It's funny how our instinct is to feel bad for these people, but they appear to have more of a love and appreciation for life than a lot of people without autism. They seem genuinely happy.
They don’t understand how harsh life can be. It’s almost like a normal person on drugs, they don’t have a full view of life and they’re just happy. Sometimes I wish I was like them, all that matters is happiness.
Eric M Don't worry. There are people who are exactly like that and have intelligence. I should know because I fall into that group. It's called Aspergers. I am not a perfect example due to how intelligent I am (Sometimes I contest my intellect) but it becomes evident. Even with that however it can still have its downside. We definitely are different, but we still have the same problems as you, maybe slightly different. If you teach a kid like me to talk, we never shut up, but regardless it's important to teach them. Communication is an extremely important thing we need to learn.
I too have an intellectual disability. I don't let it consume me. I live a normal life. Just because we have an intellectual disability it doesn't mean that we are not normal. I cook, clean,work, get up and dressed and do all of the daily task that these so called normal people do. To me there are more people with intellectual disabilities who are in the workforce then those who are intellectually disabled
My husband was able to put my severely schizophrenic sister in law in a group home and she is doing phenomenally better than she was in the state mental hospital.
Long term hospitalization has been proven from time to time to hurt some people. Supportive housing is needed and unfortunately in a lot of states this is unheard of. The time to advocate for this type of housing is now.
the state hospital is the absolute worst from what i’ve heard. i’m so sorry that she had to go through that. i wish we had a better healthcare system in america and took better care of people with mental health issues especially : (
@@okyggtty sometimes the idea of sending someone to a home isn’t to abandon them. You can’t assume the circumstance and you certainly don’t know if the person is getting visits. Not all of us are able to take care of someone at home.
Troy Morgen Goodermote Klein Then I guess you don't know any autists who actually act like normal people. I'm one of those with my Asperger's Syndrome being a mild form of autism. I love talking and I don't try to be repetitive or dull at all. Don't judge everyone with this disability just because you saw the ones who can't function as well as the others in one video.
Absolutely! I'd love to live in a group home with folks like me, I'd want to make friends with everybody who moved in and I'm sure I would too; I don't think I'll ever be able to live on my own as an adult as I'm too low-functioning, I hope someday these will become more widespread to give more Autistic folks chances!! They deserve to live and be loved and understood too
As someone who's being diagnosed with autism, this is really nice to see a place like this for adults. Shows a lot of care, and I really hope stuff like this is striving for years to come.
@@BigLee93 I don't know whether this is a troll, or an actual question. Either way, no, not all of us are like these people, it just so happens some unforunately have got an autism diagnosis that might be worse than others, and honestly even the ones in the video are living their lives the same way an average human would (this isn't to say every person with autism is able to do so, some really can't and it's sad to see.) just with a bit more control and a slightly different type of support (since mental illness' in general affect different people in different ways, again, in all do respect to said people.) because they respectfully need said support and comfort.
"AutIstic needs coffee too" Don't label! autism isn't who someone is! Would you say "Bald needs some coffee". or "tall person needs some coffee"? no! so why autism?
Carlea Stafford I'm autistic, not a person with autism. Many if not all autistics use identity first preference. We don't separate the person from their autism because it's who we are. And no offence, but with a weak argument like yours, I find it very difficult to take you seriously.
Brian Velez I agree with you. It encourages to gives them an equal oppprtunity to be independant, and build social skills with the outside world also xx
Yes, I've been in field for 16 years now, as we're called residential counselors, Direct Support Specialists etc..Very rewarding, yet a high shortage of staffing.
I agree. Being praised for doing everything the average person does feels like there's little expected of us or we deserve to be pitied. I'd feel like a young child who just learned to dress themselves or use the toilet. That's definitely not the case with adults with disabilities. Doing the typical everyday things like driving a car, owning a home, or having a job is part of life as an adult and it just feels like my abilities were useless when Im praised for that shit. People become to easily impressed and it just feels weird.
That’s everyday life for people with autism bud. Everyone seems to act like a kid in a pet shop looking at a puppy when you do things that the average neurotypical does on a daily basis
@@HalJordan0 Why do "normal" people think we are fucking retarted? This is a bigger issue for us with low function autism, in a lot of cases (including mine) we have an above average IQ and it feels rude and very disrespectful when people treat us like children and are impressed when we do normal daily things. I hate having autism.
We have a home like this nextdoor to us ☺️they are the most friendly neighbors on the block. I also have a cousin living in a home like this on Long Island. She’s been there 25+ years. Best thing that ever happened to her. It makes me really sad when parents of disabled children say “I could never put my child in a home” because there are so many fantastic places out there. You can’t take care of your child forever. What happens when you die? Set them up for success while you’re still around to make good decisions with them.
Im from long island too im from commack and i actually have a group home 4 doors down from me ran by AHRC suffolk along with the daycare bldg in bohemia by macarthur airport and i would actually visit the day program in bohemia once a year to see some of my classmates there it was good times indeed
What's sad is that these people want to contribute to society and work while other normal people don't want to work at all They're willing to fit in and I hope people will help them feel appreciated
Oh come on. You really think that many jobs even contribute much of anything than the CEO of that particular company's pockets? Most engineers work on fucking dishwashers and shit. If youre smart you'd know that the system is currently setup for the middle class to work for the rich. This idea of working nowadays contributing to society is only something a trump fanboy would believe.
I was replying to Philly Cocaine, because he said that he sounded stoned. I wasn't being mean I was trying to inform people that talking differently and without expression is a symptom of autism. Sorry, I didn't say that correctly because I typed it super fast late at night.
Frrr... a lot of people talk about how bad they feel for them, but this guy has literally achieved happiness, what everyone strives for, and that really makes me happy
I’m sure they are, but importantly as well their level of output will always be different to what say you or I can produce in an hr for the same job. Hence It is expected that they will be paid equal in terms of output level rather than hourly basis otherwise it is not fair on any business. Also the main aim of this is for them to have a purpose and feel part of society rather than monetary in nature.
I'm sure they get paid equal until the housing takes 90% of their check. I had a friend living I one of those he got hit in the head as a kid. He said he hated it and they took all his money. This one looks genuine but who knows. Just like old people, they're always scammers out there
@@KennethU yes, very sad, got hit by a baseball, he was a great pitcher and had dreams of making it big. I wish I could say he is doing ok but he is having alot of trouble in that house
Finesse Kiddd Nah I really shouldn't. I'm autistic but I can live a normal life unlike these adults. Usually the people who call other people retarded are the actual retards anyway so no.
Dear parents of children with an autism diagnose: This is not always the future. Some children with autism can life on their own (with some support or not).
I have a 5 year old severely autistic non-verbal son. This video makes me want to cry because I feel this will be his future after me and his mother die. I really want to cry right now
Frank Dux do reasearch. Get him in contact with a organisation that's willing to help (NOT autism speaks). With the right care, he would surpass everyone growing up. It's all about how you get help.
@@LoliconSamalik how can we get him help my son is also non verbal, and unable to learn? Who pays for this I'm sure the living expenses with hired workers is not cheap?
I know how you feel. I have an autistic two year old. We are older parents (45) and I just want him to be able to take care of himself one day. Although this group home seems to be nice not all are and not every autistic child/adult will have the luxury of one. Some may be institutionalized. I cry about this often.
Growing up with autism wasn't easy. I can say now that everything seems to be working out for me as an adult. With more support, I now live in my own apartment and I plan on becoming an IT Specialist. These folks are proof that anyone can live a fulfilling life!
Well since you are autistic, let me ask.... How come a lot of autistic people have angry outbursts and have a hard time controlling their anger? My sister is autistic and she is just like this... She acts and appears normal at first but God forbid if I do anything to upset her even though most times it is unintentional, she will scream and yell at me at the top of her lungs for 1-3 hours and insult me and call me names. And sometimes attacks, punches, and assaults me when I am clearly not even a threat to her or I make it very clear to her that I don't want to fight her. We are both grown adults in our late 20s also...so it's not like she is a young child.
@@miraculouslady632 Autism has its share of unresolved behavioral issues. Trust me I know because I was like your sister when I was younger. I felt like no one understood me as an individual, and I reacted violently as a result. My self-esteem took a dive as well, which resulted in having little to no friends. Ever since then, I was involved in numerous therapy sessions that dealt with my unresolved behavioral issues, and understanding what it meant to be someone on the spectrum. I think understanding and persistence are critical parts to help someone with autism. My advice to you: try to understand her needs and learn about what she has to go through everyday. Also, if possible, convince yourself that these behavioral issues don't go away unless she feels understood or at least appreciated. I never said this will be easy, so it may depend on how severe her behavior is.
I have a 5 year old grandson who is non verbal autistic whom I care for daily! Even though I'm in my early forties, I often think about his future! Of course he can stay with me forever because I love him so much! But once I die I won't be around to care for him! I'm so glad to have seen this video!! It makes me cry and happy at the same time! I want him to be self sufficient and able to care for himself once I pass away! I feel so much better knowing that there is housing for my grandson's future and others! Thank you God!! ❤❤❤
we're the same.I also have special child he is 6 years old. I'm afraid that if I die, there will be no one to take care of my child like I took care of him😢
@@ryanjayli3721 I totally understand!!! But we are going to keep praying 🙏🏾 and having faith that God is going to turn there situation around for them !!! Stay encouraged my friend!! I will keep your little one in my prayers!! They’re both going to be just fine!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
The 467 people that disliked this video are just jealous they could never have friendships like them. Really makes your open your eyes to what matters in life friends and food and a home to share
@@TropicalHonduranDominican true. We can't just assume all these group homes are 100% true to their word. There's been a lot of scandals when it came to mental health care.
@@TropicalHonduranDominican there’s different spectrums of autism or other mental disability’s. Yes someone with slight Autism may be able to live on their own but what about the rest that are more severe.
Actor In Disguise mate if you wanna make assumptions right go to the houses ask how they feel about living there I'll guarantee 98 percent will say yes
I have Autism Spectrum Disorder, but to be honest I am glad that I don’t live in there. I moved out on my own with roommates. However this group home seems to be great and I am glad that they get to work and become independent adults. This man is so humble and it is great to see!
As a person with autism this legitimately pisses me off. You can grow out of some of the more severe sides of autism with self-training. At 18, I got out of my inhibitions regarding many social interactions. Eventually, said interactions cascaded until eventually... I'm just a normal weird person. With time I figure I may get better, but I don't think I could of if I was in this kind of home. Restraints give the ability for ingenious creativity, but without the knowledge of those restraints they become shackles that enslave your future. This angers & saddens me immensely. They are coddled, assigned schedules... they are treated as children unaware they can grow up. So they remain this way.
I'm an aspie and no one would be able to tell. I grew out of most of my quirks and learned the hard way that you need to be your own advocate else you will be lumped in with people completely different from you. Understanding why emotions are the way they are and learning that EVERYONE has something off about them will help most of the people that have this disorder but of course it depends. You can easily tell some people are poor in one category by perception adjustment
Same here, when you’re in youth clubs made for people like yourself you often at times dont find good connections with major autistic people if your more likely to grow out of your problems. Placed like these however are needed for those who need 24/7 help and thats ok. Love from Ireland
The spectrum of autism has different levels, some people requires more needs and full support by these special homes than others. The most important is that they are happy and living it comfortable.
Hey, how about you stop being mean to autistic people. Stop behaving as if they are an insult - that they're *that* disgusting. Hey, I don't like Team 10, but I also don't like people like you who completely fail at roasting Team 10 and only roast these vulnerable people who can't take care of themself. Weak move, man.
Any adult with a disability should have the opportunity to work and live like these young men. There's so many of us who are lonely, struggle to find a purpose and feel so isolated. But there's so few resources for us as a whole.
You don’t have to go through life alone, it’s not meant like that. We need each other to survive and thrive, and that goes for everyone. I’m glad these wonderful people are not going through their struggles alone and they are happy in the process.
I’m recently diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder myself, am currently a Pre-School teacher where I work with children who also have ASD. God truly works in mysterious ways 😊.
I love how he said „I bought some coffee“. My best friend is autistic and it’s so cool to be around him, he’s always able to give or show me another view for certain things we discuss about. Learned a lot from him and yea, he’ll be my brother for ever, that’s for sure!
I did in internship at a place like this right by where I live so I was there when I was 16 just doing things like laundry and dishes and stuff it had 10 people there some had more than just autism but I can say it was 100x better than I thought it would be it really has good family vibes they put a smile on my face everyday
@@bjsantana8415 sadly he isn’t, but we’re very good friends till this day! But, it’s still sad to know that people think he’s “weird” or different than others. Which he is, but in his own way
@@sophiekeene As an autistic person myself a person with autism is basically a normal person we just handle things the different way. I also have a good friend who has autism too. People that are mean to people with autism don't even realise how smart autistic people can actually be. And the show I really like (You may know or heard of it) called the good doctor it teach me little about my autism too.
My brother had autism and to watch thks video. It makes me feel better to see that there are people who care enough to do the little things to make big changes ❤
I'm a mildly autistic guy who experienced living in a group home in somerset Kentucky for five years since I was 20 years old and I moved out two years ago. Now I'm 27. I hate group homes but I was there because of a bad incident between me and my father. I don't want to say what I did or argued with him about, but I spent a night in jail and learned a very good lesson. My father chose to not press charges on me. He forgave me that day and I have a better relationship with him now. We cared about each other since I was born in 1995. But I live with an FHP a family home provider. I like him because he and my therapist and my whole support team are teaching me what you're expected to do as an adult better than my parents could. I still love my mom and dad. But they didn't have the right tools or skills to raise me and my sister right. My sister is a year younger than me and I love her too. She is not autistic. I am so smart and high functioning that I take care of myself. I pay my rent and bills. I buy my own things. I like where I am at and where I'm going better than where I was seven years ago. I wanted to cry going to jail, but I took it like a man. My record is dismissed and has been since I was 23. I'm not a criminal, but I did commit a crime on my dad. I learned my lesson. He still forgives me and loves me. I never want to commit a crime again. I'm not a bad guy just had bad luck. I'm glad not to be in the group home anymore. I've learned anger management and money management skills. I have better friends than I did in school. Now I know how serious breaking the law is. My father also has jail experience and my grandfather. Group homes are no place for me. Some people see nothing wrong with me. Neither do I. I do suffer from anger and depression but not all the time. I'm a little slow learning certain things. And I have a slight speech impediment. But people understand what I say. I'm not insane or evil. Just did one crime. My advice to people who break the law is don't do it. My advice to people who are afraid of disabled people is don't be. All of us are disabled in some way. My father taught me that. Don't ever be judgmental to disabled people. Get to know them before you decide if you like them or not. For the most part, I take decently good care of myself. Never be afraid of disabled people. Period.
Hello cozyball, i hope you are doing well during these trying times, i have read your story and felt you a lot. I am 24 and have high functioning autism and would love to share my story with you, growing up on long island times have been very tough on me moved 2 times to lindenhurst and lastly commack on long island lindenhurst i was bought up by both working class parents my dad was an event planner and handyman plus my mom was a hairstylist and teaching assistant now happily retired as of 2023 and life was really bad i was bought up in a small 2 bd 2ba home built in 1958 and when i was in school i was bullied for my autism and kicked plus neglected by staff no fucks given and when my dad sued the school and won we left for commack and that is where things gotten better for me i graduated high school in 2017 with a NYS regents diploma and 2 special ed certifications i was the first autistic student in the district to earn such diploma and to this day im still the only one with it, and believe it or not when i heard about you getting in trouble and such i understand the frustration you had so i was in the 3rd grade intermediate school and elementary school in lindenhurst i got in big trouble for brawling and other shit i didnt do cuz i was non verbal until we moved to commack anyways long story short my elementary school principal in lindenhurst warned my parents and i if i lashed out again they would NOT suspend me since i would get suspended for my autism a lot but automatically send me into either pilgrim psychiatric center or a troubled kiddie home in the area which angered my dad and started suing the school so it was crazy times then and now sometimes and 3rd grade i had trauma that i fought some kids and an adult so after that incident and lindenhurst i was treated respectfully and like family until high school so anyways fast forward im now living independently in trinity Florida at a beautiful condo home bear my grandparents and i am seasonally with my parents during the summer as we snowbird now so wintertime im in florida and summer im back on long island, im currently at hillsborough community college studying broadcasting and journalism plus radio DJing following in my dads footsteps so my goal is to be a professional emcee for the lightning hockey team or rays and still do sports broadcasting plus radio to keep me busy. I also heard you fought with your dad a lot and i was the same way my dad was a hardass verbally abusive and goofy bastard and there was this one incident where it got so bad so one day on a very cold day in october 2021 my dad and i were fighting over his bedroom tv being broken and his computer frequently having viruses and slow cuz he never updates it but me and we have cablevision which is shitty service so long story short we were getting 4k tv and internet service upgrades and he blamed me for his slow pc and tv and it got so bad that i ran away at exactly 1:00pm to get psychiatric help at pilgrim state and sure enough i arrived after walking for 3 hours from my home to find it was closed and i of course was going to try and visit my police station to report my father but it was too late and my mother came home from work at 4 and heard from my father i was missing so she called 911 right away to report me missing and ran away so as i was walking to my station a friendly cop named nick who was in charge of missing or raped people caught and found me at 7:00pm we were talking and an hour later at 8 he drove me home after a long search they had 3 k9 units at my house sniffing me down but wasnt there anyways my uncles local friends plus neighbors were at my house and everyone i knew even my own sister ran outside our house crying and frantic and nick said that if i did this again and 911 was called he wont help me again and ill be arrested and put in jail for running away and verbal assault. I traumatized everyone that day but needless to say my dad is calmer with me and vowed to never lose his shit or blow up on me again. So were on good terms now and we let bygones be bygones after that , i hope to hear from u soon and know this was very emotional for me reading your story. Regards Drew
@Vettel2011 no thanks. I'm a self-described asexual. I feel absolutely no attraction to myself or anyone. I've never felt comfortable with being a boyfriend, husband, and dad. I want nothing to do with those responsibilities. In my view, love doesn't exist. Only lust and hate. People feel attracted to each other because they're blinded by lust. I naturally don't feel any attraction to anyone or myself. I'm almost 29 years old and set in my ways. I'll never want a girlfriend, wife, or anything that has to do with attraction. There's no changing me. Love doesn't exist. Only lust and hate.
This makes me so happy!!! I thought everywhere in the world they'd just let people like me curl up and die if they can't live on their own; I'm glad these good people get to live good lives and feel like they have a place in the world here. It is a rare moment in which, I see something good being done in this world
I needed this. GOD BLESS those who commit their lives to helping special needs people live their best life. Especially at that age. Nothing but positivity and love for everyone involved.
@@magnumopiss244 They have jobs and are contributing to the economy. And even if they didn't that doesn't mean they should be euthanised for such reasons. Autism manifests in many different ways. Some of our most famous scientists and engineers ever were autistic. But autistic people don't have to be scientists or engineers. I am an autistic woman, and I want to become a toy designer (specifically dolls). A lot is expected of us, but we are also infantalised and told we should die (like you did). Even though the majority of autistic people are productive members of society you still feel the need to talk your shit, anonymously, behind a screen. What a loser.
i believe there’s a group home like this near where my mother used to live! having two siblings with asd, it makes me so happy to see that people are getting that push they need and are getting to be surrounded by others like them.
My cousin lived in a group home for almost 15 years before passing away 2 months ago. He loved his home and things like this are great for these people. God protect all of them.
Both of my grandmothers worked in this field for many years in two separate companies. Let me just say they both loved it so much. Eden 2 and On Your Mark in Staten Island. So many lovely individuals ❤️
People with autism tend to have good lives in the future. Some will get married and have kids and some just like living alone or living with some roommates. There is nothing wrong being on the spectrum. There are people do good and some that have mental issues later on in life because of the use of illegal drugs and alcoholism. Unlike the drug addicts and alcoholics that ended up in group homes before turning 30 and they arent autistic.
To those of you who have a heart. Please, for the sake of our world, don’t feel bad or show us your compassion. It makes some of us feel like lesser or sub-human and the respectful thing (in my opinion) is to just treat us and consort with us like you would with any other human being, wether it’s small talk or a conversation that can last hours yet maintaining an atmosphere of comfort and some even ground between you and i on a regular day. We only wish to talk and get to know you and your interests because yes, we get incredibly lonely sometimes and we hate it, *i* hate it. Should you intentionally feel closed off and refuse a conversation, that’s totally fine and we will respect that. “Working” gives many people who are not diagnosed a sense of “purpose”. They may dislike it, but it’s what helps them get by. We experience the same struggles with life just as you do. We eat the same food, listen to the same music, wear the same clothing, go to the same beach and work the same job. Final words to the readers with throbbing and vibrant hearts; I appreciate and admire you as a fellow human.
I have an autistic brother who's 18 and just graduated this year! He's awesome, and this video helps me get insight into what he could be like when hes older. It's amazing
These are the types of news stories we need more of to help spread awareness, not BS fear mongering. Good for all these people and I wish them the best in the future!
I just want these beautiful people to be protected! I just want to be able to build more homes for them so that the ones on a waiting list can get into a home faster!
Why do reporters make such stupid comments like working gives austistic people purpose as though we are like fish in a bowl...a spectacle! Why ask questions about basic human needs (is my point)? Yes, the neurological pathways may operate differently but when statements and questions such as these are posed it makes me really wonder what brain pathway the reporter is operating on- it is akin to asking dumb questions like: "when you are hungry do you need to eat and do you enjoy when food tastes good?"
As an autistic woman, I know and experienced all too well what you are talking about. I feel that they put us in a corner while at the same time making a spectacle and treating us like children. From experience not saying all autistics are like that, but like Transformers we are more than meets the eye. I've met a man in his mid forties who doesn't say much and appears to many as having the mental age of a child, but he types essays so lyrically and plays any hit song on piano you can think of. The other night at my neighboring group home where he lives, he played "November Rain" for me (my favorite song!). Anyway, getting back to topic, it truly rubs me off the wrong way when people think we're useless, or that we need a "cure" when in reality, there is nothing wrong with us because we are only human and our brains are only wired differently. To close this, I'll use my favorite autism quote: It's not a processing error, it's just a different operating system.
Shaina Punim Barnett You can only say that because you aren't in a place on the autism spectrum that completely controls your life and turns you into a screaming, self punishing human being that cannot function and cannot take care of themselves. Autism does need to be cured. It does hurt people, and it does ruin some people's lives. People who are high on the autism spectrum live horrible, miserable lives. But, just because it doesn't ruin YOUR life, that means it doesn't need to be cured and that nobody should do anything about it...right. I forget sometimes that even autistic people can be selfish self absorbed pricks.
Zazzilas Arden Then what about the people who are lower on the spectrum and can actually function and live a normal life? Surely they see their autism as a possible gift of sorts.
K. P. It's the same case for people who aren't autistic. They were saying it more as how autistic people have a hard time finding jobs, and people (autistic or not) need jobs to feel a sense of purpose in life, so you aren't just rotting day by day doing the same things. I don't think they meant it in a rude way.
I worked as one of these "trained staff" in a group home for 3 years. In our profession we call the position a Direct Support Professional or DSP. After having spent 3 years working in a residence, I spent the next 5 years working at a day habilitation program with another agency. Now, after more than 8 years experience I am a staff trainer, teaching the next generation of DSP's to be sensitive, patient, and empathetic, while also certifying them in CPR, First aid, and other life saving measures. This is a career that can be challenging, but as difficult as it can be sometimes it is 100x more rewarding. If you are interested in this line of work, and you feel you have the skills and patience necessary, please consider giving it a try. It's the type of job where every day you make a difference.
I’m so glad they’re happy there. I knew a lot of kids growing up who had to go to psych hospitals. Not the same thing, but still, nice to see that their experience is a happy one :)
I worked in a place like this for a few years, and despite some men presenting very challenging behaviours, I adored each one of them and got to watch them become more independent, and proud of themselves. Giving someone choice and purpose makes such a difference, especially with an extra teaspoon of love 🤩
I worked in group homes in my late twenties. It was a job , it paid my bills. But I did not expect that the clients I served would be helping me more than I believe I helped them. They taught me humility, how to understand others, and ultimately that the only positive way forward is by loving and supporting each other as family.
I have a mild form of auspbergers and am a student at University of Southern California. You would be surprised to know how many students here have it. People assume that autism means your low intelligence but that's not always true.
I have aspergers and I study politics and governance at Ryerson University, one of the top universities in Canada. I refuse to let anyone treat me like some dork in gym class because of my autism
Same, also at a top Uni in Canada. Academia is perfect for autists, if anything it is an exerted effort at emulating the fixative study styles. The savant and specialised abilities of Autists underscores the flawed neurotypical conception of intelligence.
@@joeyGalileoHotto one of the reasons for that is because people with autism are always treated one of two ways by neurotypicals in college and in the workforce: they either treat us like we’re some dorks in gym class, or act like kids in a pet shop looking at a puppy when they’re around us. Many autistic people don’t want to put up with their bs, so they reject services that can place what they believe to be an unwanted social stigma on them
Not only is this wholesome, but it's smart. Having like minded people together always makes for a better life, but it specifically helps with their autism by learning how to live responsibly with others going through the same thing.
You're trying to be mean to 4chan users, but you're just being mean to people with autism. You're saying they're something horrible - that they are an insult.
I live in new jersey and tried very hard to get into one of these houses as a young adult. They are housed fifty people like an apartment building with roommates in small rooms. I was told I didn't need it, even though i was homeless with cptsd. Very nice....
In the end I still feel bad for people with intellectual disability. People always sugarcoat intellectual disability, learning disorders, autism and other special needs conditions, but when it comes down to it - these people were dealt a very bad hand, and they will never be given a chance to communicate with people and engage with society and experience reason and thoughts and autonomy the way the rest of us do. They're not less happy because of it since they haven't known any different, but still, they're deprived of the opportunities the rest of us have, and that's unfortunate.
Ezy Teri Reddy The goal here is that a person with Autisum needs individuality and freedom for themselves. Group homes are never a solution. Sadly depending how fuctioning the person is. If they can not take care of themselves at all then group home is a solution.
bro im schizophrenic and it's worse to not be able to engage in society, to never have had friends or a significant other, but be able to see what you're missing out on. That guy said he's happy. He has a happy little life in that home he's been living in for 30 years, why feel bad? I'm just saying it's not so bad. My schizophrenia makes me a reject even among rejects because I have a hard time conversing with people...anyone. I'm just too paranoid about everything...even on meds.
then maybe people who do not have autism or special needs in general could learn to communicate with those who were dealt "a very bad hand" as you put it..there are more ways than one to communicate and you learn that very quickly when working in the disability sector.i'm suprised,since you feel so bad for these people,being superior in communicative language and thought processes,that you would know that.do some research and open your mind.
Actually a lot of ppl with Autism. If getting diagnosed early and receiving services early live out life like what we would call “normal people”. Yes there are ppl who are severely on the spectrum who have to go in group homes and institutions.
Thank you and bless everyone in that household 🙏 Brought a tear to my eye. It’s so beautiful to see everyone there being treated respectfully and taken care of. Love is the Way!
Now _these_ are the people in society who are truly marginalized and the gov't must protect them at all costs. This is what real inequality looks like. This is also a precious reminder not to waste your life. Thank you Lord Jesus that there are homes like these out there.
My wife is a BHP AND MRMA. She works in houses that house two residents in each house. She has one resident non verbal severe autism. I yell you all something you don't know unless you work with folks with disabilities. It is a very hard tiring job. Not every one can do it. Takes real special hearted people to work with mentally challenged folks. But at same time it is a very rewarding job that has great meaning. If you want a meaningful job and have great heart this is for you.
It's funny how our instinct is to feel bad for these people, but they appear to have more of a love and appreciation for life than a lot of people without autism. They seem genuinely happy.
@The James that's deep
They don’t understand how harsh life can be. It’s almost like a normal person on drugs, they don’t have a full view of life and they’re just happy. Sometimes I wish I was like them, all that matters is happiness.
Eric M
Don't worry. There are people who are exactly like that and have intelligence. I should know because I fall into that group. It's called Aspergers.
I am not a perfect example due to how intelligent I am (Sometimes I contest my intellect) but it becomes evident.
Even with that however it can still have its downside. We definitely are different, but we still have the same problems as you, maybe slightly different.
If you teach a kid like me to talk, we never shut up, but regardless it's important to teach them. Communication is an extremely important thing we need to learn.
and won't do anything illegal
I too have an intellectual disability. I don't let it consume me. I live a normal life. Just because we have an intellectual disability it doesn't mean that we are not normal. I cook, clean,work, get up and dressed and do all of the daily task that these so called normal people do. To me there are more people with intellectual disabilities who are in the workforce then those who are intellectually disabled
My husband was able to put my severely schizophrenic sister in law in a group home and she is doing phenomenally better than she was in the state mental hospital.
Long term hospitalization has been proven from time to time to hurt some people. Supportive housing is needed and unfortunately in a lot of states this is unheard of. The time to advocate for this type of housing is now.
the state hospital is the absolute worst from what i’ve heard. i’m so sorry that she had to go through that. i wish we had a better healthcare system in america and took better care of people with mental health issues especially : (
State hospitals are run like crap for sure the group homes are way nicer glad your sister got in a group home
The fact that your husband was able to abandon his sister is terrible and you are no better.
@@okyggtty sometimes the idea of sending someone to a home isn’t to abandon them. You can’t assume the circumstance and you certainly don’t know if the person is getting visits. Not all of us are able to take care of someone at home.
“What did you do with your money today?”
“I bought some coffee”
Holy shit he’s just like me.
Ha, same! Literally the only thing I did today other than staring at my PC monitor is go and buy coffee...
idk why but the way he said it sounded kind of badass
@@Tensho_C It's the sentence and tone of a man who's found his place. I agree with you.
Guess we’re all a bit autistic
@@dubious7424 arent we all born with autism on different levels?
This is the most positive autism-based video i've ever seen on youtube
Romantis Anon Then you really don't know how shitty these homes are.
Aidan Padraig And you do?
Romantis Anon is it not great to see people who care for others as much, or even more, than they do themselves?
Reaper Zoroark people with autism are not allowed to be unsupervised
Troy Morgen Goodermote Klein Then I guess you don't know any autists who actually act like normal people. I'm one of those with my Asperger's Syndrome being a mild form of autism. I love talking and I don't try to be repetitive or dull at all. Don't judge everyone with this disability just because you saw the ones who can't function as well as the others in one video.
"what did you spend your money on today?"
*Coffee*
Same here
Somethings never change
@@RedAndBlackIDress good reference a man of culture
he kinda roasted her, like what kind of question is that?
its not just an ordinary person buying coffee. the person asking probably keeps track of their finances
@@captana7044 sometimes some of us can be straight forward
This is really dope. You dont have to feel like your alone, your with people who can relate to.
I’m so glad you found this video and have someone to relate to now 👍🏼
Agreed, I wish it can be easier for people to understand they’re never alone but it’s just really hard.
Absolutely! I'd love to live in a group home with folks like me, I'd want to make friends with everybody who moved in and I'm sure I would too; I don't think I'll ever be able to live on my own as an adult as I'm too low-functioning, I hope someday these will become more widespread to give more Autistic folks chances!! They deserve to live and be loved and understood too
@@brandonrides you did not need to do ruben like that 💀
@Shinay dang y’all be wildin in these comments 😂😂
As someone who's being diagnosed with autism, this is really nice to see a place like this for adults. Shows a lot of care, and I really hope stuff like this is striving for years to come.
Are you going to a daycare centre for people like you to reach their full potential?
@@BigLee93 I don't know whether this is a troll, or an actual question. Either way, no, not all of us are like these people, it just so happens some unforunately have got an autism diagnosis that might be worse than others, and honestly even the ones in the video are living their lives the same way an average human would (this isn't to say every person with autism is able to do so, some really can't and it's sad to see.) just with a bit more control and a slightly different type of support (since mental illness' in general affect different people in different ways, again, in all do respect to said people.) because they respectfully need said support and comfort.
@@BigLee93 interest vs looking for a chance to denigrate.... "trolling"
@@BigLee93 is English your second language?
Have problem
Give no fucks
Have no problem
Life is that easy.
"Bought some Coffee.."
I laughes so hard at that part and I don't know u
"AutIstic needs coffee too"
Don't label! autism isn't who someone is! Would you say "Bald needs some coffee". or "tall person needs some coffee"?
no! so why autism?
Carlea Stafford
I'm autistic, not a person with autism. Many if not all autistics use identity first preference. We don't separate the person from their autism because it's who we are. And no offence, but with a weak argument like yours, I find it very difficult to take you seriously.
So my argurment is weak because I don't feel autism should be who someone is? Lol whatever..It's your life.
Carlea Stafford Holy fuck you're ignorant
Awh :) Im happy they have these types of housing options! I never knew this was a thing!
mrloverman Shabba thank you for sharing! I bet! It must have its down occasionally! :(
Brian Velez I agree with you. It encourages to gives them an equal oppprtunity to be independant, and build social skills with the outside world also xx
mrloverman Shabba Well done xx
Yes, I've been in field for 16 years now, as we're called residential counselors, Direct Support Specialists etc..Very rewarding, yet a high shortage of staffing.
Just like in the 80s and 90s
Imagine living your life normally and having everyone who sees it say “Awh good for you!”
Exactly, lol
The infantilization of autistic people here is kinda insulting
I agree. Being praised for doing everything the average person does feels like there's little expected of us or we deserve to be pitied. I'd feel like a young child who just learned to dress themselves or use the toilet. That's definitely not the case with adults with disabilities. Doing the typical everyday things like driving a car, owning a home, or having a job is part of life as an adult and it just feels like my abilities were useless when Im praised for that shit. People become to easily impressed and it just feels weird.
That’s everyday life for people with autism bud. Everyone seems to act like a kid in a pet shop looking at a puppy when you do things that the average neurotypical does on a daily basis
@@HalJordan0 Why do "normal" people think we are fucking retarted? This is a bigger issue for us with low function autism, in a lot of cases (including mine) we have an above average IQ and it feels rude and very disrespectful when people treat us like children and are impressed when we do normal daily things. I hate having autism.
We have a home like this nextdoor to us ☺️they are the most friendly neighbors on the block.
I also have a cousin living in a home like this on Long Island. She’s been there 25+ years. Best thing that ever happened to her.
It makes me really sad when parents of disabled children say “I could never put my child in a home” because there are so many fantastic places out there. You can’t take care of your child forever. What happens when you die? Set them up for success while you’re still around to make good decisions with them.
Im from long island too im from commack and i actually have a group home 4 doors down from me ran by AHRC suffolk along with the daycare bldg in bohemia by macarthur airport and i would actually visit the day program in bohemia once a year to see some of my classmates there it was good times indeed
What's sad is that these people want to contribute to society and work while other normal people don't want to work at all
They're willing to fit in and I hope people will help them feel appreciated
FmA Troopah because normal people know that working sucks
FmA Troopah we can make them feel "appreciated" by forcing them to work slave labor with no pay
FmA Troopah see that's the thing they love to help and they have a disability but yet most normal people are assholes and don't want to do anything
Oh come on. You really think that many jobs even contribute much of anything than the CEO of that particular company's pockets? Most engineers work on fucking dishwashers and shit. If youre smart you'd know that the system is currently setup for the middle class to work for the rich. This idea of working nowadays contributing to society is only something a trump fanboy would believe.
Yea man work sucks unless you do what you love
"It feelz happy to live here..."
"Why?"
"Becuz it's nice here..."
when u live in ur moms basement
Some autistic people talk strangly. Sometimes they cant talk with expression.
Valerie B like you fuck face
I was replying to Philly Cocaine, because he said that he sounded stoned. I wasn't being mean I was trying to inform people that talking differently and without expression is a symptom of autism. Sorry, I didn't say that correctly because I typed it super fast late at night.
Mega Man his voice sounds creepy. just saying. it's like a text to speech voice
As someone with AS. This makes me really really happy and hopeful. They def need more programs like this around the country
“It feels happy to be with my friends”
I’ve never heard a sentence that made me so happy 🥲
Frrr... a lot of people talk about how bad they feel for them, but this guy has literally achieved happiness, what everyone strives for, and that really makes me happy
They better get paid equally. Like other people in society does. Especially for doing the same job.
I’m sure they are, but importantly as well their level of output will always be different to what say you or I can produce in an hr for the same job. Hence It is expected that they will be paid equal in terms of output level rather than hourly basis otherwise it is not fair on any business. Also the main aim of this is for them to have a purpose and feel part of society rather than monetary in nature.
I'm sure they get paid equal until the housing takes 90% of their check. I had a friend living I one of those he got hit in the head as a kid. He said he hated it and they took all his money. This one looks genuine but who knows. Just like old people, they're always scammers out there
@@benlow8675 Spot on.
@@hansomesolo1136 wow the hit in the head messed him up for life?
@@KennethU yes, very sad, got hit by a baseball, he was a great pitcher and had dreams of making it big. I wish I could say he is doing ok but he is having alot of trouble in that house
Autistic people are some of the most kind hearted and loving people
Yep also down syndrome people.
That's a lie
My brother is evil as shit but yeah most of them are nice tho
The President We Deserve why what does he do ?
I have asbergers and i lack miralitys :D
They talk about them like they aren't humans
Professor Snippety-snaps there not
Jojo Siwa Fanpage I'm also bugged with people who say your instead of you're in CZcams comments.
Finesse Kiddd Nah I really shouldn't. I'm autistic but I can live a normal life unlike these adults. Usually the people who call other people retarded are the actual retards anyway so no.
Aidan Padraig you tried correcting somebody on grammar that wasn't even incorrect. Stfu
Aidan Padraig L
Long as they’re happy, that’s all that matters. Glad they’ve made a family with people who understand them.
Dear parents of children with an autism diagnose: This is not always the future. Some children with autism can life on their own (with some support or not).
What's wrong with living with like minded folks? Living in this damn country can be a bitch financially.
@@jlex1049 You know that group homes has nothing to do with money but with support?
@@katiap3543 ???
@@katiap3543 Yeah right.
emphasis on some
I have a 5 year old severely autistic non-verbal son. This video makes me want to cry because I feel this will be his future after me and his mother die. I really want to cry right now
Frank Dux do reasearch. Get him in contact with a organisation that's willing to help (NOT autism speaks). With the right care, he would surpass everyone growing up. It's all about how you get help.
@@LoliconSamalik nah he just stay home and cry like a little bitch
I also have a severely autistic non-verbal son of the same age. Don't be sad, be happy that you are going to set him up well for the rest of his life
@@LoliconSamalik how can we get him help my son is also non verbal, and unable to learn? Who pays for this I'm sure the living expenses with hired workers is not cheap?
I know how you feel. I have an autistic two year old. We are older parents (45) and I just want him to be able to take care of himself one day. Although this group home seems to be nice not all are and not every autistic child/adult will have the luxury of one. Some may be institutionalized. I cry about this often.
There's not many positive videos about autism on CZcams, I find this to be very nice and how they help autistic adults find a purpose in life
*GIVE IT UP. PLEASE.*
Alex Drake exactly 😇😇😇
@@thatoneguywhojustdontgivea8543 .....
@@flagofnorthmacedonia5120🎂m to
I have a 30 yr old grand son a blind and sutistic
Growing up with autism wasn't easy. I can say now that everything seems to be working out for me as an adult. With more support, I now live in my own apartment and I plan on becoming an IT Specialist. These folks are proof that anyone can live a fulfilling life!
Well since you are autistic, let me ask.... How come a lot of autistic people have angry outbursts and have a hard time controlling their anger? My sister is autistic and she is just like this... She acts and appears normal at first but God forbid if I do anything to upset her even though most times it is unintentional, she will scream and yell at me at the top of her lungs for 1-3 hours and insult me and call me names. And sometimes attacks, punches, and assaults me when I am clearly not even a threat to her or I make it very clear to her that I don't want to fight her. We are both grown adults in our late 20s also...so it's not like she is a young child.
@@miraculouslady632 Autism has its share of unresolved behavioral issues. Trust me I know because I was like your sister when I was younger. I felt like no one understood me as an individual, and I reacted violently as a result. My self-esteem took a dive as well, which resulted in having little to no friends. Ever since then, I was involved in numerous therapy sessions that dealt with my unresolved behavioral issues, and understanding what it meant to be someone on the spectrum. I think understanding and persistence are critical parts to help someone with autism. My advice to you: try to understand her needs and learn about what she has to go through everyday. Also, if possible, convince yourself that these behavioral issues don't go away unless she feels understood or at least appreciated. I never said this will be easy, so it may depend on how severe her behavior is.
@@chexs2000 I think the parents are to blame for this.
I’m autistic, but I’m way too high functioning to live in a place like that. I’d lose my mind if I had to live in an autistic home
Lmao same
Yeah fuck that lol
Agreed. I'm perfectly fine living in a normal apartment complex by myself.
At least there happy
Same here
oh look, my overwatch team
Backstabber Lautrec So here we have some Hanzo mains in their natural habitat. Today, we are going to teach them what an objective is!
Backstabber Lautrec my Crossout team.
Aidan Padraig well hanzo is not suppose to be an objective person he is a sniper
This is a great comment
realxtraki11er Still if the enemy team is taking an objective the Hanzo should go on it to health stall.
What did you do with your money?
bawt sum kawfee
''Bought some coffee.'' The proper way to say it +CheySenpie. Be respectful.
We all know he spent that walkin around money on hookers and blow.
he spent it on LSD. and got some bitches at the movies
Chosen Masters Bought some coffee
I have a 5 year old grandson who is non verbal autistic whom I care for daily! Even though I'm in my early forties, I often think about his future! Of course he can stay with me forever because I love him so much! But once I die I won't be around to care for him! I'm so glad to have seen this video!! It makes me cry and happy at the same time! I want him to be self sufficient and able to care for himself once I pass away! I feel so much better knowing that there is housing for my grandson's future and others! Thank you God!! ❤❤❤
Awesome Grandmother you are !!!
@@dalene658 Thank you ❤️
we're the same.I also have special child he is 6 years old. I'm afraid that if I die, there will be no one to take care of my child like I took care of him😢
@@ryanjayli3721 I totally understand!!! But we are going to keep praying 🙏🏾 and having faith that God is going to turn there situation around for them !!! Stay encouraged my friend!! I will keep your little one in my prayers!! They’re both going to be just fine!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
@@missvee6479 thank you so much for making me feel better ma'm☺️let's just believe in the Lord God☝️🙏 because nothing is impossible with him❤️❤️❤️
The 467 people that disliked this video are just jealous they could never have friendships like them. Really makes your open your eyes to what matters in life friends and food and a home to share
Some of the 467 people may be those with Autism who are on waiting lists to be able to get into these communities.
Or suffer from sociopathy
hell, im envious of living life that happily. it’s beautiful
@@TropicalHonduranDominican true. We can't just assume all these group homes are 100% true to their word. There's been a lot of scandals when it came to mental health care.
@@TropicalHonduranDominican there’s different spectrums of autism or other mental disability’s. Yes someone with slight Autism may be able to live on their own but what about the rest that are more severe.
that was a nice video that just made my day
Same here
jhordin Ohio State Ezekiel Elliott You don't understand how shitty those homes are then.
Actor In Disguise he said it was nice man
Actor In Disguise Just a house full of Democrats...
Actor In Disguise mate if you wanna make assumptions right go to the houses ask how they feel about living there I'll guarantee 98 percent will say yes
4chan gathering
Bruce Wayne Bruh 😂😂😂
Shh... They will track you down..
Bruce Wayne
It’s so accurate I can’t get mad at it
jannys hold their weekly meeting
I SPAT ALL OVER MY PHONE SCREEN
I absolutely love this. They are people too with the same capabilities as the “normal” person. They deserve a role in the American society.
I have Autism Spectrum Disorder, but to be honest I am glad that I don’t live in there. I moved out on my own with roommates. However this group home seems to be great and I am glad that they get to work and become independent adults. This man is so humble and it is great to see!
Autism can be very challenging to live with. Even for high functioning adults.
Rachel Rein, oh, yeah, everybody is offended. I forgot
I know that feeling
Yep for me it does get hard especially cus i mask alot and i sometimes can't say when something is bothering me
Yes I don't like it when people say that they are happy that their child is high functioning. High functioning means more likely to be depressed.
That's an oxymoron
If someone of the house dies then they all freack out
Lester Bocklandt yeah, If someone randomly died of say that would be the proper response
OpenlyTranshumanist not really. Most people know to stay calm in those situations.
thats true
no
Hubert panicing is the worst thing to do
As a person with autism this legitimately pisses me off.
You can grow out of some of the more severe sides of autism with self-training. At 18, I got out of my inhibitions regarding many social interactions.
Eventually, said interactions cascaded until eventually... I'm just a normal weird person. With time I figure I may get better, but I don't think I could of if I was in this kind of home.
Restraints give the ability for ingenious creativity, but without the knowledge of those restraints they become shackles that enslave your future.
This angers & saddens me immensely. They are coddled, assigned schedules... they are treated as children unaware they can grow up. So they remain this way.
I'm an aspie and no one would be able to tell. I grew out of most of my quirks and learned the hard way that you need to be your own advocate else you will be lumped in with people completely different from you. Understanding why emotions are the way they are and learning that EVERYONE has something off about them will help most of the people that have this disorder but of course it depends. You can easily tell some people are poor in one category by perception adjustment
Same here, when you’re in youth clubs made for people like yourself you often at times dont find good connections with major autistic people if your more likely to grow out of your problems. Placed like these however are needed for those who need 24/7 help and thats ok. Love from Ireland
sthu
The spectrum of autism has different levels, some people requires more needs and full support by these special homes than others. The most important is that they are happy and living it comfortable.
@@Eaglebrace ignorent of their own situation
Is this the Team 10 house?
Geometry Dash Peyton dis iz taym tayn bith who da hel r flipi u?
Geometry Dash Peyton Pretty much yes
Woah not quite there
Hey, how about you stop being mean to autistic people. Stop behaving as if they are an insult - that they're *that* disgusting.
Hey, I don't like Team 10, but I also don't like people like you who completely fail at roasting Team 10 and only roast these vulnerable people who can't take care of themself. Weak move, man.
no its not its team austim house
I didn't see lil pump?
Cruised lmaooo
He got kicked out
His singing gave the owner aids
He's not an adult, and he's on the waiting list.
Cruised They has to take him to a much more advanced Center in which him and Jacob Sartorious are soon going to be roommates.
Any adult with a disability should have the opportunity to work and live like these young men. There's so many of us who are lonely, struggle to find a purpose and feel so isolated. But there's so few resources for us as a whole.
You don’t have to go through life alone, it’s not meant like that. We need each other to survive and thrive, and that goes for everyone. I’m glad these wonderful people are not going through their struggles alone and they are happy in the process.
0:22 already better than lebron
noah mims lebron has three rings...
Yo that's Fucked up 😂😂
Bruh
Hairline like Lebron.
noah mims 🤦🏼♀️
I bet some insane wrestling matches go down in there
It cost 5$ to go and see the wrestling matches in there it's a bummer but tomorrow Ernie is going against Michel
I'm dead😂😂😂😂
Your real dad #Finessemykidsfor18years I have autism and fucking died laughing
Your real dad #Finessemykidsfor18years I'm done XD I'm so done lolol
Your real dad #Finessemykidsfor18years it's a home for potatoes
I’m recently diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder myself, am currently a Pre-School teacher where I work with children who also have ASD. God truly works in mysterious ways 😊.
I love how he said „I bought some coffee“. My best friend is autistic and it’s so cool to be around him, he’s always able to give or show me another view for certain things we discuss about. Learned a lot from him and yea, he’ll be my brother for ever, that’s for sure!
Cute :)
starts spraying windex in the popcorn
Dylan Smith you.. you realize it was glass that he was spraying.. right? lol
planetarywaste yes
Dylan Smith started laughing so hard
he was just cleaning the germs off smh people so un grate ful for autism
Windex popcorn is best popcorn
ICE POSIEDEN IS ON THE WAITING LIST
LMAO
Cx
I did in internship at a place like this right by where I live so I was there when I was 16 just doing things like laundry and dishes and stuff it had 10 people there some had more than just autism but I can say it was 100x better than I thought it would be it really has good family vibes they put a smile on my face everyday
Narrator: Left Ear
Anything Else: Right Ear
My boyfriend is autistic and I just wish people treated him like the way normal people would do their everyday things
I hope he is still your boyfriend and i hope the world treat him the same as everybody else, coming from a person who is autistic.
@@bjsantana8415 sadly he isn’t, but we’re very good friends till this day! But, it’s still sad to know that people think he’s “weird” or different than others. Which he is, but in his own way
@@sophiekeene I know first hand about that and I know it feels😔 but I hope people like him are doing better and still be strong like me.
@@sophiekeene As an autistic person myself a person with autism is basically a normal person we just handle things the different way. I also have a good friend who has autism too. People that are mean to people with autism don't even realise how smart autistic people can actually be. And the show I really like (You may know or heard of it) called the good doctor it teach me little about my autism too.
@@sophiekeene why is he a ex? Is it because a autistic trait?
My brother had autism and to watch thks video. It makes me feel better to see that there are people who care enough to do the little things to make big changes ❤
I'd fucking kill my self if I was sent hear.
Andy Black No I’d kill myself if I had your horrible grammar..
@@pricelessppp damn u deaf bro?
If only Chris Chan had gone here, things would have worked out.
it sucks that she (and alot of autistic adults) dont get the chance to live in these group homes where their lives would be improved significantly :/
@@starryeyes999 oh you're one of THOSE people
a good Chris Chan ending :,(
@@shmok3y ofc look at her pfp
He. He's a disgrace to the trans community and only "transitioned" because he couldn't find a girlfriend.
I'm a mildly autistic guy who experienced living in a group home in somerset Kentucky for five years since I was 20 years old and I moved out two years ago. Now I'm 27. I hate group homes but I was there because of a bad incident between me and my father. I don't want to say what I did or argued with him about, but I spent a night in jail and learned a very good lesson. My father chose to not press charges on me. He forgave me that day and I have a better relationship with him now. We cared about each other since I was born in 1995. But I live with an FHP a family home provider. I like him because he and my therapist and my whole support team are teaching me what you're expected to do as an adult better than my parents could. I still love my mom and dad. But they didn't have the right tools or skills to raise me and my sister right. My sister is a year younger than me and I love her too. She is not autistic. I am so smart and high functioning that I take care of myself. I pay my rent and bills. I buy my own things. I like where I am at and where I'm going better than where I was seven years ago. I wanted to cry going to jail, but I took it like a man. My record is dismissed and has been since I was 23. I'm not a criminal, but I did commit a crime on my dad. I learned my lesson. He still forgives me and loves me. I never want to commit a crime again. I'm not a bad guy just had bad luck. I'm glad not to be in the group home anymore. I've learned anger management and money management skills. I have better friends than I did in school. Now I know how serious breaking the law is. My father also has jail experience and my grandfather. Group homes are no place for me. Some people see nothing wrong with me. Neither do I. I do suffer from anger and depression but not all the time. I'm a little slow learning certain things. And I have a slight speech impediment. But people understand what I say. I'm not insane or evil. Just did one crime. My advice to people who break the law is don't do it. My advice to people who are afraid of disabled people is don't be. All of us are disabled in some way. My father taught me that. Don't ever be judgmental to disabled people. Get to know them before you decide if you like them or not. For the most part, I take decently good care of myself. Never be afraid of disabled people. Period.
Hello cozyball, i hope you are doing well during these trying times, i have read your story and felt you a lot. I am 24 and have high functioning autism and would love to share my story with you, growing up on long island times have been very tough on me moved 2 times to lindenhurst and lastly commack on long island lindenhurst i was bought up by both working class parents my dad was an event planner and handyman plus my mom was a hairstylist and teaching assistant now happily retired as of 2023 and life was really bad i was bought up in a small 2 bd 2ba home built in 1958 and when i was in school i was bullied for my autism and kicked plus neglected by staff no fucks given and when my dad sued the school and won we left for commack and that is where things gotten better for me i graduated high school in 2017 with a NYS regents diploma and 2 special ed certifications i was the first autistic student in the district to earn such diploma and to this day im still the only one with it, and believe it or not when i heard about you getting in trouble and such i understand the frustration you had so i was in the 3rd grade intermediate school and elementary school in lindenhurst i got in big trouble for brawling and other shit i didnt do cuz i was non verbal until we moved to commack anyways long story short my elementary school principal in lindenhurst warned my parents and i if i lashed out again they would NOT suspend me since i would get suspended for my autism a lot but automatically send me into either pilgrim psychiatric center or a troubled kiddie home in the area which angered my dad and started suing the school so it was crazy times then and now sometimes and 3rd grade i had trauma that i fought some kids and an adult so after that incident and lindenhurst i was treated respectfully and like family until high school so anyways fast forward im now living independently in trinity Florida at a beautiful condo home bear my grandparents and i am seasonally with my parents during the summer as we snowbird now so wintertime im in florida and summer im back on long island, im currently at hillsborough community college studying broadcasting and journalism plus radio DJing following in my dads footsteps so my goal is to be a professional emcee for the lightning hockey team or rays and still do sports broadcasting plus radio to keep me busy. I also heard you fought with your dad a lot and i was the same way my dad was a hardass verbally abusive and goofy bastard and there was this one incident where it got so bad so one day on a very cold day in october 2021 my dad and i were fighting over his bedroom tv being broken and his computer frequently having viruses and slow cuz he never updates it but me and we have cablevision which is shitty service so long story short we were getting 4k tv and internet service upgrades and he blamed me for his slow pc and tv and it got so bad that i ran away at exactly 1:00pm to get psychiatric help at pilgrim state and sure enough i arrived after walking for 3 hours from my home to find it was closed and i of course was going to try and visit my police station to report my father but it was too late and my mother came home from work at 4 and heard from my father i was missing so she called 911 right away to report me missing and ran away so as i was walking to my station a friendly cop named nick who was in charge of missing or raped people caught and found me at 7:00pm we were talking and an hour later at 8 he drove me home after a long search they had 3 k9 units at my house sniffing me down but wasnt there anyways my uncles local friends plus neighbors were at my house and everyone i knew even my own sister ran outside our house crying and frantic and nick said that if i did this again and 911 was called he wont help me again and ill be arrested and put in jail for running away and verbal assault. I traumatized everyone that day but needless to say my dad is calmer with me and vowed to never lose his shit or blow up on me again. So were on good terms now and we let bygones be bygones after that , i hope to hear from u soon and know this was very emotional for me reading your story.
Regards
Drew
You're a great dude.
Maybe you should try to find a wife.
@Vettel2011 no thanks. I'm a self-described asexual. I feel absolutely no attraction to myself or anyone. I've never felt comfortable with being a boyfriend, husband, and dad. I want nothing to do with those responsibilities. In my view, love doesn't exist. Only lust and hate. People feel attracted to each other because they're blinded by lust. I naturally don't feel any attraction to anyone or myself. I'm almost 29 years old and set in my ways. I'll never want a girlfriend, wife, or anything that has to do with attraction. There's no changing me. Love doesn't exist. Only lust and hate.
I feel really bad for stuff like this
rafael?
GuidedPrism 0w0 *Notices Buldge* Same
GuidedPrism 0w0 *Notices Buldge* don't be they like it there they're all happy
I hope that they're doing good during this time. It's heartbreaking the financial and social damage these lockdowns have costed on people.
These homes are prisons that are way worse than prison.
This makes me so happy!!! I thought everywhere in the world they'd just let people like me curl up and die if they can't live on their own; I'm glad these good people get to live good lives and feel like they have a place in the world here. It is a rare moment in which, I see something good being done in this world
I needed this. GOD BLESS those who commit their lives to helping special needs people live their best life. Especially at that age. Nothing but positivity and love for everyone involved.
@@magnumopiss244 get yo negative a* out of here squidward
@@magnumopiss244 They have jobs and are contributing to the economy. And even if they didn't that doesn't mean they should be euthanised for such reasons. Autism manifests in many different ways. Some of our most famous scientists and engineers ever were autistic. But autistic people don't have to be scientists or engineers. I am an autistic woman, and I want to become a toy designer (specifically dolls). A lot is expected of us, but we are also infantalised and told we should die (like you did). Even though the majority of autistic people are productive members of society you still feel the need to talk your shit, anonymously, behind a screen. What a loser.
@@magnumopiss244 dang you another dummy!
@@nicolelee1345 dark skin complexion detected, opinions invalid
@@magnumopiss244 like I said another dummy seek help lol
i believe there’s a group home like this near where my mother used to live! having two siblings with asd, it makes me so happy to see that people are getting that push they need and are getting to be surrounded by others like them.
My cousin lived in a group home for almost 15 years before passing away 2 months ago. He loved his home and things like this are great for these people. God protect all of them.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Both of my grandmothers worked in this field for many years in two separate companies. Let me just say they both loved it so much. Eden 2 and On Your Mark in Staten Island. So many lovely individuals ❤️
I'm glad he's happy and hope everyone in the home is happy also
People with autism tend to have good lives in the future. Some will get married and have kids and some just like living alone or living with some roommates. There is nothing wrong being on the spectrum. There are people do good and some that have mental issues later on in life because of the use of illegal drugs and alcoholism. Unlike the drug addicts and alcoholics that ended up in group homes before turning 30 and they arent autistic.
Mary Jesus they actually will die lonely, miserable virgins
Measuring fulfillment in life to sex alone is shallow, as if that's all life has a to offer. 0/10 ogre
Jagar Tharn I'm an ogre? Thank you you're too kind
Who, the autistic people? If you think that's gonna happen, try telling that to the autistic people who DO have gf's or bf's.
John Lee the only ones who have bfs or gfs date people who are just as dumb as them
To those of you who have a heart. Please, for the sake of our world, don’t feel bad or show us your compassion. It makes some of us feel like lesser or sub-human and the respectful thing (in my opinion) is to just treat us and consort with us like you would with any other human being, wether it’s small talk or a conversation that can last hours yet maintaining an atmosphere of comfort and some even ground between you and i on a regular day. We only wish to talk and get to know you and your interests because yes, we get incredibly lonely sometimes and we hate it, *i* hate it. Should you intentionally feel closed off and refuse a conversation, that’s totally fine and we will respect that. “Working” gives many people who are not diagnosed a sense of “purpose”. They may dislike it, but it’s what helps them get by. We experience the same struggles with life just as you do. We eat the same food, listen to the same music, wear the same clothing, go to the same beach and work the same job. Final words to the readers with throbbing and vibrant hearts; I appreciate and admire you as a fellow human.
Im so glad the group home is helping these people contribute to society and get to work. Good on them.
"What did you do with your money today?"
"Bought some coffee"
this man has his priorities straight
This is so wholesome. I wish the best for all of these awesome adults.
I have an autistic brother who's 18 and just graduated this year! He's awesome, and this video helps me get insight into what he could be like when hes older. It's amazing
for being on part of the Spectrum myself..... I find uplifting that they're doing things for whatever makes them happy!
These are the types of news stories we need more of to help spread awareness, not BS fear mongering.
Good for all these people and I wish them the best in the future!
Great minds think alike
This is lovely. Glad they're together with like minded folks. 💙
Man summoned his inner Jack Nicholson at 0:54 when he said, "Bought some coffee"
This is frigging awesome! Hopefully more things like this are made available and grow to the point where there isn't a need for a wait list.
Despite their setbacks, they contribute more to society than many internet incels that would rather belittle them.
I just want these beautiful people to be protected! I just want to be able to build more homes for them so that the ones on a waiting list can get into a home faster!
Good man!
Why do reporters make such stupid comments like working gives austistic people purpose as though we are like fish in a bowl...a spectacle! Why ask questions about basic human needs (is my point)? Yes, the neurological pathways may operate differently but when statements and questions such as these are posed it makes me really wonder what brain pathway the reporter is operating on- it is akin to asking dumb questions like: "when you are hungry do you need to eat and do you enjoy when food tastes good?"
As an autistic woman, I know and experienced all too well what you are talking about. I feel that they put us in a corner while at the same time making a spectacle and treating us like children. From experience not saying all autistics are like that, but like Transformers we are more than meets the eye. I've met a man in his mid forties who doesn't say much and appears to many as having the mental age of a child, but he types essays so lyrically and plays any hit song on piano you can think of. The other night at my neighboring group home where he lives, he played "November Rain" for me (my favorite song!). Anyway, getting back to topic, it truly rubs me off the wrong way when people think we're useless, or that we need a "cure" when in reality, there is nothing wrong with us because we are only human and our brains are only wired differently. To close this, I'll use my favorite autism quote: It's not a processing error, it's just a different operating system.
its why i hate society
Shaina Punim Barnett You can only say that because you aren't in a place on the autism spectrum that completely controls your life and turns you into a screaming, self punishing human being that cannot function and cannot take care of themselves. Autism does need to be cured. It does hurt people, and it does ruin some people's lives. People who are high on the autism spectrum live horrible, miserable lives. But, just because it doesn't ruin YOUR life, that means it doesn't need to be cured and that nobody should do anything about it...right. I forget sometimes that even autistic people can be selfish self absorbed pricks.
Zazzilas Arden Then what about the people who are lower on the spectrum and can actually function and live a normal life? Surely they see their autism as a possible gift of sorts.
K. P. It's the same case for people who aren't autistic. They were saying it more as how autistic people have a hard time finding jobs, and people (autistic or not) need jobs to feel a sense of purpose in life, so you aren't just rotting day by day doing the same things. I don't think they meant it in a rude way.
My partner worked at a place just like this for 10 years. He grew extremely attached to these people and loved them dearly.
I worked as one of these "trained staff" in a group home for 3 years. In our profession we call the position a Direct Support Professional or DSP. After having spent 3 years working in a residence, I spent the next 5 years working at a day habilitation program with another agency. Now, after more than 8 years experience I am a staff trainer, teaching the next generation of DSP's to be sensitive, patient, and empathetic, while also certifying them in CPR, First aid, and other life saving measures. This is a career that can be challenging, but as difficult as it can be sometimes it is 100x more rewarding. If you are interested in this line of work, and you feel you have the skills and patience necessary, please consider giving it a try. It's the type of job where every day you make a difference.
My 15 yr old has autism god bless these ppl who look after gods special ppl
I’m so glad they’re happy there. I knew a lot of kids growing up who had to go to psych hospitals. Not the same thing, but still, nice to see that their experience is a happy one :)
I worked in a place like this for a few years, and despite some men presenting very challenging behaviours, I adored each one of them and got to watch them become more independent, and proud of themselves. Giving someone choice and purpose makes such a difference, especially with an extra teaspoon of love 🤩
I worked in group homes in my late twenties. It was a job , it paid my bills. But I did not expect that the clients I served would be helping me more than I believe I helped them.
They taught me humility, how to understand others, and ultimately that the only positive way forward is by loving and supporting each other as family.
They cannot replace a spouse and children tho.😅
to be in a place like this is all i ask for in life,,,,
I just wanted to see the comments
I like this. Its pretty cool that they help them get jobs and stuff!
I have a mild form of auspbergers and am a student at University of Southern California. You would be surprised to know how many students here have it. People assume that autism means your low intelligence but that's not always true.
Getting accepted into USC is a worthy accomplishment for anyone, let alone someone with Aspergers. Well done!
I have aspergers and I study politics and governance at Ryerson University, one of the top universities in Canada. I refuse to let anyone treat me like some dork in gym class because of my autism
Same, also at a top Uni in Canada. Academia is perfect for autists, if anything it is an exerted effort at emulating the fixative study styles.
The savant and specialised abilities of Autists underscores the flawed neurotypical conception of intelligence.
@tugger nice. Neurotypicals don’t realize that if not for autists like us, they’d still be living in caves lmao
@@joeyGalileoHotto one of the reasons for that is because people with autism are always treated one of two ways by neurotypicals in college and in the workforce: they either treat us like we’re some dorks in gym class, or act like kids in a pet shop looking at a puppy when they’re around us. Many autistic people don’t want to put up with their bs, so they reject services that can place what they believe to be an unwanted social stigma on them
Not only is this wholesome, but it's smart. Having like minded people together always makes for a better life, but it specifically helps with their autism by learning how to live responsibly with others going through the same thing.
4chan headquarters
Trevor Miles that is fucked up
You're trying to be mean to 4chan users, but you're just being mean to people with autism. You're saying they're something horrible - that they are an insult.
What if that was the fucking point?
feels like most people belong in houses like these, honestly
Attie Davis fucking normie
Thats fucking amazing thanks i needed that
You can make sound come out of both sides of headphones. MAKE THEM COME OUT OF BOTH SIDES AT THE SAME TIME.
I manage group homes now. Rewarding work for sure.
I live in new jersey and tried very hard to get into one of these houses as a young adult. They are housed fifty people like an apartment building with roommates in small rooms. I was told I didn't need it, even though i was homeless with cptsd. Very nice....
Who else is seeing this in 2017
You're right he is
How did ya predict this wtf
Umm wtf
Nigga it almost 2018
2018
I would love to work with them or see how they live everyday. They seem so sweet.
God bless these people, and the staff that takes care of them.
So awesome! I love his straightforward answers, no fluff!!
In the end I still feel bad for people with intellectual disability. People always sugarcoat intellectual disability, learning disorders, autism and other special needs conditions, but when it comes down to it - these people were dealt a very bad hand, and they will never be given a chance to communicate with people and engage with society and experience reason and thoughts and autonomy the way the rest of us do. They're not less happy because of it since they haven't known any different, but still, they're deprived of the opportunities the rest of us have, and that's unfortunate.
Ezy Teri Reddy The goal here is that a person with Autisum needs individuality and freedom for themselves. Group homes are never a solution. Sadly depending how fuctioning the person is. If they can not take care of themselves at all then group home is a solution.
bro im schizophrenic and it's worse to not be able to engage in society, to never have had friends or a significant other, but be able to see what you're missing out on. That guy said he's happy. He has a happy little life in that home he's been living in for 30 years, why feel bad?
I'm just saying it's not so bad. My schizophrenia makes me a reject even among rejects because I have a hard time conversing with people...anyone. I'm just too paranoid about everything...even on meds.
then maybe people who do not have autism or special needs in general could learn to communicate with those who were dealt "a very bad hand" as you put it..there are more ways than one to communicate and you learn that very quickly when working in the disability sector.i'm suprised,since you feel so bad for these people,being superior in communicative language and thought processes,that you would know that.do some research and open your mind.
Ezy Teri Reddy they weren’t given a choice to have autism or not and people make fun of them for not being regular
Actually a lot of ppl with Autism. If getting diagnosed early and receiving services early live out life like what we would call “normal people”. Yes there are ppl who are severely on the spectrum who have to go in group homes and institutions.
This is beautiful
matt anstett no its not.
Katie Bayliss more like ugly
Don't be assholes guys
Katie Bayliss shut up
Hannah Horne shut up
We really need to put them together ik how it feels being alone especially for them i hope more homes are made like this one
Thank you and bless everyone in that household 🙏
Brought a tear to my eye. It’s so beautiful to see everyone there being treated respectfully and taken care of. Love is the Way!
This is really great. Makes me happy to see different practices being utilised
‘It feels happy to live here’
Bless his heart ❣
Now _these_ are the people in society who are truly marginalized and the gov't must protect them at all costs. This is what real inequality looks like. This is also a precious reminder not to waste your life. Thank you Lord Jesus that there are homes like these out there.
who are the fake marginalized people
My wife is a BHP AND MRMA. She works in houses that house two residents in each house. She has one resident non verbal severe autism. I yell you all something you don't know unless you work with folks with disabilities. It is a very hard tiring job. Not every one can do it. Takes real special hearted people to work with mentally challenged folks. But at same time it is a very rewarding job that has great meaning. If you want a meaningful job and have great heart this is for you.