my parents force me to help my brother bc he has a slower mind, and i have a faster mind. but honestly they act like i did absolutely nothing and it just hurts. they give him all the credit as if he did it all by himself. and then when i tell them i helped him theyre like "stop bragging" and my brother doesnt even say thank you and he acts like im *supposed* to help him. then when i ask my brother something infront of my parents they are like "stop bein so bossy" when my brother was forcing me to do something just 10 minutes before right infront of them. they act as if im always gonna be the second option and prob will always be. i hate it so fucking much. then when i fall into depression from stress, they act as if im a dramatic person. and then caused me to have a eating disorder, sh, anxienty, trust issues and way more.
@@blackbatman3 i honestly dont care about how much i wrote i just needed to vent to someone atleast- i just couldnt bear it, without telling anyone. also i write essays everyday so that much isnt very much 💀💀
As the “smart kid” I feel like I have to be perfect in everything I do. This has caused me to not be able to ask questions and feel frustrated with myself when I get criticized and get an answer wrong. This has caused me to never speak up about my problems because “perfect people don’t have problems”. I honestly sometimes wish I could just speak about my issues but I feel that I can’t have any. :/
Being the smart kid in my class and having a very needy farther ( I usually asks my grades before he asks how was school ) and so failing even one question nearly brings me to tears
"where are your glasses?" "don't you study all the day?" "i thought you memorized the whole periodic table" "you would do it anyways" "you're so lucky"
I can relate! Whenever you just get a simple answer right, everyone looks at you and they’re basically saying in their heads “Know it all” “Teachers pet” “Smart-ass” Like? We’re just answering a question, don’t be jealous, boo
as someone who has a smart kid in our class is it normal for him to like steal every answer and when a student is answering he will like take it? so hes like the only student? and every student hates him and calls him know it all plus hes the president so i think hes the only student in class.
Honestly i was the first in my English class and there was this boy who’s the second and he would just use me for homework answers and would blocked me if I didn’t give it to him and he would say the things that are mentioned in this video I’m trying to take him down tbh
Same, my so-called "friend" asked me to give her the test since she couldn't copy the test, i was out of station without my books, so I told her that it is on the board since it actually was ( only till the next day 1st period ), so she called me lazy and arrogant Man, she actually became Severus Snape that time
Exactly I finish my work early and then people ask me for answers but instead I just show them where to find it or how to do it but then they get mad at me and force me to give them the answers it's annoying and then when I don't they say I'm jealous that they're "smart" enough to ask for answers instead of solving them myself
thanks finally someone who understands me im the smart kid but people act like i'm their calculater dictionary im sick of it bein' the smart kid if i don't answer the question people asked me THEY STRAIGHT UP CALL ME ''MEANY''' if i don't do the smart kid things and i relax they say im lazy .. imma suicide my cat died r.i.p my mom is sick my dad has no money people make fun of me im tired can someone help me ? give me therapy i hate my gender too i sometimes think why i was born my mom thinks the same i come from a country that people call ''capital of terrorist'' i'm sick of my life i fell in deep depression i sometimes get dizzy because of the stress i do help me get out of depression....
To all the smart kids in school who aren’t mean and are genuinely nice and would help, then I feel you and I hope no one else says this stuff to y’all ❤️
In my entire elementary years I only had 2 friends that only lasted a few months because I realized in late kindergarten that almost everyone will be a fake friend to me because they just want the awnsers. Luckily I made some new friends in my school and yes, they make fun of me at times- but they're pretty nice and will help each other out.
The one where he said, “he didn’t give me the answers” is just plain dramatic and stupid. Just because someone doesn’t give you answers doesnt mean their being mean.
Ikr! I'm very smart(but not on math lol) but in math class the one time I actually got the answer right this girl says "What's for #5?" And I try helping her through it right? Well then after that she starts bullying me because I didn't give her the answer 😃
THIS IS TRUE. My classmates just wanted to use me for answers and money. I am perfect in the Palad family but I am just having stress. When they ask answers my teacher is making me stand up even though i did nothing. I dont have much time to answer my assignments because of them. Now i have social anixiety, eating disorder and trust issues. I just wish that i was not having a hard time..
I agree because I spend EVERY NIGHT not sleeping and working on my homework. My mom doesn’t even offer to help she just thinks I am just stressed too much and it’s “easy” for me. Sometimes I forget steps and I stress over it because i think everyone’s gonna make fun of me for getting things wrong even though I’m the “smart” student. Being the “smart” kid makes you think you have to be the perfect one who gets all of the answers right or else you’ll get called stupid. This just causes me to stress more and try MY HARDEST just to get one question right.
This is so true I always have to go through this at school for being the smart person in the class. They always tell me to give them answers and it gets me so stressed out. Mostly in exams and quizzes they always go at me for being mean when I’m trying to do my work. They stay there and do nothing until it comes to the time for important things. I know that there are many people who go through this at school and even on homes. Like people need to understand us pls😕
As ONE of the smart kids, it feels pressuring if you get low grades.. My sister is less smarter than me and she bullies me if i dont get a very high grade.
I can definitely relate. My ex-freinds Forced me to do their ENTIRE english homework or they will unfriend Me. And when they got caught they unfriended me. It caused Me to have TERRIBLE disorders and mental health. Now I'm not the smart kid anymore. nor anyone in my class.
i am kind of one of the “smart kids” in my class, and i’ve been told i should be a reader when i age, and i’ve literally been called “reader” and then there’s also the “what are you reading?” “your favorite day is probably national reading day” and “is that book different?” , it’s really stressful to be targeted for that stuff
I remember when it was the middle of the test and someone asked me a question. The teacher was in the room so I just kinda signaled to them that I couldn’t help them then. Luckily they understood.
As the topper (girl), I can relate to this. I’m a nerd and people usually ask for help with homework. I of course try to make my way out, it usually works, in rare circumstances. Yes being the topper, nerd, and smart kid doesn’t mean we always get the highest marks.
I felt this on so many levels; everyone thinks we have it easy just because we excel at academics. We make tons of mistakes too and putting up unreachable expectations can really hurt 😞
Whenever I don't give out answers everyone thinks I'm mean, and when I do give out answers the teacher yells at me. It's really annoying. I also understand the, "I thought you were smart!" one. Even if I have good grades, I'm not perfect. I can get things wrong.
I feel like whenever I've gotten a perfect score, everyone just hates ot and whenever i screw up, they start making fun of me. Cant believe how accurate this was.
One, getting a 'higher grade' or finishing faster than the smart one doesn't count as an 'achievement' when you keep scrubbing it on their faces. Two, saying 'I thought you were smart' or 'why did you get a low score, i thought you were smart' is a very heavy insult that doesn't seem to affect them on the outside, but inside, they're really hurt by what you said and wished they were never even birthed. Three, if you tell others to ignore a person JUST because they didn't give you the answer doesn't mean they're selfish. It's more the opposite, as you use your fame and popularity among your classmates against one person just because they didn't want to get in trouble because of you. Lastly, smart people and dumb people struggle almost the same amount. If you're dumb, you get bullied because you 'don't know anything' or you 'don't have a brain'. If you're smart, they'll start expecting so much from you and always have to overwork yourself just BECAUSE you wanted to please them. In my opinion, be what you want to be. Though other people may seem like they're restricting you to become whatever you want (mostly Asian parents like mine), they don't actually have any right to assume you'll fail in life because of following your dreams. Even if you fail, atleast you're doing something you love. Don't get regrets like 'I should've listened to them' or 'they were right' because they really aren't. Who knows, you migth've became very successful if you just followed your dreams in the past, and you'll regret wasting your whole life just to please others.
YESSS i can always relate to this... especially when they say "I BEAT UU" or "OMG I FINALLY GOT A HIGHER MARK THAN U" and they only use you for homework... its sad
Warning : bad gramma That's so true , i am very good at english , history and maths and people are always lile "can you help me with the exam ?" or "pls what is the answer for this question ?" and way more , but what is more annoyi.g is that people think i am too "kind" (i am a very kind person but get serious sometime) , i remember one time at 6th grate , i was doing my work alone and then some of my friends want my help but i said i'm busy and then went i'm done , i decide to help others and then my friends said : "wow i didn't know you are like this" so i help them as well (actually , they are good friends just they are not good at the camestry) But anyways , hope everyone have a good day or night 😄❤️
I relate to this so much! My teacher always makes us play math booklets, and I always win them, and my classmates say that I'm hacking, and it makes me feel like this inside, but I can't do anything about it because I'm at school and I don't wanna get in trouble. Most people want to be the smart kid, but they don't know what it's actually like.
as a smart kid, i never had these problems, i never really got bullied, but i understand that other people have problems like this and they are falling into depression sadly, but im just 10, what do i know?
I am considered the smart one out of all my siblings, I also am the youngest. I tend to feel really bad because my parents will often talk to each of my sister's and then use me as the perfect example. the only reason that I seem smarter is because one of my sisters had a brain bleed when she was a baby and the other has had 7-8 concussions. I also feel bad because my dad gave me more attention because he wasn't ready to be a dad until I was born.
Everything school AND house related I do has to be perfect, I can't get a B+ in a single class, that's unacceptable. I'm expected to memorize and know everything, nobody ever thinks about how hard I ACTUALLY have to work on things to get it right.
As one of the smart kids in my class, the worst thing is when i get the highest of my class i get called a nerd, and if i get less than 85% people say ‘i thought u were smart’
I hate it when in school for example, im always forced to help the lower level people and never practice my own thing so i slowly deterioated and fell behind until my fav teacher so far (a sub) gave me extra homework which was my level and made us work with our own levels for an entire month :)
After a test Classmate: Did you get this answer? I: yes, I did Classmate: OMG OMG I get right So, we both get the wrong answer (Sorry for my English, I'm Italian)
When i was at old school, this happens to me allot of times . They tried to copy me as fast as possible to get my answers and always called me “selfish and greedy “ and I absolutely hated it
Fr I’m one of the smart kids in class because out of a class of 30 some have beliefs on who they think are the smartest, and I can relate except for the one that I’m told to help
As the "smart child" I need to have only good grades and be perfect at all. This caused me a big problem....... Always I get an answer wrong I start cry and panic or when I hear the teacher will give us a test from the lesson I didn't learn I start have panic attacks and cry hard. Another moment is when I got a grade under 9 (I am from romania and our grades is from 1 to 10) I start cry and panic what the parents will say. Always when I have a test, before the test(in the break)I start panic and read the lesson for 5-6 times, sometimes this cause me to forgot what I learnt........ I need to have 10 straight, If I don't learn the teachers will say "You need to be an exemple for your class,why you don't learnt?" Or to be the favorite of your all teachers is hard because you need to do all good at her/his class because if you don't do it you will be a "bad exemple" for the class..... I have anxiety from this...To be smart is hard....
This happens but it's different. They just use me for answers and I honestly hate it so much, they're just dumb and it annoys me so much. I work so hard, only for them to come over and take my work. When there's a group project I prefer to try and work alone so nobody copies me, luckily I haven't gotten into trouble for it. It's so depressing because sometimes I only make friends with people *because* of this. It's the worst and I hate it.
I relate to this more than I should I still deal with many people laughing at my failure and showing that they are better , more cases include them using me for answers on tests , calling me mr smarty pants , say I show off all the time and beg for me to do their homework
Where I set in my class front beanch nothing know about study back beanch nothing konw about study i am the only who study we exam is there i don't want to learn but they think I m stupid but without study i got half of 25 soooo don't think you stupid you are smarter than anyone thought😊❤
I am the "smart kid", its difficult cuz everybody think that the only thing that i can do its be smart and they underestimate other things like athletic, 🖤 a! And everybody NEED that i have to be perfect, they don't know that I have other problems like, i have epilepsy and the O.C.D. and and traumas that are always tormenting me but they never care about anything, it is really very cruel ❤
As a smart kid myself, they always mocking me for being smarter than them! Its strange when I didn't get a high score mark, they didnt mocking me, they only mocking when I get high score..
I can relate to this is very true and I hate that one boy when I'm with him on group project he expect that I will do all our work and he will do nothing I really hate that
As the smart kid, i hate it when they say "I thought you were smart" when i get something wrong! Why cant they understand im human, and im not a robot that can get everything right. And here is a quote i made; "Never tell a smart person that they know everything."
Whenever the teacher puts me in a group with other students because I'm known as Smart they expect me to do all the work and I'm sick of it. I don't have an escape. I don't have parents, my mom died giving birth to me and my dad didn't know how to deal with it all so he k!Iled himself, I had an older brother but he had cancer before I was born and he died from it the day before my birthday. I was only 2 at that time I knew how to walk well and talk well so I could communicate well. Then someone found me and I was put in an orphanage and the staff didn't like me I only had one friend and she got adopted by a couple. I was heartbroken 💔 she gave me friendship a necklace and one of my bullies broke it and every lunch I always cry in the bathroom while everyone is happy with friends going home to their parents. I cried myself to sleep ever since I got in that orphan and my uncle was an alcoholic and died from a heart attack because his wife and kids died somehow everyone in my life that's I love are gone I just wonder why I exist. But I am glad I have somewhere to sleep. So anyone who has things I don't please enjoy while it lasts because I never could.
This happens to me almost everyday at school, just bc I’m the smartest in my class, they say “I got a higher mark than you” or “how did you get this question wrong?! I thought you were smart, guess ur not really now”, I get really annoyed by them…🙁
I have a very different experience People always expect me to know the answer to everything. Especially in math. Being raised with a teacher for a mom, I refuse to give out answers like that, especially when I'm not supposed to. Also, I'm slow but accurate with math, so when people ask me for an answer it just stresses me out because usually I'm not there yet.
As the ‘Smart Kid’, I was always being walked all over and taken for granted so I wanted to see what would happen if I ignored anyone who asked me the answers, then I was ‘The least liked/smartest kid’.
Sometimes i think my friends are just using me bc i’m smart, like i’m happy i’m smart but the only time they talk to me is when they need help with work :(.
This is relatable for me is that if we ever got homework to do in school my friends would just ask me for the answers and after we done the homework there just gonna ignore like i was suppose to help them
This is so true. In my class I’m considered as the smart one. People stare at me and laugh if I get one thing wrong. But when someone else gets something wrong people don’t care? Also I’m expected to get 100% on all my tests too? It’s so annoying. And people always say, “you probably got 100 on the quiz, your the smart kid!” And I hate it so much. At this point I think most of the people that want to be my “friend” are only using me for answers. I had a friend who always asked me for answers, even when I wasn’t supposed to. So obviously, I didn’t tell them the answer. Then at lunch they told mostly everyone, “you should sit with her she was so rude because she didn’t help me” like seriously???? edit: the first thing in the video happened to me today. People were like “you only got a 90%?” “LOL” “GUYS I GOT HIGHER GRADES THEN ________!” But I guess it’s alright. Because somebody said, compare your overall grade to hers. Trust me, theirs a difference. (mine is 99.13/100)
NOBODYS perfect. Even the smartest person in the world makes mistakes. The only reason why the smart kids are known as smart because they had to fail,they HAD to make mistakes before getting good scores. And getting one bad score doesn’t mean they are lacking bc I feel so bad for ppl at my school especially the “smart kids”
my parents force me to help my brother bc he has a slower mind, and i have a faster mind.
but honestly they act like i did absolutely nothing and it just hurts. they give him all the credit as if he did it all by himself. and then when i tell them i helped him theyre like "stop bragging"
and my brother doesnt even say thank you and he acts like im *supposed* to help him. then when i ask my brother something infront of my parents they are like "stop bein so bossy"
when my brother was forcing me to do something just 10 minutes before right infront of them.
they act as if im always gonna be the second option and prob will always be. i hate it so fucking much. then when i fall into depression from stress, they act as if im a dramatic person. and then caused me to have a eating disorder, sh, anxienty, trust issues and way more.
I’m so sorry,this might be one of the saddest comments on my channel.I hope you’ll feel better soon😕
Bro wrote a whole essay for his life 💀
@@sarenasgamebox imagine being afraid to be boy/girl
@@blackbatman3 i honestly dont care about how much i wrote i just needed to vent to someone atleast- i just couldnt bear it, without telling anyone.
also i write essays everyday so that much isnt very much 💀💀
@@blackbatman3 imagine being a brat 💀
The worst part is when teacher says
*"I didn't expected that from you."*
"your supposed to be a *leader* in this class"
When the hell did I agree to that?
@@Punkygreen-88 true
As the smart kid yes
@@Giyushino4lifeemkay 💀☠️
Ye-
As the “smart kid” I feel like I have to be perfect in everything I do. This has caused me to not be able to ask questions and feel frustrated with myself when I get criticized and get an answer wrong. This has caused me to never speak up about my problems because “perfect people don’t have problems”. I honestly sometimes wish I could just speak about my issues but I feel that I can’t have any. :/
I feel like that too in a way
Same
I relate to you in every way
Being the smart kid in my class and having a very needy farther ( I usually asks my grades before he asks how was school ) and so failing even one question nearly brings me to tears
Same bro
"where are your glasses?"
"don't you study all the day?"
"i thought you memorized the whole periodic table"
"you would do it anyways"
"you're so lucky"
yes
I also hate when people think your weird for studying. Like, if I want to do well on the test I'm gonna study. That's why I'm the "smart kid".
@@sara_hillarious true,i go well on tests because if i don't i would probably be screamed at my house cuz i dind't got good
Yeah I can confirm
Also “nerd”
finally someone who understands me Intelligent people make mistakes and that's normal, but everyone expects them to be Perfect
REAL
True
I can relate! Whenever you just get a simple answer right, everyone looks at you and they’re basically saying in their heads
“Know it all”
“Teachers pet”
“Smart-ass”
Like? We’re just answering a question, don’t be jealous, boo
I can relate too omg!
People say it out loud in some of my classes
as someone who has a smart kid in our class is it normal for him to like steal every answer and when a student is answering he will like take it? so hes like the only student? and every student hates him and calls him know it all plus hes the president so i think hes the only student in class.
So true😢 and the pressure is on you to always be number 1. And when you have abusive parents who only care about your results, it’s much worse💔
This is honestly so accurate especially “haha I got higher marks than you”
I can relate as the 2nd smartest kid in my class
@@wassimboumezoued68772nd or 3rd is the holy grail in ranking, they dont expect perfection from you
@@yodiponggol674 ok I know
Honestly i was the first in my English class and there was this boy who’s the second and he would just use me for homework answers and would blocked me if I didn’t give it to him and he would say the things that are mentioned in this video I’m trying to take him down tbh
The last one is VERY true, they call me "selfish" and "greedy" and that's just stupid.
Same, my so-called "friend" asked me to give her the test since she couldn't copy the test, i was out of station without my books, so I told her that it is on the board since it actually was ( only till the next day 1st period ), so she called me lazy and arrogant
Man, she actually became Severus Snape that time
Exactly I finish my work early and then people ask me for answers but instead I just show them where to find it or how to do it but then they get mad at me and force me to give them the answers it's annoying and then when I don't they say I'm jealous that they're "smart" enough to ask for answers instead of solving them myself
@HAYHAY_HI yep
I am really sorry Im not very smart and I feel bad for you as I know the kind of people that make those comments 😢
Yeah like get the answers yourself I’m not a tutor
This is genuinely so true😭 im so sorry for anyone else who goes through this...
Usually the smart ppl get called the teachers pet 💀
Nah it's the people who use "approximately" or "etc etc" in the sentence 😂
nah, they get called a nerd
ps. that's me
Finally someone who understand me
(edit 1)I dont wanna be that person but 115 likes wow i never got this much before
@IanSucksAtCZcams everyone wants me to help them and if i say no they are like "dont be so greedy help us" "help us" haven't even started mine
me and my best friend*
Same.
Same, one time a girl told me in an exam "What's the answer?,"
"If you don't tell me I will tell the teacher u punched me!"
🤓
I’m so glad so many people relate with me!Thank you all for letting me know your experiences🥺🥺❤❤
You forgot the best one:
* takes deep breath *
"NEEEEERD!"
thanks finally someone who understands me im the smart kid but people act like i'm their calculater dictionary im sick of it bein' the smart kid if i don't answer the question people asked me THEY STRAIGHT UP CALL ME ''MEANY''' if i don't do the smart kid things and i relax they say im lazy .. imma suicide my cat died r.i.p my mom is sick my dad has no money people make fun of me im tired can someone help me ? give me therapy i hate my gender too i sometimes think why i was born my mom thinks the same i come from a country that people call ''capital of terrorist'' i'm sick of my life i fell in deep depression i sometimes get dizzy because of the stress i do help me get out of depression....
To all the smart kids in school who aren’t mean and are genuinely nice and would help, then I feel you and I hope no one else says this stuff to y’all ❤️
In my entire elementary years I only had 2 friends that only lasted a few months because I realized in late kindergarten that almost everyone will be a fake friend to me because they just want the awnsers. Luckily I made some new friends in my school and yes, they make fun of me at times- but they're pretty nice and will help each other out.
The one where he said, “he didn’t give me the answers” is just plain dramatic and stupid. Just because someone doesn’t give you answers doesnt mean their being mean.
Ikr! I'm very smart(but not on math lol) but in math class the one time I actually got the answer right this girl says "What's for #5?" And I try helping her through it right? Well then after that she starts bullying me because I didn't give her the answer 😃
@@cloudytea. Report it to the teacher.
I wanna know how she feel when she got in trouble trying to use you for answers from test or smth
@ParkourDucklin It wasn't a test. It was just a work sheet.
@@cloudytea. Alr
@@cloudytea. I thought it was a test lol-
THIS IS TRUE. My classmates just wanted to use me for answers and money. I am perfect in the Palad family but I am just having stress. When they ask answers my teacher is making me stand up even though i did nothing. I dont have much time to answer my assignments because of them. Now i have social anixiety, eating disorder and trust issues. I just wish that i was not having a hard time..
I agree because I spend EVERY NIGHT not sleeping and working on my homework. My mom doesn’t even offer to help she just thinks I am just stressed too much and it’s “easy” for me. Sometimes I forget steps and I stress over it because i think everyone’s gonna make fun of me for getting things wrong even though I’m the “smart” student. Being the “smart” kid makes you think you have to be the perfect one who gets all of the answers right or else you’ll get called stupid. This just causes me to stress more and try MY HARDEST just to get one question right.
This is so true
I always have to go through this at school for being the smart person in the class. They always tell me to give them answers and it gets me so stressed out. Mostly in exams and quizzes they always go at me for being mean when I’m trying to do my work. They stay there and do nothing until it comes to the time for important things. I know that there are many people who go through this at school and even on homes. Like people need to understand us pls😕
As ONE of the smart kids, it feels pressuring if you get low grades.. My sister is less smarter than me and she bullies me if i dont get a very high grade.
Yea, I have a cousin and even though he's only better then me in maths
He constantly makes fun of me even though, i'm better at him in other subjects
I can definitely relate. My ex-freinds Forced me to do their ENTIRE english homework or they will unfriend Me. And when they got caught they unfriended me. It caused Me to have TERRIBLE disorders and mental health. Now I'm not the smart kid anymore. nor anyone in my class.
i am kind of one of the “smart kids” in my class, and i’ve been told i should be a reader when i age, and i’ve literally been called “reader” and then there’s also the “what are you reading?” “your favorite day is probably national reading day” and “is that book different?” , it’s really stressful to be targeted for that stuff
I remember when it was the middle of the test and someone asked me a question. The teacher was in the room so I just kinda signaled to them that I couldn’t help them then. Luckily they understood.
Burnt_brownie 😂
As the smart kid, I can confirm this is real. I hate it but nobody wants to feel that 😔
As the topper (girl), I can relate to this. I’m a nerd and people usually ask for help with homework. I of course try to make my way out, it usually works, in rare circumstances. Yes being the topper, nerd, and smart kid doesn’t mean we always get the highest marks.
It’s sad how relatable this is. As a smart kid it’s just so sad and annoying
"I thought you were smart."
"I wasn't always smart. You know that."
That last one and higher marks is too relatable
I felt this on so many levels; everyone thinks we have it easy just because we excel at academics. We make tons of mistakes too and putting up unreachable expectations can really hurt 😞
as a nerd, i can relate to this except for the last one
Finally someone who did this
People think being smart means you have to be good at everything, you can't ever fail and you know everything ever since you're born.
this is very true. im the top 1 owner plus the smartest in class and someones always have to do this to me and its exausthing
Whenever I don't give out answers everyone thinks I'm mean, and when I do give out answers the teacher yells at me. It's really annoying. I also understand the, "I thought you were smart!" one. Even if I have good grades, I'm not perfect. I can get things wrong.
The first two are so relatable bruh.
Teacher love them, parents love them , some kids respect them
My crush responding “I’m really not that smart” Me: *totally not almost crying
I feel like whenever I've gotten a perfect score, everyone just hates ot and whenever i screw up, they start making fun of me. Cant believe how accurate this was.
One, getting a 'higher grade' or finishing faster than the smart one doesn't count as an 'achievement' when you keep scrubbing it on their faces.
Two, saying 'I thought you were smart' or 'why did you get a low score, i thought you were smart' is a very heavy insult that doesn't seem to affect them on the outside, but inside, they're really hurt by what you said and wished they were never even birthed.
Three, if you tell others to ignore a person JUST because they didn't give you the answer doesn't mean they're selfish. It's more the opposite, as you use your fame and popularity among your classmates against one person just because they didn't want to get in trouble because of you.
Lastly, smart people and dumb people struggle almost the same amount. If you're dumb, you get bullied because you 'don't know anything' or you 'don't have a brain'. If you're smart, they'll start expecting so much from you and always have to overwork yourself just BECAUSE you wanted to please them.
In my opinion, be what you want to be. Though other people may seem like they're restricting you to become whatever you want (mostly Asian parents like mine), they don't actually have any right to assume you'll fail in life because of following your dreams. Even if you fail, atleast you're doing something you love. Don't get regrets like 'I should've listened to them' or 'they were right' because they really aren't. Who knows, you migth've became very successful if you just followed your dreams in the past, and you'll regret wasting your whole life just to please others.
This is so, so extremely relatable to me. I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way and experiences this as a “smart kid”.
YESSS i can always relate to this... especially when they say "I BEAT UU" or "OMG I FINALLY GOT A HIGHER MARK THAN U" and they only use you for homework... its sad
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That's so true , i am very good at english , history and maths and people are always lile "can you help me with the exam ?" or "pls what is the answer for this question ?" and way more , but what is more annoyi.g is that people think i am too "kind" (i am a very kind person but get serious sometime) , i remember one time at 6th grate , i was doing my work alone and then some of my friends want my help but i said i'm busy and then went i'm done , i decide to help others and then my friends said : "wow i didn't know you are like this" so i help them as well (actually , they are good friends just they are not good at the camestry)
But anyways , hope everyone have a good day or night 😄❤️
Yeah I’m also a smart kid and the worst part my classmates keep arguing for my answers
"can u answer all of my tests? Don't tell anyone"💀
I relate to this so much! My teacher always makes us play math booklets, and I always win them, and my classmates say that I'm hacking, and it makes me feel like this inside, but I can't do anything about it because I'm at school and I don't wanna get in trouble. Most people want to be the smart kid, but they don't know what it's actually like.
that.. that is literally nothing wdym they dont know what its like?
this is so truee, especially the first twoo😭
as a smart kid, i never had these problems, i never really got bullied, but i understand that other people have problems like this and they are falling into depression sadly, but im just 10, what do i know?
This is so relatable!
Anyone ever calls you a nerd then the ultimate comeback is "by calling me a nerd you just said that I'm smarter than"
I am considered the smart one out of all my siblings, I also am the youngest. I tend to feel really bad because my parents will often talk to each of my sister's and then use me as the perfect example. the only reason that I seem smarter is because one of my sisters had a brain bleed when she was a baby and the other has had 7-8 concussions. I also feel bad because my dad gave me more attention because he wasn't ready to be a dad until I was born.
This is so true
People laugh when they get higher marks and say
“I thought you were smart but your just a dumbo”😢
Fr everytime I do one thing wrong people act like I just committed various war crimes.
Everything school AND house related I do has to be perfect, I can't get a B+ in a single class, that's unacceptable.
I'm expected to memorize and know everything, nobody ever thinks about how hard I ACTUALLY have to work on things to get it right.
As one of the smart kids in my class, the worst thing is when i get the highest of my class i get called a nerd, and if i get less than 85% people say ‘i thought u were smart’
Can you make a tutorial on how to make these edits thx 😊
Okay I’ll try
Can relate bro especially for me because I was not do smart to begin with but the other smart kids in my class rub stuff in😭
This is true😢 I have a rough life
They only want you when you get the best grades, but when you fail, you're no fun
I hate it when in school for example, im always forced to help the lower level people and never practice my own thing so i slowly deterioated and fell behind until my fav teacher so far (a sub) gave me extra homework which was my level and made us work with our own levels for an entire month :)
After a test
Classmate: Did you get this answer?
I: yes, I did
Classmate: OMG OMG I get right
So, we both get the wrong answer
(Sorry for my English, I'm Italian)
When i was at old school, this happens to me allot of times . They tried to copy me as fast as possible to get my answers and always called me “selfish and greedy “ and I absolutely hated it
Fr I’m one of the smart kids in class because out of a class of 30 some have beliefs on who they think are the smartest, and I can relate except for the one that I’m told to help
“It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”- Albert Einstein
As the "smart child" I need to have only good grades and be perfect at all. This caused me a big problem....... Always I get an answer wrong I start cry and panic or when I hear the teacher will give us a test from the lesson I didn't learn I start have panic attacks and cry hard. Another moment is when I got a grade under 9 (I am from romania and our grades is from 1 to 10) I start cry and panic what the parents will say. Always when I have a test, before the test(in the break)I start panic and read the lesson for 5-6 times, sometimes this cause me to forgot what I learnt........ I need to have 10 straight, If I don't learn the teachers will say "You need to be an exemple for your class,why you don't learnt?" Or to be the favorite of your all teachers is hard because you need to do all good at her/his class because if you don't do it you will be a "bad exemple" for the class.....
I have anxiety from this...To be smart is hard....
Broski explained my whole life in this one whole short
This happens but it's different. They just use me for answers and I honestly hate it so much, they're just dumb and it annoys me so much. I work so hard, only for them to come over and take my work. When there's a group project I prefer to try and work alone so nobody copies me, luckily I haven't gotten into trouble for it. It's so depressing because sometimes I only make friends with people *because* of this. It's the worst and I hate it.
So true i feel this everyday😞
Its trueeeeeee thank you for understand my feeling
its so true i literally failed tests because people were bugging me for my answers
Finally one I can relate too 😔
In my class at school I'm the smartest but sometimes it makes me feel like I have fake friends
I relate to this more than I should I still deal with many people laughing at my failure and showing that they are better , more cases include them using me for answers on tests , calling me mr smarty pants , say I show off all the time and beg for me to do their homework
Im from being smart to being bullied and depressed for 1 year in school thats how I turned dumb from thinking about negative things...
I can understand, it happens to me all the time in class and my classmates don't understand when they do it to me
My smart friend always roast me at everything 💀😢
Where I set in my class front beanch nothing know about study back beanch nothing konw about study i am the only who study we exam is there i don't want to learn but they think I m stupid but without study i got half of 25 soooo don't think you stupid you are smarter than anyone thought😊❤
FOR REAL THOO
“Hey you’re only smart bc you wear glasses”
“Omg, you are just trying to make the rest of us feel bad”
“Sorry, nerds can’t be cool”
The third one really just said: "DW I got your back bro."
I'm a smart quiet kid but still considered a lifeless gamer...
As the smart kid in class every day everyone would
asking me the answers everyday but I say hell NAW 😡
This is def 99.9% countryballs with bodies
I'm partly smart but not so much so some of this doesn't happen to me. It only happens to me when it is mapping or flags.
I am the "smart kid", its difficult cuz everybody think that the only thing that i can do its be smart and they underestimate other things like athletic, 🖤 a! And everybody NEED that i have to be perfect, they don't know that I have other problems like, i have epilepsy and the O.C.D. and and traumas that are always tormenting me but they never care about anything, it is really very cruel
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As a smart kid myself, they always mocking me for being smarter than them! Its strange when I didn't get a high score mark, they didnt mocking me, they only mocking when I get high score..
I can relate to this is very true and I hate that one boy when I'm with him on group project he expect that I will do all our work and he will do nothing I really hate that
As the smart kid, i hate it when they say "I thought you were smart" when i get something wrong! Why cant they understand im human, and im not a robot that can get everything right. And here is a quote i made; "Never tell a smart person that they know everything."
I swear if they say "I thought you were smart😂🤣" I'd literally say GURL I AIN'T ALBERT EINSTEIN YOU LITTLE B-
Whenever the teacher puts me in a group with other students because I'm known as Smart they expect me to do all the work and I'm sick of it. I don't have an escape. I don't have parents, my mom died giving birth to me and my dad didn't know how to deal with it all so he k!Iled himself, I had an older brother but he had cancer before I was born and he died from it the day before my birthday. I was only 2 at that time I knew how to walk well and talk well so I could communicate well. Then someone found me and I was put in an orphanage and the staff didn't like me I only had one friend and she got adopted by a couple. I was heartbroken 💔 she gave me friendship a necklace and one of my bullies broke it and every lunch I always cry in the bathroom while everyone is happy with friends going home to their parents. I cried myself to sleep ever since I got in that orphan and my uncle was an alcoholic and died from a heart attack because his wife and kids died somehow everyone in my life that's I love are gone I just wonder why I exist. But I am glad I have somewhere to sleep. So anyone who has things I don't please enjoy while it lasts because I never could.
This happens to me almost everyday at school, just bc I’m the smartest in my class, they say “I got a higher mark than you” or “how did you get this question wrong?! I thought you were smart, guess ur not really now”, I get really annoyed by them…🙁
I have a very different experience
People always expect me to know the answer to everything. Especially in math. Being raised with a teacher for a mom, I refuse to give out answers like that, especially when I'm not supposed to.
Also, I'm slow but accurate with math, so when people ask me for an answer it just stresses me out because usually I'm not there yet.
As the ‘Smart Kid’, I was always being walked all over and taken for granted so I wanted to see what would happen if I ignored anyone who asked me the answers, then I was ‘The least liked/smartest kid’.
I'm the smart kid and I almost cried how accurate this is
Sometimes i think my friends are just using me bc i’m smart, like i’m happy i’m smart but the only time they talk to me is when they need help with work :(.
*HORRIBLY* RELATABLE.
This is relatable for me is that if we ever got homework to do in school my friends would just ask me for the answers and after we done the homework there just gonna ignore like i was suppose to help them
this is so true people only come to me when they need information
This is so true. In my class I’m considered as the smart one. People stare at me and laugh if I get one thing wrong. But when someone else gets something wrong people don’t care? Also I’m expected to get 100% on all my tests too? It’s so annoying. And people always say, “you probably got 100 on the quiz, your the smart kid!” And I hate it so much. At this point I think most of the people that want to be my “friend” are only using me for answers. I had a friend who always asked me for answers, even when I wasn’t supposed to. So obviously, I didn’t tell them the answer. Then at lunch they told mostly everyone, “you should sit with her she was so rude because she didn’t help me” like seriously????
edit: the first thing in the video happened to me today. People were like “you only got a 90%?” “LOL” “GUYS I GOT HIGHER GRADES THEN ________!”
But I guess it’s alright. Because somebody said, compare your overall grade to hers. Trust me, theirs a difference. (mine is 99.13/100)
I feel the same. When someone got highter Mark than me he even tell the TEACHER the TEACHER about he got better than me
NOBODYS perfect. Even the smartest person in the world makes mistakes. The only reason why the smart kids are known as smart because they had to fail,they HAD to make mistakes before getting good scores. And getting one bad score doesn’t mean they are lacking bc I feel so bad for ppl at my school especially the “smart kids”
This is literally me sometimes people forget that the smart kids are normal humans too that enjoy doing the same things as them 😞😒
As a stupid person
I see this as a absolute win