7 Highly Attractive Feminine Traits Men Love *game changer*
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Chapters:
Intro - 0:00-1:51
I. Love being a woman - 1:52-3:29
II. Demure - 3:30-6:16
III. Tenderness 6:17-7:46
IV. Allow him to lead 7:47-9:40
V. Be soft spoken 9:41-10:24
VI. Open-minded & open-hearted 10:25-11:38
VII. Respect his space 11:39-13:08
VIII. (Bonus) Be intentional with how you treat others 13:09-13:44
Outro - 13:45-14:12
What I'm wearing: Top from Reformation
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Hello everyone, welcome to my channel! I'm Jasmyne Theodora, I'm an Orthodox Christian and I make content about the art of femininity (from a virtuous, Godly perspective), lost female education, and traditionalism. Please do subscribe if you enjoy my content and thank you so much for watching.
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Height - 5'9"
Race - Biracial (black & white)
Religion - Orthodox Christian
Background - Bachelor's degree in psychology
Relationship status - Married
Location - Pacific Northwest
Favorite book about femininity - "Eve in Exile"
Some favorite Bible verses - Proverbs 31, 1 Peter 3:3-4, 1 Timothy 3:11
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(if you see this, comment an unpopular opinion of yours!) - Jak na to + styl
I'm 52 and single, never married. My career sucked the life out of me. This advice is very accurate. As you get older, good men are harder to find.
Trust me you're missing out on nothing a lot of people are in relationships and pretending to be happy for social media
@@aprilchow-chee5281 Straight up facts! I know people right now who aren't in miserable relationships but of course, they have flex for social media.
Good men are not hard to find. The problem is that as we grew up ,weâre surrounded by a certain type of relationships be it with out parents, brothers or others, therefore, we tend to choose men based on what has been modelled for us.. sometimes we need to look at our thoughts and behaviours when it comes to men.
Her husband is white and not the sjw white because his wife is biracial and not the I donât listen to rap âfilthâ, Im not sista soldier until she is 40 and truth comes out which is filth music and sjw.
@@trvvn5977 omg! I absolutely agree with you. I believe we should never ever compare men with the men we have relationships with [ brother, father, cousin or ex boyfriends] just pray for the best and be ready to accept.
Iâm 70 now, I am so thrilled you are doing this now. Woman donât have any speaking truth to them now. Thank you sweet lady.
This is so kind, thanks so much â€
Topic request (this video made me think of this): "Character traits to look for in a masculine partner" or "Red flags to look out for when choosing a partner". You've spoken about making sure women only choose men worth submitting to, do I'd love to hear more about what that type of person is like.
@@xigbarii8432 Thx!
Great suggestion!
Please stick with the topics of what it is being a woman. There are a lot of women who don't have a clue to what it means. I am that woman
Iâm a very outgoing, extroverted woman and in past relationships Iâve always been pushed into the masculine role. I would lead the dance because he didnât know how to, I would start convos, I would plan dates, I was always the one who made the first move because I got tired of waiting on him. So naturally everybody thought that I wouldnât want a very masculine man. They were very very surprised when they met my husband. I just think this goes to show how society pushes young women who are outgoing to be independent and the whole â I donât need a manâ when what they really want is their man to take the lead
You took on the masculine roll and even chose men that were weak so you could. Itâs how you keep control. I am trying to heal from this and itâs not easy.
If you wanted him to take the lead you would. You like to be in charge. Rawr
@@uok6216 yes I did
Amen
I understand a lot of men don't know how to be men and it forces women to have to lead. I'm happy you dropped that man and got someone who knew better
I am always mesmerized by how eloquently she expresses herself that I often find myself missing the point and have to go back. I wonder how she developed such deep and rich vocabulary and explain all her points without stuttering or saying âummâ âlikeâ etc. How I wish I can speak like this.
Same! Iâm finding it common in Orthodox circles. Iâm not sure if Jasmyne had this vocabulary before converting, so perhaps the kind of people that Orthodox attracts are already studious beings đ€·đœââïž
I think the important thing to note here is 'be selective who you open up to'. I used to be like this, but I have met too many men claiming to be 'highly empathetic', only to show up as very controlling and manipulative. So if you are in a relationship with someone you can trust, go for it. :) But a man who demand that you behave this way, without respecting you, don't be too soft with him. Because chances are he will abuse the trust you give him. Don't treat him like a king, if he treats you like a peasant.
Oh yes I do not believe a man should âdemandâ femininity from a woman at all! Itâll be counterintuitive, firstlyâŠ.
Agree with a lot of these points! As soon as I stopped forcing myself to be âone of the boysâ and embraced what I really am, a girl, I attracted a kind and loving man who is confident in himself and actually puts work into our relationship! Love your vids! Please make the mothering men video, got a lot of sisters who would need to see it lol! â€ïžâ€ïž
1. Express your love of being a woman. (Embrace femeninity)
2. Be demure (instead of proud to inspire the protective nature of men).
3. Be tender, soft hearted to help him decompress from the challenges of life.
4. Allow him to lead.
5. Be soft spoken or calm instead of yelling or becoming aggressive to help him receive your ideas.
6. Be open minded and open hearted so you can follow his lead and provide balance.
7. Respect his space, by not pushing him to express himself beyond his comfort zone.
8. Express your love for others
He adores my tenderness, my shy and reversed aura/personality, how femenine and elegant I am when I am not even trying to do it or act like that, he pointed out how I treat people and create a difference between them and us. He actually protects me even in the small things, fix my hair, remove the dirt on my jeans when we sit on the ground, leads he way... I like him, and it is mutual.
He is the first man I really want to try something with.
Aww this is really sweet, I hope things went well for youâ€
Women need more feminine role models to look up to and take advice from. Thank you for the beautiful content and energy đžđâš
You are one of my favorites here on CZcams! I am a Muslim woman and this resonates with me immensely. Thank you Jasmyne đ
Same ! I'm a muslim woman too and I this is just perfectly relatable!
Omg me too!
Muslim woman as wellđ†ramadan starts soon
Muslim too and I love this sisters channel!
same đ
Im a simple girl, when JT posts, I get excitedđ
Same!!
besides the amazing and realistic advice and content,I really want to appreciate the fact that this woman is so beautiful and pretty omg
I would love a character analysis of Bella!! Actually, that would be a really great series from you-misunderstood heroines. I could see Bella Swan, Sansa Stark, and Arwen from Lord of the Rings being some really good characters to start with! They are usually not everyoneâs favorite character because their femininity is mistaken for weakness by many people. I believe there is a deeper resiliency within all of these characters, it would be so interesting to explore that!
Keep up the great content â€
I love arwen!! She's amazing! And aragorn... drool!! đ đ
Yes yesđđ i would love this.
I stopped the video to say WOW. This is truly for me!!! Iâm actually a single mother and currently engaged by the grace of God. Iâve been taking lead for a while and making my own decisions and having to let my guard down to let someone else lead Phew itâs hard. And that part about speaking softly and gently etc itâs also for me.
Sister thank you for taking the time to do these videos. Youâre a blessing for me with these videos you do.
Peace be with you and your family
-Mariađ
I can listen to you forever...your voice is giving>>>>your energy >>>your message>>> the way you articulate yourself is so beautiful as you're â€ïžâ€ïž
Another lovely video. There is a lack of this kind of content on CZcams in a time when it is so desperately needed, I am grateful for you! I am a young woman that is in the early stages of my first relationship, but I am finding myself so lost on how to be with him, I guess it is because of the lack of relationship experience in which that will come in time. Watching your videos helps to make things clearer.
Very much looking forward to the video on women not "mothering" their husbands/boyfriends. I've seen this phenomenon play out with friends, it was rather disturbing to witness and when I realized that this dynamic was at the core of their relationship, it made my skin crawl. I definitely think the topic needs to be seriously addressed.
Thank you for your insight, it is a very much needed light in the darknessâ€đŻ
I wanted to clarify something:
Around 6:23, I said âMost men have a tough life, universally so compared to women of the same background.â
The way I worded that, it sounds like I believe men have had tougher lives than women overall. I donât think men have had overall tougher lives than women⊠itâs impossible to quantify/evaluate how tough a manâs life is vs a womanâs life and I do not want to discount the challenges women face. I have also said in other videos that itâs impossible & unproductive to compare. So I just wanted to clarify that⊠I definitely should have worded that better. My apologies. Thank you so much for watching and Iâll make sure to do better â€
we as men do overall have tougher lives, its harder for us to survive and live, its even hard for us to get sex from women or even get someone of the opposite sex.
We dont have society protecting us or helping us to survive.
Your video really shook me. it resonates with me and i agree with what you're saying. until now Ive been very lonely, I seem to attract only "weak" men in my life. i think because in my family i had a lot of conflict with super masculine men, I tried to fight them head on and left my feminine traits behind. I really regret becoming hard and defensive. I hope I can one day be more the version of myself that I long to be and to find the right man
I'm so glad I found you jasmine, I'm binge watching all your videos, in this day and age, we need this
Great video! Praying that you hit 100k subs soon.
I agree with your topic idea on "how to avoid mothering your man"!! I struggle with keeping that boundary in how I treat my husband, so I would benefit from such a video.
I love how raw and honest you are!! Iâm 26 and itâs so refreshing to see a young woman around my age embrace being feminine đ
bestie wake up a new jasmyne video just dropped
đđđ„čđ I need to upload more!!
â@@JasmyneTheodora dont worry take your time :) your other videos have been very helpful btw and i rewatch them from time to time your like a big sister to me lol
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Your femininity is so inspiring. Thank you for making some of the best femininity content on CZcams. đž
amazing video, excellent advice. Very validating.
What struck me was when you said a good man will lead you with love and will put your needs before his. How opposite of how I see men often treat women nowadays, where all they care about is themselves and their own needs.
As a man who is not a Christian, I still definitely agree with everything she says here. She hits the nail on the head
Thank you kindly!
Ur hair is growing! I donât watch your vids because they donât apply to me, but I think youâre beautiful and have a warmth about you.
I love the part you said about the house/home exists to serve the family not the other way around. I was a bit of a âclean freakâ and itâs hard to maintain a clean house when you have more children making a mess. But the mess reminds me I have children, 4 in all - oh what a blessing! I need to refocus my energy on this season while they are young. It is hard to find that balance when you are also going thru peri menopause therefore more irritable. Thanks for making this content. âșïž
I absolutely love your content and cannot wait to learn from the rest of your content. Also, you have an expansive vocabulary and I crave to attain your level of speech, so intelligent, so fluent.
That is very true, my ex was very attracted to all of that but it was something I was doing something naturally but we found that we werenât compatible. One thing Iâd say, to embrace your feminine side, a guy will love that and also to be confident and value yourself. If you find that you are being more masculine⊠you should not be with them⊠because theyâll be a burden. Itâs up to any woman if they want to⊠but whatâs going to happen if your husband doesnât support you or is afraid everything and you have to control everything because he isnât helping?? Be with a guy who embraces your feminine side not in a toxic way but embraces the kind parts and love you in a kind, and patient way. I love these tips and it makes me happy that Iâve changed so much.
I need a video on how to be soft spoken because growing up in a household where mom always raised her voice whenever she got irritated or whenever she got into an argument with my father. I just picked up her habits and I feel bad because whenever me and my spouse get into an arguement I yell.. say stuff I donât mean.. disrespect him and then after the heat cools it makes me feel awful but I have a hard time with self control I let my feelings control me đ
Maybe therapy. What you are doing is a learned behavior
In the same boat here, unfortunately, I'd love that video too.
In short, what I infer from your such a superb message is, women who are mother like in love& daughter like in innocence are adored glorified by men.
Long live,God bless you,dear sister, love from Indiađâ€ïž
Jasmine đThankful for your intellectually soft feminine style is uniquely disciplining the love of our Savior from a feminine perspective đ†I'm looking forward to the talk on "NOT Mothering your man"
OMG the way you break this down and educate so effortlessly and with scripture to back it up I love that so happy I found you channel I will be subscribing.
Great points thank you! Please do the video about not mothering your man. Especially when dating a younger man, you want to help them avoid pitfalls but that can so easily turn into mothering if not restrained.
I always used to ask my partner why he loves me "coz external validation lol" one time he answered "because of your femenine attributes" I got so pissed and took it the wrong way, thinking he meant my body, but that was so ignorant from my part but at the time I hated that answer, but looking back it the most beautiful thing any man has said to me, he made me become more soft, gentle and nurturing by being a leader and a strong masculine man who takes initiative, I didn't value it then but I've opened up my eyes to the wonderful relationship we created based on our complementary energies, it's the happiest I've been and the most relaxed ever, and you Jasmyne helped me a lot to heal my femininity we always wait for your videos and watch them together thank you so much may God bless you and your beautiful family love and peace â€
This was just beautiful advice to me. This feminine perspective is needed by alot of us women who know and appreciate the difference between masculinity and femininity.
I totally enjoyed this video Jasmyn, love the subtle background music, suits the theme of the video! love your carriage and presentation as well, you've earned a subscriber â€
Had to click straight away!! And girl you are glowing!đ€©đ€©Must be that mama glowđđ
Great advice . Youâre also so well spoken đ
Hey Jasmyne, excellent videos as always. I found you recently and have already finished watching ALL of your videos! I really enjoy your content. I would also love to see your hair routine, its always looking flawless!! Thanks a lot for sharing your videos with us
Yes to the video for mothering your man and how some men also crave it! Would love to hear you talk about this as I noticed it often creates a polarity problem too where the man starts leaning back and the woman is the giver. I love your content and it always helps me so much
Thank you so much for this video Jasmyne, I feel like a lot of young girls are lacking this kind of information in their lives, (including myself) so I am incredibly grateful that you took the time to make this video! when you were on the topic of demure women, I was actually thinking of the character Bella before you brought her up, so I was surprised when you did! This was such a great video, and I think you should definitely make a video on how to avoid mothering your man if you were considering it already! I would love to see a video on how to find a man who is right for you and how to go about expressing your attraction to him, or how to tell if a guy likes you, modern dating is so confusing to me as a young female with Christian values, who is not even allowed to date at my age, and I don't want to be lost when my time actually comes to search for someone. Love you!
Wow these are totally things that I have been working upon lately and even some points were brought up in our last fight between my husband and I
I loved this video. Very informative, thank you!
Just discovered your channel such a blessing!! Thank you so much for making videos and for quoting scripture in them đđ
This popped up as a recommended video. You've shared what I needed to learn what I was looking for. You've got a beautiful voice which soothe my nerve after a very long day. God knew what I wanted. Subscribed! â€
Popped up as a recommended 4me 2
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A big YES to a video on how to avoid mothering him. Can't wait!đ P.S thank you for always dropping gems đđ
loved the topic! I was thinking you should do a series on dating like who should make the first move etc. Btw love your hair!
I am a young woman and have been trying to be intentional about rediscovering and becoming a feminine and godly woman. Thank you for your channel because it has given me alot of direction in the midst of today's culture. May God bless you and your family â€â€
đł Woah! I'm signing that. Same!đ
As a guy, everything you say is true, I assure you. Real men want real women, not the nonsense promoted via media
Thank you for your video, the tipps help alot đ could you do a video about how to be in your feminine energy when you work fulltime and need all those masculine traits. It's hard to switch sometimes
I love you Jasmyne; you're incredible on so many levels.
Love this! Also you have the most stunning hair - can we get a hair tutorial please? đ I have the exact same curl pattern but I'm not so good at styling it
thanks for the video, jasmyne â„ïž could you PLEASE consider making a video about mortification? i have been told i should manifest my life, and that created a HUGE attachment to certain emotional states. i have become weak and cannot carry my cross properly đ„
I am looking forward to the "how to stop mothering your man video". Great video!đđŸ
Jasmyne, thanks so much for your videos. Whenever I watch your videos I can always feel this calm and peaceful and feminine vibe which cures my anxiety. It would be so good if you could do a video of the advices you would give to young girls who just finished uni and about to get into next stage in life:)
I'm working on myself to be more attractive đ. Praying more and believing that marriage is on it's way in God's perfect timingâ€
youre so well spoken and beautiful, thank you for the nuggets
Young wife here (almost 22) and made lots of mistakes so far. GLAD i found your channel!!
I love this. I love that you used Twilight references. â€
Hi Jasmyne! I love all of your rich content. Iâve even been researching and considering Orthodoxy. I would love to see a video on books youâve read that have influenced your perspectives on femininity. Iâve already read Eve in Exile and absolutely loved it.
You and Joyce (Bindi Marc)are my favorites in this space. Thanks for your knowledge, time and willingness to share.
You hands down have one of the most soothing voices. I love listening to you. You could be saying "twinkle twinkle little star" and I would love it đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł. I know you didn't really touch on any physical traits but I was for years the made up, dressed up, wigs, long nails, tons of jewelry girl but now I have a more simple natural appearance. I would say well groomed "clean girl look" and masculine men really seem to love that too. Oh, a bonus, toss your jeans and wear a dress and watch what happens đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Thank you so much for posting this. I wish I had known this much earlier in life. I feel like it's maybe a little too late for me but I know it will help a lot of women out there. Not going to lie, it has me in tears. I'm angry at myself for what I've become. I'm ashamed for what I've done. I'm resentful for what I've given. I just have to act like things can change for the better.
I love listening to you, Jasmyne. Your information and expression are always so enchanting đ§ââïž
I also love God and love how you explain His character!
I've never had a truly healthy female role model. To me you embody the Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 woman.
Thank You, Lord God, for beautiful Jasmyne đ
You are so beautiful, Jasmyne!
I'm always so excited to see your face!đđ€
I feel called out by the "respect his space" segment đ. This made me realize how annoying I must be. I have intense mothering energy, so I look forward to your video!
I love this video! Please do a male version, or maybe a video along the lines of what makes a good man. Thank you so much x
This was such a refreshing video đ€
100% correct on everything you said! Amazing video!
Thank you very much for this video. I will be 30 yo in two months. And after listening to you encouraging women to love being women is very refreshing... I grew up telling myself "I hate being a woman... I would have wanted to be a man... It was reflected by my demeanor. I acted like a guy and was extremely combative... Which isn't bad but I came accross as aggressive. Today I understand I shouldn't have been like that. I never really understood the negative impact these kind of thoughts had on me...
Thank you Jasmyne!â€
You are an amazing woman. You are speaking so freely and intelligently. Everything you mention is so well-thought-out. These comment are coming from a 78
This is a whole needed ministry.
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Another amazing video!! I try to have these points run through my mind all the time. A video on how to not mother your husband would be fantastic... looking forward to it!
I'm a 19 year old man and a police man in education. I developed my masculinity a lot the past year. Achieved a good body, looksmaxed a lot, became focused on my goals (working a side hustle), became someone with self respect, no simping and improved my male aggression. Lastly, always stay humble!
Mainly watched Hamza and I was hoping to see self-improvement youtubers for young women as well and these actually exist LOL.
I watched some of your content and it nails every time. Listen to her girls! If you wanna find the right man.
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Who is Hamza
@@SairaSabir1443AH A rather controversial man who helps young men improve their life true self-improvement and masculinity. There are a few things I don't agree with him, but I still follow a ton of his advice which made me the man I am today.
@A sister in Christ im none of the pills
This popped up on my feed out of the blue. Such refreshing content. Thank you! Iâm certain in todays climate you get a certain amount of bs, but this is solid advice. Thank youâ€â€
I would love if you could make a video on some great books that have allowed you to build and extend your knowledge on divine femininity and submission. If you even have some to suggest in your reply that would be so great. Your videos have been such a blessing & the world needs more of this thank you! đ
You are revealing a lot of things women don't want revealed in this video. Very good, Very educational. Thank you and Thank you.
Thank you so much for this video know i am definitely going to keep an eye out on how I am around him and how I talk to him but majority of this stuff I already do so this is really amazing and thank you recent subscriber hereâ€
Your vocabulary is outstanding!!! Iâve had to look up a few words and I love that!
Thanks! đ
Your hair looks so beautiful today đ
Great video (: Iâll keep an eye out for the video idea mentioned âHow to avoid mothering your husbandâ
Thank you for yet another amazing video! I was wondering if you could do a video on Christian and birth control use or what are the best birth control options because so many cone with hormonal effects.
I SO SO love that she made the distinction that a Christian wife should submit to her Christian HUSBAND. So many men are expecting for their girlfriend, side chick, Godless situationship etc to submit to them and I do not think that is a reasonable expectation. No judgement at all for these types of relationships I just find it unproductive when some men complain that women in that type of relationship are not submissive to them.
I hope you've been enjoying your time off with baby! Missed this content so much!!
Thank you so much for this video, really love your content.
Glad you enjoy it!
We Need a hair Routine omg. And i am so happy you are back and healty â€
Really enlightening đ thank you
Hey Jasmyne! I really love your videos and I'm not sure if you've thought or talked about it before, but I would really enjoy it if you started a podcast â€ïž
Thanks alot this is always what he asks for. This is very helpful.
I have all these traits. Confident but demure, love dressing nice, receptive but not demanding. But I was instead taken advantage of. AGAIN and AGAIN. Life was extremely rough on me, more so than most men (or anyone) I know. So it's hard for a woman like me who has a rare set of harsh difficulties and forced to be more hard in my outlook, to find a man who is strong enough and wise enough to protect me. I don't feel I'm smarter than anyone but when it comes to life's tough realities, I've unfortunately had to mature a lot faster in some ways, and so I can't find anyone on the same wisdom level. I can't be someone's peaceful person anymore, I need someone who can give ME peace. Because it was stolen from me :,(
Hey! I feel what youâre going through and yes it can suck sometimes, but I promise you that life will get better and youâd definitely find a man who adores you and cares for you and understands your needs!
†you will meet the right person â€
U have to change yourself and you will see things around you changing, I hope you will find him, you have to search at the good place. And dont worry, there will always be men above you
That's amazing!
Loved your advice and definitely need that video
Glad you liked it!! Will be coming soon!
I would give you a countless amount of likes if I could but sadly I can only give you one. God bless you ! You always make me smile and I love your strong softness . You are inspirational for many. I remember you mentioned that you wanted to make a video about balancing hormones and I know you recently gave birth and are busy but if you find the time and want to talk about it , it would help immensely.
New subscriber and I'm already obsessed with your content
Welcome!! đđ thank you!!
loved this video
Love your Cross chain!
I love your videos so much and im al glad i found you to watch because many morals that you live by i also do too i been looking for advice and videos like this and im so glad i found it