First time meeting the donor who saved her life

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  • čas přidán 15. 09. 2022
  • Five years after a blood stem cell transplantation cured her Leukemia, Bente heads to the airport to meet her donor Max for the first time, and thank him for saving her life.
    Directed by Dr. Warren Fingrut & Hayley Wroot.
    Produced by Stem Cell Club (stemcellclub.ca) and Why We Swab ( whyweswab).
    Video production by Alpha High Definition (alphahighdefinition.com/).
    A heartfelt thank you to Bente, Max, and their families for sharing their story to advocate for stem cell donation.

Komentáře • 68

  • @stemcellclub
    @stemcellclub  Před rokem +3

    Link to part 2 - First meeting at the home.
    czcams.com/video/dKBIr_8vh0Y/video.html

  • @worldtraveler3044
    @worldtraveler3044 Před rokem +116

    “You raised such a good boy.” Oh gosh…😢 ❤️

    • @amu8048
      @amu8048 Před rokem +3

      It's very big thing to listen any parents

    • @moniquem9609
      @moniquem9609 Před 7 měsíci

      Yes my heart is full of joy watching this . ❤

  • @gabrielseme5035
    @gabrielseme5035 Před rokem +13

    I miss better words to thank that young man...his mother honestly raised a world citizen...

  • @gordonbone3689
    @gordonbone3689 Před 6 měsíci +16

    We live in Maine., USA. Earlier this year my daughter donated bone marrow cells for a matched person in Sweden! It is so amazing and thankfully life saving the medical world is globally connected. I am so proud for her to be such a giving person. She was so eager to get to D.C. to donate. Everything was paid for. The flight, the hotel room, the transportation. We are wishing the very best for the recipient. We hope their life will be a very long one with family, friends and hopefully future generations. Life is so precious. What we take for granted, OTHERS ARE PRAYING FOR!

    • @vertoatrum
      @vertoatrum Před 6 měsíci +3

      As someone from Maine also, good on your daughter! What an awesome person

  • @niclascarlson1683
    @niclascarlson1683 Před rokem +18

    I've been registered as a donor for 25 years, but still haven't gotten the chance to donate! I hope I will be someones match, some day

    • @gregbearne2195
      @gregbearne2195 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Even if you never get a match you can feel eternal pride for donating. No one donates for the reward.

  • @natasa2882
    @natasa2882 Před rokem +41

    My mum had a bone marrow transplant because she had leukemia, which gave me 25 years of life with her after the transplant. ❤
    I also donated my stem cells almost 18 years ago. It all went well for the person who got them.
    Wishing all the donors and receivers pf stemm cells all the best ❤❤❤❤👏👏👏

  • @MISMO-rc1vz
    @MISMO-rc1vz Před rokem +11

    Congratulations!!
    Ive lost my mom because of cancer and i am wishing that all cancer patients win their battle

  • @daleschultz2640
    @daleschultz2640 Před rokem +48

    A tearful welcome.😭 That young man's act of kindness will never go unforgotten.❤👍😊

  • @chelceafarrar-jackson8352

    Reminder, there's still good in world

  • @choc4422
    @choc4422 Před rokem +12

    My rang her bell 2 days ago so this made me think how blessed I and her children are.

  • @mommyharris1111
    @mommyharris1111 Před rokem +8

    I would love to meet the person who was the donor recipient of my brothers corneas. I’m so happy that you were able to get a stem donor and a new lease on life. Congratulations to you and your family! God bless you!

  • @sadanandabhoi5482
    @sadanandabhoi5482 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Have seen this video "N" number of times still not satisfied. Love from India.

  • @aaishahbong3824
    @aaishahbong3824 Před rokem +8

    May Allaah reward you for your kindness..ameen

  • @nancyb.3523
    @nancyb.3523 Před 21 dnem +1

    I've been on the registration for a few years and if I could ever get the chance to help someone I would absolutely be over the moon

  • @2ndhandSue
    @2ndhandSue Před rokem +16

    Bente, I was so happy to come across this video and see your amazing experience, made possible by Max. In 1982 when I was 30 years old and pregnant with my second child, my mother felt unwell for the entire month of May and it continued into June - just lack of appetite, overly tired. At the end of June when she was not feeling any better my father took her to the hospital and she was admitted for tests on July 1. On July 2 her blood results came back and we were told that she had advanced acute myelogenous leukemia. She was transferred to a larger hospital 133 miles away where there was a very established cancer hospital. Unfortunately, it was too late for her for any treatment and she did on July 19.

    • @LuisA1Million
      @LuisA1Million Před rokem

      🙏🙏💖❤‍🩹

    • @_Kyprioth_
      @_Kyprioth_ Před 10 měsíci

      I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.
      Thank you for sharing your story. I truly believe that your mother is watching over you and your family always 💕

  • @CarleysAngel
    @CarleysAngel Před rokem +10

    So happy that it worked out!

  • @phoenixwolfe2010
    @phoenixwolfe2010 Před 3 měsíci +1

    God Bless that a match was found.

  • @rebeccaharrison2968
    @rebeccaharrison2968 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I’m a platelet donor - 31 gallons so far! That’s another way of saving lives. Please consider being some kind of donor - bone marrow, stem cells, blood, even organs. All are ways to help save lives.

  • @delmahnori1582
    @delmahnori1582 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wow what a wonderful young man. He saved the woman's life. He is incredible young man. God bless you yoing man.

  • @ruralparadise8901
    @ruralparadise8901 Před rokem +4

    Wow! I'm very impressed! Humanity in its highest act! 😎👋👋🙏🙏🙏

  • @keithpeterson5127
    @keithpeterson5127 Před rokem +8

    A good person!

  • @43sunray
    @43sunray Před rokem +2

    Heart of gold. Respect.

  • @markholland5767
    @markholland5767 Před rokem +4

    What a nice young man

  • @toddsmith1690
    @toddsmith1690 Před rokem +4

    What a great story. Beautiful soul. Everyone here.

  • @jeffreyjeziorski1480
    @jeffreyjeziorski1480 Před 4 měsíci

    I gotta stop cutting onions while I watch these storys!!!!!!

  • @patcolton8115
    @patcolton8115 Před rokem +3

    That just warms my heart

  • @karolyncoorsh4792
    @karolyncoorsh4792 Před rokem +6

    This is such an incredible story, and beautifully told!

  • @crundertaker
    @crundertaker Před rokem +6

    Blessings Bente. Such a wonderful young man. What an amazing experience eh?

  • @gailweatherall1215
    @gailweatherall1215 Před rokem +3

    what a wonderful story - there are so many good people out there - nice to meet one of them,.

  • @garyloudenslager587
    @garyloudenslager587 Před rokem +2

    Your a real hero Thank you for your help,

  • @snoopydoopy9760
    @snoopydoopy9760 Před rokem +3

    this is beautiful

  • @lovemeanyou
    @lovemeanyou Před rokem +3

    Wow so blessed Max what a beautiful soul so excited for you too Mrs lady 😊wow wow

  • @ank9218
    @ank9218 Před rokem +1

    God bless him!

  • @maxmustermann7248
    @maxmustermann7248 Před rokem +1

    Heartwarming

  • @richardpeete5017
    @richardpeete5017 Před rokem +1

    It's a beautiful thing!

  • @jeynes14
    @jeynes14 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Blessed be

  • @bodhi8260
    @bodhi8260 Před rokem +2

    He watched pirates of the Carribean in the hospital. Johnny Depp is everywhere lol

  • @davestark2015
    @davestark2015 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Way wicked awesome 👌

  • @MP-fk9em
    @MP-fk9em Před rokem +3

    Amazing ♥️♥️♥️

  • @robinb6996
    @robinb6996 Před 3 dny

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @christinevanduuren5014
    @christinevanduuren5014 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Have been registered for a few months now

  • @Rakmandra
    @Rakmandra Před rokem +3

    isn´t it funny that he watched 'pirates of the caribean' when getting the call?
    jacp sparrows main trouble began with him saving 100 souls

  • @stevesteffen7001
    @stevesteffen7001 Před rokem +7

    Damn onions.

  • @soorajrajesh6540
    @soorajrajesh6540 Před rokem +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @msbritv
    @msbritv Před rokem

    Blessed love new frien

  • @michaelsegura1259
    @michaelsegura1259 Před rokem +1

    You should have to him ring the bell with you

  • @NatureEllaJ
    @NatureEllaJ Před rokem

    🥰🙏🌹✨💫😘

  • @twingytwango6971
    @twingytwango6971 Před rokem

    Does anyone knows what the perfect match means genetically wise?
    I know that matching she will receive his etc. but does it mean they are family and or closely related?

    • @mengel3192
      @mengel3192 Před 11 měsíci +2

      No that does not mean that you are related

    • @_Kyprioth_
      @_Kyprioth_ Před 10 měsíci +1

      It does not mean that they are related at all.
      To be an organ or donor match, it is essentially all just luck. There are a list of donors available and based on blood type, crossmatch and HLA testing, they will know how likely it will be for the donation to be successful.
      That’s why it is so important for more people to register for donation. The more people there are on the list, the more likely it is that someone will happen to find their match for donation.
      It was pure luck that he happened to be registered as a donor and that they were a match. There is no genetic link between them at all. However, family members are usually the first to be tested as they are more likely to be a match compared to a stranger.

  • @ItsMotoMatt
    @ItsMotoMatt Před rokem +2

    PLOT TWIST: Max and Bente's daughter hit it off and end up getting married.

  • @bryanlb4987
    @bryanlb4987 Před rokem +3

    Wants grandkids,,,no pressure on her daughter or daughter-in-law. lol

  • @mikeflo6459
    @mikeflo6459 Před rokem +3

    This is so awesome

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 Před rokem +3

    God. Bless. U. Prayers. From. All

  • @mid-ohioguardian6927
    @mid-ohioguardian6927 Před rokem +6

    What is the age limit to donate ... Thank You !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @glendahoward8259
      @glendahoward8259 Před rokem +2

      I might be wrong but in NC there is a place on your driver licence they mark of you are a donor so I would say the age limit is your death.

    • @cindyjones8284
      @cindyjones8284 Před rokem +2

      I have bone marrow biopsies (I would think harvesting marrow would feel similar)for diagnosis and monitoring of my CML leukemia. It is not that bad if you can donate to save a life!❤

    • @grafzahl4698
      @grafzahl4698 Před rokem +1

      In Germany between 18 and 55 years...

    • @mid-ohioguardian6927
      @mid-ohioguardian6927 Před rokem

      @@grafzahl4698 Thank you !!

    • @_Kyprioth_
      @_Kyprioth_ Před 10 měsíci +1

      For a live donation, the age differs depending on what country you are from. The age limit is usually somewhere around 18-50.
      For donation after death, there is no age limit. The organ donation team assesses the condition of the potential donors organs. If they are fit for donation, they go from there to find a match.