What Candy Did For Her Son Quentin To Graduate | Mother's Love | Toni Talks

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  • Thank you Ate Candy for sharing your journey. So much respect and love to all mothers!

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  • @earljohnremo8614
    @earljohnremo8614 Před 3 lety +8749

    Toni is just so smart in selecting her guests.

    • @marvinracca9693
      @marvinracca9693 Před 3 lety +541

      indeed, she doesn't need to guest superstars to gain views she just selects whom she thinks can impart something inspirational to her audience 💗

    • @mamanhengsdiary2308
      @mamanhengsdiary2308 Před 3 lety +158

      Totoo lahat may mapupulot na aral

    • @marimarperez8079
      @marimarperez8079 Před 3 lety +202

      True, at ginaya pa siya ni enchong dee. Ang difference lang, mga sikat iniinvite ni enchong. For the views. Pero toni doesnt need superstars.

    • @siredwardvelasco571
      @siredwardvelasco571 Před 3 lety +89

      Grabe umiiyak ako habang tumatawa. 😅🥺😭

    • @johnnordapz1641
      @johnnordapz1641 Před 3 lety +67

      Bakit ano bahh problema sa bata kung nag wala sa graduation ehh alam na man nila may dperensya ang bata !!! Sana naman kung anong school yun dapat intindihin nila ang bata !!! Lahat ginagawa sa magulang upang makita nila ang anak nila masaya kung sino ka man na principal kahhh nag karuon ka sana na anak na may deperinsya para malaman mo kung ano pakiramdam ni mam candy !!! Mabuhay ka mam candy

  • @jdrn7869
    @jdrn7869 Před 3 lety +7099

    Her story is so devastating that she needed it to masked it through humor. Only a strong woman can endure what she experienced in life. Salute to you Ms. Candy.

    • @user-et4cj5qt8t
      @user-et4cj5qt8t Před 3 lety +82

      Grabe candy pangilinan is truly a brave and strong woman nakaka believe despite her struggle in her son they can divert it in to humor what a blessing and gift she have a character like that

    • @uhtredofbebbanburg9568
      @uhtredofbebbanburg9568 Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/mCRTOSEqQhw/video.html

    • @grsolis10
      @grsolis10 Před 3 lety +3

      Agree!!!

    • @jennalyndomingo9419
      @jennalyndomingo9419 Před 3 lety +46

      @@user-et4cj5qt8t tama po. Ang hirap na nga alagaan ng bata na normal. Paano kung special child pa 🥺 ramdam na ramdam ko siya. Kasi tatlong anak ko ADHD 🥰

    • @simplyedsnadine
      @simplyedsnadine Před 3 lety

      Agree

  • @piel634
    @piel634 Před 27 dny +9

    This deserves to be played again on mother's day!

  • @Chrissy0823
    @Chrissy0823 Před 7 měsíci +67

    As a single mom with an autistic child, grabe yong luha ko dito ngayon.
    Saktong sakto sa kalagayan ko before na dumating din sa point na binigyan ko sya ng anak kasi nga baka magbago pa. Even I know na ikatlong panganay nya na anak ko. Almost 5 years of being together, wala pa rin pala.
    Sumakto rin yong video na to ngayon sa situation ko. Nakakapanghina kasi wala ng maasahan sa ama nyang manloloko, bigla pang kinut kakarampot nyang sustento (1k every month) kung kelan nag-aaral na anak ko. Grabe lang, kaya salute Ms. Candy.
    Btw, I was in denial before because of his case kasi di mo alam bat nagkaganun anak mo samantalang ingat na ingat naman ako during my pregnancy. Dumating yong time na halos araw-araw I questioned Him kung bat ako at anak ko pa. Pero mali ako kasi alam ko na may rason.
    Way na rin yon ni God na magfocus na lang ako sa anak ko siguro.
    Totoong hindi madali, sobrang hirap.
    Sa gastos sa therapy, daily needs, sa pag-aalaga.
    Kaya acceptance is the first key to find talaga lalo sa mga parents na may special kids.
    Isipin nyo na lang na kaya binigay satin to kasi alam ni God na buo natin silang mamamahalin at tatanggapin.❤
    Dati gusto ko na rin mag-suicide sa dami ng prblema, pero biglang nabago ng anak ko kaya takot na ako mamatay ngayon eh. Gusto ko pa kasi na kasama nya ako habang lumalaki at tumatanda sya. Gusto ko ako ang magtatanggol sa kanya sa lahat. Basta takot na ako kasi hindi ko alam kung ano mangyayari sa kanya kapag mawala ako. 😢
    Matuto tayong makuntento at magpasalamat sa binigay satin ni God kahit hindi yon ang inaasahan natin kasi tayo dapat ang unang makakatanggap sa kanila.
    At hanggang walang ambag ang ibang tao sa buhay natin, wag tayong magpaapekto. Magfocus tayo sa mga anak natin kung pano sila mapapalaking mabuting tao. ❤
    Magdasal, magpasalamat sa lahat ng blessings lalo na sa lahat ng nagmamahal at gumagabay sa little one natin.
    Stay strong mga ka-parents!
    Thank you Ms.Candy & Toni G. ❤

    • @imabeachandsoyouare2794
      @imabeachandsoyouare2794 Před dnem

      I think sometimes emotional stress din ng mom while preggy is isa sa cause ng adhd/autism.

  • @sinagaiko1005
    @sinagaiko1005 Před 3 lety +1501

    This is how you properly use your social
    platform. No pranks nor drama tactics just pure wisdom. Kudos to Ms. Toni

    • @lhoydzmay
      @lhoydzmay Před 3 lety +8

      ... and this one should be supported and shared...

    • @crizel5477
      @crizel5477 Před 2 lety +3

      Napanood ko na to Ng ilang beses na pero naiiyak pa din ako

  • @ricacasabuena4584
    @ricacasabuena4584 Před 3 lety +7385

    Sinong umiiyak at the same time tumatawa ? 😊 Candy is one of the bravest and selfless mom 💖

  • @johnlenardgarcia8376
    @johnlenardgarcia8376 Před měsícem +7

    2024 and yet still the best episode ever.😌

  • @honeybunny5970
    @honeybunny5970 Před 2 lety +31

    Naging customer ko yan sa shoes si Ms.candy and yung anak nya,super bait nya at super strong nya ,todo paliwanag pa siya sakin kung anong condition ng anak nya.🙏✨kaya humanga ako sakanya.

  • @edacustodio5506
    @edacustodio5506 Před 3 lety +254

    "You can't change the child but you can change how you Look at the child."

  • @bonarrendemeterio6173
    @bonarrendemeterio6173 Před 3 lety +371

    Quintin's plaza graduation is and will always be one of the many unique examples of how a mother can beat the system through her love and compassion to her child.

  • @carollacida2573
    @carollacida2573 Před rokem +45

    Naiyak ako sa sinabi nya na "Lord be a father to my son!" Kasi yan din ang hiningi ko kay Lord.🙏🙏🙏

  • @ma.katrinmaac4377
    @ma.katrinmaac4377 Před rokem +44

    I have watched this video so many times, and my heart goes to all the mothers who always put their child first. Now that my daughter is diagnosed with AUTISM, I accepted it whole heartedly together with my never ending faith that everything will be ok. ❣️

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio Před 3 lety +17040

    Namiss ko si Candy. At naiyak ako sa journey nya. 😭

  • @missjesseduph
    @missjesseduph Před 3 lety +488

    Kung hindi naging artista si Miss Tony, I think she's perfect as Psychologist. Kasi as an advocate of mental health, I can see that she has the skill to guide.

  • @AidaEugenio-tl8yv
    @AidaEugenio-tl8yv Před měsícem +3

    Naiyak ako.khit nagkocomedy sya.proud MAMA..I love u Po Mam Candy.

  • @user-td5rg5vq3h
    @user-td5rg5vq3h Před 6 hodinami

    I'm here kasi Naka Graduate na ng Senior High si Quentin ❤❤ so proud of you .. ❤❤ Mommy kends ❤❤

  • @charleskimpz4458
    @charleskimpz4458 Před 3 lety +268

    10:49 - "Help"
    10:55 - "Lord, Be a Father"
    a simple prayer but it hit me so hard.. 😢😢😢

  • @angelogascon
    @angelogascon Před 3 lety +4923

    This conversation deserves part 2.

  • @myfrcldy
    @myfrcldy Před měsícem +1

    Rewatching this again this May 2024.. Happy mother's day ate kends ♥ God Bless you and Quentin

  • @trials_17vlog
    @trials_17vlog Před 2 lety +18

    Not yet a mom, but it burst me into tears 😭. What a selfless love of a mother.
    Very strong mother Candy!

  • @maricelvillanueva9113
    @maricelvillanueva9113 Před 3 lety +551

    I am also an autism mom and I cant hold back my tears while watching this. Candy represents the voice of all the mothers (like me) in the world who's raising a child with special need. Being with this journey is not easy. We need love and acceptance, not judgement.

    • @mikelizardo
      @mikelizardo Před 3 lety +2

      God bless you Mam! Saludo po kami sa inyo.🙏

    • @eeelle__
      @eeelle__ Před 3 lety +5

      Same, hindi pa nagsisimula pero naiiyak na ako kasi alam ko hirap ng ganun lalo na kung walang wala ka tapos need mo pa ipatherapy anak mo :(

    • @bananamangochoco2065
      @bananamangochoco2065 Před 3 lety +2

      For me, ang factor is most likely the stress Candy underwent while she was pregnant. Stress affects the health of the unborn child...Even if docs say the cause is unknown, merin at meron yan. Pilite lang ang docs so wont cause mire depression sa mom, baka magsuicide or any self-harm kapag malaman na dahil ito sa pinagdaanan nya.

    • @giftmaestre5674
      @giftmaestre5674 Před 3 lety

      Being a single mom is the hardest part what more if you have a child with special needs? We salute you Mom and Happy Mothers Day!

    • @victoriaentena2664
      @victoriaentena2664 Před 3 lety

      Me, too. I am an autism mom and my child with especial needs is now 24 yrs old. My son was deprived of oxygen when i was still carrying him inside my tummy. When i gave birth to him, nakapulupot ang ombelical chord around his neck. Kaya pala humihinto ang hearbeat nya during my labor. At age 4 he was diagnosed of autism. My son has low functioning autism and he did not go to college.

  • @belleame572
    @belleame572 Před 3 lety +341

    Shame on those schools who discriminated Quintin and Candy. Very inhumane and inconsiderate!!!! Im crying. You are a brave soul, Miss Candy❤️🥺

  • @heraiichigo
    @heraiichigo Před rokem +18

    I appreciate and salute sa Yaya.

  • @purpleapple6
    @purpleapple6 Před rokem +74

    Napakaganda ng attitude ni Candy sa buhay despite the difficult challenges. Kudos to you Candy and Quentin.

  • @realtalkssss
    @realtalkssss Před 3 lety +530

    This is the youtuber that deserves a diamond plaque.

  • @peterpan2575
    @peterpan2575 Před 3 lety +639

    Toni's Vlog is one of the best things happened on CZcams right?
    It's like attending a free seminar, joining a retreat and listening to random people's stories.

    • @purplepinktrends929
      @purplepinktrends929 Před 3 lety

      True

    • @muncherry148
      @muncherry148 Před 3 lety

      💛

    • @egyptandjayannearanda8480
      @egyptandjayannearanda8480 Před 3 lety

      Agree

    • @maureenbondoc6991
      @maureenbondoc6991 Před 3 lety

      ABSOLUTELY RIGHT... RIGHT... RIGHT.... 💯

    • @ariaelle499
      @ariaelle499 Před 3 lety +2

      True! Hindi sayang yong time ko pag nakikinig at nanonod ng vlogs ni miss Tony., And somehow 2 times na nangyari na yung story ng mga taong iniinterview niya ang holy spirit yung naglilead..kasi may nakilala ako sa church namin na autistic dati tapos after watching Talks with Tony parang.."wow lang" di ko ma describe..basta ganun hahaha

  • @aldeaad8355
    @aldeaad8355 Před 2 lety +44

    I love the part where Ms. Candy relays a strong lesson, "Everything happens for a reason" ❤

  • @doryespiritu3571
    @doryespiritu3571 Před 23 hodinami

    Malaking factor sa pagbangon kapag lugmok ka eh may mga taong mabubuti na nakakapagbigay ng tamang advise at nakikinig sa mga problema mo at higit sa lahat yung ma rialized mo na God loves you,blessing pala ang mga pagsubok

  • @christianpauldelrosario886
    @christianpauldelrosario886 Před 3 lety +228

    This is proof that a real comedian can make you laugh and cry all at the same time. My salute to you Ms. Candy for being such an amazing mother. Happy Mother's Day to all our Nanays out there!

  • @desiejacildo1743
    @desiejacildo1743 Před 3 lety +419

    Ms. Candy's story deserve a MMK episode.... 😍😍🥺

  • @ferlynurgelles5710
    @ferlynurgelles5710 Před rokem +19

    Ilang beses ko na 'to pinapanuod , lagi pa din ako naiyak 😭 Mapapa isip ka nalang na blessed ka pa rin talaga despite ng pinagdadaanan mo. 😭 I love you Mamii Kends and Quentin 💖💖💖

  • @katrinamoya9980
    @katrinamoya9980 Před rokem +6

    Miss Candy, no words to define your strength and you deserve every love and respect. Your reward is with our God.

  • @jenerbiedonggo6184
    @jenerbiedonggo6184 Před 3 lety +325

    "Love is really blind but neighbors can see." - Candy Pangilinan (2021)

  • @cordovaariel7222
    @cordovaariel7222 Před 3 lety +476

    I hope I'm not the only teenager who's watching this, let's be thankful to all the sacrfices of our Mother, Thank you for this Mrs. Toni G❣

  • @leslieortega6059
    @leslieortega6059 Před rokem +8

    Nakakadismaya yuNg approached ng Principal sa pag pullout sa bata just because ayaw magwala. They will be the firSt person who will be proud of Quintin. Nakakalungkot but Ms. CAndy nakakaproud ka po as a mother. Sobrang nakakainspired ka. Godbless po.

    • @cormariefaustino5055
      @cormariefaustino5055 Před 4 měsíci

      That’s true! Sana napanood ng school ang interview na ito. They should be ashamed of themselves sila ang may tunay na sakit, sakit sa pag iisip. Ano kayang magandang moral values ang tinuturo ng school na ito?!

  • @ca_mi_lo_1381
    @ca_mi_lo_1381 Před 2 lety +9

    Toni talks is a therapy session for me

  • @kyukiee9191
    @kyukiee9191 Před 3 lety +415

    "He's my ticket to heaven." This explains everything, Godbless you more.

    • @5-MinuteMath
      @5-MinuteMath Před 3 lety +3

      The comment did not caught me here. It was the evil maknae's happy smile. 💕

    • @eleoford7317
      @eleoford7317 Před 3 lety +2

      true..he is..

  • @jammiladvincula3634
    @jammiladvincula3634 Před 3 lety +879

    "Do not Compete, Do not Conform, Do not Compare, so your life will be satisfied and Content". - Candy Pangilinan.
    Respect to all mothers out there! ❣️😭

    • @leticiachiok8057
      @leticiachiok8057 Před 3 lety +8

      I salute you, Candy. You are a great mother! Never forget that you are doing alright. In God's grace, you and Quentin are blessed.

    • @abcdefffue
      @abcdefffue Před 3 lety +1

      ur mom!

    • @oinks3782
      @oinks3782 Před 3 lety +3

      Love Candy!!!! so funny and so awesome person!

    • @acemarcc.villaver9263
      @acemarcc.villaver9263 Před 3 lety +1

      YES!!!!!!!

    • @bhingtabs9212
      @bhingtabs9212 Před 3 lety +2

      Naiyak ako..your a grate mother candy. Salute you..God bless u and Q

  • @dithjunomica2117
    @dithjunomica2117 Před 2 lety +12

    As a single mom also, sobrang sakit sa dibdib listening candy's story, sobrang nakakaproud 😢

  • @crep5054
    @crep5054 Před 9 dny

    I watched this many times and still get emotional as every time. I really applaud Candy for being a great mother this one of the best episode. Thanks Toni.

  • @joeyrazon8095
    @joeyrazon8095 Před 3 lety +1452

    In a world full of prank, house tour, car tour, room tour, drink and spill, jojowain or totropahin, toxic relationships, fake relationships kind of content - - - there is tonitalks - - - full of wisdom and hope and sincerity and touches your heart in a totally different way. 💛

    • @pauljohn961
      @pauljohn961 Před 3 lety +6

      True

    • @josephcarlubo2230
      @josephcarlubo2230 Před 3 lety +7

      💯

    • @Annette4th
      @Annette4th Před 3 lety +3

      Super agree to this

    • @simplicioescuetajr8521
      @simplicioescuetajr8521 Před 3 lety

      o jojcoh oiiuh iih u iuu hhjcuiu o ugoi i u jij iuii8+++63@@josephcarlubo2230 ohhh hohhh

    • @simplicioescuetajr8521
      @simplicioescuetajr8521 Před 3 lety

      @@josephcarlubo2230 u o i73737- uo hiuo u uoiu oiuh j hh hoj iojiouihhhu u ou hiu o ou u uhuiu uj u,u uu uh hj iuh ohj hjohhioj,hh u hih u,,u uhuuhhhhoh ou+33337 +93 7

  • @mikaelaangelaa
    @mikaelaangelaa Před 3 lety +428

    “Do not compete. Do not conform. Do not compare. So your life will be satisfied and content.”

  • @alitaptap7584
    @alitaptap7584 Před 2 lety +5

    I am crying right now yung pakiramdam mo yung anak mo na lang yung umintindi at nag adjust para sa iba.

  • @jonabaldo8657
    @jonabaldo8657 Před 2 lety +8

    Ito yong video na habang umiiyak ka, tumatawa ka. Hindi pelikula, totoong buhay talaga. I love you Candy, sending hugs and prayers♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏

  • @1205weng
    @1205weng Před 3 lety +277

    When candy said,
    "God be father to me and to quentin."
    I felt that! 💛😭

    • @milijamameta4128
      @milijamameta4128 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeeeeees😭

    • @1205weng
      @1205weng Před 3 lety

      @@milijamameta4128 Mabuti nandyan si God ano.. to be a Father to the fatherless.
      He executes justice for the fatherless and the widow, and loves the sojourner, giving him food and clothing.
      Deuteronomy 10:18 ESV
      DRAW NEAR TO GOD AND HE WILL DRAW NEAR TO YOU. 💚

    • @1205weng
      @1205weng Před 3 lety

      @@milijamameta4128 hugss! Our Father cares. 💙

  • @kathcayanan2917
    @kathcayanan2917 Před 3 lety +253

    Do not compete.
    Do not conform.
    Do not compare.
    "So your life will be complete and content"
    -i will never forget this, i'll keep this forever.🥺❤️

    • @arrianebrown849
      @arrianebrown849 Před 3 lety +3

      Tumayo balahibo q nito...yes tama ka Maam same tayo tatandaan q dn to..ito un best na sinabi n Candy na dapat matutunan q dn...

    • @seffymirasol378
      @seffymirasol378 Před 3 lety +1

      Simple yet very powerful words of affirmation! Tayo lang naman talaga ang nagpapacomplicate ng buhay natin sa mundo hence Life is very simple to deal to begin with. ;)

  • @mariceljavier2061
    @mariceljavier2061 Před rokem +20

    Grabe naiiyak ako at natatawa kasi sobrang saludo ako sau miss Candy,lumalabas parin pagiging comedian mo,God bless you always with your loving son ❤

  • @dimagibamd
    @dimagibamd Před 2 lety +7

    When i want to lakas ng loob ko and im feeling down and lonely, i always go back to this interview.. very uplifting

  • @chelvillamor2511
    @chelvillamor2511 Před 3 lety +288

    My daughter also has autism. Difficult, but she has taught me so many precious things in life. Having her is humbling. Having her makes me realize that it's the little things that count. God gave her to me because she can make me into someone better. She may be different, but not less, never.
    Thank you Ms Candy. I have been a follower since then. To all moms of children with autism and other special needs, hang in there, you are not alone. Hugs. Happy mother's day.

    • @elnorabartolo587
      @elnorabartolo587 Před 3 lety +4

      Nakakabilib ang mother na may anak na autism at mahaba ang pacensya at need ang atensyon sa anak.

  • @vrukvsama
    @vrukvsama Před 3 lety +468

    Can we all just agree that Toni G has the best content here in yt?

  • @nadinecabrito5619
    @nadinecabrito5619 Před rokem +5

    Walang tigil mata ko sa pagluha while watching this.saludo ako sayo Miss Candy!

  • @xXx-cm3co
    @xXx-cm3co Před rokem +6

    Kaya naman wala tayong karapatang magreklamo sa buhay!!!! Laban lang lagi..

  • @SephSepTV
    @SephSepTV Před 3 lety +212

    "Totoo nga yung Love is really blind and your neighbors can see."
    -Candy Pangilinan 2021

  • @jelaicaadona7355
    @jelaicaadona7355 Před 3 lety +349

    Do not compete,
    Do not conform,
    Do not compare,
    So your life will be satisfied and content.
    -Candy Pangilinan

    • @lah_bang2179
      @lah_bang2179 Před 3 lety +1

      Mabuti talaga pag may problema tayo sa mga leaders of faith tayo lalapit kasi wise ang kanilang payo. Tignan mo yang naipayo ng spiritual teacher niya sa kanya, nasabi rin sa atin, napapa-ahhhh oo nga tayo.

  • @jprescillamirror2500
    @jprescillamirror2500 Před rokem +5

    “Dignity is a gift.”

  • @liza26100
    @liza26100 Před rokem +8

    Isa ito sa mga favorite interviews ko ni toni g. Khit ulit ulitin ko, d ako nagsasawa.

  • @janele1647
    @janele1647 Před 3 lety +359

    This type of vlogs is what we need. This is what we called influencers. A person who delivers content that we can use as an inspiration and lessons.

  • @user-xf7gh7sg9v
    @user-xf7gh7sg9v Před 3 lety +592

    Ladies I hope we realize through Candy’s marriage experience that long term relationship, marriage, and bearing a child were not the assurance that your man would stay. Dignity is a Gift. ❤️

    • @joycefrilles
      @joycefrilles Před 2 lety +8

      Honestly, then don't get married if you can't stay committed and loyal to your partner and kids. When my dad abandoned me and cheated, I didn't want to spend on engagement rings, weddings, home, and having kids. They are expensive and if I am not gonna raise a kid on a complete home then why should I bother. So I'll only consider marriage if the person really wants a life with me and grow old with me.

    • @iamdee2615
      @iamdee2615 Před 2 lety

      @@joycefrilles True don’t get married because society dictates, because you’re fear of being alone.

    • @joycefrilles
      @joycefrilles Před 2 lety

      @@iamdee2615 Cause I dated a few before. If I entered a relationship, because you're my boyfriend I don't want to, but if I consider you as a partner, I will, even if it doesn't work out, but if it does, great. 22 years later, I met my partner, even through the criticial stages we been through, I'm depth and straight. I told him, "Do not buy me a ring, wedding, and raise a family with me, if you;re going to leave me anyways, if you won't do it, then do it. I can give my time with work, this relationship, our kids and our own individual time. If I'm not satisfying you, please do tell me." I have not been loved, cared for, and been left. I'm not going to have that same life all over again.

  • @graceguiang3572
    @graceguiang3572 Před rokem +8

    Twice ko n npanood pero ang epekto parehas pa dn!grabeh,isa kng alamt Miss Candy!

  • @analyncarinea846
    @analyncarinea846 Před rokem +5

    Oh Ate Candy you make me cry 😭😭😭 you're such a brave and good mother . Kahit Anong hirap ng situation mo kinakaya mo . Isa Kang ulirang Ina na dapat tularan .. I salute you ate candy .. and thank you miss Toni for interviewing ate candy 😊 she gives us so much inspiration..

  • @hellophilippines8338
    @hellophilippines8338 Před 3 lety +412

    Part 2 please. Like nyo 'to for part 2. Ang sarap panoorin ni candy and toni together

  • @stormserge
    @stormserge Před 3 lety +230

    "Do not compete. Do not conform. Do not compare. So your life will be complete and content."...will remember this forever.

  • @farabellesworldyohannah4703
    @farabellesworldyohannah4703 Před měsícem +1

    Grabe naman itong living testimony nato ni Candy. Blessed you both withn Quentin

  • @debyyang2935
    @debyyang2935 Před rokem +3

    I don’t know how many times I watched this and still watching. Purely good and best ever real life story. I salute you Candy. God bless you.

  • @squaddyrj5795
    @squaddyrj5795 Před 3 lety +210

    “Lord help me. Lord be his father, and to me” - 🥺😢😭😭😭

  • @iyadabu1663
    @iyadabu1663 Před 3 lety +309

    I agree with Miss Candy. Nanay lang ang capable mag multi-task. I will never forget the time when my husband said out of the blue, “I don’t know how you do it (working full-time, taking care of the household, a mom of 4 kids ranging from a toddler to teen agers, and a wife) because I can never do what you do”. That was the sweetest and most appreciative thing he have told me in our whole 20 yrs turning 21 yrs of marriage.

    • @frvryhang
      @frvryhang Před 3 lety +3

      awww ❤️ I hope all husbands appreciates their wife ❤️❤️❤️

    • @SuperAisha28
      @SuperAisha28 Před 3 lety

      A simple appreciation that every mother needs... keep it up po. Stay strong.

  • @leonardovallejos2528
    @leonardovallejos2528 Před 2 lety +6

    Still my fave episode ever since this show started.😭❤️

  • @hazelnutnuts652
    @hazelnutnuts652 Před 2 lety +8

    I'm not a mother yet but i feel the sincerity every time she drop the story of his son. Btw be strong and be happy always Ms. Candy with your son 😊❤️

  • @10partyparty
    @10partyparty Před 3 lety +250

    "Do not compete. Do not conform. Do not compare. So your life will be satisfied and content."
    wisdom for this episode

    • @emilmenglou4653
      @emilmenglou4653 Před 3 lety

      Yes!

    • @gracemacabuhay2058
      @gracemacabuhay2058 Před 3 lety

      Nka2iyak at nka2tawa hehe....

    • @joancapili1784
      @joancapili1784 Před 3 lety

      Kudos to you mommy candy and as well as toni! It's worth watching👌🏻 "Do not compare, conform and compare so your life will be satisfied and content"

  • @AdvisorTine
    @AdvisorTine Před 3 lety +176

    “Kapag napagod ka pala and inoffer mo na lahat kay Lord, everything unfolds and becomes a miracle.” - Candy Pangilinan

  • @mariateresamabunga6453
    @mariateresamabunga6453 Před 2 lety +50

    i cried and at the same time laughed in this interview . yung tumutulo luha mo tapos bigla kang matatawa . sobrang inspiring nitong interview na to ni miss candy . i admire you soooo much miss candy .

    • @manilynesperanza966
      @manilynesperanza966 Před rokem

      Grabe pinagdaanan nya nakakaiyak na nakakatawa pero sobrang strong nya as a single mom, very tough, saludo po ako sainyo Mom Candy

    • @lovenats9659
      @lovenats9659 Před rokem

      Same here😂😢 thumb up to Ms candy 👍🏻 admirable for being a strong woman.

  • @ivylozano4159
    @ivylozano4159 Před rokem +5

    Naiyak Ako sa part Ng graduation ni Quentin ramdam ko Yung sakit po, Me as a mother of two children mas Lalo Ako na inspired to raise my children to the best I can, Thank You Ms.Candy for sharing your Wonderful story with your son.. I wish and I hope for the best to the both of you. Thanks also Toni Talks your channel is so makabuluhan and inspiring 💕 sending love.💕💖🥰
    Ivy

  • @astridkystbabasa2104
    @astridkystbabasa2104 Před 3 lety +309

    "Dignity is a gift."
    "God is giving us many signs not to, but we still continue because that is what we want. "
    "Lord, be a father to me and a father to Quintin. "

  • @ladyapril9096
    @ladyapril9096 Před 3 lety +78

    “LOVE is blind but your neighbors can see it” -this hits me 🤫

  • @its_meminimonikyun9091
    @its_meminimonikyun9091 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am not a mother im only 22 now , but i understand what candy's going through. She is definitely a tough mom. she deserves all the blessing. I really love how she overcome those people who dont understand her nor quentin's going through. I salute you miss candy for being a Good , Talented , and creative mom for quentin. I pray you both live for a long long time. ♥️

  • @jennyrosemendoza4391
    @jennyrosemendoza4391 Před rokem +8

    She’s such a strong woman. I can’t imagine kung pano nya na take lahat ng struggles and made it as a motivation to be a good person 🥺❤️
    So proud of you momma Candy❤️

  • @l.e.a.6637
    @l.e.a.6637 Před 3 lety +137

    My tears dropped when she was talking about the solo graduation she prepared for Quentin👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @marjovalevalerokneitz
    @marjovalevalerokneitz Před 3 lety +321

    why the hell are there people disliking this .This is one of the most beautiful stories ever covered. A single mom raising a special child.With God obviously looking after them.

    • @MelChan30
      @MelChan30 Před 3 lety +10

      Baka ung taga school that she mentioned😂

    • @madisson328
      @madisson328 Před 3 lety +2

      Because we cannot pleased everybody. Its their choice not to like it and we cannot force them to like it. Its the way it is

    • @jaysamejia
      @jaysamejia Před 3 lety +2

      Baka si principal char 😅 or baka yung mga mahilig mangbully.

    • @dreamer2311
      @dreamer2311 Před 3 lety +1

      Baka po Hnd nila kilala si God and they can't feel the story ..maybe they are perfect lol

    • @mr.chupacabra2068
      @mr.chupacabra2068 Před 3 lety

      BAKA YUNG MGA ASAWA NA NAG GOLF LNG PERO DI NA BUMALIK

  • @marygracebelvez2426
    @marygracebelvez2426 Před 2 lety +8

    Ilang beses ko na tong pinanood pero,every time na pinapanood ko toh naiiyak pa din ako. Maybe because I can relate 100%, as a mom with an autism child is really a blessing. God bless us all AUSOME PARENTS 💗

  • @lilocool4091
    @lilocool4091 Před rokem +5

    Nakapainteresting part saakin ung paano mo nababalance ung pagiging nanay mo at ang pagtratrabaho mo, Candy. Tas Hindi niya alam Kung paano Niya nababalance. Ako kasi d Oras ang mga daily routines. Hindi ko alam na ganyan magisip mga nanay ha na walang sched mga gawin nila yet nagagawa nila lahat para sa atin, lutuan Tau ng makakain ntin, malabhan mga dmit ntin, ihele Tau gang makatulog. Medyo nagulantang ako na masyadong occupied ang mga magulang natin especially mga nanay pero nakakaya nilang balansihin lahat. Saludo Po ako sainyo ng SOBRA. To my nanay, salamt Po sa lahat. I love you Po ng SOBRA.

  • @btsislife5187
    @btsislife5187 Před 3 lety +241

    Mrs. Candy is so strong, even at her worst she’s still positive. Her story is very inspirational, not all people have that kind of positivity.

  • @alethiaT
    @alethiaT Před 3 lety +263

    Do not compete. Do not conform. Do not compare. Your life will be complete and content.

    • @sweettheresecakesandpastri9885
      @sweettheresecakesandpastri9885 Před 3 lety

      I will remember this...

    • @everlymagsipoccastillo
      @everlymagsipoccastillo Před 3 lety +1

      Ang dami kong luha habang pinapanood eto..
      Maswerte pa tayo kung ang anak natin ay makulit at malikot lamang.."Do not compete, Do not conform, Do not compare..Your life will be complete and content"
      I salute you Ms.Candy..grabe ang pinagdaanan mo but despite of that hindi ka naging makasarili at lalung hindi ka sumuko..
      Napakabuti ng Diyos dahil may ginagawa syang paraan para maging matibay ang lahat ng nanay..Walang katulad ang pagiging isang ina.. Advance Happy Mothers Day to all Moms...Good Job Ms.Toni ang huhusay ng mga pinipili mong guest..Nakakainspired at may lesson na makukuha..Ganyang mga vlog ang dapat pinapanood..👌
      More Power Ms.Toni 😘
      #GodisGoodAlltheTime🙏

  • @rachellemadrigal4386
    @rachellemadrigal4386 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ms. Candy, your resilience and determination as a single mom are truly inspiring. Your ability to manage everything while raising Quentin is commendable. Your strength serves as a beacon of inspiration to others in similar situations, including myself. Thank you for showing us the power of perseverance and the beauty of dedication in being a remarkable single mother.

  • @Proserpina858
    @Proserpina858 Před 7 měsíci +4

    mahigpit na yakap Candy and Quentin. keep the faith. from your journey, you are inspiring many❤

  • @josemanuelyrogirog940
    @josemanuelyrogirog940 Před 3 lety +411

    As a nursing student, I've already handled kids with special needs and I understand how Ms. Candy Pangilinan says that these kids will teach you a lot of things, like being grateful even in the simplest events in life. I hope and pray that someday people should learn to open up to these kids, they are so precious and they are not different. They are even much more sensitive than us that's why watching this hits me differently. At the same time, it also pains me because this is the reality-- the stigma, the discrimination, the judgments :

  • @dellcasidsid1042
    @dellcasidsid1042 Před 3 lety +207

    This is my most favorite interview of Toni. Eventhough Candy tries to make us laugh by lowkey making jokes abt her life, i’m still crying. That is how effective her story.

  • @donalyncarino2475
    @donalyncarino2475 Před 6 měsíci +2

    😢😢😢 a first time mom too with a 3y/o son diagnosed with ASD ..dami kung iyak ..
    totoo na kahit sa mga simpleng bagay n nggwa nila masaya kana para sa anak mo..dahil pra sa knila malaking achivement yon.😢 I feel you mommy kendz
    Everything happens for a reason❤

  • @heycrittersh
    @heycrittersh Před rokem +9

    This is such an inspiring story. It’s sad that other people discriminate instead of being affectionate to people with special needs.
    I admire Candy for being a strong person. I love how she shared that it was Quentin who brought out the best in her. He was her ticket to heaven. Thank you for doing this interview Toni. 😊

  • @MsMaria-xs9jx
    @MsMaria-xs9jx Před 3 lety +274

    It takes a Special heart to understand children with Special needs...
    Proud Special Education teacher here 💛

    • @ronadelle1126
      @ronadelle1126 Před 3 lety +3

      Mabuhay po kayo. I am preschool teacher before and I've encountered children with special needs in our regular school. And I tried to learn how to love and care for these children. Now that I'm a mother myself of 2 lovely girls, and i know how challenging it is to be a mother kaya mas tumaas ang respeto ko sa mga parents, guardians, teachers of these children. Kaya mabuhay kayo. And i pray long life for Candy Pangilinan kasi no one else will care for Quentin the way she does. My high respects for her!❤️❤️❤️

    • @jhaaa_00
      @jhaaa_00 Před 3 lety

      up!💚

    • @bekibarbietv8568
      @bekibarbietv8568 Před 3 lety +2

      sia naging voice na mga nanay na may anak na special child❤God bless miss candy

    • @juliennes.6155
      @juliennes.6155 Před 3 lety +1

      True po! Thank you for all your patience and dedication po. 💜🥰

  • @hazelannodtohan9043
    @hazelannodtohan9043 Před 3 lety +411

    "Pag napapagod ka pala tapos inoffer mo na lahat kay Lord, parang everything unfolds and becomes a miracle."
    This is so true. ☝️🙏♥️

    • @rdj6362
      @rdj6362 Před 3 lety +3

      Amen!

    • @xeenacastor1707
      @xeenacastor1707 Před 3 lety +5

      True .God is good all the time.khit anong lki ng pagsubok dumating kapit lng tau sa knya.lhat malagpasan ntin🙏

    • @hazelannodtohan9043
      @hazelannodtohan9043 Před 3 lety

      @@xeenacastor1707 Amen! 🥰

  • @shangpacleb4738
    @shangpacleb4738 Před 2 lety +10

    this conversation kahit paulit ulit panoorin di ka mgsasawa!!!so inspiring in all levels!the strength of a mother...sakripisyo!!lahat na!!!the love of a mother without a doubt❤️❤️❤️

  • @artlouiechico9021
    @artlouiechico9021 Před 6 měsíci +3

    pang pitong beses panonoorin..hindi nakakasawa... punong puno ng pagmamahal insperasyon...marami kang matutunan...❤❤❤

  • @ramilentanajr.5242
    @ramilentanajr.5242 Před 3 lety +279

    When she said "God be a Father" it hits me differently😭🥺

  • @francissurigao7175
    @francissurigao7175 Před 3 lety +194

    Ms. Candy should be one of the role models to all mothers in the world

  • @kathereencandilosas7424
    @kathereencandilosas7424 Před rokem +3

    Grabeh namn po yong principal... Napaka. Judgemental....very touching po ang story nyo miss candy ..naiyak po aq at dami qng lesson na natutunan.. .... God bless you po and ky quentin...😊😊

    • @user-zm2yf3dx6l
      @user-zm2yf3dx6l Před rokem

      Just Saying Po .Dati po Bagu ako Maging isang Shadow Teacher Ng Batang My Autistic Gaya Ng Ky Queintin . ay subra akung nainis sa Principal Not Until Naging isang Shadow ako Ng Batang Subra Mag Tantrums 🥺💔😪 . Pwede Po Natin Ma Judge Yung principal Kung Bakit sya Naging ganun Ka harsh 😢 ..pero Kasi Mahirap Rin Po Na Pag Nag Tatantrums Yung bata sa Time ng program ay Parang Nasisira Yung program Kasi Nga po Hindi Po Sa SPECIAL SCHOOL hindi maiintindihan ng Iba Yung Maging attitude ng Bata Pag Nag Tantrums sya unlike pag SPECIAL SCHOOL maaring maintindihan Sya Ng Kanyang Mga kaaral Or ng mga magulang . kasi Ang Studyante kurin po ay Hindi sya SPECIAL school Pinapasuk At ang hirap Na Pag mag 9am Na nag sisimula na ang Tantrums nya at Lahat po ng PROGRAM ay Gaya po ng sabi ni ms. candy na BEST IN WALKOUT kasi nakakahiya naman po na Hayaan Mulng Doon Mag wala . 😪💔 .. Just Saying Lang Po .. Subra Po malapit ang puso ko sa Mga tulad Ng studyanti Ko . Mga special needs Pero Ngyun po dikuna Ma judge yung Principal Iniintindi ko nlng po But sya naging Ganun .

  • @mavetan9894
    @mavetan9894 Před 2 lety +5

    I was so burn-out in computing my grades until i decided to go back to this video that i already watched before. Thanks Toni and Candy~you made me enjoy my work while watching your video. What a beautiful content!

  • @realtalkssss
    @realtalkssss Před 3 lety +145

    Grabe si Toni, pano nya kaya nagagawa yung napapasalita nya ng derederetso yung guest kahit di naman sya masyado nagtatanong. Toni was really a gifted host.

  • @nanahmontecillo6774
    @nanahmontecillo6774 Před 3 lety +231

    As a Psychologist I can say parents whom experienced the same thing with Candy is an epitome of bravery. It takes full courage and determination to hold on the daily challenges every parents would encounter raising a child with special needs. However, having a child/children like this is truly a blessing for it will change your life in a whole unexplainable ways just like what Candy said. Mabuhay ka Candy and to all the parents like her I salute you all. Laban lng, kaya yan.❤️❤️❤️

    • @rosellpusing6265
      @rosellpusing6265 Před 3 lety +2

      Kylangan ko ndin cguro magpa konsulta😔 meron din akung anak . kambal sila 7mos. Ko sila nilabas .sabi dahil dW sa stress.kaya maaga sila lumabas. Ngayon mag 4yrs old na sila. Yung isa ok naman yung develop nya. At yung isa pakiramdam ko hindi sya katulad ng ibang bata😔 3yrs old sya ng matutong lumakad at ngayon hindi pa sya nagsasalita. Kung minsan inuuntog nya yung ulo nya sa mga bagay bagay. Katulad ng laruan . wala syang pake sa mga kalaro mag isa syang naglalaro . natatakot ako na baka iba na talaga. Hindi ko sya mapa check up dahil pandemic at walang pera😔 sinisisi ko yung sarili ko kung bKit nagkaganun sya😔 araw-araw kung iniisip na kasalanan ko lahat😔 hanggang ngayon ang bigat sa dibdib dahil sinisisi ko ung sarili ko bkt ganun yung anak ko😭

    • @anaglynolmo8180
      @anaglynolmo8180 Před 3 lety +2

      @@rosellpusing6265 hi, kailangan nyo na po talagang mag consult sa doctor sa condition ng anak nyo. Don't blame yourself; all things happen for a reason. Stay strong and hold on to God. I just whispered a prayer for you and your twins. Keep safe and God bless! :)

    • @nanahmontecillo6774
      @nanahmontecillo6774 Před 3 lety +4

      @@rosellpusing6265 prior to concluding the state of your child ma'am you still need to bring her/him to some specialist for a series of tests na gagawin sa kanya and let the specialist advice you the next thing to do. Hindi nman kasi agad2x ma dedetermine yung stado ng bata base sa kung ano nkikita or nararamdaman nyo sa kanya, mas better parin yung may medical advice para alam nyo po how to cater her/his needs dependi sa state nya. Ang importante wag nyo po sanang sukuan yung anak nyo. There being special is what makes them special. ❤️

    • @rosellpusing6265
      @rosellpusing6265 Před 3 lety

      @@anaglynolmo8180 thankyou po😊

    • @rosellpusing6265
      @rosellpusing6265 Před 3 lety

      @@nanahmontecillo6774 sa ngayon po kc mahirap din pumunta sa mga hospital 😔 pinagpapasalamat ko nalang kay lord na hindi nya kami pinapabayaan ngayon . pero nkaka stress po talaga😔

  • @esthercabuenas1370
    @esthercabuenas1370 Před rokem +4

    I'm crying and laughing at the same time, so touching to watch this tanx toni and candy for this wonderful moment

  • @Mayyyiiieee_
    @Mayyyiiieee_ Před měsícem +1

    It's been 2 years, pinanood ko ulit pero naiyak ulit ako😭 God Bless You Always Ms. Candy😇