away. So at 3 in the morning my whole drunk family was searching through trash cans (remember those 100 people, it was disgusting) and eventually 30 minutes later my other cousin(main girl's sister)went into their car for a jacket and saw the phone and wallet in there. SHE HAD ALREADY PUT THEM IN THE CAR AND CAME BACK TO SAY BYE 🙄🤣🤣🤣
😂 I hooked my retainer inside my mouth one time! Just like a fish, had to go to the ER for them to cut it out for me. Lol It was probably 7th grade, I remember thinking this is how it ends. 💀
Speaking of finding out about things teachers do. I looked up my sons 3rd grade teacher on Facebook and found her page. Her cover picture was her name carved into someone’s skin. So there’s that... 👁👄👁
I'm not completely caught up on the podcast yet, so you guys might have already done this, but I think it would be interesting if you guys read your birth charts. Again, sorry if you've already done this, I'm a new listener.
Yeah!! We did! I believe the episode is called “I’m a piece of shit because of the stars- Horoscope Birth Charts” 😅 but we do want to do more personality type quiz/assessments 🙌🏼
As someone who works at a bank, and initially thought "i'm really good at this, let's do it forever", hearing you say "just because I'm good at it doesn't mean I have to like it" is really helping me cope with the realization that I hate my job 💕 really empowering me to think about what I want to do wether than what I "should" do ❤️
Mosby snoozing on the couch was a nice comfort during the heavier topics in this episode. A fluffy, content dog helps ease my anxiety, even if I only see him on screen.
I’m sorry but I’m full on crying thinking about you doing those drills. That’s so fucking sick
It was truly traumatic and I hope something changes so no one else has to go through them.
As someone who has been in a shooter situation those drills are horrific. Going through those situations made the real thing 100x worse. My mom never went through drills or anything and in that situation she was fine. That was 3 years ago and I still have ptsd and nightmares from it
@@ihaveiakitty i am so sorry you had to go through that!! I really hope you get past it and move on, you are so strong for going through that!
This was such an important topic to discuss. They are talking about the exact reason I left teaching myself. I hated the idea of being expected to become a human shield in attacks like this
It’s such a terrifying reality and we’re s happy you got out!
I know the "assumptions about us" trend is older now, but who cares, I think that'd be a hilarious episode!
For sure! Especially with the new influx of listeners, it could be a great way to get to know us! Thank you!!
In education on every level they have you go through active shooters drills. I worked for a university for a testing center and we had to talk about an active shooter plan. The told us to run and save ourselves which is very different than what they tell you to do in a school building.
Thank you for shining a light on what it’s truly like to work in education. It is so much more than what people think
It’s such a traumatic experience that is sadly a necessity in all levels of education. My sisters were in a library on campus once when a shooter was on campus and thinking about that still makes me sick. I hope more people can open up about the struggles of this being our “normal”! Thank you for sharing your experience!
I also work at a community college, luckily haven’t had to do a drill yet but not excited to one bit
It for sure takes a special person to be a teacher. Regardless of if you are not a teacher currently or were a teacher in the past you truly are a special person. The non-verbal girl that you mentioned and the way that you talked about her shows how much you cared for your students. Please don't ever feel like you are less of a person or teacher because you are not a teacher anymore. You are still a very special person to the kids and the parents of the kids that you did teach. I can promise you that you do hold a special place in their hearts. I say this as a mom of 2 special needs kids. I can tell you that my kids teachers that took the time to care about, love on, and actually got to know my boys are some of the people that I have cherished the most. The kids have a special bond with those people. They are the ones that did all that they could to help my boys be successful in life and they are the people that my kids grew with the most. I can only imagine how draining it could be to feel like you had to hide part of yourself. As a parent I do not get why people have to be assholes and judge you for being a normal person. In my opinion I need my kids teachers to be themselves in school and outside of schools otherwise they are going to feel the same things that you have had to deal with. That is bullshit and to be honest if I was somewhere and I saw one of my boys teachers or therapist I would be buying them a drink and telling them to have one on me to thank them for all the shit I know my kids have put them through. You two ladies are fucking amazing and awesome people. Thank you for doing this podcast/youtube channel I love it!!!
i absolutely agree with what you said about potential clients seeing what you post! i’m in college for psychology and want to be a correctional counselor for juveniles and adolescents and i’m also passionate about tattoos and piercings. people say all the time that i won’t be taken seriously but i feel that being my authentic true self will allow me to connect with clients even more.
Love how relatable y’all are! 🤣 never laughed this much watching all your podcasts! Y’all are so genuine and the banter between the two of you is my exact humor! So happy to see how popular y’all are becoming! 🤗
Thank you so much!!
Everytime Jeri recites the German alphabet, it brings me immense joy! XD
I’ve repeated it in my head a thousand times since recording waiting for the entire country of Germany to roast me 🤣
love y'all!!! & I'd love a episode (or lil segment) for Ciara to talk more about her decision to get into psychology/what branch she studies and what she wants to do eventually with it :) i recently got my degree with psychology so i know there's sooooo many things you can do with it and branches of psych to study, so i'd love to know your perspective!!
Writing this down!! Thank you!
CZcams has immaculate timing. Wallet story, you say "Guess where it was?" and it IMMEDIATELY cut to an add. I was screaming.
this is such a good podcast i really love the vibes and as a junior in high school it’s nice to hear your guys life experiences and stuff about certain jobs such as teaching
The big sister in us wants to protect you from 99% of what we say but the human in us knows we wish we would have heard it as juniors in high school. Thank you for hanging out!!
I live in the UK and honestly blows my mind how active shooter drills are just kinda considered the norm when in reality it's traumatic even thinking about it. I have recently watched 'Killer Queens' cover Columbine too so it's harrowing to think of how students and staff must feel. Will always hope for some major change as no one should have to leave the house with that potential fear, for something which should be more preventable. Also love you ladies. Have decided to go back and binge the older videos since recently getting into your podcast. Keep being your boss ass selves. Also thank you for sharing your true selves xxxx
For eight years I had a job that filled my cup to the brim and then I was fired and told to move to Florida and try for something better. Two years later I had another job in a completely different field that once again filled my cup, but I lost it to the pandemic. Now I'm once again looking for something to make me feel passionate about working and I'm struggling. Thanks for the inspiration that it can still happen!
Without the Arts we as humans would be suffering so much worse than we are now. There is SO MUCH VALUE in the Arts and I wish society as a whole could see that. I also help teach Special Education as an inclusion aid for elementary and even though I love the kids, I don't think I want to be a teacher. I've considered it but ultimately my passions are in writing and creating artwork.
I love how you all mentioned that we are vastly different people at different ages. I definitely agree. The person I was in college/my early 20s is NOT who I am now. And while there are similarities, I have some differences in my core values in comparison to her. What she wanted out of life and out of a job/career is completely different to what I want now. People don't talk about this enough--we change throughout life and who we are when we are young may be temporary.
My high school AP gov teacher ended up miscarrying and had to miss a couple of days, and when she came back she sat us all down to explain what happened to her. She was also the cheerleading coach and they all knew what happened but knew they wanted her to share when she was ready
Jeri, i’m totally with you on the teaching thing. I was going to go into teaching but I didn’t like what was happening in the school systems. I loved kids and wanted to help them learn and grow; but I didn’t want to be told how to do it. I’m so glad you were able to build a career with your passion!
It’s such a tough thing to feel like you want to make a difference but the system makes it a struggle for some people to stay. Wishing you all the best!
I’m a server at a Texas road house and also a photographer. And I had to give up photography because everyone said I wouldn’t go anywhere. So I’ve been a sever for 1 year now and I’m only 20 and just went through two years of college. I have no idea what I’m doing with my life but you guys make me feel like I’m not alone.
Also I’m from Mississippi
Please know that you CAN be successful in photography. There’s room for everyone and if no one has told you yet- I am. There’s room in the industry for you and there is only one person who can capture the world the way you see it and that is IMPORTANT! You definitely don’t need to have everything figured out, but if there’s any advice I could have given myself it’s “do not allow other people to place a cap on your potential. Their doubts, fears and insecurities are not your responsibility.” DO YOU, BABY
You ladies are lovely! Thank you so much for this channel. I feel like I’m sitting down and having a nice conversation with friends and you uplift me everyday. I’m grateful for both of you and I appreciate you dearly!
The school shootings are so scary, I can't even imagine how traumatizing it would be, I'm glad I'm not american ❤️
Forever hoping policy changes to protect staff and students in the future and prioritize mental health!
Ok so I've thought about this ALL DAY, and just how you (Jeri) said once you start thinking about something you have to say it or you'll just keep replaying it in your head - I'm the same exact way lol so here it goes!
I would LOVE for you guys to talk about failure. Whether that means career wise, personality/behavior, relationships, parenting, dreams, goals, anything! I'm having a rough couple of months dealing with failure in my 10 year relationship and my job, and you guys are so fucking cool and somehow always managed to pull me out of my funk and remind me that things can and WILL get better. So I think listening to your perspectives would really help guide me into a more positive mindset! Although, I completely understand if you guys can't or if you never even see this message lol regardless, THANK YOU FOR BEING THE LIGHT IN MY LIFE THAT I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW I NEEDED 🖤🖤🖤
My son is no verbal Autistic and in high school, so when you were talking about how worried you were about what to do with your students in a crisis situation that really hit home for me. I try not to think about stuff like that but that is definitely a legitimate fear of mine.
I fucking love you guys so much. I listen to you morning to night, when I’m alone and with my son or at school on my AirPods, listening to you guys makes me feel like I’m ok being who I am, like I am ok just being me and not trying to be anyone else. Listening to you guys has made me realize that I am or broken, that I don’t need to be “fixed”, and that I am perfectly imperfect exactly the way I am.
Thank you for showing me this, and showing me the deepest parts of your emotional mental selves.
I have a 10 year old son named Noah who I had at 19 years old, I thought my life was over and I never thought that I could really find true love. Ciara has shown me that I can and I can do this epic thing called life to it’s fullest.
Also, I have such bad anxiety that I listen to your podcasts over and over again because now you guys are my familiar friends and I know what to expect. Rip to my not anxious self.
I love you guys so so so very much. Thank you for changing my life. ❤️
I know this was done a while ago but I haven't been able to stop thinking about this podcast since I listened to it. It is exactly like you said so raw and real and it opened my eyes. As someone who lives in the UK I struggle to even comprehend some of the stresses living in America brings and to hear this felt so important to me and made me remember to keep striving to do the things I love not just the things I am good at or to reach "my full potential". I have always been very academic and people expect me to be a fancy psychologist after uni but I think I would be happier in a slightly lower position even if the pay is less and I COULD achieve more but this reminded me I don't have to. This was a lot but I just wanted to say I can tell this was hard for you but thank you.
Yessss so much this about the career paths! My husband and I are good at our jobs and we make ok money, but damn dude we hate our jobs and the last few months we've been seriously considering switching it up. Thanks for the encouragement, it's important to be happy and to put your mental health first, than to feel resentment towards a place you go basically every single day even if you're financially comfortable. (We aren't rich by any means, but we don't stress about bills anymore).
Anyway, thanks for being here and living your best lives its obvious as a listener that you two definitely want to be here doing what you're doing. 💜
Thank you for hanging out with us!! It’s so scary to try to do something outside of the norm of societal expectations and pressure- not to mention the HUGE financial uncertainty. I’m so glad that so much of this resonated with you and hope you and your husband are able to find what works best for your hearts and minds!!
Hey! I came over from tiktok! And I resonate with this conversation so much! I’m 27 and I was a college dropout who went the opposite way, and have discovered within the last year that I really love teaching kids. But I wanted to be a fashion designer my entire life. I was a straight A student and went full throttle from a very small rural town to NY to pursue fashion design and I fricking HATED it. The professors at my school were so extremely rude to me that I left crying a lot of times. They called me stupid to my face. They told me to go back to the farm I came from. The students were horrific. Cut throat, stole, and lied and sabotaged each other nonstop. I just wasn’t built for that life. I’m a really shy, sweet, honest person. I wasn’t meant to go be a bully to “get ahead.” And for a long time I felt like a failure. But my mental and physical health got so bad from the stress there. I had put all this pressure on myself thinking that I had chosen this path, so I needed to stick to it for the rest of my life. And that’s not the case. So I came home and got a regular job that I happen to LOVE. I started working for Hallmark. And they’re seriously the best.
And when the pandemic started, I live in a neighborhood with a ton of kids and young couples. It’s a military town. And I would constantly hear parents talking about how their kids were failing and giving up and didn’t understand the online schooling. So I decided to start tutoring kids on my days off from my other job and I LOVE it too! And word travels so fast here because everyone works with each other and knows each other. So I’m getting more kids.
It’s just so fantastic. I love teaching them. They’re so funny. And when I was at my college, I did have some friends who were there to become teachers, and they always said that they thought I would make a great teacher. And some of my nice professors said that too. But it just seemed so daunting at the time. But I’ve been loving the kids I work with. It’s so rewarding seeing them change and grow and trust me more. And see the younger ones reading faster and doing math problems faster. And the parents love me and trust me. It’s so different going from, “oh you’re an artist? Do you make any money from that?” To, “Aww you work with kids! That’s amazing! I could never!” And I honestly was terrible at sewing. I was never going to be a good fashion designer, but I’m a really good teacher and their grades are improving significantly!
I know you’re never going to read this but I’m a parkland survivor and yeah it’s fucking terrifying. I have to still do active shooter drills and it’s so triggering. During a drill I was locked outside of my class one day and wasn’t allowed back in. That happened that day as well and I had a panic attack but nobody would help me. It’s more traumatizing than the actual shooting at this point. Now with the shooting that just happened I have to hear it everywhere and it makes me sick. People post about it and talk about this stuff constantly and I’m just meant to listen. I don’t get a trigger warning on life and it sucks. The amount of times I hear about the shooting in general life is surprising. It never stops. It makes me want to never go to school ever again but I can’t.
I have always felt so bad for teachers when doing active shooter drills. They have so much responsibility on them. I remember my junior year in high school when we were doing one my calc teacher straight up told us his room is one of the least safe rooms in the building so if it's possible we should get to another room. His door opened out so barricading was practically useless and the only way out would be the roof with a steep drop so if they were also outside or if you have a disability you were screwed. There were also giant windows along one whole side of the room and it was honestly so uncomfortable doing the drills in that class.
I’ve been binge watching this podcast since my bf and I broke up, rly makes me feel less alone and it’s been helping me soooo much. I greatly appreciate you guys!
So happy to keep you company 🤎
I normally cant get into podcasts but I'm hooked to yours because you feel safe and dont judge!
I’m binge watching old shows but when I was a manager at a grocery chain I saw a TON of resumes from people that had PhD’s and masters degrees. Crazy.
Worked with a bunch of the pharma drug promoters when something happened in the medical industry. They went from bribing doctors and buying them steak dinners to serving pasta at Olive Garden in less that a week! Hope they took their lives in a more positive direction, pharmaceutical representatives are hacks.
I needed to hear this, i published my first novel and i feel imposter syndrome all the time. I think i can’t make it as an author often. I have to remind myself i can do what makes me happy!
i listen/watch your podcast while doing homework so i dont cry and feel drained from school because it makes me laugh and get my mind of the difficultence
Honestly so happy we can do that for you 🤎 thank you for being here!
The part where they're talking about being passionate about something, really hit home.
It took me 32 minutes to realize there is a dog in the middle of that couch. I was so focused on what they were talking about the background was invisible.
When he’s quiet, he’s hard to notice 😅
i love the way your name is spelled and pronounced. i’m irish i’ve only ever heard it said like Key-Rah
Not me trying to say the name you just spelled with an Irish accent 😅😅
So, I am now caught up to this Tuesday's episode, listening wise anyway. And I went back after finding you on Tik Tok and when I tell you its been a wild ride from then to now. I have cried, laughed and celebrated with you guys. Thankyou. For being so amazing and wonderful.
I moved to Ohio about 7 years ago and have had a hard time making and keeping friends that can keep up with my lifestyle (aka, staying at home and never wanting to hang out haha). I have two best friends from college that both live in a different state. I found your podcast from Tik Tok the other day and I'm now binging all of your episodes. You both remind me SO MUCH of my college days of sitting in our apartment and just sitting and laughing and crying with my best friends. Your videos make me feel so comfortable because I relate to you both so much. So thank you for bringing that friendship
god so relatable- i left teaching like 2 weeks ago and idk if ill ever look back. teaching in the us is genuinely such a thankless position and it was so goddamn stressful All The Time. my school also straight up never did shooter drills like. ever. seriously made me anxious as hell im so glad im out of there
I was frustrated when I chose my career, massage therapy, my SO at the time didn’t support me and told me it wasn’t gonna be worth it. My current SO has plans to help me jump start my business and is alway asking how he can help get clients…I hate how people influence your inspiration for life.
Hey Ladies! I do not have social media so could not DM you. I wanted to say how helpful this episode was for me. I’m a Psychologist and have been working in the system for a few years after moving on from nonprofit work. It’s been soul sucking and I’m finally at a place where I can move fully into private practice. I think this is an interesting theme for people in the workforce, not being in the right system/agency. I have many colleagues that think psychology is no longer for them but I think it is because they are being suffocated by a system that doesn’t allow out of box therapies and only does short term work. A nice thing about private is you only attract clients that are into your vibe, so I get majority feminist clients. I’d be interested in hearing your experiences if you ever used a non-private therapist or what Ciara thinks about working as a therapist in the future and how to navigate wellness in a broken system. Thanks!!
I remember in sixth-grade my art teacher told our class that we would go into the kiln room, which is hot, or run but we wouldn't know if there was someone waiting outside.
In high school most of our threats were from the kids, bomb and shooting, so I also freaked out because they knew the plan. There was one week where we had like two lockdowns because schools around us got targeted.
I think a great podcast episode would be a look into the server life (sorry if you had done that before) but I think so many people need to learn about how hard that job can be to do! I would love to listen to stories about your serving experiences and also maybe ways you would want customers to change while dining out!
Hey Tiff!! 😄 We haven’t done one like this! Such a good idea! A couple people have reached out saying the same thing and we definitely want to use our experiences to shed light on the service industry! We’ll add it to the list 🤎
I feel you Jeri, I honestly almost skipped the last episode because I thought it might trigger me, but I'm glad I didn't. I only taught for 2.5 years in grad school, but I couldn't continue. For me it was all about my mental health, I was dealing with undiagnosed ADHD and had a lot of unprocessed trauma that caused me to be extremely socially anxious, I couldn't connect to my students, I felt like an imposter pretending to know more than they did. I procrastinated my lesson plans so badly yet never slept at night, just a few hours here and there in the morning and sometimes I'd take a nap in the parking garage. My students suffered because I wasn't capable of preparing for them. Besides my own issues, it's an assumption in academia that if you're serious about post-grad work it's up to you to train yourself to teach, even if it isn't even your academic goal. Even if it conflicts with your actual studies. I didn't know that going in, I wish I had. Maybe I would have taken a more purposefully laissez-faire approach.
"even when i took it out of the pony i still looked like alexander... at home" 😂😂
in high school, we had active shooter trainings multiple times every year. the entire school gathered in the gym to watch presentations from our school officer and were shown graphs and statistics. we had a step by step process taught to us and shown how to barricade, told what to do if we had to go out the window, told never to grab the gun from the shooter because the police would shoot us, etc. my high school was so big that i truly felt that i would not be surprised if we had an active shooter before i graduated. thankfully we didn’t, but all of us were very prepared and trained if it did. it’s insane that America would rather have our teachers take the time and resources to prepare us for WHEN this happens, not if, rather than actually doing something to prevent it.
I just graduated high school and every drill was terrifying and every actual threat wasn’t handled
I’m sorry but I gotta say I LOVE YOU GUYS!! this podcast is so good like you go from serious stuff to funny as hell!!! Love the contrast and just love it thank uuu xx
We love you back!! Thank you!
I know this is old but I hated being in school because I was so scared of a School shooter. Any loud sound and I jumped. My school also had multiple threats. It's genuinely horrible.
It's also very eye opening to hear what my teachers might've went through and what you and other teachers did go through. It's really heartbreaking because I would never want my teachers family to lose them.
I just want to say, I did substitute teaching for a few years and the reason I quit is because they started doing those intruder drills and NO ONE FUCKING WARNED ME AND I LEGITIMATELY THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIE IN A ROOM FULL OF TERRIFIED SECOND GRADERS😭
I remember going through repeated active shooter drills all through school, I used to be HORRIFIED of fire drills because I remember thinking of someone pulling the alarm and then taking us out while we all stood in a group outside.
I'm loving your videos ladies! I found you on tik tok and found myself watching all those videos. Then I seen your on here and im obsessed! You guys make me laugh! Thank you!
At 43:00 you said “privileged in that way for that transition”... I’d say yes and no because you still worked hard to make that transition for 5 years. Give yourself more cradit❤️
Thank you- I do give myself credit. I do want to acknowledge though that I did have help from my parents paying for college, I had scholarships and grants that helped prevent a ton of debt, my husband had insurance and supported me leaving and all of those things are a part of my privilege. I still worked my butt off to build my brand but it wouldn’t have been possible without those other little head starts. I so appreciate you though because I do need reminded that I’m allowed to give myself credit!
I get that reaction when people ask what I’m going to college for. I say songwriting and it’s always like “oh hm that’s interesting.” Or they suggest being a nurse, a vet, etc. Everyone needs to normalize people pursuing their passion.
Hey, that's me! 12:41 Alex! Yes, proprioception - the phenomenon that your body knows where it is at even when you don't see it. Like touching your nose with your eyes closed
Alex- you’re an absolute star in our eyes. Thank you for being here 🤎
@@ladiesandtangents I’m waiting on my guest spot 😂😂😂 keep it up y’all. I love your content! It’s amazing!
Love you guys so much!! Trying to remember to not skip the ads! 😅 keep it up❤️
I need friends like this. Those who understand that I just want to sit at home. I don't want to go out and do things very often (not that there is much to do here in Indiana)... I want to sit in my comfortable area in my apartment and chill!
As a german I lost it when you were doing the german alphabet but honestly you did awesome jerri.
Omg thank you. If my German teacher was still alive she’s be so proud- even if she hated me 🥲
Found y’all on tik tok and I’m so glad that I did! I’m always looking for a podcast that feels like hanging out with friends and this is that
We’re so glad you found us!! We’re so happy you’re here 🤎
I agree that ALICE training is very scary. I just hope I don’t have to go through it with students… 🥺
Love this convo but it wasn’t till 10 mins till it ended I noticed the dog on the couch 😂 and I have be like watching watching not just listening
I didn’t realise active shooter drills are such a massive thing in the USA. It’s a well known joke about guns and American schools, but that sounds traumatic as hell having to practice for that. In my 13 years of school in the UK, never once have we practiced or even mentioned the possibility of have an intruder or attacker in the school. Our schools don’t have security personal or police at all, just teachers and students. It’s mad to me that there needs to be such protection around children going to school
I love y’all and I have definitely recommended y’all to my own cousin
My mom is a middle school teacher and she told me that the school did something very similar where they had a fake gun that shot air and that she will never forget her principle shooting a puff of air in her face
I was doing stuff while listening and then i come back and theres a puppy!!
Mosby pops in and out like he owns the place 🤣
49:39 I get that so much. Some Ppl on tiktok see me too now & I've made some great friends
I have been waiting and wanting this episode since I started listening! I am in school to become a teacher and I wanted your thoughts on it. Thank you so much!! 💕💕💕 I love you guys
I just love your sessions!! They are silly and real and so relatable, makes me feel less alone!!
Every year in highschool we had to watch a 20 min video on if there was a shooter what to do and had a full hour dedicated to drills when we watched the video. Then some teachers would have to walk around and bang on every door. I was scared everyday of school from those
Ciara has a perfect podcast personality
BLESS YOU- YEAH SHE DOES
I am 35 minutes in and just saw the dog sat there!
OMG THAT WAS ME IN THE COMMENTS doing 🥺👉🏻👈🏻. It’s so funny because start doing/saying things ironically to make fun of it and then it slowly makes it’s way into my everyday habits....LOL. Also Im the youngest of my siblings (born in 97!) so it’s a very weird mixture of millennial and Gen Z in my brain 😂 So I went through a duck lips backwards peace sign phase but also i want to wear a middle part after years of side part??????
HI!! 👉🏼👈🏼! Will you please tell us what that means?! 🤣 Also- recovering side part addict here- best decision I’ve made was switching.
As someone going to school for psychology I feel that 100% my own grandma and best friends have told me it's a worthless career
Been there... And I use what I learned every day in my non-psych job. They have no idea how much psychology influences their daily lives.
@@T0bei my best friend sees a therapist regularly and told me psychology is a waste of time and worthless
I was on the edge of my fucking seat waiting to hear where these keys ended up and I got an unskippable 2 minute ad for dominos I was like NOT NOW. i don’t want the PeppERonI passion! I wanna know where ciaras keys are 😩
I had a music teacher that said if it was an intruder she would have us barricade the doors with are chairs and then she would give us lights that had strobes on them and we would shine them in the persons eyes and she would grab her blanket and the fire extinguisher and she would spray the fire extinguisher fluid on him and then she will put the blanket over their head I’m really hit them with the fire extinguisher and she said she could she literally told us that is what she would do.
Your music teacher is a bad ass
“I don’t have an apple” 😂
My aunt lost her job at the Post Office because she got put on bed rest at the start of her third trimester :) wild... its a federal job and they told her if she took longer than her designated maternity leave she'd lose her job.
ayyy first comment !! loving the creepy magazine face in between you two on the wall lol
my artistic rendition: 👁👄👁
Lucille Ball! We like to think of her as the third host
dude im on shrooms i thought the dog was a blanket for 50 minutes
The way I picked up my phone when you said “gen z have gestures” and I was like okay lemme investigate whatever you two are about to perform. My gen z eyes need to witness this for research 😆. You did the 👉👈👉👈 and I was like YEAH! You got it! 😆
okay, I need to know where yall got that side table!! I need that in my nursery lol
Which one?! The hexagon is just two shelves my husband built stacked on top of each other and the stump one was given to me as a trade for a photoshoot 😅 bartering is alive and well! If you’re looking for a side table like the hexagon one- the guy who made it is opening a shop 😉😉
@@ladiesandtangents the stump one!! Lol
I didn’t have my glasses on and I was listening/ watching and I FINALLY realized at 45:52 that THERE IS A DOG
i have a teacher who lives in this city and she’s had nails put on her driveway and like threats in her mailbox
I just wanted to say how much Jeri gives me Jenna Marbles vibes!
*Tongue click, kiss, whistle* to you 🤎
I love that I'm not the only one who feels this same way. Sometimes when I'm listening I forget that its Jeri and not Jenna
I feel like an appropriate response to someone saying they’re a photographer is to ask to see some of their work, or ask them to show me their favourite photo they’ve taken... maybe that’s just me tho..
I wish that was the response! That would be amazing!!
@@ladiesandtangents I know I would and I don’t doubt other listeners/watchers would too, like to see some of your favourite photos you’ve taken 🥰
This video is old but i just really want to tell this story.
The day after my quinceanera we had another big party at our house with family and close friends, it was well over 100 people in and out of the house all day. At the end of the night after everyone was super drunk and after we had finished cleaning my cousin said she lost her phone and wallet which were on the table. Everything on the tables was trash so to make it easier we just picked up the table covers with everything in them and threw them away. So at 3 in the morning my whole drunk family was searching through trash cans (remember those 100 people, it was disgusting) and eventually 30 minutes later my other cousin(main girl's sister)went into their car for a jacket and saw the phone and wallet in there. SHE HAD ALREADY PUT THEM IN THE CAR AND CAME BACK TO SAY BYE
🙄🤣🤣🤣
I have also choked on a melty mozzarella stick and can confirm it's terrifying lol
I have dry mouth problems, and I literally hardly ever eat cheese sticks (even though they are amazing 😭) because they almost always choke me 😂
😂 I hooked my retainer inside my mouth one time! Just like a fish, had to go to the ER for them to cut it out for me. Lol It was probably 7th grade, I remember thinking this is how it ends. 💀
Found you guys on tik tok and raced over to watch y'all on CZcams
Speaking of finding out about things teachers do. I looked up my sons 3rd grade teacher on Facebook and found her page. Her cover picture was her name carved into someone’s skin. So there’s that... 👁👄👁
One can hope it was a mans arm- a real boss b* move. We love that for her. Stick it to the patriarchy ✌🏼
👉👈means like shy or you're nervous to talk to someone. The hair tuck is a meme called the Debby Ryan.
Omg I love Debby Ryan. This is great news. Forever tucking my hair.
@@ladiesandtangents careful. Don’t google 👉🏼👈🏻 apparently it’s a sexual act 🙃🙃🙃
Please not the Alexander Hamilton slander😭😭
We love Hamilton so much 😂
@@ladiesandtangents we need an episode with you rapping the lyrics lol
Ciara knows the cabinet battle by heart
i LOVE yall!
I'm not completely caught up on the podcast yet, so you guys might have already done this, but I think it would be interesting if you guys read your birth charts. Again, sorry if you've already done this, I'm a new listener.
Yeah!! We did! I believe the episode is called “I’m a piece of shit because of the stars- Horoscope Birth Charts” 😅 but we do want to do more personality type quiz/assessments 🙌🏼
👉👈 means shy btw!
We used to call that “breaking the pickle” 🤣 sooo 👋🏼 (that’s a karate chop emoji now)
Jebeca blue at the dance. Where can I find it? Because it’s not on CZcams 😂
Curiosity often gets the best of me, but are the various wooden tables/shelves that are present in the episode pieces made by Shane?
The hexagons are all made by Shane! The natural form wood side table was given to me as a trade for a photoshoot lol
@@ladiesandtangents I'm sure it doesn't need said, but he's a talented soul.