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ABOUT THIS CHANNEL | I am a wife to an exceptional man, a mother to beloved daughters, a diligent homemaker, and a businesswoman. But before all these roles I am a woman who belongs to The Lord. A daughter to the God of The Bible through the work of my savior Jesus Christ. On this channel, you will enjoy content designed to cultivate a rich experience of biblical womanhood. You will be encouraged to place your true hope and faith in the Lord. You will also hear hard discussions about accountability and personal responsibility for your life and what it produces. We embrace real character and integrity as much as we do physical beauty and femininity. We are called to be women of our Father's Kingdom and to honor Him with our speech, actions, and modest yet feminine dress. I would love to have you along for the ride as we embrace a manner of life that brings honor to the name of our Father and get to the work of accomplishing our mission.
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I needed this video. THANK YOU for explaining it perfectly. I was diagnosed with breast cancer last year, the same day I found out I was pregnant with our 2nd bundle of joy. I’ve had a mastectomy last December and finish up 6 months of chemo … while pregnant!!! … in 3 weeks and God has been beyond merciful and abundant. I’ve wanted for nothing during this time and through strangers he’s showed his love. Baby boy is strong and kicking and I have full faith He will remain sovereign and faithful. Like the young woman who wrote in about not having parents … that’s me too! And your take on God wanting us to learn him personally was eye opening, as I don’t have parents or grandparents…THANK YOU!
Bindi, you have no idea how much I need this video.
I am a blessed wife and mother of two girls, but have deep childhood trauma that still effects me.
I want to let go and let God but just don't now how.
Been where this writer is many times! Allowing God to be the father I did not have and to trust, whew! That’s why it is called faith🙌🏻 God is also not a “wish fulfilling” vending machine. He sees the greater purpose. Having said that, I send you prayers and a hug as you go through trials and learn to trust him in your fear.
Not only do you always have great advice but you have Biblical advice back with Scripture 👏🏿 thank you
God is a good God. He knew I needed to hear this video and I'm grateful to the young lady for her honesty and vulnerability. While her story isn't mine, I recognize her anger and sorrow because I have it too. I've read the verses on resting in God, but didn't understand what that looks like in practical application. Thank you Bindi for giving me some great tools to utilize as I seek rest in God. You gave me many things to meditate over and I'll definitely come back to this video to take notes. Lord, I pray that this young lady finds rest under the shelter of your mighty wing and knows your name is a strong tower, a refuge of peace. May the peace of God be upon you all the days of your life!
I cant wait to watch this. I know that this woman will have her moment and she is going to be blessed abundantly. I feel it deep
Bindi, Bindi, Bindi….you’ve done it again with a great breakdown of someone’s experience to preach the word of God. To give us hope & understanding through someone like yourself who has been sharpened by the word of God. I have been through some very very tough times, and I knew in the midst when I was angry God was going to help me. Well, things are finally looking up for me. However, there are people most closest to me who are not happy that I am finally happy & moving on because this disrupts the storyline they had made me for me. This hurts me really bad, as I can’t escape it…but I will eventually with my person & I am very happy. Today I woke up a bit sad and stressed, stressed for the future and I needed this reminder. Thank you, and especially thank you to the Sister in Christ who submitted the story & question. God bless everyone.🤍
I tend to be solution driven when my wife expresses her feelings to me (doesnt work well). I took note at your method of validating the feelings expressed yet still able to share a different way to perceive lifes experiences.
My dad is the same way and it has frustrated me for years. I’m happy you will be validating her feelings expressed!
I have NEVER EVER heard anyone give such a perfect example of how yo pray! Thank you and many many blessings to you❤
I needed to hear this today. God is there. He just walks through the trenches with us. 💛
Good morning to all of my beautiful sisters in Christ. This video was absolutely beautiful. Thank sister Bindi for sharing this. Just to share a brief testimony. I'm the youngest of all of my mom's children,and I'm the only one that my mom named a meaningful name (Faith). I had strong abandonment issues due to my parents divorcing when I was very young,and this video just gave me clarity of The Lord showing himself Faithful through my trials and tribulations that he will never leave me or forsake me. I've been through much and The Lord has never left my side,so through my trials and tribulations he's healing my abandonment issues showing that he'll always be here with me. I love you sisters with the Love of The Lord. This was beautiful.
This was so good to watch. The Bible is alive! Christ is King! 🙏🏾
God's timing is so perfect. I usually try to watch your videos as SOON as they are uploaded but this one had been on my watch later playlist since it was uploaded until I finally had time to watch and listen.
You handled this letter with such compassion and empathy while speaking the truth in love and it reminded me of the goodness and sovereignty of God in my own life even when circumstances are less than. I believe that the things we go through are not just for ourselves, but for others, to help them and so that God can get the glory.
Hi Bindi, I am the other side of the homemaker (the bread winner) and I had a really hard discussion with my wife last night.
As my wife was talking about unrecognized talent, my wife used Sexy Red as an example, stating (generally) “I have more talent than her, but she’s richer than me.”
As she grows her channel, I feel she is in a place where she doesn’t understand the mission of her platform.
I used your channel as an example for how she should strive to present herself. ( That very much upsets her ).
Please do a video about how you found your purpose and identity while creating your channel, and what your opinion is on the expressions and success of creators like Sexy Red!
Great question! I too have a you tube channel. Not as big as Bindi's but I'm okay with that. I'll offer you some tips. I started my channel because I'm passionate about Eschatology. There aren't many women studying these things either. It was LOOOONG over due. I don't show my face, no fancy editing, and post as time permits because I'm a wife and mother of 5. And I recognize that this hurts my growth, but it works for me. I often have to remind myself that my work is unto the Lord. I'm not doing it for anyone else but him. That means I make peace with what I'm doing whether I have 10 subscribers or 1000 because it's not about me. It's about sharing God's message with whomever he chooses to bring to my channel. I let HIM bring the growth. So Im keen on not getting caught up in comparisons. Worldly channels will ALWAYS do better. She must Accept that. And we must be certain that whatever we do for the Lord isn't about what we can benefit from it, but instead how can we bless him name, bless his kingdom and share his message. This will take being honest about our motives and some self reflection. What's the "WHY" behind what we're doing. If we let go of what we cannot control and just be consistent and faithful in doing our work and service unto the Lord...... HE brings the increase. And then we bless him with gratitude for that increase.... whether great or small. 😊
10 minutes in, this video is such a blessing to me as someone who struggled recently with the same disillusionment, wauw thank you Bindi for being a servant of Christ to share the love of God and his character ✨🙏🏾
Binc Marc,Thank you and God bless you for your Biblical and Righteousness advice!I need to hear this Godly Wisdom, Again thanks and Continued Blessings!Weakness in God's Eyes are honest Christian who love Him and have faith in him.I want to learn so much about God as his love is forevermore!❤
Just an additional sentiment for the writer of the letter. God gives you rest through the renewing of your mind and not just your circumstances. His grace is sufficient for us.
Suffering is plentiful in the life of the believer, but when you believe you see your suffering differently. It helps you grow in patience, character and hope. A living sacrifice for our holy and merciful God.
May you find understanding and wisdom. ❤️
This was such a powerful video. So much was just being revealed even though my life. I can relate so much to a lot and there were times I ask God where are you or do you see me. When I was homeless pregnant in my third trimester with my 1 year old and my husband I had so many questions and at that time i didn’t get my answer. I was so angry and upset not understanding did God forgot about us. It was so hard and nothing we could do but in that moment God was moving I just couldn’t get out how I was feeling and what I was seeing. The biggest thing he wanted me to see was will I still worship honor and be obedient to him even through this harsh time and that was super challenging especially when worship songs would be sung. After a whole year of struggling to find a place dealing with being homeless from our car to staying at my dad I just didn’t see a end result but now we are in a place and I am closer to God then I ever been and I truly believe without I don’t where I would be. So this video is further more a reminder how holy sovereign and good God is ❤
This was sound advise. You covered all bases. ❤
Now about faith...
One can have faith in their ability to strategize and it yields results. That's why even unbelievers prosper.
Then there is faith in God. Which involves His process, way and timeline.
Walking around a building seven times is not a war strategy. His ways have always looked foolish, until things work out. My advise is, listen to God's instructions for your life regardless of how foolish you might look. God always makes the difference.🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I appreciate the way you take the time to break down every line of the letter. This was a much needed video as I myself find myself in the same position as the letter written. Also she articulated herself so clearly in this letter.
One of your videos was featured on "After Midnight" titled "Tradwife or 1800's Pilgrim Quote? Terry Crews Decides"
This was such a Blessing! Thank you Lord. Amen!
Jesus. 🎉
He’s the one we look towards. Job, Joseph, David, Abraham are all lives/events pointing towards the Messiah. Jesus experienced all the same emotional difficulties with out sin so he’s able to bear our burdens and forgive our sins as Matthew states.
I loved the points you made about prayer, Gods attributes, our temptation to feel as though we’ve been abandoned. I would also commend our sister in Christ to repent of any misapplied guilt she’s mistakenly applied to the Holy God.
I’ve definitely gone through these kids of trials and have come out refined. This is the work the Lord loves to do.
Thank you! This is the first video of yours I'm ever coming across, and I am very grateful. God bless you!
I see GOD everywhere in your story sis! Please don't lose heart. Weeping may endure for a night but your joy comes in the morning 🌄 press into GOD and rest in HIS secret place, it's safe and HE refreshes souls there. HE leads you in the path of righteousness for HIS name's sake. Even though you walk through the valley of the shadow of death, fear no evil because HE is with you!
You are trully blessed ❤
Thank you for sharing with us your wisdom.
As much it is advise to that young lady it is for all of us. I believe everyone can glean from this video
This is a beautiful video. Thank you.
Bindi, this was EXCELLENT!!🙌🙌🙌
That was a very good message. Thank you so much Bindi❤🙂
Jesus, hear my prayers. I want to quit but I’m holding on to my faith. As a single parent things are hard on me both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. I’m constantly struggling to provide the basic necessities for them I’m so ashamed. God hear my prayers. Every month I constantly struggle to pay my bills and struggle to provide groceries for my children Im so ashamed. BUT I KEEP FAITH. Even though I want to give up. Amen! 🙏🏾❤️
Praying for you! I understand how difficult it is, I have been there myself. May God make a way for you where there is no way as he has provided for me. He does hear your prayers!
To the author of that letter, I am less than halfway through the video, so I do not know if this was one of the suggestions or advice given to you. Yet, I will still say it; I urge you to pray to god and flat out say to him that it is so hard to trust him, but ask him to show you the ways in which he was with you in those times of troubles. Tell him, "God reveal to me, where were you in that time that I was ...?" I can tell you from experience of someone who has not had an easy life at all, that God is always with you. He doesn't make bad things happen to good people, but he always uses it for a greater purpose. The world was darkness, the world is darkness, God is the light in it.
So grateful for how you took your time to break this down. So encouraging!
very very good teaching! God bless you and the person who sent in the letter.
We been waiting for you to drop a vid Bindi 😭🎉🙌🏼🙌🏼
Oooh l can’t wait 🙌🏽🙌🏽♥️♥️!
Amen thank you Jesus you are amazing thank you bindi for making this video it hit me hard I really needed to hear this please keep making these kind of videos it helps me thank you!!❤
love your in depth discussion of the bible verses!! thanks for this 🙏🏿
I agree. Especially agree with independently learning who good is for me who is good for me in me around me. I'm not sure choker of the world I am in the world not of the world. Eternal life is so exciting them this temporal life. Amen
Thank you for this video. Keep shining your light.
I prayed for this thank you so much
This a whole sermon. Amen and Amen
Stellar!
God GAVE you the parts of your personality that will inevitably serve Him best.
MENTIONED BIBLE VERSES
- Numbers 23:19 “God is not a man, that he should lie […]”
- Isaiah 49:15 “[…] yet I will not forget you”
- II. Corinthians 12:9 “[…] my strength is made perfect in weakness […] for when I am weak, then am I strong.”
- Romans 8:28 “[…] all things work together for the best to those who love God and are called to his purpose”
- Job chapter 38
- Mark 9:24 “[…] I believe but help me in my unbelief.”
- Matthew 11:28 “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart: and you shall find rest in your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
- Deuteronomy 8:18 “And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power […]”
Christians, don't come for me, please. I was raised Christian and quickly moved away from this as a teen because the similarities between an abusive father who you're told you should love and a god who you're told the same about were too great. The scriptures quoted evoke the same emotions that I felt when relatives encouraged me to have faith in a broken human relationship and told me it was up to me to make an effort (gas lighting). Coming from that place I get this letter writer. Faith is hard and most times impossible to come by
Hugs to you. Being abused by someone who ought to protect you was really unfortunate. I pray you find healing.
I was abused in church and it can really be a challenge to be encouraged by scripture because I am sometimes scared of been to gentle, yet have no protection for myself and thereby been used and abused again. I love but people have to be held accountable and repent. There is no other way.
My question why do people blame god and not the devil?
We all been there too .❤❤
God Bless All Veterans
You are a great person. I understand you and the questions.
But still i will say trusting God is the way to process all these.
YOU are 24 and may God arise for you from henceforth.
God bless you and your future.
Smile Dear...
We all love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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John 9:1-5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
His disciples asked Him, “Rabbi (Teacher), who sinned, this man or his parents, that he would be born blind?” Jesus answered, “Neither this man nor his parents sinned, but it was so that the works of God might be displayed and illustrated in him. God glory is in your story, trust Him . God bless you .
I understand. I feel like God has preferences and it ain't Black People.
What are you even talking about? The entire Bible is about the negro race, their repeated disobedience and God's judgment on them by sending them into slavery and their eventual redemption, which is happening as we speak as He is gathering them back from all the nations where they were scattered bc of slavery.
Get closer to Him, I have experienced nothing but favor from God, He loves all of us but He's not a genie. Give him time
That couldn't be further from the truth, dear one! Please don't conflate worldly racist people with the Most High God. They're not a representation of God's preferences. We're the only ones that God blessed with melanin, which is a natural protection from the sun's rays that's literally more than gold! According to science, the more melanin you have, the less your pineal gland is calcified. And the less calcified your pineal is, the closer you are to God!
You'd be surprised. You may want to reread your Bible and focus on Deuteronomy. There is a reason why we specifically go through what we go through; we are not invisible to TMH... trust Him. I am a black woman who has received much favor in my life.
There are many Black people who have done well & live great lives, maybe you should tap into history. And instead of focusing on the bad that has happened to us, look at it as a way God strengthen us as people. We are more than our skin color.
God is always good! I’ve had a similar journey and it’s very hard but ask Jesus to change your heart from a heart of stone to a heart of flesh. He has done it for me, when I’ve had struggles in my life. The TRAUMA must be resolved and activating the PARASYMPATHETIC nervous system will allow healing is very important. Sing the psalms is both warfare and will help to reset your nervous system and pray for Jesus to help you. Things are very different once your whole system comes out of survival mode. Be very kind to yourself and take your time. Psalm 139 God knows each of us and He knows how we heal and Psalm 100 ❤️🩹❤️
How do we communicate with you @bindimarc? I would love to have your advice