Patty Loveless - You Don't Even Know Who I Am

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  • Music video by Patty Loveless performing You Don't Even Know Who I Am. (C) 1993 Sony Music Entertainment
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  • @rikkiwade5596
    @rikkiwade5596 Před 3 měsíci +46

    When you love a song growing up, and you listen to it at 40 with some life under your belt, and it makes you weep.

  • @ronp8865
    @ronp8865 Před 4 lety +1594

    When I was in high school I didn't have to go searching for good music, it was on the radio. I miss the 90's.

    • @geraldcheetham9330
      @geraldcheetham9330 Před 4 lety +19

      same

    • @76adrienne
      @76adrienne Před 4 lety +9

      Peach 🙌🏻

    • @michaelsizemore4667
      @michaelsizemore4667 Před 4 lety +22

      Ron P 90’s we’re the last good era in Country Music before it went to hip hop

    • @sakeeler
      @sakeeler Před 4 lety +26

      Damn right. Nobody knows what music is today. It's just getting drunk and jacked up trucks on repeat. There's no emotion anymore.

    • @mollyjordan9629
      @mollyjordan9629 Před 3 lety +4

      Me too

  • @donchapman1122
    @donchapman1122 Před 4 měsíci +94

    48 years old here...married 20+ years...with 3 GREAT kiddos!...Me and my wife struggle with issues like this....EVERY Day!...This song was what "County Music "...used to be!

    • @gingerharris7583
      @gingerharris7583 Před 4 měsíci

      You have no idea,I've been with the same man for a long time and he still tells me that his ex is better than me!

    • @xtreme3353
      @xtreme3353 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@gingerharris7583 wow I'm so very sorry to hear (read) this

    • @deborahfolwer2989
      @deborahfolwer2989 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Well Ginger tell him to go back to the ex and you get out of Dodge. No respect is worse than loneliness.

    • @robertjackson6588
      @robertjackson6588 Před 3 měsíci

      cut's tooooo the bone ..........

    • @dianapatrick4482
      @dianapatrick4482 Před 3 měsíci

      Oh but you feel this song , so I think you & yours will be ok.. this is also me & my husband, 37 yrs married now . 💓💔❤️

  • @donbirak9119
    @donbirak9119 Před 3 lety +502

    Sad story of two people who forgot why they loved each other and grew apart. Patty’s stylings are powerful.

    • @valleyguy633
      @valleyguy633 Před 3 lety +21

      One of the many great things about Patty is that you can understand almost every word of every song.

    • @wesgreen8118
      @wesgreen8118 Před 3 lety +9

      This song saved me once I wonder if 2 is to much to ask

    • @tracylyn85
      @tracylyn85 Před 3 lety +14

      Been there unfortunately and this song explains it all I miss the 90s

    • @adamwhitfield5571
      @adamwhitfield5571 Před 3 lety +9

      @@wesgreen8118 nope!! It's not brother!
      This is life, it happens to the best of us. And man sometimes we just need that reminder.
      God bless u my man.

    • @adamwhitfield5571
      @adamwhitfield5571 Před 3 lety +2

      @@tracylyn85 100%

  • @Channel4029
    @Channel4029 Před 3 lety +676

    Married 43 years and I am so thankful this song does not describe us. Just love each other as if you had just put those rings on each others fingers. Don't ever take each other for granted.

    • @genec4599
      @genec4599 Před 3 lety +20

      God bless you

    • @bobbygzzz7116
      @bobbygzzz7116 Před 3 lety +17

      Very lucky..cherish it all..marriage is a job...i learned the hard way

    • @adamwhitfield5571
      @adamwhitfield5571 Před 3 lety +11

      God bless yall!!!!!!!!!!
      That's so awesome to hear!!!!

    • @pattyloveless6093
      @pattyloveless6093 Před 2 lety +11

      Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on pattylovelessfl@gmail.com
      I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

    • @ginag669
      @ginag669 Před 2 lety +19

      Don't get too comfortable.. Shit happens 😳

  • @jamesbonnell8843
    @jamesbonnell8843 Před rokem +258

    Patty sings this song with so much emotion that if you don’t get a tear in your eye there is something wrong with you!! Very emotionally done by one of the best female country music singers of our time!! Beautiful sad love song!! I agree 100% that Patty Loveless belongs in the Country Music Hall of Fame as a singer!!

    • @ginadisbrow9324
      @ginadisbrow9324 Před 11 měsíci +7

      Just unbelievable that she's not yet been inducted. However, I haven't researched whether or not she resides in TN. I found out only lately that it is a stipulation of a CM artist. That is the only reason that George Strait has never been inducted. He's always decided to remain a resident of TX. I think this rule is just preposterous.

    • @twylah9047
      @twylah9047 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Come on now its a Song...

    • @sanctuspiox
      @sanctuspiox Před 9 měsíci +1

      I MISS my wife….she left me for another man, left me and our 4 little children😢It’s been over 23 years since and I still 😔

    • @maryaustria3927
      @maryaustria3927 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@sanctuspioxsorry to hear

    • @darrellgarrett72
      @darrellgarrett72 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@sanctuspiox23 years? Maybe it’s time to move on

  • @mandyabbott1939
    @mandyabbott1939 Před 3 měsíci +15

    THE GREATEST FEMALE RECORDING ARTIST OF ALL TIME!

  • @bryce1597
    @bryce1597 Před 5 měsíci +72

    When someone asks for a sad song, I play this one. Absolutely heart wrenching stuff.

    • @TheHavrelandtExperiment
      @TheHavrelandtExperiment Před 4 měsíci +2

      Listen to She Never Stopped Loving Him, that song makes me cry like a baby every time I listen to it even though I know how it ends. My throat gets a knot in it and it's so painfull.

  • @adamwilliams5417
    @adamwilliams5417 Před rokem +141

    Modern country should take note..this is country music at it's finest

  • @charitysteveboisseau5989
    @charitysteveboisseau5989 Před 3 měsíci +3

    "He called to tell her he was sorry, but couldn't remember what for..." One of the saddest lines of any song....I love this song...I always like to think that they get back together in the end, despite it all.

  • @chad1018791
    @chad1018791 Před 4 měsíci +11

    My wife told me she used to sing this about me and I deserve every ounce of it. When we were first together and then some I took her for granted and treated her like crap. She did stick around for me and I honestly can’t believe she did and it breaks my heart that I broke hers so much

    • @Brandigarrison372
      @Brandigarrison372 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I wish my husband would see it before it is too late.

    • @dra4myboys
      @dra4myboys Před 3 dny

      I have loved this song for 20 years. The sad part is, when I left he finally came around to the man I fell in love with. I was already gone, I do miss him.

  • @Dishtech48
    @Dishtech48 Před 8 měsíci +33

    This woman , Never got the fame attention, she well Deserved ! Doesn't get any better than this... Thank You Patty Loveless................................

  • @Amalia-no7xt
    @Amalia-no7xt Před 2 lety +351

    Still sounds amazing almost 30 years later 💗💗💗

  • @lonnyjohnson2061
    @lonnyjohnson2061 Před 3 lety +177

    Patty Loveless sings it like she's lived it. You know she feels it.

  • @SusieDaw-ix6pv
    @SusieDaw-ix6pv Před 7 měsíci +14

    Still here in Nov of 2023. I'm 67 years old, all of the great music has been done in my lifetime. I'm blessed!!! Most everything I've heard on the radio as they were moving up the charts!

  • @jeffarmstrong-vv5jd
    @jeffarmstrong-vv5jd Před rokem +102

    Mostly a metal head but when I need my country fix, Patty is where I start. Voice that will bring you to tears. There will never be another like her.

    • @GlennLandry-dd2ux
      @GlennLandry-dd2ux Před 11 měsíci +5

      Yes . Country at it's best.

    • @user-qj2hk2ho4c
      @user-qj2hk2ho4c Před 11 měsíci +2

      How strong is your arm for lovelee

    • @davidhrahsel
      @davidhrahsel Před 11 měsíci +5

      We are the same bro, I'm also listen country music like country pop, bluegrass, country rock But my favorite genre of music is Rock n' Roll like Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Aerosmith etc etc...

  • @juliahale9247
    @juliahale9247 Před 4 lety +632

    I miss country music from the 90s. There wasn't a song you couldn't relate to somehow. Nowa days it's all about trucks and beer. Smh

    • @utubecrimequeen
      @utubecrimequeen Před 4 lety +7

      Julia Hale I agree!!!💯💯💯💯

    • @paultykwinski1365
      @paultykwinski1365 Před 4 lety +8

      I miss the old tunes that started the real outlaw country like johny cash and friends look to the past to find real music

    • @sunsgaming1828
      @sunsgaming1828 Před 4 lety +3

      I do also

    • @shanemartinez135
      @shanemartinez135 Před 4 lety +10

      Exactly.. it's more pop than County now 🙄

    • @photonotavailable7936
      @photonotavailable7936 Před 4 lety +8

      Julia Hale Agree. I miss country music from the ‘80s and ‘90s, specifically, ‘84 to ‘95. CZcams is my time machine.

  • @gil52680
    @gil52680 Před 2 měsíci +10

    This song is all about communication and remembering your other half. We sometime get stuck in our routines and forget to charish eachother.

    • @BaahBen
      @BaahBen Před 2 měsíci

      t takes two..Remember that.

  • @SpaceTed
    @SpaceTed Před 8 měsíci +53

    Congrats on the Hall of Fame, Patty. So deserving!

    • @lyndagaines5165
      @lyndagaines5165 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Congratulations .
      You deserve to be there with Loretta Lynn.
      Patty you have an awesome voice.
      Love you singing with Vince Gill .

  • @RalphChichester
    @RalphChichester Před měsícem +3

    married to the same woman for 64 years. She will tell you that this song tells it all. When we look at are family, we thank GOD that we made it together. This song brings it all HOME. Patty is timeless. Love her.

  • @jacharysmama5193
    @jacharysmama5193 Před 4 lety +282

    Heartbreaking to understand exactly what she's saying...

    • @katiegauthier8814
      @katiegauthier8814 Před 4 lety

      @@maesbrit q

    • @annabreen1834
      @annabreen1834 Před 4 lety

      Polo

    • @annabreen1834
      @annabreen1834 Před 4 lety

      Renaee plll

    • @phillipgeorge4278
      @phillipgeorge4278 Před 4 lety +9

      I get it Sometimes we just grow apart but stay together for fear of being alone? I guess help me out jachary’s mama

    • @jacharysmama5193
      @jacharysmama5193 Před 4 lety +5

      @@phillipgeorge4278, I've never been afraid of being alone. Tbh, I'm not sure what the answer to that question is...

  • @azcactus2008
    @azcactus2008 Před 3 lety +200

    I love how this song covers both sides of the relationship. Fair is fair.

    • @jbill2986
      @jbill2986 Před 3 lety +4

      "All is fair in love and war?"

    • @azcactus2008
      @azcactus2008 Před 3 lety +9

      @@jbill2986 No. It’s just refreshing to see both sides of a relationship being represented honestly.

    • @jbill2986
      @jbill2986 Před 3 lety +1

      @@azcactus2008 didnt understand it as that. How do we know both are telling the truth?

    • @azcactus2008
      @azcactus2008 Před 3 lety +11

      @@jbill2986 you are hilarious. I guess we don’t know if either side is telling the truth. It’s just a story being told in a song. It’s nice to have a song sung by a woman that doesn’t come off like a man hating song. In this case I’ll give Patty Loveless the benefit of the doubt.🤣🤣

    • @jbill2986
      @jbill2986 Před 3 lety +3

      @@azcactus2008 her story is important ;)

  • @juniorsnyder404
    @juniorsnyder404 Před 2 lety +40

    Why she is not in the country music hall of fame is a travesty. Truly a heart and soul singer. I love her

  • @michaelcarter1882
    @michaelcarter1882 Před 6 měsíci +13

    I used to like this song when I was in high school but now that I'm 47 and been through a divorce it just hits me a lot different. I listen to this the other day and I cried for the first time in a long time. But it was good to let those tears out. I needed that release.

    • @Tillis_pam
      @Tillis_pam Před 5 měsíci

      You seem to be an amazing fan and my song has been a source of motivation, inspiration and strength to you. Your love for my songs gives me ideology of how amazing you're !
      I'd love us to continue this conversation privately to know more about you and your thoughts on my personality and songs.

  • @themxproductions
    @themxproductions Před 4 lety +269

    This is Country Music. It makes you feel real emotion.

    • @edwardhale2412
      @edwardhale2412 Před 11 měsíci

      Great Country Music with meaning. The crying sound of the Steel Guitar brings more life to the meaning of the song. This song ranks right up there with Sammy Kershaw Yard Sale. Love, Marriage, and Divorce.

  • @UsualSuspect47
    @UsualSuspect47 Před 3 lety +74

    This beautiful woman refused to sell out to the music machine. Patty had everything going for her. God given good looks, crazy vocal range and a rare sense of self worth with no ego. At any other time she would be the benchmark that others would aspire to, but I guess that's the way it goes sometimes.

  • @scottturner1504
    @scottturner1504 Před 3 lety +116

    Let me tell you how powerful this woman and her vocals are and the message in this song im a 48 year old man who listens to Tool and alice in chains...this girl is country

  • @nicnaciswack8681
    @nicnaciswack8681 Před 4 lety +82

    People are always understanding of the woman's perspective I like this song because it shows both perspectives

    • @raymondtobin5918
      @raymondtobin5918 Před 3 lety +7

      Yes, and for once, the husband isn't portrayed as some sort of moron jerk. It really is a song about two decent people realizing they have nothing in common except their children.

    • @rexdebruin4508
      @rexdebruin4508 Před 3 lety +2

      Truth - and it wasn't just on the Country stations either... Nirvana, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the list goes on. There's still good music in all genres today, but it seems that you have to look to places other than the radio to hear it.

    • @billybatchelor2863
      @billybatchelor2863 Před 3 lety

      Perfect 👌

    • @pattyloveless6093
      @pattyloveless6093 Před 2 lety +7

      Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on pattylovelessfl@gmail.com
      I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

    • @rickyshaner1891
      @rickyshaner1891 Před 2 lety +1

      If you seen a video of her in concert when she sings this song she says right at the start she sees the other perspective

  • @randytoye6657
    @randytoye6657 Před 4 lety +137

    Been married 13 years with 3 kids and this song is to fucking real that it kills me on the inside. The truth is just like poetry...and everybody hates fucking poetry!

    • @deannadevine4124
      @deannadevine4124 Před 2 lety +5

      That’s how u know it’s real

    • @rosaliewalker1655
      @rosaliewalker1655 Před 2 lety +10

      Amen!! So there now and the problem after you stay too long (26 years) you don't know how to physically check out even if you emotionally checked out a long time ago

    • @realcanadiangirl64
      @realcanadiangirl64 Před 2 lety +10

      @@rosaliewalker1655 I checked out twice. Once after 14 years, the next after ten. I've been alone for ten years but I'm never lonely like I was with them

    • @rosaliewalker1655
      @rosaliewalker1655 Před 2 lety +4

      @@realcanadiangirl64 I absolutely understand and very much appreciate your response. I've been married to a narcissistic bully for 26 years who also happens to be an alcoholic. But my youngest child just finished college so my next step is finding the courage to walk away. Alot of what kept me where I am (believe it or not) has to do with geography. I met him in the Army and moved to his hometown in Arkansas whereas my family is in Massachusetts which is 1,600 miles away

    • @arizonagirl8841
      @arizonagirl8841 Před 2 lety +7

      @@rosaliewalker1655 I walked away after 30 years with a narcissist. It's freeing & liberating and I'm finally happy with someone who is invested in me as I am them. Nothing toxic about this relationship. This is your life & your book. You have complete control of the ending. I pray you find the courage to close this chapter and finish your book with your own happy ending. Life is too short to love in misery, feeling broken and alone. May God bless you in whatever you choose to do. ❤️

  • @rodneyf.9595
    @rodneyf.9595 Před 4 lety +191

    I have lived this song for many years , time heals but doesn't let you ever forget.

    • @cpeet9346
      @cpeet9346 Před 3 lety +2

      Time hasn’t healed me!

    • @abrahudnall5744
      @abrahudnall5744 Před 3 lety +2

      Say it again 🙌 I think it's just a huge misconception that just because you've healed doesn't mean that wound or scar doesn't have a little burn now and again. Hopefully one day the little triggers, memories, thoughts that tend to escape, feelings that muddle in the middle... It's always just another thought away.

    • @rodneyf.9595
      @rodneyf.9595 Před 3 lety +2

      @@abrahudnall5744 yes I sure hope so the little trigger things that happen hopefully will not be as bad as time goes
      Thank you

    • @pattyloveless6093
      @pattyloveless6093 Před 2 lety +4

      Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on pattylovelessfl@gmail.com
      I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

    • @rodneyf.9595
      @rodneyf.9595 Před 2 lety +1

      @@pattyloveless6093 Thank you very much for your kind words 👍

  • @ginadisbrow9324
    @ginadisbrow9324 Před 11 měsíci +14

    Is this country music icon seriously still not inducted into the CM Hall of Fame? Her voice makes me cry with joy. And when paired with the likes of Vince Gill, the hair on the back of my neck stands up. She's just too real. I love you Patty. ** Edit and update!!!! So sorry, I googled after I posted this comment. Patty is scheduled to be inducted into the CM Hall of Fame (Finally!!) in October of this year. God bless you Patty for all of your hard work and payoffs, including giving your fans so much joy in hearing your God-given blessings of talent. We love you bunches!!!

    • @davidmoore2924
      @davidmoore2924 Před 10 měsíci +1

      hope you're staying safe??, it seems you always find the best thing to comments you are really amazing and exciting ❤

    • @ginadisbrow9324
      @ginadisbrow9324 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@davidmoore2924 Thank you for your sweet comment. Have you seen my comments from other posts?

    • @davidmoore2924
      @davidmoore2924 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@ginadisbrow9324 You're welcome 🤗 i think know, but I love your great sense of humor and personality the comment you shared caught my attention, where are you from?

    • @ginadisbrow9324
      @ginadisbrow9324 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@davidmoore2924 N FL, you?

    • @davidmoore2924
      @davidmoore2924 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@ginadisbrow9324 Okay nice place, well I'm from Norway, it's a pleasure meeting 🤝

  • @jamesconner6431
    @jamesconner6431 Před 3 lety +198

    They need to bring this true country back

    • @ArcoZakus
      @ArcoZakus Před 2 lety +1

      That's what each generation says as it drifts into history. The wish never comes true. Each new generation brings its own styles in to replace the old.
      At least in this digital age the older stuff we like most is preserved on the www where we can still listen to it as if it never went away. I wish the same could be done for all the hair I'e lost over the years, or the miles I used to run every week. Looks like those are gone forever.

    • @Amalia-no7xt
      @Amalia-no7xt Před 2 lety +1

      I stopped listening to the new stuff like 20 years ago!

    • @karingregg1695
      @karingregg1695 Před rokem

      The closest ive heard was Joey and Rory. Unfortunately Joey passed.

    • @keith2915
      @keith2915 Před rokem

      Sad that it never will be back the garbage 🗑️ is in now sad but at least we can keep it alive by playing the daylights lol out of it

  • @chrisashleyjordan
    @chrisashleyjordan Před 2 měsíci +15

    Reminds me of my marriage. Two souls that was once perfect for each other. After kids and life we’ve forgotten who we was together.

    • @MNMMOMMA2
      @MNMMOMMA2 Před 2 měsíci +2

      You hit the nail on the head for a lot of us.

  • @amberhall9182
    @amberhall9182 Před 2 lety +26

    90’s country… the BEST country. Can we go back?

  • @lisalatham5776
    @lisalatham5776 Před rokem +76

    Most definitely belongs in hall of Fame u can't help but feel this song in your heart and soul

    • @gregnormal5101
      @gregnormal5101 Před rokem

      Hello!!! How are you doing today, please pardon me for intruding into your privacy but I just wanted to know if you’re a fan ? Have a great day. Stay Safe

  • @FeelinFineFeelinFanc
    @FeelinFineFeelinFanc Před 11 měsíci +18

    Things like this happen when 2 people really don't know each other at all, sadness, boredom, lonely, no love, and then indifference

  • @thomasstevenson5945
    @thomasstevenson5945 Před rokem +12

    Reba, Trisha, and Patty were the last of the true female country singers. I miss true country music. Especially a powerful female vocal.

  • @gregakinson2800
    @gregakinson2800 Před 3 lety +20

    Ladies and Gentleman.....the best female Country vocalist ever...........

  • @harvdog5669
    @harvdog5669 Před 3 měsíci +9

    WOW, WOW,
    I am here again 2024.
    Love you patty 🙂🙂

  • @MNMMOMMA2
    @MNMMOMMA2 Před 2 lety +30

    "You don't even know who I am, so why do you care if I go". Jeezzzz, this hits home, like a punch in the gut.

    • @Jameslopez5682
      @Jameslopez5682 Před rokem

      Hello Momma how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

    • @joypaul995
      @joypaul995 Před rokem +2

      Got you in the feels too? Story of him and I 😢😢

    • @MNMMOMMA2
      @MNMMOMMA2 Před rokem +1

      @@joypaul995 It sure does 😢

    • @melissariddle9908
      @melissariddle9908 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Always called to say you're sorry, I stopped believing it long before I left

    • @BaahBen
      @BaahBen Před 2 měsíci

      two sides to the story.....

  • @JohnWayne-rw1ve
    @JohnWayne-rw1ve Před 3 lety +162

    I've loved this song since I was a kid. I never thought I'd experience it at 40.

    • @theeemaven
      @theeemaven Před 2 lety +7

      I'm so sorry. Hugs to you John Wayne. Hope things are better today than the day you typed it.

    • @JohnWayne-rw1ve
      @JohnWayne-rw1ve Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you for caring and for the kind message but no, it's not better, just finished now.

    • @JohnWayne-rw1ve
      @JohnWayne-rw1ve Před 2 lety +3

      Ms.Miner, I pray that you see this....every single thing I've learned about love tells me I would not need any convincing to help my partner if they needed it. Even if I didn't want to I would still help. You broke my heart, but I would still help you.
      I never knew love, foster homes didn't teach it so I find it extremely odd that even with my life I still believe in true love. To all who are selfish and narrow minded........if you knew just how much that shit hurt, you'd probably still do it, so I'm wasting my breath. I STILL love you, even tho I don't want to.

    • @blainekristin
      @blainekristin Před 2 lety

      Me either.

    • @itsmovinfast
      @itsmovinfast Před 2 lety +3

      @@blainekristin odd how things turn out, or don’t. Im slowly learning to stop asking why. Hope this finds you well.

  • @shirleybutler8637
    @shirleybutler8637 Před měsícem +3

    Best female country singer hands down!!

  • @littlemissmegannn
    @littlemissmegannn Před 4 lety +175

    Takes my breath away every single time. At the beginning, I’m always like “OH MY GOD, SHE GETS IT!”....and by the end I’m always sobbing and feeling so guilty. Marriage isn’t easy, and there’s nothing like 90s country to remind you of that while also making you so grateful for it. 😍😍😭😭

    • @noelkosobucki9722
      @noelkosobucki9722 Před 3 lety +4

      God bless you

    • @joypaul995
      @joypaul995 Před rokem +1

      I get it. I dunno what brought me here but 42 years and we left eachother a long time ago😢💔🕊

  • @millielockhart4142
    @millielockhart4142 Před 3 lety +124

    Patti has one of the best voices in country music !
    Her and Vince Gill duets are amazing !

    • @pedrohilson5461
      @pedrohilson5461 Před 3 lety +2

      Patty Loveless angelic golden voice

    • @pedrohilson5461
      @pedrohilson5461 Před 3 lety +2

      @Debbie Lawson Absolutely 🤗

    • @pedrohilson5461
      @pedrohilson5461 Před 3 lety

      How's the pandemic over there with you Debbie 🤔

    • @jeremywombacher3898
      @jeremywombacher3898 Před 2 lety +2

      When they do go rest high on that mountain together at possums funeral that hits me right in the heart everytime

    • @jonathanbarnes3061
      @jonathanbarnes3061 Před rokem

      Loveless and George Jones,
      Loveless and Dwight Yoakum
      Loveless and Vince Gill
      Loveless and Chris Stapleton,
      she makes everybody look good

  • @brandonyoung827
    @brandonyoung827 Před 9 měsíci +24

    I love the passion in this song from both sides and as you get older you understand more and more how easy this can happen.

  • @goatbut29
    @goatbut29 Před 3 lety +13

    Love how this song covers both sides.
    No one is the bad guy, because both sides are broken.
    After 23yrs of marriage to the most beautiful woman on Earth, I can understand both sides.
    Whatever the choice. No one wins in the end.

  • @TheMC1215
    @TheMC1215 Před 4 lety +90

    “What we’ve got here is failure to communicate.” Don’t expect your partner of no matter how many days, weeks, months, years or decades to become a mind reader. Like all good things, one must continue to work and fight for a happy marriage. After three decades, and still going strong, we still work at it. And remember to be kind to one another, be forgiving, and ask for forgiveness when you’ve stepped off in it! But it takes two, so for some, unfortunately, reconciliation is not an option.

    • @ambercourtney2029
      @ambercourtney2029 Před 3 lety

      Civil war, Guns N’ Roses. I have always loved the intro to that song.

    • @markusa5521
      @markusa5521 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ambercourtney2029 its from (cool hand luke movie). Its a classic. Paul Newman is in it

    • @cpeet9346
      @cpeet9346 Před 3 lety +4

      Somethings can’t be forgiven or forgotten! Especially when they say it didn’t mean anything. When no sorry was ever spoken.

    • @misscleo378
      @misscleo378 Před 3 lety +5

      I would like to add that it important to be receptive to your spouse when they’re talking and try not to assume what they are feeling or saying. You can be the world’s best communicator but if your spouse is constantly tuning you out, what’s the point.

    • @TheMC1215
      @TheMC1215 Před 3 lety +3

      Someone said, “The reason you have two ears and one mouth is to listen twice as much as you talk.” I’m as guilty as most of thinking I know the answer before the question is asked. We are all a work in progress. Anyhow, if my partner is tuned out, I probably need to stop saying and start doing. Someone else told me, “Your actions speak so loudly I can’t hear the words you’re saying!” And sometimes it really is too late. There’s more life to live. Learn and move forward.

  • @DaveB806
    @DaveB806 Před 3 lety +30

    When you say your sorry and you can’t even remember what for, because you’re told your always in the wrong. Being married can hurt so bad. Years later a song can bring it all back. 😢

  • @scottydont5034
    @scottydont5034 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I'm not fond of too many female singers or songs...but this song by Patty is one of the most beautiful songs I have ever heard. It's so sad and heartbreaking...yet absolutely beautiful at the same time. Thank God for CZcams...cuz they don't make music like this anymore

    • @Tillis_pam
      @Tillis_pam Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks for your kind words....
      I am blessed to have such a fan following keep calm and stay country 🤠
      Bet you're truly a fan of me ?

  • @BettyAMorris1162
    @BettyAMorris1162 Před rokem +7

    He never knew how determined I was to live this life. How I own this path, how allowed someone to share in it as long as you don't destroy me while your finding your self. respect all God's children rights to develop and grow. Ups and downs... mistakes are for the learning...not to be beaten for.

  • @maedatakemitsu5278
    @maedatakemitsu5278 Před 3 lety +29

    Patty Loveless is my first female country singer with whom I instantly fell in love. She's got everything to be a country singer. In my mind, she exists as Patty Lovefull.

    • @sgmillsjr5670
      @sgmillsjr5670 Před rokem +1

      I see what you did there. 👍♥️🙏

  • @fburton8455
    @fburton8455 Před rokem +6

    There is much truth to this song. We take people for granted and don't talk. You have to talk and show love and affection. Tell your spouse you love and appreciate them.

  • @mikesmith3078
    @mikesmith3078 Před 3 lety +13

    Patty is the queen of country and bluegrass music. She is so beautiful to me. red hair and emerald green eyes. WOW what a woman.

  • @MegaVincentg
    @MegaVincentg Před měsícem +2

    Best female country song period!

  • @johnbutler4130
    @johnbutler4130 Před 2 dny

    Remember this vividly. Little did I know at the time.

  • @christophercasey6775
    @christophercasey6775 Před rokem +13

    Just discovered this song with her duet with Chris Stapleton, and it was incredible. Patty's voice is still in tact and sang beautifully.

    • @Tillis_pam
      @Tillis_pam Před rokem

      Thanks for kind word... I am blessed to have such a fan following keep calm and stay country 🤠
      Bet you're truly a fan of me ? If yes mail me directly

    • @Tillis_pam
      @Tillis_pam Před rokem

      Pamtillis69

    • @maxinewallace6213
      @maxinewallace6213 Před rokem

      You listen to voices like Patty's and folks wonder why we want more country sounding artists

  • @coryo2485
    @coryo2485 Před 4 lety +8

    Be here. My first marriage, it drained me. He didn't want the help he needed and stopped caring. Though it wasn't always like that. It wasn't even a year before it was all done. His drug use was more important (which is no surprise). I tried for months as a wife to help him. When that didn't work, I tried as a friend. Losing weight dramatically (bones showing), hair loss, paler skin, throwing up everytime I ate and more. He stole and put his youngest in danger. I told him to go and that was it. Now I've been with my current husband almost 10 years. We celebrated our 3 year marriage this past December with out beautiful 3 year old. At the end of the day as bad as that was, I'm glad I went through it. It taught me a lot. While we have our problems we work through it and become stronger for us and most importantly our son.

  • @shannonburns6724
    @shannonburns6724 Před rokem +12

    A beautiful Gretchen Peters composition. Patricia delivers this like a freight train going by @ 70 mph and you are standing less than a foot away. Great read by Patty here. The finest female voice alive. Oh and I can tell you what a woman is. Take a look who'se singing this.

    • @davidholton1990
      @davidholton1990 Před 11 měsíci

      How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song

  • @rekklessbehavior4835
    @rekklessbehavior4835 Před 2 lety +30

    Patty is such a powerful woman. Bring the 90s and earlier country music back. Mama, they make them like that anymore. 😓

    • @Jameslopez5682
      @Jameslopez5682 Před rokem

      Hello Rekkless how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

  • @amandabrown2988
    @amandabrown2988 Před 2 lety +3

    Haven't been married three years and this was us after one year. Not even sure why I'm still here

    • @bobhunt2764
      @bobhunt2764 Před rokem

      Hi!!! I kind of , sort of , well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime? How are you 🌹
      Kindly Drop a note / email address and I'll reply instantly. Just if you may wish to email too!!

  • @mikesmith1788
    @mikesmith1788 Před rokem +9

    This lady is one of the most powerful singers in country music 🎵. Have seen her live and she sounds exactly the same as her recordings. Keep singing pretty lady to the world 🌎. Please be safe both you and your family 🤣.

  • @loriwilber4652
    @loriwilber4652 Před 2 lety +16

    Didn't realize how long it's been since I last heard this song. Love it just as much now as I did then.

    • @bobhunt2764
      @bobhunt2764 Před rokem

      Hi!!! I kind of , sort of , well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime? How are you 🌹
      Kindly Drop a note / email address and I'll reply instantly. Just if you may wish to email too!!

  • @hankclausen8652
    @hankclausen8652 Před 2 lety +8

    Not only, is she the n most beautiful woman I have ever seen , her voice is just as beautiful!

  • @countryboywilliams6755
    @countryboywilliams6755 Před 4 lety +147

    PATTY IS GREATLY UNDERATED ( IMO ) I`VE BEEN A FAN FOR YRS.~~SHE POURS HER HEART & SOUL INTO HER MUSIC...

  • @codym8897
    @codym8897 Před 4 lety +41

    Written by Gretchen Peters, and performed by American country music artist Patty Loveless. It was released on March 18, 1995, as the third single from the album "When Fallen Angels Fly" (1994). The music was directed by Jim Shea, and premiered on CMT on March 20, 1995.

    • @Mark-um5hc
      @Mark-um5hc Před 4 lety +11

      Hey, thanks for that information. I was 22 yrs old back then. I was in the middle of having my heart broken. When I heard this song for the first time. The bottom of my heart fell out. Whatever, right ? Lol. I still love this song. Wish they still write songs like that. My birthday is in March. Kinda hit home even more. Thanks

    • @geoffwilson2197
      @geoffwilson2197 Před 4 lety +4

      I was six years old to the day. I remember my dad always had country on in the car and there's not a song from the early 90s I don't remember. Great music

    • @Viper316RKO1
      @Viper316RKO1 Před 3 lety +3

      That is still one of my favorite albums of all time!

  • @terryhutchings7701
    @terryhutchings7701 Před 2 lety +3

    Gosh I miss this country music. Not the crap they put out today.

  • @deborahtaylor7829
    @deborahtaylor7829 Před 5 měsíci +2

    She was my absolute favorite country vocal artist in the 90’s ! So underrated

  • @kaylaaa6834
    @kaylaaa6834 Před 2 lety +27

    Crazy how what you think could never end does the long and winding road. Patty loveless voice of a angel

  • @cajunpagan
    @cajunpagan Před rokem +9

    2023, and this song popped in my head. I miss the old country music.

  • @woodfordreserve6673
    @woodfordreserve6673 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I’ve heard several version of this song, I like them all. This one give me chills and makes me want to cry. I read a comment that said Patty Loveless is the best female country singer alive , I guess I pretty much have to agree. Not taking anything away from Chris Stapleton though, he really needs to be heard by everyone

  • @redfoxtrapper
    @redfoxtrapper Před 4 lety +24

    This song makes even a man cry still!!

  • @mikecarroll2305
    @mikecarroll2305 Před 2 lety +18

    My favorite female country singer. Love all her songs....

  • @nathanlackey3307
    @nathanlackey3307 Před 4 lety +35

    I FELT that for real!! 😢

  • @haraldkiebist111
    @haraldkiebist111 Před 11 dny

    I'm not leaning out of the window when I say the greatest queen singer of all time.

  • @sharoncrosby6788
    @sharoncrosby6788 Před 2 lety +4

    Perfect example of what happens when you both quit trying to communicate

    • @williamanderson3745
      @williamanderson3745 Před rokem

      Yes you make a good point in your comment,Hello Sharon how are you doing 👋👋👋👋

  • @bluestarlighting29
    @bluestarlighting29 Před 2 lety +6

    True song. Thank You Patty loveless. Never cross my mind get married at all. Everyone meet been married or running back to there first wife. Hard find honest person now days

  • @jeffstogner7181
    @jeffstogner7181 Před 3 lety +17

    Such an amazing voice. Wish more singers today sounded as good as she does. Makes me miss the 90's even more

  • @boogiemorgan
    @boogiemorgan Před rokem +4

    You are the top of the list of lady Country singers as far as I'm concerned. You are the best and I dearly love you ! You are not only beautiful, you have the voice of an angel. I pray that God will bless you and your family forever, love yah !

  • @tonybowen3264
    @tonybowen3264 Před 6 dny

    I always crank patty up in the truck everyday!! Absolutely!!!❤

  • @mariotarradell9553
    @mariotarradell9553 Před 2 lety +7

    This. This right here. This is, in my humble opinion, the reason that country music had and can still have a resonant backbone. This song and many others are examples of country music at its finest, telling real stories of real people that we can all relate to. That my friends is what made country music universal. Kudos to Patty Loveless and Gretchen Peters for, simply put, bringing a masterpiece to life.

  • @debbiemartin5291
    @debbiemartin5291 Před 2 lety +18

    I love Patty Loveless, her voice is pure! Would love to hear back on the charts or touring

    • @danmerich3519
      @danmerich3519 Před rokem

      Was married 12 year went to Iraq and Afghan came home and this song was the seen but life goes on

    • @dannyhuffman
      @dannyhuffman Před rokem

      Hi Debbie you're okay?

  • @aliciaclark9757
    @aliciaclark9757 Před rokem +1

    I love you and your music
    I'm fourtyfive now and been in
    Your fan club for a long antil
    They stop the fan club totally
    I'm a big time fan always
    Will be and I will always love you
    Your the best

  • @gregtrent807
    @gregtrent807 Před 4 lety +9

    Patty Loveless has the perfect voice to bring back Ole Country Music, I also know another Lady that could, who lives in Nashville

  • @Kevinmiller1179
    @Kevinmiller1179 Před rokem +16

    This song is so powerful and with a truly deep meaning 😢

  • @gregakinson2800
    @gregakinson2800 Před 4 lety +10

    I have been into Country music since the 60's and SHE is my favorite female Country singer.

  • @luisbalba8240
    @luisbalba8240 Před rokem +12

    Yes she is a hall of famer that voice is special song sends chills

  • @gobigorange771
    @gobigorange771 Před rokem +7

    If Patty only knew how much we love her songs

  • @carollawrence3033
    @carollawrence3033 Před rokem +9

    One of the most honest country songs I've ever heard X There are aways two sides to a relationship x very clever words x

  • @jvsmith7888
    @jvsmith7888 Před 3 lety +13

    This is one of those songs that sneaks up on you. I remember hearing it on the radio when it was new and I didn't like it the first few times I heard it. I had recently gone through a painful divorce and this song hit a lot of sore spots. Still, you couldn't deny that this song was speaking to millions of people in this country who were going through something similar to this. I also like how this song presents both sides, it's not just his fault, it's not just her fault. Sometimes things just happen and you just can't figure out how to fix them. I very quickly grew to love this song and I still think it's one of Patty's best. This song is a good companion song for another Loveless hit, "The Trouble With The Truth."

  • @nindyhunt
    @nindyhunt Před 8 měsíci +2

    I cried many of tears to this song back in 94. My divorce was final Nov 18th that year and my husband never seemed to know me. I was just his property.

  • @johndavenport8843
    @johndavenport8843 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is probably the sadest song about a mattiagr ever. Try not to let it be you.

  • @markhaeft7076
    @markhaeft7076 Před 3 lety +23

    WOW......this song definitely hits that nerve when you have lived this

    • @shawnaldrich7868
      @shawnaldrich7868 Před 3 lety

      this song came out when i was going through it

    • @pattyloveless6093
      @pattyloveless6093 Před 2 lety +2

      Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on pattylovelessfl@gmail.com
      I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️

  • @raymondtobin5918
    @raymondtobin5918 Před 3 lety +22

    This is so sad, they weren't cheating on each other. They just....fell out of love.

    • @bobbygzzz7116
      @bobbygzzz7116 Před 3 lety +3

      Most cases peeps are not really in luv...just star struck..it will last a lil..then get old n boring..bang u divorced

    • @michaelthompson5886
      @michaelthompson5886 Před 3 lety +1

      It happens and it sucks

    • @roybush8046
      @roybush8046 Před 3 lety +1

      in love with ideal of being in love...stupid!!

    • @mitchellhall4592
      @mitchellhall4592 Před 3 lety +1

      Yep

    • @mitchellhall4592
      @mitchellhall4592 Před 3 lety +4

      Married 34.years.dont say it cant happen. You can fall out.as easy as you fell in.

  • @nickjohansson7252
    @nickjohansson7252 Před 11 měsíci +2

    This song makes me cry. I think about those relationships that ended wrong, Where we didnt Even know eachother. 😢

  • @caryelliott9119
    @caryelliott9119 Před 3 lety +7

    A heavy gem in my heart. I miss music like this. Patty can sing the the caution on the back of rat poison package, and it would sound like a love song.

  • @demondog9482
    @demondog9482 Před 4 lety +5

    There has always been country songs about beer and trucks, its just that the 90's crushed it with heartbreak songs and deep love songs.

  • @lynnmiller320
    @lynnmiller320 Před 4 lety +75

    It has been said she has a pure mountain voice and l love when she sings with other artists

  • @bojoza47
    @bojoza47 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I've been a fan from the first time I seen Patty preform. Like wine she gets better with time. You get up stage perfection.

  • @CMBuzbee
    @CMBuzbee Před 11 měsíci +7

    One of the greatest country musicians. ❤

    • @davidmoore2924
      @davidmoore2924 Před 10 měsíci

      How are you doing today! I hope it been a beautiful day today?

  • @Bamaboompa
    @Bamaboompa Před 3 lety +3

    No idea how many times I’ve listened to this. It’s true what they say.
    Country music=3 chords & the truth.
    In a previous lifetime, my wife and I after 5 years would “talk”, went to see a counselor. Wasn’t getting better.
    I was reading a book about how to improve my marriage.
    One day it hit me right between the eyes.
    The wrong person was reading the book!
    The opposite of love isn’t hate.
    It’s indifference.
    Thanks again Patty.