7 main reasons for miscarrying
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
- Miscarriages suck. There is absolutely no way around it. They suck big time. They are lonely heart wrenching desperate experiences.
And a common theme for most women going through them is: WHY, WHY DID THIS HAPPEN.
Well, let’s talk about that and put some information in your hands to help you working on reducing the chances of having one.
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:20 Heavy metals
03:03 Quality of sperm & eggs
06:03 Genetic issues
07:44 Ectopic pregnancies
08:24 Low progesterone
11:23 Ultrasounds
13:10 Trauma to the uterus
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I lost my triplets yesterday at 9 weeks😭😭😭 .. I’m devastated after 3 failed ivf … my babies are in heaven . I won’t give up , I’ll definitely have my miracle babies 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm so sorry to hear this Gloria. That must be so so devastating for you. I will pray that you have your miracle babies 💗
I'm sorry for you losses. Wishing you all the best
Dear Gloria, I just miscarried twins at 9 + 2 days gestation, I thought I was 12 + 2 when we found out. Had them naturally at home. Hope you are doing well ❤
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Did you manage to get pregnant again ? I just lost my first baby at 9 weeks. I'm 37 yrs and scared I will don't manage to have another baby
A year ago today...💔 I had my 3rd miscarriage! My husband and I are doing respite foster care and it has helped heal our broken hearts! To love children who need love....We are Blessed!!
Thank You for speaking about miscarriage.
I've just cancelled my 8 week private scan I think it was providential watching this... I just don't want to risk hurting my baby . I had a Chemical pregnancy in October but now due January trying to place everything in God's hands! Thank you for speaking about scans! Xx
God bless
Please do a video on missed miscarriage and also explain why some women don’t bleed during the miscarriage and if they have to go through dnc why they don’t bleed after that procedure too.
Thank you so much for making this video, Ingefleur
Me and my husband felt completely different persons(in a great way) after following your heavy metals detox protocol and our fertility really jumped up!!!
I confirm the point on ultrasound. I had one at 8 weeks 2 days. I saw strong heartbeats. My baby even moved their hand as they were waving at us 😭. At 10 weeks, I had another ultrasound just to discover that my baby stopped developing two days after my first ultrasound. After that, I did a lot of tests and received confirmations that everything was absolutely fine and there is basically no reason for what happened apart from me being “exceptionally unlucky”. I have strong doubts the early ultrasound caused this. I then did a lot of research and all existing scientific findings so far says: “there’s no evidence ultrasound harm the baby”. Well, if anything, this means there’s no sufficient research on the matter. If I fall pregnant again, I’ll never have an early ultrasound.
You will get pregnant again soon ❤️
@@khinmyat2354 Thanks for your kind words. It was an abdominal one.
Yes ultrasounds are very and for pregnancy. It's heat radiation that's why the baby tries to move away from it. I believe it's the cause of most "heart beats stops" . I will never do ultrasounds ever, I have 7 healthy babies. I don't do prenatal, I don't do vaccines, I don't do hospital births. Natural birth is the purest and best I've ever had.
I enjoy your videos. You’re very informative and make it easy to understand. ❤️
Thanks for speaking out on the danger of ultrasound. Very little information on this available.
So informative and easy to understand! I didn't have an ultrasound with my third baby until 21 weeks and only because my midwife said I was measuring so big and they wanted to check dates.
With baby number 4, I instinctively passed on any ultrasounds. Had the first and only one while in labor at 40 weeks, 3 days.
I wish this information was as easily accessible while my own mom was trying to conceive. She had several miscarriages before and after I was born. Thank you for your very important work! 💗
where do you live? my midwifes in the area are required by law to at least have one ultrasound by 20ish weeks and mine made me get so many because my measurements were always weird. I couldn't decline them either because she would, "put her foot down".
@@Theherbalempress so sorry for you Kylie.
No one should approach you like that.
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I'm going to have to go check out the article on US. Anytime I get a BFP I feel like I NEED to see that little bean on a screen. We've had two losses and I actually didn't get to see wither one on US first. Both around 6 weeks.
Wade I feel hopeful. Thank you so much.I we’re trying to conceive and unfortunately We suffered 2 miscarriages wth no clue of why or how
Thank you love your videos , unfortunately we had 3 miscarriages and we still don't knw as of why
Trauma to the uterus. Could this also include a c-section? Thank you
Where can we find more information regarding trama to the uterus and arnica ?
9 chemical pregnancies. 3 timed intercourse cycles, 6 IUI’s, 3 IVF cycles, last two with donor eggs. My poor husband says he doesn’t want to continue doing this, it’s too much heartbreak over and over again 😞 we have two embryos left.
I hope you've had your miracle babies 😢
@@NB-nh2sf 14 weeks pregnant today!! ❤️❤️❤️
I’m shocked with the ultrasound, I had a missed miscarriage and a ultrasound at 6 weeks 3 days external and internal and I was never told it was dangerous. The next ultrasound at 8 weeks my baby was gone. My baby should be going on 2 months.
🙏🏽💜💜💜 hope ure doing well dear
I’m so sorry
What about blood clotting disorders , or rh negative blood .?
I had a missed miscarriage in November, I should have been 11 weeks. I started bleeding slightly on a Monday and I knew. The baby had stopped developing at 5 weeks, which was exactly the week I foolishly had a early ultrasound to check if I had an ectopic pregnancy due to stomach pain. I had a internal ultrasound and afterwards I was so uncomfortable I knew I should’ve have done it. Whether it was the cause I will never know, but I regret it every day.
Some doctors can be the worst. I had to have a biopsy done on my cervix a few years back. The psycho without my permission decides to take a chunk out of my uterus to be "on the safe side". Yes, I felt traumatised.
The link on ultrasounds is not working, is there a correct link?
I got pregnant last December with baby #3 everything was great through January to February as soon as March hit I felt sick and a pop I had covid and they told me baby was fine heart was still fine by the next week I went to have a check up and it was gone.. I was 12 weeks I still can't get over how it happened I have 2 ultrasound pictures and they make me hold hope I can have a baby again.. this was my first miscarriage so im still confused..
we are trying this July again and I am praying for the best results 🙏 ❤
I’m so sorry Lindsey - I pray July is it for y’all 🙏🏻! This also happened with me too, 8 wk US baby was fine with heart rate good, got COVID, then started bleeding slightly, and by US at 10 wk baby was gone leaving me devastated. Doctors said it’s more likely due to egg quality diminishing at my age (39) and not getting COVID, but I will always wonder.
It's Terrible although my doctor doesn't think it was covid I belive it was, I was in extreme amount of pain.. I'm really sorry for your baby too.. it's cruel to be tempted with love and then it be shattered..
How did things go on for you?
Can we get tested for metal toxicity? How do we know if we have metal toxicity
Holy cow, I've never heard about internal ultrasounds can cause a miscarriage. Good to know and will be considering my options if I choose to become a mom one day.
Do you think thyroid issues could be a cause also in getting pregnant or keeping a pregnancy?
Also what’s the reason if you’ve only had one period since u miscarriaged but the miscarriage was in October and a period came in January but I haven’t had one since?
I know I have low progesterone because I have a short leuteal phase. I am diagnosed with pcos, but I recently started taking myoinositol & I'm allergic, I break out in hives. I had a chemical last month & I've been spotting between periods in the last yr. Please Inge what do you recommend. I'm out of ideas.
What,did u recamend for trauma I couldn't understand .can u write it in u bio thank u
Hi can you count implantation bleeding as your last period
Do you know much about Anti-Phospholipid Syndrome?
Thank you for saying it was a pregnancy, I had a chemical pregnancy last month and it’s been hard.
Question: how much L-methyl folate is safe in pregnancy. I have the the MTHFR gene and take a high dose (15mg) but don’t know if I should lower it when pregnant.
Folate is Critical during pregnancy. Don't quit talking it. She'll get you an answer soon but I think she may reccomend more.
Fleur - could you please please please do an in depth video on missed miscarriage. I fell pregnant with our first boba back in Dec and found out our baby had stopped growing at 5 weeks when i was about 8 weeks along and started bleeding. it is heartbreaking and noone was able to tell us what may have gone wrong 🙁 we are now ttc and I am terrified this will happen again😔
I'm so sorry lovely, yes sure that will be good. The 2 main reasons I see (there is more to the story though) are metal toxicity and ultrasounds. Take heart lovely
@@FertilityHomeopath Hello my lovely, thank you so much for responding. I actually declined to have my first ultrasound because I'd done some research on it and actually started miscarrying the day after. I had my very first ultrasound to confirm that baby had stopped growing :( I had no idea metal toxicity could also be an issue, I will look into it. Look forward to your video. Thank you for being such a positive, gentle and supportive voice in this very sensitive space
What about traveling by airplane during 2 week wait or 1st trimester?
I’ve Had 3 Miscarriages 🥺👼🏽👼🏽👼🏽
Good morning...
Pls do u have a Video on fibroid ....I will like to shrink it is dat possible...pls I need help
I had a miscarriage in February and the doctor told me the cause was I had a infections call Chorioamnionitis that caused the baby to miscarried,I was 12 weeks pregnant,I ask the doctor how did I get that infection but he told me he don't have an explanation for that I left so confused.
Hi, how can I eliminate the damage/toxicity, of the contraceptive pill, I took them unfortunately for 11 year, I completly regret that, now my periods are light I'm 37 no kids.
I had two back to back miscarriages. One at 16 weeks in 2018 and another one at 9 weeks in 2019. We stopped trying after that. Boom COVID happened and we found out we were pregnant again Aug 2020 and I have my Rainbow COVID Baby April 21 and found out I had Congestive Heart Failure soon after. Than boom Found out Dec 2022 I was 16 weeks pregnant again. Had my second Rainbow baby May 2023. It's all about God's timing ( or whatever higher power you believe in). Love and Blessings going into the New Year ❤.
Hi Ingefleur! I went through a missed miscarriage last year and have been charting my cycles very carefully ever since. There is one thing I am unsure about - is it possible to have a long time difference (almost 20 days) in between ovulation and a temperature rise?
I´ve always had long and irregular cycles. I usually feel like ovulating around days 13-14 (by mental state, mucus symptoms), but my temperature keeps low and doesn´t rise (sudden spike) until about day 33 and menstruation about 12-14 days after that.
I always thought it is impossible to have ovulation early and temp.rise that late, what´s usually being said is your ovulation happens right before your temperature rise, but -
Might it be possible for a body to ovulate and then take such a long time (20 days) to build up progesterone and only then have a temperature spike?
I will very much appreciate your answer, I am pretty much desparate with finding an answer to this.
Thank you again very much in advance ♡
I have supper similar cycles as you’ve described! I don’t have an answer but you’re not alone in wondering this
Don't know if this helps but wanted to share my experience. I have felt similarly to this but my cycles aren't necessarily irregular but my follicular phase (after bleed through ovulation) does vary quite a bit. The follicular phase can naturally vary based on hormones, stress, lifestyle, etc and that's not necessarily cause for concern. My last cycle I thought I had ovulated on day 17 but had no temp rise, we're TTC and my temp rise came on day 22 of my cycle, we thankfully had sex on right day and got pregnant. You're luteal phase (after ovulation) shouldn't vary and I believe should last 10-13 days, which it sounds like is happening for you. Seems like you may be experiencing delayed ovulation.
@@rchase3000 Yes, it very much seems like a delayed ovulation.
I am wondering though, since I often feel like ovulating much earlier then the temp rise (even 20 days earlier), if it is possible that the ovulation happens early, but then the corpus luteum doesn't form in 24 hours but in a very very long time, and only after that the temperature rise happens? 🤔
I've had several chemical pregnancies and found this video very helpful. I probably should do a metal detox and try to raise my progesterone. I'm a weird case though because I have PCOS, low estrogen and low progesterone. So far taking herbs and vitamins have helped me the most:)
You seem similar to me. Ive had aeveral as well, and when I have chemicals I usually implant late, which makes me feel like it's not a prigesterone issue however but possibly a chromosomal abnormalities which goes back to qualityof egg and sperm and I don't have a luteal phase defect (14days). Do you know when you implant when you have your chemical pregnancies?
I had a chemical pregnancy that i miscarried in week 6 last November..
What herbs did you take for pcos?
I’ve been watching your videos for years and used many of your suggestions in our fertility journey. And quite a journey it has been. Our first pregnancy ended in a stillbirth at 40 weeks, due to Amniotic Band Syndrome. The band was wrapped around her umbilical cord. We then had two early miscarriages. Our 4th pregnancy resulted in a beautiful baby boy, who will be 2 years old in a few weeks. This year (2023), we’ve had 4 early miscarriages. I’m currently 41 years old. My question is about progesterone. If I’ve carried 2 babies full term, can it be possible that I’m having these early miscarriages due to low progesterone? Or does the fact that I’ve carried 2 babies full term mean that my progesterone will likely be normal for all my pregnancies?
Oh lovely, what a heartbreaking journey you've had and what a JOY your son must be to you, but how much will you miss your daughter and other children daily.
To answer your question, I don't know. It depends. The way for you to find out is to chart and look for progesterone deficiency signs. It is possible that you have become estrogen dominant and progesterone deficient following your pregnancy with your son. With these amount of losses, I think there is more going on though than "just" progesterone deficiency. If you were my patient I'd start with the heavy metals detox and analysing your charts as well as consider trauma remedies.
Anyone experienced severe cramps from onset of pregnancy to miscarriage
Fleur
What about medical abortion using misoprostol?Is it hard on our balance?Does it leave energetic imprinting in our system?Thank you
I believe it does. I believe it can take a good year or 2 to rebalance after. Just from my personal experience x
@@LM86- it Is not the new I would like to hear,but thank you 💖
What is the herbal medicine for the uterus called ? Because I've had 4 C-sections so my uterus has had alot of trauma
It’s called Arnica. Hearing of it for the first time too.
It’s called Arnica. Hearing of it for the first time too
Hi! Can you explain deeper what heavy metals are? Are wristwatches from steal and other jewelry also in that category?
Hi, she has more videos on her channel where she explains it more in depth. If I find them I will link them here.
@@Monicamcs Thank you :)
I've suffered through 7 miscarriages and I'm still trying.
😓 I'm scared... Sometimes it worries me that I should've started trying @27 or even at least 30...I'm 35 now...still trying to conceive. It's not as easy as teen dramas make it....
I wish u all the baby dust soon!!🙏🏽💜
I started at 27 trying and now I'm 41 still trying. It's hard yes but I hope that it will workout.
@@ursij23 it WILL!🤰 Manifest it with this pink full moon babes! It's there for us BOTH. 👯♀️
I’m so sorry Ursi! 🙏🏻 This is such a hard journey.
Thanks you guys! We will all have our family that we want and deserve to have. Many blessings❤❤❤
When do you suggest getting an ultrasound? I just recently had a miscarriage that started at 11 weeks and I went in for my first ultrasound because of the bleeding. There was no baby there and it was a suspected molar pregnancy. I can’t help but wonder if I caught it sooner it would be a lot less trauma to my body. But I wanted to be safe and not do any ultrasounds for the baby and then later found out there was no baby.
Great question - I hope Ingefleur answers because I’m in the same boat 🙏🏻 I don’t want earlier US if I can avoid it, but I have history of multiple miscarriages (possible ectopic, possible molar) that I can’t help but worry and want to get an early US to treat early and prevent possibly enduring additional trauma (i.e. D&C, methotrexate shot, etc). I guess you have to just weigh pros and cons individually? 🤷🏻♀️
@@lauraellerman9443 my miscarriage required a d&c and it was so traumatic. It didn’t work and I continued to bleed for two months and THEN finally passed the rest of the tissue.
@@adoeandfawn omg that is awful - no words just no words … I’m so very sorry … I just don’t understand why there isn’t more science and medical advancement in this arena
I had the almost the exact same experience and will not be skipping any medically necessary ultrasounds…. sometimes ultrasounds give lifesaving information. Obviously you want someone properly trained and using the preset well-studied settings.
It’s been 2 years since I had myomactomy and removed 21 fibroids. Largest was 10cm. Should I still use Arnica? I miscarried twice after surgery. Before that I was unable to conceive.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was more information on fibroids and treating them without surgery. :( I just had ectopic pregnancy/emergency surgery and they told me I have a 10cm fibroid, they want me to get a myomectomy but I am hesitant to go through with it. I pray God blesses you with a healthy baby soon. ♥️
@@courtneyinchrist4442 Thank you so much. Do you have other children? the chances of conceiving is higher once fibroids are removed is what the doctors say. I’m having a new growth sadly and now I’m on intermittent fasting for the last one month. I don’t wanna go through another surgery. It’s proven to shrink fibroids
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* no offense to anyone I was trying to figure out why you seemed different. 💗
Did anyone use progesterone during pregnancy and still miscarried?