My Coming Out Story!

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  • čas přidán 24. 04. 2020
  • Hey,
    My name is Mark and in this video I am going to tell you guys how I came out as bi.
    Hope you are having a fantastic day!
    / heei.mark

Komentáře • 82

  • @lifeofmark230
    @lifeofmark230  Před 4 lety +16

    Write me some questions! I want to answer some of them in a Q and A :D

    • @frcgfd107
      @frcgfd107 Před 3 lety +1

      How was it in school, were you bullied or harassed? Your English is very good, is it easy to find someone to practice your English with? I am sure I can think of more questions if you don't like these two. Thank you for sharing the video!

    • @darinlegore284
      @darinlegore284 Před 3 lety

      would ever emotionally be dating a guy & girl at same time, or do you hold romance for one and hook ups for other?

    • @mjbaz1
      @mjbaz1 Před 3 lety

      Woher kommst du und wo lebst du jetzt? Danke im Voraus.

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you, Mark, I salute you! I have spent my entire adult life teaching and counseling guys your age. I totally support your actions and commend you for your self-understanding and ability to be who you are. That is the only way to be happy. You have helped many others with this video......keep up the good work.........Ray

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 Před 3 lety +3

    Mark, you’re a true gentle man. Your story is hugely inspirational and supportive for those taking their first steps on self-discovery. I hope all your dreams come true for you and your boyfriend and wish you every happiness here in the UK. 👍❤️

  • @cricket73710
    @cricket73710 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. You seem like a nice guy that is honest and sincere. I am so proud of you, and I don't even know you. Much love and best wishes from the USA.

  • @laxman4470
    @laxman4470 Před 4 lety +1

    Great vlog Mark! Hope to see more in the future!!

  • @vinnpu
    @vinnpu Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you for posting this.

  • @kaohanfa1122
    @kaohanfa1122 Před 3 lety +4

    I am Cambodian I live in a really religious community that just a lot of judgement and criticism it just so hard sometime I think about myself I feel so sad and I cried a lot of the time because I feel rejected people just still don’t understand it being gay bisexual or lesbian is not a choice It just who we are and love is love and it makes me even more horrified that other people in the world have to go through the same thing or maybe even worst for something that we can’t take control of😕😔

    • @timothyxosullivan
      @timothyxosullivan Před 2 lety

      Dear Kao, Did you know that in the animal kingdom bisexuality is the norm. Scientific studies of more than 1500 species have shown that bisexuality is normal (google it). The old saying that gay sex is not natural is completely wrong. So bisexuals and gays, stand up and be proud, 4 billion years of evolution salutes you. I want you to shine, to live your best lives and soar as high as you can fly.

  • @RobinHimpe
    @RobinHimpe Před 4 lety +2

    well, i can relate. coming out is much easier when you're drunk haha, did that twice. except coming out for my parents wasn't like that. i'm super happy that everyone accepts you the way you are, i have the same thing. Nobody had negative thoughts with it and i think the reason for that is that i don't have a lot friends but really close and good friends :).
    At the beginning of this video i was guessing from where you are because i instantly heard the accent and i had i right lol. but i must say that you're speaking english very well even with a british accent, wich i love haha. best regards!

  • @srreed5335
    @srreed5335 Před 3 lety +2

    Mark! U r beautiful. an angel of balance. Love thy self, stay honest u r accepted in the world☮️to u

  • @dontemannings5336
    @dontemannings5336 Před 3 lety

    Lovely video bro. Stay strong and keep the videos coming. Much love from N.Y.C

  • @nikolamarkov5564
    @nikolamarkov5564 Před 3 lety +2

    OMG! You are gorgeous! :)

  • @malibumoment
    @malibumoment Před 3 lety

    Congrats! Welcome to the UK 😘 xx

  • @tannereustace
    @tannereustace Před 3 lety

    Great video man! It's videos like yours that inspired me to make a coming out video myself, as well as make the following my yearbook quote: "I started high school with straight A's...now I'm not even straight! I'm still me, though!" Best decision ever. I'm so glad your experience has been so positive and I hope you keep being your authentic self! :)

    • @GoldenYoshi1
      @GoldenYoshi1 Před 3 lety

      Is your profile picture a Banjo-Kazooie note?

    • @tannereustace
      @tannereustace Před 3 lety

      @@GoldenYoshi1 indeed :D
      I’ve covered some banjo Kazooie tunes on my channel ;)

  • @clivemountain1165
    @clivemountain1165 Před měsícem

    I hope things have turned out well for you.

  • @kenzocohen4308
    @kenzocohen4308 Před 3 lety

    AND UR FREAKING AWESOME!!!!

  • @paulmcmichael7157
    @paulmcmichael7157 Před 4 lety +3

    Good luck if you move to UK. Life is about taking a chance on a big move sometimes. Stay a week, or two weeks first. .Make sure things are right as they can be - though in life too, nothing is black and white.

    • @lifeofmark230
      @lifeofmark230  Před 4 lety

      Thank you for the advise! :D
      I was visiting my bf in march and I really enjoyed my time there. But I definetly need to get used to staying in another country for a longer period of time :D

  • @michaelclarke549
    @michaelclarke549 Před 3 lety

    Mark...great video. Older guy myself but have only recently coming to being attracted to men. Your video really helps...xx

  • @tmicheletti100
    @tmicheletti100 Před 4 lety

    You r a very sincere person and, because of that, u can do well on you tube if u pursue it diligently. My question: how often do u c ur bf and how hard is a long distance relationship?

  • @williamtourot5601
    @williamtourot5601 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey

  • @sahilahmed2437
    @sahilahmed2437 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey Mark! It's been 2 years now.. I'm still waiting for your upcoming videos. 😢 Never too late man!

  • @ojtveito
    @ojtveito Před 3 lety

    Great story-telling. You're a great guy, and you are rewarded for your courage and pride. Being gay may not be 100%. It can be 65% gay and 35% straight, where you probably are. What I find interesting is that you are a twin. Are you identical twins? In case if, it's really interesting if he's not the same way since identical twins are often feeling much of eth same. Your English is great. I could hear a touch of German-English sometimes, but in other words, you are so blatant British! thanx for sharing. You're a wonderful guy!

  • @donaldstorm4959
    @donaldstorm4959 Před 3 lety

    I definitely think you're more gay than bi but there's nothing wrong with that you're an amazing human being and you should be thanked for helping other people out! Amazing young man!

  • @robbrent
    @robbrent Před 4 lety +1

    Mark I enjoyed your story and am following you here and on IG. Enjoyed learning more about you and Michael there. You’ve some nice pictures as does he so he’s gained a follower too. Tell us more about your visit to him and what it’s been like being apart from him. Be safe guys, by the way your English is good.

  • @zerdanphunrab
    @zerdanphunrab Před rokem

    You are a lovely young man. Thank you for sharing. ❤🌈

  • @cowboykent9091
    @cowboykent9091 Před 2 lety

    HOWDY from the lone star state of TEXAS. Be proud of who you are. By the way, you are very attractive

  • @coisalinda2424
    @coisalinda2424 Před 3 lety

    Good for you my friend

  • @brygram
    @brygram Před 3 lety

    We are ready for your next video. How is the UK and your boyfriend working out?

  • @GayGallois
    @GayGallois Před 3 lety

    Hi Mark, please don't forget the life updates.

  • @andrej.trepanier6185
    @andrej.trepanier6185 Před 4 lety +1

    Hello, Saw your video,New subscriber, Thanks for sharing

  • @diligentsmile1213
    @diligentsmile1213 Před 4 lety +2

    How did you meet him since you two live in different countries ?

  • @andergallegoblanco
    @andergallegoblanco Před 2 lety

    Hey Mark! I just wanted to say thank you!

  • @vikrantkulkarni1241
    @vikrantkulkarni1241 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for posting. I know it's not the most easiest thing to say. 👍🏻

  • @juliantofoe3685
    @juliantofoe3685 Před 4 lety +1

    LOVE YOU 🌈🥰

  • @larryjohns8097
    @larryjohns8097 Před 3 lety

    Sorry I just heard you say you’re from Germany. I love your slight accent and speech inflections. You have none of the coarser German inflections in your speech. I thought you might be Scandinavian lol

  • @laurafrixell8755
    @laurafrixell8755 Před 4 lety +2

    Você é lindo parabéns!

  • @guyinawheelchair9648
    @guyinawheelchair9648 Před 3 lety

    How are you doing today brother? You are very inspiring! I'm gay, but I'm not out maybe because I have cerebral palsy and I'm in a wheelchair! My name is Rusty.

  • @BrianNeal
    @BrianNeal Před 4 lety +5

    I have to admit, I am very sad that you're taken! But, I'm in the USA, and it wouldn't have worked anyway. But, your boyfriend is a very lucky man to have such an awesome guy as you! I am truly jealous of him, but he is luck to have you as boyfriend! You're a great guy! :)

  • @xxof830
    @xxof830 Před 3 lety

    Great job mate from the usa 👍

  • @fidokalman
    @fidokalman Před 3 lety +1

    Your english is very good indeed

  • @haohuang8930
    @haohuang8930 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for sharing this

  • @torjimontorjimon5980
    @torjimontorjimon5980 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Also send all my love and support to all the LGBT people.

  • @niarrl7092
    @niarrl7092 Před 3 lety

    ☺️😍

  • @CanadaKeith
    @CanadaKeith Před 3 lety

    Your boyfriend is very lucky to have you!

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @tomboygirl5085
    @tomboygirl5085 Před 3 lety

    I don't know what IAM doing here broo you're handsome 😍 dude

  • @robertpaisley8643
    @robertpaisley8643 Před 3 lety

    wow your so handsome il subscribe great hear your story I hope everything goes well what's your situation now xx

  • @brianmichael543
    @brianmichael543 Před 4 lety +1

    Woher kommst du in Deutschland?

  • @EduardoHernandez-gr1gb

    Well I'm proud for you I hope have a opportunity to meet you.

  • @niarrl7092
    @niarrl7092 Před 3 lety

    Hii☺️☺️😁😁greatings from Indonesian

  • @lenovovo
    @lenovovo Před 3 lety

    Most guys, when they come out, always say that they are bi. It's just easier to say that instead of admitting that they are gay. It just tickles me, but it's all good though. :-)

  • @trevordixon1427
    @trevordixon1427 Před 3 lety

    Best wish .. ..x

  • @danielmunster9972
    @danielmunster9972 Před 3 lety +2

    Hallo Mark. Bin zufällig über dein Video gestolpert. Ein Coming-Out von einem Bisexuellen! Zunächst finde ich es echt klasse, dass du persönlich so voran schreitest. Ich war auch bisexuell und hatte zwei Freundinnen. Nur vor gute 25 Jahren war das alles noch etwas schwieriger zu händeln. Zudem hätte ich zugern eine Mehrfachbeziehung gehabt. D.h. ein Mädel und einen Kerl parallel. Dies hätte die damalige Gesellschaft noch grundlegender überfordert. Ich musste mich damals wirklich stets rechtfertigen bzw. Verteidigen. Bi zusein, dass ist bestimmt nix halbes und ganzes. Es waren auch andere Zeiten. Nun gut, ich wünsche dir für die Zukunft alles Gute und pass gut auf dich auf. Beste Grüße Daniel

  • @ravcosales6156
    @ravcosales6156 Před 3 lety +1

    my question is: why are you so cute?

  • @menuria
    @menuria Před 3 lety

    Where are you from, Marc?

  • @markgillis6356
    @markgillis6356 Před 3 dny

    Nice accent!

  • @muhammadmuhaiminhisham7387

    Peace be upon you to our beloved brothers and dearest sisters, you kinda need to listen to me, I just want to say that:-
    If you got anyone in your life that ever said to you like ''how did it come to this?'' in the unkind ways, you know what I mean. This is what you tell them, you look at straight into their eyes and you saying:
    1. Religion is about Peace and Mercy of God.
    2. a) Do you believe in God? Yes. And if God didn’t want you this way, He wouldn’t have made you this way. Correct!
    2. b) God have made and want you this way, because He love you. So, you will get more closely and continuously approach to God. He want you to love Him more than everything else, and the love that's exclusive only for Him. Not so many people out there got that chance. That's why you have to learn and understand the hidden message of God.
    3. Whenever you come close yourself to God, He will never judge you based on your sexual orientation. He will judges and look at you, by what kind of a person you are.
    4. Humanity is about as long as we bring ourselves to loves someone else, no matter what color, no matter what race, no matter what culture, no matter what religion, and no matter what gender. Humanity just want us to be loved, and to be able to love somebody back.
    5. God loves us beyond any and everything else, and that’s who we should love first.
    6. And in sight of God kindness and love are what it’s all about.

  • @Dako108
    @Dako108 Před 3 lety +3

    I couldn’t figure out your accent, it’s definitely not a regular German accent speaking English. It’s quite nice actually, but I thought you must be Dutch.
    You’re quite gentle and attractive.

  • @user-ov8vs6wj3e
    @user-ov8vs6wj3e Před 15 dny

    В принципе у меня схожая ситуация во многом

  • @larryjohns8097
    @larryjohns8097 Před 3 lety

    Wondering where you are from ???

  • @mikebrady2073
    @mikebrady2073 Před 3 lety

    Congratulations on sharing. Question: How many women have you dated and how many men have you dated? Women only want a heterosexual men. And congrats to you and your boyfriend. Don't let Brexit bother you.

  • @JL-re1rx
    @JL-re1rx Před 2 lety

    Don’t worry about what others think…could really give a flyin’ f***

  • @tomdimartino7361
    @tomdimartino7361 Před 4 lety +3

    You are going to like guys much more, I think you are 90 % gay

  • @markgillis6356
    @markgillis6356 Před 3 dny

    Your advice to everybody about coming out being no problem is short sighted. It sounds fine in a liberal, Western country where there is a high level of tolerance for the LGBTQIA community, but most of the world is not like that. Even my country, the US, has many people with backward attitudes who react hostilely to a child coming out and subject their LGBTQIA children to conversion therapy.

  • @vishalgill8491
    @vishalgill8491 Před 3 lety

    Hi mark can I be your friend

  • @Mahalo222
    @Mahalo222 Před 3 lety

    Get a girl. Have a baby. Raise it with a man. Be open. Be kind. Be patient.

  • @keithnewton8981
    @keithnewton8981 Před 4 lety +1

    But your not gay your bi

  • @pepperco100
    @pepperco100 Před 3 lety

    How could you come out, your being so obvious?

  • @betelgezaa
    @betelgezaa Před 3 lety

    What a cliche ,...he is young and he dares to claim he is bi. Obviously he is gay but still in a closet afraid to admit his real sexuality. Shame on him

  • @idrick797
    @idrick797 Před 9 měsíci

    I am relieve to know there is nothing wrong with loving the same sex I love me a dude an one day I will find my soul mate in a guy