You’ll save yourself a lot of heartache if you believe a man when he says he’s not ready for a relationship especially if you’re pretending to be okay with something you’re not. You’ll only disappointment yourself putting expectations on someone who doesn’t want the same.
I always say this! Why even mess with someone who doesn’t want the same as you. You’ll always end up gettin hurt. He’s also the blame, never treat a situation more then what it is.
Exactly! He seems like he lead her on but then when she moved accordingly he had a draw back. However she was wrong! Never let a man tell you that He don’t want you multiple times!
Ladies please understand that sex and hanging out with you doesn't equate a commitment or love. As woman who grew up with a lot of male cousins, I seen it all. I can't tell y'all how many "friends" my male cousins brought around. These men will bring you around the family, have you watching his kids, even buy you flowers. And at the end of the day you still just something to do. If a man tells you he wants to friends with benefits believe him!
That should have really solidified wat he was telling her bout not settling down, red flags should have gone up in her head, 2 children that's the same age by 2 DIFFERENT women!!!! She alrdy knew wat was up
Lol...I am ashamed of how toxic I am. Once he said graduated, has a job and is honest about what he wants...!!! I sprinted right pass all those red flags
As a young man myself i think/feel these brothers who think/feel they can have sex with a woman without her expecting some type of commitment/loyalty are delusional, spiritually unaware, selfish etc. idc how honest you are about your intentions. it's not right.
i disagree with this. men aren’t the only ones who enter into “situationships” and don’t want to commit and that’s their prerogative. if they’re transparent about it and the other person still deals with them, i don’t see how they’re in the wrong.
She’s crazy smh BUT friends w/ benefits don’t do the things they did together. She shouldn’t be around his family nor watching his kids. That’s why she started catching feelings. He needs to cut her off for good.
Sex before marriage is sin. The truth Christians dont want to hear. Its in the Bible. This is a prime reason you dont give your body to person thats not spouse (not bf or fiance but wife or husband) because they can just suddenly change and there you go, they've used all your emotions, wasted your time, and used your body for pleasure to themselves. These are the consequences of sin
You can try to get in good with his family, offer to watch his kids, even have sex him. But if the man is TELLING you he dont want a serious relationship, you're only hurting yourself in the end. No matter WHAT you perceive his other actions to be.
@@mistasofly I agree however we don’t know what he was saying to her behind closed doors. Also actions speak louder than words so if he really didn’t want a relationship all I’m saying is there should’ve been boundaries but either way she was out of hand and she’s obsessive.
Ladies! Please don’t agree to friends with benefits or “we just chillin” type relationship if you’re not prepared with what comes with that. He is absolutely going to date other women. When a man tell you he is not committing to you. BELIEVE HIM! He can take you out, you can even meet his family. Etc.. That does not make you his woman. A real man will let it be known what he wants and who he want his forever with.
@@Alajuwonif she kool and honest and you see her as a true friend then there is nothing wrong with that. You can actually care about a fwb they are human🤦🏾♂️
@@khard9000 I had a few fwb before I got married. I had an Italian one for two years. And I care about and she cared about me. Her father passed and I tried to be there for her in that moment. She stop me and told me "we don't need to go there, let's stick to our roles",.
2 things to say ladies: 1.) When a man is telling you he doesn't want a serious commitment believe him! Your sex WILL NOT change his mind! 2.) Stop having these "friends with benefits" situations with dudes and then think thats all it'll be. Us men can have sex without getting emotionally attached, yall cant! Dont do it if you not prepared to get your feelings hurt. And fellas: Leave crazy broads ALONE!
He wasn't leading her on, told her upfront the situation and still got his stuff destroyed. Instead of asking like a perosn should, she just made up in her head that they were working towards a relationship. Pure nonsense.
They BOTH in the wrong! He should have NEVER treated her like his woman. A jump off isnt suppose to be around your family, friends and kids. She should have left him alone once he said he didnt want a relationship, knowing she did want a relationship. They young tho, so they have to live life and learn
agreed. i learned this the hard way. i was that plaintiff guy minus the bleach clothes. The girl wasn't that crazy. so i never did the friends with benefits ever again. an older female friend said i led the woman on because we hooked up too often. she said FWB are not to engage in intimacy as often as people in a relationship. she gave me this lecture about communicating too often as well. she said if you tell her your whereabouts and making small talk and hitting several times in a week, then you changing the rules. so after that i said ok no more of this. i don't want to deal with scorned women
@@eleanormcgee1507people introduce their friends to their kids and parents all the time wym? 😂 fucking your friend doesn’t automatically equal lovers, especially if y’all both agree it’s gonna just be physical
insecure, desperate, and crazy don't nun of these words describe her 💀💀💀 I hate seeing common cases like these a man can tell you he don't want you in so many ways move on
She is definitely wrong .... He told her he didn't want a serious relationship so that he can have an excuse to do whatever he wanted to do, at the same time keeping her emotionally locked in.
He told her he didn't want a relationship because he didn't want a relationship 🤷🏿♀️SHE felt like staying around. How did you just try to twist it like HE did something wrong 🤷🏿♀️ Sounds like You're projecting with your hypothesis on him being honest. That's crazy. Shows how some of us women really hear what we want and make up shit as we go along 🤦🏿♀️The man was completely honest with her. What more was HE supposed to do 🤷🏿♀️
@@prettybossy510 on one hand she did choose on the other hand actions speak louder than words I'm not doing all the relationship stuff with somebody if I don't want a relationship. You don't need to be around my kids you don't need to be around my family none of that especially if you're not a friend
@@RoseArnold40 shut up! Actions speak louder than words. Don't do relationship stuff and not expect the other person to feel like there's a relationship. it's very simple
This is a prime example of how most women (not all) can’t handle a friends with benefits situation. Yes his actions might have said he wanted a relationship to you but don’t assume. We as woman will ignore the major red flags and come up with our own conclusions. That never works out. If you want a relationship, don’t be in a friends with benefits situation.
@@teegreen3909 What does that mean?? I hope not what I think it means. Are you saying they had an exclusive relationship because she thought she heard and saw a duck?
That type of personality is very scary. As angry as I’ve been I have never done anything like that before. I just leave. I hope she either gets help or grows out of that behavior.
Right, people on both sides (men and women) need to realize that when you go into any kind of relationship that person has the right to not want to deal anymore and that should be ok with you. We need to build up our self-esteem and take some things for what they are.
Showing up to someone’s job when not asked and without notice is crazy. The only person that has that power AT BEST is someone you’re married to lol. Also, agreeing to watch their kids with no official title? Girl… She’s young so I’ll give her pass. Hopefully she learned a good lesson.
Stop chalking this kind of reckless behavior up to "being young." All young women dont behave this way. She needs therapy and some accountability NOW! Or she'll be 35 years old still running men away behind irrational behavior.
@@mistasofly I think she got the memo towards the end. I know not all young people behave this way, but I totally understand if a young person would do something like this. Hormones, inexperienced, not having the proper emotional guidance/support. She clearly didn’t have any friends (good friends atleast) or family to check her and tell her to stop acting crazy (unless she was lying to them). Also, young people have love and hip hop and real housewives of Atlanta to show them how to behave when they feel wronged 💁🏽
@@mistasoflyNobody said all young women behave that way BUT as a woman that was once young you do go through stuff & learn from it what’s the problem with what she said? You were once young too & I hope you “chalk” up a lot of your bs to being young. It’s life.
@@Alajuwon stop acting perfect and as if you've never did anything dumb or that wish you hadn't done. People make mistakes in life. In this case, no one was physically harmed. If she learned her lesson, I don't see what the issue is; the man sued, and he's getting his money. He made mistakes as well in his life (going to jail), and he came out a changed person so why can't she have her redemption?
This woman has issues 😒 if a person tells you up front they don't want to be serious with you other than occasionally having sex with you believe them and keep it moving 💯
I thank my parents every day for my upbringing! They we’re CRAZY yes!!!! But I heeded their warnings and it definitely served as a protection me!! Friends dont have sex with each other! If we are just friends then we’re just friends. You are now my girl! We will shop together, be my wing man, give dating advice, fashion advice, share recipes, etc. You will become the gay bestie!
She was real crazy😳 he made it clear to her that they were nothing but friends with benefits🤷🏽♀️ it was her choice to continue a romantic relationship with him. She assumed they were in a serious relationship. It was also her choice to babysit his children smh. This young man has 2 children with 2 different women at the age of 19. That should have been a red flag, but she ignored it.
Idc what his “actions” say. A man will treat you like y’all together while continuing to tell you you’re not. Don’t get caught up in the treatment. Believe his words. If he says he doesn’t want a relationship go the other way if you want one. He will do whatever is allowed and still stick to not wanting you.
So wait 2 baby mommas two kids the same age 🤔 and he didn’t get chewed out? Men need to start being held accountable. Women are not toys or something to do on your spare time.
If a man doesn't want a relationship, he should keep it really light. He should not try to take advantage of all the benefits of having a girlfriend without the accountability and the responsibility. This man used her for all of the relationship benefits. That is not acceptable and that is dishonest.
Definitely the makings of a “Snapped” episode. Let this be a cautionary tale to men and women. Don’t lay with anyone you don’t want anything with, and definitely understand that when someone says what they “don’t” want believe it. People get so stuck on actions. A person will give you what you want simply to get what they want. Quid Pro Quo. It ain’t rocket science. Aside from that at 19, you’ll become multiple “people” before you truly find yourself. Me at 19 and me at 40 are worlds apart!
This case sums up how most women “feel” their emotions are facts. In other words they are crazy. Now flip it around and have men “feel” they are owed something and just because they believe it. See how scary that is and that’s the issue with dating.
Why was she having sex with this guy anyway? She has no kids and this dude already has 2 kids by 2 women at only 19! Was she trying to be baby momma number 3? She really is crazy, she should be thanking her lucky stars she got out of that situation without getting knocked up.
Years ago I dated a guy and told him up front that I did not want to settle down with him. He threatened me once on a voicemail and I took him to court the next day. Eventually, I filed a permanent restraining order on him. Months after that he was sent to prison for doing something worse to another woman. I did not play around with that threat. When someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM.
Let this be a valuable lesson to you drew. Theres a reason your brother Chris eventually left tasha alone. You needed to learn from him. Cant believe you had Tanya let her in your home and she tore your things up. She's lucky Rochelle wasn't there or she would"ve slapped the DNA out of her body or Mr Julius because he would have sued her for everything!! That's $500 in destroyed Xbox $400 in destroyed Xbox games &;Accessories. $1000 in destroyed mattress $700 in destroyed bed frame $75 In destroyed door hinge $500 for a new door $4 worth of candles And 2.37 cent of Bleach used to cause all this destruction. Tragic!
She needs to find something to do with her life. Is she is school or a career?.And he's no prize possession....two kids by two different baby 👶 mamas is a strong hint plus he told her. Fatal Attraction! Waiting to exhale!
She just messed herself up for any serious relationship. No real man wants to deal with any thing like that. She refuses to take no for an answer. She needs to get some self esteem. Very desperate delusional and dumb.
As a young man, I had to realize the fact that we were having sex and hanging out everyday didn't equate to a relationship. Realized it was the best thing for me actually lol
Stop being delusional young ladies!!! If you're looking for love, look in the mirror and start with yourself. Sis is beyond delusional and comes off like a sociopath! I hope he doesn't encounter another woman like this and I hope she finds the love and peace within herself and never do this again. He could've hurt/unalived her that day about his things!
She Needs To Get A Reality CHECK ASAP, if he tells you he's friends with Benefits except it. Both parties are to young to be in a committed relationship. GROW UP FIRST. She was in her feelings.
--- &&& she definitely went to his job . . Ladies we can't be popping up at theses men jobs despite the fact if he treated you wrong because uu don't want nobody coming up to your job starting mess .. 😢🤷💯
You’ll save yourself a lot of heartache if you believe a man when he says he’s not ready for a relationship especially if you’re pretending to be okay with something you’re not. You’ll only disappointment yourself putting expectations on someone who doesn’t want the same.
Exactly
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And vise versa but definitely do agree
Yea idk why women have a habit of doing that. Leading themselves on & falling for “what ifs” instead of seeing things for exactly what it is
I always say this! Why even mess with someone who doesn’t want the same as you. You’ll always end up gettin hurt. He’s also the blame, never treat a situation more then what it is.
I’m still stuck on why you introducing your kids to person you was friends with benefits with
Needed a babysitter
Exactly! He seems like he lead her on but then when she moved accordingly he had a draw back. However she was wrong! Never let a man tell you that He don’t want you multiple times!
He was saying it but not acting like it that’s why her ass start acting crazy
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Ladies please understand that sex and hanging out with you doesn't equate a commitment or love. As woman who grew up with a lot of male cousins, I seen it all. I can't tell y'all how many "friends" my male cousins brought around. These men will bring you around the family, have you watching his kids, even buy you flowers. And at the end of the day you still just something to do. If a man tells you he wants to friends with benefits believe him!
Ok sis I know some guy’s that need to understand this cus it’s vice versa…
Two things:
1. Maya looks crazy!!
2. It's nice to see a young man take this situation to court instead of stooping to this crazy woman's level.
Its giving a thin line between love and hate vibe 😂
The way the court room became quiet when he thought it was funny to have 2 kids by 2 different females. 😅
Yeah 😂he thought he was going to get some props 😂
Not a crime ? Crime is not paying child support
Nervous laughter
At 16.
His awkward childish chuckle at 1:47 killed me 😂
She’s ignorant. I hope she grew out of that.
Me too
She will be in jail with the next person she dates. She better be careful cause there will be someone that will match her crazy!
19 with 2 kids both 2 years of age by two different GIRLS?? Yeah, not worth it
That should have really solidified wat he was telling her bout not settling down, red flags should have gone up in her head, 2 children that's the same age by 2 DIFFERENT women!!!! She alrdy knew wat was up
Maybe Nick Cannon is his idol
U got that say but nothing about how crazy she is wow.
Lol...I am ashamed of how toxic I am. Once he said graduated, has a job and is honest about what he wants...!!! I sprinted right pass all those red flags
@vaniahbailey3265 cap this lady is cra cra.
Just because a man has you around his children, does not scream commitment..
He was lookin for a babysitter 😂😂😂😂😂
19 with 2 kids the same age, 2 baby momma’s and criminal record! Girl ruuuunnnnnn!!!!
😅 lol he the main one need to run from her she a ticking time bomb
@@corneliusfarrell8673 You took the words RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH
Well he did say he's a Certified Welder, So maybe he changed for the better.
Run indeed. I wouldn't want my sister to be with this dusty
Why you think she was with him ? Lol
As a young man myself i think/feel these brothers who think/feel they can have sex with a woman without her expecting some type of commitment/loyalty are delusional, spiritually unaware, selfish etc. idc how honest you are about your intentions. it's not right.
Beautifully stated
This!!
i disagree with this. men aren’t the only ones who enter into “situationships” and don’t want to commit and that’s their prerogative. if they’re transparent about it and the other person still deals with them, i don’t see how they’re in the wrong.
Popping up at the job 😂 girl stop it
She’s crazy smh BUT friends w/ benefits don’t do the things they did together. She shouldn’t be around his family nor watching his kids. That’s why she started catching feelings. He needs to cut her off for good.
She needs to go to a psychiatrist. She needs serious meds
Sex before marriage is sin. The truth Christians dont want to hear. Its in the Bible.
This is a prime reason you dont give your body to person thats not spouse (not bf or fiance but wife or husband) because they can just suddenly change and there you go, they've used all your emotions, wasted your time, and used your body for pleasure to themselves. These are the consequences of sin
You can try to get in good with his family, offer to watch his kids, even have sex him. But if the man is TELLING you he dont want a serious relationship, you're only hurting yourself in the end. No matter WHAT you perceive his other actions to be.
@@mistasofly I agree however we don’t know what he was saying to her behind closed doors. Also actions speak louder than words so if he really didn’t want a relationship all I’m saying is there should’ve been boundaries but either way she was out of hand and she’s obsessive.
@@12Messenger I agree! Sexual contact can definitely make emotions fly but however that’s why you shouldn’t share your body w/ppl
Ladies! Please don’t agree to friends with benefits or “we just chillin” type relationship if you’re not prepared with what comes with that. He is absolutely going to date other women. When a man tell you he is not committing to you. BELIEVE HIM! He can take you out, you can even meet his family. Etc.. That does not make you his woman. A real man will let it be known what he wants and who he want his forever with.
I with and agree with what you're saying but to be fair a man should never bring a woman around his family if she just a FWB.
And NEVER, EVER babysit his children. That is his responsibility not yours.
@@Alajuwonif she kool and honest and you see her as a true friend then there is nothing wrong with that. You can actually care about a fwb they are human🤦🏾♂️
If she can’t have him, no one can🤪🥴😵💫
Wow😏
@@khard9000 I had a few fwb before I got married. I had an Italian one for two years. And I care about and she cared about me. Her father passed and I tried to be there for her in that moment. She stop me and told me "we don't need to go there, let's stick to our roles",.
She the type to fight his baby mamas for a relationship even though most of his time and money is spent on his baby mother and kids
Yeah and you can tell by the way she walked in the court. She was looking back at the Jury like she was ready to fight them when she walked in.
19 n 20 looking grown af😮
These girls need to STOP acting like every dude that they meet is husband material. Now ya got to pay! He’s not worth it.
2 things to say ladies:
1.) When a man is telling you he doesn't want a serious commitment believe him! Your sex WILL NOT change his mind!
2.) Stop having these "friends with benefits" situations with dudes and then think thats all it'll be. Us men can have sex without getting emotionally attached, yall cant! Dont do it if you not prepared to get your feelings hurt.
And fellas: Leave crazy broads ALONE!
Period
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*3 don’t think you can change a man’s mind.!
Some females can just have sex without catching feelings..it is rare though
@@junkoenoshima2056 Usually, we call those women prostitutes.
Shawty is crazy and delusional 😂
The craziest thing she did was watch his children for him. Ain't no way!!!
I wish we would just learn to leave men alone; when they don’t see the value there .
Poor women run
Amen, move fwd
19 with 2 baby mamas...i hate to see him at age 30
I love Doyle's sense of humor..Mess! 😂 she's giving me that Fatal Attraction Vibes same look 😂 better the bed and not you! 😂😂😂
He wasn't leading her on, told her upfront the situation and still got his stuff destroyed. Instead of asking like a perosn should, she just made up in her head that they were working towards a relationship. Pure nonsense.
Yea well he sure was spending more time with her than a “friend with benefits” he really was using her
@Jmarie0134 So she shouldn't have been doing girlfriend duties on a friend with benefits salary
@@shanzi9009 well duh lol 😂
She thought she was going to change him
Maybe he wasn't leading her on but having her watch his kids when he knew how she felt about him comes pretty damn close.
She's crazy. She created a relationship all in her mind. Stop sleeping around and the lines won't get blurred.
Wow!! She is the definition of CRAZY!!
They BOTH in the wrong! He should have NEVER treated her like his woman. A jump off isnt suppose to be around your family, friends and kids. She should have left him alone once he said he didnt want a relationship, knowing she did want a relationship. They young tho, so they have to live life and learn
agreed. i learned this the hard way. i was that plaintiff guy minus the bleach clothes. The girl wasn't that crazy. so i never did the friends with benefits ever again. an older female friend said i led the woman on because we hooked up too often. she said FWB are not to engage in intimacy as often as people in a relationship. she gave me this lecture about communicating too often as well. she said if you tell her your whereabouts and making small talk and hitting several times in a week, then you changing the rules. so after that i said ok no more of this. i don't want to deal with scorned women
I would think more to , I’m meeting family & kids …FWB don’t do that
@@eleanormcgee1507people introduce their friends to their kids and parents all the time wym? 😂 fucking your friend doesn’t automatically equal lovers, especially if y’all both agree it’s gonna just be physical
Nah....He TOLD her what was up.....she thought that 🐱 would change his mind!😌
We not in a relationship but we going to do everything that people in a relationship do
I'm not watching a man's kid if I'm not his only woman.
@Sunshine-un2tq💯💯👍🏾
insecure, desperate, and crazy don't nun of these words describe her 💀💀💀 I hate seeing common cases like these a man can tell you he don't want you in so many ways move on
She is definitely wrong .... He told her he didn't want a serious relationship so that he can have an excuse to do whatever he wanted to do, at the same time keeping her emotionally locked in.
She has to listen the devil has to warn you before he goes in
I guess...but he said what he said...she misled herself and did a bunch of over thinking
He told her he didn't want a relationship because he didn't want a relationship 🤷🏿♀️SHE felt like staying around. How did you just try to twist it like HE did something wrong 🤷🏿♀️ Sounds like You're projecting with your hypothesis on him being honest. That's crazy. Shows how some of us women really hear what we want and make up shit as we go along 🤦🏿♀️The man was completely honest with her. What more was HE supposed to do 🤷🏿♀️
@@prettybossy510 on one hand she did choose on the other hand actions speak louder than words I'm not doing all the relationship stuff with somebody if I don't want a relationship. You don't need to be around my kids you don't need to be around my family none of that especially if you're not a friend
@@RoseArnold40 shut up! Actions speak louder than words. Don't do relationship stuff and not expect the other person to feel like there's a relationship. it's very simple
This is a prime example of how most women (not all) can’t handle a friends with benefits situation. Yes his actions might have said he wanted a relationship to you but don’t assume. We as woman will ignore the major red flags and come up with our own conclusions. That never works out. If you want a relationship, don’t be in a friends with benefits situation.
If it wLks like a duck it's a Duck
They was together
@@teegreen3909 no they wasn’t. You’re delusional like her.
Amen.
@@teegreen3909 What does that mean?? I hope not what I think it means. Are you saying they had an exclusive relationship because she thought she heard and saw a duck?
There were no red flags, just straight talk. In this case, she ignored plain English.
Hopefully they BOTH learned a lesson.
Be careful who you bring around you.
That look he daw at his job was his warning.
The look?? How about showing up??
That type of personality is very scary. As angry as I’ve been I have never done anything like that before. I just leave. I hope she either gets help or grows out of that behavior.
Exactly she has no morals to destroy someone’s property over petty bs. She needs a reality & attitude check.
Right, people on both sides (men and women) need to realize that when you go into any kind of relationship that person has the right to not want to deal anymore and that should be ok with you. We need to build up our self-esteem and take some things for what they are.
Showing up to someone’s job when not asked and without notice is crazy. The only person that has that power AT BEST is someone you’re married to lol. Also, agreeing to watch their kids with no official title? Girl… She’s young so I’ll give her pass. Hopefully she learned a good lesson.
Stop chalking this kind of reckless behavior up to "being young." All young women dont behave this way. She needs therapy and some accountability NOW! Or she'll be 35 years old still running men away behind irrational behavior.
@@mistasofly I think she got the memo towards the end. I know not all young people behave this way, but I totally understand if a young person would do something like this. Hormones, inexperienced, not having the proper emotional guidance/support. She clearly didn’t have any friends (good friends atleast) or family to check her and tell her to stop acting crazy (unless she was lying to them). Also, young people have love and hip hop and real housewives of Atlanta to show them how to behave when they feel wronged 💁🏽
@@mistasoflyNobody said all young women behave that way BUT as a woman that was once young you do go through stuff & learn from it what’s the problem with what she said? You were once young too & I hope you “chalk” up a lot of your bs to being young. It’s life.
Pass my ass. Come on.
@@Alajuwon stop acting perfect and as if you've never did anything dumb or that wish you hadn't done. People make mistakes in life. In this case, no one was physically harmed. If she learned her lesson, I don't see what the issue is; the man sued, and he's getting his money. He made mistakes as well in his life (going to jail), and he came out a changed person so why can't she have her redemption?
This woman has issues 😒 if a person tells you up front they don't want to be serious with you other than occasionally having sex with you believe them and keep it moving 💯
Word.
I hope this young man do good for yourself he seemed like he got his head all right the honesty is amazing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Happy Tuesday, I'm here
He's Here👍
Happy Tuesday☺️
Young or old You can't make anyone love you
She's crazy 🤣🤣
I thank my parents every day for my upbringing! They we’re CRAZY yes!!!! But I heeded their warnings and it definitely served as a protection me!! Friends dont have sex with each other! If we are just friends then we’re just friends. You are now my girl! We will shop together, be my wing man, give dating advice, fashion advice, share recipes, etc. You will become the gay bestie!
Why does the plaintiff have a high-pitch voice? Like a woman?
I can't have sex without catching feels... So I don't mess🤷🏾♀️
Me either
You cant?
Slide me them digits 😋
She was real crazy😳 he made it clear to her that they were nothing but friends with benefits🤷🏽♀️ it was her choice to continue a romantic relationship with him. She assumed they were in a serious relationship. It was also her choice to babysit his children smh. This young man has 2 children with 2 different women at the age of 19. That should have been a red flag, but she ignored it.
Awwwwww, cmon lady!!!
U need to be stronger than that!!!
Dont succumb to this type of behavior for a man who doesn't want u.
She wanted a man so bad 😩😩😭
Heal the father wounds sis and find a counselor...
PS.... If it's not a mutual decision to be together, then you're not together
Idc what his “actions” say. A man will treat you like y’all together while continuing to tell you you’re not. Don’t get caught up in the treatment. Believe his words. If he says he doesn’t want a relationship go the other way if you want one. He will do whatever is allowed and still stick to not wanting you.
So wait 2 baby mommas two kids the same age 🤔 and he didn’t get chewed out? Men need to start being held accountable. Women are not toys or something to do on your spare time.
She is young
If a man doesn't want a relationship, he should keep it really light. He should not try to take advantage of all the benefits of having a girlfriend without the accountability and the responsibility. This man used her for all of the relationship benefits. That is not acceptable and that is dishonest.
Misleading her and taking advantage of her just because you can😮
Even though dude put out that he didn't want a relationship I still blame him overall. He had two other women he could have been smashing
He definitely was spending too much time with her
I agree, he was probably spending with night with her as well.
I love how he thinks it’s funny to have 2 kids 2 baby mamas at the same time. SMH 🤦🏾♀️
He thought the “ by 2 different mothers” was hilarious and the judge was like 🫤
Definitely the makings of a “Snapped” episode. Let this be a cautionary tale to men and women. Don’t lay with anyone you don’t want anything with, and definitely understand that when someone says what they “don’t” want believe it. People get so stuck on actions. A person will give you what you want simply to get what they want. Quid Pro Quo. It ain’t rocket science. Aside from that at 19, you’ll become multiple “people” before you truly find yourself. Me at 19 and me at 40 are worlds apart!
This case sums up how most women “feel” their emotions are facts. In other words they are crazy. Now flip it around and have men “feel” they are owed something and just because they believe it. See how scary that is and that’s the issue with dating.
Why was she having sex with this guy anyway? She has no kids and this dude already has 2 kids by 2 women at only 19! Was she trying to be baby momma number 3? She really is crazy, she should be thanking her lucky stars she got out of that situation without getting knocked up.
Insecurity will have you reaching for anyone, anything. Self-love comes first.
2 babies and an assault charge resulting in jail at 16?! He needed to keep his hands to himself, in all forms …smh
Years ago I dated a guy and told him up front that I did not want to settle down with him. He threatened me once on a voicemail and I took him to court the next day. Eventually, I filed a permanent restraining order on him. Months after that he was sent to prison for doing something worse to another woman.
I did not play around with that threat. When someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM.
Wait wait wait, so a girl you were friends with benefits was worthy enough to meet your kids??😂
She was the babysitter 😂 that’s all
Let this be a valuable lesson to you drew. Theres a reason your brother Chris eventually left tasha alone. You needed to learn from him.
Cant believe you had Tanya let her in your home and she tore your things up.
She's lucky Rochelle wasn't there or she would"ve slapped the DNA out of her body or Mr Julius because he would have sued her for everything!!
That's $500 in destroyed Xbox
$400 in destroyed Xbox games &;Accessories.
$1000 in destroyed mattress
$700 in destroyed bed frame
$75 In destroyed door hinge
$500 for a new door
$4 worth of candles
And 2.37 cent of Bleach used to cause all this destruction.
Tragic!
Pound town😂 he toke her down. Now look at her
I was just listening to the audio and I thought he was a girl... 😬
She needs to find something to do with her life. Is she is school or a career?.And he's no prize possession....two kids by two different baby 👶 mamas is a strong hint plus he told her. Fatal Attraction! Waiting to exhale!
Sweetie you felt and thought. You caught feelings. You can meet family and still be a booty call.
If he was just messing around, then a mess was just what he got.😂
She just messed herself up for any serious relationship. No real man wants to deal with any thing like that. She refuses to take no for an answer. She needs to get some self esteem. Very desperate delusional and dumb.
He probably has a few other kids by now
Instead of getting your sh!t and going on somewhere, you gotta pay him $3k 💀💀
She’s unhinged. I’m glad he wasn’t serious with her.
She doesn't need to be in a relationship right now.
He found mess alright. That woman looks crazy right now
He was using her to watch his kids and in court trying to act like he bestowed an honor to her 🙄🙄🤦🏽♀️
Wheewww she is a nut case
I am so happy to be single after hearing this.
Wow she Crazy af
Heyyyyy JM family!!!!🫶🏽❤️
He isn't worth all that.
Why did he laugh when he had two kids by to different girls like that's some cute fashionable sht to do that bs
I never heard so many men have the softest, highest pitch of voice. Thought a woman was suing at first
She wasn’t being honest , when she said he told her not to worry about the money at the moment 😮
This women sound like a damn fool!! Salute to this young brother, choose wisely people
He needs to get a restraining order ASAP
Nobody found him having two babies by two women at the same time funny but him. 🙄🙄🙄.
As a young man, I had to realize the fact that we were having sex and hanging out everyday didn't equate to a relationship. Realized it was the best thing for me actually lol
My ex did the same. She was in jail for the weekend, and she still paid for my stuff 😂
Stop being delusional young ladies!!! If you're looking for love, look in the mirror and start with yourself. Sis is beyond delusional and comes off like a sociopath! I hope he doesn't encounter another woman like this and I hope she finds the love and peace within herself and never do this again. He could've hurt/unalived her that day about his things!
He should of put her in jail. She needs that traumatic experience to make her think reasonable when she gets upset!!!!
Can we pls stop calling her psycho for not having emotional control and uplift this young girl with some healthy advice.
when I saw her walk in I said, "Guilty!".... let's see if I'm right....
Was not expecting that voice 🥴
All he needed to say he needed a babysitter lol
She Needs To Get A Reality CHECK ASAP, if he tells you he's friends with Benefits except it. Both parties are to young to be in a committed relationship. GROW UP FIRST. She was in her feelings.
--- &&& she definitely went to his job . . Ladies we can't be popping up at theses men jobs despite the fact if he treated you wrong because uu don't want nobody coming up to your job starting mess .. 😢🤷💯
Foe her to openly admit she was crazy over him ,he needs to stay away from her
He should have never bought her around his kids. He’s sending mixed signals. She shouldn’t have accepted being friends with benefits.
Another case of children playing grown up. Him making 2 kids at 16, she has a dangerous obsessive behavior. Her behavior will get her behind bars.
Just crazy he was honest with you and you still didn't listen and was just mad
She made herself available. He didn’t like her, she made that up in her head.
He’s proud of rather being embarrassed of having 2 kids with 2 different woman, that’s a problem.