A video about why I transitioned when I did in my early thirties and how I don't fit into the standard trans narrative. Music: www.bensound.com/royalty-free-...
Thank you SO MUCH for this video. I've just started transitioning and I've grappling with self doubt because I don't fit that classic narrative. I've never had that acute dysphoria that drives some to dark places, fortunately. I just know in my heart I want to be a woman and I'd be happier as a woman, so why not?!
Thank you sooo much for sharing your experience! <3 I can relate to your story in many ways. I just figured out I am trans earlier this year, a few weeks before I turned 30 and my life has become so much better since then. I'm doing the requirements to start HRT at the moment. One of the reasons it took me so long, I guess, was that I too do not fit into the stanred trans narrative, which is why your story really helps me. Sending you lots of love, Sister :)
100% love your accent, dear! I could listen to you all day long... i almost have. I empathize with your spin of the common TG narrative as it rings true for my life as well, though I am about 15 years older. When I was 30, I had a transwoman friend who transitioned over the few years I knew her, then she went stealth. We had a few discussions about HER perception of what being "trans" meant, and it didn't 100% feel like MY perception, so I, UNsmartly decided that I was not trans and tried to fit back into conformity. That was the BIGGEST mistake of my life. Period. The point I'd like all the people watching this is this: If you THINK you MIGHT be transgender, DON'T try to diagnose it yourself, get a therapists opinion. Likely you will get the nod from a trained therapist after a single session! You might have other issues that you need help processing... I may never be done with therapy. :-) But it is the best money I have ever spent.
Wonderful video Charlotte! Thank you so much for sharing! I see a lot of parallels with my own story. I met you and Marie briefly in Marbella. Glad to see you doing well. And you look great!
This made me cry❤️ I’ve had the exact same experience and are just coming to terms with my own background. And even though I know and love many other trans people but always thought that “it can’t be me, I don’t suffer like they do” thank you for telling this story 💕
Thank you for this video. I’m about to turn 31 in 4 months and I’ve just finally acknowledged that I am transgender and need to transition. I relate soooo much to all of your thoughts. You literally have taken the words out of my mouth. The coping mechanisms, the fixation on trans stories, envisioning myself growing older as a woman…
So glad that you're now happier with yourself and that you decided to act when you did. It doesn't get easier if you wait. G.I.D. just continues to eat at you. I can say from experience, as I didn't get on HRT until age 43. Kudos to you, Charlotte!
I’ve been blessed to have met over a dozen transgender women. Some transitioned in their early twenties, others transitioned decades later. Each has her own unique, personal story, just like your story is unique and personal. I’m very happy that both Marie and your business partner support you. Thank you for sharing!
OMG thank you so much for this. I thought I was the only one that had the sort of feelings you describe. I too am in a relationship of 13 years and my partner has been understanding and we are still together and are stronger as a result. I'm so glad things worked out for you to. ❤️
Thank you for your honest, touching story. I don't think the "dominant" trans narrative is as dominant as people suppose. Many, like myself, fight against these feelings from really early on and are able to bury it for long periods until it resurfaces again. Finally, hopefully, we deal with it in the hope that one day we will walk in the sunshine as our true selves.
Thanks for a honest open video ,I’m glad everything is going well for you,I am what happens if you carry on fighting the disphoria,dealing with massive shame,depression often suicidal thoughts 56 years old,stay safe and good luck in your future
Very helpful video, I am 30 and I am struggling with my identity... im trying to come up with reasons to not transition, but at the same time I feel like I can't stop thinking about it.
Thank you SO MUCH for this video. I've just started transitioning and I've grappling with self doubt because I don't fit that classic narrative. I've never had that acute dysphoria that drives some to dark places, fortunately. I just know in my heart I want to be a woman and I'd be happier as a woman, so why not?!
We need to get more stories like this out there so other trans folks can see it not a one size fits all story.
It has taken me 67 years to finally face my fears and explore the real me.
I am 35 and I have been repressing for years and most of the things you said resonated with me. But I am finally doing something about it.
Thank you sooo much for sharing your experience! <3 I can relate to your story in many ways. I just figured out I am trans earlier this year, a few weeks before I turned 30 and my life has become so much better since then. I'm doing the requirements to start HRT at the moment. One of the reasons it took me so long, I guess, was that I too do not fit into the stanred trans narrative, which is why your story really helps me. Sending you lots of love, Sister :)
thank you so much for sharing, to finally hear a story similar to my own experience is such a relief! thank you so much <3
100% love your accent, dear! I could listen to you all day long... i almost have. I empathize with your spin of the common TG narrative as it rings true for my life as well, though I am about 15 years older. When I was 30, I had a transwoman friend who transitioned over the few years I knew her, then she went stealth. We had a few discussions about HER perception of what being "trans" meant, and it didn't 100% feel like MY perception, so I, UNsmartly decided that I was not trans and tried to fit back into conformity. That was the BIGGEST mistake of my life. Period. The point I'd like all the people watching this is this: If you THINK you MIGHT be transgender, DON'T try to diagnose it yourself, get a therapists opinion. Likely you will get the nod from a trained therapist after a single session! You might have other issues that you need help processing... I may never be done with therapy. :-) But it is the best money I have ever spent.
Wonderful video Charlotte! Thank you so much for sharing! I see a lot of parallels with my own story. I met you and Marie briefly in Marbella. Glad to see you doing well. And you look great!
This made me cry❤️ I’ve had the exact same experience and are just coming to terms with my own background. And even though I know and love many other trans people but always thought that “it can’t be me, I don’t suffer like they do” thank you for telling this story 💕
Thank you for this video. I’m about to turn 31 in 4 months and I’ve just finally acknowledged that I am transgender and need to transition. I relate soooo much to all of your thoughts. You literally have taken the words out of my mouth. The coping mechanisms, the fixation on trans stories, envisioning myself growing older as a woman…
So glad that you're now happier with yourself and that you decided to act when you did. It doesn't get easier if you wait. G.I.D. just continues to eat at you. I can say from experience, as I didn't get on HRT until age 43. Kudos to you, Charlotte!
Wonderfully self-effacing yet positive ....... and an utter delight !!
What beautiful story. So happy for you both!
I’ve been blessed to have met over a dozen transgender women. Some transitioned in their early twenties, others transitioned decades later. Each has her own unique, personal story, just like your story is unique and personal. I’m very happy that both Marie and your business partner support you. Thank you for sharing!
OMG thank you so much for this. I thought I was the only one that had the sort of feelings you describe. I too am in a relationship of 13 years and my partner has been understanding and we are still together and are stronger as a result. I'm so glad things worked out for you to. ❤️
Thank you for your honest, touching story. I don't think the "dominant" trans narrative is as dominant as people suppose. Many, like myself, fight against these feelings from really early on and are able to bury it for long periods until it resurfaces again. Finally, hopefully, we deal with it in the hope that one day we will walk in the sunshine as our true selves.
Thanks for a honest open video ,I’m glad everything is going well for you,I am what happens if you carry on fighting the disphoria,dealing with massive shame,depression often suicidal thoughts 56 years old,stay safe and good luck in your future
I really needed this. Thank you for sharing!
Hi Charlotte, so glad that I stumbled upon your Chanel. I really relate to this vlog, thank you for sharing.
Very helpful video, I am 30 and I am struggling with my identity... im trying to come up with reasons to not transition, but at the same time I feel like I can't stop thinking about it.