Your Mother Complex Is Destroying Your Relationships | Carl Jung
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- This video explores the mother complex and how it affects your relationships.
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bro you explain Jungian psyche very easily , keep it up.
Thanks a lot 🙏
People often don't realise the 'mother complex' isn't about one's actual mother. I'm glad you highlighted this. I'm inspired to make a video. I love your channel. Interesting Jung is getting more into my algorithms!
My ex-boyfriend had mother complex, now I could understand the whole thing. The relationship was like an emotional rollercoaster leading me almost insane. I wish I could send him the video.
hi, am i your ex? lol
@@thatman3107 what is your name hhh?
@hypetiaff2114 well my initials are TC. However I was just commenting on the similarity of our experiences. I think modern Indian men struggle with the mother complex more than others.
@@thatman3107 I understand, you are not my ex haha, my ex know my YT id 🤣
same and i feel you ..
This video has profound meaning for all men!
My biological mother is a selfish, consuming dragon. I spent the first two years of my life with her, although I hardly remember those years now. Then, I moved in with my cousin and her mother, who took care of me. She was definitely better, but she had 10 another kids to take care of and hardly noticed me, and I only remember small snippets of the time I spent with her. In fact, it was my cousin, who is perhaps just 6-10 years older than me, who took on the role of a mother figure. She showed me true, unconditional love. I remember the time I spent with her vividly, even today.But when I was around six years old, I was forced to move back with my biological mother. I hate her. I've never felt any genuine love from or for her. I don't remember spending a single enjoyable day with her. She treated us like her slaves and workers while she watched TV all day.
Now, I'm in my 20s, and my life feels like a failure. I have no contact with any of my family, not even my cousin. I don't have any friends, I didn't finish school, I don't have a driver's license, I have no achievements, and I have terrible social skills. There's nothing that keeps me going. I don't blame everything on her, but she definitely played a major role.
I could try to fix my life-go back to school, get a job, save up, and get a driver's license-but I have no motivation to even get out of bed in the morning. Sometimes I stay in bed for 24 hours. If I had the means, I would have ended my life long ago.
I’m sorry to hear this. This is sad that you endured this and still feel this. It may help you. Also going for walks in nature as nature may give you another perspective
Have you heard of the book new earth by eckhart tolle?
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Thank you, bro, for that.
Yeah, nature is one of the few true joys I experience nowadays.
And No, I have not heard of that book. I will take a look at it now though. Thank you.
Wow I do not have words for how sad this makes me feel for you. I can relate to parts and know great sorrow can really mess you up. You could really benefit by exercising. Its such a mood enhancing practice. It has done wonders for me not feeling the dred of existence. My mother was and is cold and mean as could be. And Ive hated her for bringing me into this world still at 50. But exercising my body just does wonders for me. I had to make myself find ways to make it enjoyable. But when you do it feels so good and makes life look completely different. Bad days will still happen but you can do this. Have that faith in yourself. Learn to unconditionally love yourself!!!! Best wishes to you!
@@lovelace8702 thanks for the kind words ♥️. And I agree, Exercise is magical. Gym itself became a little stale for me, but I have just signed up to a swimming hall lady week and am enjoying it very much. Was never a swimmer growing up, but just the learning process itself is really enjoyable for me.
@@PostalDude97 I think you are spot on. I have been doing some research myself, and that sounds about the conclusion I also made; Neglect growing up.
But how can you rest emotionally?
Nice! I disagree with the other comment, your pronunciation is quite fine. I found the video very helpful, thank you.
Thank you! 🙌
Brilliant. Thank you for clarifying things we can see and feel but not articulate . As a woman, I appreciate this very much
Bro you have to blow up , this channel is 👌 you deserve so many more listeners
Can you create something like this for the negative father complex on women - especially how to deal from it?
yes will do soon!
Feel I could use more insight into how these mother complexes developed, what types of women they may draw in, which types of complexes they may have, and how to solve it.
Thanks my friend, you choose to use your own voice, even your face. I have asked for that many times, it gives a personal depth to your presentations. I have read and studied Jung for some years now, and you are one of the best here to convey his work. You manage to maintain the the essence og Jung. Great job, looking forward to the next.
thanks🙏
I just started talking to woman again and once i see them as a potential partner i screw it up. Overthink myself to death and ruin it. Never had a mother in my life since i was 5 and all i do is f*ck up every relationship i have. Idk where to go from here but i refuse to give up. I dont want to be alone anymore
This is an amazing breakdown thank you
How interesting and ironic that I found this video whereby last night I dreamt of arguing with my mom.
hey philemon, thanks for putting yourself out there and helping us know a little bit more about the self, i was never aware of the mother complex, but now i know, i will work on it....
Thank you, very well said. Understand. I don't know where I'm, but I definitely want to heal so I can be with my other half.
Excellent! Clear, concise and precise! Thank you!
What about Inner Critic? Inner Quitter? Why do we need MC if we have parts ?
It sounds like you’re referring to IFS here. This video is about Jungian psychology, which uses a different schema to understand the psyche
Thank you bold Sage! Boundless Love and Light to you my brother~○
Great video. Keep it up brother
Please talk about the Father complex
This was a very interesting analysis!
Thank you, I listened to a lot about this topic but I think you explain it very well, very down to earth and useful. Keep it up! Cheers
Yo! I follow you on Instagram. I'm glad this was in my recommendation feed 🙏🏾
Ok, so what do we do about it to resolve it?
right?
He said to confront your inner dragon!
@@fennyellis3366 I heard what he said. That's vague AF. I was asking him to elaborate on how to do that, not for someone to repeat what he said.
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It's different for everyone.
Read some Jung books and find out what it means for you.
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Great stuff brother.
Love and blessings!
Great video. Watched twice. Keep it up!
Very interesting and insightful, thank you. And you spoke well, the captions weren't needed.
Great video man! Keep up the good work.
Very well explained, good deep psychology stuff
I am only 20 seconds in to the video- but have read all of the works of Jung and many analysts- I recommend Puer Aeturnus w this subject and Jungian lens
You got a new subscriber. Keep posting!
I am a divine being and I have many die for me daily. The spirit shall slay all for me. There is no truth in any but me. Such evil I see. How terrible they are.
I would want to see all points writen. And look at them at ones. Without now needing to find them all out.
Thank you 😊
Excellent video. Thank you for sharing.
Deep Expertise. Thanks 😊❤
Jesus. Be a therapist already. I got more insight from you than I have from my own therapists.
Somebody got triggered ha? Maybe you should take that to your next session with your psychologist.
@@danielm978 I think Christian meant it as a compliment 😅
What if a man doesnt have a good relationship with the mother and was dependent on the men in the neighborhood to raise him
Great video! I subscribed!
Very informative
I didn’t feel accepted by my mother. Now I want my wife to touch me, in an accepting loving way.
But beyond what a mother would, or should.
If we need by nature loving parents isn't this a request from evolution? Then why do we fail at it so much? Then shouldn't we not need this as part of our biology? Then why do we need loving parents? Pay attention how many things getting screwed if there's lack of love. Then what is it - from an evolutionary standpoint? If not the biggest evolutionary advantage.
I think the psychic evolution is somewhat different than biological evolution. In regard to the psyche, it’s not liner but cyclical. That’s why the archetypal patters repeats itself throughout history.
Like fractals, wider and wider@@philemon_
All biological beings fail a lot, being eaten by competing species, infections, siblings etc. Who knows, maybe psychically we are also being eaten by competing mind viruses.
Is there a similar complex a woman could have?
Subscribed as fuck
7:40 ....yeah, me.
Is there such a thing as the Father Complex?
yes there is. Will make a video on it soon!
Can you please make this video in Hindi as well
Can women have Mother Complex?
yes
He is to cling to his wife ❤ let go of the titty..no failure
to launch here❤ he knows fear of the Lord is the first step out into the world. He will be chastised and he will be LOVED ❤
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Why would poe's marrying a child support the argument that it's possibly a result of the mother complex? If he married a women much older or overtly motherly, that would make sense but it's rather unlikely that a 13 year old would fulfill that role.
every projection have their own subjective roots. For some it can be older woman but for some it can younger ones.
can women possess this complex?
yes
i love this do you have father comlex too?
Will make one
The Inner Critic? Mine is like Sergeant Hartman from Full Metal Jacket
@@jackalope2302 LOL
I'm just so confused. Is she trying to ruin my life or did she actually care and if so, damn.
Check Jesse lee Peterson to learn more
jung was a genius, but this is not a science of any kind. i get the "ugabuga" vibe 'ere.
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There is no mother complex.
Go find a baby girl complex😂
My eyes are over here bud
Hang on, you just said that mother complex has nothing to do with our real mother and now you are telling us how these men were affected by their mothers??
in regards to real mothers, it's usually due to projection.
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You explained well, but please work on your English pronunciation - it's off-putting.
Accent is okay for non natives
I don't find it at all offputting.
omg
@@andriyandriychuk Im a non native and the accent was fine because i know people who don't live in the west who speak English have accents.
Wow, unnecessary criticism or excellent sarcastic joke?
Thank you 🙏