This was me, an outcast that never fit in. Never thought I'd marry, or have kids, until I met my wife. She was the only woman that truly loved me, believed in me, and was worth having a child with. She died a few weeks ago, but we were happy for over 25 years. I'm a very lucky man....
Late husband died 7 1/2 years ago. 32 great years. Was 36 when we met, he was 47. He was divorced. Instant click that only got better each day. Sure we argued, never violence, just clearing the air from time to time. Both had serious illnesses, helped each other. Family illnesses both sides. Navigated together. Read each other’s minds. You walk in step, finish each other’s sentences, pass food on table even before being asked, 6th develops. Miss him every moment. Will miss to my last breath. Close to his kids & grandkids. Good rapport. Can’t ask for more.
@@Bisonzilla I can't stand people on speaker phone. I get into arguments with them now. If you are going to disrespect me, then I am going to ruin your phone call. So rude!
I have a Marty of my own. Only his name is Ric. He's built for hugging, not speeding, is a wonderful cook, a kind and gentle person, and the most devoted hubby. And after 12 years of marriage he still thinks I am a 'babe'. And wait....when we married I was almost 60!!!
@@V3inmistress He had been married before, but I had not. Ric was 60-ish...He was a merchant seaman. So our wedding (City Hall NY 6/24/2008)... foto caption says, "Old salt weds ripe tomato.."..Still gets huge laughs, 13 years later!!
@@kathleenking47 Yes, he was the voice of Mermaid-Man, and his former co-star on the 1960's sitcom "McHale's Navy," Tim Conway, voiced Barnacle Boy. Casting Borgnine and Conway together again was a brilliant move by Spongebob's producers.
@@tonybaloney8401 The Internet hasn't changed humanity - there always have been/always will be shallow, narcissistic people, but there are still decent, kind people looking for real relationships even in 2024.
The scene after Marty walks Clara home is the absolute best of the movie. When he slaps the bus stop sign you know he has just realized not only is he in love but that he will spend the rest of his life with her. And anything life throws at them, whether good or bad they will see it out together. It’s what I call “ a Marty moment “. If a man is lucky enough he will have his Marty moment. You only get one in your life. And if a man is really lucky, I mean really LUCKY, he will be smart enough to realize it. I had mine in 1985. Saw her getting off the bus at Mohawk College in Stoney Creek. Said to the guy standing beside me “ You see that girl, the one with the white blouse and glasses. I’m gonna marry her “. This September will be 30 years for us.
I had that feeling once, and then one day she woke up and told me she didn't love me anymore. Didn't have a reason why, or something I did, thanked me for being the best to her, and treating her like a queen, but she did not want me anymore. This is all bullshit romantic love isn't real it's some shit we made up to raise kids in effective households, and motivate men to go to war.
I just saw this for the first time and wept with such hope. My birthday is Nov 8 just like Marty's in the film and I'm 29 like Clara. And I pray.... i find my person like they did.
My darling son is 28 and right now he's seeing a young lady, but my husband and I don't feel they are right for each other.🤷🏻♀️ But we keep this feeling to ourselves, since it's ultimately their choice. So I'm praying that the LORD Jesus will send them the right person. I know he will, since he answers good prayers. He answered my husband's prayer for a wife and he knew the moment he saw me.☺️ Don't give up hope!💕
@@TheBereangirlThe problem with your prayer is that you are praying to god based on what you want. You never considered gods will for your son. You and your husband may not like her but God may have intended for them to be together. So instead of just praying for your son to find someone else, pray that your will be done. Your son doesn’t need your approvals of who he has enter his life. Neither does his need your approval of who he intends to enter your son’s life.
@@jonathanm9986 the problem with your opinion is that it stinks like your armpits. I'm allowed to pray for what I want, God said so, but of course I yield to my God's will, what he wants goes, he has the final say, yes? Yes. How horrible it is for me to want a godly woman that loves my son. Your comment is absolutely garbage. So I bid you adieu, troll.😊💕
***** There are so many heartbreaking scenes in this movie...and what makes it worse, is that there are so many in this world who have been through them.
Lemon Drops Oh man, now I have to admit, this was like watching my best friend and I many years ago! When I first saw this film it really struck a nerve. For years I begged my friend to watch it with me. We finally did, but it made him uncomfortable, too close to home I guess!.And yes, I am still single at 53!
***** It hit home real hard for me as well. Watched this with my mom, and I choked up at so many times - the loneliness, rejection, despair...all that struck a chord. I too am single! This movie has really stood the test of time and it still relates so well to human misery and want after all these years.
This scene resonates with me so much. I met a guy at a party; the nicest man I ever met. He was honest, he looked after others before he looked after himself, he was grounded, he offered help when he can, and saw the good in everyone. He wasn't the most attractive, but his traits made me fall for him. The family liked him but their issue? He was an atheist. They convinced me to break it off with him because he wasn't a man of God. I have respect for those who devoted to religion, but my family had experiences with Catholic husbands, devoted as they were, who cheated and physically abused my aunts and cousins. Realizing what I lost because of others' petty advice, I told them off, saying I don't care if he's an atheist, he's a great guy and I lost him because of a stupid reason?! No, I'm not gonna let that happen. My boyfriend and I got back together. We are now entering 6 years and the religion thing doesn't bother us. My family has learned to accept it because he is such a nice guy. 2024 Update! We’ve been together for 13 years and happy!
Religion has nothing to do with actual morality. One of the problems with the world is we think we have the morality thing already taken care of because we have "religion". Religion did not stop WW 2 where people of the same religions were killing each other or now with Islamists killing each other. Religions are just " tribes" and act like them.
Interesting how Clara [Betsy Blair] is characterized as a dog. As if the guys making such judgements are the blue plate special. Betsy Blair may not be ravishing, but she is surely beautiful. She was married for many years to Gene Kelly, for cyring out loud. Now, in the original TV/Live Play version, where Rod Steiger played Marty, Nancy Marchand [who in her autumn years potrayed Livia Soprano] played Clara, who is more believable as a Plain Jane type. Be that as it may, the chemistry between Borgnine and Blair is so very touching. Something to be said for kindness as an enduring character of actual factual MEN.
I've said this since I first watched the movie. Why is Clara seen as this ugly girl? She's adorable. Just all her little things, her shyness, she's adorable.
What I love about this scene is this is when the character manned up. He took control of his own life and his own happiness and didn't allow his friends to drag him down. If they are his friends, they would be happy for him.
Sometimes though, you can have a marriage, lots of kids, lots of friends and still be lonely. I have a close family, a wonderful, loving partner of 30 years and yet nobody understands me. Some days I feel as lonely as an old hermit! Work that out.
Marty finally wises up and decides to take a chance and grab love and happiness and never let go despite everyone else who would rather see him unhappy and miserable! What a great ending and a powerful performance by Ernest Borgnine, whose Academy Award win was well deserved!
"Whataya doin tonight? Whataya doin tonight?! ....Watami hang's around with you guys for!!?" Great scene! I just saw this for the first time a few days ago. A great movie with a lot of heart.
RIP Ernest Borgnine. Your performance of Marty Pileti will always be one of my favorites, never fails to make me cry. Thank you Sir, and God Bless :,-(
Marty gave in to what society, his friends and family thought of him. Before he finally realised what truly mattered in life and to himself. Love. Love above all else is priceless. It is truly the greatest resources this world has to offer and I am glad he realised this in the end. Go get her Marty
When Marty finally realizes that he doesn't give a damn what anybody else thinks, he wants Clara is absolutely stunning, even better when he starts to chide Angie about not being married yet "you should be ashamed of yourself".
These are the kinds of guys that lead each other down the road of loneliness and confusion instead of choosing happiness and commitment with the woman they love. I’m glad Marty woke up at the end and took his happiness into his own hands.
@@rikiishitoru8885this is the age of the internet and dating apps, 66% of young men are single, most women are competing for the top percentage of men
I love how Angie looks so ashamed when Marty calls him out. Joe Mantell sells it pefectly. He doesn't have much to work with during the rest of the movie, just being a sourpuss the whole time, but this scene is great.
I lost a girl because of immaturity and letting my Mother have to much control. My Mother always had to be in control and today, 35 years later it still bothers me and the “ what if “. At 57 I have a great wife and two strong and independent adult children. But I still think of that girl. I use to feel bad, thinking that wasn’t fair to my wife and maybe it isn’t. But knowing I let an outside influence play a part in ending a relationship, still eats at me. I’m still bitter about getting mixed up in my parents problems and letting my Mother have to much control of my life.
It should eat at you. Let it eat at you and feel the pain. But don't let it eat at you forever. The pain is teaching you something. Learn from it. Then do better.
If you love EB in this movie, you really must catch him as Sgt Fatso Judson in "From Here to Eternity". Polar opposite from Marty shows EB's amazing range as an actor. Even did a really nice cameo in 2010 movie "RED" looking great at 93.
@@SoFloCo-ne4rk if i was a girl i would have snapped him up in a heart beat!! I'm FAT AND UGLY i learned a long time ago that appearance mean NOTHING! I have 3 successful marriages to 3 wonderful women I lost them all to CANCER but was happy and successful through them all.
When I was a kid in the 1960's I thought my grandfather was fat. Now I look at his photos and realize I'm fat and he was a fit and handsome man. Almost all my friends are even fatter than me. Obesity is rampant in the United States and the impact on our health is greater than almost any other factor.
Ernest Borgnine certainly deserved his Best Actor Oscar. I've watched Rod Steiger's performance and Borgnine's and props to the former, I absolutely love Ernest's performance.
No comparison. Ernie is Marty!! When he says( here in this scene) " fat & ugly" , it is kind of hard imagining Steiger in his performance being that. One hell of a movie!! Ernie really deserved that Oscar. Ernie was as sweet & down to earth as Marty. A very good guy.
This is a wonderful film. Everyone man or woman should see this amazing simple film with an sincere message. As I age I am watching films that I missed in my youth and Marty was one of them. I am so glad I saw this. I am not a Marty but had friends that were. I have been married for 33 years and thank the universe everyday for her. Watch this film. This film will change your life.
Have visited many you tube content regarding this fine film..how seldom is mentioned the name of it's writer, the remarkable Paddy Chayevsky....one of his later scripts was "Network", WOW" .,I'm mad as hell and I 'm not going to take it any more!!"
Yes, the ending is open-ended. As the viewers, we don't know if Marty and Clara will actually meet up again and become a couple. However, the ending shows that there is hope for Marty. Also, Marty finally got the courage to call Clara despite his mother and "friends" objecting to her.
I watched this movie last night because some of the clips popped up in my CZcams feeds. What an excellent film with a perfect ending because they didn't overdo it by showing them getting married.
It was such a sudden ending. We never even see them actually get back together. The last shot we saw of her, was her sitting in front of the TV, broken hearted, bawling her eyes out.
I love this scene when he decides to call the girl, when you find someone who cares for you and you care for him, don’t waste time get to know him, he could be the one.
A lot of people don't know this but Ernest Borgnine was also a war hero as he commanded PT Boat 73 during WWII . He was beloved by his crew who interestingly included the actor Tim Conway who later starred on the Carol Burnett Show. Thanks for your service both of you.
The first time i saw that film it was on late night cable. I was in tears halfway through. It was as if rhe film was about me. Hanging out at a club asking girls to dance onky to be turned down and to hear their snide remarks about my clothes and more. Then meeting up with my loser friends who wasn't having a god time at one club and wants to drive to the other side of town to try another club. Then 1am rolls around and either we've met someone and the other guys think she's a dog or we've met someone and we took too long to make a move they're with someone else because they moved faster. Then eventually we leave right before closing time so we can have breakfast somewhere; Whataburger, IHOP, Denny's or another dive that promises heartburn. Then back home smelling like an ashtray. I take my clothes off in the garage and get them into rje wash so i dont stink up my house or piss off my dog cause she doesn't like nasty ashtrays either. The next day by 1pm i am getting phone calls aking if im going to the bars that night. Then i think of Marty. Im gonna stay home and watch a movie. I dont eant to be hassled by girls who go to clubs not to dance but to hang out. So i stay home but continue to get calls of rhr guys asking me to meet them in or pick them up. This film is about me an all my buddies. The heart breaks and heart aches. My mother asking me weekly when am i going to get married. When will i hive her grand kids. That drove me as crazy as it did Marty. After the film ended. I gave up gpinf to the clubs and dance halls for a few months. I found other ways to pass the time. Id go to the gun range, meet friends for dinner. If they wanted to go to clubs I'd excuse myself and go home. After the months i went back to rhe club and danced all night. The nexr night i stayed home. That's how it was. I would fo to clubs so randomly that i was down to one or two nights a month from 12 nights a month. Marty taught me a leason. I dont cry when i see that film but i wonder about the current and future generations of Marty and what theyll deal with.
Those were the days. in NY..I remember hanging out in NYC..Back in the 1950's & 60's..Now I'm here in Florida, Gods waiting room....But I do spend my summers in NYC...
All I know is, I have had my heart broken too many times and I wouldn't want to end up like marty. Reality is, I'd rather have no one in my life than someone.
This was me, an outcast that never fit in. Never thought I'd marry, or have kids, until I met my wife. She was the only woman that truly loved me, believed in me, and was worth having a child with. She died a few weeks ago, but we were happy for over 25 years. I'm a very lucky man....
Sorry for your loss. I pray you have a good life and live a while longer to experience it for her and have more to share later. God bless.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm humbled by your loving words in regard to her. It is encouraging and beautiful.
Late husband died 7 1/2 years ago. 32 great years. Was 36 when we met, he was 47. He was divorced. Instant click that only got better each day. Sure we argued, never violence, just clearing the air from time to time. Both had serious illnesses, helped each other. Family illnesses both sides. Navigated together. Read each other’s minds. You walk in step, finish each other’s sentences, pass food on table even before being asked, 6th develops. Miss him every moment. Will miss to my last breath. Close to his kids & grandkids. Good rapport. Can’t ask for more.
Sorry for your loss
What a hardcore scene. Marty *FINALLY* decides to take his happiness into his own two hands. What a man. What a film. Love ya, Marty!
Exactly right! We are each responsible for our own happiness.
This movie should be required viewing in 2022. Too many lonely men and too many lonely women.
Too many emotionally mature out there; looking for more than what is.
Too many unrealistic expectations from both genders.
Alone, but not lonely
Too many with STDs
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I wish phone booths were still a thing. I'm sick and tired of being forced to endure everyone's phone conversations now
i also miss phone booths.
Me too! I miss phone booths! And it's awful how people talk on speaker phone in public and you're stuck having to hear both ends of the conversation!
@@Bisonzilla I can't stand people on speaker phone. I get into arguments with them now. If you are going to disrespect me, then I am going to ruin your phone call. So rude!
My library has “modern” phone booths. Just cylindrical sound dampening chambers for cell phone conversations.
@@RICKONORATO you sound like you need a slap in the face, hope you receive one soon to humble yourself.
I have a Marty of my own. Only his name is Ric. He's built for hugging, not speeding, is a wonderful cook, a kind and gentle person, and the most devoted hubby. And after 12 years of marriage he still thinks I am a 'babe'. And wait....when we married I was almost 60!!!
That is so sweet. How old was he when you got married?
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@@V3inmistress He had been married before, but I had not. Ric was 60-ish...He was a merchant seaman. So our wedding (City Hall NY 6/24/2008)... foto caption says, "Old salt weds ripe tomato.."..Still gets huge laughs, 13 years later!!
Love your story gives hope . Gods blessings on you and Ric
RIP Ernest Borgnine (January 24, 1917 - July 8, 2012), aged 95
You will be remembered as a legend.
Didnt he play on spongebob?
@@kathleenking47 Yes, he was the voice of Mermaid-Man, and his former co-star on the 1960's sitcom "McHale's Navy," Tim Conway, voiced Barnacle Boy. Casting Borgnine and Conway together again was a brilliant move by Spongebob's producers.
Don’t forget the Posideon adventure
The Wild Bunch.
He also played in Franco Zeffirelli’s Jesus of Nazareth.
Moral of this movie:
Don't listen to your loser friends who don't have anything going for themselves, because they don't want to see you happy.
Kinda like the lesson I got from the Bible. Your friends will always desert you.
And don't EVER buy into the stupid "bro" code BS!
ANY guy that likes hanging around his male friends than a girl is a closet HOMOSEXUAL!
@@sird2333 fuck the bible
Or don't hang around with people who will drag you down/don't have your best interests at heart to begin with.
"You don't like her? That's too bad!"
You tell him, Marty! Good for you!
Ernest Borgnine deserved his Academy Award for this role. What a man is Marty! A timeless story well-told.
A lesson on a mother's love as well.
Marty won't let me forget there is hope for all of us. One of the best.
Is there still hope
Nope, there is no hope for a guy like Marty in the modern era of the internet
Not true, some people were just meant to be alone!
@@tonybaloney8401 The Internet hasn't changed humanity - there always have been/always will be shallow, narcissistic people, but there are still decent, kind people looking for real relationships even in 2024.
The scene after Marty walks Clara home is the absolute best of the movie. When he slaps the bus stop sign you know he has just realized not only is he in love but that he will spend the rest of his life with her. And anything life throws at them, whether good or bad they will see it out together. It’s what I call “ a Marty moment “.
If a man is lucky enough he will have his Marty moment. You only get one in your life. And if a man is really lucky, I mean really LUCKY, he will be smart enough to realize it.
I had mine in 1985. Saw her getting off the bus at Mohawk College in Stoney Creek. Said to the guy standing beside me “ You see that girl, the one with the white blouse and glasses. I’m gonna marry her “. This September will be 30 years for us.
This is heartwarming. Just saw it now. Fucking heartwarming.
So true. Connection not perfection.
Chazz Palminteri says you get three in “A Bronx Tale”
I had that feeling once, and then one day she woke up and told me she didn't love me anymore. Didn't have a reason why, or something I did, thanked me for being the best to her, and treating her like a queen, but she did not want me anymore. This is all bullshit romantic love isn't real it's some shit we made up to raise kids in effective households, and motivate men to go to war.
I dont know why but I remember that seen being longer with him swinging on a stop sign running through traffic
The world needs more movies like Marty.
People don't know that Ernest Borgnine is also the same voice of Mermaid Man in SpongeBob SquarePants, that's crazy.
Omg...I'll be 40 this year and never knew this until right now😮
EEEEEVVVVIIIIIILLLLLL!!!!!
He also played Mr. Rogo in the Poseidon Adventure.
Absolutely killed it as a retired caped crusader, loved every moment with mermaid man and barnacle boy.
I knew at about 9 years old what a great movie this was, I thought. At almost 70, I know it even better now. Thank you for this clip.
The very same…\
It took ya 51 years to understand the point of the movie?
Whats wrong with ya?
Good for Marty. Life's too short.
if your desperate enough you might get landed with the wrong person for you
@@bennib5ha ha
@@feliciakidd9358 what you laughing at
The simplest stories are almost always the best. This movie is a great example!
I just saw this for the first time and wept with such hope. My birthday is Nov 8 just like Marty's in the film and I'm 29 like Clara. And I pray.... i find my person like they did.
My darling son is 28 and right now he's seeing a young lady, but my husband and I don't feel they are right for each other.🤷🏻♀️ But we keep this feeling to ourselves, since it's ultimately their choice. So I'm praying that the LORD Jesus will send them the right person. I know he will, since he answers good prayers. He answered my husband's prayer for a wife and he knew the moment he saw me.☺️ Don't give up hope!💕
@@TheBereangirlThe problem with your prayer is that you are praying to god based on what you want. You never considered gods will for your son. You and your husband may not like her but God may have intended for them to be together. So instead of just praying for your son to find someone else, pray that your will be done.
Your son doesn’t need your approvals of who he has enter his life. Neither does his need your approval of who he intends to enter your son’s life.
@@jonathanm9986 the problem with your opinion is that it stinks like your armpits. I'm allowed to pray for what I want, God said so, but of course I yield to my God's will, what he wants goes, he has the final say, yes? Yes. How horrible it is for me to want a godly woman that loves my son. Your comment is absolutely garbage. So I bid you adieu, troll.😊💕
well bethany its been 3 years since you posted. did you find your person.
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Two less lonely people in the world and it's gonna be fine. Out of all the people in the world I just can't believe you're mine. -Graham Russell.
Watching movies like this growing up made me believe in love.
One of my all time favorite movies. Simple, poignant, touching and just beautiful. One of the greatest Best Pictures winners of all time.
Lemon Drops Yes! A great movie! That scene where his mom is trying to get him to go the club? Oh man, tears.
***** There are so many heartbreaking scenes in this movie...and what makes it worse, is that there are so many in this world who have been through them.
Lemon Drops Oh man, now I have to admit, this was like watching my best friend and I many years ago! When I first saw this film it really struck a nerve. For years I begged my friend to watch it with me. We finally did, but it made him uncomfortable, too close to home I guess!.And yes, I am still single at 53!
***** It hit home real hard for me as well. Watched this with my mom, and I choked up at so many times - the loneliness, rejection, despair...all that struck a chord.
I too am single!
This movie has really stood the test of time and it still relates so well to human misery and want after all these years.
Lemon Drops Well said. Take care.
This movie is a perfect exsample that simple movies can be great.
Every time this movie comes up on TV I have to watch it.
This scene resonates with me so much. I met a guy at a party; the nicest man I ever met. He was honest, he looked after others before he looked after himself, he was grounded, he offered help when he can, and saw the good in everyone. He wasn't the most attractive, but his traits made me fall for him. The family liked him but their issue? He was an atheist. They convinced me to break it off with him because he wasn't a man of God. I have respect for those who devoted to religion, but my family had experiences with Catholic husbands, devoted as they were, who cheated and physically abused my aunts and cousins. Realizing what I lost because of others' petty advice, I told them off, saying I don't care if he's an atheist, he's a great guy and I lost him because of a stupid reason?! No, I'm not gonna let that happen. My boyfriend and I got back together. We are now entering 6 years and the religion thing doesn't bother us. My family has learned to accept it because he is such a nice guy.
2024 Update! We’ve been together for 13 years and happy!
thatoneguy good for you
Religion has nothing to do with actual morality. One of the problems with the world is we think we have the morality thing already taken care of because we have "religion". Religion did not stop WW 2 where people of the same religions were killing each other or now with Islamists killing each other. Religions are just " tribes" and act like them.
Seven years now
Well done , good for you life is too short.
May all your shared years continue to bring you joy! Happy for you!
its what we call,, The Scene that won me the Oscar ,, SUPERSTAR , rip sweet man
I had a "Marty" once. I was too stupid to keep him. We learn lessons in life. I have.
Interesting how Clara [Betsy Blair] is characterized as a dog. As if the guys making such judgements are the blue plate special. Betsy Blair may not be ravishing, but she is surely beautiful. She was married for many years to Gene Kelly, for cyring out loud. Now, in the original TV/Live Play version, where Rod Steiger played Marty, Nancy Marchand [who in her autumn years potrayed Livia Soprano] played Clara, who is more believable as a Plain Jane type. Be that as it may, the chemistry between Borgnine and Blair is so very touching. Something to be said for kindness as an enduring character of actual factual MEN.
I've said this since I first watched the movie. Why is Clara seen as this ugly girl? She's adorable. Just all her little things, her shyness, she's adorable.
I'm pretty sure age has something to do with it
although very sweet and likeable, they made her look a little dowdy in the movie
This is also Hollywood, so Hollywood "plain" or even "ugly" would likely be pretty or at least cute anywhere else.
What I love about this scene is this is when the character manned up. He took control of his own life and his own happiness and didn't allow his friends to drag him down. If they are his friends, they would be happy for him.
I identify with marty and hate being lonely
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Sometimes though, you can have a marriage, lots of kids, lots of friends and still be lonely. I have a close family, a wonderful, loving partner of 30 years and yet nobody understands me. Some days I feel as lonely as an old hermit! Work that out.
Marty finally wises up and decides to take a chance and grab love and happiness and never let go despite everyone else who would rather see him unhappy and miserable! What a great ending and a powerful performance by Ernest Borgnine, whose Academy Award win was well deserved!
I had some "whaddaya wanna do?" nights when I was a kid.
They stopped when I got married.
David Govett wish you were a kid again I bet!
I don't think you could remake like this today Truly Unique One of a kind from a bygone era
The good old days
One of the greatest lead performances by one of the greatest actors.
"Whataya doin tonight? Whataya doin tonight?! ....Watami hang's around with you guys for!!?" Great scene! I just saw this for the first time a few days ago. A great movie with a lot of heart.
RIP Ernest Borgnine. Your performance of Marty Pileti will always be one of my favorites, never fails to make me cry. Thank you Sir, and God Bless :,-(
One of the greatest films of all time -from
a better time - yet, still timeless. Marty is pure gold on every level.
I love this movie. I never get tired of it. It seems like such a simple story, but it's so sweet.
One of my favourite movies, it can still make me cry, I learnt from this as a kid in the 50s, Brilliant ....
One of my mother's favorite movie. Ps couples aren't always perfect
Marty gave in to what society, his friends and family thought of him. Before he finally realised what truly mattered in life and to himself. Love. Love above all else is priceless. It is truly the greatest resources this world has to offer and I am glad he realised this in the end. Go get her Marty
absoultely beautiful. they dont make them like this anymore....
When Marty finally realizes that he doesn't give a damn what anybody else thinks, he wants Clara is absolutely stunning, even better when he starts to chide Angie about not being married yet "you should be ashamed of yourself".
These are the kinds of guys that lead each other down the road of loneliness and confusion instead of choosing happiness and commitment with the woman they love. I’m glad Marty woke up at the end and took his happiness into his own hands.
One of my ALL TIME favorite movies, and one of the most worthy Best Picture winners. What a gorgeous, funny and very touching film.
Reminds me that i'm gonna die alone. When everyone around you has found love and you haven't yet, it's not going to happen.
I'm going to die alone.
Be patient, be kind, somebody will turn up
Marty was 35 in the movie, and there's a lady in the comments section of this video who got married at 60. There's always time
@@rikiishitoru8885this is the age of the internet and dating apps, 66% of young men are single, most women are competing for the top percentage of men
Me too. Keeps me up at night as I am the youngest in the family and have no children. I would have loved to have a Marty. He never came.
We all die alone. I'm convinced of that. Sure your spouse/loved one might be bedside but NO ONE will know your pain, really.
I love how Angie looks so ashamed when Marty calls him out. Joe Mantell sells it pefectly. He doesn't have much to work with during the rest of the movie, just being a sourpuss the whole time, but this scene is great.
One of the best love stories ever made. R.I.P. Ernie.
I lost a girl because of immaturity and letting my Mother have to much control. My Mother always had to be in control and today, 35 years later it still bothers me and the “ what if “. At 57 I have a great wife and two strong and independent adult children. But I still think of that girl. I use to feel bad, thinking that wasn’t fair to my wife and maybe it isn’t. But knowing I let an outside influence play a part in ending a relationship, still eats at me. I’m still bitter about getting mixed up in my parents problems and letting my Mother have to much control of my life.
It should eat at you. Let it eat at you and feel the pain. But don't let it eat at you forever. The pain is teaching you something. Learn from it. Then do better.
Let that regret go. Nobody can change the past.
If you love EB in this movie, you really must catch him as Sgt Fatso Judson in "From Here to Eternity". Polar opposite from Marty shows EB's amazing range as an actor. Even did a really nice cameo in 2010 movie "RED" looking great at 93.
sad thing is marty is lucky to be by himself I learned that a long time ago what other people call loneliness I call peace and quite
An Academy Award was never so deserved.
he considers himself fat...these days he is normal
This movie was made in the 1950s. Back then he would have been considered fat.
@@SoFloCo-ne4rk if i was a girl i would have snapped him up in a heart beat!! I'm FAT AND UGLY i learned a long time ago that appearance mean NOTHING! I have 3 successful marriages to 3 wonderful women I lost them all to CANCER but was happy and successful through them all.
When I was a kid in the 1960's I thought my grandfather was fat. Now I look at his photos and realize I'm fat and he was a fit and handsome man. Almost all my friends are even fatter than me. Obesity is rampant in the United States and the impact on our health is greater than almost any other factor.
Another great person in this clip "Frank Sutton"... RIP
***** PYLE!!
+panzerken I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!!
Seriously... how can you not like this movie? I love it, but how can you not at least like it?
Ernest Borgnine certainly deserved his Best Actor Oscar. I've watched Rod Steiger's performance and Borgnine's and props to the former, I absolutely love Ernest's performance.
No comparison. Ernie is Marty!! When he says( here in this scene) " fat & ugly" , it is kind of hard imagining Steiger in his performance being that. One hell of a movie!! Ernie really deserved that Oscar. Ernie was as sweet & down to earth as Marty. A very good guy.
One of my favorite movies of all time!
As incredible as this scene is you really need see the whole movie to get the full impact!
This is a wonderful film. Everyone man or woman should see this amazing simple film with an sincere message. As I age I am watching films that I missed in my youth and Marty was one of them. I am so glad I saw this. I am not a Marty but had friends that were. I have been married for 33 years and thank the universe everyday for her. Watch this film. This film will change your life.
Fantastic upbeat ending. Hope springs eternal. I really love this movie.
Before ROCKY,THIS movie was Rocky.What a satisfying ending.
Such wonderful actors…
Have visited many you tube content regarding this fine film..how seldom is mentioned the name of it's writer, the remarkable Paddy Chayevsky....one of his later scripts was "Network", WOW" .,I'm mad as hell and I 'm not going to take it any more!!"
I’m so glad I watched this and then see what people think but man I never really thought I would relate to a character in the 50s
I love this movie! 😊
I wish the movie had delved further into their budding romance. At lease show her reaction when he finally called.
Agreed. The ending was far too abrupt in my opinion, but I guess it's fun to imagine the rest.🤷🏻♀️☺️
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The older movies did tend to end abruptly. From climax to … nothing.
That takes place in our imagination - we write that story.
Yes, the ending is open-ended. As the viewers, we don't know if Marty and Clara will actually meet up again and become a couple. However, the ending shows that there is hope for Marty. Also, Marty finally got the courage to call Clara despite his mother and "friends" objecting to her.
I watched this movie last night because some of the clips popped up in my CZcams feeds. What an excellent film with a perfect ending because they didn't overdo it by showing them getting married.
It leaves it up to the viewer's imagination, which is fine....but in my imagination they got married and had kids. He was a terrific father.
One of the greatest films ever made
why am I hanging around with you guys for? - that's what Ernest said to the world before he passed on, rip
Ernest Borgnine played tough as nail characters but in real life he was just one big softie!!!!!
RIP Ernest Borgnine. Hard to lose you so soon after losing Andy Griffith.
What a Legend he was!
" You should be ashamed of yourself ", kills me everytime.
I. Love. This. Movie.
Who couldn't?
Frank Sutton (RIP), good to see him in a dramatic role.
one of my favorite films
Ernest you are an angel.
It was such a sudden ending. We never even see them actually get back together. The last shot we saw of her, was her sitting in front of the TV, broken hearted, bawling her eyes out.
This is a very sad, but ultimately beautiful film.
We all are Marty's
All’s I can say is I loved this film
Men say mean things like this to their friends because they are jealous. They want you to wallow in misery with them
We remember and miss you Earnie (Yes and "McHale" too, with a nod to "Sargent Carter".
I love this scene when he decides to call the girl, when you find someone who cares for you and you care for him, don’t waste time get to know him, he could be the one.
Either you endure to live with the truth, or live a happy life built on a beautiful lie.
Love it My Mother Favorite Movie One of Them
Thank you for the memories,Mr. Borgnine! You did an excellent job of representing the,"average joes",on the sliver screen...R.I.P.,Sir!!!
We need more human interest movies & books. And a lot less violence.
The convo from 00:40 - 00:50 is had in every generation of young men. Almost word for word, but not in the exact order.
A lot of people don't know this but Ernest Borgnine was also a war hero as he commanded PT Boat 73 during WWII . He was beloved by his crew who interestingly included the actor Tim Conway who later starred on the Carol Burnett Show. Thanks for your service both of you.
A great movie with a great performance by Ernest Borgnine.
Thanks Ernest, everywere you are.
Estupenda peli.La mejor actuacion de un grande.😃💐🌿💐🌿💐🌿👏👏
The first time i saw that film it was on late night cable. I was in tears halfway through. It was as if rhe film was about me.
Hanging out at a club asking girls to dance onky to be turned down and to hear their snide remarks about my clothes and more.
Then meeting up with my loser friends who wasn't having a god time at one club and wants to drive to the other side of town to try another club.
Then 1am rolls around and either we've met someone and the other guys think she's a dog or we've met someone and we took too long to make a move they're with someone else because they moved faster.
Then eventually we leave right before closing time so we can have breakfast somewhere; Whataburger, IHOP, Denny's or another dive that promises heartburn.
Then back home smelling like an ashtray. I take my clothes off in the garage and get them into rje wash so i dont stink up my house or piss off my dog cause she doesn't like nasty ashtrays either.
The next day by 1pm i am getting phone calls aking if im going to the bars that night.
Then i think of Marty. Im gonna stay home and watch a movie. I dont eant to be hassled by girls who go to clubs not to dance but to hang out.
So i stay home but continue to get calls of rhr guys asking me to meet them in or pick them up.
This film is about me an all my buddies. The heart breaks and heart aches.
My mother asking me weekly when am i going to get married. When will i hive her grand kids. That drove me as crazy as it did Marty.
After the film ended. I gave up gpinf to the clubs and dance halls for a few months. I found other ways to pass the time. Id go to the gun range, meet friends for dinner. If they wanted to go to clubs I'd excuse myself and go home.
After the months i went back to rhe club and danced all night. The nexr night i stayed home. That's how it was. I would fo to clubs so randomly that i was down to one or two nights a month from 12 nights a month.
Marty taught me a leason. I dont cry when i see that film but i wonder about the current and future generations of Marty and what theyll deal with.
1:36 I remember that guy from "The Birds".
Those were the days. in NY..I remember hanging out in NYC..Back in the 1950's & 60's..Now I'm here in Florida, Gods waiting room....But I do spend my summers in NYC...
Sweet movie.
Year the greatest Ernest B, say hello to Andy G makin music up their in heaven!
良い映画です
Wonderful movie!! Next time play the whole ending...music and all!!!
All I know is, I have had my heart broken too many times and I wouldn't want to end up like marty. Reality is, I'd rather have no one in my life than someone.
One of the Greatest Movies Ever!….