3 things I wish I knew when writing letters to my boyfriend at basic training

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024

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  • @tbrooks5015
    @tbrooks5015 Před 3 lety +21

    My son is in boot camp in Missouri and this is week 4 for him. I cannot begin to tell you how helpful this video has been for me. Especially the part where you say that you run out of things to talk about. It seems so simple but yet I have been experiencing this as well. Thank you so much for the tips. Means the world💖

  • @Annon7
    @Annon7 Před 4 lety +33

    Thanks for this, Wish my girl had this info 50 years ago :-)

  • @kaseyhentz7301
    @kaseyhentz7301 Před 3 lety +21

    i’ve heard a ton of people tell me military relationships never work out and that the person deployed always cheats they say “what happens on the ship stays on the ship” and i’m extremely worried and am having an anxiety attack now . please assure me this isn’t allowed

    • @reggiepyrtle8473
      @reggiepyrtle8473 Před 3 lety +22

      You gotta relax and trust your relationship... think about it your BF could be saying the same thing about you back home! Don’t compare your relationship to other peoples online or what you read online. All you can do is be open with your feelings and having level headed conversations with your BF. Before my wife left we both sat down and went over expectations for each other. So when you speak to him try that. And see where his head is at

    • @kaseyhentz7301
      @kaseyhentz7301 Před 3 lety +21

      update it’s crazy coming back to this realizing how in love with each other we actually are and i had nothing to worry about the whole time (: only 2 more weeks & hes out of boot !

    • @reggiepyrtle8473
      @reggiepyrtle8473 Před 3 lety +9

      @@kaseyhentz7301 told ya! GLAD TO HEAR GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE and BEST WISHES FROM ME AND MY WIFE

    • @kaseyhentz7301
      @kaseyhentz7301 Před 3 lety +2

      @@reggiepyrtle8473 Thank you so much !!

    • @kaseyhentz7301
      @kaseyhentz7301 Před 3 lety +4

      4 more days !

  • @elizalibby2767
    @elizalibby2767 Před 3 lety +5

    I don't understand what could be wrong with some people but it has to be them not being happy with themselves, I'm referring to the 3 thumbs down. I'm sorry it just made me really angry for some reason to see that.
    My son is going to MEPS next week and I'm so happy to find out about sandbox. I have a real short attention span so I almost didn't click on the video because it was 11 minutes LOL, but I watched the whole thing and enjoyed it all the way through and I appreciate you sharing this part of your life with us, as it is scary but it's good to know there's so much information and knowledge to be found from families and loved ones who have gone through it. Sorry for the lengthy comment 😂
    Just wanted to say I appreciate you! And I love how you asked for people to put their experience in the comments! Keep up the good work and good luck to you
    💜❤️💜

  • @paigemosley
    @paigemosley Před rokem +6

    only been 4 days without my boyfriend & i can honestly say i’ve been sad due these hormones.. was wondering how to contact him and this video sooo much & i wanted to say thank you 🥰

  • @emilymobley7601
    @emilymobley7601 Před 4 lety +14

    I didn’t know before that it would take forever to get to him 😞I sent mine two weeks ago and I still haven’t heard if he’s gotten them yet.

  • @marthabrowne6536
    @marthabrowne6536 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for this! My son I leaving for boot camp in two weeks and I found this helpful

  • @TheSantiagos15
    @TheSantiagos15 Před 11 měsíci +1

    My husband left two weeks ago ( this is the start of his third week ) & I’m just hoping this time goes by fast!

  • @caylacool7167
    @caylacool7167 Před 2 lety +4

    my boyfriend is going to boot camp in July, and i am so not ready tbh, i dont really know what to do or how to get the address for where he'll be training, i have 2 months with him until he goes, i cant wait to see him when he gets back.

  • @surgicaltechcrafter2169
    @surgicaltechcrafter2169 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this. My daughter enlisted Navy , passed officer exam and now waiting for the committee to see which boot camp she will be going too. We know someone that told us about this app after 4 Long weeks before we got the first letter and 5 weeks before first phone call. So im trying to get prepared for my daughter how to use this app.

  • @user-xp2xw5hq9k
    @user-xp2xw5hq9k Před 2 lety +4

    my boyfriend starts boot camp in 2 weeks. how do you even find out what the address is to send them letters?

  • @ellafields4631
    @ellafields4631 Před 3 lety +3

    the guy i’m talking to is in yca and can’t have his phone and letters are so important to us rn

  • @Finishme
    @Finishme Před 2 lety +1

    My son just left right after graduation 👨‍🎓 thanks so much

  • @shelbieroebuck5376
    @shelbieroebuck5376 Před 3 lety +4

    Mine just left to navy boot camp about 3 days ago... I don’t know where he is. Other than in (Chicago) and I’m guessing it’s going to be a week or two before I get my first letter? super stressing out :/ he remembered our new address before he left... I need hope. ☹️

    • @saylorbotts8057
      @saylorbotts8057 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey girl! my boyfriend left for navy bootcamp on June 2 because of the pandemic they are making them quarantine for two weeks when they first get there and they will not be allowed to send letters out which sucks but I did end up getting a call after a month of him being gone and the letters came soon after so it might take a little longer than two weeks right now but they will be in soon!

    • @maryannecoloma5730
      @maryannecoloma5730 Před 2 lety

      I heard if you have your vaccination card, the recruit wont have to take the 2 weeks quarantine. I haven’t heard back from my boyfriend who went to Navy bootcamp this week.

  • @rubigonzalez1668
    @rubigonzalez1668 Před 2 lety +1

    This information is very much helpful thank you!

  • @waldofdz7135
    @waldofdz7135 Před 3 lety +6

    How do I send multiple pictures in one letter?

    • @elenamendoza1230
      @elenamendoza1230 Před 3 lety +1

      Idk if you still need this info but they told me to make it a collage in a collage app then upload it in sandboxx. Cause technically you can only send one picture.

  • @rayparkerwhatwasthemusic6104

    thanks my grandson is at lackland

  • @alexhollings52
    @alexhollings52 Před 4 lety +3

    Great stuff!

  • @amaliaurena
    @amaliaurena Před 2 měsíci

    my boyfriend just left for Airforce BMT in Lackland (San Antonio, TX & we live in South Carolina) Sunday and arrived at the airport in TX last, where he gave me his last phone call. I was sad & it was a very quick phone call, but i knew it was coming soon and I am so proud of him! his time at BMT will definitely build us individually & as a couple. we been talking about writing letters & me sending him pictures of us & his family at BMT (with Sandboxx), but i’m not sure how to get the information from his base like his flight # & everything. does anyone know how they received their recruit’s information and how long it took? could I call someone perhaps?

  • @ivionnapettigrew5355
    @ivionnapettigrew5355 Před 3 lety +2

    The time thing hit a little different 🤣

  • @NavyDadProductions
    @NavyDadProductions Před rokem

    Great video. well done

  • @thedoctress732
    @thedoctress732 Před 2 lety +1

    How do I find his address because he gave me an address but it's not the complete one like I don't even know what his company is

  • @rachaelhutchins6441
    @rachaelhutchins6441 Před 3 lety +2

    Am I able to write in anything other than black when sending a letter? My boyfriend just left for the Army about a week ago and I can’t seem to find an answer to my question anywhere.

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi, Rachael. We only print the letters in black ink. We do print out the emojis you include in the letter also. 🙂

  • @kymberlymartinez6422
    @kymberlymartinez6422 Před rokem

    What happens if a recruit receives mail the first week then stops receiving mail all of a sudden at bootcamp

  • @soniacalderon4629
    @soniacalderon4629 Před 3 lety +6

    My boyfriend is going to marine basic training and I have two questions.
    #1.Does it matter if I use lined paper or blank paper?
    #2. Can I include pictures in my letters?

    • @lillianfletchall9805
      @lillianfletchall9805 Před 3 lety

      I am pretty sure no pictures and only letters

    • @Myadanxelle
      @Myadanxelle Před 3 lety +6

      Pictures are okay! Wallet sized photos are recommended, it will make for easy and safer storage! Also, send him a Ziplock bag to keep letters he receives and pictures in if you can! And lined paper is okay too!

  • @Aileen777
    @Aileen777 Před rokem

    When can I start writing letter's to my recruit when they're in boot camp? Thanks in Advance 🙏

  • @fatboi9939
    @fatboi9939 Před 3 lety +4

    This is a very helpful and informative video made only to help people. What p.o.s. would dislike this video? Smh

  • @alexandrat5132
    @alexandrat5132 Před 3 lety +1

    How long does it take to get the first letter from them ?

  • @johnnyg632
    @johnnyg632 Před 3 lety

    My son is at MCRD San Diego right now. What is the benefit of using Sandboxx as compared to sending letters through snail mail?

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      Hey Johnny,
      First, we'd like to congratulate you and your son on beginning his journey to becoming a U.S. Marine!
      Families find using Sandboxx gets their letters to their recruit faster. Depending on where you are located within the U.S. compared to MCRD San Diego, sending letters via Sandboxx may be quicker, as we overnight your letters. To see some more benefits on using Sandboxx, please visit our website here:
      www.sandboxx.us/pricing/

  • @bsfosdick1
    @bsfosdick1 Před 3 lety

    I don't see the link that tells what the addresses are for the basic training locations. You said to check the link below....can't find that.

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Barbara. We would need more detailed information to assist you with any address information for your recruit. Please reach out to our Customer Happiness Team for more detailed assistance.
      Just go to your Profile in the app, click on the Chat Bubble on the bottom right of the screen and send us your message. We'd be happy to help. 🙂

  • @illmanili
    @illmanili Před 3 lety +1

    I don’t know where to mail it how do I find out?

    • @honeymilktea6651
      @honeymilktea6651 Před 2 lety +2

      Same!! All i know is that they are training in san diego but i dont know their platoon number 😭 how do i figure all that stuff out

  • @maddydavidson888
    @maddydavidson888 Před 4 lety +2

    How long does it usually take to hear back from someone in Army BCT after you wrote them a letter?

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 4 lety +2

      Hey Maddy,
      It can take a while to hear back from a trainee at basic training. They often have very little downtime and don't always get to write back immediately. Here's an article that talks a little bit more about what happens to mail once it gets to basic training. www.sandboxx.us/blog/what-happens-to-mail-at-basic-training/

    • @maddydavidson888
      @maddydavidson888 Před 4 lety +2

      @@SandboxxApp Thank you! It's been super tough... It has been a month since I received his first letter (which took a total of 16 days from the time I wrote him) and now it's been a month and I haven't heard back... Hopefully I'll hear back soon!

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 4 lety

      @@maddydavidson888 we hope you hear back soon as well, stay positive!

    • @babysbreath5518
      @babysbreath5518 Před 4 lety

      @@SandboxxApp How do I know I wrote the right address? My letter on it says delivered. Does that mean I did it right? Also for tracking letters back. Does the status on it change to pending?? ( On letters already sent)

  • @VeraBlakeMotel
    @VeraBlakeMotel Před 2 lety

    What does it mean when my , Sandboxx App letter says. " printed"?

  • @H5n3
    @H5n3 Před 2 lety

    We write jokes and short stories. I had to tell some family members to stop announcing on social media our kids at boot camp and if you want to write a letter just dm them for address.

  • @stephaniaceline7593
    @stephaniaceline7593 Před 3 lety +4

    Im here after I send a awful letter to my BF. I feel so bad cuz my letter is sooo childish. I hope we can share a good laugh when he comes back😪😄😄

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety +2

      This time, though it may seem never-ending, is just temporary! I'm sure you two will laugh about it after they graduate.

    • @reggiepyrtle8473
      @reggiepyrtle8473 Před 3 lety +3

      Hey so my wife is in Navy boot camp now and she’s gotten a few calls home and I’ve asked the same question on why I haven’t got any letters from her she told me that RDC’s and petty officers hold mail privileges if the division performs poorly throughout the week. So trust me and try and understand that our recruits are at their mercy. Sometimes they just don’t have the option or choice.

    • @kaseyhentz7301
      @kaseyhentz7301 Před 3 lety

      @@reggiepyrtle8473 when did u receive your first phone call???? and has she been able to send a letter yet? my bf is at navy bootcamp rn

    • @reggiepyrtle8473
      @reggiepyrtle8473 Před 3 lety

      @@kaseyhentz7301 first official phone call was the night she arrived at fort McCoy for quarantine. Than second call was probably a month after for a good 30mins than another call after battle stations. But from what my wife told me it really depends on the division’s performance! If they do great during the week the officers may throw them a bone and let them have a extra call or two. But all together I heard from my wife 3x
      Good luck and stay strong! Once your sailor gets to “A” school they will have their phone! So trust me it’s gets better!!

    • @reggiepyrtle8473
      @reggiepyrtle8473 Před 3 lety

      @@kaseyhentz7301 to answer your question about letters you’ll get a call before you get a letter honestly! Your Bf will have to write you first and he won’t get his mailing address until after P days which is processing week. So figure 2 weeks quarantine than another week to process than you’ll wait for the actual mail to arrive to you. My suggestion would be don’t use the sandbox app! Petty officers hand out mail and my wife didn’t get 13 letters I sent through sandbox because the mail PO was so slow sorting mail. My suggestion would be write a bunch of letters than go to your local ups store buy a box and put all the letters in there with some stamps, envelopes and pictures (NO SNACKS) that way the mail PO doesn’t have to sort X amount of letters they’ll just give your sailor that 1 box with everything in it! TRUST ME

  • @theartsoe1310
    @theartsoe1310 Před 9 měsíci

    How do i find what company my boyfriend is innnnn??????? im struggling

  • @MB247.__.
    @MB247.__. Před rokem

    How to get the info to send letters

  • @jerrypauling7809
    @jerrypauling7809 Před 4 lety +1

    Sandbox is hard to understand

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 4 lety

      Need help navigating the app? Message us at happiness@sandboxx.us and a team member will assist you.

  • @shermainelim3959
    @shermainelim3959 Před 3 lety

    Heyyy may i know what i should key in for the “state” part in my address in sandboxx as i am in Japan

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety +1

      Hey there, unfortunately, we haven't yet added the functionality for international countries. If you message our team they can get the address formatted properly for you. You can either email them at happiness@sandboxx.us or send them a direct message within the Sandboxx app. We'll let them know to be on the lookout for your message.

  • @kenyannawilson4695
    @kenyannawilson4695 Před 3 lety

    I have the informed delivery app and i was getting mail from my bf in basic but now its taking a long time like it said it would are ive friday now its Thursday and no mail :(

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Kenyanna. We're sorry to hear that. The US Post Office is solely responsible for getting your recruit's letters to your mailbox. We hope you receive your letter soon. 🙏

  • @savannahmontes1248
    @savannahmontes1248 Před 3 lety

    How do I know how to send it I know my boyfriend is going to fort Leonard wood but idk how to mail it

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      Hey Savannah, once you receive your boyfriend's mailing address you'll be able to send a letter on the app. You will be able to manually enter his address when you compose your letter. If you ever need assistance please reach out to our team at happiness@sandboxx.us

  • @sophybellini349
    @sophybellini349 Před 2 lety +1

    hi to whoever is reading this. my boyfriend left today to boot camp and its the hardest thing ever.

    • @hannahmaxwell7138
      @hannahmaxwell7138 Před 2 lety

      Girl same we got this tho!!!!! If you need anything I’m here

  • @dixon081971
    @dixon081971 Před 3 lety

    What is the soldiers Roster number

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      Hey, Teneka. The Roster Number is a 3 digit number. Typically, the first digit of the number represents the trainee's platoon number. 🙂

  • @mabelmendozamorado7202

    Where can I get the address?? My husband just left

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Mabel. We would need more detailed information from you to better assist you with your question.
      Please reach out to our Customer Happiness Team through the app. Just send an email to happiness@sandboxx.us. We'd be happy to help.

  • @allthingsbyjay8430
    @allthingsbyjay8430 Před 3 lety

    How was it getting a letter back on sandbox? Are those mailed to us to? Or do we read them on sandboxx?

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi! The recruit's letters to you are handwritten and sent through the US Post Office. 🙂

    • @allthingsbyjay8430
      @allthingsbyjay8430 Před 3 lety +1

      @@SandboxxApp okay thank you so much!

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety

      You're welcome.

  • @tj4796
    @tj4796 Před 4 lety

    How do you get the mailing address? Especially with the covid quarantine.

    • @tj4796
      @tj4796 Před 4 lety +1

      My son just left 3 days ago and I haven’t heard anything. How do I find out his mailing address?

    • @hileah2989
      @hileah2989 Před 4 lety +3

      my boyfriend left at the end of july and i still don’t have his address because he’s been stuck in reception due to covid, but i’ve been able to receive letters from him and he made his first call about a month in.

    • @tj4796
      @tj4796 Před 3 lety +1

      Update ....it’s been almost a month. I still don’t have his address. We have a great relationship and it’s hard to go a month without any communication

    • @abbystephen
      @abbystephen Před 3 lety

      Try contacting the recruiter, my husband just left and I contacted his recruiter about his address details he said he would give me this thursday!

    • @tj4796
      @tj4796 Před 3 lety

      @@abbystephen it ended up taking 5 weeks before we got his letters and address.

  • @bucketbucket4027
    @bucketbucket4027 Před rokem

    I sent a letter with artwork to my Ex using Text a Letter app.. she sent me back emojis. Ask me what emojis :)

  • @Melissa-qn5hv
    @Melissa-qn5hv Před 3 lety

    I'm kind of confused I hope one of you can help me guys 😔. My husband just left like 2 weeks ago and he was able to use his phone because he was in quarantine but today he started his training, he sent me an address but he couldn't explain very well because he was not able to do phone calls and they wanted to take his phone so texted me a picture with the address....
    Cco, 2nd Plt Savages
    3-60 IN BN, 193rd IN BDE
    5500 Marion Av
    Fort Jackson, SC 29207.
    But he said... Put the address just like that but change the number to this C-313.
    What I don't understand is if I have to change the Cco and put C-313 instead or it is another number? And also I have to put his Rank but I don't know it because he didn't tell anything about it.
    Can somebody help me with this?

    • @SandboxxApp
      @SandboxxApp  Před 3 lety +1

      Hey Melissa,
      Please reach out to our team at happiness@sandboxx.us to receive help with the address formatting.

    • @Melissa-qn5hv
      @Melissa-qn5hv Před 3 lety

      Yes, that's what I did. My letter is in progress ♥️ thank you so much!!

  • @joshadams6673
    @joshadams6673 Před rokem +1

    How do you find out your recruits platoon or company and how will you know how to format that?
    I saw this on sandbox but makes no sense to me
    # PLT. (COMPANY) CO, #-## IN BN, ### IN BDE