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  • @preservid
    @preservid Před 5 lety +317

    I also went through this. The day I was to mail our invitations off, My then fiancé called and said DONT SEND THEM......I sold everything to do with the wedding and went on a two week vacation to California. I met my Now Husband and we got married 3 months later in a very quiet low key wedding (the first one was a huge "Show"). We have now been Happily married 41 years! To this day we often say that we owe this other guy a Big Thank you, if he hadnt broken the engagement I would have never left for California and we would never have met!

  • @sophiasmith6111
    @sophiasmith6111 Před 5 lety +1835

    As harsh as it seems - it's better this happened before you got married , rather than a few years down the line when it would of been that much more complicated . Sending love your way ❤️❤️

    • @jackienolan9142
      @jackienolan9142 Před 5 lety +44

      Sophia smith agree 100%. Consider it a bullet dodged and you will end up with the person who you were meant to be with.

    • @suvachatomar
      @suvachatomar Před 5 lety +63

      I don’t want to seem harsh but he always seemed weird to me. It looked like she loved and adored him way more than he loved her. You’ll find someone amazing that will look at you with true love Amelia!

    • @vogamadrid207
      @vogamadrid207 Před 5 lety +6

      Oficially they are married, they married in the Uk, she said that in one of her vlogs. They did in order to get married later in France (paper work).

    • @Cara-39
      @Cara-39 Před 5 lety +6

      @@suvachatomar It's hard to know what really goes on when the camera is turned off and some people are just not comfortable in front of one. He may have seemed standoffish but CZcams videos are so edited that we really only see what the channel owner wants us to.

    • @KwniStewart
      @KwniStewart Před 5 lety +7

      @@suvachatomar You can't really know if he loves her or not just by the way he shows on camera. Some people get really uncomfortable in front of one or they don't show much emotion in general, but that doesn't mean she wasn't loved

  • @mariat978
    @mariat978 Před 5 lety +732

    He was not the one darling....You are blessed with health,family and friends....I guarantee you will get through it....there is not a single doubt in my mind....

  • @SusieB361
    @SusieB361 Před 5 lety +1218

    Amelia, I am so sorry for you. My current husband married his first wife and as they were driving away from the church in London he knew in his heart it was wrong, but he had made the commitment. Six months later she dumped him. He was so devastated that he left London and moved to Miami. That’s where I met him! We’ve been married 39 years and together for 41. People often ask us how we’ve been together that long. The answer is simple: you marry the right person. I am so glad that his first wife dumped him! He wasn’t the right person for her, but he is the one for me! You will find “the one”. ❣️❣️❣️

    • @LaraJoannaJarvis
      @LaraJoannaJarvis Před 5 lety +35

      That is so lovely, 39 years is incredible! Everything happens for a reason x

    • @lw729
      @lw729 Před 5 lety +16

      this is very sweet - definitely teared up! Thank you for sharing!

    • @kat.5927
      @kat.5927 Před 5 lety +10

      Such a sweet story Susie!

    • @claudiaschultz95
      @claudiaschultz95 Před 5 lety +8

      This is so wonderful! Wishing you all the happiness in the world x

    • @emmastrachan9997
      @emmastrachan9997 Před 5 lety +7

      What an amazing message! How lovely 🥰

  • @MrMissesFabulous
    @MrMissesFabulous Před 5 lety +819

    In my opinion it was the bravest thing to decide this while planning a wedding. Takes so much courage! There will be the right man one day!

    • @jenm9027
      @jenm9027 Před 5 lety +15

      MrMissesFabulous I was thinking the same thing. Some would go through with it just because all of the planning was done. You are wise, Amelia!

    • @hemlockknits
      @hemlockknits Před 5 lety +16

      So much respect. It does get better with ever passing day. I didn’t cancel my wedding when I knew I should. Worst mistake of my life. Going through a divorce is so horrible.

    • @jaykay5541
      @jaykay5541 Před 5 lety

      @@hemlockknits same.

  • @myliemoore6254
    @myliemoore6254 Před 5 lety +1022

    I’ve been there before. My engagement fell apart. But 10 months later I met my now husband. 15 years strong. It will happen when it’s right. Take the time you need and heal. Much love to you!❤️

    • @petrak4746
      @petrak4746 Před 5 lety +8

      mylie moore yaaaas happy endings do happen x☺️

    • @suesheification
      @suesheification Před 5 lety +8

      Damn. It's been ten years for me and I've met no one.

    • @CARIBLOVE
      @CARIBLOVE Před 5 lety +1

      @@suesheification 😂😂

    • @cdh5068
      @cdh5068 Před 5 lety +22

      Yes! My mom was engaged when she was younger and they called it off. Shortly after, she met my dad and 40 years later they’re so in love. My fiancé was engaged before too, which ended with his ex cheating. He met me just a few months later and in two weeks I get to call his my husband! Better things will come

    • @TheLCLeung
      @TheLCLeung Před 5 lety

      CARIBLOVE bcXcxcghu

  • @jadesquires1346
    @jadesquires1346 Před 5 lety +811

    There are a lot of people who stay in an unhappy relationship as they can’t find the strength or courage to go through the break up. You’re a brave and beautiful woman who deserves to be incredibly happy, sending you hugs Amelia 💕

    • @prajaktakanade8907
      @prajaktakanade8907 Před 5 lety +1

      So true

    • @JJBabbles
      @JJBabbles Před 5 lety +1

      Eloquently said. Very true

    • @DGenerationX1311
      @DGenerationX1311 Před 5 lety +1

      Beautifully put

    • @poojaketaruth2920
      @poojaketaruth2920 Před 5 lety +1

      Love you Jade. U deserve peace and happiness. Dont let ur past define ur glorious future. Much love ur way😚😚😚😚

    • @abcdefghijklmno785
      @abcdefghijklmno785 Před 4 lety

      been there, done that. got out of a 5-year miserable relationship with a cheater and a violent man. whew. i guess, you won't find out who someone really is until you are living in the same house. well, we werent married but we lived together.

  • @froncifresh
    @froncifresh Před 5 lety +492

    Throughout the video i wanted to reach out through the screen and hug you so badly. Stya strong amelia, you ARE that strong 💓 and love will most definitely find you again and catch you by surprise

  • @sophiaottley7203
    @sophiaottley7203 Před 5 lety +903

    This takes guts. I'm not gonna lie. I stopped watching your channel because I was a bit overwhelmed with the wedding content. But to go from that to now having to face the world and say you're not ok and everything wasn't as it seems is truly courageous and something not alot of people have the strength to do. But it only proves one thing - you love and care deeply for the people in your life. It's a beautiful gift and something you should only share with someone who is worthy.
    I truly wish you the best Amelia, your spirit and love will take you to far greater places than you've ever imagined. God has plans for you.

  • @ilovesnoopy7018
    @ilovesnoopy7018 Před 5 lety +251

    One of the best decisions I made was to call off my wedding in 2002.
    I’m so glad I didn’t marry him.
    He would have been a disaster.
    Now I’m married to a wonderful and loving man.
    Give yourself time to heal.

  • @TheAnnaEdit
    @TheAnnaEdit Před 5 lety +1293

    Sending you so much love Amelia ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sandispady9058
    @sandispady9058 Před 5 lety +1028

    Never felt 100% for this relationship. Was just so happy for your happiness. Now so sad for your sadness. Don't change for anyone. Keep being you!

    • @Nairah912
      @Nairah912 Před 5 lety +79

      Unfortunately I had the same feeling, she looked so happy though. However, I’m glad it happened now and not after the marriage. There’s someone out there for all of us ☺️

    • @bellissima78
      @bellissima78 Před 5 lety +9

      Same feeling. And I feel so bad, but she will move on to what is right!

    • @aliciacomprayha
      @aliciacomprayha Před 5 lety +9

      Same! Better to be sad now than destroyed later 😣💕

    • @chockycake1
      @chockycake1 Před 5 lety +12

      Sandi Spady same here..it really was all moving so fast. Very sad though.

    • @ChichiMike777
      @ChichiMike777 Před 5 lety +6

      I felt it was too fast

  • @gmx3700
    @gmx3700 Před 5 lety +306

    Personally feel relieved for you, I feel like he was not the man you were supposed to be with. You deserve all the love in the world, you'll find real love Amelia. Thank you for sharing this with us, you're so strong! Sending you all the love and best wishes 💖

  • @Truth1561
    @Truth1561 Před 5 lety +138

    Better now than end up divorced . You’re young and beautiful and once you’ve healed the world is your oyster .

    • @somiyachapman
      @somiyachapman Před 5 lety

      Sue Hadley didn’t she JUST have her Greek weeding? I thought her mom was there...?

  • @indigobluerainbowsun
    @indigobluerainbowsun Před 5 lety +345

    You're grieving a lost future and sometimes that can be almost as painful as losing a person. You've achieved so much in your life so far and as the saying goes, after hardship comes ease, so wishing you the absolute best xxx

  • @chrissylong6001
    @chrissylong6001 Před 5 lety +460

    One thing I love about you is how you address issues. You maintain your own privacy and respect others, while letting viewers be a part of what you’re going through in a classy way. Love 💕

  • @irenemorfin1
    @irenemorfin1 Před 5 lety +270

    Amelia I’m heartbroken for you but, I also want to applaud your strength and courage. There’s literally thousands of people who love you and want the best for you all over the world. So all the way from Arizona sending you a huge hug!!!! Thank you for continuing to be a light!

  • @annaschulz3695
    @annaschulz3695 Před 5 lety +244

    We are half a million people right behind you, sweet girl❤️❤️All around the world. Two things we all have in common besides YOU are understanding the power of love, but also the meaning of a heartbreak..😘

  • @voonkeychee1238
    @voonkeychee1238 Před 5 lety +106

    We are in similar situation. Wedding date was announced , bridal dress was ready, but wedding never happened. Was a tough time for me, coz I did not know how to manage my own emotion. But I did it. I survived it. Trust in the timing of god. He has better thing for us.

  • @yourgalcal8965
    @yourgalcal8965 Před 5 lety +128

    I’m so glad you didn’t settle Amelia. You are worth the best person the world has to offer you and nothing less ❤️

  • @philippaweare6139
    @philippaweare6139 Před 5 lety +254

    Hi Amelia, I very rarely comment. Just wanted to say, I am so sorry for you and commend you for such an honest, difficult and dignified update. Take care xx

  • @BeingGemmaJones
    @BeingGemmaJones Před 5 lety +274

    Aw Amelia devastated for you. This happened to me 10 years ago. Was the worst moment of my life. But time moves us on. I hope you’ll be ok xxx

  • @Bexsta
    @Bexsta Před 5 lety +210

    I'm proud of you for putting together a thoughtful, graceful and honest video about something deeply personal. Please keep your head up! This to will pass. x

  • @15lamisma
    @15lamisma Před 5 lety +207

    I’d like to say one thing; perhaps the one never comes, perhaps he comes and then you go or viceversa. This relationship didn’t work out but your relationship with yourself must stand still and strong. It won’t be easy and at this point it shouldn’t be. Don’t look for happiness if you feel sad, look for comfort and allow yourself to ride this rollercoaster of emotions.
    You may or may not say “I do” to a man but remember to say “yes, I do” to yourself everyday.
    We are here for you.

  • @jonieanthony3991
    @jonieanthony3991 Před 5 lety +47

    I didn’t feel like this was going to go anywhere because it was so fast , everything very fast. Take your time , love will find you.

  • @snicolexoxo
    @snicolexoxo Před 5 lety +431

    Amelia, thank you for posting this. My boyfriend of 3.5 years, whom I live with and thought I was spending the rest of my life with, broke up with me 2 days ago. I have never felt so devastated. Seeing you only a few weeks later doing so well gives me hope that I can get to that place. This is my first real heart break and right now it feels like I’m never going to be happy again. Sending you lots of love from Canada.

    • @LittleCheeseburger
      @LittleCheeseburger Před 5 lety +25

      I feel exactly the same as you right now and I am so grateful for Amelia posting this video and you commenting too. I was with my boyfriend for just under 3 years, also living together and I also thought I was spending the rest of my life with him, and he also broke up with me. It is also my first real heart break and I cannot see myself finding anyone else right now. Amelia's video has given me hope and strength too, and I hope that knowing that you're definitely not alone will help you too (as your comment helped me). So far, I have just found it helpful to take each day at a time.

    • @myja100
      @myja100 Před 5 lety +5

      All the love and best wishes to you xxx If you ever need to talk, please don’t hesitate to ask!

    • @Adrenaline2024
      @Adrenaline2024 Před 5 lety +20

      It is their loss ladies, but don’t worry, it heals.. i have been dumped 3 times by men, and everytime it happened i felt like i can never forget and move on.. but ladies God is great.. and once you heal you will start asking yourself “what on earth did i love about this loser?!” Trust me.. just take your time to heal.. the right one is waiting for you somewhere 😊

    • @naniomitendayo
      @naniomitendayo Před 5 lety +2

      Girl, I've been there. I know how you feel. I'm so sorry you are going through this now. Believe me, you will be happy again! Sending hugs and support your way.

    • @marchesachaneldior
      @marchesachaneldior Před 5 lety +1

      I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending you positive thoughts 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ritualzzz
    @ritualzzz Před 5 lety +213

    One day when the right man comes, you'll know everything was worth it. Be strong. and trust the Universe

  • @cristinapoole9144
    @cristinapoole9144 Před 5 lety +267

    this broke my heart. i can’t even imagine how you’ve been feeling.

  • @audreychu5447
    @audreychu5447 Před 5 lety +10

    Thank you for publicly saying a therapist helped you through this sad time! As someone with mental health diagnoses, it is so wonderful to hear that a public figure also sees a professional; it helps break stigma!! Sending much warmth and love to you, I hope you stand up stronger from this, and I know I know it’s cheesy, but there is no love like the love a woman gives herself and her friends. 💕

  • @nathaliebevers773
    @nathaliebevers773 Před 4 lety +21

    It's exactly 1 year ago that you posted this and I just wanted to say I'm so proud of how you've grown since this moment. I'm glad you're so much happier now!

  • @lilacr.4739
    @lilacr.4739 Před 5 lety +54

    He lost you Amelia... he lost the most precious and beautiful woman! Amelia, you didn’t lose anything... keep this in mind darling!

  • @aishaness
    @aishaness Před 5 lety +162

    I’m sorry Amelia, it just means he wasn’t the one and that’s okay. You are still wonderful and funny and you deserve someone truly special.

  • @PeepsMcNutley
    @PeepsMcNutley Před 5 lety +164

    I had a feeling... this just means that he wasn’t the one. I hope you’re feeling better & that you continue to feel better! Hugs to you and to Duke.

    • @Solatruth
      @Solatruth Před 5 lety +24

      Kimberly Holt I agree with you! He felt weird. But I’m so sad for you Amelia 💔

    • @user-xu4uh1wp7t
      @user-xu4uh1wp7t Před 5 lety +6

      Me too, whilst we don't see behind closed doors, it also seemed they were both great people but a little too different - But the main thing is that I hope they both find happiness and contentment in their own journeys 💗

  • @nabbott16
    @nabbott16 Před 5 lety +7

    Coming from a person who was in your shoes 16 months ago (engaged and having to cancel a wedding) it does get easier. Although there are days where I think ‘Why me?!!’ I agree it was a time which showed how loved I was and what great family and friends I had. You can do this.

  • @kellig2211
    @kellig2211 Před 5 lety +51

    I just want to say I am so PROUD of you! I never had a peace about him, but I wanted to enjoy watching you do all the wedding things and see the joy in your heart. I felt you knew more than the things you chose to share in a video. You must know , and maybe be relieved when it all comes down to it, that your soulmate is out there and he's looking for you. May you feel peace, comfort, and hope! You are so loved by so many!

  • @TaraDuncan1971
    @TaraDuncan1971 Před 5 lety +132

    I had a feeling something had happened and my heart goes out to you, been there myself, I remember sobbing while sending emails to cancel my wedding venue and all wedding stuff, sobbed picking up the wedding dress. But I came through it and so will you. It will take time but times a healer. Much love to you and Duke. Xx

  • @FoodieForce
    @FoodieForce Před 5 lety +123

    I am absolutely heartbroken for you both, I say both because no one ventures into a proposal wishing to end up where you are. You might not think it now but it is a blessing for you both. You could have ended up married, children, cheating and divorce. Now you have the space to rebuild for a better and happier future one that will be true. Sending love, do the things that you need and you will mend. Much love x

  • @katiethriveshine
    @katiethriveshine Před 5 lety +235

    Sobbing my heart out for you. And yet, I’m sorry to say, I had a feeling, a knowing that this was not the man for you. I think a lot of your followers did, which is utterly ridiculous as we only see fragments of your life and relationship so really can’t comment but I felt an uneasiness. I so wanted it to be right for you, sweet girl and I’m sorry that it’s over. However, I know only too well that endings make for glorious new beginnings and that the future is so very bright for you. Sending sincerest love and healing to you x

    • @CARIBLOVE
      @CARIBLOVE Před 5 lety +11

      I always said he wasn't for her by just his vibe and world be called a "hater". Some things are easier seen from the outside

    • @fauziadesai3544
      @fauziadesai3544 Před 5 lety +3

      Katie Hedges In a weird way I also felt the same 😔

    • @rania9332
      @rania9332 Před 5 lety +4

      I knew it also. Something was off.

    • @v-r-o-n4978
      @v-r-o-n4978 Před 5 lety +28

      I agree. There was something negative about him to my eye; a certain palpable distance between him and Ameila that I could sense objectively (but when you are in love, you may not be alert to). Amelia seems so warm and open, and I found him a bit cold in her presence. In time I think she will look back and realise he released her from an unhappy future and she will be grateful. There is someone better out there for her. I know it. Someone more like Guy, perhaps. A best friend with warmth, laughter and positivity as their default. Life is full of drains and radiators. Amelia is the latter and she needs someone to reflect her warmth back at her. Not absorb it.

    • @GuusjeSparkles
      @GuusjeSparkles Před 5 lety +6

      Such a loving comment! Thank you for writing that.
      And it's really about that gut instinct. Something was off. It dripped through the screen and many picked up on it.
      In time she will let go of the hopes she had about having a/this marriage and will try to find het true match where marriage will be 'just a special day' in happy fulfilling relationship.
      I'm just so glad she's shielded with friendships and family.
      This will pass. And new days full of new love with come. To share with them. And maybe us.
      To come back to that gut feeling:
      She's always so relaxed and her true giddy self around Guy.
      I hope she will find The One that will let her be thát way (too) and who will embrace her for all she is and not is. But just as she is. And who is wanting to grow (old) together and share hopes, fears, dreams and wishes with her as a true team with intertwined hearts and lives.
      Wishing you all the best Amelia.
      Proud of how you are dealing with this. You are strong. Someone will carry you one day 😘

  • @ohouda1517
    @ohouda1517 Před 5 lety +30

    Amelia, I am so sorry to hear that. I don't know how to tell you but I thought since the first time I saw you together in the vlogs that he doesn't suit you. Maybe it's better this happened sooner than later. wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart. LOVE YOU

  • @lenlen8488
    @lenlen8488 Před 4 lety +10

    I'm so sorry Amelia, only people that's going through same process truly understands how you feel. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday after 9 years and he has the guts to tell me how happy he is with the new girlfriend. My heart is broken and I don't know how to heal. Watching you made me feel I can move on and begin a renewed spirit.

    • @MegaTinygirl
      @MegaTinygirl Před 4 lety +1

      Hi Lenlen, hope your okay. My fiancé of 8 years has just ending things suddenly last night and I’m struggling. How are you getting through this? Xx

    • @loveyourself8026
      @loveyourself8026 Před rokem

      Move on fast! New chapter New love 💕 control your feelings!!!!

  • @totheleftthenright
    @totheleftthenright Před 5 lety +101

    You never had to share this with us as it is none of our business. But thank you nonetheless for doing so, it really makes us feel like we are your closest friends. We can never be physically there for you but we are cheering for you Amelia ❤❤❤ sending you all the love and strength we can send to you.

  • @nandas6035
    @nandas6035 Před 5 lety +87

    Hun, if he is not on your life anymore, obviously, he is not the 'one' 😉 that means .. the 'one' still there trying to find u!! 😘

  • @LomasLifestyle
    @LomasLifestyle Před 5 lety +60

    Sometimes heartache is a blessing in disguise. Feel all the emotions they will just make you feel stronger. Sending positive energy your way.

  • @LeaLikesIcecream
    @LeaLikesIcecream Před 5 lety +82

    5:00 I think this is what seperates a good person from a bad person. Feeling joy for someone elses happiness - instead of jealousy - while you yourself can't have that (at that moment).

    • @emu9520
      @emu9520 Před 4 lety +1

      I don't think it makes a person and to feel sadness as they witness a dream they had evaporate

  • @martham7356
    @martham7356 Před 5 lety +22

    Sadness or grief hits you in the most unexpected moments, it’s like a revolving door opening up at the most inconvenient times. Be kind to yourself through those moments. Surely your family, close friends, and your viewers know how truly amazing you are. Take it easy on yourself and be proud about the fact that you chose YOU when most of us find that super difficult. Thank you for sharing and remember that we’re all here for you. You’re a true definition of grace. My whole heart is with you and even though you might never get to this message I hope the vibes reach you. ❤️

  • @zeegoogle9817
    @zeegoogle9817 Před 5 lety +140

    Always thought he seemed controlling and odd- You are amazing as always and you can do so much better! Your a lovely strong woman!

    • @gnislia
      @gnislia Před 5 lety +61

      Zee Google well it all happened so fast too, she was always having to address comments about rushing into marriage

    • @zeegoogle9817
      @zeegoogle9817 Před 5 lety +12

      @a̶n̶n̶a̶s̶l̶i̶f̶e̶It is an OPINION- Get Over Yourself Miss Prudish!

    • @zunairafaiz372
      @zunairafaiz372 Před 5 lety

      Why do you think he was controlling?

    • @eye_key
      @eye_key Před 5 lety +25

      I agree that he seemed stiff and not as light and free as Amelia, but I figured that she knows what is best for her so who am I to judge.

    • @chrissylong6001
      @chrissylong6001 Před 5 lety +5

      Even when you’re no longer with someone, it’s still hurtful to hear someone talk down about them. Especially with a breakup that’s so fresh.

  • @chana6184
    @chana6184 Před 5 lety +144

    You'll end up finding someone better. Keep strong. 🙂

  • @ciciheart6085
    @ciciheart6085 Před 5 lety +41

    I have no clue who you are, this popped up on my timeline and it is the first video I have seen of you but I just wanted to tell you to hang in there. Give it time and it Will become better. X

  • @justathought274
    @justathought274 Před 5 lety +25

    I have watched you intermittently over the years. I am a complete stranger but, when I saw your wedding planning videos featuring this guy I didn’t get it, didn’t see it. There’s something in that. He wasn’t the one. For what it’s worth, when you feel able to, think about your headspace when you met him and what moved you towards a wedding. I say wedding not marriage. The difference might help you unlock some painful insights. You’re young and beautiful with the world at your feet. One day at a time. x

  • @kathleensmith8365
    @kathleensmith8365 Před rokem +4

    I remember this. Such a difficult thing to go through for you and your family who love you so much. You did so much work to recover and discover your strength. Such a beautiful difference now! You look so happy and relaxed. Your long time friend Jak seems to be supportive and kind. If I recall, your father does not miss a trick. In your videos he was there watching over his daughter. If your Dad likes Jak that is a badge of honor!

  • @cherylgohmh
    @cherylgohmh Před 5 lety +59

    absolutely shattered my heart to hear this, but these are the moments in life when we realise how strong we really are, stay strong Amelia, there will always be someone else better, all the love from the other side of the world in Singapore, I wish I could be there in London but my trip is only in October. as women we are much stronger than this!!! you will get through this!!!

  • @marta9659
    @marta9659 Před 5 lety +61

    Amelia, as I read this, I can honestly tell you that my heart is broken for you. As years go by, as we are your "youtube family", you also are ours. I can only imagine what you are going through but I wish you all the strenght in the world. You have our support! Lots of Love from Lisbon*

  • @miszBEB0x
    @miszBEB0x Před 5 lety +42

    If something wasn’t meant to be it’s okay. You’ll be great full 10 years later. Glad your smiling and thanks for sharing 💜

  • @BenikahDee
    @BenikahDee Před 5 lety +32

    I rarely comment on videos, long time subbie. But I just want you to know, we’re all rooting for you and your happiness. Sending lots of love and light. ✨

  • @LauraIsOverstimulated
    @LauraIsOverstimulated Před 2 lety +10

    I remember watching this when you uploaded it and now I’ve come back to it for strength after just ending my own engagement a couple of days ago❤️

    • @roseg1333
      @roseg1333 Před 2 lety

      Im so sorry 😞 praying for strength and courage for you during this heartbreaking and difficult process ❤️‍🩹 but you will have joy and love again never give up 🥰

  • @terryfischer1070
    @terryfischer1070 Před 5 lety +70

    Your sister and Duke in bed with you providing quiet comfort...that is real love. :) :) Love and prayers from Florida!

  • @devishribhatnagar5545
    @devishribhatnagar5545 Před 5 lety +34

    I don’t ever comment, I am so so so sorry that this happened to a beautiful soul like you. Sending loads on loads of love, hugs and healing your way. xx

  • @S.Georgia
    @S.Georgia Před 5 lety +69

    You're amazing Amelia!! Things happen but they make us stronger. 💙

  • @CarlyRowena
    @CarlyRowena Před 5 lety +99

    Proud of you, sending the biggest squeezes your way xxx

  • @echoetj
    @echoetj Před 5 lety +8

    I was engaged several years ago, our relationship was a nightmare and I finally gained the courage to walk away from it, but I was heartbroken. I grieved the time I had spent and the future I lost even though I knew it wouldn’t have been happy. I met my husband 6 years ago and I just knew when I met him that he was IT for me, I never had that feeling with my ex. You will find someone in time, but most importantly you need to find yourself and I think, even though this is so so hard, this will guide you to the most authentic you, and then when you LEAST expecting it there he’ll be...

  • @elec.0754
    @elec.0754 Před 5 lety +163

    I’ m really sorry for you. Sending love and happy thoughts

  • @jekaterinarudakova6671
    @jekaterinarudakova6671 Před 5 lety +47

    I don’t want to sound ridicculous, but even though I was happy for you, because you were very happy and shining Amelia, BUT I somehow didn’t feel it was the real thing for you... call it a gut feeling or whatever, but I felt like Rob didn’t actually see everything about you, how wonderful you are... I really think, that you deserve better, you deserve an unconditional love! You will be better! You will flourish girl and someone else will love you for every bit of who you are!
    I love you so much! and send so many kisses 😘😘😘😘 get well and move at your own pace! No pressure ❤️

  • @oreobiscuitify
    @oreobiscuitify Před 5 lety +34

    Hi Amelia, although i have been following you for many many years, I have only left a few comments but now is the time again. My heart broke on your behalf when i saw your video and i knew what was coming when i say the grief in your expression and the weight on your shoulders. I really want to reach out to you and comfort you now that you are in the hardest of time. I think you are already very well reflected in knowing that time is the best healer. This is especially true for you as joy in life is a skill. It is something that we most focus on and work on for it to flourish. For some it comes natural and for others, it can be learned. It is not found in material objects nor in luxurious lifestyles or privileged. These things are not enjoyed, felt or truly appreciated unless you have that skill for joy. I watch your channel because i see in you that you have that skill and it inspires me. Thank you for being you and sharing.
    I was so happy to hear that you found Brene Brown and that her research and thoughts have had the same positive influence on you as it had on me years back when i started reading her books. I am happy to know that your platform can now have guided more people towards her Ted Talks and books and spread even more insight and inspiration. I hope that you can also have some comfort in knowing the impact you have had. i would also like to recommend reading Alain de Botton's book called Status Anxiety and pretty much all books he has written. I hope they can bring you something good like they did for me.
    I don't know how to end this comment other than to say that i care about you and so do many others. I hope that you find support and love from the people around you. As i have not ever had the pleasure of meeting you in real life, this comment is all i can do. I hope it can give perhaps a little lift and reading everyones' comments combined can have a real impact to support you. Much love, Sara

  • @annasonnenblume
    @annasonnenblume Před 5 lety +6

    Going through a break up with whom I thought was my soulmate and all I can tell you is I send you much love and peace. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
    We will pull through! Sending you a huge huge hug, sweetie, from the bottom of my heart.

  • @withlovefrommichigan
    @withlovefrommichigan Před 5 lety +13

    I was in a relationship for many years and when it ended I felt exactly as though you described even though we weren’t engaged. When the right person comes along you will know it and you will be SO GLAD that this did not work out the way you had hoped. Just you speaking about how happy you were for your friend shows you are a good person in the inside because most would not feel that way going through what you’re going through. Time heals everything. Nice job addressing this - it WILL get better! ❤️

  • @mahadewiiii
    @mahadewiiii Před 5 lety +78

    He wasn’t the one! You have so much to look forward to!!! x

  • @miss1920s
    @miss1920s Před 5 lety +52

    I'm so sorry to hear this . You are still loved and always will be!

  • @polyannamoonbeam
    @polyannamoonbeam Před 5 lety +31

    Oh you have been through a shocking time..my daughter went through just the same before christmas last year. Aside from the heartbreak of a sudden break up you've both lost your home and love nest . It's a huge start over. Wishing you all the best to carry you through too.

  • @MissAlbaroudi
    @MissAlbaroudi Před 5 lety +5

    So proud of you both for having the strength to make this decision because it is NOT easy to say goodbye to someone, even when it's the right call to make. Being engaged and planning a wedding and a life together makes it even harder to break up.
    You are a beautiful person and you WILL be ok ❤ We are all here for you. Sending you lots of hugs x

  • @KoriEmerson
    @KoriEmerson Před 5 lety +5

    I went through this . The exact same thing. I called mine off 6 weeks prior to the wedding. Then 1 year later, I met my now hubby of 16.5 years. You are right . You are so blessed to have so many who love you. The last few weeks I have wanted to just reach inside the computer or my phone and just hold you and hug you like a good older sister and tell you that this too will pass. It may feel like a kidney stone .. but it will pass. Take your time and heal my love. So many prayers for you during this time. and lots and LOTS of hugs and big sister cuddles from America .

  • @TheEiffelTowerGirl
    @TheEiffelTowerGirl Před 5 lety +90

    Amelia, I’m so sorry to hear that 💜 Thinking of you and sending lots of love your way! Stay strong 💜

  • @anilyousuf9438
    @anilyousuf9438 Před 5 lety +41

    Hello from Australia! 🇦🇺 We adore you and support you ALWAYS SENDING POSITIVE VIBES 💐💖💖💖 Keep being you and you will find what your heart is aching for genuine product of LOVE ❤️

  • @biancabezuidenhout3572
    @biancabezuidenhout3572 Před 5 lety +39

    Despite this shocking news & sandness😢😭, I am truly excited for the next adventures if Amelia & Duke🤗🤩

  • @brionysbeauty
    @brionysbeauty Před 5 lety +25

    Sending my love. My marriage broke up after 18 months so this is similar to me. It can be a big surprise how you well you cope, I thought my life would be over if my relationship ever ended but I truly believe I am better off 2 months later.

  • @sairee09
    @sairee09 Před 5 lety +6

    You are utterly amazing for speaking about such a hard experience in such a dignified and honest manner. Sending lots and lots of love xx

  • @irinasandor_coach
    @irinasandor_coach Před 5 lety +43

    Crying with you ((( everything happens for a reason!! You are a beautiful person!! Time flys! Lots of love from Russia!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @charlenewilliams2854
    @charlenewilliams2854 Před 5 lety +12

    Absolutely shocked and stunned. I don’t even know what to say. Tight and warm hugs xxxxx

  • @starlitmoon1212
    @starlitmoon1212 Před 5 lety +17

    Sending you so much love, Amelia. My hear breaks knowing how you must have felt. Thank you for sharing your strength and beautiful heart with us. You deserve the best, like many others in the comments said you will find love again!

  • @borlagsdiaries6715
    @borlagsdiaries6715 Před 5 lety +2

    Oh Amelia, I have been a silent avid fan ever since. I have similar situation, I fought for us many times, begged and even gave tons of chances but to no avail. I have been there, hugs, kisses and praying for you. You are so much loved than you ever know. ❤️🇵🇭

  • @hellokri55y
    @hellokri55y Před 5 lety +5

    I never comment but you are strong, you will become wiser, and time will heal your wounds! My rule of thumb was to see how my partner reacts to life’s curveballs (tragedy, financial burdens, disagreements etc). These reactions can show you your partners commitment and love to your relationship. Unfortunately I know some people that experience this after marriage and they couldn’t work through it. It’s best it happened now rather than later! Sending love and good vibes from Texas!

  • @koaysiewni5476
    @koaysiewni5476 Před 5 lety +7

    This video shows how much stronger you are than what people give you credit for. Even though it's a heartbreaking situation, I just wanna commend you on how well you are handling it. Sending lots of love your way. Hugs.

  • @MsApfelmuss
    @MsApfelmuss Před 5 lety +37

    Amelia my heart goes out to you. I cannot even imagine the pain you were and are in. You are loved and you so deserve to be loved! Xx

  • @Lushleah1988
    @Lushleah1988 Před 5 lety +54

    Sending my love I’ve been there and it will get through this. You won’t believe how strong you are and after this you will be even stronger. You’ve got lovely family and friends and of corse your viewers. Your such a lovely girl and your young and you will find love again and when u do you’ll understand why this all happened. Xxx

  • @ellalock4679
    @ellalock4679 Před 5 lety +2

    So many of us are sending you lots of love and hugs. You are a very classy and loving person. I can't wait to see you sharing new products lunching , traveling experiences and much more... Everything will pass and you will get better and wiser. Much much love.

  • @sharalevine9363
    @sharalevine9363 Před 5 lety +18

    I just ended my own engagement 8 days before our wedding that was supposed to be 8/17. You & I will be stronger from this experience. It makes me feel better knowing that you’ve made it through this

  • @julieann9369
    @julieann9369 Před 5 lety +25

    Thinking of you my love. I must say that I had a vibe about your fiancé and it just didn’t seem right You’re so lovely, you deserve true happiness. 💕

  • @Larish10
    @Larish10 Před 5 lety +6

    I am so shocked! just a few days ago watched one of your wedding dress shopping videos, crying my eyes out because I lost my mom to cancer very recently.
    seeing you and your mom planning your wedding was just too much for me, knowing my mom would never do this with me.
    I don't know why you guys broke up but I'm so very sad for you.
    Wishing you lots of happiness darling.

    • @Jamber599
      @Jamber599 Před 5 lety

      Lily Pad l feel the same as you. I lost my beautiful mum in October and watching wedding videos is both lovely and heart wrenching, because that’s an experience we will never get to have. We always used to watch Say Yes to the Dress together and I will have those memories to cherish because that’s as close as I’ll ever get. Sending hugs x

    • @Larish10
      @Larish10 Před 5 lety

      @@Jamber599 I feel like I disappointed her by not getting married...now she's gone and I wish I could go with her.
      She would have been the best mother in law and the best grandma. :( I'm devastated.

  • @melamartins
    @melamartins Před 5 lety +79

    Take your time and rest. We’ll be here

  • @shiroikagayaki
    @shiroikagayaki Před 5 lety +3

    Amelia, I am so sorry that you are experiencing this. Last year I went through a breakup and although we were not engaged, I thought I was going to marry him. Lean into your friends and family. This can be an opportunity to acknowledge the abundance of love and beauty you have in your life. It doesn’t change what has happened, but it was the most healing thing for me. Sending you love and peace ❤️

  • @brooklynnpauline
    @brooklynnpauline Před 5 lety +13

    In losing him, you found more of yourself! That’s powerful! Every day you’ll grow stronger and more centered. Praying for you as you heal 🙏🏾

  • @luchie621
    @luchie621 Před 5 lety +23

    This is the first time I'm posting on your video. Dammit man! I always had this gut-wrenching feeling that this (relationship) was going to fall through. I couldn't place my finger on it. I just knew. Really sorry for the heartbreak you're going through right now. Sending you lots of love, light, and happiness! You will weather this storm. This too shall pass. Stay strong, love!

  • @ShugAveri
    @ShugAveri Před 5 lety +63

    it must make going through this so much worse knowing at some point you were going to record and release to the world! that took so much strength and courage. stay strong and continue being a light to those around you! there's a reason so much love comes your way! sending love from Pennsylvania!

  • @CookieRoux
    @CookieRoux Před 5 lety +51

    Sometimes good things fall apart, so better things can fall together. 💞 keep your chin up girl xx

  • @jetadorexx
    @jetadorexx Před 5 lety +2

    Oh lovely. My partner just left me and our 19mth old son 3 weeks ago. I really thought after 5.5yrs we knew each other inside out. Heart breaking. Always here if you want to chat. We have to trust as you said that Time really does heal!
    Here are a few quotes that I’ve read that resonate with me.
    “It may be the end of something but it’s the beginning of something else
    Baby is awake gotta go xxx

  • @imchristinac
    @imchristinac Před 5 lety +6

    As a viewer on the outside looking in, I always felt like you weren’t meant to be. Whilst it might seem like the worst thing to imagine right now and the most awful pain, future you will look back and be so grateful for this moment. You had the opportunity to discover your own capacity to love another person. This is not the end, it is only the beginning of something new. One day you will meet your Prince Charming but for the moment be strong in yourself because you are an extraordinary woman.

  • @chocoflipify
    @chocoflipify Před 5 lety +14

    I'm so sorry for you, Amelia! This made me cry and my heart feel so heavy, but you're right: take every day on its own and walk through with the feeling that you're surrounded by wonderful, loving people who will catch you in situations like that ❤️❤️❤️

  • @amyw778
    @amyw778 Před 5 lety +53

    It was very clear he wasn’t the one, however you looked so happy so I thought he maybe he actually was. You will find someone who you truly deserve and then you will feel real happiness. xx

  • @saral9796
    @saral9796 Před 5 lety +27

    My heart is broken for you. I’m so sorry. Sending love xx ❤️

  • @sarahibowles7934
    @sarahibowles7934 Před 5 lety +2

    Imagine how much stronger you are going to be after this?! You go this baby girl! It is not about him not being the one or whatever. It is about you growing into the person you are meant to be! Guess what? You needed to do that alone. One day someone who gets you, truly understands you, and loves you regardless of anything will come along and you will tell yourself, WoW! And I thought that was real love!
    Sending you lots of love my dear girl and this too shall pass!
    Ps: at the end while holding your hair up, it looked lovely! You would look cute with short hair!! ❤️😊❤️

  • @tessabrugge4758
    @tessabrugge4758 Před 5 lety +2

    Dear Amelia, I'm sad for you, well done for having the strength to do this video. Many years ago, I had my heart broken into a million pieces. I truly felt that my life was over. As time went by, I learned to cope with the pain of it all, until one day a long while after, I met and married my hubby. He healed my heart, and has continued to show me true love for the past 45 years. This I'm sure will be your destiny, I hope so. Thinking about you and I fully understand your pain. Stay strong, and grab the rest of your life looking forward, don't look back.