Calum Scott - No Matter What (Official Video)
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Director: Ozzie Pullin
Producer: Molly McGregor
Director of Photography: David Foulkes
Editor: Sam Bould @ Cut & Run
Production Company: Partizan
Colour: Jonny Thorpe @ Glassworks
Lyrics:
When I was a young boy
I was scared of growing up
I didn’t understand it
But I was terrified of love
Felt like I had to choose
But it was out of my control
I needed to be saved
I was going crazy on my own
It took me years to tell my mother
I expected the worst
I gathered all the courage in the world
She said I love you no matter what
I just want you to be happy
And always be who you are
She wrapped her arms around me
Said don’t try to be what you're not
Cos I love you no matter what
She loves me no matter what
Got a little older
Wishing all my time away
Riding on the pavement
Every sunny day was grey
I trusted in my friends
Then all my world came crushing down
I wish I never said a thing
Cos to them I'm a stranger now
I ran home, I saw my mother
It was written on my face
Felt like I had a heart of glass about to break
She said I love you no matter what
I just want you to be happy
And always be who you are
She wrapped her arms around me
Said don’t try to be what you're not
Cos I love you no matter what
Yeahhh
Now I’m a man and I’m so much wiser
I walk the Earth with my head held higher
I got the love that I need
But I was still missing one special piece
My father looked at me
He said I love you no matter what
I just want you to be happy
And always be who you are
They wrapped their arms around me
Said don’t try to be what you're not
Cos we love you no matter what
They love me no matter what
Music video by Calum Scott performing No Matter What. © 2018 Capitol Records
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Reading the comments in here is heartwarming, devastating but incredibly humbling to know just how many people have related to the message in the song, within the lyrics, see themselves or a loved one in the video.. it is an honour to read these incredibly honest stories from your own lives and experiences.
I will never be able to show how grateful I am to you for allowing my music to be a part of your life in such a pure and sincere way. It is genuinely what I consider my greatest achievement.
Forever grateful. x
Thank u for making this beautiful song🥺💖🙏
I listen this song every night before I sleep ❤ And whenever I feel lonely or left out , I always back to this song feeling it and told myself that I'm not the only one I have hope 💙
Hell.... this song means world to me 😭 Thank you for sharing this with us and we are very lucky to have a guy like you where we can look up and say .... " Yes we exist and my family will always be my side when I comeout ". 💙
You are an amazing man 🌹❤
A song can change many lives. This is one of those songs. Thank you.
Hoping for you to find that someone special to show your family, too and if you already have: even better. Stay the way you are... humble, brave and genuine.
Remember when he was in Britain's got talent?
Damn, time flies
It really does!
hey check up my mash up i did with this song no matter what calum Scott and no matter what Ryan Stevenson and subscribe
I am a 61 year old straight woman. This makes me cry because I didn't have the support of my parents for anything. I never quite measured up, even though I never got into any trouble, took care of everyone else, got straight A's in school and raised 3 kids without help. At 59, I was diagnosed with ADHD which explained all the things they always told me were my "character flaws". Thank you for this song that reaches so many people who have gone without support and unconditional love for whatever reasons. I have loved your music ever since I first saw you on BGT. Love to you and Jade
As a bisexual I told people in school and was attacked and bullied. Before I came out I had 6 friends, I now have 1 best friend who has been by my side for 15 years. This song hits home.
Du brauchst nur einen Freund wenn es der richtige ist! Falsche Freunde ziehen dich nur runter und stehen nicht an deiner Seite wenn es drauf ankommt.
Zu einem Outing, gerade während man noch in der Schule ist, gehört eine Menge Mut...
Es tut mir leid, dass dein Umfeld sich schwer getan hat dich so zu akzeptieren wie du bist!
A true friend! Keep your head up and stay positive. Let the haters hate. That's their problem not yours.
As a wise man once told me; You dont need 6 people you just need 1 bad ass guy to be with you and you will run the world together. Stay strong you got it
Jeeoe0Mskwejsjwlowosowowowowo😡🥰😭🙅🏾♀️😔😔😔🙅🏾♀️😉😉
you are important, you are lovable you deserve happiness, and peace. May you get it all and so much more you live your life👏
This song made me want to cry and smile at the same time.
If your friends don’t accept you for who you are, they’re not friends
True dat
Agreed
thats why i have none annaoop
That's happen to me and it's true
Slap my ass and call me Hillary Clinton I feel your pain :(
I'm a 40 year old straight man and I seriously bawled my eyes out while listening to this. It is so sad to think that hundreds or thousands of people live in pain and loneliness just because of who they choose to LOVE!! humanity still has so many lessons to learn when it comes to acceptance. Less judgement, more love!
Amen 🙏 friend 😇
Same here!!!
I'm 17, came out, wish my mother was supportive 🙁
@@aaronfjdjdkddjaka8301 give it time.. hopefully she will realize you are still her son... No matter what.. Hugz
Im 45 and i pushed it all deep down in side any feelings i had bout coming out into the open and gave it no thought again now im older i would really like to find that happy place in my life calums music has made me realise not everybody will accept these choices but with a supportive group like this it makes it little bit easier
My son came out to me 3 years ago at age 26. Breaks my heart to think of all the years he carried that secret by himself thinking he would be rejected. I love him no matter what!❤️ His therapist gave him the best advice. “Those who matter won’t mind and those who mind don’t matter”
Thanks Karen wonderful story.Im a 67 year old man in Australia who never came out.My parents died when I was young and it was so different in those days.I knew I was gay about 11 years old.You dont get a choice.You are a great loving Mum.Best wishes to you;yourson and family.Love rules.Love from Australia.
Your son is lucky to have you if only everyone was like you. Your comment is wonderful. ❤
I love that advice and it's absolutely true. My whole life I was so afraid of telling my family and friends the truth that I was gay. I never got the courage to say anything I have kept this my whole life. My parents died 5 years ago and I never told them anything. Now my half sisters know that I am gay and she told me I was disgusting and said some horrible things to me and she absolutely came at me because of all sorts of things. Someone who said I would always be taken care of totally lied to my moms last request. She has totally disowned me. I still hold this inside me and til this day hardly no one knows that I am gay. I feel so alone in this world because everyone has someone and I am all alone in this world and seems no one cares and loves me at all. I cry all the time and a lot of days I am so heartbroken because I've been disabled for over 33 years and I live all alone now in my parents house. Sometimes I wish I was the one who died and my parents and baby brother was alive instead of me.
The very end of the video shows how personal this song is to him. It’s just beautiful and pure and ya I did cry a bit ☺️
I saw him perform this song live and he said this was his own personal story told through this song, and that he was deathly afraid of telling his dad. When he finally did though, he said it was beautiful and that his heart melted when his dad accepted him.
Beckiesue Sim that’s beautiful.
This song is about Calum telling his parents that he's gay and his parents accepted it.
@@beckiesuesim2157 This is his personal story?
Where was he performing?
@@hypegirl4175 At Hershey Stadium in Hershey Park. I went to see Pentatonix in concert there and he was the opening act. He sang this song and told the story behind it.
Anyone else crying while singing and tears just keep falling down even more?😭
Life Time
This song saved me from cutting. I can tell I cried.
Always.... Whenever this song rings in my head😔
so you can be used to work 😢😭
I was as well I still cry when I hear it now and I listen to it like ten times a day I cry because I’m scared to tell my mum that I’m bisexual x
😢😢😢😢💔😭
"I Love You No Matter What". I just couldn't hold my tears as it really touched my heart.
same baby forever
Dear @CalumScott.... i am now 48 years old, fightin cancer (and lose this fight sooner or later) and i am single father of a 12 year old several disabled lil princess... to be honest: no matter which Song it is, all of yours created a damn strong bondage between me and my daughter. She loves it when her ol sick father is singin #youarethereason as well as listenin to this one. Thank you for makein our lifes that full of love and happiness. Thank you so much
hey man, its been a year, how are you and your daughter? yall good ?
@@James-sb6gd she's well, i lost the fight against cancer. Waitin for dyin
Praying for you, may you find strength, peace and hope in this trying times. Please come to JESUS and ask Him to come into your life, surrender everything to Him. Everything will be fine. GOD Bless you. Hugs and kisses. ❤
@@sheenamaegonzales-tuan4628 thank you for your wishes and emotions. To be honest: religion is something for the mental poor people. There is no God at all, so nothing will safe me in any way. Religions where founded cause stupidy didn't heared about science. If there would be something what you may call "God", believe me: this eternity would be a badass at its finest. Human mankind didn't learn over thousands of years. We are still the same barbarian shit we were from the beginning. We fight wars against each other for land or gold or power, we still murder cause we are dumb and selfish. If there is a God, we are his entertainment and obviously "it" loves to see us failing. What a "loving god" shall this be? Crap! But again: thanks for your patience and wishes
Beautiful song..I'm straight and cried like a baby when his dad looked at him and smile. Everyone deserves to be happy and accepted.
I agree with you, everyone deserves to be able to be who they are!!
Same, that last bit got me emosh, I’m straight and I’m balling in bed
You are right every one should be who the are
Not everyone is that lucky
I cried also
I am going to be dancing to this song with my son next year on his wedding day with his partner. This song means so much to us. As we LOVE him no matter what!
That wonderful to hear
You son is a very lucky gay man who has a supportive mother just as I did! I hope that he and his partner have many years to experience together and they remain devoted to each other. Because you raised him knowing that you loved him “No Matter What!” he will be able to love himself and also love others without hesitation! For that you have earned the right to be proud of yourself as well as him.
As I am writing this to you I am fighting back my tears. I only wish that I still had my Mom here with me! I miss her everyday!! As the famous poem says “If only Heaven had steps to climb I would have started climbing them the moment she passed away! Your story has blessed me with sweet memories of my Mom and the unconditional love that she felt for me and she was never afraid to show me that love! When everyone turned their back to me she was standing there beside me and never waivered in her love for me!
Parents fail to realize how much what they show their kids how much they are loved by them! Painful and hurtful words that are spit out towards them cause deep pain in their children. I can remember when and how my father said things to me that were intensely hurtful for me. I can’t erase or ignore the words that he spoke to me with such venomous tongue!! I will carry that pain with me until I pass away and join my Mom again. I will again have happiness in my life! That day and time will certainly happy for me! I will be able to rejoice once again!!
I wish to Thank you again for sharing your story with all of us who are LGBT humans who happen to love those who love some people have decided that we should not be allowed to love who we want to! The situation is definitely improving with people’s attitude towards LGBT citizens. We are no where close to where we should be but we are making small advancements with that!! I am thankful for that at least!
When I served my country in the US Navy I was not allowed to be a gay man wanting to serve and protect my country from evil and bad things happening here where we live and call home. I was constantly hassled about my sexuality! I was a very good soldier and was asked to rejoin the military that I loved and was proud to serve in. I was given a honorable discharge with full Veteran’s Rights! I just could not express how I felt and was denied my right to be able to love who or whatever I chose!! I remain bitter about this even today! Who do they think gave them the right to decide who I was allowed to truly love?? Today young LGBT humans can openly serve their country without shame or fear about who they love. I am thankful and proud that maybe I helped the future soldiers who just happen to be LGBT being allowed to serve as proud soldiers who are not forced to deny themselves happiness! Maybe I helped with our cause! Even after all the disappointments and shame I was forced to endure throughout my life I am a very proud GAY man who despite many obstacles being placed before me I was successful in competition of my problem and duty to protect my country and my President from any harm happening here in MY COUNTRY THAT I LOVE SO MUCH AND GAVE UP SO MUCH OF MYSELF TO SERVE WITH HONOR!
I am so sorry for using this platform to vent my feelings so openly and so much pain with me!!
@@larrydavis5630 ❤️ u r awesome
@@alwinpaulalias657 Thanks so much for the compliment!
@@larrydavis5630 I think it would be good for you to forgive your father. Because then you let that pain, anger and/or other negative feelings away.
Came back to this song again, whenever I listen to this song, I'm still hoping one day my parents will be able to accept who I am, I know it's quite impossible due to culture in my country, but I'm still hoping a miracle will happen......
I don't care how many times I listen to this song, it always brings me to tears! Absolutely beautiful!
Same here.....every moning on my way to work
How have I never heard this????? Absolutely beautiful!!!!!!! Breaks my heart so many kids, teens and adults hide for years afraid of being themselves. This song hits home for our family. I will 100% love my children no matter what!!!!!
completely agree, nothing could ever change the love I have for my child! I would accept them just the way they were, and encourage them and answer any questions they had. My daughter saved my life and changed my for the better :D
Same..never heard this one...it's beautiful 😭🥰
Calums got so many great songs this one is i think the greatest ive heard yet
I was extremely ashamed and confused as a kid and teen and even today still struggle ended up being raped by a much older guy and it left me with major trust issues
@@mattsmyth2810 I hope you're allright now. No one deserves something as deprived as that. For what it's worth, take this from a random internet user probably on the other side of the planet, it was and it will never be your fault.
Some people can isolate you till you feel out of place but I'll be strong no matter what
Frank Lenolds morning
i know how it feels to be in ur shoes
but I wanna remind u that u a beautiful , worthy human being
all the love and I really wish u easier mornings ❤
Siwar Bou3bena thank you
Went from second pov to first but whatever
Because you are to perfect for them..just be who you are........ and trust me they never can be like you that's why they are trying their best to broke you & isolate you .......
Keep being strong like that and you'll do amazing ❤️
Callum not sure if you will read this. But I’m a 58 year old wife, married 36 years. I’m the one left behind, they call us collateral damage! When my husband came out. I cry every time I hear this beautiful song. This song has helped me to understand him and to except and support him, in his new life. He will always be my best friend. Thank you Callum!
I hope to see you in concert!
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
❤❤❤
You are so powerful, immensely courageous and loving
You are inspiration 🎉
❤️❤️
Reminder to everyone:
• You are not alone
• You are so loved
Is anyone else drowning in their own tears bc same
noOoOoo
i ve listen to it about 5 times and in every time i find my eyes full of tears and the last scene when he cries showes how much he suffered as a child
I am drowning on my tears while listening to this song :'(
So touching my heart.. every times listening this music a lot of tears drop on my face.. bc this is song seem like my life
I am... my mom has been my refuge in everything... when I came out she even became more closer to me.
Now she’s gone, I’m just lost. I’ve got a husband now, who I love so much and who she dearly loved, but nothing can ever replace a mother’s love. I can’t find my refuge anymore. I’m soooo incomplete... 😭😢☹️
I swear I cried when I was listening to this song! Thank you! Such a beautiful song!
As a gay man of 70 who was arrested for being gay in 1974 and chucked out of the RAF due to their homophobia, this song hit me right in the heart. For 25 years I hid my sexuality in shame due to the past and my religion. I am so pleased that creative people like yourself are sharing their stories and showing young people (and not so young) that one can be loved no matter what. THANK YOU.
Thanks to the older people who fought for us when it was much more dangerous now younger people have it much better. Thank you too man
@@Cono10YT thank you so much. 💓
love you 💐❤️🙂
I serve a God that loves ,people are judgemental ..live your life .I am a straight woman and this song touches me as well that people are very judgemental...
So sad to learn and the then British Government did chemical castration on Alan Turing who saved millions from the nazis, due to the enigma maciene codes, scandelous, of a government, and disgusting even for then !
At 33, I am still healing and accepting who I am and deconstructing old toxic beliefs that damaged my self worth as a person. Religion made me hate my humanity. I don't need religion moving forward from all the pain it caused me. I will find and shine my own light from now on and find joy and pride in the things I do to bring goodness to this world.
Good on you! And I completely agree with a few of the statements you made, sadly, religion does in fact destroy many people like in this example. It's a serious problem that people like you have to go through this, and have this self hatred because of the hatred they were around while growing up. I'm not saying all religions are bad but it is truly devastating that a lot of them include so much anger, indoctrination, hypocrisy, and overall hatred.
This song can't be a better example of how hard it is to explain the world who you are.
The thing is, you shouldn't have to explain anything...
Diogo Costa I totally agree
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@MiguelRoSancjez this comment made me cry more than the song
I just discovered this song today and it made me ugly cry omg
Amalia T nice tha init
me too
Helô Brasil 😘😘
Such an underrated song 😭
Same I literally never cry to anything else but there was no way I would be able to hold back my tears listening to this
this is the first time I've heard this song, I cried. It's always been hard for me to express my honest feeling, it's scary to imagine people leaving and hate me. And listening to this song helps me to remember that I also have someone to rely on, someone who provides me a place to be myself, to be vulnerable around them and they will still love me no matter what. ❤️
Jesus, this song says it all. All a child wants is love from their parents. To know that your parents love you, even though you are gay is a huge deal. Thank you so much for this song.
Lost my mom to Lung Cancer 08/08/18, she was my very best friend and I will never love anyone as much as I loved her. She always loved me no matter what, told me just to be who i am 💜 I love you Mom! Miss you every second of every single day
Stay strong.
Stay strong :(
May her soul rest in peace
Im sorry for your loss man. But August 8 is my birthday and it makes me sad to hear she passed on that date☹️
Thank you all for your condolences, who knew that condolences from strangers could mean so much to somebody!
I'm really looking forward to a collaboration of calum Scott and James Arthur
Atiku A L that would be awesome
That would make my life complete
And sam smith. Gosh that would be amazing
That would be divine ❤️
Yes! That would be so lovely!
Thank you Calum for your beautiful music and unique voice…Definitely one of a kind! 🌴😎🫶
My son-in-law danced to your song at his wedding reception when he married my son. It was a wonderful day with so much love around these two men. We love them no matter what!
Damn, I should really stop looking through this comment section, everyone’s stories are making me cry. Lots of love to you all ❤️
ikr i havent cried this much in like quite a while ngl
Fr fr. Im literally sobbing rn😭😭😭💀
There all fake or at least 99% of them
Me too! Me too. Tears are flowing from story to story
@@samuelevans1174 i don’t understand. What is fake? Did I miss something?
Im straight and this is probably one of the best love songs I've ever heard.
Hi ,my nme is Eduardo, i need a friend american.81999748810
I’m 19 ryt now
I’m the only child and also I’ve been living with my mom for the 19 years straight
We’ve been having some misunderstandings
In which she says hurtful things to me
Things I don’t expect her to say to me
Never had a real conversation about my life with her
She doesn’t even know what I’m going through
I’m literally crying whiles writing this
My dad been outside the country for 19 years also
He traveled a month later when I was born and came 12 years later
And since then it’s been my mom and I
I don’t have no friends
I don’t have no one to talk to
It’s just me and my depressed soul
I listen and watch this music video cause it’s literally the exact same thing with my ife
People I cared about no more look out for me
I hope I one day come here when all my problems are solved
And to anybody going through this I want to tell you that you not alone
Allah is with you🙏🏾
I'm a mom and though I don't know you, I love you no matter what!
I love you
Sending hugs🫂. I love you
I can be you friends ❤
Im so sorry that you are going thru this. As a mom, it breaks my heart. Im don't know what is the dynamic between you and your mom. My hope is that things will get better for your relationship. Maybe your mom is struggling too . If you don't talk to her about whats going on and maybe she isn't talking to you about what's going on then you both suffer. There is no excuse on earth for a mother to lash out and say terrible things to you. Im sorry that she has done this. Its not easy being a mom and definitely not easy growing up on today's world. I hope that maybe having an honest conversation will break thru this dark place. I'm sure that she loves you no matter what. And if she can't be the mom that you need, you be strong. You be positive. You become the best person you can be. Enjoy your life. There are plenty of beautiful souls out here that will love you no matter what!!!
This song made me cry like a baby. Only piece left is for my dad to accept me. Right now I've been disowned, but time will make it happen
When I was a young boy I was scared of growing up
I didn’t understand it but I was terrified of love
Felt like I had to choose but it was outta my control
I needed to be saved, I was going crazy on my own
Took me years to tell my mother, I expected the worst
I gathered all the courage in the world
She said, "I love you no matter what
I just want you to be happy and always be who you are"
She wrapped her arms around me
Said, "Don’t try to be what you’re not
'Cause I love you no matter what"
She loves me no matter what
I got a little older wishing all my time away
Riding on the pavement, every sunny day was grey
I trusted in my friends then all my world came crashing down
I wish I never said a thing 'cause to them I’m a stranger now
I ran home I saw my mother, it was written on my face
Felt like I had a heart of glass about to break
She said, "I love you no matter what
I just want you to be happy and always be who you are"
She wrapped her arms around me
Said, "Don’t try to be what you’re not
'Cause I love you no matter what"
She loves me no matter what
Now I’m a man and I’m so much wiser
I walk the earth with my head held higher
I got the love that I need
But I was still missing one special piece
My father looked at me
He said I love you no matter what
I just want you to be happy and always be who you are
He wrapped his arms around me
Said, "Don’t try to be what you’re not
'Cause I love you no matter what"
He loves me no matter what
They love me no matter what
Thank you ❤
Came looking in the comments section for this, thanks.
Cannot imagine what it feels like to love someone and cannot show it...everybody has to be free to love whoever we want to love....my heart goes out with all those that can not come out becuase of thier closed minded family!!!
Love you
That's me and it's sucks. But you know it might be better if I die than have to live like this, pretend to be not who I am.
sad insnt it
I've never really been a fan of this slower stuff, but there's no denying Calums voice is absolutely incredible. And his songs have such powerful meaning.
My oldest son came out to me just a few days ago, now i see this song again on my youtube page. I truly understand why he was scared, but it didn‘t change the smallest thing. Its my son, and i love him to the moon and back, no matter what!
I remember the day I talked to my parents. I was terrified. I was in tears, but the long warm hug the gave me and saying " you are our son, and nothing will ever change that and they LOVE me anyways" I never mentioned the word. They just knew.
You are adopted
KAPPA
Enrique San that is so beautiful! Having a parents acceptance is so beautiful, because some people don’t have that. This brought me back to coming out to my parents when my dad hugged me and told me he loves me no matter what ❤️ I will never forget that moment for as long as I live.
Cool!
Wow.... you are so lucky.. love them no matter what till the end.. unlike me... my parents asked me to change and they said its not acceptable plus they said this brings down their family dignity..
I was persecuted for it by my own mother. Spent my life trying to get her to accept me. Got married, had children. Got divorced, now my daughter at 26 thinks I'm a horrible dad. Impossible for a gay man to be a horrible father. I'm trying hard to figure out the problem and cannot. Your blessed and for those less fortunate move on live for you. Dont wake up 55 and alone like me.
my mom had a lung cancer and brain tumor and this song reminds me of the last time I saw her before she was sent in ICU where she died and told her "please come back to me" and she just smiled and told me "i'm always here"
p.s.always say I love you to your loved ones while you can still hear them say "I love you" back
Sorry for your lost
She is sitting right beside u, she would be there no matter what
Aww🤭😥 I am so sorry!
How old r u?‼️
Stay strong bud
😭😭😭
This song is a golden buzzer! This will make you cry in a great way! I can relate! I love Calum and everything about you. Your sister, mother, and father are so damn amazing!
Impossível não chorar 😢a voz,a melodia, a historia contada,o sentimento de ter vivido exatamente assim 😢
I am 71 years old - if ONLY I had seen this video 60 years ago. I know - times have changed. You are helping so many people with your bravery!!
Bravo.Im an older man who never came out.So difficult for me.Great song and best wishes from Australia.
And, I'm 69. Thank you.
No one should ever be denied something as basic, and as human, as love.
love Is far from "basic" but I know what you mean. Its the most powerful emotion in the world and can concur anything. You're right, no one should be deprived of love but if you're not loved here on this earth, you do have a heavenly Father who loves you NO MATTER WHAT!!!!
O but Love is as "Basic" as anything. It is what we are based on as Humans. For it was "God's Love" that breathed us into existence and that he loved us so much he sacrificed his only child so that we may have Eternal Life. 💯% Basic is Love and God's Love s the Only Love that matters.
@@lloydhollycribbs1893 l
Beautiful response x
Agreed!
My mum used to play this to me before she passed away 10 days go the last thing she said to me was I love you forever 💙❤️💙
I love you mum 🐬
All my love Jay.Best wishes from Australia.Music is mans greatest invention.
My son is transgender and he sent me the name of this song. He thanked me for being his mom and supporting him. I will always be my son’s biggest fan….no matter what! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This made me cry becouse my mom send me a link of this
She sent me a link too
mine too!!
Who spotted John wick
My mom took my phone 😃
melbert Garcia poor you 😂
When I first listened to this song, I was so touched and cried. As a woman brought up by Asian parents, many expectations to be fulfilled and rules to be followed. A simple single thing in life, I couldn't be fully enjoyed due to responsibilities and expectations.
Yadana Oo This is so so true 😣 so many expectations and what to do and what not. Everything changed when we moved to the uk but still such high expectations and pressure
I feel you sister. Remember your not alone. :") we re all in this together
I feel it too :(
I just wanted to say thank you for putting what I'm going through in words. I have so much to say, but too afraid to let it out.
I'm 48, and came out to my parents when I was 18. They didn't bat an eye. This song is beautiful. Thank you for it.
I am a gay Moroccan, and this song tells my story. When I was 13, I confided in my close friend that I am gay. He then spread the news among my classmates, and they started threatening to expose and blackmail me for money. At that time, being a young child with nothing, I became introverted and afraid to leave home to avoid confrontation. I developed a fear of people due to excessive anxiety and trauma. For 15 years, I lived without a single friend, keeping everything to myself. Last year, I visited a mental health professional in my city, who diagnosed me with obsessive-compulsive disorder resulting from childhood trauma. He treated me, and my condition has improved significantly. I finally confessed everything to my family, but they did not accept it. Nevertheless, I still love them. I advise anyone in a similar situation, especially in less progressive countries, to seek help from a mental health professional. It can make a significant difference.
Why am I just hearing this song now. This is such a beautiful song.
This is exactly how my late Mum reacted when I finally told her I was gay. We lost her to cancer on the 23rd December 1997. This song has reduced me to tears.
Peter Baggett I hope u are doing well, stay blessed
Same day I was born..
Peter Baggett ❤️
Calum, I don't really know what to say... I know you're very talented, good human, great artist. Always stay true to yourself. I muchly like your music and voice, maybe one day I will get a chance to see you live (fingers crossed). Thank you for your existence and beautiful songs.
Bullying has to be stopped. This is such a song every one should hear.
I used this song to confess my sexuality this Christmas. Couldn’t be more grateful for this inspiration.
Thats grate
skyler robinson I’m glad I wasn’t the only one 😂🏳️🌈 congrats!! It feels so much better afterwards
❤️
That's awesomeness
Age 23, My dad sent me this a week after I came out to him, at some point between these events, my sister told him why I was afraid to tell him, which sparked this
This is how society should be... Loving everyone no natter what...
I'd be honored if some Calum Scott fans who appreciate 80s/90s classics would check out my acoustic piano & vocal covers of PRAYING FOR TIME by George Michael and PURPLE RAIN by Prince on my channel in tribute to 2 of the greatest vocalist-songwriters in music history. Live acoustic with no autotune. Thanks and RESPECT to the legends.
Yeah like Jesus
More pussy for me.
@@kushOG-tq5gq virgin?
+greatt-big dong First of all... Gays only want to love... Nothing else... Someone who is gay stay the same person, the only thing that changes is that he or she will be attracted by men or women. It's just love! You can't stop someone for loving, you can't hate someone for loving... Love is love!! Then for the reproducing part, if gays could reproduce and have babies, it wouldn't mean that the child would be gay... Cause there is no gay gene, you can't see if someone is gay by it's DNA... So the child could be straight! And you know... Stop blaming gays about this... Because it's the straight people that are having gay babies. So can you just please let the gays love...
I am so touched by Calum. He sings in a such personal and authentic way. Thank you so much.
This angelic song reminds me of my spending time with my mother, I still feel her in this song and keep listening to it every single day. If you have your mother alive give a call and ask how she is
I'm still following you since Simon Cowell pressed the Golden Buzzer
Good
Same here 🌹
Mus'ab Abdul Muqsid best decision Simon has ever made. Calum is truly an artist
Meeee tooo. Love ths man!!
me too
He preformed as a guest at a concert, and preformed this song.
I remember how still the air felt, as if the whole world had become quiet for him.
The atmosphere was so peaceful. Like a sense of unity in the crowd.
Everyone rose to clap.
Such a beautiful song that spoke to everyone in the crowd in some form.
is there a video of it here on youtube?
It was so beautiful to see him perform it. I was in tears, and here I am again.
paulthehuman I don’t think so, I truly don’t know. I would love there to be one though.
Calum, I love your music. This is one of my favorites. It is truly a beautiful and special song. I wish you all the best. Can't wait to hear more from you!
I’ve had this song on my playlist for around a year now. Anytime it comes on it makes me so happy, yet sad. I’m still just a teenager living with my parents, and they don’t accept me. My mom knows, but says nothing about it pretending she doesn’t know, and she doesn’t want my dad to find out. My dad is old school, really homophobic. When I move out, I hope to also get the courage to tell him. Tell them both directly. My mother only knows because I was indirectly showing. I’ll come back here in some years and let you guys know how it goes. Fingers crossed.
Good luck 🥰😘
@@evajonsson3551 Thank you😁
Only my mom and my sister accept me
@@lauender we accept you hope you find the peace in telling them they should accept you no matter what you are or who you are good luck keep your chin up
@@andys1756 Thank you so much!
No Matter What this song is beautiful
You are right
Yeah
Today I found out that I'm this mom... And I Love him NO MATTER WHAT!!! 💕
Yay spread the word! We need more loving moms and dads!
♥️♥️♥️
@@dreyddog19 And Grandma's
This is such a SONG. Not all of us were lucky enough to get the response you received from your parents. It's not something one can explain really, being gay is scary in a world full of idiots. And when those closest to you accept it, it makes you feel like you can move mountains. On the other hand, when they don't, it breaks a big part of you. What a song, beautiful Calum xxx
I am now a woman who has had the immense luck of being raised to give and demand respect no matter race, gender, sexuality, religion, etc. To all the youth and oldest struggling with self acceptance, you are deserving of love and a great live. If your parents and your friends don’t understand that, it’s not your fault. Look out for yourselves and those who love you, you don’t own anything to anyone. I am crying while typing this now, shit. I give you all virtual hugs, have a great life. ❤
❤now we both can chat more on telegram because I'm not always active here for we to know more about ourselves
One of my greatest childhood friends came out after he moved away. He said he waited because the other kids at the school would have destroyed him and that he was afraid of what his two best friends would say. We would have stood by him and fought the war with him. He was an amazing person who was tired of seeing people be ugly towards one another. He was a scared young boy who grew into a hardworking man that was comfortable with who he was and he embraced others for who they were. Differences never mattered to him and smiling is something he really enjoyed. Unfortunately this great man was a victim in the shooting in Las Vegas and he passes away in the arms of his boyfriend that loves him to the end of the universe. You can't put a limit on love and I am deeply saddened for anyone that thinks they have to hide who they are for the sake of others. And I will always be proud of everyone that has found the courage to stand up and stand out. I am a straight woman but who am I or anyone else for that matter to have a right to tell strangers who they are supposed to love? It doesn't work that way. I love you all. You are not broken. You are human that carries human emotions, no matter what the size, race, sexual orientation etc. Love is Love and it is interpreted through each person differently. Just because it's different doesn't mean it makes it wrong. ❤
I feel sorry for your lost. I knew how devastated it must be. To be honest i felt it, i am feeling it. Because it happened to me. My BF died because of cancer couple months ago. We’ve been together for 13 years. I accompanied him beside his bed when he was dying. It was the scariest moment i ever felt. But what scarier is that there were no family of him present during his last time. All of them against him because his decision to be in relationship with another man whom he loved so truly. I would never have a word to express how heartless they were. So i listened to this song a lot and i dream in the future, people will be more educated and more understood that love is the greatest give and we can love whoever we want and there’s nothing wrong about it. When we’re in love we just the person for who they are, not because of gender, racial, religion or anything. And by reading your encouraging positive words, i feel confident that my dream will becoming reality 💖
@@spheniscusmagellanicus675 I am deeply sorry to hear about your loss. However, I am happy to know that he was loved with pure honesty and I am happy that you were there for him. You have an Angel watching over you now. I am also sad to hear about the hatred. It's ugly and it's wrong in so many ways. Nobody on this planet is allowed to tell you who and how you are supposed to love. Warm hugs to you.
@@spheniscusmagellanicus675 im sorry to Hear that =(
Thank you ❤️
your words gave me goose pimples. I am a gay man now 55 and times have changed for the better thanks in part to positive, caring and loving people such as yourself. My how the world would be so much better for all if only people saw others and with the power of love such as yourself. Sending you love and light. May they follow everywhere you go.
If you reading this, have a nice day. Every person is a special person.
Thank you, blessings.
Thanks bud, you just made my day
Much love thanks
I played this for my daughter when she came out to me. We both cried and she hugged me. Sacred moment. Thank you for writing this song. 💗🌈
That's sweet.
I am going through a very hard time my younger boy who is now in his 40's. Told this to a familiy member. He is dealing with this for a very long times. I have not seen him for so long miss him so much and love him so but he does not want to see any of us for over a very long time. All I do is cry and pray for him every single day. When I heard this song my hold world turn around. That I send it to him but he never answer. Thank you so mucho for your words. You're very special to my husband and I , great song thank you. Much succes yours truly. Blessing always
This song is outstanding, a completely masterpiece. He is an amazing singer with and incredible talent
Dear everyone that's reading this, we don't know each other but I wish you all the best in life. 🍀❤️
I wish you and your family the best too mr White ❤
And I Wish you the best in everything
Thank you so much mr John wish you all the best in your life too ❤
This world is only surviving because of this thinking, because of our hearts
Thank you I wish the same to you
I just recently came out, and I haven't quite gotten this support. But I love who I am and I'm proud of myself!
You go, girl!
Be brave. There’s a huge community out there to support you
Me to! Have courage!
And girl that’s all you need!! So proud of you, keep on being you 🥺❤️
💪🏼💪🏼love is love
I'm not part of the LGBTQ community but I support all of y'all! Be you! Be and stay the strong beautiful humans that yall are! Much love!💖💗💓💞💕❤
I actually heard that song on the radio for the first time just yesterday and I can't even begin to describe what hearing it made me feel like inside. So I decided to search for the video on youtube and when I actually saw the lyrics it made me want to cry even more(sry I am not local and English is not my native tongue so I just didn't catch all the lyrics at once i guess). Hearing that song made me realize how often we don't appreciate or comprehend the love from our loved ones or often misinterpret it. Also how often it takes something tragical to finally understand it....to get there. Remember that the love from our loved ones is purest love it can be! Always. Also - Calum! You are just an INCREDIBLE guy for making such a pure and honest song. I can say something like this tends to become rare these days unfortunately! THANK YOU a thousand times for making people realize what really matters the most in life through your beautiful music!!!!!
LOVE ,
Merileid.
This song always bring tears to my eyes because it's something I WISHED my parents have said to me. Unfortunately I am one of the unlucky one that didn't go well when I came out. Many hurtful things was said by my parents. To those whos parents said "No matter what" when you came out, treasure what you have.
The most important thing is you love yourself unconditionally
I'm sorry to hear that. Your parents might not accept for being who you're but I'm sure there's people around u that love and accept for being who you're. Youre free and important
June 2020
Pride month
This song speaks volume❤
✊🏻😌
My tears fell right on the like button
I can't cry cos of all the shields I have put up since 12 but this made my eyes water. Progress i guess?
Did the like button break because of the shot circuit?
@@bobmars8644 Ouff. You alright?
“ I love you no matter what.” These are the best heartfelt words that anyone can ever hear. I love you Calum Scott!♥️🇨🇦
Hello Linda how are you doing today
@@AdeyemoJacobciao Adeyemo! 🙋♀️😊😍😘💘🌅
I don't know how I missed this song almost 4 years ago. I just watched it today, and cried. I didn't have a mother or a father to hold me, I walked thru all by myself, it was difficult 45 years ago when I start feeling "I didn't belong" but fortunately I was able to handle the "pain and loneliness" and created my own family with very close friends. The message is clear, I hope all the parents can understand it and love their kids "No matter what". Thank you Calum!
I'm a bit older, in my 70's now, so when I finally worked up the courage to tell my Mom I was gay I truly expected the worst, since things were a lot different back then. She gave me a hug and said, "Well, I guess I've been wrong about gay people my whole life, because to me you're perfect, and I love you just the way you are." My Dad and siblings took a bit longer to come around, but I knew I always had my Mom in my corner--she allowed no one to say anything negative about it. She died at 92 ten years ago, and this song brings tears because it reminds me of her and I truly miss her so much--never knew another like her.
James, I'm 55 and I don't know when I can come out to my family...gay life = sad life, sad but truth
@@mattkim5782 I'm sorry to hear you say that--but I acknowledge that for some families and cultures it's still a real struggle. It makes no sense, but it is reality. I hope you can find something that brings you enough joy to balance out the hurt and sadness.
I'm so glad you found the support with your mom and that's a wonderful memory. Having that one person who is your light and in your corner, I'm sure made all the difference in the world for you. Also, I'm so happy that your dad and siblings eventually came around. In this case, I agree with the phrase, better late than never!
@@jamesconrad940 Thanks James...of course, one must somehow find a way to survive...and I survive and endure but some how I always find something is missing, I can never truly be my own - anyhow James...have a good weekend and stay safe... :>
@ibrahim khan This question isn't as easy to answer (in my opinion) as a lot of people think. This is due to the fact that sexual attraction is a full scale and not just a binary scale for lots of people. However, in my own case, from the time I was very young, I was only attracted to males. I liked girls, but only as friends and I never fantasized about having sex with them. However, I've talked to lots of people, and everyone's experiences seem to be a bit different. I do know that certain religions and cultures can emphasize the "wrongness" of being gay to such an extent, that many people deny their own feelings for many years in order to conform to family and cultural expectations. It would even be a good idea to find a counselor you can trust to just talk to without worrying about being judged to find your own way to understanding your own feelings outside the demands of other people. I would add that most people who "wonder" if they're gay, almost always are, because very few straight people ever wonder. The wondering usually comes from trying to reconcile feelings with cultural expectations. I wish you well.
My son came out to me last year and I told him I love him no matter what ❤. My sonny boy is my heart! ❤
Renee Garcia Thank you for being an amazing mother❤️
With love,
LGBTQ+
@@OrcaWhale00 awe, that's my heart! Thanks loves ❤
Must have taken a lot of courage ❤️
@@caitlinhulsman380 he cried because he was scared 😭. I cried too. It was emotional.
Renee Garcia I just like this I was 108. Which 108 is my parents address in TN. They love me still I told them in 1994. U are amazing support is what children need. Parents need support too. ❤️❤️
Your song, the sweet lyrics, gave me the ability to feel what you felt…I too feel humbled that you allowed us into your heart like that. I wonder if those boys realize now, how incredible you were and are. All the best to you Calum, you have brought so much joy to the world with your music.
I think of my amazing parents every time I listen to this song
Love you mom and dad
Beautiful lyrics, gave me strength to continue with my life
YOU Have people around you who love, you gotta stay!!!
I know you're worth it. Even if you made mistakes! because we all did
Me to i cry by the second one all ❤
Heyyy Mann, be strong!! I love you and everyone around you love you too no matter what (((;
Same here 😔
Just always remember God and your parents love you always no matter what...I feel you too....
We love you no matter what... 🙌
It is Javi - hey Javi
Are you Brazilian?
I know I'm late, but this song brings tears to my eyes. I can feel this song very much. I hope one day I will have the courage to come out to my family.
Thank you Calum Scott
Hopefully you will when you feel the time is right for you, they then get the real full you , be strong mate, dont think the worst in family, friends you maybe very well suprised,
@@devonguy02 Thank you for your encouragement words🖤
Most welcome remember to always be your true self, be proud of you, you should be ! @@loveyeah37
Tranquilo!! No te angusties todo saldrá bien ,te fé te deseo lo mejor en este proceso un abrazo
@@lifeesperanza3584 Gracias mi amigo🖤
Psychology says,'When you are happy you enjoy the music but when you're sad you understand the lyrics'.Those who come here to feel the lyrics:like here👇👇👇
Gay or not, we can all relate to this song in one way or another.
True that
Albert I agree
could'nt agree more
So true
What? This song is about gays?
Oh God if only. My family has not spoken to me for 28 years. I met my partner in 1989 we still together today 2020. The cost of love was the loss of my family. I would make the same choice again if I had a do over. My lover saved me loves me and each day our love gets stronger. I have no family but I have him.
Hi. I was reading your message and thinking..... you have a family. I'm sure you are happy and your life is full of Love ano respect of each other. Hugs and kisses from Brazil!!!!!
I can’t imagine having to make that choice and I’m sorry that you had to. So glad you have one another though ❤️
I relate my dad fucked me off to one of those conversion camps down south and after that I up and left I have no one but him and my love for him makes it okay.
It’s like rupaul said we get to choose our family. If they can’t accept you for who you are then it’s better to cut them out of your life. Keeping them would just make your life toxic.
I pray for you and God bless you 🤗 Happy 2020😃 Juntos venceremos el Coronavirus 🙏😷
I am 44 years old now. Never had the courage to come out to my parents what's more when it is a crime to be gay from where I came from but this song gave me the opportunity to feel something that I would never feel in real life. I thank you very much sir for this song....
I hope where ever you are that you're safe. Just know that you should never question your own self-worth. No matter how old we are or where we come from, we all deserve to be happy and wether you ever want to come out or not, know that I feel for you.
I have lost everything, my mom, friends, and all trust in myself and and others. This song, with being who I am, gives me hope. ❤
This guy never fails to melt our hearts & make us cry.. Especially the ending 💕😢
This is beyond beautiful!
*Hats off!!*
Can’t stop crying to this song...
Same
This song hit home and will now be the song I dedicate to my kids. They are my life and my world. I tell them every single day they are perfect just the way they are. This song is now in my heart. Thank you for your music. It's absolutely amazing! 🥰
QW11❤🙅🏾♀️😎🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
This song is amazing and hits so close to home. I love him, no matter what ❤
Hello Kelly how are you doing today
who is crying listening to this song
#2019?
I'm not crying 😭, you're crying
Damn those ninja cutting onions (TT ^ TT)
Me, calum is my crush
My father's just said " I love you no matter what" in the last week and invite my boyfriend have a dinner with him.😥😥😥😊😊😊
Me
Since everyone else is doing it who’s listening to this song in 2020
Also I love this song and just the pure emotion in it and it just digs deep because it is deep
Nice edit
is he gay
Ashley Paterson is it a problem?
me
I never had this from my mother, but I hope my daughter always knows that I love her no matter what. ❤️
My wish and hope is that one day the acceptance from parents like this will be the experience everyone has. I can't help but cry watching this video and listening to this absolutely beautiful song.