You Don't wanna Marry?
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- čas přidán 4. 05. 2024
- Sneak peak of my latest marriage course!
Most Feminists will hate this course. But it needed to be done.
I've been counselling Muslim couples for over 20 years and I get bombarded with the same questions and scenarios over and over again.
Now, I've FINALLY released the most comprehensive NO BS Marriage course I have ever done to put an end to this issue ONCE AND FOR ALL!
-You will learn how to FIND the best possible wife in today's age including all the pre-requisites to look for
-I will walk you through every step of the way
-I will prepare you for what to expect from all the best to all the worst things possible
-You won't get blindsided by anything inshaAllah
-You will be able to spot any potential red flags from miles away
-We will go over all the halal and haram elements of the entire process
-We will make sure you start and continue
-We will go over all the roles and responsibilities
-and how to handle issues when they arise like a real man according to the Sunnah
-You will learn how to maintain respect in her eyes throughout your marriage
-We will go into depth about the marriage contract and how to navigate several case scenarios
-We will discuss polygamy and divorce
-We will talk about how to maintain attraction throughout the marriage so she won't be able to resist you
-and so much more!
If I get cancelled because of it then so be it!
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The people I know who married a woman from a villiage said that there was cultural and communication barriers. They couldnt have banter with their wife. Having a laugh with your wife and understanding each other jokes is important. The grass isnt greener
Much better than modern day western women. Village women are actually soft, feminine, loving and embody all traits and qualities of femininity. Culture is simply a compromise for a much more peaceful marriage that more men are willing to take
Really impressive stuff, mashaAllah
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Garanteed to trigger femnists! Hilarious. I am a Muslim sister
Looks like a valuable course Allahuma barik
I don't think the issue today is always that women do not want to submit to men. Masculinity has to be earned and femininity has to be protected. Women by nature desire to be led and protected, and when a man exemplifies these traits from a place that is honest and selfless, they tend to lean into their femininity naturally. The issue many sisters are say they having is that they're having difficulty finding men who are fit to be submitted to. Most men's improvement channels/content creators frequently discuss the reality that we are in a generation of men with lower testosterone levels, lack of ambition, lack of social/essential skills, high levels of pornography addiction, etc. but when women themselves cite these exact same reasons they are met with resentment from brothers stating that their standards are too high or unrealistic. Hence, these sisters often decide to delay or even opt out of marriage because they are no longer living in a time where they are without access to education and personal income which ultimately produces leverage and choice.
Your comment as usual assumes that women have no faults and are perfect and any negativity comes from men. Typical feminist BS
And who raises these boys that become males instead of men?
Try to think of the root problem, where does it really stem from, how did we get to this stage that we are in right now.
I agree and I'm a man, when men actually do the work then women will follow the men so long as the men fear God and do good and act justly and so on
Not that simple.. A person's character building starts at home, develops there and within the society they live in.
Women in the past, even when married to a slob, stuck it out and wouldn't disrespect him.
Things have changed..
If anyone chooses to not marry at all. It’s their choice and no one else’s. Not their parents. Not their family. Not their friends. Their choices should be respected, and they should be treated like any other individual. It’s not haram. And honestly, the way so many people behave in marriages, especially men in Pakistan. I would say many should not get married at all.
They are going against the Sunnah of Rasul ﷺ and it's Ok ? 🤦🏽
This is the problem nowadays, men just behaving like boys and refusing to man up.
Unless the person has some excuse valid according to the Shariah, they need to get married, playing with fire and pretending your some one person superhero who doesn't need to comply with the Sunnah is a surefire way of asking for serious problems.
@@Saif0412 And Imam Bukhari? Imam Nawawi?
@@Saif0412marriage is not fard tho? And what about the people who don’t have marriage written for them now what? Some of our scholars were not married either ?
In our times of fitnah, this is not realistic even if men and women act like they don’t want to get married at all. Natural desires don’t subside so easily and marriage is there for you to fulfill you desires in halal.
Agreed, I would rather marry a village girl too.
May Allah bless you with a beautiful, pious village woman(who can cook and clean)
Ameen
Ameen. iA there is angel making the same dua for me
@@Abdur-Rahman862 أمين جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا
May Allah reward you brother Gabriel
Ameen
Reminder! Whoever recites SubhanAllah (Glory be to Allah) 100 times, 1,000 deeds are recorded for him or a 1,000 bad deeds are wiped away.
I have a question: how can we not know how exactly Fatima al Zahra died?
Disagree with the lower social status thing bro. Social status is related to lifestyle. I won't be able to get along with any villager for too long, and similarly any1 living in a huge mansion won't be able to gel with me either. The way one eats & drinks, lives, entertains himself are different for socio-economic groups. Plus I remember my mum helping me with homework when I was a child. With homeschooling getting popular now, for some parents the mum being educated to a certain level is important. And no, of course I don't believe getting a university degree is necessarily education. But I can't imagine a villager raising my kids with the values I want and they'd be too dumb to teach my kids how the world works as well. If anything they might put tons of superstitions into their heads!
agree with this but i wonder how hes gonna elaborate on that point
You reap what you sow! Were the wives of Prophets and Sahabas “educated” in today’s term of “education”? And how did the wives of prophets and great Sahabiat raised their kids? Did they produced mama boy kids like today’s TikTok buffoon clowns ?
You said you don’t agree with the lower status thing but then you contradicted yourself by saying that you won’t get along with someone who grew up in mansion, as you will be lower status compared to them.
And you make a stereotypical ignorant assumption that people from the village are uneducated and too dumb to teach your kids. This isn’t true as you will find many families who are educated. Most people who have immigrant parents who came from villages will obviously disagree with you.
Understandable, but unfortunately these days “super high educated woman” = careerist feminist. This is the sad reality which is why more men prefer village women from subcon or North Africa.
So if men go and marry women from a village back home, who do the women marry?
The voiceover interruptions were annoying.
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May ALLAH SW bless your daewa work my dear you are street forward person your daewa direct and clear I respect such kind of powerful influential person (you) habibi!!!!!!!!! May ALLAH SW bless you and your beloved family including your lovely son Isah !!!!!!
اللهم من اراد للمسلمين خيرا فوفقه الى كل خير
Barak Allah feekum
انَا اختكمَ مَن اليمَن وّالَلَه ماتكلمتَ الَا من جوّع وًّمن الفقر انَا وًّامَيَ وًّخَوًّاتَيَ تَشَرَدَنَا مَنَ بَيَوًّتَنَا بَسَبَبَ الَحَرَبَ نَحَنَ فَيَ حَالَهَ لَايَعَلَمَ بَهَا الَا الَلَهَ حَسَبَنَا الَلَهَ وًّنَعَمَ الَوكيَلَ فَيَ مَنَ اوًّصَلَنَا الَى هَاذا الَحَالَ 💔💔وًّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ مَا كتَبَتَ هَذا الَمَنَاشَدَهَ غَيَرَ مَنَ الَضَيَقَ وّالَفَقَر يَاعَالَمَ حَسَوّا فَيَنَا ارَجَوّكمَ وّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ رَبَ الَعَرَشَ الَعَظَيَمَ انَه الَاكلَ مَا فَيَ عَنَدَيَ بَالَبَيَتَ وًّالَلَهَ يَا اخَوّانَيَ انَهَ خَوًّاتيَ بَقَعَدَوًّ بَالَيَوًّمَيَنَ مَافَى اكلَ وًّالَلَهَ وًّضَعَنَا كثَيَرَ صَعَبَ نَحَنَ 6 نَفَرَ دَاخَلَ الَبَيَتَ وًّابَيَ مَتَوًّفَيَ وًّلَا يَوًّجَدَ مَنَ يَعَوًّلَ عَلَيَنَا وًّسَاكنَيَنَ فَيَ بَيَتَ اجَارَ لَانَسَتَطَيَعَ دَفَعَ الَاجَارَ الَلَيَ بَاقَيَ عَلَيَنَا ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه نازحين من الحرب انا واسرتي بيننا ایت الشهرب 15 الف يمني والان علينا 45 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع رحمه واحنا. بلادنا بسبب هذا الحرب ولانجد قوت يومنا وعايشين اناوامي وخواتي سفار والدنا متوفي الله يرحمه ومامعنا أحد في هذا الدنيا جاانبنا في هذه الظروف القاسيه خواتي الصغار خرجو للشارع وشافو الجيران ياكلو واوقفو عند بابهم لجل يعطوهم ولو كسره خبز والله الذي له ملك السموات والارض انهم غلفو الباب وطردوهم ورجعو یبکو ایموتو من الجوع ما احد رحمهم وعطلة ردها لقمت عیش والان لوما احدنا ساعدنا في إيكيلو دقيق اقسم بالله انموت من الجوع فيا اخي انا دخيله على الله ثم عليك واريد منك المساعده لوجه الله انشدك بالله تحب الخير واتساعدني تراسلي واتساب على هذا الرقم 00967717415667 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولاتتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير ساعدنا وأنقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع تتبهدل أو نموت من الجوع وانا واسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعد لاتتاخر علينا وجزاك الله خيرا،.،.،:^:؛^:🎉°~°~^~°^π√^π√~π~√~√~π^~^~π~π~√√~~ππ~π√~~^^°^°€€لب🎉🎉❤❤🎉..
Refusing to marry or eat meat is a clear bidah:
"I will not marry women; someone among them said: I will not eat meat; and someone among them said: I will not lie down in bed. He (the Holy Prophet) praised Allah and glorified Him, and said: What has happened to these people that they say so and so, whereas I observe prayer and sleep too; I observe fast and suspend observing them; I marry women also? And he who turns away from my Sunnah, he has no relation with Me" [Bukhari 1401]
Everyone has their own reasons for not getting married. I have my own reasons. That doesn't make it wrong.
Refusing to marry is not a bidah . There is another hadith where a female companion ( may Allah be pleased with her ) refused to marry than the Prophet ( Peace and blessing be upon him ) approved her speech/decision. As for the hadith you are quoting, it is for those who think they will get closer to Allah by abstaining from getting married or by fasting every day or by praying every night .
@@ahmadfared1204 Refusing to marry a particular person is not the same as refusing to marry generally. What I am referring to here is deciding to remain celibate for one's whole life as the person in this hadith said.
@SIGSEGV1337 The hadith that I am referring to is in general since she said that she will never get married not just to a particular person but in general ( for the rest of her life ) . Plus , the hadith you are referring to does not mean that not marrying is haram/or against the sunnah; it is referring to those who think that not getting married will become a better Muslim or get closer to Allah .
@@ahmadfared1204
"The hadith that I am referring to is in general since she said that she will never get married not just to a particular person but in general ( for the rest of her life ) ."
Bring me this hadith.
"; it is referring to those who think that not getting married will become a better Muslim or get closer to Allah ."
The Prophet (PBUH) did not say this.
Gabirel our legend
Overkill with the smoke effect otherwise fine. Just voice over is enough😅