What nurses can teach us | Christie Watson | TEDxVienna

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  • čas přidán 6. 01. 2022
  • Nursing cannot cure us, our human condition, this messy magic of being human. But here’s the thing, nursing doesn’t seek to cure. Nurses can remind us who we are, or who we are meant to be. It is nurses who can save us. Christie Watson is a writer and Professor of Medical and Health Humanities. She is Patron of the Royal College of Nursing Foundation. Her book Tiny Sunbirds Far Away won the Costa First Novel Award and along with her second novel, Where Women Are Kings, was widely translated and achieved international critical acclaim. The Language of Kindness, published in 2018, was a number one Sunday Times bestseller and Book of the Year in the Evening Standard, Guardian, New Statesman, the Sunday Times and The Times. It has been translated
    into 23 languages, and adapted for theatre, with a UK tour beginning in 2021. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 59

  • @KiwikimNZ
    @KiwikimNZ Před 2 lety +84

    I am a nurse of 25 years. I am tired. I have given my whole life, but those “Betty” moments are the moments that keep you going. It is so sad that nurses are now the enemy in societies eyes, it makes you want to give up, but I will always put my hand up no matter how tired I am.

    • @lavenderhearts101
      @lavenderhearts101 Před 2 lety +9

      I am a retired bedside nurse of 40 years. Those Betty moments kept me going too❤️
      May God give strength to and bless all nurses and health care workers during this unprecedented, challenging time.

    • @amboumndum5586
      @amboumndum5586 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Thanks so much Christie for sharing

  • @blueprairiedog
    @blueprairiedog Před 2 měsíci +5

    I've been an RN for 42 years. I can't return to the hospital because there's no value placed on listening, comforting and supporting people. There's no time for anything that doesn't have a billing code, yet that's where much of healing occurs.

  • @kateguillemette5948
    @kateguillemette5948 Před 2 lety +24

    I am a LPN student who heard this for the first time today in class. I have rewatched it 6 times since. I have never agreed with words being said more than these. What a gift it is to be able to live a life of compassion.

  • @slooftaroof
    @slooftaroof Před rokem +16

    I am an ICU nurse that has definitely experienced compassion fatigue and burnout in the past, hearing this TED talk brought me to tears in reminding me why we do what we do and how integral compassion is in the fabric of society

  • @immigrantamericannurse2714

    Thank you so much, Christie, for sharing and for bringing to light our duty to save lives. I am a nurse, BSN RN. I saw so much during covid, and my heart felt so betrayed. I could not believe that our patients were dead and stored in RVS on my hospital parking lot because the morgues were too full.

  • @DO.Dr.JM13
    @DO.Dr.JM13 Před rokem +6

    Nurses are often overlooked as one of the greatest resources in the healthcare world. I am a current 2nd year medical student preparing to enter into my clinical rotations this summer. In the world have healthcare and ethics one of the key principles is Justice. This justice often refers only to the patients’ health and their degree of care, whether the actions being taken on behalf of the patient are legal and ethically sound. Justice works in harmony with the other 3 pillars of ethics in healthcare, autonomy, beneficence, and non-maleficence. Together these four pillars provide safety for those individuals who are exposed to the healthcare system and protects their rights to the treatment they deem best for themselves. However, I think the emotion with which Christie presents her Ted talk shows the need for these same principles to be applied to the front-line workers in the healthcare system. Nurses are often taken advantage of by being forced to work short staffed, working overtime, cutting their budget, requiring more of them, and giving them less resources, etc.… I think if we expect nurses to treat our patients with beneficence and non-maleficence, then we need those who are in charge of hospitals and clinical settings to treat their nurses and other workers the same way. Like Christie said, when people look back on this time, they are going to look back on the compassion that was demonstrated, and hopefully we can see compassion given not only to those sick patients but compassion given to those who are giving of their time and energy to heal the sick by working long hours, short staffed, with limited resources. Thanks, Christie, for sharing this message hopefully with your selfless presentation on compassion others will return the favor and show greater compassion to those working on the front lines of healthcare whether we are in a pandemic or not.

    • @juliekendall
      @juliekendall Před rokem

      Dr. M, please share your perspective with hospital administration - they need to hear this.

  • @nursienice17
    @nursienice17 Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you for this!! I'm so weary, as a nurse! I needed this desperately.

  • @Hassanali55880
    @Hassanali55880 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I'm first year nursing student.. I'm proud to be nurse❤️

  • @marimelsid4045
    @marimelsid4045 Před 2 lety +7

    inspiste our society not appreciate us but being a nurse is the best choice that I had ever taken , I proud to be a nurse 💙.

  • @hettiebester52
    @hettiebester52 Před rokem +8

    Thank you so much for this message. Im in the nursing profession now for 40 years, mostly in critical care. Yes, I'm tired, physically, mentally and emotionally. Working trough extreme suffering during the pandemic,I wanted to throw in the towel. But there is still so much suffering out there. And after hearing this message, I will still go out and make a difference.

  • @lucymacnamara9898
    @lucymacnamara9898 Před 2 lety +3

    Wow, so thought provoking, emotive and yet it’s all so simple. Amazingly eloquent and beautifully said, Christie 💕

  • @okekeanyanna9362
    @okekeanyanna9362 Před 2 lety +3

    This is beautiful, it offers a great deal of encouragement,strength, endurance in this tough call.

  • @user-dj4ey7oy3s
    @user-dj4ey7oy3s Před 2 lety +7

    Thanks for your working and thanks a lot for all nurses in the world

  • @patriciastover3647
    @patriciastover3647 Před měsícem +1

    Glad I found this❤

  • @bralinx.official
    @bralinx.official Před měsícem +1

    Its really beautifully and emotionally said. Great thanks Watson, you really representing our feeling as nurses.

  • @johanneberube6682
    @johanneberube6682 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hi! You are very intelligent and good-hearted. I wish everybody would listen to your message... Thank you 💖🌹

  • @dianacaporiccio5776
    @dianacaporiccio5776 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Beautifully said! Its the "Betty's" that keep us going in our demanding line of work.

  • @garenlamperouge7785
    @garenlamperouge7785 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Proud to be a nursing student

  • @cindyhalpern3187
    @cindyhalpern3187 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for your service!

  • @sebyskaria3341
    @sebyskaria3341 Před 2 lety +17

    I am proud to be a nurse🥰

  • @kenfletcher1306
    @kenfletcher1306 Před rokem +2

    All the greatest healers are nurses!

  • @nadiahassan9255
    @nadiahassan9255 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for inspiring and excellent speech 💬 👏

  • @aneetarose2228
    @aneetarose2228 Před rokem +1

    Dear Ma'am Christie I seen seen your vedio today.Its amazing and wonderfully said.Thank you for such a beautiful speach.God bless

  • @dinubandara1762
    @dinubandara1762 Před rokem +2

    I am a nurse & proud of you ❤

  • @amboumndum5586
    @amboumndum5586 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Am so touch about the move you took to see into your dream

  • @maimostafa513
    @maimostafa513 Před 2 lety +1

    compassion !

  • @mayuriniluka736
    @mayuriniluka736 Před 12 dny

    Thank you

  • @amboumndum5586
    @amboumndum5586 Před 4 měsíci

    Am proud to be a nurse,even though at this level and stage of my life i will going back because of the difficulties that are driving me away from my dreams

  • @peninahkirea1101
    @peninahkirea1101 Před 8 měsíci

    This is inspiring.

  • @nurseabdulelah.6700
    @nurseabdulelah.6700 Před 10 měsíci

    I agree 100% with you

  • @Queensasya08
    @Queensasya08 Před rokem

    All that is good will end well❤

  • @gingerssmelllikecabbageand8708

    It’s a lovely speech, its uses spear head words and mindful pauses. But it’s not enough, she has forgotten that the current government has allowed waiting lists to grow to over 7 million, im one of those waiting for a operation, but thankfully still work, for the time being. That wages Im
    Poorly paid, that now requires me for do close to 50-60 hrs of additional shifts on top the 40 hours i ready have to do. This is time away from my own family and kids, where is my time to teach them about compassion of the world, im not there. She’s done well with her speech and it will come across well to the general public, even light a fire for those nurses struggling. But alas, I see someone, with good timing, opened the dictionary and somehow managed to find time for this one patient, maybe the other patients were crying for pain relief in the background who knows. I sure i come off as bitter, I won’t even lie I am. But I wasn’t always this way, you’ve made me this way. I’m glad I have walked away from nursing, I have a job that,not in society’s eyes for filling, but I get to spend that time with the ones I love. Nursing is for life if you treat them right, nursing is for 10yrs if you don’t. It’s a lovely profession if done right, it’s a unforgiving if done wrong.

  • @stephanienikols9831
    @stephanienikols9831 Před rokem +1

    I’m getting into teaching nursing students. After my masters 😊

  • @vivianacorinacabarcaherrera

    awesome...

  • @MsAssadd
    @MsAssadd Před rokem

    So nice.
    Dr. Siddiqui 🇮🇳

  • @rodgerswere1348
    @rodgerswere1348 Před rokem

    Great insights here. Very inspiring piece.

  • @kgaumont
    @kgaumont Před rokem +5

    Around 3:28, right after she mentions the bleak horror of not being able to save enough lives from the "awful, awful disease" of COVID-19, the cut to a reaction shot from the completely maskless audience is a nice touch :)

  • @puny_God
    @puny_God Před 2 lety +1

    Great

  • @NO6OBRIEN
    @NO6OBRIEN Před 3 měsíci

    Betty ❤❤❤

  • @andersonsouza9003
    @andersonsouza9003 Před rokem

    ❤❤

  • @maevisperas6436
    @maevisperas6436 Před rokem

    👏👏

  • @roseterrado7297
    @roseterrado7297 Před 2 měsíci

    manila madami

  • @RayhanAhmed-lf4jf
    @RayhanAhmed-lf4jf Před rokem

    Why nurses should not have to pay for their nursing degree?
    Please provide some ideas???

  • @Ek0
    @Ek0 Před 2 lety +3

    I hate the health system in the United States. There is too much profit seeking in the medical industry. Nurses are burnt out but thats because many hospitals are for profit businesses. Yes, perhaps you want to help people, but at the same time, you make health care inaccessible to so many Americans. Its funny talking to people from other countries who say "why dont you go to the doctor?" and I say "so they can do a bunch of expensive tests to tell me they dont know whats wrong?". There needs to be way less money in medical school, way less money flowing through health insurance, and sadly way less money flowing through hospital payroll.

  • @KLAKLAWES
    @KLAKLAWES Před 2 lety +2

    WAIT
    * Compassion means suffer together= people who had the same experience can have compassion, otherwise is all fake/life experiences (pay attention that in some country a similar word it means "compass of Zion= mansonry")
    * To be a nurse, u must have a degree, and also experience for little things
    * Some people like to cure, not for something back... cuz it is the way they are
    * After that there is a doctor= no good situation= chirurgy
    * If u cant do it, u feel guilty= u cant be a doctor without experience= it die
    * And u die inside= like when u see a kid and it is alone, and u cant do nothing
    * In the end u grow and u begin to learn
    - Kids nowdays has knives and machineguns
    - If u want to cure, u must have experience.. a degree, and also be in the business
    - Cure someone is a business... also in religion= 80% of private hospital/civil health and so on... are under religion= u must ask permission
    - If u cant do it, u crush urself
    - So first the people u cure they crush u, than they cure u... cuz u crush on them= no sense at all= so first u pay in the mind (and the body suffer= cropore sano in mentire sana), than u must pay again to be cured or more taxes= NO WAY AT ALL
    * In the end u learn that (and u see it)
    - People when they die they call their mama
    - U start to not have compassion at all= see people (things) for what they really are
    - U begin to learn IF u can do it or not= or it becomes a challenge against urself= certain defeat
    - U know ur real competence... and u stop there
    - U cant cure people who are always looking for troubles... cuz in the end someone has to solve it/pay it= sometimes also life for a life
    - And pressure after pressure ur innerglass of the mind broke itself= DSM4= worthless
    - People who die can also breathe and walk... if it is a choice it is called suicide, if not none can give the right/low protection... ETC ETC... to kill someone
    PERIOD
    and FUXX OFF

  • @cynthiadelacruz6392
    @cynthiadelacruz6392 Před 2 lety +1

    I believe that we should get those LVN back for less pay and these overpaid nurses is what’s causing our overpriced healthcare insurance. More LVN and CNA then less RN is the answer for more affordable health insurance in America. Haters will speak up but I’m telling the truth.

    • @erinhundley9321
      @erinhundley9321 Před rokem +3

      This statement goes against all evidenced based practice guidelines. Numerous longitudinal studies show that RNs, especially with a minimum of a bachelor’s degree provide overall better patient outcomes, which in turn increases service reimbursement. Only travel nurses are “over paid”.