5 Ways to Attract HIGH-QUALITY Men | Christian Dating Tips | Heather Mitchell
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- Hey Friends! In today's video, we are talking about 5 ways to attract HIGH-QUALITY men as a single Christian woman. I hear all the time - "Are there any good men left? WHERE are all the good Christian men?" and "Why do I KEEP attracting the same type of men over and OVER?" Well, I said these things myself a time or two when I was single, so today I want to share some ideas on how we can shift our thinking when it comes to how to attract better men as single Christian women.
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Heather, when you said "You must be a high-quality woman to attract a high-quality man", it reminded me of Sarah Pierrepont, whose extraordinary godliness attracted the attention and affection of her husband, the great theologian Jonathan Edwards. "You attract not what you are looking for, but what you are." Well said. A woman must aim to be a Sarah Pierrepont to impress a Jonathan Edwards.
Anil, thank you so much for sharing that! What a wonderful example! 🧡
Hello Heater, a lot of women want high-quality men while their self are not high-quality. I'm a man and can confirm that!
A lot of truth in this video!
Many women and men seek great results without much effort.
I’m terribly shy, unconfident, and returning to the Christian faith. But I am working to better myself. I hope that returning and in my temporary ignorance and shyness, it won’t hinder my chances of a Christian man taking notice of me.
It's 2024, women need to pursue men
@@madeasimmons9746 I’ve got my eye on a good one. I just need to convince him I’m not a feminist since he’s nervous to talk to me right now. He’s already had his heart broken once. So once bitten twice shy. How can I prove to him I do want to be a trad wife and I don’t believe in divorce? He’s a year older than me
@@madeasimmons9746 I’ve got my eye a good man who’s a year older than me. I just need to try to convince him since he’s already had his heart broken by a vile woman once.
I tried replying just like this but CZcams deleted my reply
Edit: I don’t believe in divorce and I want to be a trad wife and mother. How do I convince him since he’s once bitten twice shy?
@@madeasimmons9746 i’ve got my eye on a good one I just need to try to convince him. I’ve tried replying to you twice now and CZcams deleted my comments. he’s once bitten twice shy so he’s nervous.
@@madeasimmons9746 I have my eye on one, I just need to convince him
Hey Heather,I follow your counsel,and I feel The Holy Spirit using you to be blessing to others, I love your simplicity ,humbly speaking from the overflow of your heart, Blessings
@Robert Otieno, thank you so much for your kind words! 🙌🏻
Thanks you are so right. I did a lot of self work, my vibration was high and I attracted tons of men including an ex. I chose my ex and it didn’t work out and I started getting that feeling like there are no good men. But remembered that it all starts with me. That taught me a lesson too never go backwards move forward. Truth is at your best you are loved and you attract what you are or believe you deserve. Now I know my worth!
Thanks enjoyed this video very practical and wise... Abraham's servant positioned himself by the well where women come to water their flocks...
@Anne Mulcahy, I'm so glad that you enjoyed it! Yes, a great example!
Watching I was thinking this all applies very much to men as well (which surprise I am). Be what you want to attract, know what you want, position yourself (to paraphrase) what was said in this vid. The advice is truly appreciated. Reaffirmed what I knew instinctively through years of trial and error. Once again thanks and best wishes to all the folks watching as well.
I love your videos! They are super helpful. You mentioned men love confident women - How do you become a confident woman when you seriously struggle with social anxiety, self doubt & insecurities? I have struggled with this my whole 26 years on this earth. I have never been able to make friends or have any sort of close relationship because I am so worried about how people perceive me - that what I say isn’t intelligent enough, I’m not interesting, etc etc. It’s just hard to relax and be myself around people.
Can you try Christian counseling to work on why you worry so much ? It might help you reframe stressful situations do you fi feel confident and enjoy them
Stop thinking about yourself so much.
Self consciousness is driven by self centeredness.
If you focus on others, serving them, listening to what they say, and responding to their thoughts, you will stop thinking about yourself as much. It's a habit. This is the secret of extroverts.
In the Bible, Paul said to consider others more highly than yourself.
If you focus on others, you're not focusing on you.
I truly enjoy it! Great pointers indeed. I love the fact that you mentioned be the person that you want to attract, this is key indeed.
Absolutely! So glad you enjoyed it! 🙌🏻
Hello Heather, I m 1st to watch this video 😊!! I like to listen to your advices 👍🏾
Thank you so much for being here and watching @Isabel Mayolo! 💕
I agree with this video much. Woman who know their value is an incredible virtue; Be selective
Subscribed for faith based Christian dating tips. Thank you Heather.
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I love this video it has given me a lot of good points so thank you thank you for posting this.
I'm so glad that you found it helpful Renee!
Thank you 🙏
Timely message for where I am in my single season 💛
It also helps if your young and beautiful
Thank you for doing this video, i really need this..How about tips or advise on how to find future husband during this time of pandemic when most of the time we are not allowed to socialize?
Absolutely, and thank you for the feedback!
This very helpful thanks for sharing!! I enjoy watching your videos. Keep it up! Stay blessed 😇
Thank you! I'm so happy that you found it helpful and that you are enjoying the videos! 🙌🏻💕
The convent is taking applications 😂😂😂
Thank you so much! This is so helpful💓💓💓
@Nanny Heather, I'm so glad you found it helpful! 💕
I want to live in celibacy, so it's unlikely I would be dating or seeking marriage. Yes there are good benefits to remaining celibate and not being sexually active. I find sex draining strength and loss of mental clarity! So I am done with the dating scene...
You got your husband, but many other Godly men and women have gone decades without a spouse. God doesn't promise anyone marriage! He promises eternal life in Heaven!
Wowww very interesting to watch your video i like your content I’m also looking for Quality woman in my life because i know good women there ok my friends i like to let you know I’m are new friends in your home 🥰🥰🛎🛎🥰🥰
Thanks you so much for watching and I'm so happy that you are enjoying the content! Blessings, H.
By good man, she means man with money
Sweet girl , lovely
How about 5 feet girl looking for 6 feet guy.. I don't see a point here frankly
A lot of worldy women in the church. Sad when I attract a ton of young women at church based on my money when there are honestly better, more spiritually fit guys than me at our age that they don't bat an eye at.
Simple tip for women: we prefer to marry pure women, though that's sadly impossible with how men and women behave today and it's probably too late for women watching this... still, don't mess around with guys, don't do hookups/one night stands, don't do relationships for fun/out of boredom, don't date assholes, preserve your value for your husband. Your past matters and we'll have an issue with it, we want you to experience the world with us, not other guys. Stay away from clubs, and have some critical thinking when you pick a guy to date, see if he had past relationships and why they ended, if he's been in multiple relationships, he's probably a player, especially if he's good looking, watch out for his lies, don't sleep with him until you can see yourself marrying him and he also is happy to talk about your future together, you meet each other's parents etc. Quite frankly, your best bet is with people you met in high school, university or work and that you spent time forming a friendship with, but most women chase the chad during education and it's quite late by the time they realize they should give the nice guys/dorks a chance, now your value is low and theirs is high and will look for younger women.
Your education and your job won't matter too much to us, we don't need your money or your degree, we'll want someone who we can do our own things together with. Don't get the confidence thing twisted, confident does not mean you're loud and bossy and full of vanity, it means you know your worth and respect yourself, if you sleep with a guy at a party, and you let some random guy to use you, you don't respect yourself and we won't either, the guy who has to marry you knowing some other dude just had to spin you around his finger is getting a raw deal and will hate the idea of marrying you.
Honestly, you should marry/get into a committed relationship young, find a guy you can settle with and who shows potential and the discipline to achieve it and invest in him, don't wait until he's at the finish line, the older you get, the more guys you've probably been with, the less attractive you become, the sooner you'll want to have children instead of enjoying your youth together. Sorry but time is not on your side, on anyone's side really, and two of the most important assets you have for a man: purity and beauty, are quickly flying away as time goes on. Don't get it twisted, those are not the only things that matter, but those are the only bargaining tokens you have, interests and character matter, but those are assumed to be compatible otherwise we wouldn't be considering a relationship with you in the first place.