Richard Feynman to Arline - Read by Oscar Isaac

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  • čas přidán 1. 10. 2016
  • Richard Feynman was one of the most influential physicists of his generation and in 1965, he and two colleagues were awarded the Nobel Prize. In June of 1945, his 25-year-old wife and high-school sweetheart, Arline, passed away after succumbing to tuberculosis. 16 months later, Richard wrote his late wife a love letter and sealed it in an envelope. It remained unopened until after his death in 1988.
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  • @juliegreenbaumlevine813
    @juliegreenbaumlevine813 Před 2 lety +476

    I am Arline's niece. My father, Jules, was her brother. Thank you for your reading. I have many stories to share....You are reading to a piece of my history. 💕

    • @bobaxes9807
      @bobaxes9807 Před 2 lety +19

      Would love to hear your stories :)

    • @schr4nz
      @schr4nz Před 2 lety +16

      @@bobaxes9807 as would I

    • @arturasskutonis4060
      @arturasskutonis4060 Před 2 lety +9

      Please share your story :)

    • @cbooth2004
      @cbooth2004 Před rokem +10

      Do please record them or write them down.

    • @beverleypeacock
      @beverleypeacock Před rokem +1

      How wonderful for you to have this testament to her Dear Love...Lovely.

  • @iamk2
    @iamk2 Před 3 měsíci +14

    "You dead are so much better than anyone else alive"
    This line is enough to describe the beauty of memories❤❤

  • @francismallard5892
    @francismallard5892 Před 2 lety +237

    “You dead are so much better than anyone else alive.”
    Oof, what a punch in the gut.

  • @DannyBeans
    @DannyBeans Před rokem +51

    This letter was written in 1947, but nobody knew it existed until it was found in his papers after his own passing in 1988.

  • @EthalaRide
    @EthalaRide Před 7 lety +368

    2:44 God, when he said "sweetheart" his voice just got so tight and you can tell for the rest of the letter he's working so hard to keep it together and to the testament of his skill, he does, but the little breaks in his voice here and there were just powerful.

  • @lucyk2371
    @lucyk2371 Před 5 lety +392

    I think why this letter is particularly moving is that Richard Feynman suffered no fools and was brutally honest. In his rational mind he knows that she will never read this and that it is nonsensical to write.....but he does it anyway.

    • @patinho5589
      @patinho5589 Před 3 lety +5

      Well - he didn’t know it all about human psychology or what love is, or why he wanted the things he writes about in this letter.
      I think.

    • @lucyk2371
      @lucyk2371 Před 3 lety +5

      @@patinho5589 True, experts in science are not necessarily experts about all facets of life. Interesting contrast I thought. It is a beautifully written letter none the less. It touches my heart so very much.

  • @SK-zg5lm
    @SK-zg5lm Před 4 lety +222

    This letter made me miss my dead wife I never had.
    Feynman is a legend.

  • @pandorabox5532
    @pandorabox5532 Před rokem +29

    "you dead are so much better than everyone else alive"
    That line hit me so hard. All the letter in general. As someone who lost their life partner 5 years ago, sometimes basking in the pain of his absence feels like honoring his memory. Even if I am now happy in general and in relationship with a beautiful person, and moving on as such, feels like betraying how much he meant to me. This letter perfectly describes what it feels like to loose the love of your life.

  • @898cookie5417gurl
    @898cookie5417gurl Před 3 lety +42

    I just watched this for the third time. This time I almost didn't sob like a baby

    • @898cookie5417gurl
      @898cookie5417gurl Před 2 lety +1

      4th time. Still a weepy baby.

    • @898cookie5417gurl
      @898cookie5417gurl Před 2 lety +1

      Just watched again only got a little misty this time! Progress! But seriously it's just so beautiful.

  • @Serenity113
    @Serenity113 Před 7 lety +277

    That was a better letter. Oscar Isaac to me, seemed like he was holding back some tears.

    • @crovax17
      @crovax17 Před 6 lety +10

      Oh for sure.

    • @gordons-alive4940
      @gordons-alive4940 Před 3 lety +5

      If I were a method actor and needed to bring on some tears, this letter could probably do it!

    • @ernestolombardo5811
      @ernestolombardo5811 Před 3 lety +10

      Yeap... it got to him. Hit him squarely in the feels.

  • @balarammajhi4666
    @balarammajhi4666 Před 2 lety +12

    I can hear oscar isaac voice my entire life if he read like this his voice is awesome..

  • @abhishekmazumdar2072
    @abhishekmazumdar2072 Před 2 lety +15

    There is nothing more beautiful and strong on this planet, than a man devoted to one woman for the entirety. Love you Richard.

    • @icook1723
      @icook1723 Před rokem +2

      He would find another. Many years later.
      One faild marriage that lasted only a handfull of years.
      And one that would last for over two decades, untill the day he died.
      It is one of the best parts of this letter. The pain in time healed and he loved another as deeply has his first.

  • @Ipazian
    @Ipazian Před 7 lety +117

    ok so it wasn't just me, he was indeed about to cry at the end!

  • @NoriMori1992
    @NoriMori1992 Před 2 lety +41

    I was stunned when I read this letter earlier today. It's very rarely that any piece of writing makes me come that close to crying, let alone a letter only a few paragraphs long. I think what affects me most is managing to see a glimmer of how much a person can love another person. It's so rarely that I see anyone manage to convey that in words, convey it so well that I myself feel it, I myself feel what it might be like to be loved that much or to love someone that much.

  • @marciacarl718
    @marciacarl718 Před 6 lety +92

    Beautiful sentiments. Heartbreaking. If I ever am loved like that, then I have succeeded in life.

  • @Watusifarm
    @Watusifarm Před rokem +7

    I’m so thankful I too have a wife I love as much as this.

  • @jcortese3300
    @jcortese3300 Před 2 lety +18

    This, people, is what spirituality is like for scientists. We don't lack it. We just have it so it makes sense.

  • @khoabuivan4458
    @khoabuivan4458 Před 5 lety +91

    Physicists tell the best love story

  • @nini9946
    @nini9946 Před 6 lety +88

    he was really about to cry :(( this was so beautiful, a great letter by a great man read back to life by yet another great man

  • @Mizraab2912
    @Mizraab2912 Před 4 lety +32

    Oh this affected him...it was beautiful to see how it affected him as he read it oh so perfectly!

  • @lucyk2371
    @lucyk2371 Před 2 lety +12

    It's funny now whenever I think of Richard Feynman....I don't think of his scientific achievements......I think of this beautifully written letter. So moving...

  • @brittanymayer617
    @brittanymayer617 Před 7 lety +62

    So beautiful, I'm crying

  • @spnhm34
    @spnhm34 Před 5 lety +57

    Wonderful and honest. What a man Richard Feynman was, and so for Oscar Isaac

  • @72boog
    @72boog Před 3 lety +41

    I admit it, I thought it said Richard Feynman to airline. That’s a damn strange customer complaint letter.....

    • @neiljohnson5351
      @neiljohnson5351 Před 3 lety +3

      Haha! Glad I wasn't the only one...

    • @solarnaut
      @solarnaut Před 2 lety +1

      me too . . . at first I supposed he was aggressively buttering up his customer care agent B-)

    • @advocaterishitamall
      @advocaterishitamall Před 2 lety +1

      Given that I found this shortly after watching Himesh Patel reading a letter to Richard Branson regarding service on Virgin Flight, I too thought it was "Airline", but after listening to the salutation, re-checked 😄

    • @antisoda
      @antisoda Před 2 lety

      Haha. I did too. Colour me surprised at the opening of the letter. "I adore you" You wot, mate?

    • @trondoscar
      @trondoscar Před 2 lety

      @@advocaterishitamall As did I. And, I am ashamed to admit, I was thoroughly disappointed when this turned out not to be the case.

  • @lyndanixon4824
    @lyndanixon4824 Před 3 lety +26

    My son has died suddenly...2 months ago at 36...nobody gets me and tells me to move on....i wasn't able to say goodbye so i just grieve

    • @caroly1993
      @caroly1993 Před 3 lety +11

      I don't know who you are. But I hug you.

    • @lyndanixon4824
      @lyndanixon4824 Před 3 lety +8

      @@caroly1993 thanks honey...a big hug to you too.
      ..lost my son and my heart has broken into a million pieces

    • @avisian8063
      @avisian8063 Před 3 lety +7

      I can't begin to know what that must be like. Sending love.

    • @lyndanixon4824
      @lyndanixon4824 Před 3 lety +4

      @@avisian8063 thank you.
      So sweet of you

    • @gavsterdb
      @gavsterdb Před 3 lety +4

      Write them a letter

  • @ariochiv
    @ariochiv Před 3 lety +6

    I like the to think that when Oscar got a little bit choked up at the end, it was genuine and not deliberate.

  • @AlanCanon2222
    @AlanCanon2222 Před 3 lety +11

    One of the great true love stories of the 20th century.

    • @JohnDlugosz
      @JohnDlugosz Před rokem

      See the movie with Matthew Broderick as the young Feynman. It's better if you read the memoirs first.

    • @AlanCanon2222
      @AlanCanon2222 Před rokem

      @@JohnDlugosz I saw it in theaters. Yes.

  • @TheDeltaboss
    @TheDeltaboss Před 3 lety +16

    Some if the most visceral emotions ever to be committed to writing.

  • @-lys-8014
    @-lys-8014 Před 5 lety +22

    This letter left me stunned in the best way.

  • @gigismith1778
    @gigismith1778 Před 6 lety +34

    One of the best letters ever.So romantic and heartbreaking.

  • @chrsd2536
    @chrsd2536 Před 2 lety +2

    We all dream of loving and being loved that way.

  • @bokchoiman
    @bokchoiman Před 3 lety +5

    Love is a force that transcends time and space

  • @cultwatch2580
    @cultwatch2580 Před 3 lety +6

    I love his voice

  • @codesterlalit
    @codesterlalit Před 3 lety +11

    Feynman is so much full of life.
    I love this man

  • @rockalOvEerx73
    @rockalOvEerx73 Před 5 lety +10

    Fuck. I'm crying.
    I think this is one of the most beautiful videos I've seen on CZcams

  • @malenurse51
    @malenurse51 Před 3 lety +6

    Love is a gift we give ourselves.

  • @ipekkutlu78
    @ipekkutlu78 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! He turned into Richard. Oscar, 👏 bravo

  • @yeeyee352
    @yeeyee352 Před 2 lety +1

    crying. sobbing.

  • @gnostic268
    @gnostic268 Před 5 lety +9

    He has such beautiful eyes 💗

  • @sherihusgen5588
    @sherihusgen5588 Před 7 lety +18

    Well played. Awesome acting.

  • @zoepringle3336
    @zoepringle3336 Před 7 lety +20

    This is so touching

  • @JS-yj7ow
    @JS-yj7ow Před rokem +2

    I first read the title as Richard Feynman to “airline”, and I was curious what he would be writing to an airline.
    After a few sentences, I realized this was all about his love.

  • @isoney
    @isoney Před 3 lety +9

    Bloody hell. This should come with a warning.

  • @Juju-tw7we
    @Juju-tw7we Před 5 lety +7

    IM CRYING.

  • @BThings
    @BThings Před 3 lety +5

    Um…I misread the title and thought this was going to be a letter to an airline. I think the reality here was significantly better.

    • @fangeo
      @fangeo Před 3 lety +1

      I did exactly the same thing, I was waiting for a turn.

  • @OneKindWord
    @OneKindWord Před 3 lety +6

    I’ve always considered Richard Feynman the sexiest man, dead or alive.

  • @anitatoperczer3051
    @anitatoperczer3051 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful 🥺

  • @lupitagenial639
    @lupitagenial639 Před 7 lety +11

    Wow, amazing, a devastating letter. I want to cry. T-T

  • @ishtar0077
    @ishtar0077 Před 2 lety +5

    So beautiful to hear his feelings towards his wife.

  • @ellenmendoza7246
    @ellenmendoza7246 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so made me cry was beautiful

  • @user-om4sz3ob8c
    @user-om4sz3ob8c Před 3 lety +1

    This is heartbreaking...

  • @pleappleappleap
    @pleappleappleap Před 2 lety

    I'm crying yet again.

  • @shelleyolsen5418
    @shelleyolsen5418 Před 6 lety +10

    So incredibly beautiful

  • @jizhu973
    @jizhu973 Před 6 lety +47

    I don't know your new address

  • @ExLibris-Alys
    @ExLibris-Alys Před 4 lety +2

    So moving

  • @MerricMaker
    @MerricMaker Před 3 lety +28

    That was phenomenal, but I didn't have my glasses on when I started it and spent two minutes thinking it was Feynman to AIRLINE. This made the first two minutes a little confusing.

  • @AstaCHF
    @AstaCHF Před 7 lety +8

    im literally crying

  • @daniadejonghe4980
    @daniadejonghe4980 Před 2 lety +1

    He remained faithful to her all his life. He never married again.

  • @Ben-Hollingbery
    @Ben-Hollingbery Před 2 lety +1

    I misread the title and thought he was writing to an airline

  • @taniyan7322
    @taniyan7322 Před 2 lety

    oh my gosh im sobbing

  • @yuldreamer
    @yuldreamer Před 10 měsíci

    He’s so beautiful

  • @sumaiyamim8513
    @sumaiyamim8513 Před 2 lety +1

    I cried

  • @zhangshengde4285
    @zhangshengde4285 Před 7 lety +3

    touched

  • @DaddyBeanDaddyBean
    @DaddyBeanDaddyBean Před 3 lety +9

    I misread the title and thought it was a letter to an airline. I was confused.

    • @smilespray
      @smilespray Před 3 lety +3

      Yeah, at first I thought he was mocking an airline for poor service.

  • @Liz86000
    @Liz86000 Před rokem

    Very moving…

  • @marleemumu
    @marleemumu Před 2 lety +4

    Who clicks a thumbs down to such a moving letter??

  • @THEDOORIZCLOSED
    @THEDOORIZCLOSED Před 4 lety +3

    Wow....just wow.

  • @argentvixen
    @argentvixen Před 10 měsíci

    Hot damn that got me right in the feels.

  • @cyclo1224
    @cyclo1224 Před 3 lety +2

    Life is beautiful and hard. Love is life.

  • @tuomoluukkanen7265
    @tuomoluukkanen7265 Před rokem +1

    I can't be the only one who read this as Richard Feynman to Airline [like Lufthansa etc]

  • @chrismetzler8049
    @chrismetzler8049 Před 4 lety +6

    What is going on in someone's head that they give this a thumbs down?

  • @mikeofbosnia
    @mikeofbosnia Před rokem

    I loved the man's approach to science, but it was the way he lived his life.

  • @richardboyce4635
    @richardboyce4635 Před 3 lety +4

    I thought this was a letter to an Airline. Best I get to the opticians.

  • @robertbaird6432
    @robertbaird6432 Před 3 lety +2

    Sublime

  • @alrichmond4341
    @alrichmond4341 Před 3 lety +2

    I mis-read the title as "airline", so the content was a bit of a surprise. I'm better with Feynman diagrams. Arguably.

  • @chandrimaghosh99
    @chandrimaghosh99 Před 2 lety +1

    After watching this I searched the letter online, can’t breath really!!!!!!

  • @chrismclaughlin7956
    @chrismclaughlin7956 Před 3 lety +6

    I mean I love the words written and spoken, it truly is a love letter. I can't help but feel that if Richard sealed the letter and never opened it, then perhaps it should have remained so. Just my opinion.

    • @stevedunne1571
      @stevedunne1571 Před 10 měsíci

      When they found the letter, it had been folded and refilled from him having carried it and read it so much.

  • @anorawalker441
    @anorawalker441 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm not crying, you're crying.

  • @chenlin920
    @chenlin920 Před 5 lety +6

    This is so touching. I don't know your new address

  • @DeinosDinos
    @DeinosDinos Před 10 měsíci

    Came into this video without context and thought he's so eccentric for talking about his wife dying in a letter to his wife. And then I got to the end. Fuck that hit hard.

  • @1rjbrjb
    @1rjbrjb Před 3 lety +44

    The performance here is stunning. The letter is brilliant. It is the anniversary of a loss for me so the experience was especially moving.
    Feynman was a great scientist. He tested 125 on an IQ test which bothered a few people - but not him. One of his admirers in his profession suggested that he might be a verbal moron, which would be fine, because that stuff was beside the point.
    This letter was not written by a verbal moron. I just heard Cumberbatch recite: letter from Kurt Vonnegut to a little man explaining how important, gifted and in demand Vonnegut is (or was). Feynman is a much better writer than Vonnegut, though that is hardly Cumberbacth's fault..
    So, either there was a spark in him that the IQ test didn't capture or, Feynman squeezed more value out of those 125 points than any human being before or since.

    • @leemasters3592
      @leemasters3592 Před 3 lety +13

      Just goes to show IQ tests are hugely subjective and essentially meaningless.

    • @ediesvideos3095
      @ediesvideos3095 Před rokem

      IQ tests were developed to predict how someone would do in school. They don't measure intelligence, per se. And in addition, many people think there are several different types of intelligence, which are not all measured by IQ tests.

  • @marciacarl718
    @marciacarl718 Před 5 lety +4

    ❤️😔

  • @ahmidahmid9303
    @ahmidahmid9303 Před 4 lety +1

    great

  • @josemhs1213
    @josemhs1213 Před 2 lety +1

    3:00 that delivery hurt

  • @WinkLinkletter
    @WinkLinkletter Před 3 lety +2

    Good reading of a great man.
    Also, though, notice that there are almost no "reply" to any of the comments here. I wonder what factor(s) account(s) for this, most comment sections are filled with agreements and retorts. Curious.

  • @cris-du5hu
    @cris-du5hu Před 4 lety +1

    im so sad

  • @yuqishang834
    @yuqishang834 Před 7 lety +4

    好听

  • @evo5dave
    @evo5dave Před 3 lety +1

    Ok I misread the title. I thought it was a letter to an airline.

  • @solarnaut
    @solarnaut Před 2 lety +4

    our grief is our own. and "Fantasy Always Beats Reality" . . . except for that being real thing.
    I don't envy a "new love" trying to compete with their partner's romantic ghost of years gone by.
    It is generally such a pleasure when Richard's mind invites ours along for an eye opening stroll,
    so it felt almost disheartening to hear him seeming to fall for the antithetical love trap.
    It is irrational, but tempting, to imagine that permitting one's torn soul to begin healing
    from lost love is somehow dishonoring or disloyal to what was. . . and to what is.
    So, after hearing his bittersweet yearnings, I was pleased to learn his tragic loss was actually only 16 months old, and that he did go on to love again (even if it ended in divorce) " He proposed to her by mail from Rio de Janeiro, and they married in Boise, Idaho, on June 28, 1952, shortly after he returned [from Brazil]. They frequently quarreled and she was frightened by his violent temper.. . They separated on May 20, 1956. . . . The divorce became final on May 5, 1958.

  • @ruthstillman4846
    @ruthstillman4846 Před 6 lety +2

    Sniff sniff..Waaahhhh thank you

  • @bassimexcavates7245
    @bassimexcavates7245 Před 8 měsíci

    goooood

  • @MrzSugarShot
    @MrzSugarShot Před 7 lety +5

    Chingon!!!!

  • @therealxunil2
    @therealxunil2 Před 3 lety +2

    I misread the name as Airline. And I was very confused.

  • @jonathanleonard1152
    @jonathanleonard1152 Před 3 lety +2

    Who says Arline can not or has not read or hear this letter does not know. Does not know where Arline is. These people do not know where they are and what this temporal existence is about. It is entirely possible that Arline is able to hear and read all that Richard said and did. Not all can understand this. I can. I have had experiences with those who have passed. The good are with us always.

  • @OktoberStorm
    @OktoberStorm Před rokem +1

    Fuck, I read "airline", and thought it would be an angry funny letter or something.
    I definitely was wrong.

  • @L0rd0fTh3N3rdz
    @L0rd0fTh3N3rdz Před 3 lety +1

    Sounds like crazy talk.

  • @noeraldinkabam
    @noeraldinkabam Před 3 lety +1

    Omg!

  • @sadev101
    @sadev101 Před rokem +1

    lol ijust didnt get the first few seconds.. as i read .. airline instead of arline... so i went in thinking it was a complaintsletter to an airline. ..

  • @GR-sc3ph
    @GR-sc3ph Před 3 lety +4

    I have only heard of Richard Feynman the quantum physicist ...is this chap related to him?

    • @rajalaxmi0404
      @rajalaxmi0404 Před 3 lety +6

      This letter read by the actor Oscar was written by Feynman himself to his first wife and his childhood sweetheart Arline.
      So yup its the same chap. The quantum physicist.

    • @BigMikeMcBastard
      @BigMikeMcBastard Před 3 lety +1

      Theoretical physicists, they're called.

  • @douchymcdouche169
    @douchymcdouche169 Před 7 lety +40

    After listening to this I can almost forgive Oscar Isaac for X-men: Apocalypse. Almost.