Mom Warns College Students to Wear Coats After Son Dies

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • Dorothy Connor is still grieving for her son, a University of Vermont freshman who died of hypothermia last year. Surveillance cameras caught his final moments in subzero temperatures. He was wearing neither a hat nor gloves. Dorothy now shares her son’s story at schools, in the hopes that others may avoid her son’s fate. She urges students to always wear a coat. “When you leave to go out with your friends, you come back with the same friends,” she added #InsideEdition

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  • @jeremydiaz9642
    @jeremydiaz9642 Před 4 lety +7346

    Imagine being drunk, afraid, alone, immensely cold, in the dark and finally passing away behind a dumpster due to exhaustion.
    *_RIP Connor._*

    • @Giliver
      @Giliver Před 4 lety +83

      Afraid? Lol
      He was drunk and wandering not afraid and searching for help. Lol

    • @martinperalta4189
      @martinperalta4189 Před 4 lety +1

      It he the victim do

    • @blackheart9068
      @blackheart9068 Před 4 lety +39

      I imagine myself being cozy at home watching this video and being safe...wait I’m doing that right now.

    • @chrislovitt46
      @chrislovitt46 Před 4 lety +27

      He did that to himself

    • @freddiemercurygaming4124
      @freddiemercurygaming4124 Před 4 lety +8

      He is a android

  • @therecitalist
    @therecitalist Před 3 lety +2134

    So typical, “the dad” looking out for all of his friends while no one was looking out for him. RIP young man.

    • @Imnotacreativeperson393
      @Imnotacreativeperson393 Před 3 lety +222

      I was the "the mom" in my friend group in high school, once I saw that they weren't gonna do the bare minimum for me after I would go above nd beyond for them, I slowly cha cha-ed real smooth away from that friend group

    • @user-hc4ib1yg2i
      @user-hc4ib1yg2i Před 3 lety +43

      @@Imnotacreativeperson393 Thank god

    • @wellknown1204
      @wellknown1204 Před 3 lety +49

      @@Imnotacreativeperson393 Good for you, friendship is a two way streets like others relationship. I had lost so many friends in College, for we grew apart.

    • @conservativeliberal
      @conservativeliberal Před 3 lety +16

      @@Imnotacreativeperson393 I wish I had a friend like you

    • @sexyanonymous4962
      @sexyanonymous4962 Před 3 lety +16

      that’s what hurts me alot . he looked out for everyone else, but nobody gave a damn about him 💔💔💔RIP CONNOR

  • @-_Unknown.
    @-_Unknown. Před 4 lety +4638

    What I hate is that so many young people die and never experience a full life

    • @Fungi488
      @Fungi488 Před 4 lety +77

      Everything happens for a reason they might have gone through torture if they stayed alive maybe dying was the best thing that ever happened to them

    • @YPKIKI-ve4yv
      @YPKIKI-ve4yv Před 4 lety +33

      TRL Fungi488
      That is deep

    • @Deeone282
      @Deeone282 Před 4 lety +33

      @@YPKIKI-ve4yv that is stupid.

    • @Deeone282
      @Deeone282 Před 4 lety +72

      @@Fungi488 Yeah. Cause a little 6 year old girl getting obducted in front of her house, then raped and killed and left in the woods happens for a reason. Right. Why blame the killer since it was destiny. It was suppose to happen. Right?

    • @ews6724
      @ews6724 Před 4 lety +1

      D One sad that was in my state

  • @MiMiMiMi-du6jy
    @MiMiMiMi-du6jy Před 4 lety +4465

    Bruh I'd wear layers and layers of clothes just to feel comfortable.

  • @mydailyreward2090
    @mydailyreward2090 Před 4 lety +1343

    It doesnt sound like a coat was the issue. It sounds like drinking was the issue

  • @Mu51kM4n
    @Mu51kM4n Před 4 lety +2200

    Mom's message: take care of your friends, make sure everyone gets home safely
    ID title: "wear coats"
    He was wearing a coat. That's not even the point here.

    • @ILikeBirds
      @ILikeBirds Před 4 lety +42

      Mu51kM4n the problem was the alcohol.

    • @CL-mp4vn
      @CL-mp4vn Před 3 lety +12

      At the part _he was wearing the coat..._ , I think, wait, hold it, how come mom warns to wear coat ?

    • @bellav4567
      @bellav4567 Před 3 lety +7

      Cause in other of cases (think of all the different weather situations just across the U.S.) a coat could literally make a life or death difference and make the matter of time they need to get help go from minutes to longer. Possibly saving their life by prolonging the time they have to get or seek help.

    • @Fun-rf9vs
      @Fun-rf9vs Před 3 lety +2

      TAKE ME BACK TEN MONTHS AGO TAKE ME BACK TEN MONTHS AGO TAKE ME BACK TEN MONTHS AGO

    • @nataliemei5184
      @nataliemei5184 Před 3 lety +2

      Inside Edition is a bad news source lol. They clickbait often

  • @caycay73cb
    @caycay73cb Před 4 lety +2478

    If they get drunk and pass out in this weather, they're dead

    • @goldenbro439
      @goldenbro439 Před 4 lety +20

      ikr

    • @KESTRAL23
      @KESTRAL23 Před 4 lety +11

      Hopefully I see asleep woman on the street....

    • @cwatson42785
      @cwatson42785 Před 4 lety +17

      @@KESTRAL23 Well actually it would be considered a crime if you didn't fiqure out a way to warm her up! And of course you couldn't give her your clothes and risk your life. There has to be something you could do to heat her up and save her life!!

    • @PistolPete1980
      @PistolPete1980 Před 4 lety +20

      Caylee He wasn’t asleep. This happened to me once. I drank so much I passed out outside on the patio, I was fully conscious and laid out on the ground. But I couldn’t move even 3 feet to get inside, it was it was one of the coldest nights in Canada and I was shivering like crazy and remember thinking I’m gonna die if I don’t get inside. Anyway after about an hour contemplating mustering enough strength to crawl a few feet I finally made it inside. It took everything out of me. And That was only a few feet, I also remember laying there and thinking about all the people I’ve heard about that froze to death outside while they were “passed out” drunk. Realizing they were most likely fully conscious just to incapacitated to move. Sad to think about. Anyway I decided that night not to ever touch another sip of alcohol and I haven’t since.

    • @itsourlife
      @itsourlife Před 4 lety +8

      @@PistolPete1980 Congratulations on your new life and wise decision. 👍

  • @Alskdoenfkemfnek
    @Alskdoenfkemfnek Před 4 lety +1727

    Or maybe spread the message to drink responsibly, weather can’t be avoided, alcohol can...

    • @theveefit
      @theveefit Před 4 lety +9

      Kathleen L amen !

    • @ambersodyssey
      @ambersodyssey Před 4 lety +12

      Right.. 😔

    • @yobruhfatlegs
      @yobruhfatlegs Před 4 lety +17

      and he was under age bc she said freshmen in college which is like age 19 to 20

    • @rainynights23
      @rainynights23 Před 3 lety +5

      Facts

    • @ViaMirage
      @ViaMirage Před 3 lety +9

      I think the message is: don’t lay down in the snow while insanely drunk 😅😬

  • @Hades-tw4ql
    @Hades-tw4ql Před 4 lety +229

    the guy took care of everyone else and when the time came, there was no one for him. thats sad. Rip Connor.

  • @KeepingItRealWithMill
    @KeepingItRealWithMill Před 4 lety +4301

    The whole video is about “wearing a coat.” Meanwhile homeboy WAS wearing a coat and still died, from being over intoxicated. Smh

    • @gordonlin6120
      @gordonlin6120 Před 4 lety +448

      @Jessica Smith you can be fine without gloves or a hat. He was intoxicated, and tried climbing over a fence. He was too tired and just fell in the snow. The problem was not wearing a jacket, the problem was he was drunk in the cold where he passed out. That's what killed him

    • @thecatatemyhomework
      @thecatatemyhomework Před 4 lety +97

      @@gordonlin6120 did you watch the video? It was 35 below zero. His coat wasn't enough. Maybe if he only had a few-minute walk it would have been enough. But that wasn't the case here.

    • @joelwillems4081
      @joelwillems4081 Před 4 lety +166

      @@thecatatemyhomework If he wasn't drunk, he would have been aware that it was too cold not to try to go out in that temperature. The cold and the alcohol combined to make him drowsy.

    • @kameron.r
      @kameron.r Před 4 lety +23

      @@thecatatemyhomework having a good, thick coat in that temperature is good enough. ive been in cold weather like that without gloves and a scarf cuz i get hot easily with layers on and feel fine. the problem was he was alone, drunk, and too out of it that he passed out in the freezing cold weather. Thats why the mom is spreading the message about having good friends around u

    • @Canucks44219
      @Canucks44219 Před 4 lety +30

      @Jessica Smith then say to wear gloves and a hat and properly bundle. Saying wear a coat when he is wearing one and the video is all about wearing a coat yet he is wearing one is pointless. Shouldnt she be saying wear gloves, hat and bundle up oh and maybe not get drunk and get better friends. No this is about wearing a coat. Its in the title yet he is wearing one. Its like saying wear your seatbelt and then showing someone who was wearing one die in an accident and ignoring that they were drunk and speeding . Sure as hell had nothing to do with wearing a coat

  • @sznd
    @sznd Před 4 lety +1723

    Take this as a lesson. Don’t over drink while not being prepared.

    • @dmac2899
      @dmac2899 Před 4 lety +35

      Or just don't drink at all. I've never met someone who was drunk and productive

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean Před 4 lety +26

      D Mac You can drink and not get drunk. Never gotten drunk in my life, and I like my drinks 💁‍♀️

    • @dmac2899
      @dmac2899 Před 4 lety +9

      @@Beaneabean You can drink and not be drunk, sure, but you cannot be drunk without drinking first.

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean Před 4 lety +10

      D Mac If you cant handle your liquor, then sure, you shouldn’t be drinking at all.

    • @katiem4539
      @katiem4539 Před 3 lety +4

      But he died of hypothermia.

  • @rianagrace8919
    @rianagrace8919 Před 4 lety +1247

    And that's on fake friends🤦‍♀️ left him walking home alone😥🤧

    • @anaira308
      @anaira308 Před 4 lety +5

      You don’t know that...

    • @yvonnemejia224
      @yvonnemejia224 Před 4 lety +26

      In a college party especially a fraternity party i believe everyone is drunk so I don’t believe it’s his friends problem because they were probably not there or as drunk as him unfortunately so nothing could have been done

    • @nae3432
      @nae3432 Před 3 lety +6

      @@jemmaj2919 what kind of fronds you have? My friends all look after each other at a party

  • @IAMASELENATOR92
    @IAMASELENATOR92 Před 3 lety +297

    "If you leave with those friends, come back with those friends."
    Then she also talks about humanity.
    THAT is the main idea. Why is the title about coats?

    • @user-xp4jr1mq8t
      @user-xp4jr1mq8t Před 3 lety +10

      The title is just clickbait.

    • @moniquespight8667
      @moniquespight8667 Před 3 lety +2

      I wonder why no one came til the next morning..or was I listening wrong

    • @salvadoroars
      @salvadoroars Před 3 lety +2

      He even had a coat

    • @ktrayan1
      @ktrayan1 Před 5 dny

      And you can’t leave with friends you came with if you’re so drunk you can’t remember.

  • @Veronica-bc6pp
    @Veronica-bc6pp Před 3 lety +254

    This is exactly why my mom tells me to keep big warm blankets in my car if god forbid my car stopped running...etc I also keep gloves and a hat in my purse.

    • @anastasiabeaverhousen9067
      @anastasiabeaverhousen9067 Před 3 lety +33

      👍Bottled water,protein bars anything you can imagine you might need, you can slide off a roadway and no one will see you !

    • @Veronica-bc6pp
      @Veronica-bc6pp Před 3 lety +5

      @@anastasiabeaverhousen9067 yes water is very important too! Some food also

    • @artisticcynic
      @artisticcynic Před 2 lety +1

      My mom always told me the same and I live in sun city El Paso,TX lol.. still keep blankets in my car tho.

  • @parthpatel6263
    @parthpatel6263 Před 4 lety +880

    If you go out with your squad, make sure your WHOLE squad is with you when you leave. Could have saved his life.

    • @sigurdvandewiel2846
      @sigurdvandewiel2846 Před 4 lety +2

      How though? You don't all live in the same house, so eventually you're going to have split up..

    • @lilgill7348
      @lilgill7348 Před 4 lety +5

      @@sigurdvandewiel2846 well most likely if you go with them you're gonna go back with them

    • @zorothelostcommenter2102
      @zorothelostcommenter2102 Před 4 lety

      Just penguin huddle

    • @jogomango2387
      @jogomango2387 Před 4 lety +9

      @@sigurdvandewiel2846 you go to each others houses and drop everyone off and then the person who is the most warmed up gets home last

    • @sigurdvandewiel2846
      @sigurdvandewiel2846 Před 4 lety

      @@jogomango2387 That's only practical if you live close to each other. Some of my 'squad' live in completely opposite directions.

  • @smicksmookety
    @smicksmookety Před 4 lety +1346

    The message here isn't "wear a coat", it's "don't drink"

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf Před 4 lety +24

      Exactly

    • @ifeellikeyeezus8525
      @ifeellikeyeezus8525 Před 4 lety +11

      Well if he had a coat he could’ve drank and been fine

    • @ifeellikeyeezus8525
      @ifeellikeyeezus8525 Před 4 lety +7

      Not to mention the hat + gloves

    • @LaCrownedGamer
      @LaCrownedGamer Před 4 lety +40

      @@ifeellikeyeezus8525 they said he had a coat. But no gloves or hat. But even with a hat and gloves him being drunk and passing out for hours in snow I don't think the events would have changed unfortunately. It's a lesson on drinking primarily.

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf Před 4 lety +7

      @@ifeellikeyeezus8525 he was wearing a coat didn't you watch the video?!?

  • @justg94
    @justg94 Před 4 lety +2883

    College stidents feel they're invincible "it's not going to happens to me" attitude. They won't listen till it's too late

    • @lbu9542
      @lbu9542 Před 4 lety +16

      So true.

    • @JamButter123
      @JamButter123 Před 4 lety +17

      Dani Mark only stupid people wouldn’t listen to you.

    • @exclusivelymadeforthat
      @exclusivelymadeforthat Před 4 lety +1

      @@JamButter123 sebastian?

    • @asanti3748
      @asanti3748 Před 4 lety +19

      Dani Mark
      Not just college students, adults do the same thing. Including the elderly.

    • @quoraexpert6295
      @quoraexpert6295 Před 4 lety +11

      It's natural selection. I have no sympathy.

  • @falseking989
    @falseking989 Před 3 lety +152

    He did have a coat on, his problem was that he was drunk out of his mind. Her message should be "Be careful how much you drink when you're not home".

    • @jferguson2372
      @jferguson2372 Před 3 lety +18

      But what type of "friends" leave their friend drunk out of their mind to walk home in the cold? Those aren't friends. So many things went wrong in this situation.

    • @ratkiller6237
      @ratkiller6237 Před 3 lety +6

      @@jferguson2372 they were probably even more drunk than he was since he is the dad of the group

    • @falseking989
      @falseking989 Před 3 lety +3

      @Roy Jones Jr. But you won't die from exposure at home the way he did. I know connecting dots can be difficult but try harder next time.

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 Před 2 lety

      @@jferguson2372 maybe his friends were drunk too. Americans have a drinking problem. They need to stop drinking alcohol

  • @angelous7774
    @angelous7774 Před 3 lety +112

    Forget about the coat, don't drink or use drugs, make good friends, focus on school not bars.

    • @Peacemaker-96
      @Peacemaker-96 Před 3 lety +13

      Best comment in the entire section!

    • @catabc-rd8dy
      @catabc-rd8dy Před 3 lety +10

      I'm glad someone here has sense.

    • @xxprogamer2578
      @xxprogamer2578 Před 3 lety +2

      Eh a little bit biased, telling them to devote more of their time to school will make them see you as a typical adult who tells them to focus on school depending if they had a career or not.

  • @okthennone
    @okthennone Před 4 lety +2488

    Maybe instead of not wearing a coat being the issue they should focus on not drinking so much as this was the real culprit behind his death.

    • @misshoneynevercame4832
      @misshoneynevercame4832 Před 4 lety +61

      Lots of kids don't wanna hear that. They think being drunk is cool. I drink but I get tipsy at most. If anything would happen I want to be able to save my life. Not gonna put my life in someone else's hands.

    • @PrincessofKeys
      @PrincessofKeys Před 4 lety +3

      At least if he wore a coat he would have has a chance besides being drunk and passed out and not k owing whats going on

    • @chukybenavides9172
      @chukybenavides9172 Před 4 lety +4

      The weather killed him not the drinking, what about people that get into car accidents while hammered and come out without a scratch, drinking saved their life

    • @nokia6630videos
      @nokia6630videos Před 4 lety +15

      Alcohol kills 88,0005 people yearly, probably more dangerous than all illegal drugs combined. But of course no one says a thing and it's accepted by society and advertised everywhere. There's no stopping it now that you have nations dependant on it to have a good time.

    • @chukybenavides9172
      @chukybenavides9172 Před 4 lety

      @@nokia6630videos coronavirus kills more but its fake news they say

  • @flatcat4078
    @flatcat4078 Před 4 lety +565

    Headline should be..."Mother sends message about the dangers of drinking"

    • @Tina06019
      @Tina06019 Před 4 lety +5

      Flat Cat well, it caught more attention this way.

    • @CL-mp4vn
      @CL-mp4vn Před 3 lety +5

      Mom didn't want to admit her son died by over intoxicated after went to 2 parties.

    • @mysmirandam.6618
      @mysmirandam.6618 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes

    • @ameliaweights
      @ameliaweights Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly.

    • @Bambotb
      @Bambotb Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly

  • @alannac.7392
    @alannac.7392 Před 4 lety +6866

    He was drunk and had terrible friends, that’s the problem. Not the coat 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Sandiegochargers85
      @Sandiegochargers85 Před 4 lety +164

      A.C.ArmyExo-L GlamQueen to be fair, the frat kids he was with didn’t know him that well- and just assumed he had somebody that was with him that would take him home.

    • @danielaaaa_9893
      @danielaaaa_9893 Před 4 lety +13

      Agreed

    • @martinperalta4189
      @martinperalta4189 Před 4 lety +71

      "Its his fault for being drunk and choosing horrible friends."

    • @PrincessofKeys
      @PrincessofKeys Před 4 lety +63

      Id say both at least with a coat he had a chance

    • @iamnoone9299
      @iamnoone9299 Před 4 lety +107

      kid was drunk and died of hypothermia cause he passed out on a foot of snow. coat or not he would've died either way if he slept outside in that weather and in that condition.

  • @alexandra5807
    @alexandra5807 Před 3 lety +44

    “I miss his laugh”
    Breaks my heart 💔

  • @Sonia1474
    @Sonia1474 Před 4 lety +29

    Wow he was the type to make sure his friends got home ok but his friends couldn't do the damn same

  • @1castellp
    @1castellp Před 4 lety +763

    "Wear a coat. You're going to catch a death." Mom

    • @skimask5049
      @skimask5049 Před 4 lety +6

      Who needs to tell you to wear a coat

    • @spiciestt6136
      @spiciestt6136 Před 4 lety

      yikes

    • @bigdaddytrips6197
      @bigdaddytrips6197 Před 4 lety

      And a beanie

    • @frankdick7414
      @frankdick7414 Před 4 lety

      1castellp it’s not a coat 🧥 thing it’s a drinking thing 💯💯💯 bc he had a coat on but he was drunk

    • @rosaleeharris9251
      @rosaleeharris9251 Před 4 lety +2

      A fine example of college students that r getting educated to be intellectual morons.+

  • @nothingdarling4788
    @nothingdarling4788 Před 4 lety +339

    A coat, gloves, and hat would not have saved him, sounds like he was drunk. Also, if it’s -35 degree I’m not going anywhere.

    • @lillyhamilton8710
      @lillyhamilton8710 Před 4 lety +18

      Same that's called warm fuzzy blankets and Netflix

    • @emily.7668
      @emily.7668 Před 4 lety +8

      Stay home by the fireplace drinking hot chocolate with nice warm clothes

    • @microbios8586
      @microbios8586 Před 3 lety +2

      It's pretty rare for people to die from simply being intoxicated. You eventually vomit and fall asleep before you can consume a lethal amount. The cold killed him, not the alcohol.

  • @brendaluna173
    @brendaluna173 Před 4 lety +385

    A lesson that should be learned: never let your drunk friends walk home alone, male or female.

    • @lali4540
      @lali4540 Před 3 lety +3

      This should be a rule but when a possible "fun time" is around the corner people will abandon their friends :(

  • @Syclone0044
    @Syclone0044 Před 3 lety +53

    3:34 that was very kind of the reporter to give such a genuine comforting embrace to the mother grieving at the site of her son’s death

    • @lunchboxmccarty6431
      @lunchboxmccarty6431 Před 2 lety +1

      I thought the same thing.

    • @Syclone0044
      @Syclone0044 Před 2 lety

      @@lunchboxmccarty6431 Thanks for the message! I wrote that a year ago and was delighted to discover I earned 33 Likes, I had no idea. But I definitely remember this story.

  • @brookeeberhard889
    @brookeeberhard889 Před 4 lety +77

    Aww apparently when you get hyperthermia and it's at the point of extreme exhaustion your brain gets very confused and for some reason thinks it's logical to lay in the snow and fall asleep which could lead to death that's why it's so important he should've been with someone who could recognize that and tell him no it's not okay to lay in the snow

    • @emmanuelpuente6265
      @emmanuelpuente6265 Před 3 lety +2

      U must of never blacked out drunk it happens

    • @timgreen2426
      @timgreen2426 Před 3 lety +5

      Hypothermia can happen within 10 minutes and it causes such adverse reactions that people on Mount Everest have been found in their underwear that have died from being frozen

    • @vivistarzz
      @vivistarzz Před 3 lety +3

      That also happened because the drinking could also have an affect on his brain.

    • @magk2524
      @magk2524 Před 3 lety +4

      yeah basically it's so cold it basically burns your nerves a d your brain thinks you're hot so they basically try to stay cold

    • @ilynpayne7491
      @ilynpayne7491 Před 2 lety

      Being exhausted in the cold is so dangerous I passed out when I was at Kilimanjaro mountain the guide immediately woke me up & said I could've died

  • @Rastamouse_
    @Rastamouse_ Před 4 lety +684

    this is truly heartbreaking for the mother. my condolences 💛

  • @NoFaceChase
    @NoFaceChase Před 4 lety +410

    He was intoxicated.. this all could have been avoided

    • @lauravandzura7134
      @lauravandzura7134 Před 4 lety +6

      xxBlazee wow thanks for your input captain obvious.

    • @NoFaceChase
      @NoFaceChase Před 4 lety +46

      Laura Vandzura No one asked you for your input

    • @ews6724
      @ews6724 Před 4 lety

      Jenny based

    • @crr9017
      @crr9017 Před 4 lety

      At 2:16 said he was sober

    • @Defender78
      @Defender78 Před 4 lety +2

      It’s obvious that he was stumbling around with no idea where he was, that’s why he was trying to scale the fence, he was so wrecked that he couldn’t navigate the streets. Been there, done that, I’ve almost been in his same predicament.

  • @joshsmit779
    @joshsmit779 Před 4 lety +1072

    I'm in California. It's 65° and I'm wearing a coat.

    • @lukecallahan310
      @lukecallahan310 Před 4 lety +94

      Adam Smith haha fr bro anything under 70 is cold here 😂

    • @nolanrhager2613
      @nolanrhager2613 Před 4 lety +11

      65 for me is warm up in the PNW.

    • @nolanrhager2613
      @nolanrhager2613 Před 4 lety +45

      @Trash picking Pete more like Trash talking Pete.

    • @LovingCandyXOxo
      @LovingCandyXOxo Před 4 lety +4

      ...... Alexa said that is 18 degrees Celsius BRUHHH I NEED TO GO TO CALIFORNIA AND SEE THIS CLOWNERY 😭😭😂😂
      Edit: I should clarify I live in canada and 18degree celcius is warm

    • @MoWuggets
      @MoWuggets Před 4 lety +4

      It’s 35 in Washington state and sometimes I go outside without a jacket

  • @cestlaguy
    @cestlaguy Před 3 lety +141

    If you can’t make a coat fashionable, you clearly have no sense of fashion

  • @Kira36k
    @Kira36k Před 2 lety +20

    God bless this family. Whoever came up with the title for this story, clearly didn't look at the story. The moms message was not to warn kids to wear coats but to stick together so they can all arrived home safely.

  • @tonyhollerz6958
    @tonyhollerz6958 Před 4 lety +358

    1:20 “we’re runners, so we’ll just run there” yep you’re going to run in heels after drinks, when there’s ice on the ground... that’s not going to end well...

  • @JD-kp6pt
    @JD-kp6pt Před 4 lety +351

    He was handsome. Beautiful blue eyes. RIP

    • @Dia-ug8mf
      @Dia-ug8mf Před 4 lety +7

      I was think the exact same thing ❤️

    • @breadsrights6824
      @breadsrights6824 Před 4 lety +6

      brett linthicum dude leave him alone

    • @atomic_typh00n66
      @atomic_typh00n66 Před 4 lety +3

      brett linthicum hes not talking though hes typing so he has already “shut up”. dont be such a boomer and toxic

    • @matthewthemilkbender8095
      @matthewthemilkbender8095 Před 4 lety +4

      Atomic_Typh00n says the guy using boomer as an insult. Respect your elders

    • @SamtheShrooman
      @SamtheShrooman Před 4 lety +4

      spikeball pro8 ok boomer

  • @anthonykristoffersonalonzo658

    If Inside Edition has to report about wearing jackets when its cold(which is logical) something is definitely wrong.

    • @angelalee2644
      @angelalee2644 Před 4 lety +8

      Yup...I 100% agree...if your so ignorant about things children know...then I have no compassion at all for this...1 less loose cannon on the planet.

    • @sarahdohring1551
      @sarahdohring1551 Před 4 lety +4

      The kid was wearing a jacket when he died. If you pass out in the cold like that, a jacket isn't going to save you. They should stop putting the focus on why people aren't wearing coats and put the focus on not drinking enough to pass out instead

    • @sarahdohring1551
      @sarahdohring1551 Před 4 lety +3

      @@angelalee2644 They said the kid was wearing a jacket though. Problem wasn't the jacket, it was the responsible drinking.

  • @wcurtis101
    @wcurtis101 Před 3 lety +17

    For those thinking “it’s better to look good than to feel good,” remember:
    “It’s better to be seen than to be viewed.”
    Please stay safe and make wise decisions everybody 🙏

  • @bogart4556
    @bogart4556 Před 3 lety +13

    "His laugh... I missed his laugh" Hope she's okay now

  • @UpShadowStormAss
    @UpShadowStormAss Před 4 lety +879

    "I think fashion dominates warmth?"
    Let me translate that for everyone "i think stupidity dominates logic"

    • @sarahdohring1551
      @sarahdohring1551 Před 4 lety +22

      They said the kid was wearing a coat when he died. Seems like wearing a coat isn't gonna save you anyway. Maybe don't drink enough to pass out instead

    • @ThaddMitchell2112
      @ThaddMitchell2112 Před 4 lety +7

      Here's what I heard, "We want to be able to still show some skin to attract suitors and perhaps have a one night stand".

    • @OpusTheLeftie
      @OpusTheLeftie Před 3 lety +6

      @@ThaddMitchell2112 And that is okay.

    • @pubggamer2022
      @pubggamer2022 Před 3 lety

      @@OpusTheLeftie yeah

    • @wateringcan5369
      @wateringcan5369 Před 3 lety +1

      Than dont put impossible beauty standards

  • @Weebs_00
    @Weebs_00 Před 4 lety +290

    “I’ve had a good amount of wine before this, so that’s my coat” yeah you should’ve kept that one to yourself man

  • @khadjabalndeh8197
    @khadjabalndeh8197 Před 4 lety +819

    Alcohol was the cause not hypothermia. Alcohol is the root cause of a lot of problems

    • @holyredeye381
      @holyredeye381 Před 4 lety +2

      K B How do you know if was alcohol? Just asking btw

    • @Megan-vn3yt
      @Megan-vn3yt Před 4 lety +66

      K B she even said he had a coat,just no hat or gloves,so I don’t understand why inside edition is making this about coats.this reminds of that girl that got drunk,passed out in the snow ,lost her hands and it was blamed on her not having a cost too

    • @thisworldneedsacleansing4714
      @thisworldneedsacleansing4714 Před 4 lety +1

      Facts

    • @khadjabalndeh8197
      @khadjabalndeh8197 Před 4 lety +4

      Holy RedEye yah she said he was drunk

    • @2RUE.415
      @2RUE.415 Před 4 lety +3

      Its Hypothermia btw not Hyper

  • @bellaxoxo5271
    @bellaxoxo5271 Před 3 lety +37

    But he had a coat on and still died! His so called "friends" letting him walk around by himself knowing he was drunk as hell smh!

  • @AlesaBrianna
    @AlesaBrianna Před 3 lety +14

    My heart breaks for Connor’s mom. Sending all my love to you 🥺💔❤️

  • @Hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliop

    Wear a coat? How bout dont drink to the point of passing out?

    • @timgreen2426
      @timgreen2426 Před 3 lety +3

      He passed out because of hypothermia

  • @aprilgarcia3107
    @aprilgarcia3107 Před 4 lety +195

    The problem is no matter how much people care about eachother, alcohol fogs the mind and people dont pay attention

    • @cynthg9547
      @cynthg9547 Před 3 lety +2

      True

    • @timgreen2426
      @timgreen2426 Před 3 lety +2

      When I was growing up it was the rule that you never broke when you go out together you come home together regardless

  • @tommyzawr
    @tommyzawr Před 4 lety +212

    I thought college was supposed to make you smart🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @GracesLoveForMusic
      @GracesLoveForMusic Před 4 lety +21

      College is a scam lol it doesn't make you smart

    • @martinperalta4189
      @martinperalta4189 Před 4 lety

      @@GracesLoveForMusic ok well

    • @crispynuggets1580
      @crispynuggets1580 Před 4 lety +15

      Gracieimhereyall17 Tupper it makes you broke

    • @nancyiboo536
      @nancyiboo536 Před 4 lety +1

      @@GracesLoveForMusic or it just you maybe you didnt listen carefully or you didnt workhard

    • @geo-yg6gk
      @geo-yg6gk Před 3 lety +6

      It only makes you in debt

  • @dkblack3461
    @dkblack3461 Před 3 lety +10

    The pain this poor mother is going through. It will always be with her the rest of her life. Especially knowing that he died so needlessly. Amazing that she is using her own personal tragedy to try to warn and help other college kids.

  • @freddiemeyer4563
    @freddiemeyer4563 Před 4 lety +7

    seeing the mom in pain like that, hurts my soul this is tragic! god rest his soul

  • @TT-qs7nk
    @TT-qs7nk Před 4 lety +69

    Did they say how he became separated from his friends that he was out with that night? Such a sad story. Staying together is so important to ensure safety for all. Too many bad things can happen when left alone during a night of partying.

    • @stvvrrlightsun
      @stvvrrlightsun Před 3 lety +5

      Finally!!! Thank you at least a nice comment!!!!

  • @Floccazz
    @Floccazz Před 4 lety +371

    If he hadn’t drank alcohol would’ve been easier and a large amount of stamina

    • @area51studio93
      @area51studio93 Před 4 lety +1

      Ibzz or wear a coat

    • @davidlocoh
      @davidlocoh Před 4 lety +7

      exactly, i can guarantee you if he smoked some weed that wouldn’t have happened

    • @Floccazz
      @Floccazz Před 4 lety

      dsosa faxxxx

    • @Nob911
      @Nob911 Před 4 lety +2

      Not true the cold will still get you stamina in the cold is way different than in the warmth

    • @itsourlife
      @itsourlife Před 4 lety

      And a proper diet fed at home to withstand environment that humans have survived for several millenia.

  • @a-bloke-named-chris9805
    @a-bloke-named-chris9805 Před 4 lety +38

    wear a coat? More like be responsible when you drink

  • @kristinasmith4348
    @kristinasmith4348 Před 4 lety +7

    My heart is with any mother who has lost a child ♥️ you should never have to deal with that. Please stay safe everyone.

  • @josephbutler5009
    @josephbutler5009 Před 3 lety +4

    Oh poor mother, I hope the youth listen to your worthy message.

  • @marygay2021
    @marygay2021 Před 4 lety +37

    To the mom sorry for your lost. May He Rest In Peace.

  • @Shmunk4L
    @Shmunk4L Před 4 lety +346

    “The wine is my coat”
    You’re actually losing body heat when you’re drunk. People think you’re getting hotter when you’re drunk but that’s not the case at all🤣
    A bunch of dumbasses!
    RIP 👼 ... so tragic god bless that mothers heart!

    • @msblessie4568
      @msblessie4568 Před 4 lety +5

      Have you ever got drunk before?

    • @stefannydvorak7919
      @stefannydvorak7919 Před 4 lety +13

      @@msblessie4568 It's scientifically true. Although drinking makes you feel warm,it does make you loose body heat.

    • @Shmunk4L
      @Shmunk4L Před 4 lety +5

      Ms Blessie many many times! Like blacking out kind of drunk 🤣 scientifically you’re not holding in heat, you’re losing it more rapidly!
      But because you’re so intoxicated it feels like you’re as warm as ever! Don’t be fooled

    • @msblessie4568
      @msblessie4568 Před 4 lety +1

      @Question Everything got like I've said

    • @msblessie4568
      @msblessie4568 Před 4 lety +2

      @@Shmunk4L damn not blacked out though.

  • @connorpence48
    @connorpence48 Před 4 lety +33

    That is so sad, especially when she said she could see his face imprint in the snow 😭

  • @cautionTosser
    @cautionTosser Před 3 lety +2

    actually the one guy made a very good point: coat rooms. All clubs should have a place to check your belongings. For safety and warmth.

  • @virgomoons
    @virgomoons Před 3 lety +12

    How about renaming the title "don't drink"

    • @mrpickle5655
      @mrpickle5655 Před 3 lety

      People can drink
      It’s not a problem

    • @virgomoons
      @virgomoons Před 3 lety

      @@mrpickle5655 u don't drink you don't get drunk and if u don't get drunk u won't die sooner then u should

  • @theenergyisoff
    @theenergyisoff Před 4 lety +102

    I remember seeing students wearing a hoodie, but shorts and flip flops in

    • @RockyJayyy
      @RockyJayyy Před 4 lety +5

      When I was a kid I would wear coats with shorts because my legs didn't get cold but not anymore.

    • @satrickptar6265
      @satrickptar6265 Před 4 lety +1

      You probably saw me that day
      edit: My bad, I never wear flip flops in the public

    • @cat11112222
      @cat11112222 Před 4 lety +4

      40 degree weather is nothing lady you must live in a warm area

    • @theenergyisoff
      @theenergyisoff Před 4 lety

      Base Vegeta yes in North Florida. Lol anything under 60 is torture to me. It snowed here a couple of years ago for an hour & I was DONE lol

    • @manny8898
      @manny8898 Před 4 lety

      40 degrees is our summer weather 😓

  • @rahelvs2039
    @rahelvs2039 Před 4 lety +173

    Half of these girls aren’t even covered up they dressing like they going to the beach

    • @Mrs_Canary
      @Mrs_Canary Před 4 lety +6

      I've done it for years in the Virginia winter...stay coherent when drinking and have a car/uber when it's cold.

    • @theveefit
      @theveefit Před 4 lety +5

      xbilbloodx hos don’t get cold 🥶😂

    • @theveefit
      @theveefit Před 4 lety +3

      xbilbloodx i live in Texas and I’m always cold so I don’t know how they do it up there

    • @SpinningSage
      @SpinningSage Před 3 lety +2

      I live in ND and these idiots do not wear proper gear

    • @wateringcan5369
      @wateringcan5369 Před 3 lety +4

      @@theveefit ayo-the guys do this too. Don’t act like u don’t wear shorts in winter to look cool. And if u don’t, then don’t put impossible beauty standards on woman and call them “hoes”

  • @s.k.i.r
    @s.k.i.r Před 4 lety +164

    Daaaaaang home girl at 1:00 looks like she been drinkin A LOT 😂

    • @lauhrie
      @lauhrie Před 4 lety +4

      ikr lmao

    • @s.k.i.r
      @s.k.i.r Před 4 lety +7

      @@lauhrie 🤣 just wait she gonna see this video and see her own self and be like "🤦🏻‍♀️😳😧" Haha heyyyyyyyy she is young, she is in college enjoy life

    • @bigpimpen045
      @bigpimpen045 Před 4 lety +7

      Looked like shed been dancing for 4 hours straight drinking nothing but cranberry vodkas

    • @lotusgrl444
      @lotusgrl444 Před 4 lety +3

      Im in my 30s now and remember partying like that in my 20s but damn that girl sure did look wasted....

    • @s.k.i.r
      @s.k.i.r Před 4 lety

      @@lotusgrl444 hahahahahahhaha she was HARD CORE WASTED 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @hoibsh21
    @hoibsh21 Před 3 lety +12

    Dumb girl: Fashion should dominate over warmth.
    Hypothermia: I'm gonna freeze this whole girl's body.

    • @jar1005
      @jar1005 Před 3 lety

      I think she meant that that’s what other woman think idk if that’s what she thought. Don’t @ me

  • @jankypop-a-matic58
    @jankypop-a-matic58 Před 3 lety +3

    What a nice looking young man who deserved so much better! So sorry to the family and friends for such a tragic loss! Sounds like he was a great guy with compassion for others. So sorry...

  • @mvpandrew93
    @mvpandrew93 Před 4 lety +129

    There is a reason the drinking age is 21, learn from this kid.

    • @victoriahuerta4757
      @victoriahuerta4757 Před 4 lety +19

      Even 21 year olds do the same exact things

    • @thyenergiser6852
      @thyenergiser6852 Před 4 lety +9

      Shut up, having the drinking age at 21 is ridiculous! "Land of the free" my ass!

    • @mvpandrew93
      @mvpandrew93 Před 4 lety +7

      @@victoriahuerta4757 A 5 year old knows how to put on a coat, so does an 85year old, he was intoxicated and he could have prevented his choice that evening, my point stands, learn from his mistake, you don't need to touch fire to know it burns.

    • @ericp1139
      @ericp1139 Před 4 lety +9

      I would say the higher drinking age makes things worse. It’s not like it makes it impossible for kids to drink. Instead, it drives them to do it in secret or leads to binge drinking. In areas where the drinking laws aren’t so draconian, people tend to drink more responsibly.

    • @martinperalta4189
      @martinperalta4189 Před 4 lety

      have fun intoxicated

  • @Shanerapanera45
    @Shanerapanera45 Před 4 lety +14

    There was a guy at my college who died this same way.. He was found in the snow and his alcohol level was 3X the legal limit, they said he died from hypothermia. Just sad

  • @luvemmaa
    @luvemmaa Před 4 lety +11310

    If your so worried about fashion just wear a fashionable coat

  • @Trebbell
    @Trebbell Před 4 lety +67

    Fashion and Vermont were 2 words I never thought I'd hear in a sentence.

    • @mayukaheart7290
      @mayukaheart7290 Před 4 lety +6

      Ms. Tal another person that brings politics into everything 🗿

    • @ericgonzalez9681
      @ericgonzalez9681 Před 4 lety +2

      @Ms. Tal and that's y republicans don't know how to dress

    • @tonyjangala4462
      @tonyjangala4462 Před 4 lety

      @@ericgonzalez9681Liberals choose fashion over life that's when you know stupidity rules over common sense😂😂 Damn no wonder why liberal cities suck 🤣

  • @dirtykillgamer2679
    @dirtykillgamer2679 Před 3 lety +3

    My heart goes out to this mom...Im so sorry...I want to hug her

  • @ashleylouise8566
    @ashleylouise8566 Před 2 lety +1

    He has such a friendly face. R.I.P Connor. Your family misses you ♥️😔

  • @ceceliacooley9150
    @ceceliacooley9150 Před 4 lety +44

    So sorry for your loss. God Bless.🙏

  • @CrimsonPriestessofMiracles
    @CrimsonPriestessofMiracles Před 4 lety +22

    Same similar story as last year. My heart goes to the grieving mother. 🙏

  • @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep
    @WaterspoutsOfTheDeep Před 4 lety +140

    Drinking is what killed him, lets keep it real.

    • @goldenbro439
      @goldenbro439 Před 4 lety +9

      yea

    • @bitchhp2973
      @bitchhp2973 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes if he was sober he wouldn’t have died...but it if wasn’t bellow freezing he also would be alive.

    • @Anon-wq9te
      @Anon-wq9te Před 4 lety +7

      THAT GIRL ;P True, but you can’t control the weather, you can control your alcohol though.

    • @angelalee2644
      @angelalee2644 Před 4 lety +3

      @@bitchhp2973 sounds like common sense doesn't matter...maybe we should build a dome to keep the weather out..make it 25° always,..so non sense thinking can prevail. ...when it's sub zero..wear proper clothing, don't drink more than u can handle..take responsibility for your own self...stop assuming everybody else is supposed to wipe ur ass!!

    • @angie-bruh
      @angie-bruh Před 4 lety +1

      That was the cause. A coat wouldn't have saved him.

  • @kamcorder3585
    @kamcorder3585 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm 23, love being a college student, and have never drank. I don't ever feel like I'm missing out. Drinking seems wildly overrated.

    • @donguapo1827
      @donguapo1827 Před 3 lety +1

      Good don’t drink . You aren’t missing anything

    • @wellknown1204
      @wellknown1204 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly! Me too.. don't drink any alcoholic beverages at all during my College life, don't feel like missing anything. Still the popular students in my college, and hangout well with any groups of friends i met. I am sociable person, so no need for alchohol to make friends

  • @talianicole7169
    @talianicole7169 Před 3 lety +3

    I’m so sorry for that poor mother

  • @ews6724
    @ews6724 Před 4 lety +33

    Two solutions: drink less, wear more

  • @lbu9542
    @lbu9542 Před 4 lety +21

    Poor mom, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for having enough love for young people to help them make better choices ♥️

  • @nvidiasniper
    @nvidiasniper Před 4 lety +42

    3:36 Where I'm from there's a saying: Friends does carry you, but they won't bring you back.

    • @nvidiasniper
      @nvidiasniper Před 4 lety +9

      @Malik Gordon I wish I could of use voice to explain the answer. Let me try my best with text: In the Caribbean the saying means, friends would carry you or invite you out to do good or bad but it's not a guarantee they would make sure you return home safe. It's as if you have to take care of your own self as long as you leave the security of your home.

  • @MetallicMadness85
    @MetallicMadness85 Před 3 lety +3

    That poor woman...my heart breaks for you...Lots of strengh and all my love to you 💔❤️💔❤️

  • @jeanfischer7392
    @jeanfischer7392 Před 3 lety +1

    How about telling your kid "don't get drunk?"

  • @Baghuul
    @Baghuul Před 4 lety +92

    When its 20 degrees here in Chicago and i see young teenager types literally just wearing a t shirt and jeans. wtf is wrong with them?

    • @reactking7093
      @reactking7093 Před 4 lety +11

      @Working Class bold face lie

    • @VisceralHamster
      @VisceralHamster Před 4 lety

      React King I had a black medic tell me once that white people handle the cold better cuz of our blood being a little thicker or something. Idk if that is at all true but he believed it.

    • @EliteStricker
      @EliteStricker Před 4 lety +5

      @@VisceralHamster False. This white guy didn't make it.

    • @genedandy
      @genedandy Před 4 lety

      Working Class that’s jive 🙄

    • @VisceralHamster
      @VisceralHamster Před 4 lety

      @EliteStricker, fact.

  • @margarbieadams8200
    @margarbieadams8200 Před 4 lety +19

    I remember the young lady 2 years ago who passed out on the porch after drinking and dressed to look "hot" imagine you dying just inches away from the door smh

    • @vanessab3391
      @vanessab3391 Před 3 lety +1

      I remember. The one where people were like why didn't her friends wait outside until they saw her walk in.

  • @Jocelyn_Jade
    @Jocelyn_Jade Před 4 lety +54

    Don’t they know there’s such thing as fashionable coats? Get black or white.

  • @bpeoples4043
    @bpeoples4043 Před 3 lety +3

    He was so young, just a freshman, and for him to die because of an alcohol related accident...really sad. College culture has its dangers. Wish his friends, who were sadly probably also drunk, had refused to let him walk home alone.

  • @The_bonsai_tree_nerd
    @The_bonsai_tree_nerd Před 3 lety +2

    im in florida. born and raised here and never seen snow. yes it gets chilly but here we have bigger things to worry about (hurricanes, tornadoes, tourists, snakes, ect)

  • @boo85
    @boo85 Před 4 lety +38

    Dang why’d they bring her to the parking lot omg😭😭😭

    • @ch_ipo1697
      @ch_ipo1697 Před 4 lety +1

      Typical Panda I know that’s a bit much...

  • @MelissaJoans
    @MelissaJoans Před 4 lety +30

    Inside Edition has done this a lot, meaning that this issue is still ongoing. Sad reality

    • @A__Mina
      @A__Mina Před 4 lety +1

      Yes the other story had a girl with terrible frostbite

  • @oliverpr1m3pt97
    @oliverpr1m3pt97 Před 4 lety +109

    “This is warm to us”. Buddy try going to Canada

  • @butt5810
    @butt5810 Před 3 lety +1

    choked up the whole time. that poor mother.

  • @charly3575
    @charly3575 Před 3 lety +2

    He's not the first student to die under terrible circumstances. What's happened to camaraderie and getting everyone home safely? Today, it's each idiot for themselves. Back in the day, we'd make sure by a call or by going home together. At least 2 buddies if not more. No singles trudging in the cold and the dark. What a miserable end.

  • @Julia-md7wr
    @Julia-md7wr Před 4 lety +8

    *rip to this beautiful man he doesn’t deserve this* 🙏🏽😭

  • @marcellocalbesi
    @marcellocalbesi Před 4 lety +34

    Here in Florida we don’t deal with this only about 3 weeks a year

    • @marcellocalbesi
      @marcellocalbesi Před 4 lety

      Claire I live outside of Tampa it has not snowed in 43 years here so I’m probably never going to have to deal with snow.

  • @perfectlyhonest4139
    @perfectlyhonest4139 Před 4 lety +14

    I was watching a story where a college woman was so drunk and passed out outside and her toes were froze biten. She didn’t have on proper clothes in the cold weather.
    Rip to this lady’s son.
    College students need to really think and stop acting like high schoolers.

    • @perfectlyhonest4139
      @perfectlyhonest4139 Před 4 lety +4

      channel break that’s a terrible thing to say

    • @TrueRattlehead
      @TrueRattlehead Před 4 lety

      @channel break ok but you dont have to be an ass about it

    • @maxstorm6228
      @maxstorm6228 Před 4 lety +1

      @channel break I'm report you for bullying!!!

    • @sarahdohring1551
      @sarahdohring1551 Před 4 lety +1

      Well this kid was at least wearing a coat, but he is the one who didn't survive. The girl not wearing a coat did. This is a drinking problem not a coat problem

  • @chloejenner1174
    @chloejenner1174 Před 4 lety +21

    He’s drunk and cold outside , nobody know he’s very cold so he die
    Rip *Connor*

  • @aviationgaming1564
    @aviationgaming1564 Před 4 lety +15

    0:46 “This is warm for us” WHERE THE HELL DID U COME FROM THE NORTHERNMOST PART OF RUSSIA

  • @deejayy808
    @deejayy808 Před 4 lety +76

    Lisa Guerrero would have confronted the cold.
    I do not intend to make this offend anyone. If so I am truly sorry.

    • @riinari8693
      @riinari8693 Před 4 lety

      Deeyayy dude.. no

    • @TyPlaysGames44
      @TyPlaysGames44 Před 4 lety

      Deeyayy not the time

    • @bobblehead7732
      @bobblehead7732 Před 4 lety

      Deeyayy too soon bro

    • @ii.1308
      @ii.1308 Před 4 lety

      Keiikou dude stop getting offended lmfao I don’t remember him saying absolutely anything about the kid. Leave him alone, he’s innocent.

    • @deejayy808
      @deejayy808 Před 4 lety +1

      @@ii.1308 🙏🙏

  • @mai_561
    @mai_561 Před 4 lety +5

    this is so, so heartbreaking. I hope he is peaceful somewhere.

  • @tate_the_plate3538
    @tate_the_plate3538 Před 4 lety +5

    I was outside of the funeral when the funeral started and ended, I'm so sorry Connor, I went to the same school he did too, I remember the last time I saw him before he had graduated.

  • @Lilwooper
    @Lilwooper Před 3 lety +7

    Well he’s saved my life in the future, i’ll never go out without a jacket now.

  • @MissLachine
    @MissLachine Před 3 lety +3

    So sad 😢 R.I.P. Conner My sincere condolences to all Conners family and friends 💜🌟